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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-1	Unpopular opinion - A relationship lasts longer when the girl is more obsessed with the guy than the other way round (which is the popular opinion( Wrong, IMO Maybe the answers and consensus here reflect somewhat of a fantasy most men haven't experienced, crave for (understandably), and believe would be so special that it would cause relationship longevity - that it's the rare, missing ingredient, the culturally lost puzzle piece, the main thing required but lacking. I say I disagree because I've talked with too many guys that have said this same common theme after having been in a position where (1) girls have been going after them and (2)…	/r/seduction	22/10/22 11:43 PM
4	Blind Spots Well shit, there you go, that's interesting. I knew someone in a similar boat to you. He was looking for a real connection with someone, but in his case, didn't necessarily know it existed, so he was playing the numbers game so that (as you said) he would at least get some casual sex (but unlike you, not so ethically-minded. Which is why I applaud you- it seems almost common now for guys to start semi-hating women and treating them unethically when they have been through trauma with them). So he…	/r/seduction	01/10/22 03:18 AM
19	Blind Spots Sounds off. Ever considered spending a couple weeks travelling to use the same approach in another area, just to gauge the difference/lack of? Could be insightful if you become truly stuck where you're at. You sound like a good dude, I hope you figure it out soon.	/r/seduction	01/10/22 03:08 AM
1	I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love me Take these alongside all the other comments which touch on totally different aspects. A healthy way to look at seduction is like a bird dance. You lay out all your cards out on the table (seduction demonstrates your highest capacity for determination, wit, energy, motivation, humour, quick thinking, industriousness, etc.). The person is reeled in with this, but you don't have to keep it up forever. You slowly let the mask slip (both of you) and continously recalibrate and decide if you are still…	/r/seduction	25/05/22 06:05 AM
2	I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love me Someone mentioned CBT, let me also recommend 'Internal Family Systems' therapy. If you want the Ebook on this just reply to this/messagee me and i'll email it to you	/r/seduction	25/05/22 05:54 AM
6	I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love me Someone mentioned CBT, let me also recommend 'Internal Family Systems' therapy. If you want the Ebook on this just reply to this/messagee me and i'll email it to you	/r/seduction	25/05/22 05:54 AM

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