oxym0r0n Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	How do you handle a girl who says she's not ready yet after a breakup?		oxym0r0n	/r/seduction	23/08/14 08:10 PM

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8	Conversations becoming dull and repetitive with GF. What to do? If you personally feel like you’re with someone who has a more interesting life than you do, you need to put in the work to make your life more interesting. Feeling like you have nothing new to talk about is a sign that you aren’t bettering yourself. Even more importantly, it’s a sign that you aren’t living the best life you can. You only get one chance at life, so make it worth living. If you follow that philosophy, you will always have something to talk about. Read more, learn to skydive, join…	/r/seduction	27/09/18 02:56 AM
1	How do I go from good friend to next boyfriend? Unfortunately, you don't ever get to the level of good friend to begin with.	/r/seduction	07/12/14 08:24 AM
2	How do you handle a girl who says she's not ready yet after a breakup? Obviously I'm not focused solely on this chick, but is there something I could have done differently then? You're basically saying that I shouldn't even try?	/r/seduction	23/08/14 08:35 PM
2	How do you show interest in a girl you've just met without getting thrown into her pile of male worshippers? The biggest thing is not to wait on her. Don't do her favors. Treat her like you would a girl you weren't interested in. Meaning be a polite decent person, enjoy conversation with her, and be engaged. Just don't worship her. Don't compliment her unless she does something that deserves it. If you're worried about this happening, then a good strategy is to slightly disqualify yourself. Hint at the fact that you probably wouldn't be interested in her. BUT DO IT WITHOUT OFFENDING HER. This is not a …	/r/seduction	13/12/12 09:13 PM
1	Winter break, and I am going to a party where I only know 2 people. Some advice? It's so easy to approach people at a private party opposed to in public because people feel more comfortable there. Since the person who is hosting the party, or a mutual friend has invited you, you are automatically validated as a normal, non-creeper, and probably pretty cool person.	/r/seduction	06/12/12 05:37 PM
13	[FR] Successful Cold Approach in Class and Why You Should Read Field Reports I wish I could give this comment more upvotes. It explains perfectly what the HB scale means. It's not about attractiveness, it's about how much value you perceive in that person.	/r/seduction	06/12/12 05:23 PM
1	[FR] First time meeting, almost morning f-close How did she deny you for the first kiss, and how do you recover from that? I seem to have trouble trying again if a girl declines the first attempt. I don't want to seem pushy?	/r/seduction	03/12/12 05:37 PM
3	Tips for getting past age / younger looks with older chicks When she called you a high school kid I might have agreed and amplified. "Yeah, I got held back a few times. It's been so hard to find a date for prom the last few years!" Then the next time she mentioned that you were too young, you could either have directly asked her, "Then why are you here with me?" When she said, just as friends, I would have replied, "I don't buy that for a second. I'm used to cougars being more direct with me." Another option: Her: "You're too young for me." You: "Don't w…	/r/seduction	25/11/12 02:07 AM
2	Having difficulties approaching pairs You open the conversation on the one you aren't interested in, don't even pay too much attention to the girl you want at first. Then after a minute or so, when it's time to do the formal introduction you get both of their names. Make it seem like you went up to talk to her friend, not her at all, and once you had decided you were going to continue to talk to her and not walk away, you introduce yourself to the one you're interested in. Like said before, this makes the hot one feel like she needs…	/r/seduction	25/11/12 01:03 AM
4	Tips for getting past age / younger looks with older chicks I don't see why she would have agreed to go out for coffee with you if she wasn't at least slightly interested. Her saying that was a shit test in my opinion. She probably wasn't looking for a relationship with a 21 year old student, but if she went for coffee with you, she is probably down for at least a hook up. Unless you made it obvious that you were going as friends to get some coffee. You should have made it obvious that you weren't interested in a relationship with her either, but maybe j…	/r/seduction	25/11/12 12:57 AM
4	-Redsky's Day-Game Tut- You're coming off like a huge dick bud. Not sure if you realize it. You basically are saying that girls are only good for sex and hook ups. If a girl won't sleep with you by date 2 you stop talking to her? Seduction isn't about using women as objects, it's about gaining the ability to convince girls to give you a chance and and value to each other's lives.	/r/seduction	23/11/12 05:38 PM