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| 1 | Feeling TrappedHow you hanging brother? My latest is that she wrecked her car and somehow qualified for a loan, so I now have 180 car payment (which is literally coming out of the food budget). | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/17 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Feeling TrappedAnytime for me feeling alone was the hardest part... so when I saw this I had to jump in. One CBT exercise that has really helped is to get a sheet of paper ... on the left side put the negative thought your having/hearing ... on the right reframe it as a positive Ex Negative: I'm trapped with someone who hates me. Positive I am here for my children, and I'm an awesome dad | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Feeling TrappedAfter waking from a dream where she took a hammer to my teeth, I flat out asked her to not sleep in the bed I built with my own hands. I told her I'd buy her a bed of her choice and keep paying all the bills while she re-enters the workforce even if it takes a year. Also told her my lawyer suggested I flat out stop depositing money into our checking account .... that got her attention! Made it damn clear that the kids were my #1 priority otherwise I'd let her go on food stamps. Honestly wouldn't… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/17 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Feeling TrappedBrother I'm in a very similar boat. After meeting with a lawyer she basically gave me a similar a or b choice. A - pull the trigger, declare bankruptcy, file for divorce, likely not get custody, pull kids out of awesome schools that is the only thing they've ever known, live at the poverty line or B - put up with this mess for as long as I can, double down on paying off the debt she's wracked up, triple down on being a good dad, cut her off of financial assistance (while keeping the fridge full … | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/17 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Being honest....anyone with kids regret divorce? I don't think I can leave them.I'm struggling with the same thing, but you have to do what's going to make YOU happy bc your kids will learn how to be an adult by watching you! Seeing them every other weekend and getting cleaned out are NOT a foregone conclusion. I'm talking to a lawyer today and will be shooting for 50% of everything including custody of our kids. Mine are a bit older so in school 8 hours a day, already planning adjusted work schedule etc. Will it be hard to figure it all out? Yes! But you can do it man. Sin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/17 11:48 AM |
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