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This is fucking dumb. They divorced becasue he wasnt spending enough time with his family. Turns out women dont like guys who ignore them and tbeir children for months on end.
/r/seduction29/10/22 12:47 AM
1

He obviously didnt mean abusive women like your mom. Please go to therapy.
/r/seduction16/10/22 07:58 AM
2

Boundaries. Look up how to set them and maintain them.
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:46 PM
5

Fuck, thank you. Needed this.
/r/seduction14/09/22 05:29 AM
1

That confusion is the point. It breeds curiosity and excitement. Special attention doesnt mean overinvesting or even telling her she is Special. Guys do that shit all the time and its a trun off. The attention is Special because: A. Its different than other what other guys give her. B. Its focused on her as opposed to other girls you have around. There are cases where its good to be more invested but, thats advanced seduction and not applicable to most guys and situations.
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:31 PM
2

>It is wrong if you invest emotionally in a person that you like? If its more than the other person, yes. Men have to show an equal or lower amount of investment in the initial stages of dating.
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:52 PM
1

Self-Compassion by Kristen Nieff
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:50 PM
1

He identified things that he does not want in a partner and will be using those things to filter future partners so yes he raised his standards. Are the filtering criteria perfect? No, probably not, but the simple fact that he has ANY criteria means he is moving in the right direction.
/r/seduction12/09/22 12:29 PM
80

Congrats you just raised your standards.
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:14 PM
13

Yea, thats total bullshit on point one.
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:13 PM
0

Probably because they cover the fundamentals and are essential to mastery on the topic. Charisma myth is another really good book. Building trust and creating a feeling of excitement are essential to Seduction and are not limited by culture.
/r/seduction10/09/22 09:04 PM
1

Seduction is universal you just dont understand thw fundamentals well enough.
/r/seduction10/09/22 04:35 PM
8

Read books on charisma and people skills.
/r/seduction10/09/22 04:35 PM
1

Were you expecting more?
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:43 AM
8

Which ever one they give you. "Whats the best way to stay in touch?".
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:43 AM
-2

No.
/r/seduction01/09/22 05:01 AM
1

Touch. Laughter. Turn the conversation sexual.
/r/seduction31/08/22 05:58 AM
1

I mean you're on the right track but, this whole comment just screams compensation.
/r/seduction25/08/22 05:56 AM
-1

someone who probably really needs therapy.
/r/seduction13/08/22 02:23 AM
52

I think the issue is you not understanding what being toxic actual is. Im willing to bet you being nice is actually you being codependent.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:28 AM
4

Go to therapy. I bet my left nut that is a self fulfilling prophecy at this point.
/r/seduction31/07/22 02:45 AM
2

The way to help your friend is to tell him to get help and to stop chasing girls.
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:08 PM
9

That only works if the man is good looking tbh.
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:18 PM
7

Do women want to fuck puppies?
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:26 PM
14

Its incredibly unattractive.
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:38 PM
3

Are you being an asshole or are you just no longer being a pushover? A lot of guys are so use to people pleasing that any sort of self priority feels like being an asshole.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:39 PM
1

For sure. All that shit is interconnected imo. When you work on one it'll help the other.
/r/seduction19/06/22 08:04 AM
1

Awareness is the first step to solving any problem. There is a book on self compassion that I would recommend with plenty of exercises to do.
/r/seduction19/06/22 07:22 AM
17

Christ i needed to hear this
/r/seduction19/06/22 03:03 AM
1

Jesus christ dude you need to relax. Youre putting way to much pressure on yourself. Self compassion is key bro.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:57 PM
1

Yea, its also beautiful.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:04 AM
1

People who are in relationships don't know how rough it can be to be single.
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:30 AM
1

https://slate.com/technology/2015/03/diets-do-not-work-the-thin-evidence-that-losing-weight-makes-you-healthier.html Ive heard anywhere from 90-97 percent. Losing weight takes radically changing your lifestyle from top to bottom over the course of years. Very, very few people have the tools, knowhow, or environment for it.
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:13 PM
1

You are underestimating how insanely difficult it is to lose weight and keep it off. 97% of people who lose weight gain it back in a year and then some. The human body evolved to keep fat.
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:35 AM
1

97% of people fail to lose weight. It is incredibly difficult.
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:34 AM
14

Inner peace is very charismatic.
/r/seduction30/05/22 07:55 PM
1

Start smaller. Go to a mall and ask 10 cashiers if you can use the bathroom.
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:41 PM
1

Go see a therapist and work on your mindset.
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:29 AM
2

Silence.
/r/seduction05/04/22 12:31 AM
1

You got it!
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:23 PM
3

People value a lot of those things because they are incapable of achieving their deepest desires. While that is true I would cation you against dismissing morality in general. Being nice because you want something or are afraid is weak. Being kind because you genuinely want to be is a sign of strength.
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:17 PM
2

They have you just haven't seen it.
/r/seduction16/03/22 03:59 PM
2

Yea, im going to need to see some evidence for that.
/r/seduction11/03/22 09:24 PM
2

I really don't understand what point you're trying to make.
/r/seduction11/03/22 07:57 PM
2

This is through the lens of male to female attraction but, can also be applied across the board. Most people tend to have short attention spans and a lack of self awareness.
/r/seduction11/03/22 05:37 PM
8

God damn some guys are thick.
/r/seduction11/03/22 11:07 AM
1

Sounds like you need a clear plan of action.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:59 AM
3

Did you switch accounts to post this?
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:58 AM
7

Insulting? No, I'm just disgusted by people who say things like "survival of the fittest" in response to the suffering of others.
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:57 AM
8

So maybe he should say that instead of jerking himself off. "Im such a fucking alpha. Im so above all those neckbeard losers. Im a superior man. Everyone acknowledge how alpha I am so I dont feel bad about my small dick". This whole post is a pathetic attempt for OP to stroke his own ego.
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:57 AM
-5

I dont know what you're trying to accomplish here. Do you take pleasure in other people failing?
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:34 AM
-6

Lol I suppose you think you're superior. Sad and pathetic.
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:30 AM
-3

Or they have debilitating mental illnesses that make it almost impossible to be anything other than an npc.
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:58 AM
1

Is it ever? Do you actually want to help him or are you just using him to feel better about yourself?
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:32 AM
1

I think you may misunderstand. OP can't get laid, is depressed, and has a negative attitude (understandably so). How do we help him get laid? By dealing with the depression and negative emotions first because he won't be able to build the skills necessary to get laid if he feels like shit all the time. Thats what I think. If you have a better way im all ears.
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:16 AM
0

Thats true to an extend. Sex and intimacy are needs and its better to have them then not. But if thats not an option there are ways to replace them until the real thing can be gotten. My point was he needs to deal with the depression and loneliness in order to create a path to pussy.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:59 AM
5

Do you understand why its a bad idea to tell someone who is suicidally depressed and probably feels like shit that they are weak? It makes them feel worse and reinforces the negative cycle.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:56 AM
6

Dude trust me I do. If you need to be touched get a massage. If you need someone to talk to get a therapist. If you need to have fun join a group or some type of club. There's plenty of shit you can do to feel connected. This post is actually a good first step. You can also learn skills to cope with this on your own.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:53 AM
3

Well that's your solution and your problem. You have something you love in life which means you can feel happiness in other places as well. If you're willing you're about to start a journey of self discovery and adventure that will lead you to where you are suppose to be (look up the heros journey in story telling). I know its cliche to say but, you need to find happiness in other areas before a women joins your life. Is it fair you have to and it seems other guys don't? Fuck no. Its bullshit. B…
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:47 AM
2

Better question. Besides women what in life makes you happy? On a scale of 1-10 how much do you like the rest of your life?
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:33 AM
4

What the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:31 AM
7

Find other ways to build intimacy. Will the alternatives be as pleasurable, instantly gratifing, or be as big a boost to you ego? No. But they can help you build emotional resilience, satisfaction, and lower the neediness you are undoubtedly feeling.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:31 AM
1

Is it normal? Yes. Is it healthy? No.
/r/seduction03/02/22 08:55 PM
0

Thats fair.
/r/seduction03/02/22 08:54 PM
0

Not really because men back in the day were more religious and they still confidently approached women. It’s feminism, beta male fathers and political correctness culture thats brought us here. You don't know many Catholics do you? beta male fathers and political correctness culture thats brought us here Yes, not being able to say the Nword and men who have the actual capacity to say "Ï love you" to their children is the REAL reason /s
/r/seduction03/02/22 08:54 PM
0

I guaran fucking tee diet and lifestyle are more to blame than plastic. Yes diet plays a part but, not in the ways you claim and yes plastic does lower testosterone Fat aromatizing testosterone to estrogen for example As in being fat? Yes, that is true. Eating lots of fat is good for test levels though. Sugar will fuck you up. I wasn’t saying identity confusion was causing the low T either. Good. That would be a dangerous and hurtful claim. Whereas 20 years ago they’d have had no problems with t…
/r/seduction03/02/22 08:51 PM
1

Uhh no it isn't. Kovac highlights the 2010 meta-analysis published in Fertility and Sterility as the best literature to consider, where researchers reviewed 15 placebo-controlled treatments and 32 reports. The results suggested that soy protein and isoflavones do not affect testosterone levels in men — regardless of age. https://www.mensjournal.com/health-fitness/how-much-soy-can-you-really-eat-before-it-affects-your-testosterone-w479484/
/r/seduction03/02/22 08:43 PM
4

T levels are dropping because of microplastics and other environmental contaminates. Not because some people with penises want to wear a dress.
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:06 PM
11

lol no. You can thank 100s of years of Puritan Christian bullshit for that.
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:04 PM
1

The quality of the 12 hours matters. This was an extremely intimate 12 hours and OP could have easily esclated to sex.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:30 PM
46

Dude you really need to chill.
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:11 AM
3

I feel like by people you mean yourself. There is always room to grow and there are always going to be areas where we could improve. It does sound like you take care of yourself. Are you willing to try to dig into where you could improve? Or strategies you could employ to expedite the process of finding a partner?
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:43 PM
7

Sorry, but I disagree. People should be able to take care of themselves before getting into a relationship. I feel like you're holding on to the disney notion of true love. Maybe some people havent found the right one but, this sub fosters taking control of our lives and not leaving things up to fate. If people want to sit around and wait to get lucky fine, but this isnt the place for that attitude.
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:27 PM
7

Is it changing yourself. It is not changing everything about yourself. You're still you just you just smell and look better. Growth is a good thing.
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:53 PM
22

How is taking care of your physical health and exploring new things in life rhe equivalent of changing everything about yourself? People come here because they arent getting the results they want. So yes they will have to change some things.
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:31 PM
1

For sure. Teenage boys are dumb so he could be flirting with you. That being said your self-respect is the most important thing. Good luck :)
/r/seduction07/01/22 11:44 PM
1

Yes. The real question is why do you like him and why is he good enough for you? Raise your standards Queen.
/r/seduction07/01/22 11:29 PM
2

So do both. They feed into each other.
/r/seduction07/01/22 10:16 PM
1

Depends. Some girls like guys who are just a bit taller so they can rest their head on his shoulders.
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:09 PM
4

True, but the only way to get better with women is to take the risk. Now obviously don't do anything illegal or immoral but, risking tour rep is part of the game.
/r/seduction11/12/21 04:39 PM
7

I get where you are coming from but, I think alot of guys here care WAY too much about their reputation.
/r/seduction11/12/21 07:22 AM
37

Be her friend. Then fuck her friends.
/r/seduction11/12/21 04:37 AM
0

...do you not understand how science works?
/r/seduction28/11/21 05:17 PM
2

Men who are regularly having sex do not try as hard and come across as more disinterested then Men who aren't having regular sex. They aren't exactly the same but, the are for sure related.
/r/seduction27/11/21 07:33 PM
0

https://www.pulse.ng/lifestyle/relationships-weddings/why-women-are-attracted-to-married-men-according-to-science/swjw2nj
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:28 PM
1

You're taking action in the face of fear. But definition that makes your brave. There are already alot of comments here but, I thought I would add starting smaller and building up. Dont approach the hottest girl in the room or even any girl. Start with the old man who seems lonely. Talk about the weather with the person making coffee. Or even just say hi to people and walk by. No one started slaying dragons. They learned how to hold a sword first.
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:26 PM
1

Hope about we don't tell a guy who is struggling with feelings of self-worth to "man up". Its not helpful at all.
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:23 PM
-1

Science says otherwise.
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:21 PM
5

Hes allowed to have boundaries around pets in the house.
/r/seduction26/11/21 07:31 PM
0

You're halfway there. While youre interacting you want to be in the moment. Afterwards is when you anazlye where you went wrong.
/r/seduction26/11/21 01:27 AM
8

Lots of people. Shit posting on reddit isnt going to make your ex less of an asshole. If it makes you feel better do what you need to I guess.
/r/seduction25/11/21 02:03 AM
5

Who hurt you?
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:56 AM
2

Right, thats what I meant. Your first comment sounded like you were disagreeing. Maybe I misread.
/r/seduction24/11/21 11:25 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction24/11/21 11:07 PM
3

Yea thats shitty. And frankly bad game too. Setting boundaries and expectations earlier is important.
/r/seduction24/11/21 09:08 PM
16

Wanting sex doesn't make somone a bad person. Lying about it does (if thats the point you're trying to make).
/r/seduction24/11/21 08:15 PM
2

Failure is a matter of outlook. As you mentioned success is independent of the outcome. If you tried thats a win. Hookups or numbers are just a bonus. Most men dont know this stuff. Alot just get lucky. So youre not alone. In fact youre well on your way to knowing more then most men.
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:53 PM
2

Looks matter but, not as much as you think. Maximize them as best you can and then forget about it. Being overly concerned with things you cant control is a waste of energy. Reality is what you make it. The only way youre going to know if a girl is in your "league" is if you talk to them. So yes work on all that stuff but, dont obsess over it. Im going to be honest with you. Youre going to get rejected alot at first, but its not because of how you look. Knowing how and when to approach and seduc…
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:35 PM
10

Basically figuring out when/where to meet up, how you get there. That kind of stuff. Think of it as an extension of her phone number. You should have already had somewhat of a connection with her before you call her. You're value is on point. It gets more detailed but, you got the gist. Basically show you have things to offer and traits she mighy find attractive.
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:04 PM
131

Dude... dont contact girls over social media unless you asked them about it in person. Social media is a tool to figure out logistics and display value.
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:19 AM
10

You dont. You invite her to a party you are hosting. Or a fun event with friends.
/r/seduction12/11/21 03:26 AM
1

You dont go there to have sex. You go there to get use to being touched in a sexual way. Also helps to be more comfortable touching in general. Everyone (in nonprofessional situations). Talk to your friends. The girls you hang with random people you meet. Find ways to talk about sex as much as you can.
/r/seduction09/11/21 02:01 PM
3

Boom. There it is. Thats why you're not getting results. Start with the physical escalation ladder (Google it) Go to strip clubs to get comfortable being in sexual situations (dont spend much money) Find ways to talk about sex as much as possible (talk about it generally not directed at people).
/r/seduction08/11/21 08:03 PM
3

Sounds like you need to work on your sexual escalation.
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:40 PM
1

Lol what?
/r/seduction31/10/21 07:29 AM
1

I really want her but i know i must not be that needy guy as before There is no scenario in which you really wanting her isn't needy.
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:44 PM
1

Okay, so then how does someone find that group? And what about that situation makes them feel confident? Can it be reproduced in other situations? See what im getting at?
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:39 AM
2

Start with "How to earn win friends and influence people". Beyond that the best thing you can do is talk to strangers. Every Single Day I could go on but, I dont want to overload you.
/r/seduction09/10/21 08:18 PM
0

Learn psychology. Read every dating book you can get your hands on. Learn charisma.
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:25 PM
5

Physical contact is a HUGE plus. Its shows that youve built great rapport with her.
/r/seduction08/10/21 07:06 PM
2

She didnt say anything about you being gay. You failed the shit test but, not in the way everyone here thinks. Maybe she wantes to introduce you to her friend because you guys would get along? You need to check that ego dude.
/r/seduction03/10/21 07:40 PM
-2

Lol Of course youre a women. Do us all a favor and stop giving shitty advice on topics you know nothing about.
/r/seduction02/10/21 01:38 PM
10

A guy who is a 10 isnt a male model ( though he could be). A male 10 hits all the personality boxes. Funny, kind, sociable, spontaneous etc..
/r/seduction01/10/21 10:22 PM
14

This is the right answer. Escalation.
/r/seduction19/09/21 02:54 PM
4

Did that happen before or after you started getting laid.
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:19 AM
299

You dont. You concentrate on your health and getting out of poverty. Could you get laid? Yea, but that should not be your priority right now.
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:05 PM
0

lol okay dude.
/r/seduction14/09/21 06:58 PM
0

Well what the guy I know did was throw parties at clubs as a prompter. Obviously not something everyone could do at first but, good ideal. As for more practical things, hiking club, yoga club, comedy club etc... Start a group like that and focus on building it up and ensure people have a good time. Invite as many people you meet as you can. If its fun girls will invite more girls and eventually you'll have a list of hot girls you can invite to things. Now whenever you go out you have a posse of …
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:51 PM
3

Nope, no money needed. Just need to start a group that hot girls would like.
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:43 PM
4

You mean work on building a social circle for social proof? Yea he should do that.
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:31 PM
2

I know a guy who runs a modeling agency and regularly sleeps with multiple gorgeous women. Hes fairly overweight and has the same dick size as you. I promise you dick size doesnt matter as much as you think.
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:46 PM
1

Sean Stephenson fundamentally disproves your point. You're actually right though tbh. You'll never get laid. You suck way too much. Now shut the fuck up and fuck off. No one wants you and your toxic attitude around here.
/r/seduction12/09/21 12:45 AM
2

Yes you are. Seek professional help.
/r/seduction12/09/21 12:34 AM
1

Dude its not because you're ugly. Its because you suck. I've literally never seen you before and I don't like you or want to be around you purely based on your shit attitude.
/r/seduction11/09/21 10:09 PM
1

Invest in other women.
/r/seduction01/09/21 12:16 AM
13

Well this hurts.
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:36 AM
0

Lol look in the mirror dude.
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:15 AM
1

"Can't I enjoy sex while telling everyone else they're terrible people for enjoying sex?" Get your judgemental holier than though bullshit out of here. Girls dont want to fuck guys who think less of them for having sex. So no you can't call people sluts and practice seduction.
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:12 AM
3

Why the fuck are you on the seduction subreddit
/r/seduction28/08/21 03:38 AM
1

Beauty is by no means objective. There is a wide variety of things people find attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...that phrase is cliche for a reason. Im telling you man these men aren't better than you and if you're straight who are you to say what a women finds attractive? Sure there are things in general that women like but, it goes sooo far beyond physical beauty. Look up Sean Stephenson if you don't believe me. He's ugly as sin and his wife is Gorgeous. Youre deluding yoursel…
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:26 PM
1

I dont believe that you don't have anything going for you. And even if you don't you could work on it. Have you tired anything to improve yourself? Not even when it comes to women but, to make yourself have a more happy fulfilling life?
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:18 PM
1

The point is being "ugly" isn't a deal breaker. If you've read models its a polarizer. Unattractive != physical unappealing You're using that stat as an excuse to feel sorry for yourself. The majority of men don't really try. Yes, it does. You spend everyday researching plastic surgery and telling yourself you are ugly. Would you ever say that do someone you love?
/r/seduction27/08/21 04:36 PM
1

So a therapist can identify where the thought of you being ugly started, work to reframe harmful beliefs, and help you build a healthy self image. It sounds like you're really hurting over this belief tou have. Answer this honestly. What would happen if you let go of the belief that you are ugly?
/r/seduction27/08/21 04:28 PM
1

"Ugly" guys get laid alot at art schools dude. Well that's what women (and other men too) seem to.think How can I be "warm and open" when women treat me with hostility? I think you've been mistreated and you think its because your ugly when I guarantee you aren't. How can I be "warm and open" when women treat me with hostility? Gentleness and a kind word turns away alot of anger, but first you need to learn how to be more compassionate with yourself.
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:45 PM
1

I think your view on beauty has become extremely distorted and you really would do well at a therapist.
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:41 PM
1

Thats like saying you understand sex by watching porn. Totally distorted. You REALLY need to see a therapist bro.
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:39 AM
2

There is alot to unpack here... You've never meet an ugly artist that gets laid? Spend any amount of time near an art school. We need to work on your self esteem bro. Being "ugly" doesn't make you less than human. You'd be surprised how good you can do when you're a warm and open person.
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:35 AM
3

The best contact info to get is the one she gives you. If she responds it was good.
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:38 AM
7

Don't listen to that guy. He doesn't know what he's talking about. Making sure the people around you are having fun is good game. Being a source of good feelings to everyone, regardless of your attraction to them, massively raises your social value and therefore your attractiveness. You did good.
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:37 AM
5

Because being the guy that is lifting everyone up and making sure everyone is having fun is the highest level of game.
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:35 AM
2

That doesn't sound right...
/r/seduction21/08/21 03:49 AM
1

It quite literally is. https://www.mic.com/articles/111226/science-explains-why-women-are-faster-to-mature-than-men
/r/seduction20/08/21 09:40 PM
5

The male brain also develops slower than women.
/r/seduction20/08/21 08:53 PM
64

People are scared of getting hurt.
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:33 AM
4

Google beginner workouts. Sub to a nutrition sub or start reading fitness mags. You can google nutrition podcasts as well.
/r/seduction09/08/21 05:05 AM
1

As a beginner not the best idea but, its your life.
/r/seduction06/08/21 04:50 AM
2

Or you avoid wasting your time with the 99.9% of women who won't sleep with you no matter what?
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:23 AM
-1

Get a dating coach.
/r/seduction27/07/21 06:49 PM
-1

What part of that was a sob story ? Part of Seduction is understanding the human psyche. Doesn't mean he has to feel bad for her or go out with. It's just lazy to call someone an asshole and assume that's all they are.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:38 PM
2

Maybe she just has anxiety and/or she's had a bunch of bad reactions from guys in the past so she's assuming the worst with you.
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:23 PM
1

It got down voted because it's missing half the equation. If you want to marry her she needs to be your friend AND you need to get her wet. Women never say the second part when they give advice.
/r/seduction17/07/21 05:35 PM
6

Do both. Make an effort to have and keep female friends. When you meet women in other places of your life you can invite them along to hang with your female friend group. Then you have several female wings to help you out ;)
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:54 AM
2

"Just lose weight. It's not that hard."
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:21 AM
3

OPs shaming people to inflate his own ego. Shame fucks people up.
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:19 AM
11

Okay, but there is no actually advice for most of these. Its reads like a shitty Nikes commercial "just do it you piece of shit".
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:17 AM
1

A good post would include advice on HOW to do these things. Not just "Shut and up and do it pussy."
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:16 AM
36

What a completely shit post. "Just lose weight and move out dude." Wow. Ground breaking stuff there chief.
/r/seduction13/07/21 03:34 AM
2

Build your self worth outside of girls and social stuff. That helps alot.
/r/seduction10/07/21 04:48 AM
2

Dont start in the deep end for an approach like this. Especially if you lack social calibration. Work on being a little more brave with your thoughts. Gage their reaction and then act accordingly.
/r/seduction10/07/21 04:45 AM
6

You're fucking up right now. The only move with this girl involves you moving on and not talking to her again.
/r/seduction10/07/21 04:10 AM
3

Totally missed the point of number one huh?
/r/seduction09/07/21 08:36 PM
31

Fucking this. Its easy to preach inner game when you're getting laid a lot.
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:24 PM
60

You joke but, its a well known fact that old people fuck like rabbits in nursing homes.
/r/seduction05/07/21 06:59 PM
13

Disagree. Not all girls would care but, the right ones would be really impressed by those accomplishments. Even if she doesn't care it displays some very solid qualities.
/r/seduction03/07/21 03:24 PM
2

growth mindset bro.
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:39 PM
2

Only read the title. No, its not too late.
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:43 AM
1

Nope.
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:41 AM
16

Fuck that stings
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:17 AM
14

Learning that being 5'5" isn't repulsive if you like yourself. You'll never date or have sex with 95% of the population. But thats also true for guys that are 6'2". You get the advantage of polarization early so you'll waste less time on women that don't matter.
/r/seduction17/06/21 04:43 AM
2

Ufdah number 3 hits hard.
/r/seduction13/06/21 10:36 PM
3

Sounds like an awful coach...I can PM you a dude who is pretty good if you're interested. He has a bunch of free stuff as well so you can check that out before you buy anything.
/r/seduction13/06/21 07:19 PM
0

You should get a dating coach. For real. It sounds like you have your life reasonably together and have the money for it.
/r/seduction13/06/21 06:34 PM
1

This is true when all you do is cold approach. These reasons here are also why social circle game is king.
/r/seduction10/06/21 01:40 PM
0

Do people still do routines?
/r/seduction08/06/21 11:43 PM
1

Well, if he wants to attract a women its really the only choice possible. Change requires effort.
/r/seduction08/06/21 05:01 AM
1

Well, its hard to overcome being told you're not good enough while consistently getting rejected. Its also not much fun to know that your the safe smart choice that women pick after they've fucked their way through eveyone that made them wet.
/r/seduction05/06/21 08:41 PM
1

Approaching in the Gym is insanely difficult so don't beat yourself up.
/r/seduction05/06/21 06:20 PM
1

From that statement alone I know you will.
/r/seduction05/06/21 06:18 PM
1

Go easy on them. Being confronted with these hard truths is painful.
/r/seduction05/06/21 06:17 PM
-3

Not fair that I have to try 55x as hard as some 6 foot asshole just to even be considered. You're right it isn't fair, but that doesn't mean it can't be overcome. Instead, women can stop being primitive and realize that the whole "tall men are better protectors" thing ended the moment firearms began to be mass produced. You women fuck guys under 6 feet all the time right? Besides being a protector isn't the whole part of the equation. You might never have an orgy with 10 supermodels but, very fe…
/r/seduction04/06/21 07:21 PM
-2

You're right it isn't your fault. It is your responsibility to improve yourself in other areas. No one can do it for you, but it is possible.
/r/seduction04/06/21 07:15 PM
3

Love it.
/r/seduction04/06/21 07:14 PM
0

you could be avg guy, not fat, not jacked, making avg money and be sexless and completepy unsuccessful with women You could also be ripped, rich, and above average everywhere else and not be successful. None of those things matter if your personality sucks and you make no effort to understand women.
/r/seduction04/06/21 07:13 PM
0

Seek out places those women hang out and introduce yourself?
/r/seduction04/06/21 07:11 PM
7

It does sound like a bunch of Randian bullshit but, there is some wisdom here. Will getting laid come as easy to you as a 6'2 pro athlete? No, but you can still learn how to play the game. You can do it. It's just going to take time and effort.
/r/seduction04/06/21 07:10 PM
1

No. Talk to other girls.
/r/seduction02/06/21 11:12 AM
0

Thats where knowing what to say when you approach is important. There is a baked in assumption that there is some level of emotional and social intelligence in the approach.
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:04 PM
9

So you're an extremely attractive guy doesn't know what to do with all the pussy you get.... Yea, can't help you there.
/r/seduction31/05/21 07:00 PM
1

No. Why the fuck would someone help you make such a stupid fucking decision? Go talk to other women and stop simping over one women. Especially one that could royal fuck up your life.
/r/seduction09/05/21 06:20 AM
5

Which goes along with what the guy is saying.
/r/seduction08/05/21 12:29 AM
1

Yea, im just in a rough spot right now. Thanks.
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:58 PM
1

Any recommendations?
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:17 PM
0

Im 30. Confirms how much of a fucking loser i am lol
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:17 PM
5

Says the person who gets sex. You know the most fundamental aspect of all life? The the thing that is so deeply wired in our biological history it drives literally everything we do? It's easy to to be chill about sex when you atrnt failing to achieve the only thing that matters to the brain of anything that is alive. Edit: im sorry for the incel shit. I need to sleep.
/r/seduction06/05/21 06:53 AM
1

Holy fuck i needed to read this. I've been sucked into a hole of negatively by the people around me. Thank you. Seriosuly, fucking thak you.
/r/seduction06/05/21 06:21 AM
19

So there's hope? I'm not going to lie man im in a pretty dark place and I feel like all my hope is gone. Pretty desperate and pathetic thing to say but fuck it thats where I'm at
/r/seduction06/05/21 06:06 AM
-1

You like the smell of your own shit dont you?
/r/seduction06/05/21 06:04 AM
1

Broke too much rapport.
/r/seduction30/04/21 02:33 AM
1

Pretty much. If you're going to introduce anything higher than that its got to be inner game. Imo
/r/seduction18/04/21 08:31 PM
2

Youre talking about higher level game then most people here can handle unfortunately.
/r/seduction18/04/21 07:17 PM
7

Yes dude these people arent going to get it.
/r/seduction18/04/21 04:08 PM
3

Sorry dude not how it works.
/r/seduction18/04/21 04:07 PM
0

Im think this is the truth.
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:32 PM
4

If you're the best at what you do its impossible to be a pushover in that area of your life. If you're the best programmer in the world your competence will automatically supersede any shyness or anxiety.
/r/seduction03/04/21 02:27 AM
5

Yup. Its best not to hate them as that takes time and energy away from living your own happy life but, disliking people is a good way to determine who should and shouldn't be in your life. Roughly speaking.
/r/seduction27/03/21 01:22 AM
1

Create postive tension. Find someway to compete with one another in a fun way.
/r/seduction20/03/21 11:01 PM
1

Cool. Next time pick up somewhere that isn't the gym. Thats pickup hard mode.
/r/seduction09/02/21 02:43 AM
1

Good post except for number 7. There are plenty of guys who love video games and movies who get laid.
/r/seduction25/01/21 09:36 PM
1

Isn't a lot of creepiness a result of lack of confidence? Or are people confident because they know how to not be creepy...
/r/seduction25/01/21 09:32 PM
3

Replace love with sex and it becomes much more true.
/r/seduction18/01/21 04:34 PM
6

Well, to be fair, it is better to just enjoy the night at a certain point. Alot of people who come here and try to learn seduction are severely lacking in people skills so any night out at all sucks. In order to have have fun, meet people, let go of inhibitions (without alcohol), and hook up they need to do things like access targets and review what they did wrong. So you're right, it isn't enjoyable, but that's price that needs to be paid in order to learn the skillset. Women (in general) can g…
/r/seduction18/01/21 04:32 PM
23

It can't just be about dancing and having fun because men don't have the privilege of just "letting things happen". If we don't make things happen, they don't happen.
/r/seduction18/01/21 12:24 AM
2

Does that bother you? Then she isn't up to your standards and you should be glad she showed that part of her. Congrats you just rejected her.
/r/seduction16/01/21 07:33 AM
0

Did you really delete your other comment and then post this? C'mon man..
/r/seduction11/01/21 09:17 PM
3

Do you regularly go into places and spread negativity? Are you sure you're not the nice guy here?
/r/seduction11/01/21 01:32 PM
7

Telling a women you find her attractive and want to sleep with her is dishonest? Uhhh okay?
/r/seduction11/01/21 01:31 PM
17

Then you dont know what a nice guy is. Nice guys are liars. This is advocating honesty.
/r/seduction11/01/21 01:28 PM
6

He's for sure being a dick but, you need to chill the fuck out. Calling it abuse is really fucking insulting to those of us who've actually been abused. Go talk to your therapist and calm down.
/r/seduction11/01/21 03:59 AM
1

You need to suck it up and tell her your intentions early on. Ideally before you have sex. Make it clear you aren't looking to settle down but, aren't opposed to it if the right person comes along. That way when you end things you're not a dick. Right now you're being a dick.
/r/seduction11/01/21 03:56 AM
2

O for sure. Thats where I think alot of guys get it wrong. Its isn't about saying one thing or another its about figuring out the person in front of them on a deeper level and using that to build a better connection. I respectfully disagree about the sex part. I am man after all ;).
/r/seduction09/01/21 07:10 PM
3

Okay, cool. Sorry for the misinterpretation. If he is really hung up on her I would agree that he should drop her and move on but, I think having a female friend like that is extremely valuable. Female wings are best wings.
/r/seduction09/01/21 07:05 PM
3

Right, being authentic is important but, dating, turning women on, and sex are all skills you can learn. Seduction isn't just pua stuff. Its learning how to build relationships and how to better read a women to turn her on. I don't think many women are opposed to having more (real) orgasms.
/r/seduction09/01/21 05:49 PM
7

Don't listen to the guy below he's an idiot. Sounds like you've build a ton of rapport with her. That's great. You also should be teasing, laughing, and touching her (escalation ladder). Also do NOT be afraid to be sexual and talk about sex. That doesn't mean come on to her really strong, just don't hide the sexual part of yourself. Being friends with women is a good thing. If you're open about sex and she friendzones you then she can be your new wingman ;)
/r/seduction09/01/21 05:42 PM
5

Jesus christ this thread has a ton of awful advice. You're seriously saying deep emotional trust and intimacy is a bad thing?
/r/seduction09/01/21 05:36 PM
14

Great advice. "Just be hot. Its that easy".
/r/seduction02/01/21 06:09 AM
13

Where are these pages? Have you heard the therapy tapes? I'm not defending him or her it just seems like the truth is very muddled in this case.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/20 02:11 PM
26

The recordings of their therapy sessions released strongly suggest she is lying.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/20 02:10 PM
1

Women find vastly different men "hot". Also, women (people to be fair) aren't usually aware of all the things that make someone attractive. A women can say a guy is hot and now know its because of how he carries himself, his body language, how he talks to other people etc...
/r/seduction27/12/20 12:25 AM
-11

Anddddd you still provide no proof. I listened to it months ago and don't care enough to listen through it again just so I can tell some jerkoff on the internet they are wrong.
/r/MensRights26/12/20 07:58 AM
-26

Where? You linked an hour video. I really don't care enough about a fucked up celebrity relationship to listen to it.
/r/MensRights26/12/20 07:04 AM
-35

Belive what you want.
/r/MensRights26/12/20 06:37 AM
12

I listened to the recordings. It sounds like a textbook toxic relationship.
/r/MensRights26/12/20 04:39 AM
7

Low/no carb.
/r/seduction24/12/20 01:55 AM
1

Pretty much. I decided that the pandemic was a good time to work on underlying issues so I've been working on my mental and physical health, as well as becoming more interesting and well rounded (monk mode). I dont have much trouble spiting game in person so I hope when all this is over I'll be in a better spot. Plus the women are going to be thirsty as hell lol
/r/seduction23/12/20 04:08 PM
7

While I think this rings true in alot of ways I would also say that there is a bare minimum needed to get any success out of online dating. Im currently waiting to lose weight because I literally only match with morbidly obese women.
/r/seduction23/12/20 08:34 AM
14

To be clear Genghis Khan violently raped all those women...so probably not the best example.
/r/seduction04/12/20 02:32 PM
2

Yes, read The Game. The entire orgin of PUAs was losers trying trick women into not thinking they are losers. Don't be that guy. You're going to have to learn how to own your neediness and through wise use of vulnerability figure out how to fix it.
/r/seduction03/12/20 04:58 PM
12

Or they die. Or enter a coma. Or any any other numerous things. Thats just life.
/r/seduction02/12/20 02:19 PM
34

Very stoic.
/r/seduction02/12/20 02:19 PM
2

Exactly. Its the "spark" that women often complain is missing.
/r/seduction02/12/20 02:17 PM
2

Fuck
/r/seduction27/11/20 07:23 AM
1

Probably because our testorone starts to drop and we start are physical and mental decline around 30.
/r/seduction20/11/20 02:27 PM
0

True, it can be used to fuel success but thats a minority of people. Your original post came off as a very "man up pussy" typ of comment. I agree that taking responsibility for one's happiness is a key to life (six pillars of self esteem goes into this).
/r/seduction19/11/20 05:30 PM
12

You're the kind of guy to spread an STD huh?
/r/seduction19/11/20 05:26 PM
4

I mean lookup anything with PTSD...
/r/seduction19/11/20 05:15 PM
0

Victim mentality != being an actually victim
/r/seduction19/11/20 05:08 PM
3

No he didn't?
/r/seduction19/11/20 05:07 PM
16

250,000 people are dead. There is no proper precaution to meeting strangers right now.
/r/seduction19/11/20 05:06 PM
9

I mean...modern psychology says otherwise but, okay dude.
/r/seduction19/11/20 05:05 PM
2

Women like guys who want them but, don't need them aka a guy who desires her but, doesn't need her to be happy and fulfilled.
/r/seduction17/11/20 10:27 PM
4

I dont know why this labeled outer game...this is inner game 101 lol
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:23 PM
1

Lol okay I'm done. You're not ugly. You just suck.
/r/seduction23/10/20 04:17 PM
1

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sean_Stephenson This guy had a degenerative bone disease, was 3 feet tall, and still manged to get a hot wife. I really, really, doubt you have it that bad (send me a pm with your face and I might believe you). You might not ever be a manwhore but, you can and will find people who are worth your time. You just need to raise your standards and treat yourself with more respect.
/r/seduction23/10/20 05:29 AM
1

You're going to have to post pics before I belive you. Sorry, maybe that makes me a dick but, I thing I suspect you may need a therapist.
/r/seduction23/10/20 01:31 AM
2

Physical appearance is like 10% of attraction dude. You're probably not going to have a ton of success doing random cold approaches (very few people do). You're going to have to work on your charisma. Work on being fun to be around. Be the guy that always goes on adventures and has great stories to tell. Learn to tell jokes, learn to play an instrument and play it for people, find something you love to do and become well know and a leader in that community. If you're a genuinely interesting and …
/r/seduction23/10/20 01:26 AM
1

If you were looking to game her longterm thats the best way to do it. You establish a real friendship (if your friend isn't helping you get laid they aren't your friend), you showcase your game without ruining the friend with an awkward rejection, and you establish yourself as a sexual person (sexual option).
/r/seduction21/10/20 03:54 PM
2

Have her wing for you lol
/r/seduction21/10/20 02:19 PM
14

No wonder this sub has gotten so shitty.
/r/seduction21/10/20 02:17 PM
7

Risk > reward in this situation. If they break up go for it.
/r/seduction21/10/20 01:55 PM
3

All good.
/r/seduction18/10/20 11:35 PM
3

Right, but you're comment implies guys who aren't male models should just give up all hope and never talk to girls. That goes against everything this sub is for.
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:21 PM
10

Attractiveness consists of more than looks.
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:21 PM
7

Except they are totally right. Social skills trump literally every other category. Being good looking opens more doors but, through proper social skills you can not only figure out which doors are open BEFORE you approach but, also open those that are closed (once you are good enough you understand that's a waste of time and its better to meet people who want to talk).
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:21 PM
2

Start smaller try again. Ask 5 women for the time. Thats it. Nothing else.
/r/seduction04/10/20 12:39 AM
1

Don't listen to that guy. Touch is an essential part of seduction. I already said this but, plan on going to get a massage and going to the strip club once a month (if you can afford it). It is a great way to combat neediness and strippers are great for practicing conversation and normalizing sex. Just don't bring more than 100 bucks with you lol
/r/seduction30/09/20 04:41 PM
1

You do if you want to be good at seduction.
/r/seduction30/09/20 04:38 PM
2

Massages/Strip clubs.
/r/seduction28/09/20 04:58 PM
1

Also, for the record. I never once asked for you or anyone else's advice. Next time tell it to someone who actually wants your help.
/r/seduction22/09/20 05:21 PM
2

Thats literally my entire point. I've been struggling, and trying, and working, and failing. Ive fallen and I've gotten up over and over and over and im barely keeping my head above water. So sorry if I have a problem with someone telling me "just try harder" .
/r/seduction22/09/20 05:15 PM
2

Thank you.
/r/seduction22/09/20 04:13 PM
0

Fucking thank you. Im so fucking of these prosperity bullshit assholes.
/r/seduction22/09/20 04:13 PM
-1

Lol go to hell you sack of shit.
/r/seduction22/09/20 04:11 PM
0

It was incredibly difficult to get a degree and start working full-time. So calling it the bare minimum is really insulting. Im really sick of my mental struggles being downplayed. Yes I've done the standard "just get some hobbies" bullshit. Im so incredibly lonely that literally nothing interests me. I am starved of human affection and saying just get a life is also insulting. Look, I know you're trying to help but, i really don't need to hear "just work harder!". Ive been doing that and all th…
/r/seduction22/09/20 03:22 PM
5

Got a degree, and a solid job. Started going out to conquer my social anxiety. Spent thousands of dollars on programs to improve my social skills, joined classes to meet people. Went to therapy twice a week for 2 years to work on my underlying emotional issues. Lifted weights and tired and failed to lose weight over and over and over again. The list goes on. To be fair to myself my in person game isn't bad im just short, fat and balding and when it comes to online people make snap judgments.
/r/seduction22/09/20 02:08 PM
-4

No im not. I've been trying to improv myself for 5 years and have continued to fail. Pretty much just need to accept the fact that I'm a loser.
/r/seduction22/09/20 01:52 PM
7

You're cleary more attractive then me because girls mostly block me or ignore my existence.
/r/seduction22/09/20 01:24 PM
28

You really shouldn't be giving advice.
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:32 PM
2

Hire a professional photographer.
/r/seduction05/09/20 12:15 PM
3

Yea people really don't get that you have to be the first dude before you can be the second.
/r/seduction02/09/20 05:06 AM
1

Yea, I had a pretty bad high-school experience. Total outcast :(. That being said I've gotten way better and my life is much more fulfilling now. Have you tried therapy? It would help with the inner game issues you are facing now.
/r/seduction27/08/20 10:26 PM
2

So you started stuttering before or after you had those hurtful things happen? It could be a manifestation of lack of confidence. I know i stutter when I'm nervous (thats something you should speak to a doctor about though as I am not even remotely qualified to make that call). You can still be confident and live a good life. Have you talked to a therapist?
/r/seduction27/08/20 03:26 PM
2

Lol welcome to the social skills rabbit hole :) How it affects one person compared to another varies but, there are the simple things like eye contact, posture, and vocal tone that are affected by confidence. Its something you are going to have to explore yourself as I know nothing about you. In a general just know that self-hatred has a tendency to repel people. Its not impossible to love someone that doesn't love themselves, its just harder.
/r/seduction27/08/20 03:21 PM
5

Just because you aren't open about it doesn't mean people can't tell. Its subtle and bleeds into everything that you do. Lacking confidence affects your speech, your body language, how much you talk and bond with other people, how much you laugh, the risks you take and the way you live your life. Its even showing in this comment this you wrote (without you coming out and saying it lol).
/r/seduction27/08/20 01:43 PM
3

Positivity is attractive and makes other people feel good. Negativity is unattractive and makes people feel bad. People want to feel good.
/r/seduction27/08/20 01:26 PM
-4

Lol whatever excuses you need to feel better about yourself.
/r/seduction23/08/20 04:45 PM
8

Try Hinge or Coffee meets Bagel. Much better for relationships than tinder.
/r/seduction21/08/20 07:05 PM
1

Yea I was REALLY confused there for a moment lol
/r/seduction25/06/20 04:00 AM
1

This was meant for someone else right?
/r/seduction25/06/20 03:58 AM
2

Dude calm down. You are WAY too invested.
/r/seduction25/06/20 02:55 AM
55

That explains it. That whole sub is full of hate.
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:45 PM
5

I dont know enough about you to say for sure but, it sounds like your default (and thus your underlying belief about yourself) is your brain hating you (whatever that means for you). Meditation helps to identify the thoughts that are creating that negative state and process them. The common metaphor is watching your feelings and thoughts as leafs flowing down a river. You'll always have those Brian hating thoughts and feelings the trick is to learn to let them flow down the river instead of pick…
/r/seduction16/06/20 03:35 AM
7

No one has said this yet but, learn to get comfortable with vulnerability. Brene Brown has EXCELLENT Ted talks on the subject.
/r/seduction16/06/20 02:53 AM
13

Meditation is the standard advice. Learn to observe your thoughts and disconnect them from your identity.
/r/seduction16/06/20 02:51 AM
1

So if I already creeped someone out I should find a new gym?
/r/seduction11/06/20 09:19 PM
2

You think it would but, you're attitude would cause you to run into some other roadblock. There is no easy road.
/r/seduction01/06/20 09:38 PM
1

You gotta stop using looks an an excuse my dude.
/r/seduction01/06/20 05:08 PM
1

This is good.
/r/seduction28/05/20 01:59 PM
2

I needed this. Thank you.
/r/seduction28/05/20 01:58 PM
17

Listen. They most powerful tool in game is empathy. Try to listen and understand people on a deep level. (Obviously there is more to it than that but, that's a great place to start)
/r/seduction21/05/20 04:13 AM
2

Yea, for sure. It sounds to me like you finally figured out how to be high value (and which ironically is see everyone as having the same value). You may not know it but, I'm sure by chillen are exhibiting behaviors that are attractive. I dont know for sure but I'd be willing to bet that it took understanding what being attractive looks like in a logical sense to get there in a natural wise sense. It's the journey you know?
/r/seduction19/05/20 05:12 AM
21

There a balance my man. There's truth in cold logical game and the emotional life experience of Mason. Finding the balance between the two is key.
/r/seduction19/05/20 05:06 AM
1

That's not how the world works but, okay. Being a good person doesnt mean you'll have a good life.
/r/seduction06/05/20 04:13 PM
2

You're not wrong your framing just sucks. You could easily say what you just did without fat ass or any of that other stuff. Does it coddle people a bit? Yea, but people are more receptive when you don't criticize them (How to win friends and influence people). Makes the sale easier.
/r/seduction03/05/20 07:56 PM
5

Except the post says literally nothing about that. You understand insulting people doesn't help people build confidence right? You're the one who is pathetic. Tearing other people down doesn't make you any bigger and is the lowest form of game.
/r/seduction03/05/20 06:54 PM
-10

God damn this is a stupid comment. EDIT: Have fun getting sick and dying idiots.
/r/seduction18/04/20 10:36 PM
3

Look for seduction and dating. PUA is outdated. The game has evolved since "The Game".
/r/seduction14/04/20 04:40 PM
1

https://www.google.com/amp/s/markmanson.net/vulnerability-in-relationships/amp
/r/seduction29/03/20 04:07 PM
2

I didnt realize all girls were in charge of their friends tastes and sex drives. Maybe she knows someone who better fits your personality.
/r/seduction26/03/20 04:29 AM
6

You sound bitter. I'm sorry some girl treated you that way. Friendship should be mutually beneficial for both parties. If you truly can't get over the person then time apart is probably a good thing. If some hottie that I wanted to fuck wanted use me as a solider to cry on, fine. That's what friends do for each other. Meanwhile you can ask her to help you pick up girls. There is no better wingman then a hot girl and if she really is your friend she'll be glad to do it. Having good friends is the…
/r/seduction26/03/20 04:23 AM
42

That's really dumb. Friendzone with a hot girl is instant social proof. Doesn't matter if you guys arent fucking other girls will see you with her.
/r/seduction26/03/20 12:02 AM
1

Easy, all of them together. It's not black and white. They all are teaching you different parts of the whole picture.
/r/seduction23/03/20 03:41 AM
3

Models is the essential Inner game handbook.
/r/seduction22/03/20 05:10 PM
3

I was giving advice to the other guy. When I say a guy is a 5/10 I'm not saying in terms of looks I mean in terms all the other factors that makes a man attractive. Inner game and lifestyle determine how attractive a man is. That's not half of the equation. The other half is the dating skill set.
/r/seduction22/03/20 05:08 PM
3

Have you ever read Models? Its talked about alot around here but, this article is the same author.
/r/seduction22/03/20 03:22 PM
2

So if you're a 5/10 work on yourself till you're more attractive AND talk to girls.
/r/seduction22/03/20 02:53 PM
5

https://markmanson.net/boundaries
/r/seduction22/03/20 02:47 PM
10

Talk to her and tell her when she does something that upsets you. At least attempt to be an adult before you resort to silent treatment (which is extremely childish). Maybe that's just me though.
/r/seduction22/03/20 02:30 PM
26

Or...and this is probably a crazy thought...you could talk to her and set healthy boundaries?
/r/seduction22/03/20 02:22 PM
4

Unbalanced women like unbalanced men.
/r/seduction06/12/19 05:17 PM
10

It shouldn't. There is a difference between kindness and being "nice". Genuine kindness is not a turnoff. Fake niceties as a manipulation tactic is.
/r/seduction06/12/19 05:16 PM
27

Abundance in a nutshell
/r/seduction23/11/19 05:08 PM
1

Fun
/r/seduction23/11/19 04:59 PM
2

That's fair. Just so you understand the linguistic subtlety...seduction is all nuance and subtlety (in my very humble experience).
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:01 AM
0

Dont ask her out and just talk to her. Do that with enough girls and then you'll feel comfortable asking one out.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:33 AM
3

He didnt say hit on. He said be nice to.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:27 AM
15

Employees should be treated as potential wings. If you are friendly with alot of people in the establishment (especially the hot girls) its instant social proof.
/r/seduction22/11/19 03:37 AM
3

Baby steps. Just try to improve a little everyday.
/r/seduction12/10/19 09:13 PM
10

Have hard have you worked on lifestyle? Also are you "gaming" women or.are you trying to have genuine interactions?
/r/seduction07/10/19 04:26 AM
6

It's not a take its (african)American slang.
/r/seduction05/10/19 04:59 AM
17

Go to a place with lots of people and approach the person you are least interested in sleeping with and try to start a conversation. Then work your way up.
/r/seduction24/08/19 03:34 PM
1

Adam Lyons is numero uno.
/r/seduction23/07/19 09:37 PM
-15

Y'all need to get laid.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/05/19 01:35 AM
8

"I love you and I respect you". Put that on a note and put it next to your bathroom mirror. Say it to yourself every day.
/r/seduction13/03/19 08:15 PM
1

LOL
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:13 PM
5

It's also way less offense to woman.
/r/seduction18/02/19 05:51 AM
12

The charisma myth is also fantastic.
/r/seduction11/01/19 03:21 PM
0

Most of these are pretty legit...
/r/MensRights28/12/18 09:32 PM
3

Talking to someone new everyday?
/r/seduction28/12/18 04:32 PM
4

What do you do during the week to go out? That seems completely doable.
/r/seduction17/12/18 04:03 AM
2

dude i've been eating healthier than i've ever been. i educate myself regularly with podcasts, books, videos. i overwork myself to stay on top of my shit financially. i gave up video games months ago. i am fighting so fucking hard to be the best version of myself, and it's not good enough. Yes it is. You just need to realize it. You're enough. Love yourself and stop beating yourself up. You are good enough. You are enough. You are worthy of love. Repeat these things every day until you KNOW its …
/r/seduction11/12/18 09:46 PM
2

Thanks dude. I'm working hard to face my social fears and progress is slow ,but nice to hear that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Its interesting that those who struggle the most seem to do best later on life. That could just be survivorship bias but, there is some truth in finding strength in adversity.
/r/seduction14/11/18 04:09 AM
17

I know, I was feeling sorry for myself. Thanks for snapping back to reality.
/r/seduction14/11/18 03:46 AM
3

Yea honestly I was just feel sorry for myself. Hard to get out of that mindset sometimes.
/r/seduction14/11/18 02:18 AM
59

So basically introverts are fucked.
/r/seduction13/11/18 11:24 PM
2

That's retarded.
/r/seduction01/11/18 09:58 AM
5

Theres more than one kind. What your thinking of is zen meditation.
/r/seduction27/10/18 07:41 AM
2

The book The Charisma Myth breaks this down extremely well.
/r/seduction18/10/18 04:05 PM
3

Ugh, this one hurts to read. I've made this mistake way too many times and I'm just now getting past it. Congrats dude.
/r/seduction13/10/18 09:05 PM
-5

/s is necessary on this website.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/18 03:58 PM
-4

You mean porn Created by exploiting children? Jesus Christ this needs to be reported to the FBI or something because you fuckers are sick.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/18 03:16 PM
-5

Did you really just say women want to be raped so they can complain about it? Of all the disgusting, immoral shit I’ve seen on this website that is got to be one of the worst. You are truly sick individual.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/18 03:15 PM
21

The amount of projection is hilarious.
/r/MGTOW25/02/18 08:34 PM
3

The awkwardness is the price you pay. No risk no reward home girl.
/r/seduction10/11/17 04:57 AM
1

I might seriously take you up in this.
/r/seduction04/11/17 03:14 PM
21

Thank you. I really needed this.
/r/seduction04/11/17 12:45 AM
2

Read models. Forget about girls for awhile and work on building yourself up in looks, health, money, education or whatever you think is worth it.
/r/seduction06/10/17 05:17 AM
1

Make sure you're shit is together (or at least on its way to be together) before you start approaching. If rejection is hitting you this hard you will want to take a step back and figure things out before getting back in the game.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:40 PM
1

I think the point of approaching as many women as possible when you start out IS to get more socially calibrated. After you screw up enough times you start to get an idea of what will and will not be successful and/or socially acceptable. An important part of seduction is Social Calibration as you say and the only way to get that is to be more social. This involves approaching and talking to as many people as you can. Yes, cultures differ ,but the only way to figure out what the culture is like …
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:29 PM
5

Needing a women in your life is called neediness. Neediness is a gigantic turn off.
/r/seduction13/08/17 07:45 AM
2

A professional therapist.
/r/seduction13/08/17 12:57 AM
2

Which comes back to being confident enough in yourself where you don't give a fuck what others think (within reason of course). Edit: https://markmanson.net/not-giving-a-fuck
/r/seduction10/08/17 07:37 PM
4

Accept that you're a human being with complex emotions and personality traits and don't get so hung up on labels.
/r/seduction10/08/17 07:19 PM
2

Well that happens every time. How am I suppose to keep this up when I get hit with demoralizing rejection over and over again.
/r/seduction31/07/17 03:38 PM
4

Anytime I give a girl space they stop talking to me completely.
/r/seduction31/07/17 01:43 PM
1

Sounds good man. Now I just need to get any women to date me at all.
/r/seduction03/07/17 02:38 PM
-1

Donald does this as well. Both practices should be stopped.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/06/17 02:43 AM
13

Good think the US already has a vetting process huh?
/r/PussyPassDenied13/06/17 02:41 AM
2

Why do you say that?
/r/seduction28/05/17 03:39 AM
9

Women like sex. It's just way more risky for them then it is for men.
/r/seduction27/05/17 02:20 PM
2

Needed to hear this. Thanks for posting.
/r/seduction27/05/17 04:28 AM
7

I think that just answered your question dude.
/r/seduction09/05/17 01:34 AM
1

Just straight up ask her if she wants to hang out at her place. Sounds like she likes you dude.
/r/seduction09/05/17 01:33 AM
17

Because it's unhelpful and a dick move.
/r/seduction05/05/17 05:11 PM
6

Does this only apply to the seduction process? This seems pretty bleak for a long-term relationship...
/r/seduction13/04/17 02:44 AM
15

Science is based on mathematical and logical intelligence. Being good with women relies on emotional intelligence.
/r/seduction02/04/17 12:58 AM
1

This is a good question. I have no advice but, I'd love to hear what other people say.
/r/seduction30/03/17 05:28 PM
1

Like most things it varies by person. My ex and talked over text all the time. We both loved that shit.
/r/seduction29/03/17 02:18 AM
1

Bullshit. It might not work as well ,but lucky for you women aren't attracted to just looks. It helps to be well groomed and in good shape because it shows you care about yourself and have your shit together. You aren't going to slay it like Brad Pitt ,but you can attract a lot more women than you think.
/r/seduction16/03/17 04:08 PM
5

I have no idea what I just read hahaha.
/r/seduction12/03/17 01:50 AM
1

Not going to lie I got a little turned on just from reading that. Subtleness is definitely how I try to roll.
/r/seduction21/02/17 01:02 AM
3

Yup outcome independence is huge. I've found the whole "growth" mindset and looking only to the future helps me when i'm feeling needy or lonely. focused on your next move. Great way to word it. Definitely help me to have the right attitude.
/r/seduction20/02/17 08:26 PM
5

For sure. I'm still trying to find that line between being proactive in meeting people and trying too hard and trying to let things happen naturally and not trying hard enough.
/r/seduction20/02/17 07:59 PM
9

This is a very nice perspective shift. For awhile I would beat myself up for not talking to everyone ,but it makes sense to find a connection albeit small and go from there.
/r/seduction20/02/17 07:51 PM
1

This is a lot of Mark Mansons teachings in it combined with Mindfulness teachings as well. I've kind got the same feeling about most of what you were saying OP. Great work.
/r/seduction23/01/17 08:44 PM
1

No leagues, only compatibility.
/r/seduction16/01/17 06:37 PM
0

Do not go to theredpill that shit is toxic
/r/seduction13/01/17 03:51 PM
2

Really good podcast in general. Those guys do really great work.
/r/seduction10/01/17 04:04 AM
2

http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/episode-dr-robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy/ Interview with the author that further explains the concepts in the book.
/r/seduction09/01/17 07:31 PM
0

Yea I do know how it feels because I've had depression and anxiety for years and therapy has helped me immensely. I'm sorry, but it struck a cord with me when he said that is was all a waste of time and bullcrap. Probably should have been nicer ,but if someone is going to write off the whole mental health field as BS then i'd rather not waste my time.
/r/seduction08/01/17 07:48 PM
1

There a lot of free resources for mental health depending on where you live. Try google. There is no guarantee ,but I guess 100+ years of psychology is dumb. Sounds like you don't have any desire to actually help yourself or change in order to be happy. Have fun being miserable and a danger to yourself and others. Cheers.
/r/seduction08/01/17 03:30 PM
5

You are having violent thoughts and are rocketing back and forth between ends of the emotional spectrum. You come here asking for help and the when someone tells you need professional help you call it "splurging". That is extremely foolish.
/r/seduction08/01/17 03:10 PM
2

See a therapist or a psychiatrist ASAP. You should not be worrying about getting laid right now...you need to get healthy mentally.
/r/seduction08/01/17 02:50 PM
3

Naw, Grandpa is just mature enough not to give a fuck.
/r/seduction07/01/17 08:47 AM
31

Nursing home STD rates suggest yes, yes they do.
/r/seduction06/01/17 07:59 PM
7

Be your best self. Or strive to be your ideal self.
/r/seduction06/01/17 07:45 AM
9

"No cardio" anddddd I'm done reading.
/r/seduction16/11/16 03:35 AM
1

Google is your friend.
/r/seduction12/11/16 08:51 PM
2

I was thinking about taking one then I read all reviews about them online and changes my mind reallll quick.
/r/seduction12/11/16 06:21 PM
5

Or, you know, they aren't interested in casual sex. No one wants to be a another notch on someone's belt.
/r/seduction23/10/16 02:18 PM
3

His beliefs are creating his reality essentially. He believes he is unattractive so he becomes unattractive.
/r/seduction11/10/16 05:50 PM
2

You need to work on your inner game first and foremost. You can't expect to make friends and met girls unless you think you are the type of person people want to be around. Kill the negative mindset you have going. I know it's cliche but you have to love yourself first. http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VaRO5-V1uK0 This dude is the master of inner game. No excuses brother.
/r/seduction11/10/16 05:49 PM
1

I've read models twice actually. That's actually where my thoughts stem from. I can see myself becoming overly invested in the relationship and not myself. Sometimes I forget that little bit, but thank you for reminding me.
/r/seduction18/09/16 03:59 AM
0

Trump on torture: “Even if it doesn’t work they probably deserved it anyway.” Trump renews calls for torture citing public executions and mass rape committed by ISIS promising for the U.S to do the same, “fighting fire with fire.” Trump says Geneva Conventions a problem and needs to be changed since, US soldiers are to afraid to do their job due to laws which outline the definition of war crimes. Anne Frank's sister (now 86 years old) says that Trump reminds her of Hitler. North Korean Dictator …
/r/MensRights09/09/16 05:55 PM
4

He's fucking insane. He wants to break the Geneva convention in multiple ways including torturing people for no other reason but to hurt them. He is an egotistic, sadistic, piece of shit and is comparable to Joseph fucking Stalin. Hillary is corrupt, but Trump is evil.
/r/MensRights09/09/16 01:18 PM
0

With a certain demographic yea. You need more Mark Manson and less Mystery.
/r/seduction10/08/16 07:39 AM
10

6'2"
/r/seduction27/05/16 09:05 PM
2

I don't think I can just have one. Maybe eventually but not right now. You're right I do have a long way to go.
/r/seduction02/01/16 08:14 AM
2

That place is toxic as fuck so I'd avoid it. They hate women.
/r/seduction05/12/15 05:20 AM
1

Nope.
/r/seduction01/11/15 01:40 AM
2

It does. I just have to get off my ass and start moving :)
/r/seduction31/10/15 07:26 PM
1

I just think I don't get out enough to be honest. I can tell when I'm feeling insecure it screws with most of my social interactions so I just have to work on having a rock solid base.
/r/seduction31/10/15 07:25 PM
1

Be been wanting to do this. Money is tight at the moment but BJJ sounds awesome.
/r/seduction31/10/15 07:22 PM
1

True. I just think it's wrong to look down on someone for completely reasonable and human emotions.
/r/seduction29/10/15 11:38 PM
1

It's fucked up to call OP a pitiful person. So he's suppose to be okay that all his friends get all the girls and he gets nothing and then give him shit for being a virgin? Thats like a rich guy calling someone who is poor pathetic. Yea the poor dude is going to be jealous, it's called being human. It's easy to look down on someone when you have everything come easy to you and they struggle.
/r/seduction29/10/15 10:52 AM
-1

So if you had the choice between an average girl or an extremely attractive girl who would you choose?
/r/seduction29/10/15 10:48 AM
0

Fuck you.
/r/seduction29/10/15 07:58 AM
3

And there it is.
/r/seduction29/10/15 07:40 AM
3

So basically immersion therapy.
/r/seduction01/09/15 11:11 PM
1

So the last three relationships you were in ended with you being cheated on...Every think it might be you that is the problem?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 05:15 AM
1

What's that ginger dudes name? I've defiantly watched his shit before.
/r/seduction24/03/15 09:20 AM
2

Too late for that...but I'm still a virgin in the eyes of Jesus!
/r/seduction12/11/14 02:27 PM
2

So you're saying I'm fucked?
/r/seduction12/11/14 01:51 PM
1

Someone who knows they are being used.
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:00 AM
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