pacenciacerca44 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	BDSM Community Outraged By Domestic Violence Laws this title I am here for this tea 🤩🤩	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/23 11:31 AM
0	The Tampon King Has Been Crowned it's not showing up for me yet I neeeed 😆	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/23 03:53 PM
5	A Rant About Jobs With High Barriers of Entry such a good episode!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/23 11:00 PM
2	The Gift Of Fear + Lilith’s Bittersweet Announcement (FDS EPISODE 99) the anticipationnnn ugh	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/01/23 04:02 PM
3	What would you do if your partner doesn’t like thirst traps when you send them? fuck all of that!! drop like hot coals my ex never asked for pictures and when I sent them he wasn't enthusiastic about them, and wasn't comfortable sending me anything. but he followed umpteen million butt models on instagram. when I challenged why he needed to follow so many "that's all it's good for everyone uses the gram this way". it made me feel really conflicted, he would gas me up on normal pretty pictures, but anything spicy meant specifically for him was met with indifference. highly s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/22 03:56 PM
11	Insecure Men and their Allegations of Cheating what a spicy combination of low self esteem and projection! gives the pathetic flavor an extra tang 😋 when he says shit like "I know you can do better than me" "I know you can replace me easily" two things 1. he knows that you're amazing and can get anything you want anytime you wanted, you really Could replace him in a second if you chose. 2. he knows he doesn't deserve you, but by negging himself outloud (which is SO unattractive get your shit together 🙄) hes hoping you will say "no of course …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/22 03:35 PM
101	She "taught her husband a lesson" by not doing his laundry or grocery shopping after he refused to put away a handful of clothes from the dryer, because he's a guy and "not good at communicating". Someone pointed out basically he has no empathy and only reacts if there's consequences for him. "not everyone has the emotional intelligence to give basic human decency! some men are like wind up dolls you gotta teach them again every time they forget the last lesson, that's what makes a good wife!" 🤦🏽‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/22 12:32 PM
4	What are the telltale signs that he might actually have mental illness and/or personality disorder? If you find yourself staring at a guy because your brain just broke by what he said, he has a personality disorder. this so much! on the good days before I realized how big the problem was, my nv ex would challenge seemingly harmless phrases or expressions. he would say alarmed "why would you say that?" and when I explained what I meant he would say "oh I had to be sure bc when most ppl use that phrase they mean xyz" basically he thought I was lying or giving some kind of back handed compliment.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 05:32 PM
1	“Interview with a Sociopath” - Sociopath admits he actively hones in to manipulate when he senses a person is weak; Behavior is similar to that of LVM/NVMs. Perhaps many of the LVMs/NVMs discussed here also have Cluster B personality disorders (including sociopathy, narcissism, etc) like this man. I really appreciate this conversation as a whole! I have a friend dating a diagnosed sociopath. she is really happy so I wonder if a diagnosis alone is enough to identify a lvm. but when she says things like "we wouldn't be together if I wasn't the one to initiate it" I just cringe so hard because even if it's his "mental illness" it just sounds and feels awful. low value behavior is low value behavior no matter the reason	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 11:14 PM
8	How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part! does this phenomena terrify anyone else? it can't be a coincidence that it's so common. when we are willing to admit "this is hard for me cuz I'm still processing what happened but I still want to make effort to move on" they tell us that we are holding onto the past and that we're not mature enough for relationships (one of these days I will make a post about the scrotery of my last ex). meanwhile theyre having whole ass imaginary relationships with the fantasy inside their mind and theyre will…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 04:29 PM