owlsayshoot Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	What do you consider an acceptable n-count for a woman when she gets married? I personally count oral partners. If you’ve been sexually intimate you’ve been sexually intimate, penis in vagina is not the only way to be sexually intimate. I may be an outlier, but for that reason I do not count a rape in an n count. My husband knows my list and I know his. We are comfortable with each other’s.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/18 07:58 PM
2	Troubles understanding and controlling my libido (NSFW-ish ?) I'm tempted to try it. I went on the mini pill after our second was born, but even that made me less patient, more cranky and not want sex at all...how was placement for you? Any side effects?	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/17 04:28 PM
8	Troubles understanding and controlling my libido (NSFW-ish ?) My libido practically disappeared on any hormonal birth control. When did you start it? Any correlation in timing? Are you willing to try non hormonal (condoms/diaphragm/Paraguard etc) for 6 months to see if things improve?	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/17 03:26 PM
5	How to trust a man? Therapy first. Sounds like you have some baggage to unload if you want to progress in a healthy relationship. Second, at least for me, is delving into the worst case scenario. Let's say he cheats. What happens to you? You are hurt, you fight maybe, you (hopefully) next him...and then? You move on. You grow and heal and find new love. Let's say he finds someone new...you are hurt, you fight maybe, you can't really do anything about it so you (hopefully) let go and move on. You heal and you grow a…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/17 11:34 AM
2	My Husband Hates Me - Laura Doyle I've forgotten it recently sometimes. Exhaustion from two small children has taken its toll. This is a good reminder for me to get back to that.	/r/RedPillWives	27/04/17 03:35 PM
6	My Husband Hates Me - Laura Doyle I remember once in the early days of dating, my husband and I were arguing about something, I have zero recollection about what, and it hardly matters. The important bit is that I apologized for my part of things and made a huge effort to drop the issue when I saw how riled he was getting. I remember him dropping everything and just holding me so tight right then, and saying how much it meant to him that it was more important to me that we were okay rather than that I was right. I'm not always a…	/r/RedPillWives	27/04/17 03:32 PM
9	the little moment that he knew she was the one Ha! He's very very real. My own personal Prince Charming. Saved me from several metaphorical dragons over the years too!	/r/RedPillWomen	18/04/17 02:31 PM
16	the little moment that he knew she was the one We went to the same summer camp for years as kids, so we knew each other, but didn't get romantically involved until we reconnected at a party in our late 20's. The first weekend we spent together was perfect in every way, but the end sealed it for me...he sent me home with a huge bag of his comfiest clothes and an origami flower with a quote inside from a mutually favorite movie we'd watched together that weekend. That was March, I quit my job and moved two states to be with him in July that ye…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/04/17 01:27 PM
3	How do y'all deal with exes & alimony? I'm happy to help. I hope he two of you see your way through this one. It's a tricky situation.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/04/17 08:19 PM
5	How do y'all deal with exes & alimony? Sure. Protective of your own unit. I completely get that. But maybe try turning your resentment towards the ex. Or towards the court system who mandated it, rather than your boyfriend. It might also help to remember that as your boyfriend, not your husband, you truly have no claim to those resources or assets. This is his business, and truly nothing to do with you. At the end of the day, you are kind of overstepping, in my opinion. Should you get married before he pays all he owes/has been manda…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/04/17 08:08 PM
3	How do y'all deal with exes & alimony? Is this an amount he chose to pay or offered to pay to his ex? Likely not, so I can't quite understand resenting him for it. It's something he's subjected to far more than you, and likely something he enjoyed even less than you.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/04/17 07:40 PM
7	SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day? I have a 10 week old and a 22 month old. Both nurse, the toddler is potty trained and the baby is in cloth diapers and we practice elimination communication. Down time is nearly non-existent. We are starting to find a rhythm though and I do believe it will improve in the coming weeks! Right now I find I have a better morning if wake before my toddler. 5:30 is usually, but not always, safe. So, 5:30ish? get up, make coffee, nurse and change baby, nurse her some more. Phone gaze until toddler wake…	/r/RedPillWives	02/03/17 04:51 PM
9	How can I learn to accept and cope with my non-RPW past? A solid foundation can not be built upon a lie. I think there's no reason to broadcast such things, and there are ways to introduce such information so to take out the sting, but I would not recommend lying in such a way, especially to a potential captain-just sets a bad precedent.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/11/16 09:44 PM
6	Which comes first, the marriage or the children? While my children are unable to fend for themselves, my priority goes: children's needs>husbands needs and husbands wants>children's wants. Once we have more independent children who can care for their own needs much of the time (age for this varies wildly I find), that order will shift a bit, then more and more as they grow. It's a tough balancing act, for sure.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/16 03:07 PM
5	A Discussion on Family Beds Like any other transition for her, when she's ready, she will show a need for a change and we will try things. Like moving down to two naps from three, or more recently, one nap from two, when it was time, she started to sleep poorly, take a long time falling asleep, not staying down, etc, so we messed with the routine til we found what worked then. Or, if she's old enough, she will just tell me. As it is, she naps on her own, just in our bed or on a mat at our work, so it's not a foreign concep…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/09/16 10:00 PM
4	A Discussion on Family Beds We have coslept with our 16 month old from the beginning, and I'm currently 6 months pregnant with our second. I don't think cosleeping itself has impacted our sex life beyond location and increasing creativity. Being pregnant and nursing a toddler, on the other hand, makes me tired, sore, or not always generally available. But I try to keep him happy in other ways. It has not been an issue for us, and we both love the snuggles and closeness, not to mention to security our daughter feels when sh…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/09/16 09:41 PM
3	I did something very embarrassing! Usually this means that you are mentally spinning out-going over and over the information in an ultimately unhelpful and unhealthy way; the hamster wheel just goes around and around and around but isn't productive. Take some deep breaths. React calmly when you have more information about his reaction and even his awareness of the photos.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/09/16 02:19 PM
1	Married women, what was your husband's proposal like? We first met at summer camp when we were around 10 years old. We both went there every summer and were in the same circle of friends, though never particularly close. We lost touch through the years after summer camp age, but 6 years ago, we were both invited to a party held by a camp friend. It was a 3 hr drive for me, and a 1 hr drive for him, but we both went and thus began a whirlwind romance. Started dating in March, I quit my job and moved 4hrs to live with him in July, he proposed in Janu…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/15 07:36 PM