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DISCUSSIONpadma_sarasvati/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 02:42 PM
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Sounds like my maternal grandparents' marriage... My grandfather had passed away recently at 90, and my grandmother was really devastated. She got married in her early 20s, which was considered late back then, but he was the only man she had ever been with. She had been the perfect wife to him: Respected him as the head of the family, took care of his needs and the entire household perfectly while he worked hard to earn a living for her and their children, never argued with him even when he got …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/17 01:34 PM
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Spiritual wellness (more of a lifelong goal, really, but still relevant): Properly study Buddhism bit by bit. Live by the Four Noble Truths, the Noble Eightfold Path. Practice mindfulness in action, not necessarily just meditation as we know it in the conventional sense. One link / page on accesstoinsight.org (a project based on the Theravada Buddhist tradition) per day. Prepare for the upcoming Ramadan month. Actually study the Qur'an in context and know why I offer the worship I offer to make …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/17 10:27 AM
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(Had to delete my previous comments due to 'privacy' reasons.) It's just that not having any romantic contact (kissing) would be crushing. Yea, especially in a LDR... (Forgot to mention that part earlier)
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 07:09 AM
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Well, in that case, he could have communicated his stance in a clear, direct, matter-of-fact manner so that It was confusing, really, because at times he was keen on making sexual innuendos and sharing his fantasies (of being dominated... pushed against a wall by a woman... that sort of thing), but other times he spoke about his lack of desire, a low sex drive, almost asexual in fact... But yea, it could also be what you have mentioned. When we were still in contact more than a year ago, he told…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/17 06:51 AM
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Okay, so... I am literally a kissless virgin to this date, primarily by choice. I am not ultra-religious, and by some ultra-conservative people's standards, not even remotely religious, except in a 'cultural identity' sense as a result of being born and raised in a particular Abrahamic religion. I was, however, highly sexually attracted to my last ex (tall, tanned, and handsome), and while he respected my decision not to do anything remotely sexual, it was a LTR, so I'm guessing that by RPW-stan…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 04:36 PM
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Hi, I hope you will ignore the potential incoming homophobic comments masked as 'brutal honesty'. When I was old enough to understand romantic and/or sexual attraction, I thought I was simply 'bicurious' or 'heteroflexible', or that my attraction to women was just a phase, seeing how I only dated men. It has been, what, five years now since I realised I was, and still am, actually bisexual? Granted, I have only had relationships with men exclusively, but that was largely due to the fact that 'co…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 04:32 PM
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My apologies, I did not mean to offend you at all. I was not able to see the caption through the Reddit app on Android. Thank you for your explanation; I fully understand why you posted the other screenshot instead. I think you're making great progress, much more than I did or have, and within a shorter period of time while at that. It takes time to really get into a good headspace again when we were so used to putting their needs above ours at the expense of our own wellbeing and identities. If…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 02:18 PM
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Not trying to take away from the original point of the OP, but I swear to God, I feel like I've seen that screenshot before and ... Well, just do a Google search using half of the last line lol. Anyway, I was with someone like this (minus the cheating) for a few years, and while I can confidently say I am over him in a romantic sense (and even in all other aspects such as friendship), sometimes I still struggle with forgiving him for wasting my time and myself for being so gullible as to believe…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 01:59 PM
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Prior to RPW: Not sure if conventionally feminine, but... writing. Languages & literature and the humanities have always been my strong suit, and I consider my language feminine in terms of my writing style (abundant use of metaphor and other literary devices). Art. My favourite forms of artistic expression within visual arts are painting, mixed media / cross-disciplinary media, and audiovisual stuff. I am greatly influenced by Impressionism (Monet) for its soft and ethereal qualities, as well a…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 04:07 PM
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This is exactly the post I need to read, synthesise, and apply, every day from now. If only I had this truthbomb dropped on me a few years ago when it could have helped the most (on the bright side, the post has the potential to strongly benefit my next relationship, so thank you still). However, the part about maintaining long-term friendships, especially with other ladies, has always been solid for me, and in fact might be getting better as the years go by, so I'm happy with that. I think one …
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/17 08:47 AM
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