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outerspacetime/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 05:52 AM
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I answered a thread about our favorite author saying JK Rowling/Robert Galbraith and the response was SHOCK AND HORROR AND HOW COULD I DARE 💀 there downvotes won’t stop me reading The Hallmarked Man in September soo…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/25 04:52 AM
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Well it’s none of my business if you tell potential suitors about your actual sexual history or not. But if you’re obviously an easy lay then that’s a turn off for long term partnership whereas if you seem hard to get but still quietly sexy that’s the sweet spot
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/24 03:08 AM
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I’ll never forget when I first started dating my husband (we were both 18) him saying “it’s better to be wanted then had” in regards to the sexual market place. This wisdom has stuck with me ever since. What he meant was the difference between being sexually desired vs sexually passed around. He’s a very attractive guy who takes great care of his body, loves to be tanned and shirtless, peacocking, etc. Yet has never had any interest in sleeping around and just wanted one woman to spend his life …
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/24 08:12 PM
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Imo you don’t have to have the same interests. What you need is the same values, lifestyle & outlook on life. My husband and I have totally different hobbies/interests but the same values, political beliefs, compatible lifestyles, etc. I wouldn’t rule people out just for having different passions.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 05:34 AM
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You sound very entitled and that could be a real roadblock in you landing one of these unicorn men
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 05:05 AM
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It’s definitely not impossible but you have to be proactive for sure!
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 03:15 AM
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It can be! I had a hard time making friends after college and before having kids because i’m a homebody and also felt that most people my age already had tight knit groups that were really hard to break into. But if you’re really active in hobbies i think you’ll have a different experience. My husband made/makes tons of friends through jiu jitsu whereas i apparently needed my kids to force me out of my shell 😅
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 02:44 AM
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Flip a coin lol
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 02:42 AM
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I’m a very spiritual woo-woo type so take this with a grain of salt but I believe when our heart is screaming out for us to do something/go somewhere it’s because there is something there for us. Could be a soulmate, a dream job, a life changing experience, an important lesson, who knows. Personally i’d go where i feel the deep inexplicable desire with the failsafe that i could move in 6 months if it doesn’t feel right. But that’s just me!
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 01:55 AM
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The caveat here is parents making new friends with other parents. Most of my close friends now are moms i met through my kids and bonded with over playdates.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 01:37 AM
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Have you spoken to him about it? If he really wants to get married he must be serious about you - have you tried being honest about this nagging desire to have a baby? I’m sure the ideal would be to have one with him and maybe he’ll be more open then you think if you’re just honest about how important it is to you
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/24 05:59 AM
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He definitely does not want to see a baby or placenta exit my vag LOL but he wants to support me for the rest of my labor and be with me and the baby immediately after. So we are on the same page! We have decided together that when i am ready to push he is going into a different room. I feel confident now that we have discussed it!
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/21 04:14 AM
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We talked about it yesterday and are totally on the same page about everything! He will be with me for my whole labor but he will leave the room or at least sit in a corner facing away from me in prayer during the pushing phase. I just don’t want him to see our baby coming out of my vag and he doesn’t want to either LOL. He will come over as soon as i am holding our baby and covered in a blanket. He will leave the room again when i am ready to deliver the placenta. I am confident we figured out …
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/21 04:12 AM
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You sound like a great father and husband! I discussed this again with my husband yesterday and we are both on the same page that neither of us wants him to see the exact graphic moment our baby exits my body lol. But he will 100% be there for the rest of the labor and immediately after our baby is here and i am comfortably covered in a blanket. I’ll have him leave the room or look away again when i deliver the placenta. Both of us are relieved to hear the other is in agreement on this!
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/21 04:06 AM
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That’s true. Good point! But it’s definitely a different sort of primal state and I can’t help the self consciousness. I don’t even like feeling watched when i’m doing chores! But i have come to realize it’s not the labor itself that i care about, it’s the visual of the baby exiting my hooha LOL. But i think it will be simple enough to just ask him to look away or go fetch some food or water. I just don’t need that visual seared into his memory and i know it won’t impact his ability to appreciat…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/21 04:30 AM
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I understand and respect that for sure! I think i’ve figured out a way to compromise in that i will have him there 99% of the labor so he can grasp what i am going through but i just don’t need him to see the exact moment a baby and a placenta exit my vag lol. He seems fine with this as well.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/21 04:24 AM
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No I totally agree! I think the compromise i am coming to is that he can be with me for most of the labor but when it starts to get really intense and i feel the baby is coming i will send him to the other room. He can come in immediately and meet the baby then i will ask him to leave again so i can deliver the placenta in privacy. After that we will spend the whole golden hour together with the baby and he can have the honor of cutting the cord (after it is drained). I’m a pretty modest person …
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 04:37 PM
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He says he supports me in whatever makes me most comfortable and relaxed. He is not offended if i want him in the next room but is also willing to be right by my side the whole time if I want. He’s really living it up to me, which I appreciate so much. Knowing him though, i think when the time actually comes he would be deer in the headlights pacing around and that would stress me out too much. I hear natural birth is easiest when the mother feels relaxed, so I think that energy in my space woul…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 04:34 PM
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Wow typo in the title, so sorry!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 05:53 AM
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She’s not a mom but I absolutely love Allison Bickerstaff’s channel for home & lifestyle inspo! Sarah Therese is great for mom content & I enjoy Karissa Texeira as well!
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 05:39 AM
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