outwitthebully Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Recipe for destroying happiness		outwitthebully	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 03:55 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy? Most of the nerds I knew in high school in the 80’s got married in their 20’s. I’m sure some had inflated standards and had to lower those, but they still married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 04:46 PM
–	Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy? Yes. Young Women had relatively low standards. This was encouraged by the media which consistently showed various sorts of clearly undesirable men hooking up with and/or marrying beautiful women . It was sustained by apathetic/uninvolved parents. Women back then usually thought they wanted children/a family more than they seem to now. It was a societal expectation that they would try to form a family. Therefore They were willing to accept bad behavior, hygiene, and appearance and were encouraged…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 04:05 PM
2	Is aiming at 50/50 ever going to be fair to women? Yes, it is only a significant amount of work if you work outside the home and have kids. Two to three hours of housework daily is nothing if you have no outside employment. It’s exhausting if you do. Especially if there are kids in the family. So women who want marriage have a choice: do not pursue a career and trust that the man will provide. Prepare for life of leisure and boredom. That’s “female privilege”, and it really boils down to societally-approved selfishness. -or- get the career and e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 10:42 PM
1	Is aiming at 50/50 ever going to be fair to women? Exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 09:49 PM
1	Is aiming at 50/50 ever going to be fair to women? Sure NP. But then I’m gonna need him to birth 50% of the babies. Also, we need to have the intruder break in an average of 2.5 times per marriage to equal the number of childbearing experiences the average married woman has. I’m not “mad”, but I do find it both ridiculous and hilarious that the allegedly more logical sex believes that a notable part what he brings to the contemporary marriage is “protection”. Like you’re fighting off bears at the entrance to our cave every morning. Maybe update …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 09:48 PM
6	Is aiming at 50/50 ever going to be fair to women? “Physically protect your family as he does” Ah I see. So I should cook dinner and clean up EVERY NIGHT while he fights off intruders every night? How often does a man “physically protect” his family? Why are theoretical responsibilities such as that listed alongside daily recurrent inescapable (largely female) chores as though they are in any way equivalent? Why are “logical” male brains so illogical in this regard? Nevermind honey, I’ll cook and clean up after my 10 hr day today and every day. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 03:40 PM
1	Why is the courage double standard fine but the purity double standard is evil? Do you, as a man, prefer courageous, bold, assertive, bossy women over their submissive counterparts? It’s not a “double standard”, because you (men) care even more about the courageousness/boldness/aggression of women than women care about it in anyone. YOU as men, care excessively about both purity and (lack of) courage in a woman. That is why for centuries there has been a concept of a “scold”, a “shrew”, a “disagreeable woman”, a “harpie”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 01:02 AM
10	Can vetting go wrong? I think maybe many of the men who utilize red pill strategies may have narcissistic traits and therefore are attracted to BPD females.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 10:41 PM
1	Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing? It depends on who you are giving advice to, and what the relationship is. You should read on the sub “JustNoMIL” if you’d like to see how a lifetime of giving unsolicited advice works out	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/21 06:01 PM
2	Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing? Crazy. I am a nerd girl and I would have never considered dating anyone other than a “fellow nerd”. The only people I’ve ever had a close connection with have been nerds, or nerd-adjacent if female (the inspector type— detail oriented quiet introverts who lack big picture creativity). Among males, the nerdier the better really. Honestly I am baffled that any bright conscientious woman would find the pure “Chads” attractive. My favorite male nerds (including my DH) have always had a lot of extrov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/21 02:21 PM
1	"Hes hot...but I get the vibe he wasnt born hot, so I'm weirded out by him" Interesting. So how far back does it go? For example, is a person who was “hot” briefly at age 18 permanently more attractive than someone who became hot at age 22? What about someone who was cute clear through school, in their teens etc and then gained a ton of weight and developed an alcohol problem? (That describes a large chunk of males I went to HS with). Are they permanently “hotter” somehow than other people? My guess is “maybe”, but only to some of the people who knew them “back in the d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/21 02:09 PM
3	A woman shows her true self when she’s young Not really. Some of us look better when we’re a bit older. Late bloomers and all. Also, some people, male and female, look much younger than they are. So for me, at age 30, I looked 20. At age 18, I probably looked like a very awkward 14. Also, I was terribly underweight when 18. I gained weight with age, like most women, but for me it was a big improvement. I also got orthodontics as an adult. So you can’t really assume all women hit their peak at 18. I sure didn’t!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/21 04:03 AM
1	Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home? So do you spend the evening freaking out on him and cooking in a dirty kitchen? That’s terrible, why punish yourself? Also, does nagging and “annoyance” work? Does it fix him?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/21 12:32 AM
1	Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home? OK so I’m a woman and here’s what I do: I simply cook that meal the next time the kitchen has been made ready by him, which is usually the next day. If the food went bad (hasn’t happened yet), I’d politely ask him to throw it out and explain “huh, must have gone bad because the other night the kitchen was too dirty to cook in, FoR Some REason… Edit to add: I don’t see it as “retaliation”, I see it as “natural consequences”. Annoyance is a consequence too, but for me at least, eating out alone is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/21 12:20 AM
0	Would a guy feel compelled to have sex with me if I bought him dinner? The person who planned the date should pay for the date. That way, they choose approximately the amount/range they will be spending. Paying for the date, by the person who planned the date, should be the only “transactional” element of the date, because the only person who is owed anything is the owner of the establishment. No one owes anyone anything for going on a date, period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 02:03 PM
1	Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing? Have you ever tried to stop yourself from giving unsolicited advice to someone you love deeply who is about to make a mistake? It requires immense strength.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 01:54 PM
0	Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home? Don’t display any emotions such as “annoyance”. ANY TIME he does not uphold his end of the deal, you are unable to make the next meal. Do not nag or complain— simply take yourself out to dinner. Be perfectly pleasant but make it clear by your consistent actions that his inactions have consequences FOR HIM and not for you. Why? The moment you nag or complain, you become “the problem”. It makes zero sense but it is how the are	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 02:42 AM
1	What is he thinking? Is this selfish? I’m so confused — you are doing most of the household chores and cooking and working full time, while also growing a human, and he complains that you quit working because “he can’t quit working”? How about you inform him that you can’t do (list of chores and cooking activities) in addition to working any more due to fatigue, also because it is grossly unfair, and ask what his solution is? Does he want to hire a cook and ignore the chores (probably, but he can’t afford it), cook for the family an…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 09:44 PM
1	What is he thinking? Is this selfish? Yes i have been pregnant and worked full time throughout, the OB attributed the my prenatal hypertension and baby’s intrauterine growth restriction and final low birth weight to stress from the job. I was extremely tired but otherwise happy, like OP	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 09:26 PM
0	What is he thinking? Is this selfish? She already talked to him first. He told her to get a different job. Given that her health and that of her child is on the line, a significant change needed to be made. Perhaps she could have found an easy 5 or 10 hour per week job instead of quitting. Also with this submission thing— I beleieve you are supposed to protect your own health and safety and your childrens’, correct? Also, do you submit if hubby wants your assistance in criminal activities?	/r/RedPillWomen	29/09/21 04:11 PM