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| 2 | How to go from talking in the club to making out?Break the touch barrier. | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Would you hit up a hookup from a long time ago?Depends on our relationship. | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 06:29 AM |
| 1 | What to do with shy girls who don’t talk back much?Guys can’t do much about situations like this imo. 1 option I discovered when I encountered girls like this was to just accommodate her nature like crazy. As you can guess the problem is that without proper reciprocation you get exhausted and wonder if she’s really into you or just in it for the ride. I wish I could say that women are usually like this in the beginning of relationships and eventually open up but I don’t think that’s the case most of the time. Take this as a learning opportunity … | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 06:48 PM |
| 4 | How to learn flirting1: Don’t drown yourself in the plethora of dating tips and advice that’s out there. Try to find solid techniques that suit your personality so you can come across naturally. 2: Try to minimize the scope of your outlook on flirting. Seek to make conversation & connection with a woman playfully at first and ease into flirting. 3: in terms of social cues women say that they give men hints all the time but across the board (guys I know and myself) those hints were not picked up on. I myself learned … | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Are clubs tough or do I just suck ? How do I improve my game ?“The club isn’t the best place to find a lover so the bar is where I go” | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 12:26 PM |
| 3 | Eye contact with a girl at high schoolYea the thing that stops most romantic advances in high school is social pressure. I myself was hesitant to make moves towards certain girls in my school knowing how teenage girls operate. If you want to dm or make a move on her go for it, but realize she’s a high schooler just like you and will likely yap about it to all her friends. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Where is the line between having limiting beliefs and just being realistic with oneself?Well it’s about an accurate depiction of the limiting belief An example would be someone with the limiting belief of “What’s the point in working out?” There’s a healthy, positive and rewarding point to exercising. It affects your self-perception and confidence levels in positive ways. I’d say someone that is unwilling and unable to recognize those positive aspects have limiting beliefs towards exercise & self-improvement. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 05:52 PM |
| 7 | How to move on girls who get a lot of attentionI’d say move on. Dating is simply a numbers game to party girls and since she’s already getting ample attention from other men, you’re free to move on. In my mind, no it’s not worth going after girls who get a lot of attention. Are they usually hot? Yea but they’ll also usually be the ones to ignore you at any given chance. | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Why does no one show me their interesting side?Well said. | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Why does no one show me their interesting side?Being confident means feeling and being secure in your ability to act. Insecurity & confidence don’t blend because confidence destroys insecurity. Confident people aren’t boring because they act against the very nature of their insecurity. Insecure people are boring because they fail to act. Everyone is insecure/unconfident to some degree especially when it comes to the opposite sex, confident people (men & women) just do something about it. | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 06:19 PM |
| 6 | Why does no one show me their interesting side?Because most individuals are boring people. | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 09:31 AM |
| 3 | I find majority of girls boring, what can I do?Yea girls aren’t conversationalists and the 1’s that are sometimes get bullied for it. Tbh you’re going to have to keep looking. | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 06:39 PM |
| 40 | How to escalate? At what point do you ask to kiss/shag and how?Women make that part of relationships so bloody difficult and 1 sided. Basically you just have to go for a kiss or touch her sexually when (in women’s own words) she gives you signals. In reality that signal is as subtle as a fucking leaf in the wind but as a man you’re supposed to perform magic and figure it out. Since you’ve asked, green flags that I think are quite noticeable are the “fuck-me-eyes”, wanting to speak with you alone in a crowd of people (going somewhere private at a party for e… | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys do thisI could say ease yourself into it or just jump into it but getting over the hurdle of taking to women is something that you’ll have to decide for yourself to do. 1 piece of advice I can give is try not to overthink it. Don’t try to wow girls at first or assume a personality that you don’t have trying to impress a girl. Keep it light, authentic and casual. | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 08:43 PM |
| 7 | Is it true if you are physically attractive man, women generally approach you first and make a move?Situations like these are not as rosy as people make them out to be. Do women approach attractive men? Not often, but they’re more willing to talk/chat with attractive men in general. The girls that do approach men are usually average girls. I’ll give you an example of a party. As per usual, most girls are dressed slutty/promiscuously and of 10 girls, about 3 are 8’s-10’s (leaving the rest as average 6’s or 7’s). Obviously all the guys at the party want to bang the 8-10’s and naturally give litt… | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Any books to recommendThe Giver, Lord of The Flies, The Outsiders | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 06:39 PM |
| 19 | How can you tell if a girl is single before approaching her?You can’t, but that doesn’t mean you stop your approaches/advancements. I always find it best to ask a girl with “hi, are you single” or “hi, are you free/busy on insert date” before asking her out. If she lies, at least I followed common courtesy. Edit: Those 2 examples are more for cold approaches, when you take interest in a girl outside your social circle that you’re unsure if you’ll ever see or interact with again. Dating within a social circle is relatively easier where advancements/approa… | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?The thing about clubs or bars (in my opinion) is it’s not a true indicator of game or status since drinking & drugs are involved. Liquid courage is a hack, I’ve seen others (and myself) in situations that get play/attention from the opposite gender (or whichever they prefer honestly) which totally wouldn’t happen if they weren’t the least bit tipsy. Never feel pressured to go out because of social influence, if you don’t think those venues are your scene the so be it. | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Girls don't do things by accidentThis | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Always Be Up for Random ShenanigansThis man spitting FACTS | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys have a lot of good friends?☝🏿 | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 08:01 PM |
| 82 | Do you guys have a lot of good friends?“The transition from school to earth is generally not nice” That quote sums up so much. | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 08:00 PM |
| 2 | asked a tinder girl to hangout and does it seem like she is dtf with the message she sent?Nah I agree with you, some of the times I’ve hooked up chicks they say/do the same. Just don’t keep overthink n keep swagging op. | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 04:01 AM |
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