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| 3 | Did she agree to go to a date or just out as friendsTreat people like humans. If you like someone show interest if they say no stop. That pretty much how you act anywhere. Shower at least once daily, don’t physically attack people unless it’s a life or death situation, treat people how you would want to be treated, show kindness and empathy to others, be open and honest about your intentions, and put the work into yourself to both know and believe in yourself. That will work well in all things. This entire concept of how do I act blows my mind. D… | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Did she agree to go to a date or just out as friendsI think she explained clearly what it is. It’s a meet up. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 02:27 PM |
| 18 | When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer?Exactly you Say you will be 3 minutes late by saying hey I’m running slightly behind I need to let my dog out and it’s a solid way to show her your place and introduce your pet while not wasting her time. The shower and grocery comment is super douche bag moves imo. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 05:53 AM |
| 3 | When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer?Ummm don’t do this. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Crush texted me that I look hot. She had rejected me a year ago. What do I do?I did this in a hot cold situation. They got soooo pissed. It was kind of funny. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | I tried being an asshole (mildly). it worked and it's pissing me offLook man folks appreciate things they have to work for. Men and women both. You don’t have to be an ass hole. You’re just not chasing and leaving things open ended. If you’re your goofy self and also leave things open ended it should have even more success. The key is to genuinely get to know people without idealizing folks and taking the time to get to know the real them. Infatuation with the idea or fantasy of someone is a turn off for both sexes. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:53 AM |
| 2 | [FIELD REPORT] Pulled a blonde girl from a gay clubGenuinely curious which part you don’t believe? | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Proximity is one of the best signs that a girl likes youI don’t really buy this and you shouldn’t either. Sitting near you isn’t an excuse to bother women. Sitting by you every time she sees you can mean she likes you as a friend and someone to talk to. This isn’t a pass to escalate. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Proximity is one of the best signs that a girl likes youI see someone doesn’t skip leg day next time she does the dumbbell thing. Simple not gross but definitely an escalation and you can laugh it off easily. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 06:29 PM |
| 56 | How do you guys begin sex when you are with a gir?Wait for her to get stuck in a dryer | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 05:43 AM |
| 2 | When you're rejected, would you prefer the real reason or given a cliche easy let down reason?Didn’t cAre why and never asked. If they weren’t feeling it I’d say OK thanks for letting me know that was very nice of you to do and move on. It doesn’t require a conversation or explanation. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 07:47 PM |
| 10 | I was told by two girls that I give off "vanilla vibes", what should I do about this?First they are thinking about having sex with you. Second it’s a bit of a playfully ridiculing comment. It’s not a big deal, laugh it off, and escalate with everyone said that about Dorian Grey too. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Do girls really notice when guys are wearing colognes?No they don’t have noses /s | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Girl with holding sex?It’s not. Splitting shit is gentlemanly unless your combining incomes or there is a large wage gap. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 08:16 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]If someone flakes once no matter how good the excuse without an immediate reschedule I would no longer pursue. Downgrade them to drunk texts and/or bullshit boredom time killing. Do not pursue seriously any further. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 08:33 AM |
| 9 | She can’t make up her mindThere are 2 answers yes and not yes. Not yes is functionally no. You don’t wait around or negotiate not yes into yes. Move on date other people and if she comes back around you can think about if you want to go out with her. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Do women really approach guys at bars?I’m a foot under that and a have been approached quite a bit. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Do women really approach guys at bars?Yes I’ve been picked up at a bar some number of times. Two the woman said roughly you’re hot take me home. A couple were less direct and said something along the lines of I bet you’re a good kisser let’s make out, and the rest were casual conversation that escalated to interest. In clubs usually it’s dance on you and grab your dick after it gets hard from them grinding on it. There’s a whole wide world of people out there and women aren’t a monolith of behavior. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"Have developed game? If you’ve never tried to develop game why are you upset or sad that you may not have any? Is game something you want or need in your life? | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 06:45 AM |
| 2 | I accidentally simped EXTREMELY hard.Have her buy the battery. Install everything. If she asks for payment say how about dinner and bottle of wine or something like that. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 04:57 PM |
| 21 | i rejected a girl this weekend and could possibly have gotten laidThat’s a good in to say you wanted to make out with me but I said you’re too drunk and put you to bed. Clears the air and let’s her know what happened. If she isn’t used to drinking she’ll then be able to make better choices about getting black out drunk. I personally appreciate knowing when I do dumb shit as it helps me realize when I drank too much and course correct in the future. | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Unless you are especially handsome, there is no reason for someone to find you attractive prior to you interacting with them. The majority of attraction is created via your actions and behaviors within an interaction. In many cases, the interaction comes prior to attraction, not vice versa.Grossly exaggerated thesis https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-behind-lust-attraction-companionship/ | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Why is her flirting pissing me off?It’s a bold move cotton let’s see how it plays out. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 02:59 PM |
| 5 | Why is her flirting pissing me off?She likes you or she doesn’t like you. You’re being a wuss about it because you’re terrified of rejection. By over analyzing all this dumb shit you’re hoping you can figure out if she’s into you to minimize rejection. Who cares. If you like her ask her out. If you don’t ask another girl out. You aren’t 12, don’t act like it’s middle school. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | How far into the conversation do you stop talking when she's not reciprocating?If I get a few one word answers generally I’d toss the Hail Mary pass of 1-10 how would you like to sit on my face? It la both a fuck off and occasionally a win. So you know not bad odds for getting an acceptable response, to you. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Girl that I like ask me ‘[NAME], help me find a Boyfriend’. What is the best way to respond? I tried saying that I’ll help her create a tinder profile and write crappy stuff which she laughed and said no I’ll kill you.So she’s maybe awkward and likes you or she doesn’t at all. Either way, next time say I’m grade A boyfriend material right here, and see what she says. | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Can we help these INCEL guys?No. Im college I was in a serious relationship. 20’s weren’t a drought I turned down many opportunities. 30’s after my wife passed, I did better than I’ve ever done. App dating made it EZ AF.... | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Can we help these INCEL guys?I’m 5’4” and lost count of partners in high school. Charisma means more than height. Intelligence means more than looks when applied properly. | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Date ended in make out, no text backYa when you text you her next invite her to something specific and fun that as a FES she may not readily do. A fun local festival, cool activity for the summer etc. | /r/seduction | 19/06/19 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Date ended in make out, no text backI have made out with girls randomly standing in line at a bar to get a drink. A little smog means nothing more than you’re cute I wanna kiss.... Check back in one time a few days later then forget about it if you don’t get a response. | /r/seduction | 19/06/19 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Am i getting friendzoned here?She wants to hang out on the 4th. If you want a fun date idea I’ll give away my 4th idea. I’ve got a big group and we’re going to watch the seafare stuff all dressed up in ridiculous ‘Murica fuck yeah outfits. The plane show and parade are a blast! Sneak some champagne in a soft cooler and take some cups. You can roam around, day drink, and have a blast together. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 19/06/19 08:34 PM |
| 2 | How do I lose feelings for my FWB?You don’t have to own someone to enjoy them in your life. You can build a relationship far different than anything you’ve likely had. You can run into each other or travel to do interesting things, do friend things, and have some good sex, all without having to merge bank accounts, move in together, deal with family, etc. Keep it fun and free and get to truly know each other. A few women that I had relationships like that with are still close friends of mine, some are single some are married m, … | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 07:14 PM |
| 41 | What did you start doing to get girls to view you sexually?Unsolicited dick pics | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 12:44 AM |
| -1 | WHY LOOKS MATTER SO MUCHThese posts are useless. Looks have mattered since the dawn of time. | /r/seduction | 29/04/19 08:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Sometimes the journey is the best partYou set the tone for what you’re looking to do that night. To have fun and get sexy. If she’s not into it she’ll let you know immediately then you can decide what to do next. If you don’t want to have a sexy fun make out session then you chill on the couch and talk to your friend. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 08:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Sometimes the journey is the best partTo get the friend all you had to do was escalate with choker a little then choose friend and escalate. You weren’t bored, don’t bullshit a bullshitter, you wanted your friend and ruined a sure thing for a hope at a shot. Which you had, but fucked up by not initiating a kiss. You’re riding a high because this is something you felt you conquered, and I’ll say it’s progress. You did not however do well. Look man, both men and women like to hook up, if you want to hook up you can do it, watch for si… | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 04:52 AM |
| 9 | Oneitis while in a relationshipYou’re kind of a douchey dude. Drop both work on yourself. | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 10:30 PM |
| 1 | How to get girls as a short dudeGood god I’m 5’5” get your shit together OP. | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 08:46 AM |
| 1 | What I learned after going on over 75 (sometimes painful) Tinder datesThis guy fucks | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 06:30 AM |
| 2 | What I learned after going on over 75 (sometimes painful) Tinder datesDating sucks. Having a few friends that like to hang out with you and vice versa seems to take care of my current desire for something more serious. I don't ever see myself dating a single person forever again. | /r/seduction | 14/08/17 10:20 PM |
| 1 | What I learned after going on over 75 (sometimes painful) Tinder datesI can line up 1-3 a week generally and have for months straight unless I'm traveling. I'm sitting on 15 matches I haven't messaged because I'm booked for several week solid already on every available date day I have. I have three regular women that each get a day a week and two friend days. That leaves 2 days a week for dating and I just invite them to do stuff I want to do with maybe drinks or something around there. Often they just tag along as I walk my dogs for date one. If you can't pull a … | /r/seduction | 14/08/17 10:18 PM |
| 2 | How do I [18/F] seduce my boyfriend [22/M]?Your dude is gay | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I [18/F] seduce my boyfriend [22/M]?Girl shitty love isn't better than no love. No love will teach you self love. Get therapy and work on your self esteem. The problem here isn't your relationship. It's you. You need help battling your demons. He's not offering it. | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 09:02 PM |
| 2 | How do I [18/F] seduce my boyfriend [22/M]?Dudes done forget. They don't care. | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 09:01 PM |
| 4 | How do I [18/F] seduce my boyfriend [22/M]?He's got mental/physical issues. At 20 something I could pop wood for a stiff breeze. Dude needs therapy/medical help. | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 08:59 PM |
| 1 | How should i handle my feelings for my best friend?She likes you a lot. Do you her to be the one that got away. We never regret the things we do we always regret the things we don't do. Swallow down your bullshit and go get your girl. | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 05:06 PM |
| 2 | confused on what being called nerdy meansNot a shit test. It means smart and passionate about things. Nerds are in. | /r/seduction | 29/06/17 06:02 PM |
| 5 | I've been asked to shoot a porno. Girl's a hb9. Her request was that we Skype, then go out to dinner and fuck before the shoot. Any advice?Step 1: Richard Nixon Mask Step 2: Bang Step 3: ?????? Step 4: Profit I wouldn't waste my career for a novel experience, and I'm all about the stories. Some stories can have horrible endings. If you think this could work out for you so you never get found out, maybe, but probably not. | /r/seduction | 29/06/17 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Eye contact with strangersI got off on a tangent and let this response cool off. You're happy and life rocks. Women are Interésted and you don't front. Congrats natural that's what natural is. Not trying but being happy. You are amazing and you should help kids on this sub! | /r/seduction | 02/06/17 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Eye contact with strangersSo you see how you want to grab a beer with this guy? That is charm. He does it genuinely and it's refreshing!!!!!. | /r/seduction | 02/06/17 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Eye contact with strangersThe real fire was in the last paragraph. It's ok to be introverted. That doesn't mean you are shy I means you need downtime. Also you can't fake genuine happy. I had a period where I couldn't fake it. I realized you actually can't fake charm. It's about being in a moment and so happy that others want to feel what you feel. Developing mindfulness and positivity will lead to charm if you socialize. If you don't call yourself a natural at the end of the journey you don't have it. Great reply, far b… | /r/seduction | 02/06/17 04:52 PM |
| 13 | Eye contact with strangersI make eye contact with more than 1 out of 20. It's posture and presence. Smile because today is amazing, not because it's forced, look around always, be aware of your surroundings, interact with everyone in small ways, and people will meet your eyes. It's a whole presence thing. I'm a "natural" so I don't know how much I can add here other than to say, if I see a kid playing on the street I smile laugh wave to them and make eye contact, someone walking their dog? I smile say something to the do… | /r/seduction | 02/06/17 03:41 PM |
| 2 | The problem is you guys aren't asking the right questions and therefore the right material isn't being put out, stop obsessing over female psychology.Finally a post that isn't full of angry dribble. This man is correct. Just be the man you want to be and don't look to ha e your existence validated by your penis. For fucks sake who cares why the girl you're not dating yet did something or why your ex cheated on you, focus on you, be a man, have boundaries, self respect, and be a good person. The rest will follow. Also do some exercise you fucks! Lift and run. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/17 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Why being yourself actually works. And some other thoughts.So you know him personally because it's been corroborated more than once | /r/seduction | 29/04/17 04:42 PM |
| 10 | Why being yourself actually works. And some other thoughts.Read the game by Neil Strauss. Yes they can even nerdy awkward dudes. The price is your soul. | /r/seduction | 29/04/17 08:26 AM |
| 0 | Where do I go from here?Just tease her have fun and find someone else to hang out with. She will show signs if she's into you and if not you're working on the next project. Also seduction in high school is dumb. Stop it. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 09:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm a virgin. How can I improve?Stop jerking the gerkin. That's my advice. It's like quitting cigarettes. It's OK to jerk off. It's not OK to choose porn over doing real stuff. Get a fucking hobby and commit to it. Any hobby. | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 11:25 PM |
| 15 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.This is the correct mindset. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 05:35 PM |
| 44 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.You don't know that. That's often a man's way of hamstering because keeping 10's around is hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Fuck Your Cuddle PartyGood lord the shit trumpets believe. That is like saying the MRA are anti women mysoginists who want to get rid of women's rights. It's absurd you dumb fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/16 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Dating an Alpha Widow- My 2 year journey from BluePill to RedPill and the things I learned...Adequate response, "Damn I must be doing it wrong if you're enjoying it that much. Roll over let me get in that ass we'll fix this." | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/16 04:33 PM |
| 2 | 12 Reasons You Should Date a Retired Party Girl... and other fantastic adviceYou know all that shit you do doesn't feel great the next morning. It's why many enlightened men don't advocate having a bunch of one nighters with complete cum dumpsters. It's gross, dangerous, and that time would generally be better spent with literally anyone else in the world, at the gym, reading, watching a documentary, learning a foreign language, I could go on forever. The point is think about the emotional toll that being a cum dumpster takes on these women. It's why their hamsters are s… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Thank you, for absolutely everything.You didn't ask me but what I wish I knew at 16 is that all the shit I thought I knew I barely understood. Also you get out life what you put in. Don't half ass things because you can and don't do things because they are easy. Learn early to challenge yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/15 11:19 PM |
| 7 | Thank you, for absolutely everything.I think not fucking crazy girls drastically reduced the likelihood this happens to you. Don't stick your dick in crazy, stay away from one night stands, have plates that are worthy of your time not just your cum dumpster. Find quality people be they make or female and your life will be higher quality. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/15 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Thank you, for absolutely everything.I'd say finance is probably worth more than Econ. Add some high level math and you can make stupid amounts of money. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/15 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Let a woman's honest perspective destroy your Blue Pill FantasiesYou ever been in real shit? Most men without training don't have the abilities you say they do. I think maybe too many Terminator movies. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 10:16 PM |
| -1 | Let a woman's honest perspective destroy your Blue Pill FantasiesWhy is there an anger phase. If anything shouldn't you be pissed off at yourself for being a spineless pussy. It's not women's fault that so many men are chumps. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 02:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] This crazy playboy girl I met has a SLAVE!No arguing with a retard is fruitless especially one that fervently tries to move responsibility for proof to another party. Im old enough to know that you shouldn't feed the trolls. Read a book man they're good for your brain. Have a good day. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/15 07:54 PM |
| 1 | [FR] This crazy playboy girl I met has a SLAVE!Well I try not diagnose mental predispositions without training or qualifications so I'll refrain. Abused by their mothers was another comment you made. I'm just not going to argue with stupid. The reasoning is rational and clear. In some cases you may be correct in others you may not. Freudian psychology is basically completely disregarded by academia at this point and your using a poor man's version of it in your argument. Believe what you want but when you state cause and effect you're ventur… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR] This crazy playboy girl I met has a SLAVE!I'm just going to go with you aren't the brightest bulb in the tree or were drunk/stoned and forgot this: Yes, yes I do. The worst part is that subs frequently call it love too. Usually men who had atrociously abusive childhoods. Not just normally abusive but atrociously so. Evidence? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/15 03:24 PM |
| -2 | [FR] This crazy playboy girl I met has a SLAVE!Extraordinary claims require evidence. You made the extraordinary claim not him therefore you are required to post evidence. That's basically how these things work. Unicorns live in the woods behind my back yard can YOU prove they don't? Guess I'm right then. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 11:01 PM |
| 1 | "You can't spell woman without MAN" how one Omega ruined my night, how do I learn from this [FR]1 no way are you in medical school unless it's in Guadalajara 2 you aren't alpha you're drunk and angry alphas don't head to head they don't need to 3 being the aloof fun guy is more alpha than being the loud angry black guy 4 you are probably trolling or really dumb | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Beautiful wife in honeymoon cheats with AM behind husband's backSounds more to me like they have a freaky sex life. The guy may live to boast about how awesome he is while having a woman dominate And cuckold him. Surprised you didn't put that together especially with all the clear indicators you describe. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 12:37 AM |
| 1 | I did something either stupid or painfully eye-opening. Need to vent and would like feedback/swift kicks if needed.You couldn't close a plate Russian girl and think it's amazing success. You're not the pimp you think you are. Every night won't be a wild Russian orgy. Many nights CAN be like that if you work at it. If you'd rather do that than raise your kids do it for the kids sake. They don't need a half assed or disinterested parent. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/06/15 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Diagnosed with cancer: need a Red Pill PlanActually been dealing with cancer for 3 years. Hope you can deal with it as flippantly as you would like to. If yours is nice and mild and goes into remission quickly you may get lucky. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 01:24 PM |
| 1 | How Peru Made Me See Red from BlueThat's how the culture treats them in the upper classes. It's a fucked up system. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/15 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How Peru Made Me See Red from BlueNo they are expected to plan parties, family gatherings, social events with charities and stuff, socialite shit mostly. It's not something you would readily understand in the US. Not that it doesn't happen here it's just far different and doesn't affect social standing in the same way. You aren't used to a strict social class system in the US or Europe. It's a different beast. If you don't send cards, letters, gifts, etc to all sides of an extended family they have ammo against you. It's really … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/15 06:12 PM |
| 1 | How Peru Made Me See Red from BlueYa that's the problem with the upper classes in Latin countries. They get quite Paris Hilton. Dating wealthy Latin women is tough. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 10:21 PM |
| 1 | How Peru Made Me See Red from BlueBeing a strong independent man doesn't mean you should be a culturally ignorant douche bag. Not letting people walk all over you, setting clear boundaries, and knowing who and what you are is something everyone should strive for. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How Peru Made Me See Red from BlueThere are entire classes about business ethics that generally disagree with your stance. Secondly most universities have rules against that behavior. I actually lived in Latin America and never saw a school where it was not explicitly or implicitly against the rules. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 08:05 PM |
| 1 | How Peru Made Me See Red from BlueYa you got a real winner there. They aren't all like that. The ones like that I don't even recommend fucking. Also marriage suitability is asked early in a relationship so that's not uncommon there. If it's not there you can be secret FWB but not date publicly. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 12:52 PM |
| 1 | How Peru Made Me See Red from BlueIf she isn't providing social benefits to the marriage you leave her. It's why you don't marry down in Latin America. There are more jobs in a family than cook clean and fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 12:48 PM |
| -3 | How Peru Made Me See Red from BlueIt's pretty simple. Don't sleep with subordinates. In Most countries it'll loose you a job and not because feminism but because it's a giddamn conflict of interest and can be a soul crushing experience for the student. If a woman was doing the same thing I'd be equally abhorred by their lack of ethics. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 03:40 AM |
| 12 | How Peru Made Me See Red from BlueYou know so little about Latin culture after being there for ages it is astonishing. Your insights are those of someone with a below average basic understanding of the culture. This doesn't stop after marriage if you have even an ounce of manhood in you. Relationships with Latin women require a different dynamic and a bit more control on the mans part. Edit: realized this sounds a bit SJW. I'm not saying you did something wrong im saying you are dating in a country without even a basic understan… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 03:14 AM |
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