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owq/r/MGTOW10/12/16 02:50 PM
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1 of the asian tigers here. It is getting more westernized but generally they are traditional when it suits them and non-traditional when it doesn't. Men still are expected to be the provider for the family. So in terms of sacrifice for family life, men are the ones missing out on family life! Because they are expected to be the breadwinner. Not to add on to the forced conscription which a woman will never understand and tend to take for granted. In terms of marriage although on paper each is su…
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 09:24 AM
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Surprisingly I feel more lonely being in a relationship than being alone but free.
/r/MGTOW02/07/19 03:02 PM
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I mean, what do you do with a tampon? Anyway, the opposite is also true. When I am done with women, I don't really want anything to do with them
/r/MGTOW02/07/19 10:46 AM
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Good reminder that you are never enough.
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 01:49 PM
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That's because that they only think "this guy is good for her" instead of "this girl is good for him"
/r/MGTOW27/05/19 12:01 PM
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Went straight from blue-pilled male to MGTOW because fortunately there was no NAWALT female. All of them showed their true colours within months.
/r/MGTOW26/05/19 10:48 AM
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I enjoyed it at the start when it was mainly about the geeks with some blue pills here and there but now it is almost full-blown drama. If I wanted to watch drama I would watch drama.
/r/MGTOW25/05/19 04:03 PM
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And attention. "I want a wedding". "I want a photoshoot". No mention of being a good wife or anything. Fuck that!
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 10:00 AM
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One of the very first lessons that I learned after going MGTOW: take their words with a pinch of salt and judge them by their behaviour.
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 12:01 PM
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Hahaha that burn
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 09:58 AM
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That's because the truth was inside you from the start.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 04:27 AM
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Elon Musk likes trouble though
/r/MGTOW08/05/19 11:46 AM
1

This is why you can't win. The only way is not to play.
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 11:11 PM
5

Happy birthday bro and be successful for yourself. The best revenge is simply living well. And once you live well, you won't even give a thought about unworthy things in life.
/r/MGTOW17/02/19 08:30 AM
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A pleasant coincidence as I just read about him in the book Buddha Brain. Or consider Nelson Mandela, imprisoned for twenty-seven years -- much of that time doing hard labor in a quarry -- often receiving mail just once every six months. It's said that he despaired of losing contact with people he loved, so he decided to bring love to his guards while continuing to stand firm in his opposition to apartheid. It was hard for the guards to mistreat him when he was being loving, so the authorities h…
/r/MGTOW24/12/18 03:22 PM
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Hahaha... In my country, pre-nups are not even legally enforceable. And my ex was pondering moving to Australia, where she studied and common law marriage is in effect. Note that she is a lawyer. So she ought to know the legal consequences. After talking so much about finding "the one", she left because she wanted marriage and a wedding. Clearly anyone would do. Do not marry someone who only sees you as a tool. Heck, I'm not so sure even about relationships at this point.
/r/MGTOW21/12/18 12:14 PM
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It can be defeating to know your only worth to a person is the amount of money you make and that's what its done to me. Defeated me. It is actually liberating because now you know some people are not worth basing your worth on. All the best bro.
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 12:52 PM
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Not having sex doesn't mean you can't be metooed Just be careful of the risks Personally I prefer my peace and quiet
/r/MGTOW07/12/18 04:08 PM
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18 with all the raging hormones? School of hard knocks, bro
/r/MGTOW07/12/18 04:03 PM
1

Can't help but shudder as I read the story.
/r/MGTOW07/12/18 03:16 PM
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You can just do a google search. https://no-maam.blogspot.com/2001/01/briffaults-law.html
/r/MGTOW03/12/18 11:40 PM
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Thanks for sharing. Briffault's law. There is no relationship equity.
/r/MGTOW03/12/18 02:42 PM
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Pregnancy causes a big change in the woman's brain. Eventually the attachment with the child supersedes everything else.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 02:42 PM
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I could never understand why people have "significant others" or "other halves". Does it mean they're not complete, not enough?
/r/MGTOW04/11/18 02:34 PM
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You may have your own ideas for this sub, but think about this... If he goes elsewhere, he will be battered with blue pill advice. So where does he go? How about manning up for himself on his own?
/r/MGTOW30/10/18 03:53 PM
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Write down the pros and cons of every single thing and you'll find out without fail that you are better off without her. The logic will catch up with your emotions later, though.
/r/MGTOW30/10/18 03:49 PM
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Very good post. I guess women would be the biggest risk for most men. They are half the world after all. And they will bring more than financial ruin to an unsuspecting idiot. Acute businessmen who manage risks so well in all other parts of their lives turn out to have a big blind spot with regards to women. *cough* elon musk *cough*. Maybe that's why MGTOW talks so much about women. It's the low hanging fruit, man.
/r/MGTOW30/10/18 03:45 PM
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From my observations, women might be more conservative here, but these hold true: the hamster hypergamy you are just a means to an end plus you not only get her, but most likely her close family and her extended family as a "bonus" Enjoy... no
/r/MGTOW30/10/18 01:37 PM
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It's true. Westernized Asian countries = worst of both worlds
/r/MGTOW30/10/18 01:32 PM
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Screw fake up. So many girls I have seen that look ok without that. And then they put on this deceptive mask and that totally turns me off.
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 06:18 AM
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Cheers. It takes very little to be satisfied.
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 12:06 AM
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Her financial dependency There you go. You are just a resource. Your gut feeling saved you man.
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 02:34 PM
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Run far, far away, and never ever look back. You know those kind of scenes where you barely escape with everything blowing up behind you? Yeah.
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 02:44 PM
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This is why I don't get the "you'll die alone" argument. What's worse than dying alone? Dying alone after getting abandoned by someone you're supposed to trust.
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 02:32 PM
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Lol don't be manipulated into thinking it's your fault It's not
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 11:48 PM
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100% of men don't end up with unicorns. Because they don't exist. It's only a matter of time before you realize how much crap you had to put up with and then you'll just feel amazed at yourself for dodging a bullet. Or two. Or three.
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 12:10 PM
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Life as a bachelor is ridiculously easy mode. Unfortunately, sometimes our hormones think otherwise.
/r/MGTOW29/09/18 04:07 PM
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Years ago, my first impression of MGTOW was that it was a women-hating sub. It's basically about dodging bullets. And medicine is BITTER for a reason. But it saves lives.
/r/MGTOW29/09/18 03:50 PM
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It's the appeal to emotion. Rational thinking gets thrown away when it's all about "love". And here we're just talking about money. You might also lose your sanity. Not sure if worth.
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 12:09 AM
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I have felt this way about relationships even before I knew about mgtow. Like, why must the men do all the work? Why is the men expected to provide? Why is the men supposed to take the initiative? I never felt like it was fair or worth it. Have been in a few short-term relationships and I felt... trapped. To hell with societal and biological expectations. For me, it is far more worth it to focus on the relationship with myself, friends, and family. I would rather invest in my sister than some ra…
/r/MGTOW22/09/18 02:03 PM
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You're right but... the gold is in the comments
/r/MGTOW22/09/18 12:28 PM
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Hey, you actually got off easy. Your life has just begun.
/r/MGTOW19/09/18 11:32 AM
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Yes, this is the book that really did it for me. Her other book, The Polygamous Sex, is worth reading as well.
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 01:35 PM
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I think it's worth sending. However, I'm not sure how easy/dangerous it would be for him to break it off...
/r/MGTOW01/09/18 02:55 PM
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Of course, since words are cheap. Then they just do the same thing again without much remorse.
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 12:08 PM
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Same. Good place to go MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW15/09/17 05:13 PM
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You have your own opinion and I have mine. For me, hating half the world doesn't work for me. I'm just indifferent.
/r/MGTOW03/08/17 11:38 AM
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All else being equal, why would men go for older women instead of younger women? I mean, biologically and logically speaking. All else being equal, why would men go for women when he can have better company with himself?
/r/MGTOW03/08/17 11:35 AM
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You dodged a bullet bro. Can you imagine this happening after you got married? Think of all the time and money you'll save in the future, not the past. The past is past.
/r/MGTOW02/08/17 04:31 AM
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Cognitive dissonance.
/r/MGTOW31/07/17 04:41 AM
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Oh, relationships are worse.
/r/MGTOW05/07/17 01:14 PM
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Ah, the forbidden fruit that you can't reach but actually tastes like shit.
/r/MGTOW05/07/17 01:08 PM
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Maybe you just need better friends. Like us ;P
/r/MGTOW24/06/17 05:10 PM
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Well to be very straight I think you were very lucky that she was obviously crazy... And the most amazing thing is she ghosted you which is actually the best case scenario for you and I think you would also agree. Imagine you met someone who seemed normal and loving and got trapped in a marriage... P.S. I also had a BPD girlfriend, never again
/r/MGTOW24/06/17 12:34 PM
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Maybe you won the lottery. Who knows? Just watch out for black swans.
/r/MGTOW16/06/17 01:21 AM
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No... One mum is enough. Agree on the self-love part though.
/r/MGTOW11/06/17 01:41 AM
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I'm from SEA as well. It's worse when they are not straightforward and they stab you in the back. Always remember AWALT and unicorns don't exist :) Some men can't seem to accept that until shit hits the fan
/r/MGTOW10/06/17 03:35 PM
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At first I thought this was the wrong sub... Anyway, check the book "Fire Your Wife"
/r/MGTOW10/06/17 03:17 PM
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Many have shown their true colours after getting married... Your life, your risk to take
/r/MGTOW09/06/17 04:51 AM
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Of course you can't be mgtow because you're listening to some random internet person...
/r/MGTOW09/06/17 12:06 AM
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You don't need any reason... Just don't.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 04:48 AM
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You're playing the wrong game.
/r/MGTOW07/06/17 09:05 AM
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Trust your intuition. If there's a red flag, something is wrong. You probably also missed/skimmed over other red flags. If nothing is wrong, something's wrong ANYWAY. When it comes to women, better be safe than sorry.
/r/MGTOW06/06/17 05:34 AM
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Judge her by her behaviour and not her words.
/r/MGTOW06/06/17 05:31 AM
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Understand the difference between doing things right and doing the right things.
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 12:06 PM
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Indeed, it's better to be single than be with someone terrible (e.g. 101% of women)
/r/MGTOW04/06/17 12:23 PM
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She gives me "we should just be friends" over TEXT on my birthday hahahahaha This sounds familiar... wait same thing happened to me and 1000000 other guys
/r/MGTOW04/06/17 12:21 PM
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Everyone dies alone. There's nothing scary about it.
/r/MGTOW03/06/17 04:27 PM
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Mgtow saves lives.
/r/MGTOW03/06/17 10:11 AM
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My friends constantly try to shame me for not having a girlfriend, but I own up to my bachelor lifestyle and keep promoting it. Let's see who has the last laugh.
/r/MGTOW03/06/17 09:35 AM
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Not as lucky as you, only managed to find a AWALT and I'm gonna live happily ever after with her. I hope you guys are happy for me!
/r/MGTOW02/06/17 05:06 AM
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Obvious trap is obvious.. None so blind as those who will not see.
/r/MGTOW02/06/17 04:56 AM
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I find that children can be much easier to deal with as compared to women... Maybe I've seen too many crazy women... Sad thing is, crazy here is not a figure of speech
/r/MGTOW01/06/17 01:26 PM
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Strangely in my circle of friends/acquaintances it's the opposite. The not-so-smart men are married while the smart ones remain single. Of course I don't know whether their wives are dumber than them or not...
/r/MGTOW01/06/17 12:09 PM
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There are NO exceptions to AWALT except non-women. No Ifs.
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 07:59 AM
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It's a gynocentric world. You can either change the world or react differently.
/r/MGTOW26/05/17 02:57 AM
3

Still not worth it.
/r/MGTOW25/05/17 01:27 AM
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That actually sounds 100x better than going out with a girl
/r/MGTOW24/05/17 02:39 AM
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Marriage is the pin and divorce is the check mate. IMO.
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 04:36 AM
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Run for the hills!!!!!!!
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 03:24 AM
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They also give you bullshit before and during the date. Why bother? It's just a scam. How about doing things that actually matter, like saving the world?
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 12:45 PM
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But women are never happy, so you can never have a happy life. Unless you have no wife. Oh wait...
/r/MGTOW18/05/17 01:28 PM
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She just wants to be your friend winks
/r/MGTOW16/05/17 12:46 PM
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I don't feel any obligation to tell them about MGTOW, but I will drop indirect hints here and there if I feel like it. Make them feel like it was their idea. But most of my friends are kind of MGTOW, so it's not really a problem for me. Haha.
/r/MGTOW14/05/17 06:03 AM
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I feel the same way. Cheers!
/r/MGTOW11/05/17 07:08 AM
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If anyone here still believes in NAWALT and marriage, just talk to a divorce lawyer friend. Guarantee you'll never be more afraid of marriage
/r/MGTOW11/05/17 07:04 AM
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This. Virgin or not, girls are a big pain in the ass. YMMV.
/r/MGTOW10/05/17 03:38 PM
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Nope.
/r/MGTOW05/05/17 03:22 PM
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Is there any fellow mgtows that don't like to play video games?!
/r/MGTOW05/05/17 03:21 PM
1

You mean a DOG?
/r/MGTOW03/05/17 03:12 PM
1

Do you play reverse Russian roulette? Neither do I
/r/MGTOW03/05/17 12:49 PM
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Grew up in developed Asian country. 28 years. The females here have equal or better earning power. But there's still the lame expectation that the men is supposed to provide for the female and her family. Of course there are exceptions. And compared to some of the stories I hear here, the girls are generally more conservative. But AWALT!
/r/MGTOW03/05/17 11:31 AM
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Self > Biological family > Friends >>>>>>> "Girlfriends"
/r/MGTOW03/05/17 04:06 AM
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Congrats. The best is yet to come.
/r/MGTOW02/05/17 04:30 AM
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http://www.snopes.com/men-who-marry-chubby-women-are-happier/ According to snopes, no such study has been proven to exist. It seems that whatever is said on the Internet goes for truth these days. I've seen this posted on Facebook. What a joke, lol.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 12:25 AM
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All your time is belong to you.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 12:13 AM
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Sunk cost fallacy. Rationally, decisions should be made on what you get in the future, rather than how much you have invested in the past.
/r/MGTOW29/04/17 01:47 PM
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The double standards are real
/r/MGTOW28/04/17 12:56 PM
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You might have been gaslighted
/r/MGTOW28/04/17 02:19 AM
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And what does Ian think about all that?
/r/MGTOW24/04/17 03:53 PM
2

Seriously, her wanting citizenship or not is really the least of your concerns...
/r/MGTOW24/04/17 03:49 PM
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Hahaha. There are better places to work for. BYE
/r/MGTOW23/04/17 05:27 AM
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Better late than never.
/r/MGTOW23/04/17 05:22 AM
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The BEST case scenario doesn't really sound that great...
/r/MGTOW17/04/17 04:57 AM
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That's the same as asking how to prevent yourself from ever getting old... IMHO
/r/MGTOW16/04/17 03:59 PM
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Even as friends they aren't that great. So ... getting married? No fucking way.
/r/MGTOW16/04/17 02:50 PM
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The red flags don't really scream at you until after the break up.
/r/MGTOW12/04/17 01:59 PM
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No accountability. No responsibility. No empathy. AWALT.
/r/MGTOW11/04/17 02:43 PM
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Some activities are actually quite enjoyable in their own way when done alone. For example, a nice meal. You can eat at your own pace and really savour every part of the food. Then again, you don't have to do those activities that you don't enjoy doing alone!
/r/MGTOW04/04/17 05:25 AM
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Please. Ghost her. No excuses. Just do it first. Then think about whether you really want to unghost her.
/r/MGTOW02/04/17 07:43 AM
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In my blue pill days I always felt something was wrong... Why did men have to take the initiative... Why did men have to take the risks. The risk/rewards just didn't add up. Now I know.
/r/MGTOW02/04/17 07:41 AM
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Yeah. The red flags only really hit me on hindsight. I noticed them but I just brushed them away. I'm just so glad it's over and I kind of got off easy.
/r/MGTOW02/04/17 07:32 AM
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Is it really a joke though? It totally sounds plausible.
/r/MGTOW02/04/17 07:06 AM
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But are you asexual?
/r/MGTOW02/04/17 07:03 AM
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The only person who is always there for you is yourself.
/r/MGTOW01/04/17 01:28 AM
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Of course you're wrong. You hurt her "girly" "feelings" Think about it. Are you sure you want her as a friend?
/r/MGTOW31/03/17 03:27 PM
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Scrolled through the comments and one comment sums them all bitches be crazy
/r/MGTOW27/03/17 12:43 PM
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Who cares. This guy is just projecting his own issues on MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW26/03/17 10:46 AM
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Nobody asks me that. That's because sex isn't viewed as a necessity where I live.
/r/MGTOW25/03/17 12:30 PM
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BPD BPD BPD BPD BPD BPD I don't know what's the best way, but GET OUT ASAP
/r/MGTOW23/03/17 12:16 PM
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This sub saves lives.
/r/MGTOW23/03/17 12:11 PM
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All those people who make fun of guys having imaginary waifus. Wonder who will have the last laugh?
/r/MGTOW23/03/17 12:09 PM
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Good. I've been hoping that people think that I'm gay so that they'll quit matchmaking me with lousy girls.
/r/MGTOW23/03/17 12:23 AM
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Sorry to say this, but this is probably only like 1% of their ruthlessness
/r/MGTOW22/03/17 11:44 AM
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Women are like typhoons. You don't know what hit you until they leave.
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 04:10 PM
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No guys knew they were being lied to until after the fact. GO AHEAD. Learn the hard way.
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 12:02 PM
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1 person, 1 chance, per lifetime. No need to burn bridges, but if a bridge falls it falls.
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 11:59 AM
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You were good friends once and now no longer friends. NOTHING LASTS FOREVER DUDE MOVE ON P.S. the definition of friends is different for guys and for girls
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 11:46 AM
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And divorce is like a private equity exit where women sell their stake to the state and get alimony and child support in return
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 11:38 AM
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That's easy. Just be yourself. No women wants a men who is himself.
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 11:19 AM
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I'm getting close to 29 and suddenly a lot of my friends are getting married. Lol, good luck to them. My closer friends have chosen not to even engage in relationships and one of them has even suddenly turned gay (like lol WTF)
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 11:11 AM
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It's funny how they never think they are the problem. Just gonna stand here and watch them burn.
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 10:56 AM
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No guy ever thinks that their gf will cheat on them. The girl usually initiates breakup or finds someone when the guy is far away or there's some significant event in their life. There are probably some rare exceptions, but the odds are against you. May the force be with you.
/r/MGTOW18/03/17 03:28 PM
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It could have been worse... You really dodged a bullet there.
/r/MGTOW18/03/17 03:25 PM
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I always treated their words with a grain of salt. Especially the younger ones. Still, getting lied to/getting betrayed isn't the best feeling in the world, even if you're on guard.
/r/MGTOW18/03/17 03:19 PM
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once I find the right one, it will be the greatest ecstasy imaginable, beyond anything I could provide for myself. You're imagining a future in your mind. That is an illusion. There is nothing more important than the current moment. You have already found the right one, and that is yourself. Only yourself can give yourself the best because all your feelings and thoughts come from within. Only you can help yourself. It will take time. Habits take at least 30 days to form.
/r/MGTOW18/03/17 03:12 PM
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Yeah... I had my days of pandering to women and I would sometimes wonder. What am I doing? What do I gain? Is it me? Many years later, I found MGTOW and it solidified what I felt.
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 05:13 AM
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I would consider a guy who is obsessed with women more of a loser than a guy obsessed with video games. Because IMO, video games give you a better return. But of course to women, whoever doesn't pay attention to her is a loser. That's fine. You winners can have the girls :)
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 08:42 AM
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And letting hobbies, even video games, keep you from fulfilling life mile stones like marriage and children should be dropped We are all just lonely people looking for a place to fit in this hunk of rock. Who is the one generalizing now? P.S. not looking for a fight.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 04:53 AM
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50% of the responsibility? I think that's too generous.
/r/MGTOW16/03/17 04:38 AM
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I've had my share of crazy women, and all I just wanted to say is that all your feelings come from within. The heart break, depression, brain damage -- it's all caused by your reaction to her craziness. I don't know what works for you, and how long it'll take. But time will help, as it did for me. Focus on the current moment, not the past, nor the future. -God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to tell the difference…
/r/MGTOW13/03/17 02:56 PM
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Female friend That's an oxymoron
/r/MGTOW09/03/17 03:28 PM
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The wise man learns from his own experience; the fool learns from only his own I believe you mean the wise man learns from the experience of others
/r/MGTOW09/03/17 03:26 PM
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It's like all the noise is finally gone and you're wondering why did I put up with it
/r/MGTOW06/03/17 12:26 PM
4

Yeah, being beats doing. The more you do the less you accomplish
/r/MGTOW06/03/17 12:23 PM
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I have mixed feelings towards my ex. One is contempt for how badly she treated me, other is gratitude for showing me how absurd a girl can be. MGTOW
/r/MGTOW28/02/17 02:44 PM
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What exactly do you win? The best victory is one which requires no fighting...
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 02:11 PM
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She was telling me how they were going to Rome in 2 months, how hes different and she loves it her new "boyfriend" does nothing but smoke weed, go to "raves" and generally a blue pill simp When you go MGTOW, you realise how inconsistent women can be and how they don't realise they are lying all the time. And you're kind of okay with that, because you don't have all your resources invested in one of them.
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 12:20 PM
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And if you keep the ring... Well guess you'll have to sleep with a hand grenade
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 12:05 PM
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he said that his girlfriend would support and help him Fuck this. They always leave you at your lowest Take care bro.
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 10:48 AM
2

A very expensive pair of handcuffs...
/r/MGTOW22/02/17 03:33 PM
1

Life's good man. Freedom is great.
/r/MGTOW22/02/17 03:18 PM
1

Appropriate nick.
/r/MGTOW21/02/17 04:33 PM
2

I have. But just like fillers in a sentence, their sorries don't mean anything.
/r/MGTOW21/02/17 03:40 PM
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One person, one chance, PER LIFETIME. If you really want someone, find someone new. You two broke up for a reason. But you know what? Women are not worth the trouble.
/r/MGTOW21/02/17 03:36 PM
4

Good choice. Women or peace. You can't have both.
/r/MGTOW20/02/17 12:14 PM
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I lost her love A mild correction, sir. You never lost something that never existed.
/r/MGTOW20/02/17 04:58 AM
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They can pretend for years.
/r/MGTOW18/02/17 04:49 PM
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Well I don't know what it feels like to have no experience with relationships but Let's use drugs or cigarettes or alcohol(abuse) as an example. Do you have to try them to know they are bad? I mean I get hit by second hand smoke almost daily, it's terrible and I never want to try smoking.
/r/MGTOW18/02/17 04:46 PM
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Thanks for posting. Never can get enough of reminders that AWALT. We're all standing on the shoulders of giants here.
/r/MGTOW18/02/17 04:30 PM
4

Form is emptiness, emptiness is form
/r/MGTOW18/02/17 02:17 AM
1

Says her husband was great but she was no longer attracted to him. History always repeats.
/r/MGTOW17/02/17 05:23 PM
3

And my mum and my mum's mum said that I should find a girl so that someone will take care of me in old age. Hahahaha yeah right
/r/MGTOW17/02/17 01:26 PM
2

You go guy! Focusing on one woman who sucks all your love... does not make you less lonely. Share your love with the world.
/r/MGTOW17/02/17 12:48 PM
3

Women...... take them with a grain of salt. They have no honour. Words are cheap but theirs especially are worth nothing.
/r/MGTOW17/02/17 12:42 PM
3

Of course if a subreddit does not conform to YOUR expectations, the people there are all pansies.
/r/MGTOW16/02/17 04:28 AM
3

My goal has always been inner peace. It's easy to achieve because you can find it in any situation but hard to maintain. Clearly women don't help with that. In my free time, I love to cycle because the feeling of getting to places on your own power is indescribable.
/r/MGTOW16/02/17 04:12 AM
27

Now you're like wtf... why? Soon you'll be like, "lol, as expected" when facing women's bullshit Finally you'll be like "why do I even bother"
/r/MGTOW16/02/17 04:06 AM
2

Agree. Always remember: rubbish in, rubbish out.
/r/MGTOW15/02/17 02:09 AM
2

Fertility rate in my country is 1.20. Doesn't mean MGTOW though. Men can still be trapped in relationships.
/r/MGTOW14/02/17 02:59 AM
1

It's all about probability. Don't ask me to sift through a box of grenades and find the dud.
/r/MGTOW13/02/17 05:04 AM
1

On hindsight, the bipolar disorder was the ultimate sign that you should run. It's really no joke. Good job on dodging that nuke. You should marry your instincts man.
/r/MGTOW13/02/17 05:00 AM
1

If you don't mind, could you share how your marriage was like?
/r/MGTOW13/02/17 01:52 AM
2

Good medicine tastes bitter. Enjoy.
/r/MGTOW12/02/17 11:21 AM
4

Not to mention chances of the right girl staying the right girl is not that high as well.
/r/MGTOW12/02/17 11:13 AM
2

Your post resonates with me very much. When I first saw r/MGTOW, I thought the posts were a bit too extreme and full of hate. But as I start reading, I realise it was a lot of truth. I still find some posts extreme, but freedom of speech is like that. My last ex also very likely had BPD judging by her symptoms. She wasn't able to hide it that well and fortunately her fear of abandonment got to her and made her break up with me. To this day, I'm still amazed that I dodged such a huge bullet. Who …
/r/MGTOW12/02/17 11:11 AM
1

It's true! No women no problems!
/r/MGTOW12/02/17 05:52 AM
20

Exactly. Equality is touted but men take all the risks. Dating, relationships, marriage. All scams.
/r/MGTOW12/02/17 01:37 AM
1

Change the topic.
/r/MGTOW11/02/17 02:06 PM
2

There's no need to assert yourself. What do you hope to achieve by that? Let people hear what they want to hear. Those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter.
/r/MGTOW11/02/17 11:45 AM
2

My sister isn't evil too. In fact she is probably too kind for her own good. But she is definitely AWALT.
/r/MGTOW11/02/17 11:38 AM
1

making a never happy creature happy. unlike a friend, won't even show me basic respect or accountability And the married men keep asking me to touch that. Find a date. Find a girl. Haha fuck that.
/r/MGTOW11/02/17 11:34 AM
5

She'll get you to spend on her.
/r/MGTOW10/02/17 02:24 PM
5

The truth will set you free.
/r/MGTOW10/02/17 04:29 AM
1

Read the Power of Now. You're angry because you're resisting. You might not agree now, but there's no need to resist... The rage comes from you, not from the "problems" you're describing. You can change how you react.
/r/MGTOW09/02/17 04:27 PM
1

Hmm... I still believe in eating properly because it keeps your mind and body sharp. Looks not so much, maybe groom a bit and clean clothes is ok. Other than that, I feel more zen. Just being alive is enough for me. I can generate joy on my own.
/r/MGTOW09/02/17 03:19 PM
2

Same. I enjoy reading these stories. Not because I want to gloat but it just reminds me of how lucky I was to dodge bullets. And the best ones are the real life stories. 5 of us were joking around the table at lunch about how the divorce rate at the table was 60% and the only married guy better watch out because the odds are against him. One was newly divorced (a single mum. I totally saw it coming 2 years ago). I was just laughing out loud inside about how I was so lucky. I was the only one not…
/r/MGTOW08/02/17 03:44 PM
1

When I first swallowed the red pill, I was neither sad or angry. In fact I was relieved. I was like Eureka! It explains so many things that I was vaguely uncomfortable with, like the gynocentricity. I always knew something was off but not exactly what. It's like the scales have fallen from your eyes. The truth will set you free. For me, the goal has always been inner peace. No need to resist the way the world works. Accept the things you cannot change, and change the things you can.
/r/MGTOW08/02/17 03:27 PM
12

Briffault's Law.
/r/MGTOW08/02/17 03:01 PM
6

get married to his girl, after only 5 months of dating. 5 months... We all know how it's going to end. Super insecure, walking on eggshells -- sounds like a case of BPD or something similar. I'm praying hard for your friend lol. Sometimes they just have to learn things the hard way despite all your efforts.
/r/MGTOW08/02/17 10:16 AM
15

I remember reading a paper on how interacting with women can actually make you dumber. Here it is Interacting with women can impair men’s cognitive functioning
/r/MGTOW08/02/17 05:42 AM
1

I can understand why you think that way. First you have to handle being not normal. Because being MGTOW is anything but. You might have to handle all your friends and family telling you to get into the plantation. You will have to believe in yourself strongly. You will have to build yourself up so that you can handle all bullshit. It's not going to be easy. Can you handle it?
/r/MGTOW07/02/17 04:07 PM
4

I'm 28 now. When I was younger, I always found it strange that guys chase girls when there was nothing really to gain from it... Girls as friends also aren't that great too. I wasn't really looking out for AWALT behaviour until recently, and omg it's so true. I can't believe I dodged so many bullets by instinct. Knowledge is power and glad that you realised things early, especially at the age where many fall into the venus flytrap.
/r/MGTOW06/02/17 04:21 PM
1

Girls just aren't interested in me That is a happy problem. That is also the truth for all guys. They are interested in your resources.
/r/MGTOW05/02/17 04:31 PM
8

You dodged a big BPD nuclear missile. Proud of you my brother.
/r/MGTOW05/02/17 04:21 PM
12

In a relationship, who takes up all your time and resources? Isn't that selfish? When you could be sharing it with the WORLD and actually make the world better?
/r/MGTOW05/02/17 01:14 AM
3

All whys can be answered with AWALT. Don't bother... It's a waste of your time
/r/MGTOW04/02/17 11:53 AM
2

Let them wait forever
/r/MGTOW04/02/17 04:39 AM
46

Funny. I thought they also wanted your attention, time, loyalty, equality, honesty, looks, independence, initiative, slavery, humour, good conversation, intelligence, confidence, height, strength, passion, love, confidence, power, property, devotion,
/r/MGTOW04/02/17 04:29 AM
2

Understand all of those fantasies are in your mind and not reality. The most important moment is right now. The past and the future don't exist!!! That might be easier said than done. You can try to do things that make you focus on the present. Run a marathon, go on a long solo journey on a motorbike or bicycle, be grateful for what you have in life. Meditation helped me too. Stay frosty. One step at a time, no need to rush.
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 02:52 PM
2

This guy gets it
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 07:38 AM
2

Some of the things my ex asked: "Will you love me and take care of me forever?" "Will you spend all your money on me?" "Will you help me whenever I need help?" What did she give me? Nothing. Hahahaha It's funny how stupid men can be when they're in love.
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 06:08 AM
3

We are here for you.
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 06:02 AM
2

Seeing things implode on their own is actually more fun than causing it
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 06:00 AM
3

And you get to see others get hit by bullets while you stand there and laugh.
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 05:54 AM
3

At first I was angry. Then I realised that was the way they are. When you accept the things the way they are, you find peace.
/r/MGTOW01/02/17 01:53 PM
2

Yeah. When I see all the ridiculous proposals done by the guys, I just laugh. For 28 years no girls have been able to impress me. Not even during my bluepill time.
/r/MGTOW23/01/17 04:23 PM
2

I don't know man, I find flowers more attractive than women. AM I WEIRD?
/r/MGTOW23/01/17 04:09 PM
3

I don't even need unicorn level. yet some fail to even meet basic HUMAN level
/r/MGTOW23/01/17 03:44 PM
19

Had to play that stupid "My Heart Will Go On" for music lesson in elementary school... The indoctrination starts young.
/r/MGTOW22/01/17 04:25 AM
1

Actually it's just one step for me: have no women around
/r/MGTOW21/01/17 03:49 PM
2

Bullet dodgedddddd
/r/MGTOW21/01/17 03:44 PM
1

Well, I have never really taken them seriously or go out of the way to avoid them. Every promise or commitment that they follow through only makes me pleasantly surprised. Every behaviour consistent with her words makes me happily shocked. Anything else is just AWALT. It doesn't matter what they do. Your reaction is from you. Just laugh about their behaviour.
/r/MGTOW21/01/17 03:41 PM
1

My uncle's wife ran away to her home country and when my uncle went there he got kidnapped and my grandma was extorted for money... by her "friends".
/r/MGTOW19/01/17 02:01 PM
2

" women, fucking women, they can be colder than fucking ice!!!" She is never yours. It is just your turn.
/r/MGTOW19/01/17 01:58 PM
2

They should pay full. After all men take more risks going on dates. EQUALITY
/r/MGTOW19/01/17 01:53 PM
3

It is better to be single than to be with someone who makes you feel alone.
/r/MGTOW19/01/17 01:19 PM
2

I'm not a dad but my dad never taught me anything and my mum only gave me gynocentric advice. I respected my dad when I was young so I definitely would have listened to his advice.
/r/MGTOW19/01/17 05:06 AM
1

Well, the experience does help but I would say stay away from drugs and ignorance is truly bliss.
/r/MGTOW19/01/17 05:01 AM
6

Spreading the love! What kind of stories do you tell them?
/r/MGTOW19/01/17 04:48 AM
2

Learn the difference between being used and being a friend
/r/MGTOW18/01/17 12:37 AM
3

Welcome to REALITY. Morals are taught. Doesn't mean they are right.
/r/MGTOW14/01/17 03:04 PM
2

Mindfulness. Time in the mind is just an illusion. There is nothing else that is more important than the current moment.
/r/MGTOW14/01/17 02:56 PM
1

-Insecure and jealous (and she even admitted it) -Low self-esteem -Feelings of emptiness -Fear of abandonment -Doesn't appreciate nature -Asked if I would spend my money on her (this was only 1 month in the relationship) -Asking for my income very early on (self-explanatory) -Getting cheated on by all of her exes (obviously there is a reason for that) -Owns 50 soft toys and still wants more (this is a sign that she will never be satisfied with life) -Cut herself before (OMG please run ASAP) -Ask…
/r/MGTOW14/01/17 02:50 PM
1

This was the source. https://angelawinter.com/the-science-of-happiness/
/r/MGTOW14/01/17 01:26 AM
1

It's fine to be angry, but the key is to have more positive than negative ones. The tipping point is about 2.9:1. At least what I learned from positive psychology at Coursera.
/r/MGTOW13/01/17 03:18 PM
5

Well, men are the romantic ones. Women aren't.
/r/MGTOW13/01/17 03:02 PM
2

cuz they would run away if you are boring Good.
/r/MGTOW13/01/17 04:09 AM
1

I feel like I am too nice of a person and don’t want to break her heart which could be part of why I am stuck in this situation because looking back on things there were definitely red flags when we first started dating but think that it is time to move on and be happy again. This is why so many guys are trapped. Realise that girls do not love the way men do and look at who really benefits from prolonging the divorce
/r/MGTOW13/01/17 03:07 AM
3

Refer him to this book: Fire Your Wife
/r/MGTOW13/01/17 12:37 AM
1

The psychological violence that women can do is potentially many times scarier than physical violence. Not that their physical violence isn't scary...
/r/MGTOW12/01/17 02:59 PM
2

All women are like drugs
/r/MGTOW12/01/17 02:55 PM
10

I have a box of grenades for you. Choose the one that doesn't explode when you pull the pin.
/r/MGTOW12/01/17 12:11 PM
6

There are better things to do, and you don't need validation from anyone but yourself. Even doing nothing is better than dating. Just my opinion though.
/r/MGTOW12/01/17 12:02 PM
2

The short answer is no. The long answer is no.
/r/MGTOW12/01/17 05:13 AM
1

A woman who isn't a woman wouldn't be a woman
/r/MGTOW10/01/17 12:08 AM
2

Hahaha low self esteem girls usually come with a host of other personality disorders. Good luck with that
/r/MGTOW09/01/17 04:47 AM
1

Sharing my experience. In my country, the society is more conservative so there are actually still a lot of virgins in the late 20s. However, that doesn't make it any better. Because some girls still have emotional baggage from years ago. I've met some girls in their pre-twenties or early twenties and they're too naive or unstable for me. The rest are just so boring. I have a lot of single friends and I feel that life without a girlfriend is so much better. In fact, remove sex from the equation …
/r/MGTOW08/01/17 01:32 PM
6

Wow thank you for this post. Makes so much sense.
/r/MGTOW08/01/17 01:18 PM
1

They are good at pretending to empathize with men though. It's even easier through texting. Just put some lame emoticons. But when you talk face to face, you can tell. They don't really care.
/r/MGTOW08/01/17 10:06 AM
2

This subreddit. Sadly, throughout my life everybody was bluepill. Time to re-condition myself.
/r/MGTOW08/01/17 01:40 AM
4

Waiting for your story bro.
/r/MGTOW06/01/17 05:27 PM
8

What's love? Can I eat it?
/r/MGTOW06/01/17 05:24 PM
5

bad luck with women Gimme a min, I'm going to the jackpots to roll a NAWALT I do agree that we shouldn't give up on some things, but other things are better avoided in the first place. How many men have been burned by "sex" and "companionship" because they didn't give up?
/r/MGTOW05/01/17 05:19 AM
2

Once all the emotions subside, you realise that you dodged a giant bullet. Fucking "love" makes you do stupid things. Never again.
/r/MGTOW05/01/17 04:58 AM
5

Be proud. Not jealous. We men are better than that.
/r/MGTOW04/01/17 12:00 PM
4

It's okay to feel sad, brother. You once believed in something which became a nightmare. As time goes by you'll realise you're much happier than you've ever been.
/r/MGTOW03/01/17 03:24 PM
1

A pretty face, nice tits and ass may have gotten me interested when I was younger Call me different, but I was more into character than looks. At that time I did not know what was an unicorn.
/r/MGTOW02/01/17 03:47 PM
1

On the contrary. Now you need women for... that's right, nothing. Goal achieved.
/r/MGTOW02/01/17 03:20 PM
2

Well, after hearing so many stories about how women lie and the men don't know, and being a recipient of such treatment myself (signs were there but very very hard to detect and even then I only realised on hindsight), I believe Bill was probably in the dark
/r/MGTOW27/12/16 03:56 PM
1

Are drugs worth trying? Even though my ex had many issues and I knew it, I kind of overlooked it because of my "in love" state and was willing to give her a chance. I was very lucky that she broke up with me. I don't know if I'd have broken up with her. No sexual attraction involved btw. It was also about companionship. After the fiasco, I realised she gave me nothing that I couldn't get elsewhere. The real danger is finding that "special woman". How do traps work? They work best when you don't …
/r/MGTOW27/12/16 04:59 AM
1

Get some daylight. Go hike some trail. It'll help you find yourself.
/r/MGTOW25/12/16 05:26 PM
1

AWALT is fact not opinion.
/r/MGTOW25/12/16 05:21 PM
3

Ay, who cares. Not my problem anymore
/r/MGTOW25/12/16 01:23 PM
1

Feelings of admiration, respect, loyalty, unconditional love! She will love you forever!
/r/MGTOW24/12/16 04:33 PM
2

Because they thought they found a NAWALT. Btw... how do you get most men? Look at the percentage of guys who are married? Look at the percentage of young guys who are married?
/r/MGTOW24/12/16 04:27 PM
2

The best things in life are free
/r/MGTOW24/12/16 02:51 AM
12

The real insanity is thinking a girl can make you happy
/r/MGTOW24/12/16 02:48 AM
1

Fuck you right back. Welcome to the club.
/r/MGTOW22/12/16 03:55 PM
9

This book called the Power of Now was useful for me. I think meditation in general will help. Worth a try maybe? Btw, you don't stop thinking about them. But rather you just observe those thoughts. Observe those thoughts and they'll lose their power over you.
/r/MGTOW22/12/16 01:20 AM
41

This is why many MGTOW advocate avoiding women. Usually not because we hate them, but because like drugs, you get hooked. No matter how strong you think you are. You'll slip. One day. Prevention is cure.
/r/MGTOW21/12/16 11:44 AM
4

Well, I have always been wondering why we guys have to chase girls. People would ask me, why didn't you pursue her? If you did she wouldn't have gotten with that bastard. Haha like that's my problem. People would try to matchmake me, asking me to do this and do that for her. I always felt something was wrong. Girls would try to pursue me at the start and then expect me to do the rest. Girls that were obviously interested in me but were "too shy" to pursue me. Of course I did have my share of blu…
/r/MGTOW21/12/16 04:59 AM
6

This gynocentric world has to go
/r/MGTOW21/12/16 12:31 AM
5

Truth or dare Always pick the truth It isn't too hard to bear AWALT is the truth
/r/MGTOW20/12/16 11:02 AM
2

I only ever brought 1 official gf home and my mum said wow you finally found someone you like. After a breakup, I told my mum that I wasn't really interested in relationships. She didn't agree but she accepted it (for now). My dad doesn't really ask. If he does, I will just tell him no I don't need one. My parents are pretty cool people. Told my uncle: "I don't have money". The next time he asks, I'll say "I still don't have money". My grandma is the hardest part. She treats me well so I don't w…
/r/MGTOW20/12/16 05:17 AM
27

Heck, Ill probably consider on leaving MGTOW IF AND ONLy IF I encounter a girl that's aware of her own flaws and makes an effort to work on them Don't even fall for that trap...
/r/MGTOW20/12/16 04:56 AM
30

Best friend i.e. punching bag, emotional tampon
/r/MGTOW19/12/16 03:01 PM
10

The sexual market value graph Anyway. There's no need to win, if you're not playing the dumb game.
/r/MGTOW19/12/16 11:36 AM
1

Second that. That book really did it for me.
/r/MGTOW18/12/16 09:10 AM
1

Sunk cost. Better late than never. Ask some of those guys who got married. "Don’t cry over the past, it’s gone. Don’t stress about the future, it hasn’t arrived. Live in the present and make it beautiful." Self-compassion, self-anything, etc. How to make yourself happy. Cooking.
/r/MGTOW18/12/16 09:04 AM
2

Don't expect your recovery to be linear but you have to believe that you will get over it. Some days you'll feel like you're over it, some days you'll feel like shit. Just hang on. Do things that make you happy.
/r/MGTOW17/12/16 01:23 AM
5

And then they'll ask for grandkids... and then... Well it's your life. We'll be here if anything happens.
/r/MGTOW15/12/16 09:09 AM
10

Nah, pay more attention to what they do. They rarely mean what they say.
/r/MGTOW15/12/16 09:07 AM
2

Actually. Reading this only validates MGTOW
/r/MGTOW15/12/16 05:06 AM
1

28 year old virgin here. Ignorance is bliss. Go invest in other types of relationships, romantic ones have poor returns for the risk.
/r/MGTOW14/12/16 12:03 PM
13

Women deserves someone that are 100% happy and content with Fixed that for her
/r/MGTOW14/12/16 11:53 AM
8

Work like a robot for at least 10 years and see if I can retire. Meanwhile, enjoy nature, video games, doing nothing, doing whatever the heck I want. Sky's the limit. Get well soon and all the best to you!
/r/MGTOW14/12/16 11:48 AM
3

All I ever wanted was to find my "soulmate". I was your typical nice guy and had limited experience with women. I would have been the perfect beta bucks. Is that me?!! Although I read MGTOW a bit during my last LTR, I was pretty much being suckered into a provider role. Lucky she broke up with me if not it'll take longer for me to reach MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW14/12/16 11:42 AM
12

Any game over a girl-child, anytime.
/r/MGTOW14/12/16 11:34 AM
1

Amen. You don't need to touch a fire to know it's hot.
/r/MGTOW11/12/16 05:48 AM
1

The truth is men are more emotional than women. Women just can't handle their emotions.
/r/MGTOW10/12/16 04:36 PM
2

I feel ya. After 11 years of being happily single, met this girl, became bluepill and forgot my MGTOW ways. Ended up getting blindsided and hurt but fortunately it only lasted 1 month. I'm also angry at myself for missing her some. AWALT.
/r/MGTOW10/12/16 03:04 PM
1

I met this good female friend of 11 years after a breakup with someone and we went out for lunch and some romantic movie. She listened to my story and paid so much attention to me that I felt infatuated with her. I hint of a confession the next morning but wanted to meet in person at night. But at night we were both so tired and the feeling just wasn't there anymore. But I still went through with it for sake of completeness and got friendzoned which on hindsight is exactly what I wanted. This gi…
/r/MGTOW09/12/16 04:28 PM
2

would love to hear your story!
/r/MGTOW09/12/16 04:17 PM
18

Happy MGTOW here, standing on the shoulders of giants. :)
/r/MGTOW09/12/16 01:21 AM
2

AWALT.
/r/MGTOW09/12/16 01:18 AM
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