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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	If self-harm is almost universally considered to be mentally unhealthy, why doesn’t this also apply to sexual masochism? Is it less unhealthy simply because somebody else is doing it? Well, if you've been to a number of psychiatrists and they're all advising you against engaging in BDSM or sexual masochism, then I'd say that's more indicative of something they're seeing in you than it is of their views on BDSM more broadly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/20 10:08 AM
1	If self-harm is almost universally considered to be mentally unhealthy, why doesn’t this also apply to sexual masochism? Is it less unhealthy simply because somebody else is doing it? It is certainly not everyone's cuppa tea, that's for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/20 10:04 AM
2	If self-harm is almost universally considered to be mentally unhealthy, why doesn’t this also apply to sexual masochism? Is it less unhealthy simply because somebody else is doing it? I had a brilliant childhood, and I have an amazing family and great friends - I am surrounded by people with whom I share mutual respect and love. I'm happy and balanced, and I do well in my life. Hurt and harm are not the same thing. I love the intimacy and excitement that comes with planning out a scene with someone I care for and trust. I enjoy negotiating, discussing limits, thinking, listening....and then absoultely going for it. I like the endorphins that come with pain, and I like the pla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/20 09:45 AM
7	If self-harm is almost universally considered to be mentally unhealthy, why doesn’t this also apply to sexual masochism? Is it less unhealthy simply because somebody else is doing it? Sure, plenty of thrill seekers have such backgrounds. People who are into extreme sports aren't a monolith, and neither are people who are into BDSM. BDSM is as healthy or unhealthy as the individual people who are practicing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/20 09:24 AM
1	Men overestimate how much women care about male approval I'd be hurt that my bf - instead of putting this dipshit in his place - chose to tell me about it and continue the friendship. I can't imagine how upset I'd then feel if I chose to tolerate this sort of disrespect from someone who is supposed to have my back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/20 04:57 AM

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