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Clubs are useless for picking up. You can't talk, you can't see, you can't hear. How the hell do you know if you even find the person attractive? Pointless. You'll genuinely have a better chance of picking up in the fruit section of your local supermarket. Bars are different though. At least there you can have a conversation.
/r/seduction26/02/17 09:01 AM
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But if a deer could talk, listening to its view on hunting would definitely teach you something.
/r/seduction24/02/17 12:03 PM
0

Meh, it's largely true for girls in their 20s. Most people go through huge change in their teenage years, and their mind literally hasn't caught up to their body by their 20s. A lot of girls honestly don't know how hot they have become. Hot girls in their 30s though, they know. They fucking know.
/r/seduction22/02/17 12:38 PM
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I have been incredibly successful in pick up without ever relying on dance. That's why it's not mentioned here. Because it's unnecessary. If you want to use it to help you, go ahead.
/r/seduction18/02/17 06:09 AM
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I just mean that it isn't a bad thing to talking about stuff that's true
/r/seduction14/02/17 09:47 PM
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Do you honestly never see women anywhere?
/r/seduction12/02/17 01:52 AM
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Yeah but hitting on women at the gym is lame.
/r/seduction06/02/17 04:44 AM
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I'm in my 30s and have somehow become a million tonnes more attractive to women in their 20s than I ever was in my 20s. It's true. I'm not a red piller weirdo, but it's completely route than men increase in sexual value in their 30s.
/r/seduction05/02/17 08:18 PM
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Yes you are
/r/seduction05/02/17 08:17 PM
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"I don't want anything serious" It's that easy
/r/seduction29/01/17 04:27 AM
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Yep, women are not interested in guys' passion for playing computer games or watching sports. You need to choose something you can share with her. You can't share those things.
/r/seduction25/01/17 09:33 AM
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By doing literally anything you like, but from a pick up stand point, things to do with self improvement or acquiring new skills will be most helpful (which are probably the best things to do for yourself anyway). For example: take a pottery course. Yep, fucking pottery. Now guess what? You know how to make clay pots and bowls and shit. Enjoy it. Get passionate about it: all the different styles and glazes and shit. Then share that passion with girls. It's not the pottery skills that will impres…
/r/seduction25/01/17 02:39 AM
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Step one: have a life. Step two: share that life with girls.
/r/seduction25/01/17 12:33 AM
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I agree. I'd start a new sub, but I don't have the time or energy.
/r/seduction23/01/17 09:00 PM
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Personal log, day 32: We are yet to reach the end of OP's post. We lost some good men on this expedition, and we owe it to them to continue as best we can . Our food ran out yesterday, and our morale ran out long before that. I don't think my crew will be able to make it, but we'll try damn it!
/r/seduction23/01/17 10:23 AM
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How about all these "I kissed a girl today!" posts? Fucking ridiculous.
/r/seduction23/01/17 05:08 AM
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Club pick up is a waste of time. You can't talk. You can't see each other properly. Everyone is wasted. Bars aren't too bad, but clubs are really shit. Most girls in clubs don't want to be picked up anyway.
/r/seduction23/01/17 01:47 AM
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Trying to pick up in clubs is stupid and pointless. Day game all the way.
/r/seduction23/01/17 12:05 AM
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How old are you guys?
/r/seduction22/01/17 11:54 PM
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So you swing between getting no sex and getting no sex?
/r/seduction19/01/17 02:28 PM
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What do you like to talk about?
/r/seduction19/01/17 01:27 PM
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She is thinking that she doesn't want to fuck you, but she still likes you as a person. The real question is "why the fuck didn't you make a move early on?"
/r/seduction17/01/17 09:19 PM
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Still useful information though
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:57 AM
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Vegetarian when she's adjust attracted to him from the start, but it's bad timing or isn't practical for her to hook up with him for a while.
/r/seduction14/01/17 02:08 AM
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Um, you constantly hear stories of guys who are persistent and fail. Ever heard cringe worthy tales of guys bitching about "the friendzone" and feeling sorry for themselves?
/r/seduction14/01/17 02:07 AM
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Talk to girls in real life and ask them to do stuff with you.
/r/seduction13/01/17 10:10 AM
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As much as people here hate to hear it and strive to misunderstand it, the best advice really is "be yourself".
/r/seduction13/01/17 02:04 AM
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You don't have much sex, do you?
/r/seduction06/01/17 12:25 PM
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I love being alone, so I think that's better. I have standards, man. I'm not going to endure something I don't like for no reason.
/r/seduction02/01/17 12:07 AM
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That very comment shows you are attached to a certain outcome. It is the attachment that is holding you back
/r/seduction31/12/16 02:18 PM
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You need to be doing it without attachment to any particular outcome. You also need to enjoy the process. It's about the journey, not just the destination.
/r/seduction30/12/16 10:27 AM
1

Well don't do that either
/r/seduction30/12/16 03:11 AM
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Honest answer: by having lots of sex and creating a situation where lots of girls want me.
/r/seduction30/12/16 01:15 AM
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Long game
/r/seduction30/12/16 01:10 AM
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Sounds like she's already onto you. You just need to make sure not to fuck it up. Don't act nervous. If you feel like you are doing or saying something stupid, just stop. There's no harm in shutting the fuck up.
/r/seduction29/12/16 12:27 AM
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Create abundance mentality and these queries disappear
/r/seduction29/12/16 12:24 AM
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Because of these wall of text, sales pitch type posts. They are getting way to numerous. Also the sheer number of "I kissed a girl today!" noob posts. I do not care if you kissed a girl. Everything here is either for complete beginners, guys complaining about being unsuccessful, or is trying to sell you something. I am not interested in any of that.
/r/seduction28/12/16 03:07 AM
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Yeah I think I'm done with this sub
/r/seduction28/12/16 02:16 AM
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She's not "fucking around behind your back", because you guys aren't even fucking together. Remember these things: -she's allowed to fuck other guys if she wants. -she's allowed to feel tired if she wants. -she didn't have to reply to all of your messages as soon as she reads them. Seriously, chill out dude.
/r/seduction24/12/16 02:56 PM
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Ask them why they care about you so much.
/r/seduction21/12/16 12:13 PM
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But it's not ghosting. It's just moving on. Ghosting would be getting a question from her in a text and never replying.
/r/seduction17/12/16 11:27 AM
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This just goes to show that women think they are being a lot more obvious than they actually are.
/r/seduction17/12/16 10:23 AM
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Yeah quit. There's no point in doing something you don't enjoy if it isn't productive.
/r/seduction17/12/16 08:57 AM
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Yep. It's not magic, it's more about learning how to not fuck it up.
/r/seduction17/12/16 08:49 AM
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You are over thinking it. People really do have conflicting schedules sometimes. If she's keen, she'll make it work.
/r/seduction17/12/16 08:48 AM
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Generally , if women are interested in you, instead of flatly said "no", they will offer to do something else later. She didn't do that.
/r/seduction16/12/16 01:51 PM
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Your responses to our comments is what made me realise you won't make it. No one gets ahead by feeling sorry for themselves.
/r/seduction16/12/16 01:37 PM
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I'll give them to you in no particular order: -have fun. -be interesting. -be genuinely interested in them -communicate your desires effectively. -establish attraction then escalate. -be good at sex. -be prepared to give up on a girl and move on: sometimes there's nothing you can do. -achieve outcome independence. -be brave. -have stuff going on in your life besides girls. Probably heaps more, but that's a good start.
/r/seduction16/12/16 07:47 AM
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But people beat others whom they think are better than them all the time. And people are beaten by others whom they look down upon.
/r/seduction14/12/16 01:09 PM
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I tried reading it, got bored, stopped about a quarter way through. It's also full of shit.
/r/seduction14/12/16 08:11 AM
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Well that's clearly bullshit. Otherwise we'd never make any progress in anything.
/r/seduction14/12/16 07:56 AM
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I'm not looking for advice . I'm giving a tip to OP. And either way, your advice is flawed
/r/seduction11/12/16 09:05 AM
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She wants to see a reason to hook up with you. The age is only a superficial barrier.
/r/seduction11/12/16 07:30 AM
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Women who aren't interested wouldn't bother even responding. If a woman says "you're too young" , what she really means is "give me a reason".
/r/seduction11/12/16 05:23 AM
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"Are you sure?"
/r/seduction11/12/16 05:21 AM
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Lol, no. Good way to get a drink in the face though.
/r/seduction11/12/16 05:21 AM
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No
/r/seduction11/12/16 05:21 AM
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Firstly, if that's really his sister this is fucking weird. Secondly, nobody needs to be told this shit. "If she sits near you and touches you while on a date it means she likes you". Wow. Someone call Sherlock and tell him Einstein cracked the Da Vinci code.
/r/seduction11/12/16 05:17 AM
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It's also that they have more practice at being hit on. They know how to respond in kind, etc.
/r/seduction08/12/16 03:40 AM
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Yep. After a while it all just becomes a blur of girls, and you can't really remember who you did what with. It also kind of sucks, nevertheless Amartya being "on your game" trains you to always be in the look out- even if you aren't actually looking. It can prevent you having close relationships for sure.
/r/seduction08/12/16 03:28 AM
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I know what you mean. Most guys here are desperate teenagers, and they won't get it. I'm 35 and a total player; believe me, I get it. You are over the superficiality of random sex. One solution is to not sleep with girls until you really get to know them. Another method is to straight up tell them you're looking for something serious. For me the hardest thing has been "turning off" the seduction tactics and just having a good old fashioned conversation. Sorry I haven't got time to write a bigger…
/r/seduction07/12/16 08:34 PM
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Oh right, one of those 18 year old "experts" on sex.
/r/seduction07/12/16 11:49 AM
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Girls call you dudebro names when they try to be friends. It's the equivalent of slipping "my boyfriend'' into the conversation, but works if they don't have a boyfriend. They think it will show guys they are only interested in being friends, but of course no one told the guys this.
/r/seduction05/12/16 09:05 PM
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Shit post
/r/seduction05/12/16 08:55 PM
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Same as extroverts: you need to present your best self, and be interesting. Not all girls will go for you, and that's fine.
/r/seduction05/12/16 08:40 PM
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Someone could easily mistake an interaction to be sexually tense while the other person has no interest at all. For example, the girl doesn't like the guy and is trying to create distance, but the guy thinks she likes him but is playing hard to get. It happens a LOT. OP is asking how to tell the difference. OP, I'd say you can tell by the lack of returned flirting, indicators of interest, etc. If she always brings the conversation back to "family friendly, workplace appropriate" topics, or if sh…
/r/seduction05/12/16 08:24 PM
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Strike while the iron is hot. Besides, if you don't ask you'll never know. If she declines, at least you'll know you gave it a good honest go, and you can put your thoughts to rest.
/r/seduction04/12/16 09:15 PM
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You need to have more going on in your life than just pick up.
/r/seduction02/12/16 01:11 PM
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You remembered facts but learnt nothing. Seduction isn't something you can learn from a book like mathematics or spelling. It's not a computer that gives a certain outcome based on your input. Seduction is a learning journey through life. It is different for everyone. You can't expect to succeed by doing what someone does. You need to find your own path. It is a process of self-exploration and reflection. You learn about girls by learning about yourself. It is about finding your place and growin…
/r/seduction02/12/16 10:20 AM
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Focus on other shit you have going on in your life. If you don't have other shit to focus on, get some
/r/seduction01/12/16 04:34 AM
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.
/r/seduction30/11/16 01:20 PM
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/r/seduction30/11/16 11:57 AM
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/r/seduction30/11/16 07:24 AM
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/r/seduction29/11/16 04:44 AM
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If you portray high value behaviour, the girls will compete for your attention. You can then "incidentally" hit on any number of them. Get their names so you can Facebook them later, but after a few hours you should focus your efforts for the rest of the night on the girl who is most open to you.
/r/seduction27/11/16 03:40 AM
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He's blind, not stupid.
/r/seduction24/11/16 10:43 PM
1

I would say that because touch is more common with blind people, it would be harder to turn this into seductive touch.
/r/seduction24/11/16 10:43 PM
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Taking some time out of the game can help you gain new perspective
/r/seduction23/11/16 01:14 PM
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It could be that she has very genuine and understandable reasons for not turning up. But do you really want to keep putting yourself through this?
/r/seduction23/11/16 12:56 PM
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Step one: breathe air.
/r/seduction23/11/16 11:17 AM
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And them completely dismissing my helpful advice isn't going to help them either
/r/seduction19/11/16 11:20 PM
1

I take it you don't frequent this sub very often. At least half the posts are self promotion for books or YouTube channels.
/r/seduction14/11/16 01:59 AM
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Yeah for sure. That's why it's important to not let it consume you: otherwise you'll continually judge yourself and find things wrong with you/your approach, etc.
/r/seduction11/11/16 10:30 PM
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Yes feel free to cry or shout out anything. Emotions aren't wrong. As for your situation, I can see what's going on: You are so overly attached to the idea of improving that it is blocking you from improving. Sounds silly, but it's true. You have over thought things and are no longer "being yourself", or being natural or true to yourself. You are looking outside yourself for answers, when the answers are actually within you. You need to forget about all of this, and just go out there and enjoy y…
/r/seduction11/11/16 12:51 PM
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Terrible advice. If a woman has shown you she isn't worth your time, why would you try to explain or justify yourself to her? That's just you giving in to her power dynamic, essentially making you her bitch. If a woman is this rude to you, laugh about it to yourself and move on. You don't need to lower your self-value for that shit.
/r/seduction05/11/16 11:38 PM
1

As a guy who is incredibly successful at pick up, I approve of this post. There is SO MUCH bullshit on this sub, but this post has nothing but truth in it.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:49 AM
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Actually, I agree (somewhat). This sub has descended into endless reiterations of catchphrases and unhelpful statements. These sound like they are just regurgitated by people who have no idea what they are talking about but thought it sounded good. The answer isn't to "not care about the outcome". Obviously we care about the outcome. The answer is to not place your entire self worth on the outcome. You need to go ahead and approach women, but don't be attached to the outcome, whatever it may be.…
/r/seduction02/11/16 11:22 AM
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Actually, he could have done plenty. Besides that , I largely agree with your post
/r/seduction01/11/16 06:07 AM
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I like the way you think. Good to finally find someone in this sub who knows what they are talking about
/r/seduction01/11/16 02:18 AM
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Yep. Of course they aren't going to come straight out and say it directly. Girls need the security of hiding behind plausible deniability. Other than OP's own actions, there was nothing about this situation that stopped him from escalating. Even if it turned out they weren't into a threesome, he could have played it off as cheeky/boisterous behaviour - which would have helped him show high value and confidence to the original girl. OP fucked up
/r/seduction01/11/16 01:07 AM
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Simple. You start sleeping with someone and explicitly state that you don't want a relationship. Be good at sex so that they want more. You then make sure you don't do "couply" stuff with them, but at the same time still stay friends. You have to be respectful, but don't escalate beyond casual sex.
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:31 PM
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She knew exactly what she was doing.
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:22 PM
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I find myself swimming in pussy because I work hard on increasing my attractiveness and interest, and have learnt what women want and apply this philosophy to actions I make. If you don't do the same, and then blame other people for your own shortcomings, you're a beta niceguy neckbeard.
/r/MGTOW29/10/16 09:35 AM
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I get it every day if I want. Sometimes I forgo it because I'm busy though
/r/MGTOW28/10/16 10:34 PM
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imagine how much you'd get laid if you didn't talk about other girls.
/r/seduction28/10/16 10:31 PM
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By meeting women and directing the nature of our interaction towards sex
/r/MGTOW28/10/16 10:27 PM
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Um, you haven't slept with many "random bitches", have you?
/r/MGTOW28/10/16 10:26 PM
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Yeah, I've never gone to one because it's been much more cost effective, logical, and easy to just pick up chicks. Example: which is cheaper? literally paying money for sex with a stranger, or sleeping with a fuck buddy for free?
/r/MGTOW28/10/16 10:25 PM
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I don't get myself into these situations. I have standards.
/r/seduction28/10/16 12:15 PM
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No. Do not talk about other dates or other girls while you are on a date. Are you fucking daft?
/r/seduction28/10/16 11:59 AM
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There
/r/seduction25/10/16 04:53 AM
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Your ignorant Your Again, how about giving it a try before dismissing it?
/r/seduction25/10/16 02:47 AM
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Ok then, keep feeling sorry for yourself, I don't care. You're going to either keep making excuses or stop making excuses
/r/seduction24/10/16 10:37 PM
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How about you put the advice into practice at least once or twice before you complain about it?
/r/seduction24/10/16 10:25 PM
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It's a cycle. That means it breaks at any point in the cycle. 1- Get out there. 1- Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
/r/seduction24/10/16 12:07 PM
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You need to relax and enjoy the process for its own sake. Of course the sex is the cherry, but the rest of the cake is good too. Have fun and enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction23/10/16 10:45 AM
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I guess it's random in the sense of unexpectedly talking to a stranger, but not random in the sense of being, well, random. But yeah, you get what I'm saying. Not every girl is open to being approached. Save your energy by being selective.
/r/seduction21/10/16 09:00 PM
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I don't think you understand. I'm not saying your confidence should be tied to another person. I'm saying that there's no point in doing things that only serve to lower your confidence - such as the case with OP. What I'm saying is that randomly approaching women haphazardly, without any consideration to their situation is not going to give you a good basis in pick up, nor make you successful. Rejection happens, and yes you have to deal with it, but there is zero point in putting yourself into a…
/r/seduction21/10/16 09:42 AM
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I have no problem in not giving a fuck, and am largely just in this sub to give advice, but thanks.
/r/seduction19/10/16 08:57 PM
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If you can think of a step to take before this, let me know.
/r/seduction19/10/16 10:59 AM
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The first step to not giving a fuck is to not give a fuck. Seriously, there's no easier way to break it down. You simply need to stop investing so much in getting validation from other people. Learn to satisfy yourself.
/r/seduction19/10/16 05:26 AM
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Engage in pick up because it's fun. If you aren't having fun, don't bother. You aren't forced to do this.
/r/seduction14/10/16 10:18 PM
1

Thank you oh brave knight for protecting the fair maidens of this world with your keyboard and ultra high morals
/r/seduction14/10/16 12:59 PM
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Nope. Girls only mention their "boyfriends'' if they're not interested, or if they just want to be friends with you. Girls who are looking to cheat don't mention their boyfriend till later.
/r/seduction14/10/16 12:32 PM
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People are being critical, but this is actually really good advice.
/r/seduction14/10/16 09:40 AM
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ITT: OP gets rekt
/r/seduction13/10/16 12:06 PM
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Or , you know, what if she's your girlfriend, as mentioned in the OP title.
/r/seduction13/10/16 01:03 AM
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Are you saying all these things should be avoided? Because some of these are definitely good things to do. In fact, the whole thing is cringe central.
/r/seduction12/10/16 11:46 PM
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Happens all the time, and isn't a problem whatsoever. You introduce yourself to the boyfriend, tell them that you hope they have a good night, say "see you later, nice meeting you" to the girl, and leave. Easy.
/r/seduction12/10/16 10:59 PM
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/r/seduction08/10/16 11:46 PM
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You have the subtly of a sledge hammer and clearly have limited experience with girls.
/r/seduction05/10/16 09:11 PM
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You don't think that it could possibly be a way to create a fun sexual vibe upon meeting a girl on the street in the middle of the day? Nope, and I'll tell you why. If she's super hot, she'll have heard it a million times before. Now you've made yourself look like every other douche bag. No originality, no interest. If she's moderately hot, she'll also have heard it before. Believe it or not, but women want to be valued for more than just looks. They want a level of excitement, not just some dud…
/r/seduction04/10/16 10:09 PM
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Terrible advice. You never tell someone you think they are hot as a means of seducing them.
/r/seduction04/10/16 12:48 PM
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You don't understand women.
/r/seduction30/09/16 11:21 PM
1

Do you think 1 day is a long time? OK.
/r/seduction30/09/16 11:20 PM
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She lost interest. It's not confusing. You just have to remember that not everyone feels the same way you do.
/r/seduction30/09/16 02:02 PM
5

Talk to more women, even if not to hit on them.
/r/seduction29/09/16 01:59 AM
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If you're like me and spend years doing pick up, you'll get good at it. That means you'll fuck lots of women, and your success will stop you from wanting to settle down. When you do finally meet someone who completely blows you away, or even if you simply get bored of constantly dating and want something more substantial or special, something a bit more stable, you'll probably want a serious girlfriend. Girlfriends hate it when you fuck other girls. Therefore, the pick up lifestyle you've invest…
/r/seduction25/09/16 09:56 PM
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Yeah I like talking to women about it as well, telling them how it works and why they find me attractive, etc. What I mean is it's not a hobby you can continue to engage in once in a relationship.
/r/seduction25/09/16 09:42 PM
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Also bear in mind that it's hard to let go of pick-up when you decide to have a committed relationship. It's not something you can share with her. I'm going through this now.
/r/seduction25/09/16 12:30 PM
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Even if it is bullshit, who cares? They've given you a pretty clear indication they aren't interested, and they've saved you face and a lot of time and energy without being rude or condescending.
/r/seduction24/09/16 02:54 AM
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Go and talk to women.
/r/seduction23/09/16 12:55 PM
0

Stop making excuses
/r/seduction22/09/16 09:31 PM
2

Now you know the kind of person the majority of this sub are.
/r/seduction21/09/16 01:32 PM
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It will totally improve your potential to get fucks
/r/seduction19/09/16 01:53 AM
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I agree. Sex is just sex, but if a hottie wants to spend a whole party talking to you, that shows that you are interesting and good at holding her attention. It is confirmation of social value
/r/seduction18/09/16 09:56 PM
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Assuming every thing you say is true, I can only imagine you are too serious with women. Loosen up a little and relate to them.
/r/seduction11/09/16 04:43 AM
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No, it's being open to being hit on. I've been hit on by women before. There is a big difference between letting something happen and actively seeking it out.
/r/seduction05/09/16 01:03 AM
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Women don't usually hit on men. What women do is make themselves available to be hit on by men. Any man who is looking to pick up will most likely be hitting on these women anyway.
/r/seduction04/09/16 10:00 PM
1

Meh. 18-20 year olds are crap in bed. Late 20s is where it's at.
/r/seduction04/09/16 11:45 AM
3

Paragraphs are your friends.
/r/seduction04/09/16 11:39 AM
1

You call her up and ask her out
/r/seduction04/09/16 11:25 AM
0

But this sub is about how to attract women. Are you interested in attracting women?
/r/seduction04/09/16 11:12 AM
2

Firstly, get rid of the thought that being attracted to someone is creepy. To avoid being creepy is easy. You just need to be aware of boundaries and how to cross them / not cross them. Don't make girls uncomfortable.
/r/seduction03/09/16 10:04 PM
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Are you sure you're ready to hear this? Your attitude in this post is pathetic and needy, and you come across as entitled, whingey, and lame. Blaming other people for your problems is not attractive. If this is the sort of shit you do in real life, no wonder you get no action. Solutions: -Try a new approach. -Go out at night sometimes, it won't kill you. -Escalate earlier to avoid getting trapped "talking about cats". -Understand the power of touch. -Portray strength and confidence. -Be direct a…
/r/seduction03/09/16 09:39 PM
2

Say it with your body, not your voice.
/r/seduction26/08/16 02:34 PM
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Ever wonder why there are so many gay bars but zero lesbian bars? Because women don't have the maturity to run a business. There are many lesbian bars and many, many women who run small to massive businesses. What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 10:21 AM
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Even the most life-altering events (having a child) puts little to no actual burden on a woman. She is free to do as she pleases, completely oblivious to the world around her that makes her comfortable life possible. Well this part is clearly untrue. Women clearly take on more parenting roles than men. Society is structured in such a way that women will never truly understand the hardships of life. They don't have to do the dirty jobs. This part is also clearly untrue. Nursing and disability/age…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 10:18 AM
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Approach girls. Be direct but not forceful. Be fun.
/r/seduction22/08/16 10:52 AM
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Practice talking to hot women without intending to hit on them
/r/seduction22/08/16 10:27 AM
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Obviously you need to take what will work best for you. Don't just follow random advice to the letter and expect it to be specific to your circumstance.
/r/seduction19/08/16 10:11 AM
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Um, wtf? Dude, take a chill pill. This girl isn't out to fuck your shit up. She was waiting somewhere for a lift that didn't come. That would piss anyone off. Yeah, maybe she was presumptuous on thinking you'd give her a lift, but that's not really that rude. Honestly, you sound like a butt hurt, possessive little bitch.
/r/seduction18/08/16 12:27 PM
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But this advice isn't saying to make stuff up. If you can't contribute to conversation, why are you here?
/r/seduction18/08/16 05:16 AM
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I put her in the "maybe" pile, and move on with my life.
/r/seduction16/08/16 10:53 AM
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Yes I have. You then ask yourself "am I doing this because I want sex, or because I want sex with this particular girl". Then you follow which ever coarse of action you answered.
/r/seduction16/08/16 10:02 AM
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Doesn't work for me. These things will make me introspective. When I'm out picking up, I want to be extroverted.
/r/seduction16/08/16 09:53 AM
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I know exactly what you mean. You feel you are in the spot light, and you feel you are required to do something about it, like entertain the girl or something. You are trying to take control of the social dynamic, and then you feel responsible for the whole group; as though it's your fault there's a lull in the conversation, or it's your fault they aren't having fun. The answer: when you feel like that, simply stop doing anything. It sounds stupid, but it will work. You will not say anything dum…
/r/seduction13/08/16 01:09 PM
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