oxfordquestionmark Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Any men here who are attracted to masculine women? Any women here who are attracted to feminine men? Yes or no, and why? I'm very fond of androgynous and gender bending traits in both sexes. People who don't fit the binary seem more interesting to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/16 12:58 AM
8	Q4BP: What is it about TRP that angers/concerns/offends you the MOST? It's all advice that will probably lead to unhappy people at some point. Either they'll be unhappy because they think that all their peers are living in ignorance, because someone sexually assaulted them, because their partner turned out to be nothing like the person they presented themselves to be, because they can't form a loving relationship with their spouse, and so on. Everyone's going to have unhappiness in their lives, there's no reason to make it worse by turning relationships into battl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/16 04:44 PM
4	What is there to debate? I come here to read about how other people think, and to think about my own attitudes to gender and relationship issues. I'd like to imagine that someone might get something out of it when I do post, but I doubt I'll change any minds, so it's mostly an exercise in sharing opinions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/16 11:45 AM
1	Would you still consider a guy "nice" if he is sexually bold and assertive? I think you're confusing being a genuinely nice person with being a "nice guy" (crudely explained here). It's hard to tell which version of "nice" people are referring to sometimes, since "nice guy" can be used in an unsarcastic way too. Someone who's sexually assertive could be a genuinely nice person or an unwelcome "nice guy", depending on whether he has the social skills to spot whether his advances are wanted or not, and whether or not he can accept rejection in a sensible manner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/16 09:24 AM
2	CMV: women are only attracted to one type of man, just of different flavors. Men, on the other hand, are attracted to a wide variety of traits Nope, your concept of what all women like is wrong, as well as your belief that women don't have varied preferences. Some women prefer dominant men, some women prefer submissive men, and some women prefer men who are dominant at some times and submissive at others. (Source.) Matching in looks and socioeconomic status can be more important than bagging a man with money. (Source.) So, it's reasonable to hypothesise that different kinds of women like different kinds of men. Celebrities voted as sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/16 07:26 PM
2	CMV Being harmed by another person's words is a weakness of character Without any further context to the question, I'd say that having a negative emotional response to a negative social situation is probably a sign of being mentally healthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/16 12:16 AM
12	If these women are so proud to show their nipples, why aren't they proud to show their faces? Wouldn't it be sexual assault if you suddenly groped a man's chest? If it isn't, it should be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/16 12:29 AM
1	Attractive or average looking guys with no standards A+ trolling, you actually had me there. In case you're not trolling, you've lost me there (you've contradicted yourself at least twice), and I think you need to worry less about what "Chads" do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/16 12:25 AM
11	If these women are so proud to show their nipples, why aren't they proud to show their faces? Not everyone has the luxury of living off of mummy and daddy until they find a job that suits their political views. You aren't likely to find many workplaces that have friendly attitudes to public female nudity. This is why movements like this exist in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/16 11:55 PM
3	Attractive or average looking guys with no standards Your standards aren't everyone else's standards. What you think is ugly is attractive to someone else. Most people also realise that people with mental illnesses and personality disorders can be functional, pleasant to be around, and capable of having satisfactory relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/16 11:52 PM
10	If these women are so proud to show their nipples, why aren't they proud to show their faces? Hasn't it already been explained? It doesn't matter whether they're ashamed or not. They're remaining anonymous because they've got to hold down jobs and earn money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/16 11:47 PM
1	Q4BP: Why is the goal of what you claim is a misogyny sub changing the lives of the users to be based around pleasing women? To add to every other Blue Pill comment, the Red Pill is not based around pleasing women. It's based around giving a few jollies to a certain sort of woman, for the sole purpose of making the guy doing it feel good. This would be fine, if it didn't also attempt to force everyone to believe that only one sort of woman exists, only one sort of man appeals to her, and that anyone who doesn't fit that pattern is inferior and doomed to unhappiness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/16 02:45 AM
1	Q4BP Aside from illegality, why shouldn't men be dominant? Because some don't want to be. Because some women aren't into dominant men. Personal choice and people's right to do whatever the hell they want in a consensual adult relationship, basically. No-one's arguing that men can't ever be dominant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/16 02:36 AM
1	CMV: there isn't someone for everyone, and for some men now matter how hard they try, will never experience relationships or sex (unless via an escort) So you think that being obese is the same as being disfigured, and that being poor or unemployed is the same as being a criminal? Isn't it more likely that I just listed some things that are generally considered to make someone less than perfect?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/16 08:48 AM
0	CMV: there isn't someone for everyone, and for some men now matter how hard they try, will never experience relationships or sex (unless via an escort) What? I acknowledged that "incel culture" traits still won't make it entirely impossible to get a partner. Just that they're one (of many things) that might make it harder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/16 04:06 AM
4	CMV: there isn't someone for everyone, and for some men now matter how hard they try, will never experience relationships or sex (unless via an escort) There's no such thing as someone who's completely unappealing to every single human on the planet. Men with facial disfigurements find partners. Severely obese men find partners. Poor men, unemployed men, criminal men, etc. find partners. There's no trait that magically makes someone doomed to be celibate forever. However, there are some traits that people who call themselves "incels" share that seem to be off-putting to many people. It's not going to make it completely impossible for them to fi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/16 02:46 AM
1	How does your physical appearance, race, or gender influence how you traverse public spaces? Average height, average weight white transgender man living in England. I've always dressed in a more masculine fashion even when I lived as a woman, and although I don't think I'm unattractive, I've obviously never been a feminine beauty either. Probably because of that, I've never been catcalled and never felt anxious in public. I quite regularly walk alone at night, and it's never been a problem. I'm aware that I'm lucky. I don't pass as male 100% of the time yet (more like 70%), but I haven'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/16 09:19 PM
1	Q4All: Is the physical SMV counterpart to a skinn/slightly skinny fat early 20s dude an equally skinny fat girl or an overweight/obese one? No. I said that the concept of a "Sexual Market Value", a rating or judgement that can determine an individual's success in acquiring sexual partners, is meaningless because it's both variable and personal. Using currency as an analogy, a currency could be called meaningless if the value of a particular coin could be £5 to one person and £500 to another. If people insist on using the term, it should at least be changed to "Sexual Markets Values", to reflect the fact that there's a lot of differe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/16 11:06 PM
0	Q4All: Is the physical SMV counterpart to a skinn/slightly skinny fat early 20s dude an equally skinny fat girl or an overweight/obese one? A quick look at the site's stats on Alexa confirms pretty much what I expected. You're correct that only 30% of the traffic is from the US, but it's primarily from countries with a similar culture and media. Ideas of beauty are affected by culture. Classical Greece and Rome had similar standards of beauty to much of the modern Westernised world, but a few things were different. The preference for tiny penises, for example, or the fashionable female unibrow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/16 10:26 PM
0	Q4All: Is the physical SMV counterpart to a skinn/slightly skinny fat early 20s dude an equally skinny fat girl or an overweight/obese one? That means that the people who visit that particular website (making a random guess here, they'd be aged 18-30, English-speaking, mainly white American people, who put a high priority on looks) have a shared preference. A different demographic will have different preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/16 08:54 PM
2	Q4All: Is the physical SMV counterpart to a skinn/slightly skinny fat early 20s dude an equally skinny fat girl or an overweight/obese one? This sort of thing is why I think that SMV is such a variable and personal concept that it's essentially meaningless. Whether the two people descibed are equally fuckable/unfuckable depends on the individual making the judgement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/16 07:00 PM
1	BP Women: Are you thinking about the possibilities of hitting the wall in your mid to late 30s? For those who are there, have you found that the concept of the wall exists? I'm 30, and I haven't noticed any changes in how I'm treated. I'm probably not an ideal subject for two reasons, though - relationships are low priority for me, and I apparently look a lot younger than I am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/15 06:31 PM
1	Have you ever felt threatened or intimidated by a more attractive member of the same gender as you? If so how did you deal with it? I don't think I'm particularly attractive myself, but I've never felt intimidated just because someone's more attractive than me. I don't see any reason to feel intimidated, if someone thinks less of me because I'm not the best looking person in the room, they're not the kind of person I care about impressing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/15 06:27 PM