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If it's a funny joke then it's okay to use "haha" or "lol", just don't be using it every text or overusing it. Glad this helped!
/r/askTRP13/05/17 02:18 AM
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Here are some of the rules I go by, most of which are based off Dante Nero's rules: 1: Never reply back to her faster than she replies to you. If she takes 20 minutes to reply to a text, you better wait at least 45 minutes - 1 hour. If you reply too quickly, she'll assume you have nothing better to do and don't value your time. Don't use emojis/smiley faces ever. That shit is for children. Rare exception is when you need to get across something sexual and use a winky emjoi. Use very rarely. Your…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 10:59 PM
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Pitchfork is pretty spot-on with advice. Finance or Accounting is the way to go if you want to stick with business, they have the best job placement rates. I was in Greek Life and you can definitely avoid becoming a drug addict/alcoholic. There's a few addicts in every chapter but there's guys who have their shit together too. Find a fraternity that you vibe with that cares about their pledges' academics and you should be golden.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 05:04 AM
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I'm interested. Do you have a specific length that you expect the group to last, or is it indefinite? Either way, I'd like to join.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 04:55 AM
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To clarify, I think that showing how she affects you emotionally is good in small doses. That is why comfort tests exist, a woman needs emotional support and validation that you plan on sticking around. There are also certain times, although rare, that you should open up and show your vulnerable side to strengthen her trust. There is a fine line, though, between letting her know she has an emotional impact on you and coming off as needy, dependent, or obsessive. When you put her on a pedestal li…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 12:23 AM
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Gotcha, maybe you were a tad too aggressive with your banter for her.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 12:08 AM
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I think you need to revisit some core ideas of TRP before posting again because this is off-base as hell. Also, what women say they want (50 Shades, Romance Novels, etc) isn't the same as what they actually want most of the time. 50 Shades and other fiction is a terrible example, that stuff is exaggerated and dramatized to sell copies.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 10:45 PM
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She's obviously trying to incite jealous feelings from you. She wants to make you jealous and get a reaction from you. She can them claim you're a jealous, needy, overprotective asshole and justify herself moving on, as far as I can tell.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 07:55 PM
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It sounds like you nailed this. You kept frame and escalated verbally. "I don't feel comfortable. I'm intimidated by you" translates to "I've never met such a confident man" in this context. Was her body language congruent with her words?
/r/askTRP28/04/17 07:46 PM
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Text your buds to hang out? Read something other than TRP so you have interesting stuff to talk about.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 11:53 PM
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OP stated he dated A off and on. If A was simply a plate, I think the situation would be different.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 09:13 PM
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Okay, then I agree with your post. Apply the principles however you like, as long as you view reality through a lens of objective truth.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 09:09 PM
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If A is really into you, she's not going to hook you up with her friend.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 08:02 PM
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Your post was a difficult read, but I think I got the jist of it. Are you suggesting that we not extend TRP to the workplace, careers, parenting, etc.? I think there's a difference between applying TRP philosophies outside of sex and becoming a blame-spewing or conspiracy sub.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 07:38 PM
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I've never been fat so I wouldn't know, but I imagine you would have better endurance and confidence.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:32 AM
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I agree the statistic is high, but it's just a measure of their opinion. Their opinion doesn't mean it is a major factor, it is simply perceived by them to be an important factor.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:23 AM
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Congrats on finding TRP. Most of your questions can be answered in the sidebar, but I'll answer them. TRP is a sexual strategy toolkit for men. You can use the tools to pursue whatever kind of women you want, young or old. Some people in the sub, others just accept women for what they are. The hate is mostly a result from recent culture changes that have created a society that values men less.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:21 AM
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It's probably less fun when you're fat, like most things in life. Hit the gym.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:16 AM
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Typically, guys won't accept TRP unless they seek it out for themselves. If you push the ideas on him, he may push you away as a result. It sucks, but there's no good way to convince people to believe in TRP when they are happy where they are.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:14 AM
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I assume most of the millionaires in that survey are quite old. Marriage as an institution was much different back then as were gender roles. Divorce laws of the past didn't allow women to take half of a man's belongings. If you surveyed younger millionaires, I think the statistic would be lower. To address your question, it is definitely possible to have a lasting marriage and be financially well-off (read MarriedTRP). It requires you to carefully screen your potential spouses and remain alpha …
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:11 AM
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You're trying to rationalize getting back together with your girlfriend because it's the comfortable/familiar thing to do. Stop it. "I'm pretty sure that most of the other girls in my life are more attracted to me than my gf" but I'm going to continue pursuing this girl because I have oneitis and it's the easy way out. If you're graduating in a month, why do you care about this relationship? Enjoy your senior year and get drunk with the boys. Soft next her.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:28 PM
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Sounds like you're going through the anger phase. You'll be angry for a while at your shitty situation and how it took you this long to figure shit out. It's pretty common so know that plenty of people have been through this before. It sounds like you're on the right path to creating a better life. Move out, get a dog, keep hitting the gym, and get some new fucking friends. They sound worthless and toxic. Cut them off. In terms of coping with the anger, practice meditation and keep a journal. Tr…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:24 PM
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Where is your abundance mentality?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:19 PM
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"I'm usually relaxed and DGAF but people take this as a free pass to put me on the bottom of the totem pole" There's a difference between being laid-back and being a doormat. Right now you're a doormat to your social circle. "One thing I've started to do is be cold for two weeks, open a bit the next few weeks, then actually be friendly" You're on the right track, but the problem is you aren't targeting the specific behavior you want to eliminate. You're just acting aloof and distant (which isn't…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:00 PM
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set reasonable boundaries for how you'd like to be treated by friends and strangers (key word being reasonable). When these lines are crossed, calmly tell others not to cross this line. Commanding respect is a by-product of high self-esteem and frame. I highly recommend reading into both of those topics for a deeper understanding, they are very important.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:47 PM
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Interesting theory that I think may have some truth to it. While obesity rates are similar for men and women, women's rate of obesity has been increasing much faster in the last decade. source: http://time.com/4359637/obesity-americans-women-men/
/r/askTRP26/04/17 05:54 AM
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Best of luck in the service bud.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 05:21 AM
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If you're going to enlist, you better get ready for your superiors to shit on you. A ketchup packet will be the least of your worries. But yeah don't let some revenge scheme screw up your enlistment. Let it go is the best option for you.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 05:19 AM
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I assume you read GLO's post earlier. I think there needs to be a separation of pragmatic RP and philosophical RP. The pragmatic part being, "this is how x works, this is how you should act accordingly, and this is a surface level explanation of why x works the way it does." The philosophical RP section would be for those more well-versed in the theory and related topics. Having debates and questioning "why does x exist" or questioning our assumptions made on certain theories. I wouldn't make th…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 05:16 AM
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Fuck his girlfriend. Really though, there are no winners when you seek revenge. Lift, build your self confidence, and command more respect from others and this won't happen anymore. I'm guessing you're in high school. Don't fuck up and get something on your permanent record all over a ketchup packet.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:00 AM
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Start out by f-closing with 5s and 6s. Once you get more comfortable with your situation, move up to better looking girls. If you do happen to blow your load prematurely, laugh it off and take her for round 2 15 minutes later. If your issue doesn't improve with more lays, think about seeing a real doctor.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 06:52 PM
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I'll add to what u/SkimSTi said by emphasizing the small town factor. Since you live in a small town, it's much more likely that he'll find out you plated her since social circles are much closer. You also are risking losing mutual friends between you and your buddy. Most importantly, this can damage your reputation which is vital in a small town. Avoid at all costs.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 06:48 PM
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Use the search bar in TRP main sub, someone wrote up an excellent and detailed post about small town game several months ago.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 03:06 AM
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Law 38 from the 48 Laws of Power: "Think as you like but Behave like others" I don't consider myself PC but rape jokes generally don't go over well, especially with feminists. You knew your plate was a feminist and you should've deduced that this would hit her feels. As others said, you can Agree and Amplify in this situation. If you want to avoid drama in the future, don't make rape jokes in front of her, your call.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 02:55 AM
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Even if this wasn't on askTRP I would recommend breaking up. LDRs almost never work in college and it will hold you back from developing as a person and meeting new people.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 03:00 AM
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I was in a very similar situation to you several years ago and I can say 100% go away for college. My friends and I that went further away for school have on the whole been more successful and grown more as people. We have better social and professional networks. We're more open minded. Also, you said that the school further away has a better reputation. This should translate into better earnings after you graduate than the local college. Now, what about my friends that stayed home for school? M…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 07:31 PM
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Go to r/TRP and use the search function "cold approach".
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:20 AM
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I can speak on cutting out porn: Delete any pornographic material on your computer. Keep track of when you use porn and what you were doing right before it. This will help you understand what makes you likely to use porn again. Pick up a good habit like going to the gym, cooking for yourself, etc.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:17 AM
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You handled this well. You could've been colder in my opinion. Don't message her again, it sounds like she was a burden.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:14 AM
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Do you have the resources to take a year off? Are you ok with having diminished job prospects/earnings potential when you finish your year off? These are questions to consider in addition to u/GetHimSomeMilk 's comment. You can definitely lift while working full-time. Camping/hiking may be possible with your vacation time or weekends.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:54 PM
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Is this a one-time ordeal, or does she do this often? I had a plate that would do similar shit to your plate every 1-2 weeks. She turned out to be extremely clingy, bipolar, and toxic in general. She's not worth the emotional baggage that you'll experience. Block her number and move on.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:48 PM
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Dude there's whole books on expanding your social network so I feel like I can't give the topic justice in a single reddit comment. "How to Win Friend and Influence People" is a solid book to start with. Also, use the search function in r/TRP. I'm sure there are detailed posts about expanding your social network.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 05:05 PM
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Yes TRP works in small towns, but there are some changes you should make to your game. This link sums it up pretty well. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5wc1c0/indepth_analysis_of_the_small_town_game/
/r/askTRP02/04/17 05:02 PM
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Since you have no musical experience, I'd recommend the guitar. It's much easier to learn and you don't even have to know how to read sheet music (look up the Tab method). Also, you have a wider range of genres to pick from on the guitar.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 04:55 PM
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Join clubs/groups on campus that aren't related to STEM. Build your social network to get invited to parties.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 04:45 PM
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Success rate: 0%. Here's a video that shows how well your method will work. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jHMmMgdcOSU edit: grammar
/r/askTRP29/03/17 08:48 PM
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I've never read it so I can't say for sure, but I did just browse their webpage. Honestly it seems like a "get rich quick" scam or a diet pill with ridiculous claims. Anyone that claims to have a "hack" to dieting, lifting, or picking up women is misleading you. Don't look for the easy way out; apply TRP principles and be patient.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 08:39 PM
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Take a step back and think about why you haven't been invited to a party. How big is your social circle? Are you friends with the people who party? If you aren't friends with them, how are you going to befriend them? If you want to get invited to parties, you need to gain friends and be more extroverted. You're only 16 so there's plenty of time to fix this.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 08:33 PM
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Honestly r/askTRP is not the correct place to ask this because not everyone on this sub meditates. Check out r/meditation or Google it. Good luck.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:11 AM
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There's a lot of guys portrayed as beta in entertainment/media, what's it matter? If you want to analyze Forrest Gump though, he saved a bunch of guys in Vietnam which is badass.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:08 AM
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College is 99% networking. Networking will get you in the right social circles, improve your chances of getting laid, and help with getting internships/jobs. When you make new friends, chances are they'll introduce you to their friends and girls they know. Introduce yourself to guys and girls. Also check out rushing a fraternity, it will give your network a massive boost. As for the reputation thing, your school has 45k students. A school of that size gives you some anonymity so I wouldn't worry…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 04:23 PM
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"Getting fucked by bartender in toilet." I stopped reading after that phrase. Obviously a hard no on LTR.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 04:15 PM
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Focus on cutting one thing out of your life at a time. If you focus on trying to change too many habits, you'll end up changing none. Also, r/getdisciplined is pretty good for learning how to change habits.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 12:29 AM
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Women should be the least of your worries right now man. Focus on crushing your college courses and networking so that you can get a decent job. Once you get a decent job you can get your ass out of your parents' house. As for approaching women, you need to put in a lot of reps before you get good. Approach more women using the RP knowledge you've gained. After the interaction, analyze what went well and what went wrong. I have a feeling that you aren't putting in the work like you say you have.…
/r/askTRP15/03/17 12:12 AM
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Greek Life member here. I joined a bottom-tier fraternity my freshman year. I rushed because I genuinely liked most of the guys in the chapter. I bonded with them well and now I have more friends than ever before. If you like the actives and your pledge class I'd suggest you stay. A few other things to keep in mind: 1)You're already a sophomore. No top-tier fraternity wants to take on a Junior. 2)Depending on your school rules, you may not be able to join another chapter because you've already p…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 02:30 AM
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You're trying to rationalize the reasons for you still being a virgin, aka the male hamster is spinning at light speeds. Instead of accepting that it is up to you and your actions to get laid, you are trying to blame outside circumstances. Stop worrying about being a virgin and start focusing on approaching women. Also, in your post it sounds like you have a low self-value. I'd recommend some meditation and self-analysis to fix your self-image.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 12:44 AM
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I think W_O_M_B_A_T is spot on here about what you're feeling OP. I would recommend looking into transcendental meditation or stoicism; these practices should help you analyze yourself critically and deal with insecurities.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 03:32 AM
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Seneca is a prominent stoic that comes to mind. I've never read his books but "Letters From a Stoic" is rated highly on amazon if you want to learn the philosophy on stoicism. Jocko Willink has a podcast and two books that are pretty good. He doesn't consider himself a stoic but a lot of his thinking is in line with the philosophy.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:11 PM
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Go to r/TheRedPill and read the entire sidebar. As for getting out of the cycle, ignore her. She will be toxic to your development. Don't answer her texts or calls and focus on yourself. Once you have the option of getting other girls, you can decide if you still want her. Oh, and read the entire sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:03 PM
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I think you're overestimating. Very few men are on TRP. There's a chance that other men learned A&A from somewhere else but it's unlikely. I haven't had any issues with agree and amplify but if you have I'd like to hear them.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:33 PM
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This isn't Red Pill. You "intervened behind his back" which is beta, rather than confronting him directly. You also allowed office politics to shake your frame. I don't know all the details but rarely does getting revenge in the work place prove beneficial in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 12:57 AM
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TRP doesn't outright say that you shouldn't want a deeper connection with women. It's normal to want intimacy. There are several ways that TRP approaches LTR/intimacy different from the blue pill world. If you want to enter a LTR, you should: Screen your women closely. Many betas will lock down the first girl they can because they are afraid they won't get another. Know what you want in a woman, and next the ones who don't meet the criteria. Avoid Oneitis, the idea that a certain girl is "the on…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 10:24 PM
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Agree and Amplify. There's more on this in TRP reference materials I believe. Something like "Yeah I am a YUGE fuckboy" or "Yep I am the best fuckboy you'll ever meet" could work. The point of Agree and Amplify shows that your frame can't be shaken and you control the conversation.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:36 PM
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Others have stated it already, but read everything in the sidebar. Focus on yourself: Hit the gym, join new clubs at college to expand your social circle, meditate, and start approaching women. It sounds like you have some self-respect issues, so work on improving yourself before you worry about an ex.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:21 PM
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I used a similar strategy on Twitter to score several lays. When a girl would tweet something like "Someone take me to dinner and the movies", where she is obviously fishing for attention and compliments, I would simply reply with "no" or "nah." This gets the hamster going. "Why isn't he lining up with the other BPs to pay for my food and entertainment?" This is when you can send her a personal message with something clever and make plans to meet up. As for the girl that got offended, just ignor…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 01:27 AM
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