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I have an unfortunate birth mark at the top of my bum right above my cheek crease. My LVM ex made many many comments about it. How it was gross and I should get it bleached and whatever. Having herd so much about it for 5 years I understandably became self conscious so when I became intimate with my current HVM I told him about it before hand. He looked at me puzzled and said "why would I care about that?" my anxiety instantly melted. One of the many many differences that set them worlds apart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:09 PM
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I dated a man with BPD for 5 years and its was some of the most scaring stuff I've ever been through. The manipulation, the verbal and physical abuse that would happen when they had a disassociated episode and then the trauma bonding that would follow. It was a constant merry go round. Do not involve yourself with ANYONE like this. Yes cognitive therapy can help, but the person needs to want help and be completely dedicated to recovery or rather relearning their behaviors. In the mean time you w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:01 PM
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I'm currently a single mother working 50+ hours a week but that's still better than being in my last relationship where I still worked 50 hours a week and then took care of my ex and his kids. I feel like I'm on easy mode now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:12 PM
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Excellent point. I'm so flabbergasted at his behavior thus far that it might be blinding me to other realities about him. It's a jungle out here and hard to keep ones wits about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 07:58 PM
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Thoughts on a nice wig while it grows out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 05:59 PM
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Stretch marks and loose skin on my stomach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 05:53 PM
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I appreciate your honesty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 05:13 PM
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My BMI is within normal and I've been blessed with a curvy figure. However I have had a child and it shows. How much does that matter? Also, can short hair be feminine or avoid it all together? I currently have a curly pixie cut which I believe the curls help to make feminine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:59 PM
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Non femcel here. I've never posted here but have gotten a lot of great advice. I was led here after having had enough of an abusive codependent relationship and finally leaving the creep. I'm currently building myself back up from total self esteem bankruptcy and this take no bullshit about what you want, what your worth is and what your boundaries are is exactly what I need to hear before I get back out there. I've done online dating before and I've been chewed up and spit out. I've settled for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:15 PM
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