| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 295 | 6PM curfew to ALL MEN in the UK due to a recent murder | Legal Rights | ovenface2000 | /r/MensRights | 12/03/21 09:46 AM |
| 13 | Missing the kids | ovenface2000 | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/24 08:18 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | REALLY need advice on separation (UK)Agree. This isn’t a done deal - have the kids 50% of the time and no maintenance needed. Also “So she wants to keep the house” - thankfully the law doesn’t work like that. It’s completely up to you if you want to be bought out. Or it gets put on the market. We’d all love to “keep the house” but often that’s not reality . | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/26 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Just miss her.You miss the person you fell in love with, not the person at the end. Brain doesn’t really know the difference. Easily done. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/25 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Just miss her.This is it. Remember what they mean when they say they miss us. They never liked us before, thought life would be better. Finally appreciate you when it’s too late. It’s hard though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/25 04:21 PM |
| 13 | Almost made it 1 year in post-divorce relationshipDude you just got divorced, if anything you now know exactly what you want and importantly, what shit you don’t want to deal with ever again. Therapy 7 months in is a bad sign. But… Look at the relationship as a positive - she no doubt helped you through a shit time and was the perfect distraction and what you wanted at the time, you’ll always owe her that, but don’t waste time on aggressive and unreasonable women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/25 05:47 PM |
| 11 | Man being away from my kids for 2 nights is killing me.Hey bud. That first week / month is gonna be tough. I mean there’d be something wrong with you if it didn’t hurt. For me the real pain came when they left, coming back and all their toys still out. But what that made me realise, it that I’d just had AN AMAZING time with my kids. Real magic. Something I don’t think I truly had before when at the old house. It was just routine while getting moaned at. Time with the kids now, you get to appreciate that on a level others can only hope to achieve. A … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/25 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Man being away from my kids for 2 nights is killing me.What’s wrong with you?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/25 03:12 PM |
| 2 | First night in new apartmentMy advice is don’t rush anything, know that it’s totally cool to enjoy your own company and don’t put pressure on yourself. You can get into things too quick, but more often than not, let everything change slowly. You’ll feel a lot more in control. The kids on the phone, I remember that. It’s horrible. Just make the most of every second they are over. Get them to think of your new apartment as a second home, not “visiting Dad”. I probably messed up a bit and didn’t work hard enough on them feeli… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/25 07:16 PM |
| 1 | I had to tell my son we were separatingYeah it sucks big time. But in a years time when he gets to know a whole new better version of you, someone with more energy and time, this feeling now will be inconsequential. Took my son a while to adjust. He still throws it back at me at times, but I know that I’m a better Dad now and more mentally equipped to be a better role model. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 11:15 PM |
| 6 | The pain of losing your kidsAh man I’m with you on this one. I hate it. Tidying up after they’ve gone is pure torture. I’m a year down the line and it’s not any easier. I think what helps though, is the time I do spend with them is now infinitely more rewarding than when living with them full time. Not so much because of the kids, but I’m generally a happier person now. I do miss seeing them every day, but at least I know now that the time I do spend with them, they get 100% of attention 40% of the time. Which is probably … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/24 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Missing the kidsShit no idea how you manage that mate. As I said in another reply, it seems evil this can even be allowed to happen to someone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/24 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Missing the kidsOh dear sorry to hear this. How does this even happen? Seems so evil someone can inflict this on someone else legally. Is there any chance of things improving in the future? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/24 12:23 PM |
| 3 | 'Not in love'Wow. That was a joy to read. What a way with words you have! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/24 01:33 PM |
| 1 | 'Not in love'Amazing metaphor 👏🏻 🐵 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/24 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Separating and Divorcing after 20+ years, worried about getting back in the dating game after so long...Yeah just people looking for validation, no commitment | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 11:45 AM |
| 4 | Separating and Divorcing after 20+ years, worried about getting back in the dating game after so long...This. Same boat (more or less, 10 year marriage). The apps are great if you are genuine. Get some decent shots (I realised I take zero photos of myself), and just don’t be another generic dude. Don’t be super keen on the messages and be careful not to waste time on pen friends. 1 year later I’m in a very happy relationship. It’s far easier than back in our day! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/24 01:21 PM |
| 1 | What advice would you give somebody considering a divorce? What do you wish you would have known?It’s not forever. I remember falling asleep at work. It’s tough. But it gets better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 10:37 AM |
| 5 | What advice would you give somebody considering a divorce? What do you wish you would have known?Having a 3 month old is hard work. Really hard work. And hard on the marriage. Don’t react now to what will hopefully be a blip. She’s probably all over the place emotionally. Try and stick with it mate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Feminist politicians are such nice people. /sarcasmMakes no sense to hate what you look like. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/02/24 07:05 PM |
| 0 | First time taking my daughter to grocery store aloneNot what I said tho. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/22 09:06 AM |
| 0 | First time taking my daughter to grocery store aloneFuck me this is a dumb sub. When did I say a child is more valuable than an adult?? Having someone question you isn’t as bad as being kidnapped. I’d rather be asked 100 times if I’m my child’s dad than have my child kidnapped. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/22 09:06 AM |
| -27 | First time taking my daughter to grocery store aloneWay to make sure people are too worried to say anything. Surely it’s worth 100 wrong accusations to save 1 child. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/22 08:47 PM |
| 7 | To the feminist at work. And in all other parts of my life.I’m gonna guess no | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 10:10 AM |
| 1 | EU set to introduce a mandatory 40% quota for women on company boards of all listed EU companies to boost equalityThis will only lead to a bunch of silent exec board members by title only. Zero things gained. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 06:01 PM |
| 14 | Men do not seem like they are proud to be men. And this is detrimental to their mental health. We need to celebrate men instead of demonizing them.It’s utterly thankless being a man, and I say, on average, we’re nicer people, more considerate, honest, hard working. Yet all we get is shit. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/21 09:29 PM |
| 8 | 6PM curfew to ALL MEN in the UK due to a recent murderMen get attacked 3x more. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/21 09:21 PM |
| 2 | 6PM curfew to ALL MEN in the UK due to a recent murderSo so so true. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/21 09:20 PM |
| 133 | 6PM curfew to ALL MEN in the UK due to a recent murderPure madness.. “ I might put in an amendment to create a curfew for men on the streets after 6 pm. I feel this would make women a lot safer, and discrimination of all kinds would be lessened.” | /r/MensRights | 12/03/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Maybe I'm not up to date with dating. Is it "normal" for a girl to mention the job she wants you to have in her dating bio? "A stock market boyfriend"?I think she means a boyfriend that works in a supermarket. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/02/21 11:42 AM |
| 1 | What in gods good name did I just readSurely he noticed in those 8 months that she had a pussy that felt like a dying man’s handshake? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/01/21 11:10 PM |
| 5 | I had a turbulent/abusive dating life so far. I'm very attracted to the men who add turbulence to my life. I don't know what I want to do with my life, but I do want to want to be attracted to stable men. I'm just not and that's getting me in trouble 🤕That page will not look any better in the app. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/10/20 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Doors are oppressiveStop telling people how to behave and act. This can be compared to instructing a toddler. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/20 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Old but truth.Josie was punching if anything. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/20 08:30 PM |
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