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Thats a mighty large chip on your shoulder ya got there
/r/RedPillWives12/08/18 07:15 PM
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Funny you put this here. I've been officially shadowbanned by their automod because they are "reviewing my status" because I heard about this and brought it up. I may have even caused a new mod to "quit" This account has never been about the pills, I like debate. However, the squirmy mod playing victim, absolving themselves of responsibility, and getting right offended at the idea that people might just want them to take user safety seriously was a bridge too far. I dont know if any of their "re…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 03:11 PM
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perhaps you should use pepe memes. thats usually how your points are presented to a lay audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 07:31 PM
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you mean lover/provider? thats the female dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 07:30 PM
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Men don't know when they have it, or they wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 07:29 PM
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So you went with doubling down on your angry rant... don't worry about me, I don't get riled up over an angry keyboard warrior smashing keys and feeling righteous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 07:28 PM
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Yeah, i already have real life to practice tact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 06:02 PM
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I understand the other commenters point, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 05:58 PM
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The fact that you're the beloved court jester, should have put the "men don't like Sluts" meme to rest permanently. Instead we are here, beating the dead horse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:35 PM
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Make clear doesn't mean to say it. For a woman, I'm surprised you don't get subtext
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:28 PM
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https://youtu.be/QHqB2t-DGb8 5:08 go search for 'I'm right. Com" 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:21 PM
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I was here after the edit. This sanctimonious prick approach really doesn't fit you, try another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:19 PM
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It's so vague and undefinable. Does someone really have this limp and flaccid sort of worldview, for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:16 PM
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Women would, because no woman would fall for it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:13 PM
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I'll bet you furiously searched the subreddit for the word whore and posted without reading it, now you're doubling down
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 02:43 PM
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fat girls get fucked all the time. perhaps you should stop taking your cues on life from camgirl sites
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 02:41 PM
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He said dating. you said fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 02:39 PM
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If you going to ask guys what credence a possibly non replicatable paper gives against their own eyes, I'm afraid you're going to leave disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 08:33 PM
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We are talking different things. FWB just have to put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 08:31 PM
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Agency. At what point is someone responsible for putting up with abuse? Not at the time, not when coming back, so when?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 07:46 PM
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Yeah fuck me often, don't fuck anyone else. Lunacy!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 07:34 PM
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No one hates Sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 07:26 PM
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Go outside for a biy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 12:45 PM
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Lol, the ultimate alpha. He's chattal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 12:44 PM
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That post You linked about cads wife reads like his inner thoughts. And leaving the house is abuse? I stand by my comment. That was a disingenuous question meant to accuse people of abuse. And calling a wife a cunt isn't abuse either. Do you even know what abuse is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 12:43 PM
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Margret thatcher. Iron rule, and hated femenism. Victoria ii as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 03:40 AM
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It's a male femenist matriarch wet dream. Love the movie, but it's the story of a single Mom who gets a stepdad who teaches her son to be a man and sacrafice for them all. She strong Independant and don't need no man. Except briefly to teach her son before he can literally go and die in a fire
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 03:38 AM
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Of mice and men Mean girls Debbie does dallas Swamp thing 2
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 03:13 AM
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Lel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 02:52 AM
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Just give your Facebook photo and they will handle the rest. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 02:51 AM
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In what world did you think this was a good question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 02:50 AM
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Hey OP, when did you stop beating your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 12:49 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 07:27 PM
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So ones daddy issues dictate how one treats modern men, I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 11:34 AM
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Lol, you figured it out eh? Don't pat yourself on the back, I did the same years ago. It's never been about what's true, only what's useful. If I told you the moon was made out of cheese, and that knowledge made you work out ever day, then as far as I'm concerned, it's cheddar. Welcome to trp, replacing societies detrimental fictions with helpful ones. Ethos > Pathos > logos
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 11:25 AM
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I've never seen that, ever. People living inside their heads too much
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 11:17 AM
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Or doctors, or janitors, or security. Theres no dead weight
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 11:16 AM
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Yeah, good point. They are happy because it's like a Greek bath house, all day long
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 01:44 AM
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They don't hire surplus people. It burns if any department leaves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 01:43 AM
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I'm saying you differ from every woman I've ever known. Maybe you're alt rock or something
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:39 PM
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Your flirty game sucks. No cleavage and not even dangling sex out there. I think I've solved your problem. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:00 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:59 PM
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That's the problem. There's no struggle to overcome, no enemy to unite us. Catastrophic successes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:53 PM
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Any corn field is a potential alien abduction Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:53 PM
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My family is full of nurses. They say the doctors make em feel this way, and then Continue to say the hospital would burn without them... But most. Of the time they only care who is fucking who
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:51 PM
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Maybe his woman was very pretty and pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:50 PM
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Lol, /whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:48 PM
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It's what women say when their man is too sick to put up with a pottery barn afternoon
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:47 PM
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Bet they lost touch after marriage though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:46 PM
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Until you settle down, then gay guys get used to female vitriol. At least that was how an old boss of mine put it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:45 PM
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How does one catch mice without exchanging cheese?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:43 PM
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Yeah, and guys at the bus stop
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:14 PM
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It's in the name
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 06:31 PM
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No one reads. Minds, your. Mind isn't everyone's. Mind. At least I like to think we haven't gone full commie
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:37 PM
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None. Glad you came around, wish the prodding weren't required, bit I appreciate your response either way 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:29 PM
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Sure, they aren't identical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:17 PM
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Facetious...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:58 PM
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Sure, I would say feeding into the victim Mindset (that the bully convo does) is dangerous... I dont see the difference in the result
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:58 PM
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So, do you like ... stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:41 PM
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Oh! never mind then. didn't realize it was just a simple digression from the topic after the top level! my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:38 PM
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If it sells itself, one doesn't have to embellish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:28 PM
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You mean the main topic of the thread? I suppose it has nothing to do with what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:27 PM
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I'm saying you can't articulate it and gave a cop out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:27 PM
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This is the goto response when people. Can't articulate the reason. Say it's "magic"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:05 PM
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You talk about "real marriage", a legal construct that's relatively new to the west. Id say I can make a good guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:52 PM
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Not the same thing as non marriage and a family. C'mon, don't piss on me and tell me it's raining
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:32 PM
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Thats not what branch swinging is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:28 PM
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and the free house, and all her other stuff? That there to pad the point with negatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:28 PM
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i'ts a rhetorical question about your nieve and recent concept of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:23 PM
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they never are. Did you know women are the worst victims of men dying in wartime?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:22 PM
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No, ...move in with a man who explicitly would not marry you and owned the house you lived in that he would not put you on the deed on, live with him, take on the support role of "wife" and have kids with him at the expense of your career? no man said this, no man is saying this, and the attempt to connect it with single mom BS is disingenuous, but I am pretty sure the both of you know that already
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:22 PM
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I think you need to understand that this isn't some throwaway single date we are talking about here. you get a guy in a committed relationship, with a girl he loves. she builds up some convoluted 'reason' she should stay at home and unilaterally does so. And it's almost always gauged against when he's the most 'committed', like when they have a kid for example. I assume you're a sociopath, and have no emotional attachment to a wife or child, and can just throw it away so easily when someone unil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:55 PM
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Right. Considering people talk about RP guys as married schlubs, you probably won't be seeing htem at the bus stop with your college 'friends' who share their intimate life details
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:37 PM
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3 month dates are not branch swinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 01:07 PM
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Such close bonds, you and those people at the bus stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:58 PM
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I believe it was 7, hence the 7 year itch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:56 PM
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Everyone knows themselves, until they are tested. That's when they meet themselves for the first Time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:56 PM
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Honestly, from that little query a few posts ago, almost no women here are UMC. lots of guys were, but maybe 3 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:55 PM
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Everything in a mans life tells them to "man up", and shame them for leaving kids in a marriage. Everything and everyone. You think that has 0 effect? Also, PITA is not what I called it. Unilateral life altering decisions are not a PITA... They aren't agreeing to it. They are begrudgingly accepting it after the decision was made and implemented.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:52 PM
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Real marriage used to be picked by dad, and was part of a business merger. When did your idealistic concept of marriage become tablets on the Mont?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:51 PM
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In aggregate, you think it's better now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:50 PM
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No Man says this. This is the strawman women built up to dismiss what men are actually saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:48 PM
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I have don't MMA, and other martial arts since I was a teenager. Ever spared with beginners 50lbs heavier? Significant gaps is an exaggerated claim. Go try it yourself if you don't believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:46 PM
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They should buy a gun, or get a man with a gun. And stop being isolated, they can't arm bar themselves out of an attach
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:44 PM
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Seeking validation... I've seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:43 PM
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Except for those ones that triple their rate of suicide of course. Statistically. Small, but there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:42 PM
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So is seeing people outside of a girls dating life. By definition, if a guy is having dating troubles, girls. Will have no idea about him. Survivorship bias at work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:41 PM
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Likely, or capable? Is your view that "do it before they do it first", or "they just jelly brah"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:39 PM
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How do the starving empathize with fine dining?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:38 PM
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Your post:ready, fire. Aim! Anyone whose done it has ample example to prove this wrong. Stop navel gazing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:37 PM
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Same phenomenon. No one's talking about anything else but coercive SAHM. Mom types. And I'm saying that it's not simple, some take advantage of a guys good will, and that they aren't capable it switching it off and kicking their woman to eh curb, Esp. If she got a kid in tow and unilaterally decides to stop working Id. Love if guys did, but I guarantee the divorce rate goes up decently because of it. Then everyone would complain about man children ruining families or something else
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:59 AM
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Question, did you read TGPs first response to this? Something about not accusing people of stuff and deleting comments? Again this is another 3rd hand info, so I could have a few details wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:22 AM
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We were never discussing whose responsible. I take it you believe the phenomenon now? https://twitter.com/DegenRolf/status/999558683016224768?s=19 Also, dound this to articulate the point. Imagine having to brush off a loved one. Your answer of "do something or shut up about it" isn't a sufficient response
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:20 AM
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Coercion, taking advantage of a mans good nature, sure. Some guys have a hard time setting those kind of hard boundaries with someone they love, it's a great resentment builder too...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:19 AM
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I disagree with all, suggesting it's not accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:36 PM
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Ask a qfw, if you get normal girls, and honest answers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:36 PM
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Yeah, i dont think it's most. Everyone here seems to love framing everything as a power struggle... Welcome to the world you advocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:36 PM
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High value man like women who aren't a financial drain on them, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:21 PM
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Do you really want me to mansplain how peer pressure works for women? Agreeable people hate to make waves, peer pressure is the biggest influencer on decisions, and women tend to be agreeable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:20 PM
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I'm not saying they don't. thats what makes it so effective. I've seen this happen to a close friend. Wife was college grad, working in some 'waiting for a ring' job... promises that she was looking for a career. Then after the wedding? she would skip out on interviews etc, then popped a baby out a year later. Now, shes a SAHM, and he loves his family too much to say anything about it. He definitely isn't having a good time paying for her lifestyle choice. But she definitely care's deeply about …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:19 PM
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After the ring is on? Not really. After a baby pops out? Not really. well, technically you can just leave her, but y'all love to shit on the guys who do that to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:04 PM
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but she doesn't get a say about if another woman be will SAH keep telling yourself that. women fall for peer pressure worse than teenagers. If you don't have this, than you probably have passive or few friends
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:03 PM
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I stand corrected.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:55 PM
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Ascii art, perfect representation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:47 PM
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Your internet anonymous posters. I don't know you except for the consistently irritated posting tone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:21 PM
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I did preface saying it was third hand information. You can put the claws away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:18 PM
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Either way, removed my comment on this. Ain't worth it for someone just to throw it in my face to practice gossiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:54 PM
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I've only heard it 3rd hand, but supposedly some blue piller found a redpiller and started harassing his family. the moderator teams reaction was ... patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:38 PM
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you mean like that doxxer was doing this week?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:30 PM
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Was going to say the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:26 PM
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yeah, in case anyone was wondering, a user was just doxxing people in here a few days back
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:18 PM
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Regardless, the point is there is a smaller gap of mentally healthy women than there should be, and suggesting finding one is easy dismisses them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:54 PM
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A big if, considering at least half of women are on meds for various psycholoigcal problems. I wouldn't exactly hand wave the 'find one that isn't crazy'... especially when it has the same odds as roulette
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:52 PM
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Find a middle aged woman, should be easy, ask them, they'll tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:16 AM
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Pejorative or positive phrasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 09:51 PM
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Late 30s, early 30s. I wasn't around for tinder and xanax
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 09:38 PM
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By using the term I suspect the girl is convincing herself, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 09:34 PM
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I'd say a good overlap on normally functioning healthy men, yeah. Now how large that group is? That's up for debate. In my experience, men don't want to fight with girls, just being content is sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 01:36 AM
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Makes sense, quite a few admit they don't care about the subject, are argumentative and like to fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:05 PM
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Everyone has a limit. The question is which limit is socially acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 03:24 PM
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I've never cared about winning a fight. That's how women think, hence why they lie, make shit up, and go after pressure points when running their mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 03:22 PM
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I spotted the person whose never been in a fight!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 03:12 PM
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She wants a fight, I don't. She doesn't get me until she calms down Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 03:11 PM
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Didn't even read before you were compelled to opine...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:55 PM
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U wot m8?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 09:46 PM
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It's a common thread among their group, and I'd say it's completely within the scope of your question. At least if you acknowledge the question within anything further back the this posts creation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 09:46 PM
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Make any pejorative, realistic claim of women in aggregate... All you see are girls arguing "but not me!" Thats what he's referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:03 PM
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Like a shirt one can put on and take off... Methinks people don't understand what worldviews or ideologies are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:01 PM
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And idiot guys who fill their kids head with nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:00 PM
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Op was clearly talking about you specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:58 PM
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Lying and self delusional attitudes are a valid technique for women to land a man. You are right, but no gurl will care
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:55 PM
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Then why is everyone ignoring that when I bring them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:46 PM
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Read up on the FLDS, or among certain immigrant groups Op specifically Mentionned immigrant groups. I wasn't referring to flds groups at first, only the immigrant ones. Also, did anyone's parent here not get married at 17 or 18? Grandmothers especially. I find it weird it's all of a sudden reprehensible for it. They already have statutory law to keep 40 year olds from Grooming teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 02:30 PM
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I did, it's their articles talking about traffic stats during the marches. Sorry, no photos
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 02:28 PM
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Then maybe there's a reason they are here, and not in trp lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 02:28 PM
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I've never heard the word trp and marry in the same Sentence lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 02:23 PM
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https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2012/11/24/more-grim-news-for-carousellers-hoping-to-jump-at-the-last-minute/#comment-62160 This is from the trp sidebar. You can read 8t two ways. Rant of a bitter guy who can't get laid, or the admission that girls will not have an issue with the wall. As he puts it, they will have their cake and eat it too. It doesn't read like a revenge fantasy toe, it reads like an admission that trying for your parents life is just not going to work. It's more of anger at one'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 02:22 PM
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Pretty simple. Ever hear the adage "balls empty, stomach full?" Add being pleasant and you're nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 02:12 PM
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So why did you say some immigrant groups then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 02:07 PM
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Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 02:06 PM
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https://www.pornhub.com/insights/womens-march-2018
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 02:06 PM
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Other than the photos of soy guys and middle aged women, the only certainty was pornhub reported a major drop in traffic during the march
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 01:26 AM
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Among certain immigrants
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 01:25 AM
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Lol, no one's petitioned government. It's only been strawman created to say they did. Those spinsters did petition for tons of stuff though, free BC, and a ton of women at that anti trump March weren't exactly 21
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 10:40 PM
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How is that better than just not letting them in? If they normalize child Marriage, what other crap they bringing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 10:19 PM
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I assume leaving words I dont intend to use out of a sentance would be sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:45 AM
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I didn't say all, and I didn't say for good mental health. Stop putting words into My mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:09 AM
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Spouses are notoriously bad for talking about your problems to. They aren't, and dont want to be your shrink. And husbands want to solve not to listen.. Your SO is the worst person to talk to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:00 AM
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sure, why articulate any grievances. it may be the best way to differentiate real ones from over reactions, but you can just bottle it up instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:39 AM
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still, it's a fairly dismissive way to talk about the human condition. I'm fine with that, but I know it's not how we went from a low percentage of divorced new moms, to a high percentage of them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:38 AM
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that mentality is retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 11:53 PM
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Pretty much everyones is detached in some form or another. Working from home in an office space. Can you blame them? I imagine your boldest section is similar to the reasons people are here.. At least I've had a few people report that was their reason for subscribing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 06:18 PM
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Not sure how they don't. Ever since marrital rape became a thing, they've been playing by the same rules as single people, only restricted
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 05:31 PM
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First off, I said MRP looks for life advice and solutions. I said here was for getting insight, throwing ideas at each other, and concluding which are stronger. Another person suggested consensus, and I had no said that either. I don't know what bait you're providing, or what argument you think I'm giving. This is the second comment thread today where I have to remove the words someone has put into my mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 05:07 PM
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They already know it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 05:05 PM
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> And it's possible to gain additional insight on something without changing your mind. I never said consensus, and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 05:04 PM
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Does it bother you that I have an opinion on the matter, but not emotional investment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 05:04 PM
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Does it align with their wishes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:11 PM
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Thats clearly a stock photo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:03 PM
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he, were you talking to me, or looking at that girl in the red dress?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:00 PM
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This reminds me of those guys who go around telling women how 'alpha' they are, and looks like it has the same effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:58 PM
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/r/theView
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:56 PM
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Whats the point of a debate if no one walks away with any better insight? Case in point, /u/emoryupton placing some perspective on the series of threads. At that point, it's just watercooler small talk, so drab
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:31 PM
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Are you trying to bully me now because I didn't get your airport romance novel reference? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:29 PM
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Apologies, my mind reading device is in the shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:03 PM
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I was referring to the MRP critique. I assumed it was their MO to fix relationships. I have a different theory for here, but it's not something I'd bet money on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:58 PM
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I don't even think most people are. I'm still new here, but I ask, I listen, and I read. Someone made a great point to me. She had discussed a low time in her life, and said that she had gotten the most sex during a low time in her life, men who she didn't really like, but felt obliged (note: felt obliged, not pressured into obliging). That really stuck with me. And when I started to read the hate for the various groups, it started to read like a cathartic sort of projection. Something bad happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:57 PM
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Ah, I pictured a motorized fan
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:52 PM
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I can guess, but the image sounds like a bad Darth Vader impression
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:51 PM
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> Dwelling on flaws that way kills respect and admiration. Interesting point, I can dig it. I hope you put this as a main response, becuase it's very enlightening. > This is a debate sub. People who are looking to "find a solution" should go elsewhere. Isn't the purpose of debate to discuss the pros and cons of any particular point, and come to a conclusion about which is better (or more successfully advocated for?) A solution seems built into it. Otherwise, it just reads like an episode of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:50 PM
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I have seen a lot of women do that in here, and a few guys too. So I get where it's coming from. Either someone who would do it assumes you will, or those who have been burned from it assume everyone else will do it. Personally, I would find it interesting. In the 'whats great about your man' post, the answers were surprisingly homogenous. I imagine the negatives would be equally so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:48 PM
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I suppose it's no different than the women in here who have personal journals and diaries. People alway need to blow off steam, or vent about something that is only an issue in the heat of the moment. Or for anyone who sees a shrink, imagine what the hubsands and wives would say if they got notes to those visits? I suppose that makes me a big stupid man, but none of that is bothersome to me. It's better than doing it IRL in your friend circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:46 PM
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laugh behind their fans?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:45 PM
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I take it to mean it was a fair assessment of what you wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:33 PM
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When I speak, I speak honestly. I expect the same courtesy from others. It's not desperation, and it worries me you're framing it this way. Like I said in the previous thread, a compliment sandwich style approach would have been much better than whats happened here. A padded question, a followup question, and then posts like yours. I can only describe it as a bully attempting to shame others into... I don't even know. > PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:32 PM
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Who is 'we'? And would you stop strawmanning me? I know for a fact I articulated my thoughts on this, and what you wrote has nothing to do with any of it. I need you to stop making me into this boogeyman you're getting so angry about. I'm not the droid you are looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:27 PM
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I've never met one, so I only hear about it 3rd hand or more. I like how Gavin Macinnes put it when he sees divorced people with a <1 year old. How the fuck were you not able to hold it together for a year? I don't think it's a benefit to anyone to have families break up before they even start. Having said that, there's two sides to every story. A chick who pulled the goalie without telling her man is playing with fire. A girl who only fucks her guy when she wants to get pregnant is playing with…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:25 PM
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> They just keep focus on the positive. I'd say that's a compartmentalized statement. When it comes to anyone they disagree with on here, the focus is most certainly hyperbolic, passive aggressive, and angry. Plus, theres one or two people who seem absolutely obsessed with consent and rape
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:21 PM
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Whats the point of becoming anonymous on reddit, and coming to a subreddit designed to fix relationships if they aren't going to bring up the problems? Whats the point about bragging to the anonymous posters about how great an anonymous women is that they will never meet? There's no reputations when no one knows you you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:20 PM
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His point (if I'm reading it right) was that RP exists to find a way to minimize flaws, and maximize benefits so the flaws become meaningless. If so, you can't get there by ignoring flaws alltogether. Plus, for the girls here shitting on him, it does give their opinions some weight. People tend to treat those who overcome problems as more authoritative. Hence, that willow girl here who seems to have some pull when discussing how to keep a man, and she's been married 4 times already
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:18 PM
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I've been one of those people accused of this. It's not that at all. When you read the Merp reports, they mention the bad things, because it's a problem they want to solve. They suggest no one wants to hear about how great their wives are, because it's bragging, and of no use to anyone but the posters ego. The terp ones are more theoretical, but for kids not getting laid, you can't expect them to be posting on experience anyways. When you read purps and bloops, they are worried more about everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:15 PM
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I believe I suggested this in the 'whats great about your hubby' thread. Had they answered with an impartial breakdown, we wouldn't have this potential shitshow that will happen in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:04 PM
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I remember reading that all babies are initially girls, and need some hormones in utero to become boys. And that environmental issues are causing it to happen less, so more hormonally deficient men are creating more girls, and less women are able to make boys. My guess? reasonable: the more brain we use, the less brawn we need, utility goes faster than attractive genes in women tin foil: frogs switch genders when it's advantageous in their environments. We are making the frogs gay!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:57 PM
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The girls, or the guys? And I'll believe it when I see it. You wouldn't believe what guys think is hot these days, the thirst is real
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 11:00 PM
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That's one way to look at it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 05:56 PM
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I'm white collar, there's fools everywhere, at all levels
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 05:42 PM
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Everyone has to provide value, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 05:41 PM
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I doubt they are white collar then. It's full of em
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 05:21 PM
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So? the ban button fixes all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:41 PM
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Almost like they aren't archetypes, but situational behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:31 PM
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Those seem different. Like when Jerry Springer was big. They just loved the spectacle. What I see here is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:26 PM
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Those Q4RP and Q4men posts that pepper the sub often are. I know what a debate is, and I'm sure you know what I'm talking about, or at least can think of a handful of users you know this applies to. That lewis guy can probably point to a good dozen of them if you need
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:25 PM
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I'd go where testosterone is. High power competitive environments, military towns, etc. where do big things need to be lifted, and people need to be hard to thrive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:21 PM
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You suggest UMC are overrepresented in here, suggesting they are the 'top' of the SMV. I simply note that theres a tone of female vitriol towards men in here from that group, and ask why, if they are so happy, they fill their days with vitriol towards men they suggest are not even in their league? Clearly something here doesn't fit, or some explanation is missing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:07 PM
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I'd say yes then. Those 23 year old buzzfeed guys who had Testosterone levels of an 80 year old guy full of BPA's, it's hard to see a strong jawline today.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:05 PM
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I think it's projection; the women probably vary in attractiveness the same that any group varies. I don't have photos, so I can't claim one way or the other. The tangent I went on gave me some insight into this concept. Time will tell how accurate it is. It makes sense though. Most team-blue threads are hyperbolic critiques of RP, and most RP responses are bringing those hyperbolic critiques in line with reality. team-blue people aren't stupid, projection is the only charitable explanation that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:04 PM
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Ask yourself this, assuming this is all true, why are so many of these 'top tier' women so miserable and vitriolic online when speaking about it? How is this any different than the 'anger phase' guys in RP complain about? What pain are they coming to terms with that they are projecting onto a bunch of dudes writing about sleeping with chicks online?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:55 PM
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I suppose it's disingenuous then to proclaim that terps, merps, and the guys in here are all the archetypes of that. I remember a poster in here suggesting this on a different topic, it was eye opening. She claimed that she felt bad about dating guys during a low point in her life, and having sex because she felt she owed it to them (may be misparaphrasing here), and spoke negatively about that time. When you see the posts about 'you do realize men aren't entitled to sex right?', it draws some c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:44 PM
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I don't like how it's framed. Acceptable this way implies that you're a dancing fool, constantly looking for the approval of your spouse. Frame it as a positive or a negative, but it is co dependency.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:41 PM
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I don't post in RPW, I only have experience in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:36 PM
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I don't disagree. I've mentioned projection in many peoples 'arguments', and it never fails to get people riled up. Reminds me on some material I read on narcissism. When you injure someones script, the only response you get in return is anger. Say what you will about the angry terps, they are at least trying to leave that mental space.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:35 PM
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So is a waifu pillow, neither one exist in real life anyways, so why discuss them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:44 PM
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Good but devalued. Same as Sluts have tanked the sex market. You can order it from your app for fuck sakes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:44 PM
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As funny as when the ladies talked about leadership as if it were a dictator, Micromanaging his woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:43 PM
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What kind of mix? 50 50? 90 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:42 PM
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Better or worse to whom? Because you describe changes selfishly, or "what's in it for me?" as being good and "not beneficial for me" as being bad. I know people throw around solopcism here often, but this really is. I get in shape is good because you get to sleep with a handsome man now. Unless you're insecure about your body and it makes you insecure, then it's bad. Thats not improvement, that's co dependancy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:39 PM
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Then it's acceptable, don't mistake the buffer zone between what's ideal vs what's tolerable confuse you. If its not acceptable, you dont accept it, by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:38 PM
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That stuff sounds great, is she good in bed? Is she attractive? Is she crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:02 PM
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I don't get it. These questions are so obvious with anyone who goes outside and looks around
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:01 PM
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Acceptable means whatever you do before the other person leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:00 PM
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Guess it depends who the protagonist in the story. I still find it unlikely a moderator group can't moderate a small sub because some users are ornery. I wouldnt assume no agency of middle aged married women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:19 PM
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Why so mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:17 PM
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Got a source to work with? I've never heard this before, and other ppd users made me untrusting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 11:20 AM
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Why would a married man's space advocate for women? Does everything have to be about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 11:19 AM
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Sounds like that large care of AWALT everyone denies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 11:05 AM
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It sounds like only one group was unable to play with others...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:59 AM
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Insolent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:42 AM
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No one leads an involent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:17 PM
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That's women who aren't you. Ive seen this since the 90s.women let decisions on trivial things are a dollar short and a day late. No one wants to be responsible if the decision is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:05 PM
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Ssh, egos are hurting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:59 PM
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Want to know who leads? When shit hits the fan who is in front of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:49 PM
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Leadership isn't control. A ceo doesn't run a department
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:47 PM
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Was going to say, between taking on fault for anything, responsible for fixing problems, and first one into the fray,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:41 PM
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I miss the days when divorced people starved to death. I wasn't there for them, but it sounds great for people, being too addicted to not dying to break up a family
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:35 PM
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What does that have to Dow to making complex systems equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 08:45 PM
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Yes, but I have to get to know them first. I don't do it to strangers, or it loses it's magic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:51 PM
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Got an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:51 PM
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Life never gives ties.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:47 PM
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The map is not the terrain. the original question and this one are horribly crafted, and I don't think the OPS know what they are actually looking to gain
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:46 PM
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Someone yesterday posted that advocacy groups are supposed to do that. Also, I don't know how you acknowledge guys are doing what they can for happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 06:30 PM
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When real estate agents are selling a home on the buyer (wife), they look for something to pop the instant you open the door, it sets the tone for the sale. they will shrug off problems that would otherwise be non starters if they don't have that curb appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 06:22 PM
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he likes the sound of his own voice, loves being a malcontent for the sake of it, and watches too much of the muppet show
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 05:52 PM
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Sunk cost fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:03 PM
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Interesting. That actually puts the threads about 'entitled to sex' into perspective. I'm a dude, and never even framed sex as an entitlement, yet it is constantly thrown around in here as if I did. Thanks, empathy +1
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:53 PM
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I'd love to know either way. you talk as if it's common and obvious. it isn't. Actually, check that. Whatever it takes to look better in your eyes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:51 PM
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I'm just weirded out by how many people in my industry are hiring 'only women'. It's like we are going back to having separate water fountains or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:36 PM
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Also, I've raised cattle. Your analogy is weird. No one gives a shit about cattle, other than to keep bears from eating them, and not letting your stud stick around too many season, inbreeding isn't good for cattle. Most parents treat kids as extensions of themselves. It makes perfect sense that dads would want to have the daughter avoid the kind of guys out there. My dad was big on ensuring I knew to avoid crazy chicks, I never thought of it as bizarre, obsessed, or some plan to turn me into so…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:35 PM
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Curiosity Plus, it would be a more honest and interesting than than the usual disingenuous slop that gets thrown around in here. If you're not comfortable with it, I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:31 PM
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I'm OK with that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:29 PM
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How is it my fault you're vague and expect everyone to read your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:20 PM
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I'll just have to take your word for it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:20 PM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:19 PM
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Well, that sounds healthy. What did dad do that was so bad, as to make her leave him with a toddler? How did she manage to fall in love again so quickly after she did?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:18 PM
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Then perhaps they shouldn't have any clout in the public sphere until they sort it out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:16 PM
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oh? Tell me more about the ideology of the muppet show
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:15 PM
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It beats raising your daughter to have a filthy sailor mouth and prickly demeanor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:14 PM
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I know right? Parents giving a shit about their kids is just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:13 PM
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Bother someone else, I don't care for the angry rantings of a "ironic anti-Semite".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:12 PM
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You aren't supposed to want to be Statler and Waldorf Either, thats the point of the muppet show
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:10 PM
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MRP has a weekly thread where guys are supposed to fix the crap thats wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:41 PM
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Not so much a benefit as it is a removal of a negative
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:40 PM
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Statler and Waldorf V Tyler Durden lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:40 PM
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I've yet to see anyone talk about sex and relationships in a useful way, at all, ever. There is none, every dating community is bullshitting you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:36 PM
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My guess? the people you would most want to hear this answer from will be the least likely to answer honestly. Whether it's because they can't or won't? I'm curious to see
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:35 PM
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How many were during those 3 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:32 PM
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I mean OP. This is clearly some newbie RP rant with flipped genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:31 PM
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This is clearly a disingenuous troll, some sort of weird reversal of roles to rile people up Surprised the mods are leaving it here. This is garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:16 AM
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I can't tell if anyone thinks they are being serious here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:07 AM
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Then why does the commitment talk always come from her side? Unless by 'women' you mean 'you' in which case you may be right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 11:53 PM
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Considering 99% of conversations are willful Misrepresentation and clarification, I don't think I am
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 09:13 PM
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It's a loud one, which may not be the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 09:12 PM
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You already said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 08:30 PM
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Women with law degrees arguing like children. That a large chunk of women are low quality. They are generally women, the occasional nut job aside
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 08:29 PM
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Do they still have the post on 'insightful comments' on the sidebar? Last update I saw in there was a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 08:28 PM
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The main ones I've seen (admittedly I skimmed) Women don't love you like your mom did Women will sleep with bad boys and settle down with great providors I dont see the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 08:18 PM
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what does it matter if it gets your goal out of necessity? Most of life is the result of necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 08:03 PM
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Which are these? Wanting to sleep with women seems a very loose definition of a belief. We don't call foodies idealogues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 08:00 PM
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Take it, its yours. You'll be better off if you find whomever I read it from first I'm interested in the whole dynamic. 'low quality' is thrown around so often. So many women think of women in two groups. Quality (me) and low quality (sluts that guys sleep with). Then, out of the other side of their mouth suggest that quality women (me) don't have whatever quality described as AWALT, so it doesn't exist, and that it doesn't change over time. I just don't get the internal logic to it. Are women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 07:58 PM
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I also don't get the arguments. So if it's only working on low quality women, then why are people arguing that slutty pasts don't mean that women aren't good quality when they get older? Is quality something thats fluid, where low quality yesterday can become quality tomorrow? Or is it set in stone, quality is for life. If it's the former, then people are suggesting RP guys are attracting younger women for sex (which they are trying to do) and it's a pejorative description for what they already …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 07:54 PM
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Maybe you should just not engage certain people if they get you this riled up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 07:44 PM
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RP claims it isn't either. yet everyone calls everything ideology... why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 07:42 PM
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People post a heirarchy. it doesn't work it does work, but only on broken people it does work, the people aren't broken, but the guys doing it are manipulative it does work, the people aren't broken, i'ts no more manipulative than anyone else is, but they are assholes it does work its just common sense. I see it spread around here often, but can't remember if I got it right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 07:41 PM
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What if "broken and slutty" are just placeholder terms for any woman who doesn't fit my ideal mental image of 'woman'? I've always read that argument, and it looked identical to me to those christian types who put 'gods plan' as a placeholder for all the contradictions in christian theory vs reality. The ultimate 'no true scotsman' What if it just works on women, to the same degree that specific behaviors apply, or attractiveness, or any female characteristics that fall on a bell curve? If that …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 07:39 PM
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you do know you looks like a petulant child here, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 07:35 PM
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However you want to describe it, I didn't throw enough care in 'supress'. We can use 'manifest' if it makes you feel better. I know enough about statistics (101 level) that no one will fit all their statistical markers, but enough people do to make a bell curve. Of course, that leaves tons of room here to understand where the distributions fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 07:28 PM
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Rp guys are assholes, rp guys do things that work to meet their goals BP people are delusional and nieve, bp people are socially acceptable. /thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 06:24 PM
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I've always understood it as the same. It may apply, but some are tolerable, some are not, some have it completely suppressed. Figure everyone understood it as a bell curve, many seem to take it as literal as fundamentalism
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 06:16 PM
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Honestly, very few people in here seem to know much about the side they critique. It's like two boogey men that they have created just to create in group conflict. The day I see a BP understand RP, or vice versa is a day I will change my flair to 'surprised'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 04:46 PM
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I assume they do. Why else would there be so much hate for it? Why else are guys told to STFU about what they are doing? Why else do they rant endlessly about the laws of power, making things seem effortless, acting like everyone else etc? If you want an equality angle, girls who sleep around a lot lie about it to the men they are with. IT sounds like guys are doing the same thing here. "Oh, you only slept with 3 guys?" "Oh, you've always been this charming mass of lean muscle?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 04:34 PM
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I know, I wasn't pretty enough for them. Needed more SMV when I was a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 04:32 PM
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Obviously. Don't take my cheekiness as anything but
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:14 PM
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Neither sounds too fun
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:14 PM
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I would Kill to have 30 year olds hit on me at that age. Would have gotten so many Nintendo games and massages
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:12 PM
1

are you crudely describing the halo effect?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 02:33 PM
1

Sounds like a guys problems
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 02:22 PM
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How do users run oout a moderation team from their own sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 02:05 PM
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uhh I don't know what kind of man this caters to, but they got problems Even the field reports to appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 02:03 PM
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Children don't want to clean their room, they just want ice cream and to play with their friends
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 02:00 PM
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This place is manic. Half the threads are complaining about how terps don't understand women, and attribute the wrong rationale for what they do The other half are asking them to explain just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 01:59 PM
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Plz be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 12:26 AM
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Is there an mrp guy to clarify this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 11:27 PM
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I don't know why any man would buy a new girl dinner to begin with. I know some girls here call guys cheap for wanting a coffee for a first date or splitting the cheque, but can' you blame em? no one wants to be taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:03 PM
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I'm not, your descriptions are contradictory, and I'm trying to understand why. you say they should talk, unless it doesn't work, in which case you need to demonstrate. Then you suggest guys who demonstrate without talking about it are bad guys and need to talk about it first. What exactly are you suggesting? talk abut it, then demonstrate if it doesn't work, but only after talking about it? Others have suggested that the guys did try talking first, and demonstrating after, which you describe as…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:00 PM
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yours dont?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 08:58 PM
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Didn't a recent thread by the girls suggest they are all 35-45 year old women? I imagine they wouldn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:49 PM
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They don't call them thirst gold at the end of the rainbow. They call em thirst traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:48 PM
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communicating through the change to male headship? Wasn't this what you called 'unilaterally changing the power dynamic without consulting her first?' The comments I am referring to are largely from /r/deadbedrooms btw. If you'd like a specific example I'd have to go back and look, but I'd rather flesh out what you're talking about, because it reads contradictory to what you just said
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:48 PM
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Do you have a link to this revenge fantasy guys are having? You assert it, but it doesn't sound at all like the motivation RP guys in here are discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:37 PM
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I've read tons of stories in /r/divorce where wives were hitting the gym, getting more attractive, and fucking someone else. Eventually lead to divorce when they have a new guy lined up. Women don't usually discuss how to do this like terpers do, and if this is true, it doesn't sound like it's confusing at all to women. In fact, it sounds like they would know exactly what it sounds like, someone getting in a good position to leave. also, I kind of agree with /u/fairlyniave It sounds like you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:35 PM
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This reads a lot like the arguments for affirmative consent. The rebuttals sound just like the rebuttals to it as well. Also, does communication have to be overt and sterile? I know "Men from mars, women from venus" Talks about the different ways of communication. Women respond to a covert style, and men overt. Just as people argue here with consent for sex, does this overt, sterile communication you talk about kill it's intended goal as well? And what about when the other commenter suggested th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:33 PM
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I know if I'm driving in traffic, and I cut into the turning lane, I can get ahead of everyone else and cut in front, saving me commute time. If everyone does it, then it just makes a greater congestion point. Just like anything, exploit a system for short term benefit, too many people will drag the benefit to 0
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 06:58 PM
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ITT: Person dismisses someones rational conversation, gets butthurt when he is dismissed in turn and fights to get the last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 06:31 PM
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Yeah, I'm advocating, I think you meant that for electra
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 06:28 PM
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Civic responsibility isn't supposed to be fun, that's why it's not called civil leisure. Odd how you would spit in the face of that which keeps the power on, and the water running
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 06:27 PM
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Yes, any my counter claim is that there is a goldilocks zone, of which further masculine behaviours is not selected for. Hence the analogy to 8 foot men. clearly height is attractive to a point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 04:46 PM
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Well, if not for sexual selection and survival of the fittest, what other methods will encourage or discourage the genes related to these behaviors thriving? It is completely related, you're too busy with your argument in your head to take a step back. Feel free to look back at your previous comment and see how my response is 100% related to it. So go on making your flow chart. I'll just go by the words you put onto my screen when creating responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 04:24 PM
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Plus, with LBD, they suffer more without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 04:17 PM
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Either it exists or it doesn't. if it exists, then you can measure it. even if only in a broad categorization
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 04:17 PM
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You assume attraction is linear, and that there is no depreciating gains. I would suggest you consider a 'golilocks zone' Otherwise, we make asinine comments like height = attractiveness, so men at 8' tall get all the ladies. Or that women love guys who have murdered at least 10 people, no less. Clearly some measure of aggression and narcissism are attractive, but how much is a healthy measure of it? And what kind of gap do women have in their ability to detect it? Lets put it on a 100 point sca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 04:15 PM
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feedback loops can start from all manner of places. They do build on each other, and once they hit a tipping point, it's very very difficult to get out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 03:57 PM
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extreme versions of attractive qualities Think of a girl with breasts the size of your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 03:33 PM
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And staving people are desperate food seekers, your point? Narcissism isn't just about being a great person no one understands. The victim complex is equally compelling. Narcissists only need a story to latch onto, not just a positive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 03:03 PM
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Case in point, our genome shows that around 8000 years ago, on average 17 women reproduced to each male and it didn't change so much as it is still 1.5 to 1 Most likely because black plague killed off a ton of lineages, skewing the numbers zero sum economics meant we needed to kill a lot of guys in order to grow wealty. war was needed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 02:13 PM
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The decline, as best I understand it, is an umbrella term to describe: The ending of the nuclear family The ending of economic peak of western civilization The ending of a robust and healthy social safety net, in favour of mass immigration and bloated, financially irresponsible bureaucracy The death of the middle class, and polarization of wealth inequality a return to the Pareto principle as it applies to dating the global issues that arise from the above. Though I agree with you, feminism woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 02:11 PM
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Honestly, it just sounds like peoples PPD attitude isn't because of internet anonymity, but actual character traits
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 01:34 PM
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From my perspective, lack of drive to plow through diminishing returns, or being that top 1%. From her perspective, dishes and her laundry. Also that I'm not responsive to being latched onto like a Remora fish. I don't find affectionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 01:30 PM
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We already do though. Debate offers forms and structure by it's nature e.g. you must be civil vs no insulting members. The only difference between these negative and positive burdens are how they are phrased. So my question is: What line do we want to have? I would actually find it a great boon to enforce steel-manning someones argument first. If someone cannot understand whats being offered, maybe it's best if they don't post. I don't know about you, but unless this place isn't about debate, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 01:27 PM
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Your comment about positive burdens
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 12:19 PM
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Walk me through your assertion. You said it as if it was obvious, it isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 12:16 PM
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well then walk me through your positive burden, we will see if we have an example of wrong assumptions or not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 12:08 PM
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This already exists. I'm told that you can make a CMV off of completely ridiculous set of assumptions, and everyone else is forced to discuss them on OP's terms considering most people have internal logic, but wrong assumptions, it's a ruleset guaranteed to give garbage conversations over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 11:05 AM
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That would take effort and thought. shitting on people is much easier and more gratifying. Too bad, it's a decent ruleset
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 11:02 AM
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Depends. I know some girls want something easy. Very safe if no one wants her man, plus he's such a good dad etc. Of course, the guys I've worked with who were like this never really got laid, and still don't... Unless she wants another kid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 01:13 AM
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If you've checked out, check out. This make it sound like sour grapes, not apathy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 01:12 AM
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it's not a burn. It's literally that. your mom isn't a whore, but all those women have sex are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 12:12 AM
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Dafuk would I know? I pull up roosh and redpill on google and I get him talking how shitty it is, and his neo masculinity thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 09:23 PM
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Yeah, except your mom
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 09:15 PM
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I'm sure most women like attractive Bodies. And for those that don't, they know other women do, I'm. Guessing if that's all they did, they would have been absorbed by /r/bodybuilding by now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 09:14 PM
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Don't think they'd agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:34 PM
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They seem average. That's not the same claim though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 05:54 PM
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If youre handwashing your critique by saying "whichever answer works to prove my point", it sounds more like you already dislike the place for another reason, and you're looking for a justification after the fact
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 05:37 PM
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I remember people making the case for that dick gel, but it never was allowed for testing...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 05:09 PM
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Nothing else on at the airport
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:58 PM
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See:madonna/whore Complex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:56 PM
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Chad and Stacey were on CNN lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:54 PM
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https://twitter.com/jordanbpeterson/status/995517244699566085?s=19 Not so sure they do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:54 PM
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Makes sense. Guys trying would be better than guys critiquing. No one likes a wet blanket
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:53 PM
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They have been pushing for their own site outside of reddit. It may be a shifting demography, not a loss of one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:51 PM
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This is making this place make sense. No one seems to be mad about the sidebar of a subreddit, but angry that they aren't wise sages whose opinion isn't given its due Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:49 PM
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So do they act immoral and go to mrp for absolution? Or do they go to mrp, and then act immoral? I can't understand you're angle here. Is it a place for rationalization, or is it brainwashing guys into doing it in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:48 PM
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Most men were considered red unattractive in that OkCupid study, weren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:46 PM
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Have they? Got a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:27 PM
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Got an example? The description you give is weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:27 PM
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you're going to blame society on the 24 year old guy trying to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:41 PM
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people are poking holes in your objective metrics man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:21 PM
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That's mgtow, you said trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:22 PM
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Makes sense. Erectile disfunction is a medical disorder. Pregnant isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:20 PM
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Buddy said there was new mods nuking that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:11 PM
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Yeah, i get you saying that, I asked you to walk me through it. There's tons of deadbedrooms posts where guys talk about it, and the wives berate them for the conversation. I just don't see it working consistently. I assumed you had more insight than me, and there's something missing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:07 PM
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And people can't leave? What is emotional manipulation? If someone's wife won't fuck em, I can't see it working too well, how is it even possible? Someone threw a link up of a swinger couple... Is that what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:05 PM
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Sounded like the wife in on board. Am I missing something, or this this just a swinger couple
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:03 PM
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I dont think anyone is offering advice on teenager strategy lol. So these guys, after all their work on the sub are still just useless guys who punch a clock? I find it hard to believe they aren't doing more than the average dad watching football in his man cavr
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:00 PM
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I dont recall anyone suggesting they make their spouses do anything. At least not in this thread. You'll have to li k me to this I do see bedbedroom guys complaining that talking solves little.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 11:59 AM
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Well, you are saying it's bad, so walk us through the alternative. You say they don't know, implying you do. Otherwise it just sounds like complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:43 AM
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birth rates are positively correlated with economic prosperity, so you're asking for people to become destitute
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:35 AM
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When you say it, you suggest men aren't appeasing your demands right. When TGP and sado are saying it, they say that they are doing what women respond to. kind of explains this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:34 AM
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Because GDP and modern economics are built on 3% growth models
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:19 AM
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Why stop at 50? Why not go back to the 1500s?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:19 AM
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Man, I wish people provided links for this stuff. People in here have cited sources that say the oppositte of what they assert so often. Though it sounds like a different group than what everyone's talking about. Guys in deadbedrooms don't seem the type to want variety, any more than incels grieve about notch counts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:57 AM
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And what happens if they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:53 AM
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How can it lead them to cheating is the wife is fucking enthusiastically and often? It makes no sense. If they want more sex, why does wife still not?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:45 AM
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That just sounds like ethics i don't know about you, but other than a psychopath, people generally can't sleep if doing evil shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:16 AM
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And it's not in their sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:10 AM
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they pretend “a man is his own judge.” can you expand?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:08 AM
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thats fucking disgusting. Do they really just stare at people suffering and mock them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:08 AM
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Do you have an example? I checked the frontpage quickly and didn't see anythign like this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:05 AM
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all 15k of them? Why not just go to /r/adultery then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:04 AM
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I'm strong enough for you to be safe. stable enough for you to feel comfortable, good looking enough with enough charm to make you tingle. I earn enough that you can live a better lifestyle than you would otherwise afford. Plus I'm a bit of a dick sometimes, so it's never boring
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:54 AM
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Yeah, if he did everything I want I wouldn't have to nag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 02:35 PM
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Other than personal anecdotes, they are the only one whose personal lives are on display.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 02:31 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 07:42 PM
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It's 4th hand conversations, how am I supposed to have an opinion on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 07:03 PM
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I don't know man. Harrison Ford and Mel Gibson in the 80s!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:04 PM
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Again, 4th hand, it's hard for me to have an opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:03 PM
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I don't know, ask OP, it's his thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:02 PM
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Ever see people magazines sexiest men alive? They were almost all 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:49 PM
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Just glad you got everyone else to pay for your mistakes. Solid play, regardless if you agree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:48 PM
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You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message. For "CMV" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies. If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment. OP you can choose your own flair according to these guidelines., just press Flair under your post! Says here that it's just for being off t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:46 PM
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Considering we are discussing this 4th hand, you'll forgive me if I reserve judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:35 PM
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I've attracted way more than 12. I'm comfortable enough to treat it as a good sample size ;) Outside the norm. So women liking sex isn't the norm? That's her though. Patterns based on one woman? Oh. Are you serious? What do you think I would do, force him to let me suck his penis or else? Lol. Uhm, no? wtf Using your few examples to brand all women? Maybe the problem is you? If you keep attracting unstable crazy women. Thought of that? Not really, no. In fact not at all. So a woman who likes sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:15 PM
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OK, I'll switch to the second definition Liberty comes from the Latin word libertas, which means “unbounded, unrestricted or released from constraint.” Our concept of liberty today is pale and thin compared with that of the Founders. Today we want to believe in liberty (small “l”), but not so much that we could get hurt. As long as we can still say what we want, worship as we please and have a vote, we say we have liberty. We expect that the government will prevent us from making mistakes, rescu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:12 PM
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That's not blame, that's a statistic. If you're saying 70% of failed marriage are a womans fault, that would be blame. All that stat says is that of the marriage that end, 70% of them are initiated by women. Any further comment is either attached to the details of that stat, or projection from the person. Case in point, you attributing it to blame
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:06 PM
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those weren't questions, and you know that. And on a quick headcount, I would say probably a dozen women fit that bill in my life. My memory is fuzzy though, it could be more. Do you really want 12 separate stories? You could switch the genders here and the same would apply in some situations. I'm sure it would. I see women all the time using correlation to make snap decisions on men. Seems to work out for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:05 PM
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isn't this what automod is for?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:02 PM
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doesn't the married red pill sub have a regular own your shit thread? Seems like they are aware of their culpability, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:02 PM
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:) doin the lords work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:01 PM
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If a girl hasn't settled down, it's probably because shes' not met a guy who fills these criteria. So any single girl you see with say this. Once they find one, they hold onto him. Now consider a man may need years to get the experience to be this guy, that means there's also a time barrier, so younger women will have met that guy, but at the wrong time. I'm just surprised babies don't know how to jog yet, such a shortage of marathon babies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:00 PM
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why does everyones 'worst case scenario' have to be equal and balanced? Is it not possible that each gender has it's own problems without making it a wash?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:58 PM
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Are you talking about the brand new guys everyones says are in an anger phase? Or the ones that say they are past it and speaking candidly, or the people who make up their own pill colors to be special? It's very confusing, and we need some kind of TRP levels to get on the same page here. TRPa TRPb etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:57 PM
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Well, based on everyones dates of sufferage, you would have had the vote a good generation before me. So women gaining full legal citizenship is “taking rights” from men? you said liberties, now you're saying rights Which is it? Cmon, I get you want to pretend to be some female version of the angry MRA, but all I'm asking here is for consistency
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:55 PM
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Outside the norm. So women liking sex isn't the norm? That's her though. Patterns based on one woman? Oh. Are you serious? What do you think I would do, force him to let me suck his penis or else? Lol. Uhm, no? wtf Using your few examples to brand all women? Maybe the problem is you? If you keep attracting unstable crazy women. Thought of that? Not really, no. In fact not at all. So a woman who likes sex isn't worth declaring fidelity for. Interesting. Look, you asked, I answered. If all you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:52 PM
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Are you fucking with me? You do know what suffrage means, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:46 PM
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I'm going to start calling you Ric Flair (the greatest heel ever). First off, who is you all? I've not been to any group meetings, so I am not privy to your personal crusade Ric. Second off, you're the second person who just assumes I'm mad. It's extremely frustrating to have a comment chain in a debate sub when "U Mad Bro" Is the only thing thrown out. I'm not 7 years old, and neither are you, so lets drop the childishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:45 PM
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Oh, the mens rights guys make lists of this shit. I was thinking about how, since womens sufferage, that conservatism has been on the decline in the US. So objectively, it has taken political preference away from men. And choosing your government is a liberty. Not suggesting this is objectively good or bad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:43 PM
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I don't fuck men, you'll have to ask a gay or a woman for that. A woman who loves sex must have issues. We aren't talking about issues per se. Once you've been around the block, you kind of get a feel for how much women love sex. Stray outside the norm (too little, or too much) it raises questions. Again, it's all about patterns. I used to briefly date a chick who LOVED crazy sex. Was hard to keep up. Of course, on the day where I just wasn't in the mood, she shrugged her shoulders and found som…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:32 PM
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Femenism didn't take anything. The thirsty guys that were nagged into passing legislation did. you know, that 'power' thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:26 PM
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isn't this why OP said 'influence' and not 'dominate'?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:25 PM
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The worst part about femenism is how it frames everything as a power struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:24 PM
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While I don't agree with how you've framed it, is it SO hard to believe men don't want to walk into something they have 0 ability to affect? Guys don't mind hardship. Give him an axe and throw him in the woods and he'll be happy. It's tough, but he has the means to build a house, keep him warm, and eat. The Freedome to act and affect that which is around him. But give him a girl who won't listen, won't act in his best interests, and is hamstrung against doing anything about it? Not a chance. Now…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:21 PM
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But the men in these conversations seem to assume there is a direct link between a woman loving sex and having issues, there isn't Any guy who has been cheated on (and everyone has) notices it's a correlation. We normally don't care if it's 100% clinically accurate, only weather we can use it to judge how much of a PITA someone will be. so YOU may be the blowjob queen and a great long term prospect, but realize there's enough girls out there who will blow anyone to stave off boredom that make a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:17 PM
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I dont see how anyone could argue the man had no agency. I thought it went without saying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 10:22 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Dog_and_Its_Reflection
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 10:21 AM
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Lol, exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 10:20 AM
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Are we talking just looks, or the whole package? I'm talking the whole package.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 10:20 AM
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You're arguing point I am not making
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 10:19 AM
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Moderation isn't really a democracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:40 PM
1

Ever hear the story of the dog who wanted two bones?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:37 PM
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A ton, yes. Otherwise, the conversation wouldn't be about look around outside of insular social circles and you'll see them, it would be how in the hell you can see anything but them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 07:39 PM
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I don't think it's when a guy hits 40 to be honest. It seems to be when a man hits his stride
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 07:37 PM
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Dishes and laundry, also my kryptonite lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 07:37 PM
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We don't disagree, but you got me thinkin. A) that's not the question being asked in this thread, A description is asked for, not a sales pitch B) it's rude and disloyal to complain about your man to other people OP never asked people to lie. You're basically suggesting that OP wants everyone to say (or everyone reads it as saying) super duper nice things, regardless of whether they are true. what kind of a debate subreddit would this be if no one tells the truth? Isn't the whole case for TRP's …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 07:22 PM
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I wouldn't open a business if I wasn't planning on focusing 100%. And on ALL FACTORS YOU CAN POSSIBLY ACCOUNT FOR, this person is more of a match for you than your current partner. I don't want to optimize. It's relatively easy to have 90% of what you want, or you can risk it all for possibly the extra 10%. Much better for everyone if you just learn to be happy with what you have, since 90% is awesome, and most people would kill to have it. So the issue I find is how secure one is in their own h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 07:18 PM
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Almost sounds like if a man were to have a wall, where his SMV drops quickly after a certain point could be seen as a disaster for all relationships. Of course many women seem to like fixeruppers, so ... Lot of studs here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 07:14 PM
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lol, I'm not saying they hunt you down and try to eat you like a fucking zombie :D It's not being helpless, it's having eyeballs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 07:13 PM
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AKA, do I let my dick make decisions for me. Soulmate is a post-hoc rationalization for following the advice of your lizard brain. I disagree with my premise. If I can't trust me head to control my dick, I probably won't commit. Then again, I have no issues with being single, I know many people have issue with being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 06:33 PM
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I assume a mixture of the 3. I've yet to see a middling opinion of a woman to her man. I'm curious which ones are projecting anger onto men online, and which ones have real critique of them, vs which ones are just odd rejects who are horrible at stringing sentences together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 06:33 PM
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Best to separate accounts, it makes accusation of bias harder to stick
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 06:12 PM
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Yes. It's hard to say anything without an accusation of a horrible character defect attached to it. Its like constant bait to become the straw man you're accused of being
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 06:08 PM
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I can't wait to see how this goes Reincarnation of Jesus with a dick made of chocolate Every crituqe of men here epitomized (aka, projection) A single female equivalent of a waifu pillow comment that just weird
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 05:52 PM
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Just watching, parents hang out and drank while I would be playing with trucks in the other room out outside during barb queues. Also, bias doesn't mean wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 05:17 PM
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I dunno about that. Just about every adult I knew growing up had that play out as described
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 04:51 PM
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I'll leave you with a little insight. My wife asks me what's wrong, I say nothing, because nothing is wrong. She continues to prod an poke until I get irritated, validating her 'instincts' Me thinks this is what's been happening here. The reason you're getting reactions from people is that you're working hard to elicit them from people. And i dont think I'm wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:59 PM
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Thx
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:57 PM
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usually if something makes no sense, it's because you've got bad assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:16 PM
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I want to understand the emotional reaction I see from you, and others, when this topic is discussed. AKA Painting. You should have asked those others when it came up. to sum up, I suggested you walk outside of your manicured social circles and take a look. You took it an affront to your honor[?] and started going on the attack. No one argued single moms aren't more prevalent in certain demographics, no one suggested you were a bad person. Thats all that's here nothing more, nothing less. It’s c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:04 PM
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I was curious, so I went to the wiki's 1792-1856: Abolition of property qualifications for white men, from 1792 (Kentucky) to 1856 (North Carolina) during the periods of Jeffersonian and Jacksonian democracy. However, tax-paying qualifications remained in five states in 1860 – Massachusetts, Rhode Island, Pennsylvania, Delaware and North Carolina. They survived in Pennsylvania and Rhode Island until the 20th century.[6] 1870: Non-white men and freed male slaves are guaranteed the right to vote b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:00 PM
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It cannot be that hard to see who is more of a stable influence in ones life. I can usually spot a 'waste of time man' from the first 5 minutes of meeting him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:46 PM
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Good heels don't lie, they rile up the crowd. Sidebar: I'll never get the need for women to try to be men. Everytime I see it, it's always the worst parts of men they attempt to emulate. Bachelorette parties? All about wearing dicks and getting drunk college girls? Frat parties and passing out in alleyways Corporate women? Sociopaths, and weaponized legal systems leadership? Have to be a bitch to lead. RP critic, the angriest of the angry phases. If this is how men look to women, it's no wonder …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:46 PM
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And questioning people’s social lives You assumed this. Insular isn't a value judgment. I quoted an article that suggests everyone self segregates to a high degree, so I'm not even suggesting it is abnormal. I am completely confused by your perceived slights here. Because there isn't any. Look, I already asked, you seem hell bent on painting me as some crybaby using very juvenile words. Just skip to the ending and get to your point. I'm hoping that by the end of this, someone gains some insight …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:41 PM
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I'm. More curious why you've projected previous conversations onto me. If you feel too emotional about it to respond- ok. If youre going to boast about levitating above the rest of us, it's best not to act like a 9 year old. No one argued this, and you keep acting as if someone has. How exactly does your fantasy play out? Just skip the silly cyber bully act and cut to the chase
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:29 PM
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What rights specifically? They were always able to be educated and work, so which rights specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:18 PM
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You created this silly mess, don't dump it at my feet and ask me to defend it. It's your mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:17 PM
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And I even said please...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:07 PM
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Why ask me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:08 AM
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Can you please stop accusing me of being salty and angry? It's really off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:07 AM
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Ah, a heel then. Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:07 AM
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http://slatestarcodex.com/2014/09/30/i-can-tolerate-anything-except-the-outgroup/ It says So in the same way, political tribes self-segregate to an impressive extent – a 1/10<sup>45</sup> extent, I will never tire of hammering in – based on their implicit tribal characteristics. Either you're self segregating, or its not yourntribe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:06 AM
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What does the research say on source amnesia?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:03 AM
1

Off topic, are you for real? Or is this like a character?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:03 AM
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This here. Guys don't generally look to optimize. They look to be content, or have variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:50 PM
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pretty much, I don't know how she could take that literally. If I said throw a rock into the bush and you'd hit two of em, she'd accuse me of battery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:46 PM
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decriminalization then? Leave the users, punish the dealers? You know that leads to a black market for coat hangers, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:23 PM
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It doesn't mean you literally walk the streets with a flipboard and binoculars, looking for the rare single mom bird in the wild. It means to open your eyes, they are everywhere, so long as you don't have an insular lifestyle. And yes, poor people have more single moms, black women moreso. I assume you meant poor black women with your 'some' euphemism?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:11 PM
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I'm noticing a lack of any familiarity outside of peoples immediate vicinity in PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:00 PM
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I see. she has work and home. There's no way she has any sort of expansive social life and not see this. I've yet to see an income level that is exempt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:58 PM
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are you purposefully being obtuse, or do you really get what I was saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:57 PM
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I've done very well on removing the chaff from my life, It's not like I wipe it from memory as well. It's not my fault you've been in a weird 1950s bubble your whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:39 PM
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I was given a description of misogyny by you a few days back that fits this poster to a T. Misandry is a wonderfully fitting term
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:37 PM
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You see what you look for. I wouldn't pay it much mind. You can find people into anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:36 PM
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No, you were being edgy with a crass joke. I'm surprised you don't know more single moms. They are everywhere. Walk around your town, look for a stroller and no ring. Talk to guys who date women. you'll see how prevalent they are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:35 PM
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right now men have a case. I have no say in whether she has a kid or not. Permanent birth control gives them the means to assure they have control over who they impregnate. At that point, the only argument against not going after deadbeat dads would be the idea of debtor prisons (arresting dads for payment of child care costs) which I believe was abolished when the magna carta was written
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:33 PM
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last week they were called incels. So which is it? deadbeat dads or incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:30 PM
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Not for me. For you perhaps. Well, it's not great for my taxes, but it's a drop in the bucket really My standards are high. I expect a man to have a good job treat me with love and respect love me share my religious beliefs save sex for marriage avoid alcohol and smoking and drugs responsible share equally in the housework if we both work full time (I notice outside the house you seem happy to let him do both halves, am I misreading?) have no major mental illnesses and to share my religious beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:29 PM
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Not all women fought for abortion. Not all blacks fought to end slavery, whats you're point? The point was that you didn't have to fight for the unilateral right to abortion in order to benefit from said unilateral right, same as black Americans didn't have to fight to end slavery. your point was some weird digression into civil war re enactments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:19 PM
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Until chicks start going to jail for it, it's not murder. I assume you're not advocating for abortion coming with prisontime?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:16 PM
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Again, what part of the point requires this much pedantry? A simple example, correlated to abortion, that showed people don't have to be on the front lines to benefit from a system. It wasn't there to talk about civil war reenactments
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:22 PM
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Interesting. The archetype for why guys say they are redpilled... Kind of makes their case, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:02 PM
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I'm saying you don't have to be part of the front lines to benefit from a system, or he accountable for its results. But if you want to be obtuse, your question works
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:01 PM
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Not all... Seemed fairly clear
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:59 PM
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I dont have an analysis. What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:58 PM
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Sounds like they were missing out to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:57 PM
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whats her deal anyways? I've never seen someone with such a lack of self awareness, and complete self assuredness before. It's like dunning Kruger, turned up to 11
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:27 PM
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People are impulsive, not stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:26 PM
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At that point, there is no legal standing; Other than our commitment to remove debtors prisons from society. Magna carta I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:26 PM
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the 'too young' one does. Have you NEVER met someone who says these things before? We were too young has come out of the mouth of many divorced 20 something girls I've met. It seguays into stories about how much fun their friend were having, and what she missed out on. Dismiss it if you want, I can't tell thats what you're aiming for. Find a type-o so you can hand wave it. Heaven forbid peoples experience and legal observations in the divorce system don't align well with your gut feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:24 PM
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Yes, it's the next line from the quote. It seemed obvious so I didn't copypaste the entire thing. I'm not sure how you came to this conclusion based on the data given. that ~48% say they were too young, and didn't have enough equality that ~25% had abuse (assuming the lesser male abuse is included, as well as fake abuse)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:18 PM
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Not all blacks fought to end slavery. Whats your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:14 PM
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doesn't ask her to abort This is so unrealistic that Chris Rock has made it part of his comedy special. Honestly, how exactly do you see those conversations going? I'll give you a hint, a variation of "You can't tell me what to do!" chalk full of hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:13 PM
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As I was just told when 'don't have sex and it's not an issue' was a poor argument for men. If you don't agree with abortion, keep your knees closed, or bear responsability. I'm not pro-arresting me, yet the cops don't seem to care
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:12 PM
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Nothing is ever 100%. What you're asking is why others biases are less charitable than yours are. In this case, people pick what they can best associate with..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:10 PM
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Better for mom, not better for the kid. Short of physical abuse, this is beyond argument. Lack of commitment is the most common reason given by divorcing couples according to a recent national survey. Here are the reasons given and their percentages: Lack of commitment 73% Argue too much 56% Infidelity 55% Married too young 46% Unrealistic expectations 45% Lack of equality in the relationship 44% Lack of preparation for marriage 41% Abuse 25% It looks as if abuse, while not insignifigant, is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:08 PM
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Most Muslims don't sit around and talk about how much they hate Christians or Americans the way incels talk about their hate for women and actively denote them as "other". I believe their issue is with the jews.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:40 PM
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I'm sure all this is correct. I kind of agree with others in here. I've found nothing worse than the feedback one gets for 'telling a woman what to do' The amount of self investment in their ego means it's never going to be worth the hassle. Other than immediate family, and even then, I've learned quickly that it's not worth the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:29 PM
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I'm talking about here, not there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:27 PM
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Better for mom, not better for the kid. Short of physical abuse, this is beyond argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:26 PM
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I find it hard to believe a few blogs are all it takes to reduce women to cattle status. Not sure how op can be certain of this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 10:50 AM
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Have you looked here lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 10:42 AM
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Great for women, bad for children. Guess we know who they truly care about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 10:39 AM
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Because we incentivize them, and they grew. Also, it's an English common law concept. All western countries have it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 10:22 AM
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you'll forgive me for not trusting everything I read on the internet. you'd be surprised how many people twist events to make a certain viewpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:31 AM
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So does upwards mobility
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:30 AM
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sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:30 AM
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Class is only a factor when it comes to segregation and inequality. Hence why mixed income housing is such a great urbanism concept for lower crime
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:46 PM
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Keeping things consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:45 PM
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I'm wondering the nationality of the attacker, because that has an acid attack vibe to it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:45 PM
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Everything in this post suggests otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:44 PM
0

What, andt 3 year old labor is?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:43 PM
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I'm referring to the OP, suggesting guys leave sick wives. I have not seen it replicated. It may exist, I've just not seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:59 PM
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he's talking about smaller, rural populations
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:58 PM
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Women aren't entitled to a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:57 PM
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The most sexually attractive guys the guys most attractive to women are also ... This is an argument that women don't know whats best for them. Then getting pregnant by the wrong guy is also a woman's responsibility because it's her body. This is an argument for shitty elected representatives enabling this self destructive behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:56 PM
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It's called a general deterrent. It's not for the person being punished, it's as deterrent to the rest of us. you almost always have to incentivize in hindsight. People are too short term to do otherwise. Now, we can easily argue against some of the proposed solutions, like work for welfare e.g. but the principle is sound
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:55 PM
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There can be more than 1 reason. Feedback loops are called that for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:53 PM
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they aren't people either. They don't pay taxes, smoke, drink, or watch R rated movies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:52 PM
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I believe the redpill response is to suggest women don't like being told what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:52 PM
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Need builds innovation. People are highly averse to starving to death
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:51 PM
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We disagree there. I think rap music is the tail, the casual disrespect is the dog. And it doesn't come out of a vacuum. People are primed to have strong social bonds, it takes a lot of work to break that down. Between the manufactured crack epidemic, the breakup of families via welfare, and insane wealth inequality, there wasn't any other possibility than hyper-masculine low impulse control men... And rap was the music of the environment, not the creator of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:49 PM
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So you think rap music is making black guys more apt to violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 05:33 PM
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I used three terms
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 04:41 PM
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Not so much, but I feel ya. I was saying more "it wasn't the case in this example, what Makes yours any different?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 04:41 PM
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No one likes advice more than validation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 04:06 PM
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Can't tell if sarcasm or not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 04:05 PM
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Van rental and the cops refusing to shoot you for waving your wallet at them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 03:35 PM
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Welcome to the wonders of co dependency in men and abusive tendancies in women. my favourite line: I am a feminist. I hate the patriarchy passionately. I hate how asshole men are coddled and defended and allowed to be assholes in our culture. But... I love men. I love my dad, my brothers, my husband, and many friends. Toxic masculinity is fucking disgusting. But men are human beings and worthy of love. If your feminism makes you prejudiced against individual men, you're doing it wrong. Ok, I'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:56 PM
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He doesn't like getting slapped. He doesn't seem to treat it like an unbearable situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:54 PM
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That's not what I said. I said the reasoning is consistent, which is a good thing. It implies there is no double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:18 PM
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so we agree that the person complaining is unreasonable, great! just mind your own damn business and let the mother feed her baby in peace. A cop started yelling at me because I was taking a piss in an alleyway, he didn't buy it then, and I don't buy it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:17 PM
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what is bur? what is kek?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:55 PM
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how do you think instagram hoes get all those vacation photos? soft prostitution has removed the lustre of vacations
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:54 PM
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Continue to hang it out there and deal with the fallout when he snatches away the bait before they can eat it. he doesn't seem to concerned about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:53 PM
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Heh. women aren't entitled to relashionships Female involuntary single-hood, Femcels lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:52 PM
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never said anything that wasn't true. Can't blame him because the women had some illusions in their heads about what was inside of his
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:51 PM
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you'd have to curate your account for more seasonned members. Thats true for every sub. The signal:noise ratio is real Honestly, I'm surprised any sub over 50k people is able to keep signal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:50 PM
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You sound like a hot chick who turned down an incel lol. Women take rejection horribly. Probably better off phoning the rejection in, give them some time to cool off
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:48 PM
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I read and posted that earlier in the week. Thats not what it said, and I suggest you give it a read. It said that women mature faster, but shallower, while men take a lot longer, but deeper maturity in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:46 PM
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Rap music has done that for 30 years. Whats the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:45 PM
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Or a friend bonding. Shitting on buddies is a fine pasttime,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:44 PM
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Ego's gonna ego. I've known girls who use a kind tone to break up with a guy, and he was too stupid to get the point. Finally, out of sheer desperation she says something bitchy. The guy gives his head a shake, like he was pulled out of a trance and gets the hint. Men are ego driven creatures, we respond better to a shovel upside the head than we do to a well manicured statement of subtext. my .02
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:43 PM
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Have you ever seen someone frustrated at something, especially something that doesn't give positive feedback loops? Even a child playing a video game. When he gets just stomped over and over, he accuses everyone of cheating, calls the game a piece of shit etc I think more people need to see what frustration looks like, because the lack of empathy here is amazing. Not surprising, but amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:41 PM
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Makes sense. Most women in here blame men in shitty situations for not vetting their girl properly. At least it's consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:39 PM
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I wonder if context would matter. Hypothetically: She were a church going loyal stay at home mome, or She fucked the entire neighbourhood, treated him like shit, was a known drug users etc. How likeable or unlikeable does she have to be before peoples opinions change?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:38 PM
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the wife beater analogy is easy because it's cannon, people don't have to think about it. the examples of downtrodden men are new concepts, and people have to think they through, using their moral barometer. IT's hard, and people hate to think This is why the wife beating divorce is moral on it's face, but the guys being berated for a decade is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:36 PM
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I'd say thats fair. staving off boredom and stress release seem to be huge today
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:33 PM
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This is why one study does not make good argument. Wait till they refine it in further study
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:33 PM
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That you have to be a little cold in order to thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:32 PM
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Venting, seething, and coping seem to work well. When I read the second hand reports of this, it reads no different than women with their 'men ain't shit' pity parties. Especially since the hate isn't directed at any women in particular, it's most likely projection of internalized feelings of percieved unjust/unfair/unwinable conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:31 PM
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Not so much a fainting couch over a live boob, just a modicum of privacy. A blanket to cover isn't a lot to ask. After all, we don't like people that chew with their mouth open. And some do, they are also the same ones who lash out at people suggesting they shouldn't. We don't change diapers in the open either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:18 PM
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Crazy will pick anything. Words don't change people any more than video games do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:05 AM
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1/3, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:03 AM
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Like I said, tact
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:01 AM
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Pretty sure this has been given scientific rigor and is largely a closed case. Where is the confusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 07:18 PM
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Guess we should diagnose terrorism as a psychological disorder, and give them a shrink
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:51 PM
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Toxic positivity...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:11 PM
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We are just talking about tact now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:02 PM
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So why have they only recently taken to renting vans?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:21 PM
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See thats the thing. I went and looked for women are children, and found two posts: thie one from the sidebar http://no-maam.blogspot.ca/2012/06/woman-most-responsible-teenager-in.html and this one from the head mod at TRP https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4z0rpi/women_are_children/ Now theres some harsh words in there, in the first post. It summarizes a book called "Arthur Schopenhauer, On Women (1851)". and "William James, Principles of Psychology" I haven't read either, but wouldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:18 PM
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I'd say there's a more precise term to use. However. I'm Not OP, I don't make definitions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:45 PM
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That would be a definition. Ive taken to mean words with concequence. A boss not hiring you because you're a woman, or workplace harassment. Soon as you lump "internet meanies" into the mix, then it's lost all meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:34 PM
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im talking more about sexism and woman bashing More than likely they are there for a daily dose of misogyny. "Women are children", "Women are stupid", "Women are slaves to hypergamy", "Women are incapable of love". Aka misogyny. The only definitions he gave were mean words. Since he refuses to define terms, I work with what he's thrown out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:19 PM
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I've seen this. OP makes a completely batshit post, then I get a greentext when suggesting his/her premise is horribly flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:17 PM
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Remove incels, and honestly address the accusations thrown about over mod bias. Also, I would have someone on the team who has debated in any forum before. these Ranting into the void-as-debate posts are cringeworthy. And I would ensure whomever was on the mod team acted in a professional manner. When you get into an argument with someone, they call you a name, then bring out the greentext, it reads like you're being baited...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:15 PM
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Yeah, then he describes women-bashing as any negative words at all towards women. Like you said, it's not binary, but OP seems to think it is, only his opinion is right, and theirs is wrong. It's an ego driven statement with nothing backing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:13 PM
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The mod team has suggested not using your views to discuss your failures to hold a positive or rational view of PPD threads. So I won't, except to say your satire is piss poor, and representative of your other comments in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:11 PM
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I can't debate vitriol. I can call it out, or just leave it to fester.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:09 PM
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I feel you, I really can't parse what OP is on about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:07 PM
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mud wrestling it is, though it's a poor choice for subreddit title then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:07 PM
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It was your anti-semetic flair actually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:06 PM
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no one likes to be told they are part of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:51 PM
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Rumour is he just went belly up. house in arrears and all of his sites are down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:49 PM
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Tell me you have a post on this. I would be curious to see someone make that claim, for laughs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:48 PM
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Again, I asked for a definition, you gave me assertions. I used those assertions to make a point. You are treating women as magical beings that are above reproach. So I'm asking you now, did you poorly define misogyny, did you have improper examples of it from TRP? (which you've still never posted and regurgitated 3rd hand)? Do you not think an unkind word is misogyny? Work with me here. you keep saying that TRP guys don't need to beat a dead horse, but use a lot of words to say very little
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:45 PM
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I'm not talking about them, I'm talking about you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:37 PM
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Honestly, this reads a lot like the complaint threads about what TRP thinks about women, just phrased kindly. A man recently told me my “childlike wonder” was “contagious and delightful.” Drunk writers give the best compliments 😂 or Women are like children
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:33 PM
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My inner asshole read this as a husky girl who sweats when she eats :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:27 PM
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"Women are children", "Women are stupid", "Women are slaves to hypergamy", "Women are incapable of love". You gave assertions, not definitions. If I use what you gave me, I have to assume that an unkind word to a woman is misogyny... While I don't think they are the devil, I won't treat them as untouchable either. Is that your view, that women are wonderful, can do no wrong, and anyone else saying otherwise can go to hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:26 PM
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I'm not talking about newbies Who are you talking about then? This whole comment thread if vague and implying things, but never actually showing what you're talking about. Cmon, help us proles out, names, examples, anything but what you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:24 PM
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It would look like a caddy fight between women. As a new user, I can tell you unequivocally it doesn't look like Ivory tower discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:14 PM
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could you define misogyny? Becuase it's described everything from air conditioning to female genital mutilation. the term seems to be applied a bit broad to have much use here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:11 PM
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I see your point about the two extra very's
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:08 PM
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Am I going to regret googling what that is at work?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:43 PM
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I would very very very much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:43 PM
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The law exists to handle people who commit crime. Precautions exist because nothing in the above statement involves your continued well-being. Blame is what children and the courts look for. You just look out for your own ass
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:42 PM
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interesting. How do you know this? Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:41 PM
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I'm making points, not seeking herd approval on a soapbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:41 PM
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Read my comment again, I just said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:36 PM
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saw this And from Tinders Wiki Developer(s) IAC Initial release September 12, 2012; 5 years ago no idea where the source of the chart is, but if true, should CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:35 PM
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I see two things with Mr. V and his detractors He writes very bad satire, he needs to wink at the reader to make it clear Everyone bitching about his satire as literal are either too stupid to see what satire is, or can see it, but lash out anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 12:54 PM
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So you know what's in someone's head? If they admit it, you were right. 8f they don't, you clearly know they are Lying. Do you see how arrogant and self centred that argument is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 12:52 PM
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And that's the point people miss... If a guy is entitled to something he just takes it. He doesn't seethe or lash out verbally. He just takes it The people throwing around accusations of entitlement have no idea what entitlement looks like, and thank God.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 12:51 PM
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A covert contract isn't an entitlement, it's a shitty transaction without a price tag or a good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 12:49 PM
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Someone's catching on...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 12:48 PM
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I've seen no one espouse this. Ive often seen people accused of this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:22 PM
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I dunno, why do you hate fucking unattractive dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:20 PM
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I'll take it this just like his fumbled "modest proposal" post that got everyone in a huff?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:19 PM
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Ssh, he's on a roll. Wait till he blames them for cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:15 AM
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The terms seems so rediculous that I have to believe whoever is saying it DOES see people that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 02:57 PM
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So I can make a rediculous claim, and everyone has to argue it as stated? Talk about stacking the deck
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 01:23 AM
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Say the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:26 PM
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It's not about getting your rocks off. Otherwise porn would solve the problem. It's about human interaction, affection, and a negative feedback loop thats too far gone to easily get back
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 07:38 PM
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Fair point. It's just hard when OP gives no context. Just shouts a random thought into the void, and we are supposed to guess what the fuck he's on about. he made a bad argument, invented a crappy rebuttal, then retorted in the crappy rebuttal from a strawman that doesn't exist. I would love to change that view, but how do you work with that mess?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:37 PM
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PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill. I dunno, I'm going by the rules they gave me to work with. I have no problem doing some sparring online, but fuck, I spent 2 minutes in the blue pill, and I hope that isn't the standard set here. I got called a racist because of a quote from a single post. The commenter sounded deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:15 PM
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I don't think you can. Theres billions of us, and you mean to tell me with a few years of work you can max out your chances in each individual niche? Porn stars go from normal porn, to milf, to blacked etc.. They max out multiple times in a career
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:04 PM
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Does it matter how the rule is applied in order to make it a rule? Does changing the underlying reasons for the rules existence disprove it? Also, what do you base this on. I can't change your view if I have no idea how you reached your view
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:01 PM
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We aren't a video game. People don't max out. Our skillsets run deep, and they run wide. I've yet to see a person reason their 100% pinnace. Even olympic gold medalists will learn a new lifestyle after they win. Some even learn to be women. What you say is maxed out, I read as unwilling to extend past ones comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:00 PM
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Yet so many Red Pillers blatantly hate career women. Can you give me something to work with? This contradiction makes no sense. Either you don't understand their grievance, or theres some other point I'm missing. the way you put it sounds like you're purposefully trying to shit on someone, without regard for real facts. Show me where the obvious hatred for career women comes from, becuase i'ts not obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 05:58 PM
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I'll have to take your word on it. I wouldn't even know how to start that search, nor have the inclination to start
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 05:56 PM
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it's MS paint, what kind of resolution were you looking for? 15% for women and 18% for men. 99% of kids under 18 haven't been married. stats in a vacumn are misleading
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 05:54 PM
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so if her available options are shitty. I see we agree on the situation, but not so much on the solution. Honesty, it reads the same as a MGTOW guy. I don't like my options, I can either build myself up for more options, or check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 05:53 PM
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I get that, it seemed a weird tangent on a thread that wasn't on the same subject is all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 05:52 PM
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fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 05:50 PM
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Relax, I feel ya, and I'm not coming at you like that. I'm suggesting a better phrase than cashing in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 03:13 PM
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They have income quintiles, though I'm pretty sure that wasn't what Marx meant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 03:08 PM
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when you say cash in, you make it sound as if one is owed. I think there may be a more precise term to use. "Shoot for the stars"??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 03:07 PM
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no one in this thread mentioned any resentment towards having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 03:06 PM
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oh? I doubt you can fight nazis during your 20s, koreans during your 30s, then come back and have a crisis like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 03:06 PM
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As far as explanations for the red pill. This is the first one that didn't sound like a rambling incoherence. Granted, it's the only one that hasn't called it cancer either. Probably not related
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 03:04 PM
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Whats the point here, you're losing me. At the begining, you suggest that it's not a crisis, but a guy realizing he was sold a dud and cutting ties. is that the ultimate point your making? As people get better, they start expecting better?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 03:02 PM
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Ever played the telephone game as a kid? I'm guessing you'd have to go to the source to get something that makes sense, because what you describe, doesn't. Besides, isn't class a Britsh/india thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:59 PM
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Here, about as well put together as what I just read
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:55 PM
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did you know without social interaction, many animals shorten their lifespan significantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:50 PM
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Betas weren't bred, they were the result and subsequent strategy of not being the biggest chimp in the herd. The black plague didn't care if you could maxlift 4x your bodyweight, I don't think alpha creates an increased healing factor
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:49 PM
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I've never seen anyone describing it as class. Jordan Peterson describes it as dominance heirarchies, some of the guys in here say it in terms of alpha, or attractiveness. Unless redpillers have become Marxists and no one told us, I have a hard time believing it references class. only that it’s enough to make me skeptical about the idea that all women are hypergamous That seems to be an easy fix. you've created a hodgepodge based on two separate group ideas. If course it's going to sound a bit o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:47 PM
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That was a lot of words needed in order to tell me that being 'toxic' isn't a bad thing. Also, offense was never the issue, at least it shouldn't be. The issue is that it's inaccurate, and is a disindigenous framework
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:45 PM
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Very small variance IMO. on a scale of 1 - 10 (autism vs don juan) most people are naturally a 4-6. It takes a lot of work or atrophy to get them outside of this range
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:36 PM
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They say hypergamy is limited to class until you mention X amount of women ... It sounds like you're saying the long tail disproves the middle of a bell curve
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:34 PM
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Look up "long tail" and "bell curve"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:33 AM
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sounds like using the long tail to disprove a bell curve. not very convincing argument man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 12:01 AM
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Yeah, people exposed to it early and often.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 08:54 PM
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Naturally gifted people just have more experience. Theres classic experiments of soviet children removed from human contact, and feral children left in the wilderness. None of them developed social skills outside of constant exposure. The fact people still think naturals exist is silly. Early exposure is what you should mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 08:15 PM
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Why wouldn't you be? are there people who seriously think that guys are dour and boorish when talking to women? I don't care what website you read, anyone not doing this will be facing a lot of rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 07:20 PM
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Chads would be the ones giving advice, wouldn't they? though from what I've seen, they are described like a fictional archetype to make a point. Why do you make it literal? I've known a few playboys in my life. A lot of the divorced friends of my parents showed me that everyone can fall on hard times. they usually turned to drugs. No one gets a free ride
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 07:14 PM
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That wasn't what I asked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 03:53 PM
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Working out tears muscle fibres so that they regrow stronger. Sore, tired, in pain if injured. Men are harming themselves, but didn't make your list either. So many exceptions shows your idea lacks refinement
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 03:52 PM
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I heard a line from a girl once that fits your question: Yeah, his (baby) dad is out of town, what you up to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 03:14 PM
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Hey I dont think I've seen an OP by you before so I'll give you a less sarcastic reply than I might normally. why would one be proud of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 03:11 PM
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People can claim whatever they want. Going by the facts that are also in here, most women initiate divorces. Clearly the threshold for men is higher than the threshold for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:43 PM
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Isn't that what 4channers call each other? Robot in the first person, anon in the 3rd?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:24 PM
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Girls are ending things more often, so it's either on the girl, or they have a lower tolerance for monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:12 PM
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except OP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 01:22 PM
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I don't get it. I've never really looked forward to a relationship, my girl was the one making the sales pitch for it. So I'd argue it's the girls job. As for ending it, anyone can, though I imagine women doing it more often means they have a lower tolerance for monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 01:19 PM
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I don't know about all that. I'm just becoming increasingly frustrated at the lack of thought and effort from a great many posts and comments in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 01:18 PM
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I don't know how to change someones view when they build up all these horrible assumptions that would make their view perfectly reasonable. Toxic masculinity. Toxic to whom? Why is it something that has stayed with humanity for eons, yet for some reason, is just detrimental? So long as you believe that traits that are solely male are toxic, there can be no changing of your view. Toxic masculinity is about harming yourself or others in an attempt to fit male gender norms. What if you aren't tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 01:17 PM
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I think one is a horrible person to leave their partner when the chips are down. However, I understand if they do. Is it so hard to accept both at once?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 01:03 PM
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Someonees
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 10:22 AM
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sounds like it's all inside to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 10:21 AM
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I'm friendly with everyone. I don't invite people out afterwards though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 10:21 AM
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Body language can't be faked. Study up on the subject, asking people about involuntary responses is pretty much useless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 07:41 PM
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I've been blessed in that I was out of the game before tinder showed up. But even OKCupid/POF/hi-5 were just background. A passive compliment to a dating life, not the main source
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 07:27 PM
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Walk outside man. I have this same issue, and it's been great. I don't have to deal with it anymore, but it's nice to see the demographics that occasionally eyefuck you as you walk by
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 07:04 PM
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Naw, I wish we were moreso. I have too many friends and family who got fucked over by assuming too much goodness from their women. If I were a woman, I would understand that anger as a reflection on that loss of optimism about marriage-worthy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 07:03 PM
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Of course... I'm aware women love having a 'network' of as many people as possible. OP just seemed to be unaware of men wanting to have sex with women as a default
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 07:00 PM
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Agreed. It's as if the above commenter treats anything that makes a single person feel bad as a moral wrong. With that logic, no one would ever get fired
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:58 PM
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Well ... someone had to tell ya. women are in the sex box, unless theres a compelling reason not to. I'd say unattractive (and I'm not desperate/horny) co worker, or relationship/sister with a friend of mine are the only hard nopes. Beyond that, someone would have to show me great interest/competence in a hobby I share to get there, and even then, it's an activity partner, not a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:55 PM
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I've yet to see a way to confirm what a woman says anyways, short of her keeping a cadre of ex fuccbois around as friends. OP sounded like she's never been interested in fuccbois, so it would never come up. If she doesn't have a thot mentality, then she won't act like a thot, and whomever she ends up with won't care, unless they want a thot. But why bother yourself with people who want what shes not offering?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:52 PM
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It was a flippant reference to men vs women. you walked into the mens room and only saw dicks - You went to a space that men seem to make purposefully prickly, and wonder why all you saw was male perspectives, and lack of female ones you learned nothing about vaginas - men don't know how to be women, women do, so you learned nothing about being a successful woman from men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:51 PM
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As opposed to fat on the outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:46 PM
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A few, more acquaintances really. We've only ever developed platonic ally by winging for each other when either of us were single. They largely do their own thing once they find a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:46 PM
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Lol, you went to the men's room. And saw dicks everywhere, then wonder why you learned nothing about vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:45 PM
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But if a stretch, going from stranger to third removed acquaintance isn't much different though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:43 PM
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You do realize that's a correlation, not causation right? Damaged people fuck a lot of dudes, but not all people who fuck a lot of dudes are damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:41 PM
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No one gets angry they don't exist. People don't like them, and may voice it loudly, but they aren't a hated subgroup, not like the girls here raging on incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:40 PM
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The sex is the entrance fee to loving behavior, but no guarantee of it. don't blame me, thots ruined it for you. Sucks though. I'm guessing you were trying it out with guys around your age? 27+ may be better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 02:52 PM
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What a weird statement. the fact guys have to assert reasons why they don't want some other dude fucking and knocking up their wives is pure insanity. Call it insecure if you want, There is 0 discussion to be had about this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 02:50 PM
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oh hey, it is! Ha! My bad. You say femenine sexuality. Why is one femenine or sexual? to attract a mate of course! So to answer your question you just described female sexuality entirely by the male sexual experience. This is how it's defined. It's why masculine sexuality is defined by women. How we dress, our physical shape, how we talk, act, what we do... All of it isn't sexual unless it attracts women. Why would women putting on a fake act for men be the primarily pleasurable for us? Why do p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 02:45 PM
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I suppose it didn't. Then again, you're not OP, this isn't your thread, and your question has nothing to do with either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 02:38 PM
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This reads like you were let down by the results
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 02:29 PM
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fat is on the inside...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 02:28 PM
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q4all The kind of girl that makes herself available, but makes it so I think I've conquered something. This is my answer to what female sexuality is. It will ultimately be based on attraction triggers for the opposite sex. Like how snakes don't eat dead animals, no matter how delicious. they need the hunt, they need live things to feed. This is the reasoning behind the answer. Most people like the reason why Male sexuality is allowed and celebrated in most cultures - I don't agree with your prem…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 02:26 PM
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From what little I've read, that is called solopcism, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:26 PM
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Isn't it a place for men? why would you even go there?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:25 PM
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All it did was confirm what I already knew. you seem to do that a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:23 PM
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The second one is interesting. Definitely beats renting a van in downtown Toronto
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:23 PM
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and assume all they want is sex Heh. until you give us a reason to think otherwise, what else are you good for? Do you think we just randomly walk up to men at starbucks and start a conversation for funsies? Question though, what other reason would there be to talk to you as a stranger? I'm genuinely curious what you thought men were after before knowing you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:22 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8gesus/sowhat_exactly_is_feminine_sexuality/dyblv7i/ you're not, you're actually within the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:16 PM
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You really don't read your own sources do you. From the abstract Oral sex has become a standard component of the heterosexual sexual script, though little is known about the level of pleasure men and women experience from giving and receiving oral sex and the extent to which relationship context is associated with levels of pleasure. The purpose of this study was to investigate gender differences in giving and receiving oral sex, and associations with pleasure experienced and partner type. Parti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:15 PM
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The kind of girl that makes herself available, but makes it so I think I've conquered something. Like how snakes don't eat dead animals, no matter how delicious. they need the hunt, they need live things to feed. Male sexuality is allowed and celebrated in most cultures I don't agree with your premise. Sexuality in general is stigmatized everywhere but the US, maybe brazil Romance novels (hence the industry booming) If women had game, men would need better game. It would be a positive feedback l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:07 PM
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Hotter. No one's ever gotten a high 5 for fucking a director
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:04 PM
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Ugly women, trashy woman. Not that they don't have an mba
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:03 PM
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No one has ever thought well of a man because of the status of who he was fucking. That he was fucking someone that other people of status would fuck? sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 08:13 PM
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thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 07:20 PM
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Man I wish you would elevate the understanding of us regular folk instead of snarky indignation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 07:01 PM
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Here's the question then, Is it a correlation? Are there are so many fatherless children that they skew the results; or is a causation, and the minority of people who are prone to mass violence wouldn't otherwise have done so with a dad around? Or a third option. Is it that without dads, this would be much higher, and fathers are a pacifying effect on society?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 06:50 PM
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I will say this. A girl sneaks into the GNR concert, she gets to go backstage and meet Slash A guy sneaks into the Set where Jenna Jameson works, and he's going to get his ass kicked before the cops come to pick him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 06:43 PM
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For the former, it's not though. Besides, any idiot willing to ask is stupid enough to believe what he will be told. There's a reason people verify information before trusting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 06:41 PM
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be moar vague so people can argue their biases
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 06:41 PM
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Because one girl thought he was worth having sex with. I mean, would you rather buy a used car that was well maintained? Or a never driven 2006 Maxima
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:29 PM
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Read a book from a clinical psychologist who suggested women have a hard-wiring for distrust. Since it's easy to fake signals of commitment, it's been a survival instinct to assume the worst of people. Which would make sense for her to default to a negative mindset. I'm sure a few minutes in front of a well adjusted man fixes that, like anything... Can't fake something thats right in front of you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:27 PM
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he is Peter Pan and targeting me for my youth. Is it not possible for a man to like a younger woman, except to pretend he's younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:25 PM
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I'm sure a 5 minute conversation would sort that out, assuming their is nothing wrong with him anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:25 PM
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According to his value. Everyone here saying otherwise is projecting their bias onto this question. E.g. Harrison ford - born 1942 @35 @40 Since it's the same guy, making all things being even, do you see his opportunities drying up? Take a non celebrity. If they are attractive at 35, chances are 40 won't be much different, maybe better even. Some say "Do you want to be 60 when your kids are in high school?" imply that by 60 you're too old and immobile to handle little people. If you're fat and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:22 PM
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Yeah, and this is the worst part. Christian men have been hit the hardest, far as I can tell. The heathens are better able to roll with the punches
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 09:23 PM
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He's talking about being taken advantage of. Guys are great worker when sufficiently motivated. Take away the motivation, take away the worker
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 08:29 PM
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There is no snark. It's a genuine critique. I honestly do not see how one cannot be bothered to read the article, but think it's useful to critique it. Does that strike everyone as a good faith behavior? It's just asking for misunderstandings
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:22 PM
1

I never said they didn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:59 PM
1

Sounds like greshams law in action
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:17 PM
1

I love economists, they helped us avoid the financial collapse in 08, and made 20 years of sound economic predictions. I look forward to more info on how they model chicktopia
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:46 PM
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So you have no awareness of the white nationalist arguments of IQ vs race, or how it relates to nature vs nurture? Lets put a pin in this, you freaked the fuck out by even the mention, so it's really not going to be productive to discuss ideas vs affiliations with you. To be fair, I didn't expect much, your post is so full of contradictions, lashing out is all you're probably doing in this entire thread. I will edit this if I see otherwise when I finish. e.g. My goal here is not to shame them, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:32 PM
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what kind of person takes the mental energy to discuss something, but freely admits to lacking the mental energy to research it first? Do you think you're going to have useful input?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:20 PM
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Slow down there chum. No one called you anything, but it's a point you'd do well to address. If you're suggesting nature over nurture, then it does go in that direction. Either own it, suggest a reasoning for why there's an exception (theirs or yours), or consider that it's a dead end, and to take your thoughts in a different direction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:16 PM
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so you're saying the 'high quality' argument here is bad? I don't disagree, using a snapshot to gauge someone long term does seem nieve. In reality, using their past and their present selves would make more sense, as well as assuming the future will differ from both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:08 PM
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All that stuff is out of my control. I'll assume people like me until they give me notification otherwise. I try to avoid false positives, they seem to be a way to sabotage ones self
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:07 PM
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I don't think those people give two shits about redpill, or half the stuff posted in here. I think they enjoy hearing the sound of their own voice, and seek validation from the masses. I don't give a shit about half of it, but I laugh at the surprising lack of even the basic concepts of debate, discussion, or self aware thought. And this is not coming from me being an expert by any means
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:06 PM
1

I've had a few girls in my life who hated me at first, until something caught their eye. Feelings are fickle, don't treat them as tablets on the mont
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:32 PM
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It beats having two narcissists butting heads over who is owed more favor
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:29 PM
2

That was the point I was making, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:28 PM
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I never said you personally. I said it reads like someone who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:20 PM
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Not when you get irritated that someone else does it back. Can't have it both ways. Then again, I treat relationships as two people putting in work to keep each other happy, and their bond strong. I do plenty of things I don't particularly want to do that keep my SO happy. And she does the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:19 PM
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That read to me like someone justifying their lack of libido by calling everyone else insane. Such a weird comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:07 PM
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this stuff seems fairly straight forward Be attractive never turn down sex (set a precedent that it's OK to) get sleep, avoid stress, carve out time in your schedule And if she still refuses to have sex with you... well, at least you know you aren't the one who killed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:07 PM
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he made up his mind before he bothered to start reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:10 PM
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Never do? Or usually do. Because they aren't the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:09 PM
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I just read /r/iamverysmart Having said that, youre nature over nurture argument is one the white ethnostate guys use all the time for racial IQ. Are you sure thats the horse you want to hitch yourself to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:08 PM
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Your links are all old, except the one, so I gave it a read. I posted the summary below with some thoughts. Don't be deceived by a quality woman's claims of scarcity and "no luck" in the dating market. She has numerous Good Men who make themselves available to her for dating, but she rejects them because they're not tall enough, or handsome enough, or doesn't have enough tattoos, or doesn't make enough money, or is "too nice". Like most women in western society, her idea of a "decent guy" is the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:04 PM
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This isn't to change your view, more to change your assumptions. Your view is pretty accurate, though I don't think you know that. The trick to viewing these sort of statements is to understand what the person making them aspires to, or thinks they are deficient in. This doesn't make them false, but it does make the speaker biased. Now, read your post with this in the back of your mind. I was curious, so I went to the source. I checked out the links on the red pill sidebar. In the section for br…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 01:23 PM
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God no. More like noblige oblige Far as I can tell anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:24 AM
1

Good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 01:03 AM
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It's the only ones that count Imo. And the only ones that would apply to a captain and first mate. Who gives a fuck about the rest?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 12:56 AM
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People change. Women don't honour their word for a lifetime, no one can. It's silly to suggest that even. When the baby rabies hits, people change
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 05:09 PM
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Read on, I used better examples to avoid simplistic answers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 05:05 PM
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I'm suggesting you're over simplifying an issue. Also, in those examples, among my peers, the girl unilaterally decides and hubby is forced to accept it. Hence why I laugh at compromise, it's a word designed to help people cope. Case in point, her body, her choice. His only role is to accommodate her choice. That isn't compromise, that's negative externalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 05:04 PM
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Here, I added some example that aren't about money, you keep looking to solve something while I'm making a point. Binary decisions have externalities. These are the cases where compromise breaks down
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 04:16 PM
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Now what happens when all my income goes towards paying for it, and then you can't afford that vacation you want, or a lifestyle you could afford, but now cannot? Or, Shared finances... Its our money? Wife wants two kids vice one. You want a dog, she doesn't. She's pregnant and wants to go through with it even though you agreed you two wouldn't? Where the compromise there?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 03:59 PM
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Think real hard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 03:18 PM
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Impotent revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 03:18 PM
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It's disingenuous. E. G. I want a new car, wife doesnt. What's the compromise on a binary decision? Someone giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 03:17 PM
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Nvm. I've read a few of your posts... You read like a van renter yourself... Im out, good luck with this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:20 PM
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You forgot your jack boots, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:17 PM
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not a radical cult... Sounds like you saw what you wanted to see then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:11 PM
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My comment about loading up virgins in boxcars was hyperbolic. Youre starting to make me wonder if you prefer it, so long as you think the people on question were "vermin". I dont know if you're aware of what you're saying, but it scares the living hell out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:07 PM
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You want a European example of a disenfranchised man killing people with a vehicle?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:04 PM
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So what happens in those edge cases, aka the ones that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 11:56 AM
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Are people allowed to openly mock someone like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 11:54 AM
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She wanted a dog, I didn't. So we compromised and got a dog 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 11:52 AM
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I asked a question, and got no answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 03:49 AM
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I'm also under automod, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:03 AM
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I can't comment on something without you going on the defensive? I am also under automod
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:02 AM
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1 in a million guys will lose it like this. With millions of guys being marginalized, or medically unfit without assistance, I'm surprised we don't see them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:01 AM
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Women are primed to see it. False positives never get talked about, so we assume women are all professor x. Its a confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:59 AM
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Man, reading your comments are frustrating. Is it malice or a lack of self awareness in them? I can't tell
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:58 AM
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Why do you want I put from someone who hates you for existing? Or at least not wanting you around..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:48 AM
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Why is it you just had to #metoo something that wasn't about you? Rather large ego driven thing to say, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:47 AM
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I wouldnt be around long enough to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:47 AM
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There's a lot of assumptions, and I don't agree with most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 11:36 AM
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Out of how many? Im curious,
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 11:35 AM
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How big a group is "they"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 03:13 AM
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I've never seen or head of this ever happening. Did you make this up, or did you really base this on something. I probably should trust you, but I've heard rumours that people make things up on the internet, if you can believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 02:31 AM
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Feels fine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 08:11 PM
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What can I speak against? There's only opinion, no logic, nothing backing it. It may as well he a shower thought. The only reasonable comment is to dismiss it until op can provide some thought behind it, other than "rich people don't like step kids"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 08:10 PM
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See, there it is again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 06:53 PM
2

Why does this read as sarcastic and angry then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 06:48 PM
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I think they call this navel gazing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 06:31 PM
4

Why are you being sarcastic and angry like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 06:30 PM
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That and a lot of guys have the halo effect. Too trusting of girls against all better sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 05:06 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 05:02 PM
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It looks like people are pretending the former in order to get the latter. Its similar in technique to "think about the children!" arguments against 2A
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 04:44 PM
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I'm saying if it were about jobs, they wouldn't be getting women fired because of worries over harassment. Its modern Puritan purges, nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 04:36 PM
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We are talking movie stars. If you have an example that matches your criteria, I'm all ears. I've yet to see one, at least not one that isn't criminally liable, prone to a lawsuit (and a great payout)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 04:06 PM
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Sure, no argument there. Im a huge fan of people affected by systems having the final say in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 02:53 PM
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Life finds a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 02:50 PM
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I'm with you, I'm suggesting people have a hard time with what's "fair", and take it to mean what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 02:15 PM
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Get gud then, Meryl Streep did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 02:14 PM
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I'm finding it amusing. Things don't matter if they don't affect someone directly. Once it does, it becomes acceptable. I would have concern for people having opinions when they aren't affected directly by the outcome. For example, those who compete with immigrant labour should be the only opinion on immigration that matters, the same way that you body autonomy gets to have unilateral say in who to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 02:13 PM
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"I have no problem letting people who are black into the country without concern for the social cohesion and safety net, so I can't be a racist"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 01:17 PM
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They can come into the country, just not in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 01:16 PM
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We're not "okay" with other people having unfair advantages over us. May want to expand on the bolded part. A lot of people assume any advantage is unfair. Overgrown children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 01:02 PM
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A guy working overtime cannot offer a vagina to his boss, he can only offer his back. You can argue severity, but you can't argue the premise. People doing above and beyond whats required for special favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:59 PM
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And if they stop demanding to eat, agriculture prices will fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:58 PM
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not really, the person making the assertion is burdened. In this case, proving on conducted sexual misconduct is the assertion, proving a negative is impossible anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:55 PM
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There is no crime for asking someone if you can jerk off in front of them, and they say OK. I'm not suggesting they be convicted without proof. With the exception of Cosby and Weinstien (spacey I guess too) legality isn't the issue, faux morality is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:55 PM
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is it working?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:52 PM
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And you couldn't work for the East India trading company as a captain unless you had nobility in your blood. I agree, sometimes free choices aren't really free
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:50 PM
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which is something the male stars don't need to consider. Corey Fieldman disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:48 PM
1

What does your first half of your sentence have to do with the second?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:47 PM
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You sure about that? Every time I hear a man pontificate about “buyers remorse”, I always ask “Did you have to suck a dick for your job? So why should I have to?”. You can always be valuable to the people who want to hire you with the work, that's worked well for men so far
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:45 PM
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Make sense then. I don't argue for the sake of it. I'm not here for you to vent
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:33 AM
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You want to argue, pick whichever one helps you get there, I don't know what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:21 AM
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Can you name a girl who has?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:16 AM
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I never said boss, I said he paid her for a service. You said boss, then proceeded to argue about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:15 AM
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I never said boss, I said he paid her for a service. You said boss, then proceeded to argue about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:15 AM
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Either one works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:06 AM
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I can't tell if your flair is anti-semetic or mocking guys with high estrogen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 08:04 PM
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She performed a service, he paid for the service, they had a contract with stipulations for both parties. If this isn't work, I don't know what is. Love maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 07:53 PM
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I will admit. I have slept with a girl that I absolutely hated. Part of me wanted to use sex to just shut her up. Of course, after sex, she calmed the fuck down. Clearly she knew how to turn it off, but chose not to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 07:52 PM
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It seems obvious then. Why would you act one way when you want something else? If you don't want a relationship, don't act like someone who is good at a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 07:51 PM
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He paid her, she worked for him. These events require discretion, and metoo has made it fashionable to throw away that discretion. If you follow, Metoo transformed into MentorHer, because women were losing access to high status mentors as a concequence. Like someone biting the hand that fed them. Not just workplace thots either, some women who rely on the work to get ahead are now seeing an uptick in risk averse mentors who don't engage. I'm not saying it's a good thing or a bad thing. I am sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 07:45 PM
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I'm speaking generally. I've not followed Monica 2015. I could barely be bothered to follow Monica 1990
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 07:22 PM
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I was thinking about Stormy Daniels for this example, but clearly enough have done so that it creates uncertainty for men. And you're right, it's a minority in aggregate, which doesn't really matter here. 15% is 1 in 7, but for people in positions of high status. These are generally people who matter. For those high status men, this is a big deal. the 1 in 100 people at boring-office.com won't ever see it, assuming all the stated facts in this post are accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 07:21 PM
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It was once Aziz Ansari was thrown into the mix. Since then, it's morphed into a weird gossip character attack campaign with weaponized thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 06:35 PM
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I would assume it's because people are starting to renege on the arrangement. Imagine if "I used to play golf with the boss, but it was really a kidnapping!" was a legitimate statement. I'd imagine bosses would never invite co workers to golf anymore, and since so many people did this, it would preoccupy them. It's market uncertainty, and people don't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 06:33 PM
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The kind of person who weaponizes sex to get ahead (as opposed to merit) seems like the exact kind of person to leverage sexual harassment as a weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 06:31 PM
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People may not like it, but it's generally not punished at any societal level, which makes it almost a tacit acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 06:03 PM
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She doesn't like her one night stand, she's using him as a weapon to get revenge on another man. Meanwhile she signals to the guy that this is sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:14 PM
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It's not stupid. A guy saying he likes a girl more than he does, just to have a one night stand a girl who wants to sleep with any random guy to get revenge on her cheating boyfriend. Both those cases are sex as deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:20 PM
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“Should I have?” Did you know violence among the trans community is far worse than the rest of society? I wonder if stuff like this is why? Q4All: Do you think coercion or deception can vitiate consent? I think this is applied half the time. Womens deceptions are generally treated as acceptable (I think about Jordan Peterson's discussion on makeup) while male deceptions are treated as reprehensible. It's almost as if society expect and accepts that women in aggregate will be deceptive, and has n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:16 PM
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Junk food isn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 01:09 PM
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Win win! The hyperbole is a bit much, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 01:55 AM
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They don't like being taken for granted. Not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 09:52 PM
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People tend to be honest when there's anonymity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 09:52 PM
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Heh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 09:51 PM
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How did you work it out with your man now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 09:41 PM
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Youre being literal. The person who used it was making a point on your tit for tat attitude, and you've not been able to see that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 09:41 PM
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I do like me a nicely pressed bathroom 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 08:29 PM
1

So you're speculating then? I'm trying to understand how you speak with such certianty
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:59 PM
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Most generic skills are pretty unisex. Now if you're talking about who has to kill the murderer in the house, I'll grant you my specific head conking skills may matter more than your ability to scream and flail about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:58 PM
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You used to be in a lair or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:51 PM
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I remember the old PUA community had a saying 'leave her better than how you found her' I can only imagine this still holds true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:45 PM
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It's the 2nd most important thing going on in that bedroom!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:44 PM
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oh, I'll dare you! I have a rhetorical question for you. What would you say to an otherwise great guy you're interested in if he responded with 'if you can't change a tire, don't date me' See how silly that 'take it or leave it' attitude sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:43 PM
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The disagreement is over being taken for granted. At least thats mine. It took many comments to suss out whether you expected to be catered to, or assisted with the tire. It's a proxy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:42 PM
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Sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:04 PM
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True, how a girl answers your question usually says all you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 05:21 PM
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Exactly my point, thanks. When you are pushing to give value to your partner without keeping score, it's a feedback loop of appreciation, especially if it's what they want, and not what you want (I'll make you breakfast, but only if it's what I eat!) It's not just selfish and insecure to keep score and favor someone with selfish preferences, but it creates a utilitarian atmosphere, where you're treated like an employee jumping through hoops
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 05:09 PM
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Are they though? Or are they a mirror to project someones insecurities onto? I mean, when a guy is shut down in the bar and says the girls a 'lesbian'. That doesn't make her a lesbian, it makes the guy unable to accept rejection with any grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:55 PM
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I saw the article. It's amazing how much people can know over a single out of context facebook post. Have we even confirmed this wasn't a 4chan hoax? they are rather known for giving out troll social media posts at the tail end of these events.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:48 PM
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Why bother changing your tire, when we are going two separate places anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:45 PM
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She didn't say help though. She used the word help, but then admits to having no idea what to do. I read it as 'do it for me and I don't want to learn' but I could be too uncharitable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:44 PM
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Of course, I'm sure you wouldn't cook for a guy who couldn't boil water, that sounds like enabling someones incompetence. And you'd eventually 'ask' him to start taking out the garbage, cleaning the dishes, or some other halfway measure? I guess you prefer strong independent women who don’t need a man. no woman needs a man, not physically. You have jobs, equality, and enough cops to protect you from a world of bears and lions. Need is irrelevant. Want, on the other hand, is very relevant. The th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:41 PM
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The guys here have only equated them as 'tasks you do for your partner'. You're the one saying '5 dinners equals a tire, and only if it's tofu like I like'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:39 PM
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And if he handed you a tire iron, and started assembling the jack, what then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:16 PM
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I find it infanticizes the person as well. My wife has changed flat tires before. I help when she has trouble, I help when I want to do a little extra. I would not respond to my 'role' as the guy who does the difficult, but underappreciated task. Especially the way OP describes her tit-for-tat relationship expectations. It would be like keeping a running tally everytime I would take her out for dinner. "Oh, she's up 10$, better make sure I only go to burger king this week!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:15 PM
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I suppose you'd be ok if he didn't tighten the lug nuts fully then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:12 PM
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How about this, are you capable? Have you tried? Or should he automatically jump to do anything for you. Help means to assist with someone already doing something. Having him do it for you is not helping, and sounds more like you just can't be bothered to be self reliant. I imagine what it would be like if someone I was with couldn't maintain a budget, and expected me to 'help' by constantly keeping us both afloat and bailing her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:05 PM
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Need gives a certian amount of security. Or someone knowing where they stand. Honestly, I've never wanted a girl to need me, I would prefer to be wanted. It comes with the understanding that when she no longer wants me, there's no reason for her to stick around. Of course, that works both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:03 PM
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People generally respond to incentives. I would imagine creating an incentive (or removing a detriment) would change behavior, that works in all spheres of human activity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 03:58 PM
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So jerk is tangential, and not a factor. Your view is framed improperly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:26 PM
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Melissa Mcarthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 01:25 PM
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I've yet to see a girl and think she is attractive for her occupation, finances, or social status. Movie stars maybe, but that would be only to brag that I slept with Catherine Zeta Jones in 1999 Granted, I do like winning over a girl that a buddy of mine is interested in, but that's just competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 01:24 PM
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doubt = self awareness, I wouldn't worry about it past that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 01:16 PM
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I typed monk mode into google and this was the first link https://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/ The sacrifice: you’re going to be minimising your time contribution to social obligations and junk activities. The reason for this is because these activities consume much of your time whilst yielding little to negligible increase towards your social market value. Monk mode is a serious commitment that is not to be half-assed. You’re either doing it, or you’re not. It’ll be a struggle in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 12:49 PM
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Better than doing it from peer pressure, that's for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:30 PM
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This is why 'love' is such a stupid phrase. We can make it mean whatever we want it to mean in order to make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 07:15 PM
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If someone is complaining, it means they still care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 07:02 PM
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Funny, not one of them considered making it appealing for you to sign on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 06:46 PM
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I've got a few buddies who are in dead sex relationships. they still seem to love their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 06:44 PM
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I don't know about this. many of the women I see who complain about their men aren't exactly able to find anything better. I'd almost say it was someone arguing that their position in life is not what they wanted, only what they deserved
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 06:43 PM
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So half think thats unattainable, the other half laugh at the low numbers. I mean mathematically that is how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 06:40 PM
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Any reasonable person would say after the 'no'. An unreasonable person would say before the no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 04:57 PM
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where did I suggest that "right"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 04:57 PM
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Seems rather conflict averse, no? Instead of a more uncomfortable level of rejection, it's better to get the legal system to let him down for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 04:16 PM
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A girls way of telling you that you're punching above your own weight, or at least that she thinks you are, but with a little power dynamics thrown in the mix. unwanted sexual advance towards another person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 04:15 PM
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I don't see many women coping with extreme stresses the same way. I also have trouble finding women who take rejection, or someone not liking them well. It's as if likability is required for them to work with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 01:28 PM
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A correlary. Most women cluster around the mean. I can't imagine an equal distribution of horridly ugly, and over the top attractive women. More likely, a clump of average, slightly below and above average women. So the average woman may be average, but a large clump are above average
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 01:22 PM
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I'll buy that danger and play etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 02:01 AM
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And not having sex makes her a good girlfriend how?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 02:00 AM
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I'm not saying anything. Someone else trotted that out initially. I am also not talking about attractive anything, only competition, youre having a different conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 01:39 AM
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Perfect example
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 09:44 PM
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That sounds like a madonna/whore type of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 07:20 PM
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Interesting. a want for meritocracy was mine. I never thought of it as a fault of character, but a fault of perception. Easy fix, stop wanting for it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 07:08 PM
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Just the opposite, because women can compete with videogames, chess, yadda yadda, it's not super masculine. Maybe a little masculine sure... But hardly as masculine as previous generations. into And lets face it, anything short of crushing another mans skull in or taking his wife is not going to be super masculine. We have civilized ourselves So the line isn't at 100% balls to the wall murdering type of violence, so where does the modern line get drawn? business, sports, chess, video games... So…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 07:06 PM
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Is that so bad? Of course, those girls who do have sex are perfectly fine women too you know. So if you have two great woman, one of which you're having sex with, why would you consider the other one?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 07:03 PM
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playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:50 PM
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Neither does football, yes someone above made the case for it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:42 PM
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Physical harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:34 PM
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So then risk, but only when there's potential harm, not just risk in general
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:25 PM
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Now you're leaning towards responsibility and concequences as the metric. Risk? Also, I'd say a ceo failure matters. As for games? How Much are those eSports contracts worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:21 PM
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So physical effort is masculinity, of which violence is a subset
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:59 PM
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I'm assuming people are honest and direct until proven otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:44 PM
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Youre seeing the other side... I'd say your misunderstanding is because you don't see it in this way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:43 PM
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That's what I'm asking... Where the line is drawn. Fights, yes, football, yes. Video games, no... So far violence is the only thing, but how much?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:42 PM
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how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:58 PM
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Doesn't matter, even if it happened once in a lifetime, one of the lifetimes was over at the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:49 PM
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I'm talking about competition, not attractiveness. what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:47 PM
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Well, I don't think they can, judging by some of the posts on the subject. And lets face it, anything short of crushing another mans skull in or taking his wife is not going to be super masculine. We have civilized ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:56 PM
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she makes the world a better place
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:55 PM
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analysis paralysis. You can make an argument that too much freedom causes unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:49 PM
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Odd. What is better than good sex? She able to rebuild an engine or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:47 PM
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Professional chess then? How about cut throat business? Lawyers aren't beating the crap out of each other, they ARE competing however. Are you suggesting there is no such thing as competition without violence? Does that mean women don't compete?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:38 PM
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dang, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:37 PM
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Competition is. You can just as easily dismiss football as a displacement of masculine urges and a distraction from the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:33 PM
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Yes, in aggregate. I'd say bad, but it depends what end state you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:32 PM
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And how people view that lens is telling. The fact you're irritated over the questions framing of fault is a great example (and I agree for what it's worth) The main question is only asking whether anyone actually knows what their weak spots are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:19 PM
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Still, I'm a new account, I can just as easily have this conversation in askmen, PPD, battleofthesexes, or one of the many other gender focused subreddits. Sometimes it's nice to see what a subreddits norms are before diving in 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:16 PM
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crap like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:09 PM
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In/ability to face rejection, likely due to practice (men get rejected more for most everything) Not preserver per se, more of a muted aversion to rejection Take an average boy and average girl. One gets rejected and handles it much better than the other on average, because one has been exposed to it way more. I've dated a few girls in my day who didn't take no for an answer, and took it very badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 02:44 PM
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I should, but after doing some reading here, I decided against it. It seems many people will take any out they are given in a posts wording. I'm sure that the conversation would immediately shift to 'men/women are at fault for my problem'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 02:35 PM
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No, not this. There's no reason to accept a bad deal if a good one is just as easy. Plenty of girls who are just as good love to have sex on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 02:05 PM
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I wouldn't say expire. I'd say that the best she will ever look... That doesn't require her to be hit with the ugly stick the day after peaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 01:40 PM
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Personally, I don't like treating someone like a prize to be won, and treating sex like a gift to withhold until enough tribute is paid. A girl can if she wants to, I'm not obliged to play ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 01:29 PM
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