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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Recent Relationship Horror Story of Mine. (fight)		owthathurted	/r/MGTOW2	02/07/21 04:41 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	The Red Pill is great strategy just to for dating. Red Pill is the greatest cope that ever coped. It's great for 45 year old balding men to feel like they're "high value bro" because they're throwing around money at 19 year old women in south east Asia. They will never truly be desired by women, their genetics are low quality and need to be filtered out. Normal people don't need to IMPROOOOVE, and grind, and grind. They just get into a relationship through the natural ebb and flow of life. Red Pill might train you to get into a loveless relation…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 11:45 AM
1	Having casual sex will help men have better relationships Exactly, yeah, humans have insulated themselves from the selection pressures of a natural environment, so the only remaining evolutionary pressure is female sexual selectivity. Ugly / short / disabled / neurodivergent men will be genetically filtered out of existence by this process. Slated for non-reproduction and eventual non-existence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 02:06 PM
5	Having casual sex will help men have better relationships Their genetics	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 01:23 PM
8	Having casual sex will help men have better relationships I wouldn't just take any guy's word for it. Not getting laid is considered very shameful for men, so there's quite an incentive to lie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 01:00 PM
–	what preferences are women allowed to have? Yeah, I'll be straight up, in every relationship I've ever had, when we actually became serious: both of us agreed to not have sex with strangers, not flirt with strangers, and be exclusive. I don't know why this concept is so shocking to you. This the standard for basically every relationship. Not grinding on strangers at a club is like a bare minimum request of a committed partner, just like me not groping women at a club. You're not going to hear me cry that I'm being oppressed, and my commit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 12:33 PM
–	what preferences are women allowed to have? It's crazy, "now that we're in a committed relationship, please don't grind on guys at a club please" "YOU'RE CHANGING ME!!! STOP!!!" You guys are actually psychotic. Like there's something wrong with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:25 AM
–	what preferences are women allowed to have? It's crazy to me that people think the way you act when you're single is totally impossible to change. Typically, when you enter a committed relationship, you stop doing certain things. Why this is such an absurd ask, "please don't get drunk and shake ass in a club around drunk men", I will never understand. The victim complex is just unbelievable. "How dare you ask me not to expose myself around drunk men??? I used to do this all the time!! You're insecure!!!", it's just unreal. Like you're not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:01 AM
–	what preferences are women allowed to have? Ironically, it's men who aren't allowed to have any preferences or standards. Anything, like saying you'd prefer if your girlfriend wasn't in a mini skirt, drunk at a club, is seen as "insecure and controlling". Men are not permitted to have any preferences or standards. You have it completely backwards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 03:13 AM
13	why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women? The comparison between not being 300 pounds and a man being shredded is just pure silliness. Like you're deliberately, intentionally pretending to not understand, I know you're smarter than this in real life. You comprehend my point, I know you do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 10:25 PM
12	why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women? It's not providing ME anything, it's keeping your long term health in check so you don't have a heart attack in 5 years. I guess you could argue you're providing me your life's longevity, if that's such a harsh ask. I don't really want my partner to become a diabetic, high blood pressure, etc. I'm not even saying I'm against them being overweight, I think the majority of American women are. I'm against being OBESE. A man wanting you to take care of your health is not comparable to being with a m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 10:19 PM
14	why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women? I mean, the difference between being ripped or maximizing physique aesthetics and putting in the effort to be a healthy weight, for your OWN long term health, is not that crazy of an ask. I didn't say she needs to be a skinny, ab having girl, just not a weight that makes them 50x more likely to have a stroke. Surely you'd recognize the difference between being 300 pounds and a gym bod, right? These things are not comparable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 10:00 PM
5	why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women? You asked a question. I gave you the accurate answer. Being accepted as you are. You can delve into crazy, false equivalences about burn victims but we're off the topic at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 09:20 PM
16	why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women? You're going to say I'm lying, but this is my genuine answer: Kindness, fun personality, humor. Not being obese. I already know what you'll say, bro, you don't want your girlfriend to be obese, that's so shallow! No, it's not. Obesity is a massive health problem. Going to the gym and lifting regularly for bigger biceps, triceps, abs, the whole 9 yards, is wildly different from basic maintenance to keep yourself at a healthy weight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 09:01 PM
40	why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women? Realistically, if you're genuinely trying to understand why, the accurate explanation is authenticity. Nobody wants to be valued for their job. Nobody wants to be valued for their "financial stability". People don't even want to be accepted for their "gym bod". People want to be accepted, valued as they are. If you have to work out to get a girlfriend, you're not actually being accepted for who you are. You put in an immense amount of effort to fundamentally change yourself to be someone who is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 08:35 PM
1	Why are so many men so opposed to the idea they might need to self improve to get a partner? Realistically, if you're genuinely trying to understand why, the accurate explanation is authenticity. Nobody wants to be valued for their job. Nobody wants to be valued for their "financial stability". People don't even want to be accepted for their "gym bod". People want to be accepted, valued as they are. If you have to work out to get a girlfriend, you're not actually being accepted for who you are. You put in an immense amount of effort to fundamentally change yourself to be someone who is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 08:33 PM
–	Life as a woman in west is so much easier Okay, well obviously being a really attractive man is superior to being a woman who is a burn victim. We're not talking about trading lives with women in the absolute worst case scenarios, it's an average, as a whole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 08:05 PM
–	Life as a woman in west is so much easier If you are not a polar bear, you literally can't ever have an opinion of polar bears.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 06:37 AM
–	Life as a woman in west is so much easier The asymmetry of this analogy is unbelievable. "Would you rather have cancer or be rich?", that's how this comment reads. Yes, ma'am, I'd prefer to be rich. What is the point that's being made? This exchange is so unbelievably lopsided that you cannot actually compare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 06:35 AM
18	Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦‍♂️ Yeah, and you can just tell it costs you respect. Nobody wants to comfort you, nobody really cares, you're just humiliating yourself for zero reason. Extremely high risk, low reward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 12:13 PM
4	Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠 The problem I have with this as a young man is just like... why would I deserve anything? I can just be a complete slob, loser, and I still "deserve" love and connection? Why would I deserve that? What exactly makes me inherently worthy or deserving of anything? It just doesn't compute for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 05:51 PM
2	I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage. Exactly. It's totally hollow. Basically a platitude people automatically blurt out as if it's something insightful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 04:28 PM
21	I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage. The word "confidence" might as well be meaningless at this point in a dating context. It is the most empty, shallow adjective in the "dating market" vocabulary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 03:46 PM
11	MGTOW Fuel Story She's genuinely kind of irritating though, and really doesn't do much for me. She kind of just uses me as a shoulder to cry on and that's it. Either way, pulling away from her just makes her more interested. Either she digs me more or we grow distant... win win, there is nothing to be lost	/r/MGTOW2	01/03/21 07:09 AM
23	MGTOW Fuel Story Definitely true, appreciate the comment	/r/MGTOW2	28/02/21 08:45 PM
30	MGTOW Fuel Story Yeah, I know, I'm beginning to distance myself. She is a very immoral person, but she is fairly attractive and we've had some sexual interactions before. But yeah, she tells me all this stuff, she's definitely not to be trusted. I appreciate your comment.	/r/MGTOW2	28/02/21 08:20 PM