overk4ll Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Just want to share a forum that helped me endlessly on my path to becoming more comfortable with myself and around women		overk4ll	/r/seduction	20/03/15 08:11 PM

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1	Does anyone else feel good when actively flirting with women, but when you don't have anyone to talk to for a couple of days, feel anxious/stuck in a rut? Diversify your identity.	/r/seduction	23/06/15 09:30 AM
2	Do you approach girl minding her business at coffee shops, book stores , bars ? No. But that's only because I live in Germany.	/r/seduction	19/06/15 02:54 PM
1	In Defense of Being Average [Mark Manson] He's done writing it and is looking for a publisher. Within a year probably.	/r/seduction	19/06/15 02:40 PM
1	What to do if taking her back to your house is not an option? Disappointing. I guess I'm not the sorcerer I thought I was.	/r/seduction	09/06/15 10:46 PM
1	What to do if taking her back to your house is not an option? Lol, ok. Leave the diagnosis to the professionals please. Nope, thanks. I'll keep having intimate sex with amazing girls. But do your thing. Plus, "professional". Lol smh. So you got a degree for this shit and still don't have a basic understanding of humans. That's unfortunate.	/r/seduction	09/06/15 07:30 AM
1	What to do if taking her back to your house is not an option? Wow. No offense, but it seems pretty desperate to commonly sleep with women you would suspect of being crazy enough to break or steal your stuff. If you need a month to figure that stuff out, your intuition or communication are seriously lacking.	/r/seduction	08/06/15 10:36 PM
1	How do you go about proposing a FWB relationship to a woman? Would probably make sense to also ask this question on /r/sex where there are, you know, actually women.	/r/seduction	19/05/15 10:00 PM
1	What do I do when I'm a huge pussy and a beta male? You label yourself and tell everyone what a big pussy and beta you are.	/r/seduction	17/05/15 07:30 PM
1	Made a quick "cheat sheet" describing many of the principles of seduction I've found over the past few months! I don't know. Not going for a certain age, but the other woman I slept with this month is about ten years older.	/r/seduction	14/05/15 06:17 AM
1	Made a quick "cheat sheet" describing many of the principles of seduction I've found over the past few months! Well said. I have to agree. Rare to have my mind changed on this forum, thank you.	/r/seduction	13/05/15 11:41 PM
1	Made a quick "cheat sheet" describing many of the principles of seduction I've found over the past few months! Dunno about that. Just banged a chick who's about twenty years older than me last week.	/r/seduction	13/05/15 11:32 PM
2	Made a quick "cheat sheet" describing many of the principles of seduction I've found over the past few months! To expand on this a bit; showing desire is extremely arousing for women.	/r/seduction	13/05/15 03:22 PM
1	Made a quick "cheat sheet" describing many of the principles of seduction I've found over the past few months! Yeah. Makes total sense. I brought it up because I have a problem with this mindset of "be cooler than the chick" in the industry. It's toxic. Also, btw I think your statement about more men being single doesn't line up statistically.	/r/seduction	13/05/15 10:05 AM
11	Made a quick "cheat sheet" describing many of the principles of seduction I've found over the past few months! One little nitpick. I would say you and the girl are both "buyers and sellers". Instead of trying to be cooler than the girl, you should aim to be equal, while of course maintaining strong boundaries and autonomy. She may not quite end up at your level in terms of emotional maturity, but it isn't something that you point out or even aim for. If she isn't mature/interesting, just move on.	/r/seduction	13/05/15 01:49 AM
1	Made a quick "cheat sheet" describing many of the principles of seduction I've found over the past few months! Why?	/r/seduction	13/05/15 01:46 AM
15	Made a quick "cheat sheet" describing many of the principles of seduction I've found over the past few months! You seem like you could use one.	/r/seduction	13/05/15 01:46 AM
6	Made a quick "cheat sheet" describing many of the principles of seduction I've found over the past few months! This is a misconception. If you know how to work out hard, you can easily be off for most of the week for recovery.	/r/seduction	13/05/15 01:45 AM
3	Made a quick "cheat sheet" describing many of the principles of seduction I've found over the past few months! It's basically taking a question you have about the girl and expressing it as a statement.	/r/seduction	13/05/15 01:43 AM
-1	My party experience consciously using Kino: what I learned that works and what I learned I need to work on. I know, and that should probably change if you don't want to alienate people.	/r/seduction	09/05/15 02:55 PM
-1	My party experience consciously using Kino: what I learned that works and what I learned I need to work on. It just sounds kinda dorky to say words like kino, y'know?	/r/seduction	09/05/15 01:55 PM
-4	My party experience consciously using Kino: what I learned that works and what I learned I need to work on. Using non-pick up lingo will increase your chances of getting laid up to 400%!!!	/r/seduction	09/05/15 05:24 AM
0	The dangers of 'interview style' questions. Sure. Along with self-loathing. But hey, if it makes you happier to follow his lead, more power to you.	/r/seduction	17/04/15 11:59 AM
-1	The dangers of 'interview style' questions. Roissy has to be one of the most cold-hearted people who writes about this stuff. Bitter doesn't even describe it.	/r/seduction	17/04/15 04:09 AM
2	Being dominant is not the same as being an asshole I don't think every man's personality fits with being dominant. Assertive, yes. Dominant, no.	/r/seduction	13/04/15 01:34 PM
0	Guys, do you have a texting "rule" that you live by? Fine. If you enjoy that kind of humor, go for it. Like I said, I find personally it becomes obnoxious pretty quickly.	/r/seduction	06/04/15 05:37 AM
0	Guys, do you have a texting "rule" that you live by? I dunno. I think often if I have to think about a call back joke, I'm trying to hard. At the end of a date you're not going to have twenty things lined up for callback humor unless you're being a clown. And he if you do, those types of jokes can easily come across as forced if you're not careful.	/r/seduction	06/04/15 05:06 AM
4	Guys, do you have a texting "rule" that you live by? That's one way to look at it. Another being, have and be fun.	/r/seduction	06/04/15 02:06 AM
3	Kissing on first date? Lol, you're a fan too? :) http://markmanson.net/shut-up-and-kiss-her	/r/seduction	05/04/15 04:06 PM
2	Saving Face After Rejection I think it's unnecessary. OTOH, if in a specific situation you think it would be funny or emotionally appropriate to blurt something out, go for it. Don't overthink it.	/r/seduction	29/03/15 12:21 PM
-13	Am I a loser if i dance alone myself? "Social value" Ugh. Edit: looks like this post isn't getting me very much.	/r/seduction	29/03/15 01:32 AM
1	Request: Condom Etiquette Problem with this is that it could sound like you don't always where a condom with new partners.	/r/seduction	26/03/15 01:26 AM
3	Why a lot of women love assholes and douchebags. Talks about so-called "fake alpha males": http://markmanson.net/power-in-vulnerability	/r/seduction	24/03/15 05:14 AM
2	Every time I meet a girl I start imagining my entire life with her Neediness /= perversion	/r/seduction	22/03/15 08:22 AM
9	Every time I meet a girl I start imagining my entire life with her Dude, you sound like an absolute romatic. Chicks love that shit. Try owning it, without spewing out your eternal love for her, and I'm sure the nervousness will dissipate.	/r/seduction	22/03/15 02:16 AM
1	Just had the shortest date in my life. It's true. I think I've also gotten a lot better since gaining a satisfying amount of experience.	/r/seduction	21/03/15 11:31 PM
1	Just had the shortest date in my life. Respect. Don't settle and don't waste your time with people your enjoy. Seems like you have solid boundaries for being able to leave after ten minutes. I probably would have felt guilty enough to have a small bit of paralyzing cognitive dissonance prolonging the unfruitful interaction. #Booyashaka	/r/seduction	21/03/15 10:19 PM
3	College men, how do you deal with girls around campus who you unsuccessfully asked out but see all the time? We don't chase women, women should chase us. I also don't think that's a healthy view. You shouldn't be concerned with putting less effort into an interaction than a chick you like, you should just feel it out and see if you're still enjoying the interaction while maintaining boundaries i.e. using your intuition to tell whether the interaction is actually fruitful and has potential, or whether you're just vying for a girls attention.	/r/seduction	20/03/15 07:49 PM
5	College men, how do you deal with girls around campus who you unsuccessfully asked out but see all the time? If a chick rejects me I'm not going to try to get her out again. I'd rather find another girl than feel desperate.	/r/seduction	20/03/15 07:19 PM