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Blue Pill Exampleoutofthefog/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 05:24 PM
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Rant/Ventingoutofthefog/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 07:17 PM
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You made me laugh, banging a hotter woman than my soon to be ex wife wouldn't be that hard. As my eyes have cleared, I can't even figure out what I saw in her. Realistically, she's a 2 or 3 on the scale. And yes, never getting married again. Never. Divorce rape is very unpleasant.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 03:47 PM
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I think you're not seeing your full potential. You can and (if you choose) will raise your SMV beyond what you think. Continue on your education path, go to the gym, take up a martial art (that works miracles for confidence) and continue to improve yourself. Go monk-mode for a while. Work on you. Define your goals for your life. Bully yourself into doing the work. Tell yourself this "I am going to achieve my goals. Nothing or no one will stop me from getting what I want and deserve. I will accep…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 03:44 PM
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Wow.... That's deep. I think you might be on to something. That goes back to my family of origin issues.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 03:13 PM
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Way before TRP and counseling. Conversion only started about a year ago, slow and steady progress.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 03:02 PM
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I live in a no-fault state. None of her cheating matters.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:02 PM
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Straight up cheating at the beginning. She was conditioning me to be her cuckold. Where things ended up at the end of our marriage was cuckolding. The final step would have been her getting fucked in front of me and she did say she wanted it. I left before that happened. I felt that would have been the end of me, I would have never made it out had that happened. Probably would have ended up in prison. Glad I'm out, glad to have a resource like TRP and excellent friends and counselors.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:01 PM
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I would not do that as someone who has been on the other side of it. I'd rather see that woman leave before doing this type of shit to her husband. I'd rather talk to her husband and tell him what's going on, and try to educate TRP beliefs to him. That's just me.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 02:37 PM
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I started to stand up for myself, I didn't allow her to make excuses for her behaviour, did not allow her to yell at me for hours, walked away when she would get aggressive with me. I stopped being at her feet every time she needed/wanted something. I stood up for my beliefs, thoughts, opinions and actions. I took charge of my life, started doing what I wanted when I wanted. Nothing damaging to the marriage, but going to the gym, spending time with friends, still managed my duties at home (grass…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 02:35 PM
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I have reflected on this for over two months. My first mistake was when we were dating. I allowed her to berate me for about an hour over something small. I even told her near the end of our time together that I regret doing that. My exact words were "I never should have sat there and let you talk down to me like you did. It set the tone for our entire relationship". And there were more. Many more times. I hold myself accountable for not being strong, for being passive and allowing her to walk o…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 02:31 PM
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Difficult realities should be put out in the open so we can learn from others' mistakes, life experiences and what the worst of the world looks like. This is not a easy thing for me to discuss, but if my experience can help someone else avoid or deal with this type of situation, then it is worth the discussion.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 10:05 PM
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No. Calling me a "disgusting animal" is an insult. Justifying it like a woman would doesn't change the fact that you have insulted me multiple times. Be objective with this. I owned the FACT that I hold myself accountable for the mistakes I made. That means that I realize I deserve the pain that I have felt. I don't need you to repeat what I have already said. I have already told you multiple times that I was not a cuckold for 10 years. I could not control her choice to fuck someone else on my b…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 10:02 PM
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I have already left her, been out for over 4 months. This is about me and what I believe honor is. It's also about taking the time to do self-relfection, self improvement and making myself into the man I envision myself to be. For me, if I sleep around, I feel it is only a temporary fix to the emotional pain that I am currently going through. Pain of the cheating/cuckolding, pain of the embarrassment, pain of losing my family, pain of realizing how weak I was, pain of holding myself accountable …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:26 PM
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I am not being faithful to her. I believe that my word when I got married was a bond between God and myself, not just her. I choose to be a man of honor, part of that is to make my word my bond. This is not about her, it's about me. It is my choice to honor my word above anyone else' actions.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:20 PM
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Old me would not be having this discussion with you, I would be insulting you by being defensive and not stating the facts of who I am today. I have nothing to prove to you, I don't know you personally and you don't know me either. Was I a cuckold by choice for 10 years? Fuck no. Was I weak and controlled? Yes, and I have held myself accountable for my actions. Without holding myself accountable, I cannot change. This is not a sudden change of mind. This is the result of over three months of bei…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:17 PM
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Thank you, I believe you understand what my whole post was about.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:06 PM
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I wanted to leave out the details of how bad this situation got, so I will attempt to correct you without details. She didn't just fuck someone else behind my back. There were plenty of men, photos and videos taken that were shown to her friends to humiliate me. She blew a male stripper at her friend's bachorette party and I didn't' find out about that until my divorce started. That was over 6 years ago. At the end of our marriage, I was a broken man. She would leave soiled panties out in the op…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:05 PM
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Disgusting story, yes at the beginning it is. As I have told you how I was in the situation, worked on changing my life to become who I am today, working towards being the best man that I am capable of and I'm the lowest kind of person? Fuck off keyboard warrior. You don't know me, don't know jack shit and to call me a faggot over coming out of a horrible situation and moving forward shows that you don't have a clue about the real essence of TRP. This marriage was pain, my life from childhood ha…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:40 PM
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Most of the times a couple is into cuckolding the man requests it. On the surface, yes. But there is a variable that you're missing. Some of these domineering women manipulate their men into "thinking" it was their idea when the reality is opposite. My wife slowly created this situation, small statements and actions that became normal were then made more often and more out in the open. I believe she wanted me to ask for it, when I wouldn't because it was against my morals and ethics, she took co…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:36 PM
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This is from my own life, sharing my experience and thoughts about where I was, where I am and where I will be in the future. It's not just about cuckolding, it's about being beta in the past, recognizing weakness, improving life and frame, understanding failures and holding myself accountable. Had you spent time reading the post and attempting to understand what was actually being said, you would have gotten much more out of what I have to say.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:31 PM
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This I see as truth. Being a beta for many years, I do believe that when she's the boss, cuckolding is the emotional next step. She has no respect for the guy she married, desires the alpha dick that she used to have, so she justifies to herself that as long as she has to "act like the man" in the marriage, then she's entitled.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:27 PM
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I should explain that first comment. I'm being sarcastic because throughout the marriage together I constantly heard "I'm genuine, loyal and honest" when she was nothing of the sort. Sarcasm that didn't work well, but still... Second point. I'm far from a "beta chicken" at this point in my life. Three years ago you would have been correct. It is MY character, MY belief system, MY words and MY belief in what constitutes being a honorable man. It's not about her that I'm not fucking other women ri…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 07:55 PM
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But why do they enjoy the sense of humiliation and degradation? Because they are not embracing who they are supposed to be as men. They think that this is "love" and it's like a child who doesn't know that abuse is abuse. They confuse it with love. These guys have been humiliated and degraded by their wives/girlfriends for so long that they think it's love. And yes, I agree that Freud would be on point that this comes from childhood and a failed relationship with an overbearing/abusive/domineeri…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 06:39 PM
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I grew up in a highly dysfunctional family. Father is a malignant narcissist, mother is narcissistic and a Pollyanna. As a child, core beliefs implemented by dysfunctional parents are I'm a failure, powerless over myself and environment, weak and unable to stand up for myself. Basically groomed for beta through adult life. Core belief system changing through therapy and hard work. No longer feel I am a failure, no longer need to please others, realize love is not allowing others to walk all over…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 06:35 PM
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When we met and during the first years of our marriage, I was able to bring her to that level of satisfaction. I didn't know what a cuckold was until three years ago. I never enjoyed the thought of being cuckolded, didn't realize it was happening until the last few years of the marriage. When I look back to our sex life at the beginning, it was 180 degrees from where we ended up. Never wanted it, she created that situation. I am attractive and becoming more so by working out, concentrating on my…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 06:22 PM
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