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p_and_q/r/askTRP25/01/18 10:26 PM
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That’s because these are even fears that are socialized into men and women. Realistically there are way worse things that can happen to men then an embarrassing rejection.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/23 05:42 PM
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My SO is a social worker and we’ve had many conversations. 2 interesting highlights from them: - she had no idea how common steroid usage in Hollywood is. She believed that all the muscled Hollywood actors were able to get into shape purely through working out - she’s very aware female gender role normative behavior, especially behavior things where it requires more sacrifice on my side, like wanting me to do yard work and manual labor
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/23 09:30 PM
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I think you’re reading too much into this. If anything, sounds like women are using you for sex. Also, if these women are just going to take the word of random Internet strangers over their experience with you, they’re not worth your time. Edit: read some of your comment history. almost sounds like you go out of your way to act like a player. idk, sounds like you want women to take you seriously but dont want to reciprocate on that front.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/23 10:35 AM
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In my own experience, what I thought was loneliness was actually boredom. As I filled my life with more things (working out, building a website, house hunting) even though I did many of those things alone, I didn't feel lonely. The other thing I did was celebrate small achievements. Its a simple self-pat-on-the-back but it sill helps to see things in a positive light (just get to the gym, celebrate. just go to a social event, celebrate). I'm a cynic, so I believe that most friendships are friend…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/22 10:46 PM
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That means that any time a woman says yes but really means no Without additional context, anyone who calls this rape is delusional. Women have agency and should be taken at their word. BUT, like I said, context matters. A yes coming from blackmail or clear threat of violence (has to be more then, he's a man, he might hurt me) is not a real yes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/10/22 03:53 PM
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At my last job I was working for a tech company going through a huge hiring phase. Like I'd be interviewing 5-6 candidates a week. Usually we'd do a phone tech interview, followed by a more in depth series of interviews. The bar for female engineers is definitely lower. I'd be doing second interviews with female candidates that shouldn't have made it past first round. I had an interview with a female candidate who is (was?) a mid level engineer at amazon. She couldn't do any sort of basic coding…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/22 06:45 PM
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How can you have lots of sex with women if you also believe women should be traditional and not whorish? I think the main thing you're missing is that men mostly find RP because they often want more sex and/or to be in a committed relationship. So RP provides advice to both of those ends. So many of the conclusions you reach in your statements come from following 1 of the 2 "paths" (sex or relationship). RP is very against the idea of being in any sort of monogamous relationship in general. But …
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 01:05 PM
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I think a lot of men come to the red pill during a time when they are deeply confused, and often times frustrated, by there interactions, or lack there of, with women. TRP does in fact spell out certain truths about women in plain english that men tend to have to learn indirectly (ex. "social proof"). It's the very clear and direct language that TRP uses that tends to keep users there. Its easy to understand. Individuals feel heard. Individuals feel understood. But not enough members learn to le…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/22 01:25 PM
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She ain’t sending death threats but she is sending threats of self harm and filing a false rape accusation report with the police. This problem starts and ends with women! What utter trash.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/07/22 10:18 AM
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I'm a fan of The Orville (left a similar comment as yours on the show's sub) but it's Seth McFarland writing Brian from family guy all over again. He writes from is moral high horse at the top of his ivory tower and ends up having trouble seeing the ground below. The writing this season has gotten a bit messy. McFarland is inserting his own beliefs on the characters and show so much that he's become blind to the moral inconsistencies that stories display. He's too close to his own creation, whic…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/22 12:10 PM
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A couple of things: 1) Ted Lasso. Great example of a tv male role model 2) Good role models rarely make for good tv. I could make the same argument about female role models. 3) You either die a hero or live long enough to become a villain. A lot of men who are said to be good role models are often marked as such because of their self-sacrifice (Ted Lasso being an exemption). Batman constantly puts is life at risk and multiple times just barely escaped fatal wounds.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/22 12:22 PM
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but answers like yours are just toxic I agree. War is toxic. Sometimes you have to fight fire with fire. So the only democratic way to proceed now is to have a sincere discussion about, what do we actually prefer. The draft is not necessary when diplomacy an civility are all that is needed to end a war. But I'm talking about when diplomacy and civility fail.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/22 04:57 PM
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As much as I'd love to live in a fair and equal society, the cleanup after a war that required drafting US citizens would likely not be pretty. It would likely be and grueling work every able bodied person. And yes, it may involve incentivizing having children and making it more difficult to avoid having children. It seems like a lot of people are looking at war through some weird left-wing rose-colored glasses when that reality is far from the truth.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/22 04:32 PM
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Yes, but the truth is that 1 fertile man can sire more children in his lifetime then 1 women can. Having more living women of reproductive age gives a country more options for increasing it's population. There's always the option of restricting access to contraception and outlawing abortion. War is unfair by nature. In war there's rarely a "nice", "clean", or "equal" solution to the problems it creates.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/22 04:02 PM
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Young women are more valuable from a reproductive standpoint then men. That's just a biological fact. Conscribing women into military service is just never going to happen. Even non-combat jobs can be life threatening due to the fact that many take place in viable enemy targets. That all being said, I personally believe the US needs to replace the draft with 2-4 years of mandatory (paid) civil service before attending college or going directly into the workforce. This could mean doing anything f…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/22 03:28 PM
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That may or may not be true. It sucks, but an employer can fire an at will employee (which is like the case for OP's friend) for practically any reason with a few exceptions. A companies settle only because its less expensive then going to court much of time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/22 02:18 PM
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Because it’s a political position that that is more likely hurt a candidates chance to be re-elected then help.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/21 12:46 AM
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Now that their rich boomer parents are retiring/dying and they can't rely on generational wealth Where did the wealth go? The man raising a family enjoys a lot of advantages. He gets jobstability. He gets more career opportunities. He has his spouse's sideof the family to provide an increased safety network. His children willmost likely provide some form of support for him when he's older. Theman without a family has none of that - while he's working he needsmoney to provide not just for his cur…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 11:48 PM
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The problem I see here is that ‘financial abortion’ often used to describe giving up financial and parental responsibility before the possible child is born. No one is talking about financially aborting post child birth (besides for the opposition who wants it make it look like that’s what the argument is about). IANAL, but I don’t believe Parental Surrender is enough to preclude an individual from having to pay child support (not positive on this though). So it’s possible that Parental Surrende…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/21 06:17 PM
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This has to be a satire piece, right? The entire article is so tone deaf that I almost wish I had a physical copy to burn. Everything in the article is about ‘patriarchy’ and ‘privilege’. If that’s the level of depth the Democrats can muster to figure out why Black and Latino men are leaving the party, then they don’t deserve to keep them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/21 01:00 PM
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I thought this was a good video, but honestly if I was a staunch feminist before watching this, I would still be afterwards. I would say the first 30min or so, Peterson was on point. But towards the halfway mark, it's clear that he's exhausted with the "debate". The host rapidly fires questions at him, many of which he is not given enough time to answer. But if I held the feminist viewpoint, I'd think that he was fumbling and didn't really have an answer. And although it seemed as though Peterso…
/r/AntiFeminists14/09/21 07:03 PM
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Change happens slowly. It’s unlikely the minds of our current politicians and public service are going to much of a change of heart when it comes to men’s issues unless there is a shift in the way their constituents view those issues. The men at the top aren’t really actively doing anything because doing anything with regards to men’s issues is seen as hurtful to their careers. We need to be better about educating people, men and women, on men’s issues. There was once men at the top who didn’t b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/09/21 11:08 PM
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It's near impossible because 'Toxic Masculinity', 'Patriarchy', and 'Misogyny'/'Internalized Misogyny' have all become the brick and mortar of feminist mote and bailey fallacies. There definitions are all moving targets but additionally the working purposely tends to demonize men and victimize women. For example, 'Patriarchy' is defined has a civilization where men hold most of the power. By this definition, America is patriarchal. So the argument his that women must be more oppressed due to the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/09/21 02:39 PM
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Agree, for all the insane shit that fds posts, this sounds very reasonable and sober.
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 01:06 AM
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You teach your sons to cultivate value in themselves. Working hard and working smart are 2 traits that are valuable regardless of how the world changes. You teach them that they are responsible for their own actions, and not the not the actions of someone they have no connection to other then superficial (gender, race, age, etc.). You teach them the importance of making friends they can trust, friends that lift them up and that they lift up in turn. Helping them create a life for themselves wher…
/r/AntiFeminists09/09/21 11:41 AM
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What’s up with all the low IQ trolls on both sides making these low effort, getting banned, and then running back to a proof sub and being like, “see, MRA/feminist/incel/mtgow/fds is really like this”? Like, we know. They’re all echo chambers, that’s the point but when you make a low effort post that contains some incredible vague accusations with 0 sources on a sub that you know is going to disagree, what exactly did you expect to happen?
/r/AntiFeminists09/09/21 10:40 AM
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FDS OP is unattractive and can’t stand the fact that pretty privilege exists and feels the fact that it does exist proves systemic misogyny somehow. (Didn’t actually read the whole thing though)
/r/AntiFeminists08/09/21 05:44 PM
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A lot of commenters already made some great points but a problem the Left has is it's "you're perfect as you are (physically and sexually, you still have to share the same beliefs as the rest of the left though)" so to speak. It's a pseudo-counternarrative to the Right's "pick yourself up by the bootstraps mentality". One side says, if you want something, you'll get it because you're perfect the way you are, while the other side says if you want something, you just need to put in the hard work t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/21 04:21 PM
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Great scene in the show Mythic Quest. Apologies about the quality, it’s the only video I could find https://youtu.be/JZLVW63KvOk
/r/AntiFeminists08/09/21 02:03 PM
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Restricting access to abortions keeps poor people below the the poverty line. Children are expensive. Middle class and upper class individuals can more easily go to a state where abortion is legal. This is to say that there can be malicious reasons that don’t have anything to do with sexism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 01:47 PM
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I think it's easier to see feminism as female rights advocacy and mra as male rights advocacy. Take either to it's extreme and and you get male or female supremacy. When one stops viewing the groups as pseudo-egalitarian its easier to understand the views each hold and doesn't reduce the need for either to exist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 11:17 AM
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Wow. I thought you were joking. It looks like a blog about being a professional victim. Of course fds would endorse it.
/r/AntiFeminists31/08/21 08:39 PM
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But the goal isn’t to convert the people who make those statements, they’re too far gone. But by using a more palatable title, people in the middle and people who may just be general unaware may broaden their beliefs around the issue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/21 06:30 PM
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Yeah, this person clearly only values Fiona for her old beauty not her actual personality.
/r/AntiFeminists21/08/21 09:17 PM
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Wow! Look at that headline. “Hey look at this tiny spot on the bell curve guys! I’ve got stats!” Meanwhile for the female issues she uses all generalized statements. “Female employment is falling” “violence against women are rising”. Falling faster then men’s? Rising faster then men’s? No one should have to be the victim of violence but with that said, men are still far more likely to be physically assaulted then women. This is total bs, binary think.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/21 09:15 PM
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Its a feedback loop. Because of the empathy gap its convenient not to care and for most people its not worth the mental hassle to change their minds on the subject. In some cases, they don't want to have their minds changed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/21 02:01 AM
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I say this as a software engineer who actively interviews developers of all levels. Female and POC engineers are always given special treatment in the hiring pipeline. They have a lower bar they need to meet to get hired. I've seen and been a part of this process first hand. In my experience the best time to leave a company is around the time they put a significant investment into diversity hiring and training. To be clear, there is absolutely nothing wrong or detrimental to having a diverse tea…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/21 05:31 PM
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This is due to having differing qualifications for what makes a “great woman”.
/r/AntiFeminists19/08/21 12:30 PM
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Yeah, the Reddit admins are misandrist pigs. We all agree on that. So don’t give them another excuse to ban this sub.
/r/AntiFeminists19/08/21 12:26 PM
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These are strong women aren’t they? How about all these feminists form a militia a go fight for women’s freedoms in Afghanistan?
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/21 01:33 PM
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Feminism doesn’t believe that women have agency. That’s why it’s men’s fault that women aren’t fleeing to the airports.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/21 09:35 PM
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I agree with this to a certain extent but realistically what about the dating world could be charged that people would actually accept and adopt?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/21 06:30 PM
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It feels like a lot of redditors trying to build a wooden wall around a fire so they can pretend it’s not there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/21 03:32 PM
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The article reporting the events made it to top of r/news. Read some of the comments and all I can say is, this is likely just the beginning. Any amount of empathy (not sympathy, just empathy) got downvoted your oblivion. There’s a huge amount of diffusion of responsibility when it comes to incels. Everyone is all about personal responsibility for other people but for themselves. No one thinks that their comment will be the straw the breaks the camel’s back. Some people even called it an act of …
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/21 02:45 PM
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Women have the same level rationalization and coping abilities as dogs. Got it.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/21 01:08 PM
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Okay, this is where content crosses the line from from anti-feminist to women hate. Bill Cosby is a piece of shit human being. He got off on a legal technicality. I'm glad that the judge forced the DA to keep the deal that their office made, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't also pissed that he won't be spending the rest of his life in jail.
/r/AntiFeminists10/08/21 02:02 PM
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Take note of the fact that she only cares about how her decision affected her. She doesn’t give a rats ass about the pain she put her ex through.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 12:47 PM
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No stats stronger then confirmation bias
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 09:51 AM
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I say this as a software engineer who actively interviews developers of all levels. Female and POC engineers are always given special treatment in the hiring pipeline. They have a lower bar they need to meet to get hired. I've seen and been a part of this process first hand. All this position is doing is explicitly point out a hiring bias that already exists in the industry.
/r/AntiFeminists06/08/21 08:18 PM
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I’m glad FDS didn’t get banned. If it was exiled to a dark corner of the internet, few would even believe it exists. At least with reddit it’s front and center. There’s no denying the content exists.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 11:40 PM
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There's also personal trainers. But that would likely go in a similar category as massage therapists.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/07/21 07:03 PM
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What is the author even trying to say here. It's like if I wrote an article called "Its okay to burn my house down for any reason". The people telling me not to burn down my house aren't doing so because they care whether or not I have a place to live, they do it because its better to have a good house then no house at all. But at least in my example, the only one getting hurt is me. This woman wants the emotional equivalent of a roller-coaster that has never passed a safety inspection over a dr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 09:13 PM
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“When did chivalry die?” Translation: “why does Chad and Tyrone only pump and dump my”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 09:39 PM
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It’s hilarious the types of random shit girls will say they’re interested in to claim the label of “nerd”. Not even bright enough to realize that no wealthy nerd is going to be interested in taking care of her and her kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 09:34 PM
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My guess is that there tweet is real but there’s no actual familial relationships. It’s all an act to increase $$$
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/21 04:44 PM
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Title: “what do you bring to the table” Content: historically we never had to so why should we now? This has to be satire because the lack of self awareness just drips from every word of this post and I don’t want to believe that kind of person could exist.
/r/AntiFeminists08/07/21 10:39 PM
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Work in tech and mirror this sentiment. Interviewed a woman last week. Smart woman, works as an SDE2 (software development engineer) at Amazon, but had no formal education or training in the field. Really struggled code anything. When looking at how she got past the first round of interviewing, her performance would not have gotten her a second round as a man. When looking at her work history, she was hired right from her internship into full time. But even so, the other interviewers and I had t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/21 08:07 PM
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I'm glad that information around men's issues is becoming more mainstream and I found the article to be informative. That being said, if I didn't care about men's issues before reading this article, I probably wouldn't care afterwards. The author chose their words too carefully and it was clear early on how hard they were trying not to offend readers. The article was all facts and no emotion and honestly if we need to get more people on board, we'll need more pleas to emotion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/21 05:59 PM
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“You enjoyed watching me play GameCube for years. I know you’ve wanted to play all this time. Now that it’s a little bit older, doesn’t play as well, and has a permanent peripheral that will get in the way of playing games, you don’t want to play anymore? What the hell, practically nothing has changed. Just you watch, I’m going take it to GameStop and all the incels there will be dying to play with it.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 05:37 PM
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As terrible as this sounds, nobody owes you anything. A lot of people who complain about beauty standards are really complaining about pretty privilege. The world treats more attractive people better. That's just the way it is. If you have the looks, money, and or skill you can cash in on the value of being beautiful. But being pissy because you'll never have the inherent value that beautiful people have is a waste of time. Either (if you can) spend the resources necessary to look better (which …
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/21 11:08 PM
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Both the left and the right ignore men’s issues. The message from the left tends to be “real men don’t...” while the message from the right is “real men do...”. Yes this is a major oversimplification but it illustrates why men tend to lean right rather then left. But yes, I agree the conservatism isn’t necessarily pro men’s rights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/21 07:59 PM
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Or maybe he's listened to so much feminist rhetoric that he believes his daughter might be raped every time she leaves the house alone. Feminist make the world sound like its so awful to women that fathers don't want to have a child that would be subject to such a an awful place. What ever happened to that empathy gap that feminists keep spewing about?
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/21 02:48 PM
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Wow. Think about that for a second. This person joined FDS and became a less empathetic person. How can anyone say that's a good thing?
/r/AntiFeminists30/05/21 07:10 PM
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What do you expect when they have 100s of selfies curated in the perfect light, at just the right angle, with only a couple of filters making their face appear within the range of normal sized human.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 11:54 AM
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“Guys I know that I look like a stripper too but just look how ridiculous this streamer is acting. She’s clearly just pandering to her audience” - half naked streamer pandering to her audience
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/21 10:21 AM
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I don't think it's necessarily click-bait but if these anti-feminists looked more like the feminists in the photo their videos likely wouldn't be as popular.
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/21 08:44 PM
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This probably has way more to do with who's following these vloggers then their pov. Women who drown in feminist dogma tend to look more like the second group and subscribe to vloggers that look like them and spout their beliefs. While men rarely follow feminist vloggers. Ant-feminist vloggers have a larger male following and is slowly picking up a female following. So a pretty woman who "totally not like those feminist girls" who vlogs about popular anti-feminist and MRM talking points are goin…
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/21 05:34 PM
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A lot of older women need to realize that it’s often the guys who end up settling. She thinks she is still the same prize she was at 20. She ain’t. Settling ≠ lowering your standards to a realistic level.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 02:28 PM
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If women want to wear masks to avoid the “male gaze” then all the power to them. As long they’re not trying to make looking at someone codified as part of sexual harassment or sexual assault, I don’t care.
/r/AntiFeminists20/05/21 05:42 PM
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"This Is Us" came close a couple of times but more often then not got sidetracked before getting into any sort of depth when it comes to men's issues. There was a show on FX called CAKE that had some sketches that were always from the women's perspective but were equally relevant for men. This tinder sketch https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3P40rFESHi8 for example. The quarter life crisis skit are also good examples https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XXt1-qEjKlE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8TgHU…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/21 09:00 PM
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Whenever I talk to a woman in a relationship about dating today she freely admits that a lot of women have unrealistic standards and practice foolish dating patterns (ie going after Chad who only wants something casual). Same thing happens when I talk to a woman who's single. She always has friends that she knows has unrealistic standards and shitty dating patterns but of course thats not the case for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 05:43 PM
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I wouldn't necessarily just end the friendship. If those racist or misogynistic beliefs led this person to act in a a way that betrayed the friendship (ex. saying racist things about a mutual friend) then yes I would end the friendship. Additionally, excommunicating this person to only communicate with other racist and misogynistic individuals would likely have a worse outcome.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/21 04:08 PM
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This is all very much dependent on how this person is when we are together. If this is a common topic that is brought up but it's always done in a respectful way, it's unlikely to end the friendship even if after the conversation we still have some fundamental differences of beliefs. I don't drop friends because they believe something I don't. I drop friends when they consistently through their actions betray the friendship. My tolerance may also be a bit higher because reddit is really the only…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/21 12:27 PM
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/r/AntiFeminists18/04/21 11:13 AM
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Honestly I have sympathy (although very minimal) for some of these women. They have men simping for them and calling it friendship so often that they don't recognize what friendship actually looks like, especially male friendship. My guess is when this guy got friendzoned he stopped simping and started treating this woman like a mid-low tier friend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 06:42 PM
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Some women would burn cities down before admitting that her value has dropped below a guy's who she once believed to be beneath her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 01:59 PM
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Men fearing asking a woman out (apart from co-workers) makes no more sense then a woman (taking reasonable precautions) fearing being raped walking home alone at night. A couple of things to note if you're in a place where it's reasonable to ask a woman out, then there's no reason that you should be paranoid about doing so. stand your ground, then walk away. you didn't threaten a child, you asked out a grown adult. if the woman you are asking is being yupity, just shut the conversation down (cou…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/21 09:09 PM
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whenever a girl says she wants a guy who's X, it's implied that the guy is also tall and attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/21 12:04 AM
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Also work in tech. I don't see a lot of recently started relationships (at least pre-covid). A lot of the people I work with in relationships met their SO in college or their marriage was arranged (Indians usually).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/21 12:02 AM
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Girls these days are looking for 3 guys for a relationship: The father of her child The guy she says is the father of her child The guy who fills the fatherly role to her child
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 06:34 PM
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I think a lot of groups and movements become extreme when they become too focused in ideology and not enough on tangible goals. The best way to keep MRM from becoming extreme is to focus on goals. Get more men off the street. Raise awareness on mental health and create initiatives to ease the process of finding help. Study male high school dropout rate and experiment with solutions to reduce it. There's many more more but you get the point. Look at occupy wall street. It didn't have goals and th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/21 01:47 AM
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Communist societies only work on the micro-level. It's much easier to have a communist society when everyone knows each other.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre04/02/21 11:33 PM
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A guy being physically abused by his SO can still be in love with his SO. To strike back would be to hurt someone that he loves. Most people don’t won’t to hurt the people they love.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/21 08:37 PM
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She’s just trying to get Internet points, she hasn’t changed at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 05:30 PM
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It’s made possible because the market exists for this service. As long as there is no exchange of sex for money, the service is completely legal. I imagine managing this service can be a legal nightmare but I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the service itself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/21 05:08 PM
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One of the most cancerous parts of feminism is the toxic belief that it instills in women that one is entitled not to have bad things happen to them. "I shouldn't have to buy car insurance, car crashes are caused by the patriarchy" The feminist movement needs to clean up their shit or die as a movement already.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/21 01:23 PM
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FDS sure cares a lot of what the lvm/nvm even though they protest that they'd never date them...
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/21 06:46 PM
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FDS: But look at all the extra value you're getting Also, there's there's nothing "Limited" about this "Edition"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/21 05:38 PM
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My guess is 5-10% of the subscribers on onlyfans make up 95% of the money spent.
/r/MGTOW214/01/21 09:59 PM
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Worse, then that is that they want the work they do to be legal while anyone who uses their services is labeled a criminal. Fuck That!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 11:07 PM
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I’d bet that this girl would have swiped left of the surgeon. It sounds like her friend ends up in relationships quickly because she actually gives guys a chance. While this girl still has standards higher than the moon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/21 02:42 PM
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It’s a low quality motte and bailey argument. She equates MRA and WAATGM space she try’s to argue that all MRA spaces do is complain about women. The motte hear being “All the WAATGM sub does is complain about women” and tbf, that is a lot of what this sub does. But that’s not the argument she’s actually try to make. She’s trying to make the argument that “All MRA spaces do is complain about women”, the bailey, which is impossible to actually defend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 07:33 PM
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Luxury: an overpriced status symbol that’s expensive to maintain and who’s value drops immediately after purchase. She may be right...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 01:06 PM
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I find it hilarious how the same people who were promoting cancel culture with phrases like, “freedom of speech doesn’t mean freedom of consequences” are doing mental gymnastics to reason why this case is different. OF is a form of protected speech, the government can’t punish you (it can audit you for not paying taxes in this income). Private companies can do whatever the fuck they want. Enjoy the consequences!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 08:08 PM
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Can't hit the wall if I redefine what the wall is *taps head*
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 02:33 PM
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The women that this author is talking about are bottom barrel leftovers. Women who are a combination of being 35+, broke/in serious debt, single mothers, obestrocities, sluts, and mentally unstable. These are the women who always struggled to compete in the dating marketplace. It’s just now they’re going to struggle more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/20 12:06 PM
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These women will never realize that the number of likes is absolutely meaningless. Biggest problem with tinder and similar apps is that they show how many people swiped right. Every right swipe is a potential super chad just waiting to commit to her. Of course we know that all those right swipes are oblivious swiping, betas, and pump and dumpers but there’s always a chance. A 0.000000000001% chance but a chance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 11:25 AM
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They won’t. Biggest problem with tinder and similar apps is that they show how many people swiped right. Every right swipe is a potential super chad just waiting to commit to her. Of course we know that all those right swipes are oblivious swiping, betas, and pump and dumpers but there’s always a chance. A 0.000000000001% chance but a chance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 10:06 PM
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Likes hiking, can’t walk a mile without taking a 5 min break every 500ft
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 09:40 PM
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One of reddit's biggest issues is trying to compare the entirety of the US with other countries like uk, canada, and germany. Cultures differ widely from region to region and even from state to state. Side note, take a look of the total population of those states you mentioned, you may find they don't make up for much of the US total population. That being said, the US healthcare system is a clusterfuck on pretty much every level. There's too many middlemen, drug makers, hospitals, and ambulance…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/11/20 03:55 PM
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Some questions I answer and clarify and others I don't see it helping the case, so I tell him so. Wow, it's almost like your not as okay with your past as you claim to be and are intentionally hiding the things that would turn that 8/10 into a 12/10.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/20 03:39 PM
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I find that most women tend to agree with the statement that "men don't owe women anything". But that all changes when she's fucking a guy she really likes. Then that dude must owe her because she's having sex with him. All of the sudden the sex she gave freely was supposed to be a transaction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/20 07:25 PM
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In 3 years there's going to be a post on r/ relationships about this girl's ex broker up with her because his buddies found her nudes all over the internet. But don't worry, it will be his buddies' fault for some reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 12:20 PM
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The projection is real in that one. Seriously though, switch the genders and replace TRP with FDS and it becomes about a whiny incel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/20 11:01 PM
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Women are addicted to the emotional roller-coaster that is toxic relationships. They can never "learn" to be attracted to healthy relationships. It'd be like "learning" to love weed instead of meth. Sure, the high is still there but it's not the same and never will be. An addict will always be an addict. It'd be one thing if society actually condemned "using" again (aka cheating with chad or tyrone) but lets face it, not only does society do little to condemn it, it also often times encourages t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 09:43 PM
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A women in her 40s who's still "slutting around" isn't looking for an LTR, she's looking for a retirement plan.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/20 04:27 PM
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The entire article felt like an ad. “Thinking about divorce? S. Krew, Heem, and Howe divorce attorneys can help.” “Sadness from divorce keeping you down? Try BetterHelp. Our female mental health specialists are here to help.” “Looking to go over him? Trying getting under someone new with Match.com’s IMA SLOOT algorithm. Specially designed to help you feel empowered again for at least 5 seconds.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/20 05:25 PM
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From one of the top comments: How dare my boyfriend in my head, who I been creeping on while he's minding his naked business and that I've never met, cheat on me with multiple women Don't use old youtube videos as evidence of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 08:40 PM
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I trouble reading the last paragraph with all those red flags in the way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/20 11:42 PM
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80% of the replies were from men are something like "I dont care about your past... I haven't met a single (normalish) guy who's been okay with my past. Maybe it's because anyone who would have told you the truth gets blasted on the internet and labeled an incel. Sorry to tell you this but those 80% that told you it was going to be okay, are likely not the men you'd call "normalish".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/20 06:24 PM
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I don't have too much to add to this but another sub had a post awhile back with an article which studied the idea that women want a traditionalist style of dating that included courtship but then wanted to be treated as equals. Take from it what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:57 PM
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“Oh no, there’s too many options at the buffet, if only I had the rare food scrap or no options to choose from.” - what this argument sounds like every time it’s posted
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:50 PM
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Better question: Would anyone in PPD actually accept any study linked that didn't backup their beliefs. Just reading the comments here, I'm going to guess no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:27 PM
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Until soliciting a prostitute, not just prostitution itself, is at the very least decriminalized in the US (or at the very least the state I live in) I will not view paying for sex as a valid option. It's not worth the risk of losing my job over. No argument about the "risk of being caught is low" is going to be good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 02:30 PM
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female pathologies psychologically damaged Well that escalated quickly. You act like TRP suddenly removes any kind of female agency. Nothing in TRP says to force women to do anything. At what point are women responsible for the choices they make exactly? This sounds like such a blue pill excuse, "of course TRP only works on damaged women, there's no way a sane woman would ever want a man who prescribes to TRP philosophy".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 12:18 AM
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I feel like the point of AWALT should be along the lines of “every woman has the capacity to cheat” That’s exactly what it means. This sub highlights how few people who post actually understand nuance and how many people make bad faith arguments. RP is a toolset that comes with various types of measuring tools. AWALT is a reminder that straying away from red pill principles will increases the chance that a woman will cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 11:06 PM
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Because studies don't apply irl with this kind of stuff.. Please extrapolate on this point. Maybe you can point to a study that shows this. They literally have the highest standards for guys, then end up with a random dude, that doesn't look like much, but is a great guy What is this based on? A feeling? A personal observation? If you don't have evidence, fine. But your argument is very weak as it stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 11:58 AM
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You said yourself that inc*ls provide statistics, but you have provided none. Where's the evidence for your argument? You say there's a flaw with blackpill science, yet you don't back up anything you've stated with any kind of science. In real life, a woman would never do that. What makes you say that? What is this based on? Probably would even consider a 5-6/10 dude if he wins them over with his personality. Isn't this the corner stone the bluepill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 11:43 AM
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You know, just be yourself and you’ll find someone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 04:42 PM
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If I would feel resentful about marrying a 30 year old when I myself am 30, then I just wouldn't marry a 30 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 04:23 PM
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If you feel resentful about marrying a 30 year old career woman at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 04:12 PM
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This question doesn't make any sense. It assumes that I would make a choice that I wouldn't actually make. If I would feel resentful about marrying a 30 year old when I myself am 30, then I just wouldn't marry a 30 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:54 PM
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Can someone explain to me what OP is asking in the post body? I can't parse out what they are attempting to say. Does it offend you to marry a 'leftover woman' if she isn't an agemate? RP doesn't encourage getting married with the current laws around marriage (esp in the US and countries with similar marriage laws). That being said, why would someone get married to a person if the idea marrying that person seemed offensive to oneself? That just seems like a really bad decision. I guess I can't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:36 PM
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Women have been bigger consumers then men for a long time. It just makes more economic sense to pander to women.
/r/MGTOW225/06/20 02:54 AM
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This question is full of assumptions: post-wall women end up alone It's not that post-wall women end up alone, they just end up settling for someone that they are ultimately not attracted to If men have the advantage in the long run What advantage do men have in the long run exactly? This comes from the assumption that more women date older men the men dating older women. But this is not always the case. Overall, doesn't online dating provide more of an advantage to men because they can use it f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:50 AM
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IDK why theres even a CMV flair. I don't think I've ever seen a single poster actually change their opinion from one of these posts. If anything the OP usually digs their heels deeper even if studies and links are provided in the arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 07:32 PM
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i think its this kind of focus on "women bad" mentality that got r/mtgow quarantined
/r/MGTOW216/06/20 08:31 PM
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The only thing I miss about the "nice guy" me was his ability to believe in "fairy tale love" that came with the "happily ever after" ending. There was something comforting about that hopeful belief. But overall I enjoy life better since letting that part of me go.
/r/MGTOW208/06/20 06:28 PM
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Cooperate America isn't going to make women want to have more sex in order to have more babies. In all likelihood it would add more safety nets so regardless if having a child was on purpose, an accident, or an "accident" a woman wouldn't be afraid that it would affect her livelihood. Many of which would lead to higher taxes on everyone. Some possibilities: Child support being replaced with UBI for children Public daycare and Pre-k
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 09:22 PM
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It’s easy to be “strong and independent” when you know you don’t have to be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/20 05:05 PM
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Like with most arguments on this sub that insults its members, any comment made that aligns with OPs POV will be upvoted and any comment that goes against OPs view will is either a lie or doesn’t represent the norm. I could tell you about my female friend, B, with traditional values and a low n count who’s now happily married to her high school sweetheart. And that lined up with the worldview of most people on the sub so it’s okay if it’s true. Then there’s another one of my female friends. A ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:04 PM
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It’s not to be invisible to women. A lot of guys (including myself) just don’t want to waste good money on a new car. Besides for some collector cars (which you wouldn’t drive too often anyway) cars lose their value extremely quickly. Newer cars have tons of specialty and computerized components, which can raise the cost of repairs and insurance. Cars are just generally a bad investment. That being said, if you’re a car person and you’ve got the money, go for it.
/r/MGTOW221/05/20 11:11 PM
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Beta males, simps, and Chads all play their role in inflating a women's egos, although its not chads fault but the woman's fault when a Chad does it. Beta males and simps give unearned validation to women. When women are able to have sex with Chad, they think that it means that they can get commitment from a Chad, even if it's not the current one. I'd say the internet is the biggest culprit of all though. Most simps would never validate women the way they do online as they would in public. The i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 10:54 PM
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The west replaced a community based moral framework with an individual based one. The west now encourages not limiting oneself in anyway through commitment. At will employment, casual relationships, no fault divorces... Everything is about not tying oneself down to anything and anyone.
/r/MGTOW220/05/20 12:18 PM
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This sub likes to conflate TRP advice with absolute truth. Most people would agree that being fat is unattractive, plain and simple. If you've got an ugly face theres very little one can do besides seriously lower your standards, become exorbitantly wealthy, work on your personality, and/or get extremely lucky (luck is probably going to be needed regardless if youve got an ugly face). Going to the gym and getting in shape is something actionable that most guys can do to become more attractive. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:23 AM
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Warning Spoilers: I've got the show in the background while I do my work. It's an absolute dumpster fire on on almost every level. They stole elements from better sci-fi movies, tv shows, and books. There's A LOT of dark moments in the show that get brushed off by jokes that could have been written by a 6th grader. For a show that seems to constantly objectify the male protagonist and other male characters, the writers somehow felt they had the moral high ground to spend half an episode about te…
/r/MGTOW204/05/20 03:47 PM
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I was thinking the same thing. She basically straight up said it. and she said: I think you are perfect, you do everything around the house and you help me so much but I feel like I come home and just want to fight and you don’t deserve that. she wanted to start a fight so she could manufacture a reason to break up with you. But you were such a good bf to the point that she couldn't find a way to make herself the victim in the situation. she might not have been cheating, but she likely found a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 02:35 AM
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One of the great things about MGTOW is that you don't have to, or more specifically, you get to define it for yourself. Be the man you want to be and don't give a shit about how society defines masculinity.
/r/MGTOW230/04/20 11:52 AM
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Read the following sentence. There are solid arguments to be made that a SAHP should have some insurances that they will be taken care of while married and in the event of a divorce. Is the current marriage and divorce system perfect? Absolutely not, far from it. But it’s not that difficult to reason why it works the way it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:44 PM
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Outside of rasing children, I just don't see any reason to get married. Modern marriage is basically a SAHP's insurance policy. Besides that, I really don't see a strong argument for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 01:41 PM
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When it comes to online dating, Tinder is the biggest widely used dumpster f buying them out didn't help either.account right with all the problems the app has. Distance filters are being completely ignored Too many bot accounts. Too many "add me on instagram"/"add me on snapchat" (likely theres a lot of overlap here with the bot accounts) Most profiles have no bio Basically if you're looking for something serious, tinder is absolutely the worst app to use. I have a theory about dating apps. Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 08:51 PM
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they benefit the party who earns less money over the course of the marriage. It's just on that on average a man is more likely to make more over the course of a marriage then a woman. This is partially due to the fact that having children tends to set back women career.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:50 PM
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I agree with most of what you wrote but, You want your UBI because you’re a failure. You want your Bernie freebies because you’re a failure. Cuz success and skill hard. And attacked and Unrewarded. this is an extremely shallow view of UBI. You fell into the same trap that you hate by bucketing it with everything else.
/r/MGTOW228/04/20 02:37 PM
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Wouldn’t benefit be subjective? The assumption being that the mother produces a healthy baby? Does that mean if the mother performs irresponsible actions while pregnant, such as overeating or drinking alcohol, and the baby came out having psychological and/or physiological deformities or deficiencies that the mother should no longer be entitled to the money for a mommy makeover?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:54 PM
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Does this mean looks has an objective value in marriage? If 2 people marry and one party becomes morbidly obese while be other stays in shape, should the in shape member be able divorce and take more then 50% of the shared assets because the other member didn’t take care of their body?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:41 PM
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If I was actually trying to censor you I wouldn’t have pointed you to the proper platform for your question.
/r/MGTOW226/04/20 09:46 PM
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Let’s not play that game here. This sub isn’t for discussing females in any way shape or form. If you want to do that, take it to one of the many other subs that already exist for that purpose like r/purplepilldebate .
/r/MGTOW226/04/20 09:32 PM
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Both, meaning that both the man and woman in this scenario are being celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:50 AM
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I agree that people should be better informed about the long term effects of poor behavior patterns, but ultimately it’s up to each individual to make their own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:09 PM
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Eh, I think this has more to do with how many different body types people try to categorize as “thick” and less to do with “brainwashing”. Kind of like “curvy”, all these terms are becoming meaningless because of the wide verity of body types people are associating them with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:05 PM
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Anyone else sick of these questions? Why are we trying to moralize and police attraction. A man can be attracted to whatever and whoever he wants. A woman can be attracted to whatever and whoever she wants. As long as nobody is breaking any laws or being a piece of shit when trying to attract someone else, it should not concern you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:04 PM
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I was thinking the same thing about TRP. The sidebar is (was maybe now, haven’t been there in awhile) great but the actual community was a toxic circlejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:08 PM
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It went from "if you can't accept me at my worst then you don't deserve me at my best" to "just accept me at my worst because that's all I'm ever go to be"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 02:51 PM
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What I found is that men's emotions tend to be judged based on a couple of criteria: how "logical" is the emotion? Did a love one die? Totally okay to cry. Did someone say something mean, not okay at all to cry regardless on what nerve it may have it. Recency of cause. It's okay to cry for a day or two (maybe even a bit more) when a loved one dies, but if they can't stop for a month, then they are judged harshly the level of display of the emotion. It's okay to cry if a loved one dies. It's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:49 PM
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I think its worth it if she adds value to your life. If you feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells, spending more money then you’d actually want to, or just generally adding unnecessary stress to your life then it’s NOT worth it. Just keep in mind that relationships are work. If you find one that feels fulfilling then it may be worth the effort, otherwise avoid it. Edit: messed up on mobile, its worth -> its NOT worth
/r/MGTOW222/04/20 08:41 PM
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I didn’t go to a traditional high school. Also there’s a huge variance in the attractiveness of men in media.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:47 PM
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Growing up I was never taught the importance of looking physically attractive. Intelligence is attractive, being nice is attractive (hah nope), being able to provide is attractive, etc. But as stupid as it sounds, I was never taught that looks are important for attraction. Many of you are thinking that it should be obvious that physical appearance is important but it’s not. Or more specifically, physical appearance isn’t nearly as important as other traits. The only thing I learned about physica…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:34 PM
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This sub often misses the fact that each person makes their own choices. We can bitch and moan all day about what does or does not make an individual valuable but its up to each individual to choose if they want to be with someone who others perceive as LV. If a girl wants to have an onlyfans page, thats her choice. If a guy she wants to date doesnt want to date her because she has or had an onlyfans page, thats his choice. Can someone help my understand why this is so hard to comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:32 PM
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People tend too enjoy escapes. Vacations are escapes. Saturday nights drinking at the bar are escapes. People tend to prefer fantasy over reality. Adding another person to the equation can often hurt more then it can help. What exactly makes you believe that having a flesh and blood woman in one’s life will automatically make a man feel more fulfilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:38 PM
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Serious question: what exactly makes it a miserable existence?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:47 PM
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My bad, should have clarified. Yes I’m talking from a US point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:55 PM
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All the subs, RP/BP/PP/FSD/ect. have some truth to them. They are not absolute truths though. You need to calibrate how much any of the truths apply through personal experiences. This also means you have to go out and meet people to have these personal experiences. The thing is, the people who stay in these subs tend to have the worst personal experiences and staying in the subs can create a negative feedback loop, which paints these experiences as darker then they usually are. Current events (C…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:18 PM
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Because why not? "Oh no I got rejected. That only happens all the time." Guys are told all the time to shoot their shot. These are just guys shooting their shot, and guess what? Some of these guys get it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:39 AM
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Cautious Hero: The Hero Is Overpowered but Overly Cautious Super funny and very MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW209/04/20 05:00 PM
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PPD really needs to have a new rule about anecdotes and reposting from advice subs without including studies to show statistical significance. If you spent all day on r/relationship_advice advice you'd think that people (men and women) will always cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:17 PM
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I’d start by making attempts to get a straight answer also giving your own answer to the question. If you tell the guy that you’re only looking for something serious and no matter how you ask they’re still being dodgy, then that’s a red flag. Also be straightforward about your expectations in terms of sex while dating. Very straightforward. If your expectation is that a guy isn’t hooking up with other girls while he’s dating you, make that clear. But if that’s the case then he should be able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:59 PM
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The biggest mistake I see women make is that they choose to keep their intentions ambiguous, which allows the guys they date to do the same. Nothing can stop someone from lying to you. But if you choose to take cop-out answers because you're afraid of losing a guy you like, then you're going to continue to get used. Example: Question: What are you looking for? Ambiguous answer: I'm just seeing what's out there. Straightforward Answer: I'm looking for something long term that eventually leads to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:44 PM
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Reading a lot of the comments it seems like a lot of people here don't actually know what average means. Average is likely to be unattractive to a lot of people but that doesn't change the the term average actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:07 PM
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I will concede that any sort of fat dude is not average and is below average Do you know what average means (pun not intended)?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:04 PM
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Growing up I was never taught the importance of looking physically attractive. Intelligence is attractive, being nice is attractive (hah nope), being able to provide is attractive, etc. But as stupid as it sounds, I was never taught that looks are important for attraction. Many of you are thinking that it should be obvious that physical appearance is important but it’s not. Or more specifically, physical appearance isn’t nearly as important as other traits. The only thing I learned about physica…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:14 PM
2

The magazine rack of every grocery grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:07 PM
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Because various men want various things at various points in our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:41 PM
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> I'm 20 After college it becomes much harder to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:58 PM
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Where in my comment did I make the claim that anybody said this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 06:36 PM
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Just a reminder about statistics, just because 1 in 5 women report that they have been raped at some point their life does not mean that 1 in 5 men rape women. And if you're going to disagree with this statement, please provide a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:00 PM
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I think this sub needs a rule that if you’re going to say X is based on Y theory then you need a link to at the very least a post (preferably sidebar material) that says as much. I’m so tired of RedPill theory CMV and discussion posts that takes something TRP states out of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 09:20 PM
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Think of every term where a guy is good at picking up women, almost none of them have a good reputation: player lady's man (sometimes positive) PUA fuckboi (not necessarily good at picking up women) chad ect. But to be fair, women who get a lot of attention from guys tend to be called slut, whore, or a "girl next door" and only one of those is ever perceived as a positive label.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 07:23 PM
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The funniest part is that all these new members and sign ups are going to cause what little value these services are worth to plummet. Capitalism at its finest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/20 12:39 PM
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I have been on my fair share of dates where the conversation was completely one sided and I was doing most of the work to keep things going. And as the guy somehow it’s my fault for not being interesting enough or not having the right personality. That shit gets real old real fast. too be fair, the more it happens the darker it colors previous experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:31 AM
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It definitely applies to everyone. From reading some of the relationship subs’ posts, the bigger problem is people don’t take what others say at face value. A lot of: “I’d cheat on you if...” “I’m not a good person” “...you do that and I’ll leave you” People often take these types of lines as jokes pr hyperbole that should be brushed off when they all should actually be treated as red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 08:44 PM
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Double standards tend to stem from and lead to biases. Biases lead to discrimination. Answering you question with a question, not just including gender is there ever a time when a double standard is ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:06 PM
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https://xkcd.com/1053/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 11:53 PM
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The asshole with a heart of gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:39 PM
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Honesty without tact is cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:24 PM
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Look at the common denominators for every one of those groups: - They are all filled with people who have been deeply hurt by experiences with the opposite sex. Those painful feelings can be extremely difficult to overcome. Staying around those communities tends to cause one to commiserate and relive those feelings repeatedly. - They all try to define the "reality" of male and female sexuality and relationships. Literally how TRP got its name (the red pill from the matrix) those communities firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 12:08 AM
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There's really no way to honestly answer this question. If I was born a female instead of a male many of my life experiences would be drastically different. It's the butterfly effect multiplied of a lifetime resulting in a completely different life. And to just say, "come one, just imagine everything else is the same but now your the opposite sex" is incredibly short sighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:52 PM
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I know this doesn't directly answer the question, but as a society we no longer push that commitment aspire to have. There's all these chicken and egg argument about it but at the end of the day we tend to encourage people break commitments for something better or only make weak commitments to begin with. Leaving romantic relationships aside, look how modern contracts (or lack there of) are set up. It used to be you signed a contract for x number of years and at the end of that you were either o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:42 PM
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AMALT and AWALT are equally true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:17 PM
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No one is making this claim
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:13 PM
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Why not? What do they really have to lose? Also, not all men follow every TRP belief. If TRP was common knowledge it wouldn’t exist in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:12 AM
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Looks and the perception of wealth and status is part of game. And yes, I believe it works from personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 09:47 PM
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So here's the standard train of thought for those of use who grew up in traditional/conservative households: Being nice to women leads to a LTR with one. Sex is something special and sacred that should only been done with someone special that you're in a LTR with. Sex is also a benefit of having an LTR I never really even considered sex outside on an LTR before I was in college and it still took me until junior year for me to realize this was something most college students (and younger) did. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 12:37 AM
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That just sounds like emotional manipulation, plain and simple. I'm not exactly the cleanest person but I'm not big on living in a complete mess either so maybe I'm a bit biased. I think this is more about communication in a relationship and making sure both parties are doing their fair share of the housework. Personally I think the "Pills" are only useful for understanding the psychology behind attraction and intersexual dynamics but do nothing for small day to day stuff that happens during rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:40 PM
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Things that people think are common sense often aren't. It's really that simple. Even assuming for a second that redpill is based off of evolutionary psychology, how many people can honestly say they learned evolutionary psychology from their parents, school systems, and/or TV programming? Also https://xkcd.com/1053/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:05 PM
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I conduct interviews for the company I work for, preferential treatment for female candidates happens all the time. Almost every female candidate I don’t approve to move forward with I get pushback from. A couple months ago we had a female candidate who couldn’t code her way out of a paper-bag. The female recruiters and the hiring manager (also female) were trying to find any way to justify hiring this candidate. Is was a bit sickening. She didn’t get hired in the end but I’d never seen a push f…
/r/PussyPass25/03/20 08:19 PM
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People have short memories, especially in the age where everything is moving faster then ever. I'm not saying things are going to go back to normal immediately after the quarantines/shelter in place/ect. are lifted but things will progressively go back to how they were pre-COVID19.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 03:36 PM
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I don't agree that men expect the same kind of love from their romantic partners as they would from one's own mother. I do believe both men and women are taught the false narrative from a young age that love, specifically "true love" is unconditional and as such should be sought after. Coming to terms with the idea that "true love" is practically nonexistent. It's a reality shock. Few take that kind of shock to reality well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:08 PM
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Every time you pick up a gun you should treat it as if it's loaded. The same goes for relationships. IDK why there are so many posts stating everything in TRP as absolutes. TRP uses a lot of generalizations like every other advice sub. Stop trying to poke holes in it as if its some sort of science, it isn't; it's a toolset. But that's not going to stop some people from trying to use a hammer to screw in a screw.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 11:16 PM
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Disclaimer: I did not read through every study Please correct me if I'm wrong but from links you supplied the conclusion is: When given a sliding scale to rate oneself, men perceived to rate themselves higher on the scale then women would rate those men. What the studies didn't conclude: That women ratings of men follow a standard deviation. This is a huge missing link to the study that shouldn't just be assumed. ​ Side note: do you really think social psychology is so immutable that it hasn't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 05:39 PM
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There’s all sorts of factors that can come into play sex drive finding a SO having hobbies and distractions lack of self reflection Any one these could explain why some men become sex obsessed while others don’t. And there’s probably more that I haven’t thought of.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:52 PM
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Growing up I was never taught the importance of looking physically attractive. Intelligence is attractive, being nice is attractive (hah nope), being able to provide is attractive, etc. But as stupid as it sounds, I was never taught that looks are important for attraction. Many of you are thinking that it should be obvious that physical appearance is important but it’s not. Or more specifically, physical appearance isn’t nearly as important as other traits. The only thing I learned about physica…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:08 PM
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No, no idea. I honestly thought that sexual attraction would build just by being a good friend. And sure, there are many relationships that start that way. But it never seemed to work for me. I didn’t put my female friends before my other responsibilities. It just seemed that attraction never grew on their side. I wasn’t a doormat but I also didn’t act dominant either. I actually believed that male and female attraction was almost identical besides for one difference being that women are attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:54 PM
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Love, kindness, and human decency aren’t needs either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:13 PM
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What? Are saying that they never learned to “just be happy being single and enjoy ones own company”?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/20 07:08 PM
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What? Are saying that they never learned to “just be happy being single and enjoy ones own company”?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/20 04:56 PM
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I agree with you. This is just good advice for keeping a strong relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/20 03:10 AM
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That headline though, “N.C. Middle School English Teacher Allegedly Had Sexual Encounter with Student”. Not rape, not sexual assault, a “sexual encounter”.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/03/20 05:13 PM
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I see it less as blaming myself and more as it’s exponentially easier improve myself then it would be to change society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:16 AM
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Yeah, I’ve noticed many users act as if all these labels are sharpied across people’s faces and it’s easy to identify irl who’s what. In reality, unless someone brings up certain key talking points or terminology it’d be impossible to determine if that person conscribes to any of these labels/beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:39 PM
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The biggest problem would be seeing RP, BP, etc. as ideologies and not just a set of tools and pieces of advice that one should experiment with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 01:46 AM
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I’m talking about CMVs in general, not just yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:46 PM
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CMVs are just as much about changing the views of readers the have similar beliefs as much as it is about changing the original posters view. Possibly even more so because the OP rarely is actually looking to change their own view.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:21 PM
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You haven't made any points or arguments. It's just "TRP bad" followed by insults at the community backed by nothing. No facts, no sources, not even an personal anecdote. But I can see why. Every point that you did make is exaggerated to the point of ridiculousness. they want to date ego-satisfiers That describes everyone on earth. Everyone wants to date someone who makes them feel validated to help satisfy their ego. In a world where people usually achieve happily ever after just by finding som…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:10 PM
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I don’t care if they choose to monetize the YouTube channel and discord as long as they don’t change the Reddit forum because of it. Everyone’s learnt style is different. If you need help learning the ropes, I don’t see the problem for compensating someone for taking the time to teach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 03:14 AM
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going to need more clarification on men are not even very attracted to women at all compared to their desire for possession of a feminine performer. and exactly what about it makes it bp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:42 AM
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part of what makes a "unicorn" a "unicorn" is the fact that they don't even realize that they are one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:36 AM
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I'm not sure there's really any BP arguments to be made. The only one that comes to mind is the pro-marriage argument for men where married men were found to be happier then unmarried men of the same age. Otherwise, BP arguments aren't really backed by science and would likely be torn to shreds if posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:22 AM
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It’s simple, it’s not about wanting what’s best for yourself, but wanting something better for the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:38 AM
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Yeah, all you single nerds out there listen to OP. Meanwhile, I’m going to go demand a raise because I can with the new shortage of engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:35 AM
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Nothing you’ve said counters anything from RP. No one is going to force RP on you either. I don’t understand what point you’re trying to make besides, “look girls, I’m not like those other guys who gets sucked into RP”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:16 AM
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I don't like to identify myself as RP in the same way egalitarians don't like to identify as feminists. I've read much of the sidebar and outside reading material, much of which had nothing to do with sexual dynamics and it all lines up. That being said, I think lurking and involving oneself in the RP sub for too long is unhealthy for ones mental health (it's ok in small doses with long breaks in between).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:52 AM
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I think starting with the name is a good place. It starts with the idea that men have been lied to. What the media and society lie to men about what's attractive to women (this is very slowly changing but it's an uphill battle). The main lie centers around the idea that it doesn't matter what a man looks like, so long as he would make for a good provider a woman who he deemed attractive would fall in love and marry him. Of course this is false. This is where much of the stigma for displaying bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:30 AM
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Men make up around 50% of society and so do women. That means we are all equally responsible for societal. You don’t have do try and change anything but inaction is still a decision and choosing not to change try and change things makes you just as responsible as everyone else. That past happened, we were all lied to, get over it. Your date isn’t going to care who’s gender had it worse, only that you had the social unawareness to bring it up in conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:52 PM
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YOU CAN'T NEGOTIATE ATTRACTION. If you perceive someone to be a slut and that's a turnoff, don't date them. Same thing for people you perceive to be creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:19 PM
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Stupid and uneducated people will always give birth in mass. Society will be fine, it might just be deeply segregated between the have and have nots.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:26 PM
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Is it a double standard: yes Is it unlawful: no My $0.02 Personally I think the mods are stupid for doing this. Many men in r/MGTOW believe themselves to be victims of social conditioning that lies to men about female nature and sexuality. Quarantining the sub just feeds that mentality. Someone who has anger issues is way more likely to lash out because they feel cornered with nowhere to go. But mods see things from their moral high horse and expect people to just be good and understand that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:05 PM
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Apex Fallacy MOST people can’t see the other side’s problem because they only consider problems had by the members of the opposite side that they find attractive as “real problems “. Example: Sympathy for male victims of sexual assault. MOST men have trouble sympathizing because if they’ve never been sexually assaulted themselves they can only imagine it happening to them like it does in media where the assaulter is an attractive female. MOST women have trouble sympathizing because they have tro…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:55 PM
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Bias is human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:19 PM
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If you don’t believe in the 80/20 when it comes to dating then you can stop reading here. But from personal experience and from hearing about the experiences of my friends and colleagues I tend to believe the rule is accurate. That being said, if one is a woman who doesn’t believe in the 80/20 then one would probably extrapolate that all men are trash because the only 20% that one would notice have so much abundance that they don’t need to act ethically. (Please don’t comment with something abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:49 PM
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I think purple pill is FSD, BP, BlackPill, and TRP smooshed together My Purple Pill Theories: FSD and TRP underestimate the value of “sunk cost”. In that people are way more likely to stay in a relationship that they’ve invested in (if if the only investment was time and a bit of money). Attraction is more nuanced then the generalization that FSD and TRP use People aren’t garbage at their core play stupid games, win stupid prizes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:58 PM
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So this should be part of your initial argument because it’s pretty weak as it stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:23 PM
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You're assuming just being around high value people will garner attraction, which is completely false. In addition, when around high value people you are also competing against high value people, which makes garnering attraction even more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:57 AM
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My buddy and I were just talking about this. 2 of the books on the RP reading list are: Never Split the Difference, a book about FBI negotiating strategies and how they can apply in every day life, and How to Win Friends and Influence People, title is pretty self explanatory. The books talk about human psychology and how to influence it in your favor. My buddy isn't a fan because to him it seemed manipulative. I agreed that it was manipulative but that's how the "game" works and no one is going …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:40 PM
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Being attractive will increase your chances of getting approached and getting a yes when doing the approaching. Being attractive does not give you the super power to will somebody specific to approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:59 PM
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I also go with the don’t ask don’t tell policy. Don’t volunteer the information (unless you’re not std free) unless you’re prepared for the fallout and don’t ask unless you’d be okay with any answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:08 AM
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This is a loaded question. There’s no such thing as a “happy relationship”. Relationships aren’t perfect and happy all the time. They go through ups and downs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:58 PM
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LPT for men: you can wear makeup too. There’s no reason as a guy one can’t properly trim and align ones facial hair as well as use basic makeup for the natural look in order to compete. I have a very simple cover up pen and it does wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 12:51 AM
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I can’t honestly answer that because I have no idea what kind of person and what kind of life I would have lived as a woman. There’s way too many unknowns to honestly answer that question. Just at a physical feature level how do physical features translate? As a tall dude, do I stay tall as a women. Is my height translated into the equivalent female attractive height. Or is height in men seen as the equivalent to cup size in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:44 PM
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My take: BluePill: Basically 90s rom com. Do nice things, make overly romantic gestures, and be yourself and the women you’re pining after will fall in love and want to have a family with you. Women are some mysterious animal that need to put on pedestals. ResPill: Cultivating value in oneself physically, financially, and socially is how to attract women, not being a pet dog in some one sided relationship. Know that cultivating value in oneself still guarantees you nothing, not even loyalty. Bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:51 AM
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It's too hard to argue against TRP and TheBlackPill so they just keep making posts blatantly mislabeling Incel beliefs as TR/BP
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 12:25 AM
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I've noticed in this sub that many of the men are upset as being seen as beta/provider/safe option etc. I think you answered your own question. Few men on this sub will agree that women can be equally attracted to an alpha as they would a beta. This also means the safety isn't mutual, aka female dread game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:49 PM
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When it comes to body standards, one really must consider online vs offline. I have no doubt in my mind that online body standards for men are severely harsher then for women. But IRL I think they are roughly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:08 PM
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The TRP and the blackpill exist is not because men don’t feel women want what they have to offer, it’s because we feel that we were lied to about what makes us valuable and so we tried to cultivate value you in areas that ultimately don’t make us appear more valuable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:05 PM
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Not remotely true. There’s a reason for the old saying, “you can’t put makeup on a pig”. You can make average look great but it’s hard to cover up ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:31 AM
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I don’t think you have to set up this whole convoluted hypothetical to get the answer you’re asking for. It will always feel shitty to be treated as some kind of consolation prize. If man or woman do something special for one partner (even if they kind of don’t want) but won’t do it for you, that’s going to feel shitty. And if that person or observers can’t see that then they are missing a critical piece of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:13 PM
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This idea is the true meaning of learning to be single. Honestly my life wouldn't be different that because that's mostly how I currently how I live my life. Only difference is I'd be more inclined to donate to a sperm bank if I'd truly given up. Otherwise my plan is the same, buy a house, get a dog, enjoy single life. I'll travel where I want and spend my money how I want to and if I get the chance I may even retire early.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 12:25 PM
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Mind games are pretty easy to spot. It starts with the simple thought, "this makes no sense", and then reasoning your way from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 12:12 PM
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I generally think that most people on this sub completely misrepresent TRP, often treating the community and the sidebar as the same thing, and switching which they are actually referring in order to strengthen their own argument. Most people who still post to the RP sub aren’t actually RP/ they’re so stuck in the anger phase that they keep confusing the idea of “relationship/sexual liberation justice” with the sidebar writings. I’d assume it’s probably similar with FSD although I haven’t actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:43 PM
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This is a joke, right? "The Pills" might be amoral but people aren't. Cheating is wrong. Breaking the trust of a LTR is wrong and when one side is betraying the other, the betrayed party has a right to know. The example from the comment is also a problem. These 2 (or at least the [ex-]wife) cared more about optics then honesty and thats what got the husband in trouble. If when the friend called the wife was just honest then the husband would probably have not been ostracized or at least not to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:25 PM
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It’s not about normalizing, it’s about bringing the idea to the forefront of people’s minds. Let’s be real, the spark that really gave the anti-circumcision movement power was the what-it-aboutism that MRAs had towards the anti-FGM moment. So how do you get prostitution legalized? You attach it to the larger movement of bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:00 AM
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Probably should switch 2 and 3. Only stupid amounts of money on can make up for lack of personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:53 PM
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By the time realistic enough sex bots exist to be a good enough replacement for the real thing, society will be at a completely different structure. We’re more likely to have better brain-computer interfacing for near realistic vr before we have the soft-robotics technology for a realistic enough sex-bot. And in many ways that will be 100 of times more addictive then porn because you will almost literally be able to have sex with anyone for next to nothing. And you can look however you want in v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:01 PM
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It's a stupid-tax. If someone is willing to pay more for something that can be used by anyone but is being marketed towards their gender, then they're stupid for not doing their research. I see similar complaints with drop shipping. "Woe is me. I payed more for a product because I couldn't take 5 min to do a simple google search." Either do your research or don't complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:49 PM
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Sidebar is life changing. A good read for any man and a lot of it is useful for anyone in general. As toxic as a lot of the posts are, it's a necessary evil. The people who stay too long LARPing at being a RP sociopath make it blatantly obvious for those who are ready to leave the anger phase that it's time to unsubscribe from TRP. But don't get me wrong, the anger phase is important and it's good that TRP is a place that exists for men to make cathartic posts that are positively received to hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:32 AM
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The small scale is known as "social proof". The idea being that women are extremely choosy when it comes to the man they will date/fuck. It's impossible to vet every dude but what if guys were already vetted? If a lot of people are drawn to an individual then that individual must have something to offer. More importantly though, you'd also want your offspring to have whatever that individual has because that will increase their chance at survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:15 AM
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Yeah. Assertive dudes are usually called assholes or dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:09 PM
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male only spaces == sexist; female only spaces == safe space for women a man watching a child is a predator until proven otherwise finding a partner: men are told to improve themselves and women are told that they’re good enough as is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:07 PM
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Good read. Paints an accurate picture of Peterson.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:33 PM
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I think a lot of his early work is fantastic and contains very solid advice. That being said, I think he late his notoriety go to his head and a lot of his more recent work is just him rambling on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:21 PM
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“A key that open many doors is a master key. A lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock”. Women aren’t as turned off to the idea of a guy having a high n count and in some cases women are turned on by the idea because it means that the man she is with is a desirable one. Where it tends to work the other way around for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:39 AM
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You’re title has nothing to do with your argument. You just made the same argument for why men should delete dating apps but didn’t really make any arguments as to why men behaving more attractively would reduce the percentage of single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:40 PM
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Just stop. Do whatever the fuck you want. No one here is going to try to convince you to find a LTR. Critiquing the dating game is going to get you absolutely nowhere. Read the sidebars, improve yourself, and decide for yourself what’s worth the effort. FWIW I was always the one who had to do more work to get an LTR but after we labeled the relationship the dynamics would switch and my-at-the-time-gf that would start doing extra to secure the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:49 PM
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For hookups: tinder and bumble. Just remember to be super attractive in all your pics. For LTR: What I’ve noticed is that most dating apps have a golden period where people who are actually looking for something serious found the app because the last one was overrun by people who just want to fuck. Noticed this with Tinder, OKC, and more recently Hinge. You’re best bet is to find a newer app that hasn’t quite gained popularity yet. But I’d advise staying away from dating apps. They tend to grind…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:00 PM
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Incels are incels because they’re risk averse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:46 PM
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I mean, I could argue that RP men are winning. TRP is about maximizing one’s value to the point that you’re value is so great that it spans generations. RP men won long ago so much so that their offspring are RP by relation (usually through a trust fund). And RP men are still rising to the top today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:42 PM
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1) was mostly doing online dating and meetups. Stopped because so was destroying my self esteem and how I perceived myself. I’d put all this work and money in for a completely unrewarding outcome. 2) Deleted the apps and feel so much better. I go to the occasional meetup still but even with those you start to see the same faces and realize that none of the girls there want to actually find a partner, they just enjoy the idea of the possibility of finding a partner while enjoying all the attentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:29 PM
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Men are more likely to be direct when stating something like that, while women are more likely to be indirect/subtle. This is why men can't point to a lot of examples because the examples come from life experience. Women are also way more likely to make fun of a man's physical masculinity (muscle mass, height, dick size) then emotional masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:04 PM
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I would hope she wouldn't provide the information unprompted and I wouldn't ask. So I can only assume the reason she'd say it would be to hurt me and in such a case I'd assume that the size of my dick wasn't the real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 12:25 AM
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I did no nut november a couple years back. Yeah the urges subsided by week 3 but... second week of december I got laid and all the normal urges came back. It's just not worth trying to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 10:10 PM
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Cats are less work then people in general
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 10:54 AM
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I think that’s just a fitness subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 03:19 AM
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The wall mostly is about women who don't work to keep fit and have always relied of the beauty of youth as well as the faster metabolism that comes with it. They often believe that their beauty is both external and internal and that it will always be a tool they can rely on without ever sharpening it. I agree with you though. I work with many single women in their thirties who are driven, intelligent, and beautiful. But I also hear about the soul cycle and cross fit classes they are taking to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:23 PM
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Let's be real, in his own mind Donald Trump is the most red pill alpha male chad to have ever walked on the face of the planet. You really could make the argument go either way. To some Donald Trump is the epitome of red pill. He has the power of an entire nation at his disposal, hanging on his every word. The people of the US pay for most of his expenses. In essence, Donald Trump has made the US his personal beta bux. The thing is, DT's life does not even come close to the life of the average p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:21 AM
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PPD seems to be filled with tons of incels and insings. Most of the comments are skewed heavily towards one gender or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:34 PM
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Surprised that article didnt include The Conceptual Penis as a Social Construct from awhile back. Manspreading — a complaint levied against men for sitting with their legs spread wide — is akin to raping the empty space around him. It was written to purposely sound ridiculous. I wish I could make this stuff up. ​
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 06:17 PM
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Rollo has been mentioning giving a speech at the 21 convention on the red man group podcast. Wouldn't be surprised if this comes up. I agree with you OP. There is a lot of hate and degradation towards women in this group that usually comes out in the comment section. Women on average have a different role to play in society then men do. Many here belive that role is inferior to the male role. So we then defend hateful comments with: Dudes come here in the anger phase, of course they make anger f…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 07:49 PM
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That would actually be very stupid. The best advice is to say nothing. Contact a lawyer and let him do all the talking. If friends or family try to bring up the subject, brush it off and say that your lawyer is taking care of everything, end of discussion. That way it really becomes her word vs yours.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 06:01 PM
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If a parent disciplines their child, then that child becomes motivated to make their bed in order to not to be disciplined again. Similar idea in the marines.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 05:40 PM
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That's not true. Children are motivated all the time by their parents to make their beds. The motivation to actually do so depends on the relationship between child and parent. A soldier is motivated by his commanding officers to make his bed. Some people find JP and get motivation from him. It's that motivation that leads to the repetitive behavior that becomes discipline. People don't do things for no reason, there is always a driving force, real or imagined.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 05:17 PM
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I disagree. All the things that you've stated "need to be done", you don't actually have to do. You don't need to do laundry but for one reason or another, you are motivated to wear clean clothes (I do it because I prefer not to smell like shit, you have your own reasons). Similar idea with dishes, and making your bed. Personally I don't make my bed. It's not because I lack discipline, it's because I lack motivation. I don't see a worthwhile benefit to doing it, so I don't. Maybe you do it becau…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 01:55 PM
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This makes no sense. People learn discipline from motivation. I have disciplined myself to regularly go to the gym, but I was only able to, and continue to because I'm still motivated to keep getting stronger. But if I no longer had that motivation, then I wouldn't keep going. Likewise, someone may have the discipline to move a bucket of sand one grain at a time, but without the proper motivation, why would they? ​ If I think of myself as a combustion engine, discipline would be the gasoline, an…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 07:20 PM
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That's what I'm doing. Anyway, ban me from this sub because from reading the side bar I can tell that you're sub is for purple pillers in the anger phase. You guys howl "we're not like those nice guys, we're good men". Basically the same thing that nice guys say about machismo alpha guys. Then are mad that being "good men" doesn't get you the result you want. Like I said above, the TRP sub is full of toxicity and misogyny, but all and all it gets how intersexual dynamics works. OP understands ho…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre16/08/18 03:46 PM
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The video was a good listen. It goes a bit deeper then the typical explanation and lays out behaviors that on the surface may not seem like "Nice Guy" behavior but in fact are.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre15/08/18 09:33 PM
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I've struggled with similar issues and through much thought, I have come to the undesired conclusion that the problem is indeed me (or you in your case). I came to realize that I don't have any meaningful hobbies that I'm passionate about, or any passions really. It doesn't matter that I have a good paying job, above average height but with average looks, bulk from lifting, and just generally have my shit together. I'm not passionate about my job. I enjoy working out, but wouldn't call it a pass…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre15/08/18 07:56 PM
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It's easy to assume that most men in Japan are soyboys by popular hobbies like "..Games galore, interactive movies, perverse comics...", but remember that the work culture in Japan is incredibly intense. The options become a mix of lifting, self improvement hobbies, “..Games galore, interactive movies, perverse comics...”, and dating real women. Which of those activities do you think the average overworked Japanese guy is going to go for?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 06:19 PM
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Another important distinction is that Steve Jobs sold a working product. Illegal to use, but fully functional. Holmes sold the idea of a working product and only showed investors smoke and mirrors. In some ways it's actually more impressive. Whats harder, selling an illegal firearm or selling to a toy gun but marketing it as a real firearm?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 06:09 PM
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Training new employees is extremely expensive. Remember, while an employee is being trained, they are a net loss to the company. In addition, you can't fire an employee on maturity leave and you have to keep that position open while that employee is on leave. So now you've lost money from training, you have either a temp to permanent position that you need filled but would still have to train the new hire regardless. The cost of a bad new hire is the reason why many managers choose to keep medio…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 05:26 PM
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Solid video. I don't think Rollo did a good job answering the question about the purple pill. The statements he was making sounded incomplete. TRP reveals to men the evolutionary psychology of women and all that comes with it. Understanding the truths of female psychology and biology allows men to more accurately predict the emotional reactions of most any woman. Because this behavior is predictable, and beta male responses to this behavior is predictable, we end up with common scenarios that ev…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 06:55 PM
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a quick short story but all to relevant: https://archive.org/stream/HarrisonBergeron/Harrison%20Bergeron_djvu.txt
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 04:46 PM
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The real irony here is that some states don't require you to provide identification in order to protect illegal immigrants
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 04:00 PM
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Yeah, saw a post on Blind with a similar story and advised the op to do the same
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 04:39 PM
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He was the one to make all the big decisions about our financial life, our business. Its amazing how his business became her business became his business. She was looking for any excuse to get back on the CC. The lawsuit just happened to come at the right time.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 03:52 PM
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To be fair, as someone with a larger build (6'3, broad shoulders), I wouldn't mind larger air plane seats.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 03:28 PM
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+1 for being totally worth it. there's a feedback loop from people treating you better leading to more confidence and so on. Plus it's nice being able to walk up a flight of stairs and not have to catch my breadth at the end.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 03:14 PM
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I agree with the fundamental message but disagree with your choice of technology. Calendars are nice but they are event and date driven. If you miss an event or task: boom! task lost in the void of time. My suggestion, buy a smallish bulletin board, some pushpins, and a pack of flash cards. Divide your goals into smaller tasks and give each task a due by date. Divide the board into 3 sections: To Do, In Progress, and Completed. But if a calendar works for you, no need to reinvent the wheel.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:56 PM
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Think about it like rest days from the gym. It's good to take rest days, relax your body so that it can recover. But it wouldn't be okay to stop putting enough effort into your workouts or you even stopped working out all together. Using that same idea, take a one of your days off (or a weekend) to just relax, and appreciate all the hard work that you've done and revel in the life you created for yourself. But once your rest day is over, get back to moving forward and improving yourself. There's…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 02:58 PM
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The simplest (and my personal favorite) answer to "Where have all the good guys gone?" is, "When has good ever been good enough?"
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 02:54 PM
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To use the tools that TRP provides is an art form. Even if I had the same paint brush, the same canvas, the same easel, the same paint, and the same landscape that the provided the inspiration, I would not be able to reproduce Van Goth's The Starry Night. With time I might become good enough to make a decent copy, but it would take years and a some natural talent to create something that could pass for the real thing. And to even call earlier attempts to recreate the original a good forgery woul…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 03:40 PM
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Im in the same boat but haven't had surgery yet. How much did they cost and was it worth it?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 03:02 PM
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“Cynics are - beneath it all - only idealists with awkwardly high standards.” ― Alain de Botton
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 04:41 PM
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Side note: as you start to get into shape, take note of how people look at you in the gym (esp. the girls). Remember, when you were ugly and week you were practically invisible. The fact that these people are noticing you means that you are improving. I went from invisible -> curious glares -> fuck me eyes -> (best feeling) girl comes over to near where I'm crunches, starts 'stretching' in front of the mirror while glancing over to me with fuck me eyes. It was the first time I'd ever seen it out…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 03:40 PM
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Only if that person's intention never changes. Personally I started my self improvement journey because l wanted to get laid. This was before I knew of TRP so the basic logic was, "I'm fat and unattractive. Attractive girls are more attracted to attractive guys. If I want to have sex with an attractive girl, I need to become an attractive guy". That helped pull the HB8 that broke me into finding TRP. Now my intent is to just improve myself. You can go a long way even with week intent.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 08:20 PM
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The Forever War is also a good read for this genre
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 05:12 PM
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"Do you have what I'm looking for?" Great quote! Also a great conversation starter.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 08:34 PM
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"What? You think she isn't independent enough to make her own decisions?" (Shit testing feminism) This! Best line. Don't miss a chance to use this line on a white knight. The facial expression of having sound reasoning used against them is priceless. I was talking to this cute russian girl when some dude (apparently the girl's friend's bf) shows up and tells me she has a boyfriend. Used this line on him, he had no idea how to respond.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 06:25 PM
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Basically why tinder is shit for men. Men can see a photo of a attractive girl and know that he will be physically attracted to that girl (as long as the photo is accurate). Women tend to more attractive to the presence of male which is aided by physical appearance but not the deciding factor.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:55 PM
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I see stuff like this all the time. When someone points out that how sexist this is, the response is always the same, "Of course I don't mean all men, the men I'm (not) talking about should know who they are." Don't even bother fighting this online. It's a waste of time and energy. But definitely speak up if you actually hear someone say it.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:56 PM
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like having a reddit block chain
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 07:17 PM
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All of the tax cuts add to the US national deficit, which we still haven't figured out a plan of paying back. Plus the tax breaks are set to expire in 2025 while cooperate rates stay the same. So basically in 7 years we're going to be in this mess again.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 07:28 PM
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Seeing the red flags is only half the battle (possibly even less). The hardest thing is actually reacting to those flags. It's really easy to make excuses for bad behavior because "she's the one" or "she makes up for it by..." or "better then being single". It's okay to forgive, its when you forget that you run into problems.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 09:02 PM
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The mother is already cancerous. The kid can still grow into a functioning member of society with the right mentoring. If being a man is about building things to improve society, what's more manly then working with the hardest material (young boys and men) and building them into strong, self-sufficient men?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 08:53 PM
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I'm a strong believer that History courses should be used to teach critical thinking skills. Too much of History courses is learning the who, what, and where. Learning history is supposed to be about learning cause and effect. Not just about what happened, but why it happened. How do we keep getting into situations and what we can do to get out of them. How to examine situations from multiple angles. How seeing through the side of the opposition, gives us tools to avoid creating that opposition.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 07:48 PM
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It wouldn't take much to beat trump in the next election. Problem being that the Dems have no one to put up against him. It's like after the last election the party got off it's high horse, only to then step down on to a pedestal. They're so focused on riding the anit-trump train that they're blind to identity crisis the party is going through. The #metoo push back is coming at the perfect time for them. If identity politics can be downplayed enough they might actually be able to put up a decent…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 06:19 PM
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It's not important as you might think. If you're smart and willing to put the work in, making good can be easy. Opportunity is all over the place. There's always money to be made in asset trading. The problem is that it takes a ton of time, work, and dedication. That means every single spare minute has to go into this work. If you don't love what you are doing to make this money, then it becomes a truly grueling process that many would rather trade for a reliable 9-5 job with benefits and vacati…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 04:21 PM
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I think this argument could use some rewording/reworking. You make it sound like women should be be low to average in intelligence. In modern America, I don't blame any person who chooses not to have a kid, man or woman. It's a lot of work and takes up a lot of resources. You could make the argument that modern feminism increases the challenges of raising kids through the destruction of modern marriage and the nuclear family. But let's stay away from the argument that smarter women are causing t…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 08:56 PM
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part of the problem is the participation medal mentality that many of us were raised with. Show up, get a trophy. Try, get a trophy. Lose horribly, get a trophy. Then we wonder why failure hurts so much. What do you mean I need to put in effort to succeed? So it takes that much longer to become accustomed to failing and building perseverance.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 04:29 PM
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that first nugget of wisdom was something i didn't even consider and you're totally right. thanks for helping be identify that. a lot of other great stuff here to think about.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 03:42 PM
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best comment dude! this is the kind of wordsmithing i come here for.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 02:50 PM
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Not lying. I'm a software developer. Companies pay big bucks for people who know how to code well.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 02:47 PM
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Couple of things: I disagree about height if you're tall (5'11 >). There are a good number of tall girls who really only look at bios for that number. If you're tall, it can only help to include it. With messaging, it's all about encouraging a response. If they are interested, as long as they actually have something to respond to (like you said, not 'hey' or 'hi'), they're likely to respond. This might just be personal preference, but I never ask, "when are you free?". It's too open if you have …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 06:40 PM
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What did I even just read? Where is the insight here? If she acts like a whore, treat her as such? No shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 09:42 PM
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As others have stated, TRP is amoral so there is no TRP answer for this. So here's my 2 cents. If this girl is looking for a "traditional relationship" don't take back the cheater. Yes, every person is capable of cheating but every person is also capable of murder. When if someone crosses the line once, it makes it easier for that person to cross the line again. Cheaters will cheat. TRP men understand that women are hypergamous my nature. Just like how man is likely to cheat driven by the desire…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:49 PM
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