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4	How to rebuild frame when having obsessive negative thoughts? She is not your confidante. You are not her girlfriend. Don’t tell her about the mood storms (anymore). Just don’t be available and don’t explain. Think of it as your bodys way of getting you to have some down time. Here is where pretty much all neediness comes from: as a man, you will never be loved by any woman unconditionally. They are not able to do it. Except your mother. A mother can only love her children unconditionally. And there is that memory of mothers love in us that sometimes comes…	/r/askMRP	27/12/18 05:54 AM
1	How do i handle this situation differently? AWALT	/r/askMRP	27/12/18 04:52 AM
5	How do i handle this situation differently? Her bitching is her taking on a male role to fill the void you are leaving empty. She is trying to browbeat you into manning up and taking charge and leading her and the family. And fucking her better. The good news is, when the nagging starts it is already too late. You have to change yourself - all the sidebar shit, lifting, money, frame, etc. - why do you give a fuck what she thinks about HOW you did the dishes? Why are you doing th me dishes? Do you put in her tampons too? Or are you falling…	/r/askMRP	27/12/18 04:52 AM
6	How to rebuild frame when having obsessive negative thoughts? Don’t deny you are having the thoughts and feelings ie actively try to suppress them. It reinforces them. Instead, just mentally acknowledge that they are there, that they aren’t you - they’re just like a mood storm kicked up by the hormones - and that they will go away in a few days even if you don’t do anything about them. You should also probably avoid situations around people you want your frame for. If the mood storm is going to make you appear weak, indecisive, clingy, then stay away. Do s…	/r/askMRP	27/12/18 04:26 AM
1	How to rebuild frame when having obsessive negative thoughts? Don’t deny you are having the thoughts and feelings ie actively try to suppress them. It reinforces them. Instead, just mentally acknowledge that they are there, that they aren’t you - they’re just like a mood storm kicked up by the hormones - and that they will go away in a few days even if you don’t do anything about them. You should also probably avoid situations around people you want your frame for. If the mood storm is going to make you appear weak, indecisive, clingy, then stay away. Do s…	/r/askMRP	27/12/18 04:26 AM
3	Good sex requires Emotion This.	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/12/18 09:40 PM
36	If women need to be more selective about who they have sex with, what explains female promiscuity? You’re oversimplifying the instincts here. When she is ovulating, the instincts are GET PREGNANT. By dressing up, going out, being available...she THEN can select whoever turns her on the most. And fuck them. The rational fears which would have held her back in the past: parental influence, slut shaming, financial ruin, social ruin, being disowned by family, losing control - all those are gone or reduced by 99%. Even the fear of getting pregnant somehow is actually a benefit to women. If they DO…	/r/askTRP	24/12/18 07:34 PM
5	Having look and style but no personality and bad vibes. I want to fix this Make friends with some alpha guys who’ve fucked 3 digits. Do some 30 day challenges like approach 3 girls a day with a direct sex opener. Start doing stuff you haven’t done because you’re afraid. Pick one or two sports to get competitive in and really push - no fucking excuses theres golf, bowling, darts, billiards - old fucks and fat fucks can do those. Join Toastmasters - do some open mics. Don’t stay home. Don’t wear headphones when out and about. Talk to everybody. Make jokes. Bad jokes. The…	/r/askTRP	13/12/18 01:33 PM
1	Testosterone levels and TRT. Because it is part of our culture.	/r/askTRP	12/12/18 05:36 PM
2	As a male, is having a shy/reserved personality pretty much a disaster? I’m too new to trust. Here is my two cents: Its a fine line - women try to turn you into a their girlfriend ie beta orbiter. Doing chick things makes you take that on. So limit your convos. Don’t be a shoulder to cry on verbally. Don’t talk about your feelings. Most soft feelings I think for men are leftovers from childhood that society encourages us to endulge to stay weak. Have like ten throw away lines for when you get the inevitable comments that you don’t talk much. Some funny, some turn it…	/r/askTRP	12/12/18 04:46 PM
2	As a male, is having a shy/reserved personality pretty much a disaster? You can be solid. The guy who doesn’t get rocked. Talking too much is worse. Think of the Beta who doesn’t know what to say, so stays quiet and mysterious. Then he starts to open up and she realizes he is not as attractive as in her imagination.	/r/askTRP	11/12/18 09:47 PM
1	Just realised that my wife makes absolutely no sense when she argues. What do you guys answer to "you hurt my feelings"? You out-nerded me. Kudos! lol Trp explains so many mysteries - like how an intelligent woman can be so dumb/not understand a basic idea. Like: she has a problem, i find something that looks likely. 10 symptoms. She has 7 or 8. I read it off to her. “I don’t have blank.” One symptom that she doesn’t have negates the whole thing? Only in Vaginatown. Medical commercial on TV. I comment,” Watching these drug commercials actually causes you to develop medical problems.” Her answer? “I don’t have blan…	/r/askMRP	07/12/18 01:58 AM
3	Just realised that my wife makes absolutely no sense when she argues. What do you guys answer to "you hurt my feelings"? omfg Beware gynocentric “Therapists” - a long time ago the wife and I went for like 10 sessions to some moron. I had mapped out in excel a normal week in 1/2 hour blocks to show how insane and noose-worthy life would be if we tried to do all the bullshit the wofe wanted. This chart was tits. If tits were stupid chores and weakness. No free time. All work. No fucking. The piece of shit was like, “ yeah thats about right.” I should have punched him in the face. A year later, things are worse - big…	/r/askMRP	07/12/18 01:40 AM
1	How do I stop being so beta and getting feelings for a girl so quickly? My comments are in general, not specifically a criticism of you. Except the fucking - what I mean is, if you had Alpha’d the shit out of her, she’d be yours. You might have buried yourself ahead of time with Beta behaviors. Or you lost to a bigger Alpha. Props to you though. It is tricky and I am not immune to the feels. Live your movie.	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 07:23 PM
1	I'm having serious difficulties in celebrating personal achievements without close friends. Normal to go into your late 20's as a loner? Join toastmasters and a networking group like BNI. Have a lot of coffees and biz lunches.	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 03:38 PM
3	How do I stop being so beta and getting feelings for a girl so quickly? We’ve been conditioned by culture to process feelings like a woman: take them seriously, express them, figure out why, resolve the conflicts, etc. Mostly, this ELIMINATES EMOTIONAL TENSION. You want to learn to love emotional tension. Alphas ratchet up the ET while Betas panic at the first sign of ET and immediatwly start apologizing, explaining, forgiving, justifying ie acting like a woman, to dissipate the tension. ET is like public speaking - you look awesome when you demonstrate you do not l…	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 03:35 PM
6	Initiate fool! Or "Passive dread and you." Keep these FRs coming. Helpful.	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/12/18 04:53 PM
1	Are these shit tests? Next time she pulls one, do this. Stop everything. Lead her off a few feet. Tell her, “This is not okay. I’m not your girlfriend and I’m not your little brother. I’m a man - I lead, I set the pace, I don’t take orders and I don’t stand around waiting for texts. Thats the way I am. If you can’t handle that, its fine we had some fun and good luck. Capiche?” If she wants to walk, Next. If she stays, youmight need to train her out of the bad habits. Don’t get upset, don’t try to win her games in her…	/r/askTRP	29/11/18 04:42 AM
1	How do I differentiate between desiring personal validation and me seeking multiple partners? Just do it - lift, focus on your world, improve self, talk to people all the time, get numbers, spin plates, have options. You will notice internal changes. They will be good. It will becomeclear why your question is nonsense and irrelevant.	/r/askTRP	29/11/18 04:26 AM
9	My Girl told me yesterday that she’s into dad bods, and I have a six pack... Exactly. They literally do and say everything they can to turn you into a Beta loser who will be a reliable sexless provider. All the shit they pull cuts your testosterone and increases estrogen. Its like evil magic. Always stay on top of your game and have options so she feels like she has to work to keep you home horny and happy.	/r/askTRP	29/11/18 03:55 AM
2	When should I expect meaningful results in the gym? Focus on breaking new PRs - always motivates my ass.	/r/askTRP	29/11/18 03:18 AM
2	Guys who successfully implemented MRP in their marriage, are you glad you didn't get a divorce? No - I would just leave her now (me and my wife). BUT - there is my daughter, there are loads of legal and financial consequences, and if I leave right now I don’t have a solid self or lots of options. At some point I may leave - but I am not letting her be my priority or anything. I am living my life and getting my shit together, talking to women, lifting, etc.	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/11/18 11:04 PM
8	Inner game / Mental health advice needed One thing that helped me with moodiness was noticing that no matter what I did, a bad mood would go away. It migh take a few hours or days but it was just a bio thing and had nothing to do with my past or repressed emotions. It became an inside joke I called it my “man period”. I wasted a lot looking for some reason why I felt gloomy and blaming external and internal suspects instead of just acknowledging that I was kind of down and living how I wanted anyway. Good luck.	/r/askTRP	28/11/18 10:07 PM
1	Guys who successfully implemented MRP in their marriage, are you glad you didn't get a divorce? I’m 45, married 12 years, my daughter is 9. Just starting my rp journey maybe a month. Biggest plus has been managing my impression at home/around the wife. When I’m not projecting the alpha - indecisive, tired, moody, sensitive - I get the hell out and stay away. Only when I’m feeling on point do I spend time with them - and I make sure to tell them what to do, not put up with nonsense, and be as spontaneously affectionate and handsy with the wife as I feel like. When she pulls her sourpuss rou…	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/11/18 09:57 PM
1	How do I get a rock hard penis? Frost that fucking cookie	/r/askTRP	21/11/18 02:36 PM