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The one about domestic violence is a big one. That’s the one that to a naive observer doesn’t sound plausible. Unless of course you have first hand experience. The film the red pill was a good documentary in this. Apparently even creating shelters for men was blocked. So far to women having no power. That would be the other big one.
/r/AntiFeminists22/05/20 01:22 PM
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Call it humanism instead right?
/r/AntiFeminists22/05/20 01:17 PM
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I don’t give a fuck! Take your garbage elsewhere!
/r/seduction11/01/20 06:15 PM
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Yeah. First off the last sentence of the post the mod linked to is the answer to your question. I agree with your worldview. It should be obvious that you are good and useful. But. The resonance being talked about or vibration as he calls it means that you need to actually emit things. There’s a book which I haven’t read with the title. Women don’t hear what men don’t say. Which is true. You can look at yourself as an antenna that sends via the upper part of your body. And that receives women vi…
/r/seduction10/01/20 12:35 AM
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Women don’t chase you if they don’t know about you. Also most women are being chased by dudes so don’t necessarily feel the need to chase you. Also why would anybody chase a random stranger?
/r/seduction09/01/20 08:39 PM
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Okay maybe that helps. I have identified 3 qualities. Cute aka. sweet Pretty aka. beautiful aka. stunning Hot aka. sexy aka. you don’t need to think about it Not every woman ticks all three boxes. And sometimes they are mutually exclusive. What’s my point? If you aren’t into her and there’s no actual sexual attraction then all she is is a beautiful piece of art 🖼 you can interact with. Performance art so to speak. The brain 🧠 stuff is yet separate again but points 1-3 are also affected by who sh…
/r/seduction08/01/20 11:27 AM
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If lots of girls are your type maybe you don’t have a type
/r/seduction08/01/20 10:58 AM
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That’s a mystery
/r/seduction03/01/20 11:17 AM
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As the commenters pointed out. If they are already flush with cash attention and stuff. What else are you going to offer? I guess the “correct dynamics” is when life is so hard men don’t have time to pay attention to women. But once that’s no longer the case sensory overstimulation sets in. Then you are just more noise.
/r/seduction03/01/20 11:05 AM
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The thing is. Who cares about the reply if nothing substantial comes out of it.
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:42 PM
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Sometimes people are actually busy. Also sometimes people sleep. If you need to force her you may as well move on.
/r/seduction01/01/20 11:32 PM
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The world is not one dimensional. You can’t just be hot or not hot but all kinds of things. Every pot has a lid and vice versa. You just need to discover what kind of lids fit and then go for them.
/r/seduction01/01/20 05:48 PM
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I was reading and found this quite good. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction01/01/20 05:44 PM
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I wish people on the internet would just be using the internet. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harem The marketing of human beings, particularly women, as objects for sexual use meant that elite men owned the vast majority of women they interacted with, and related to them as would masters to slaves.[34] Being a slave meant relative lack of autonomy during this time period, and belonging to a harem caused a wife and her children to have little insurance of stability and continued support due to t…
/r/seduction01/01/20 03:32 PM
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Yeah physics is the best. Laws of physics always apply even at the quantum level. Wait what!? They don’t? 🍌😄
/r/seduction27/12/19 11:03 PM
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Yes but also she should know this
/r/seduction27/12/19 11:01 PM
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She feels what you feel. But also vice versa. Don’t look just everybody in the eyes there’s a reason we don’t do it automatically with strangers.
/r/seduction16/12/19 09:20 AM
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Thanks you for your question. It’s an important one. First off your fear off intimacy is correct. You don’t want to be intimate with just anybody. Second you don’t need to talk to everybody and not everybody needs to talk to you. With that out of the way you can be more relaxed about the whole situation. What you need is love - that’s nothing particular to you everybody has the same problem. Just how we experience the love and what our relationship is to it is what differs. Some feel at home in …
/r/seduction25/11/19 04:28 PM
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That one definitely is helpful. Crawl walk run - swim 🏊‍♂️
/r/seduction25/11/19 03:53 PM
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Devils advocate for the win. I know it sounds grim. But hey it’s an uncomfortable truth. No wonder nobody likes it and pretends there’s somehow some way to fix this.
/r/seduction12/11/19 09:13 AM
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Who cares. The sex happened. What else do you want? A relationship where you get to know each other and appreciate each other before having sex?
/r/seduction11/11/19 07:26 PM
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IOI does not mean IOSI. Plus flirting is a way of getting to know each other. IOI just means I want to keep going now. But does not mean all good take me to bed. 😄
/r/seduction10/11/19 08:55 AM
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I would not call them pretty per se.They have a clean 🧼 look about them. (Spanish) latinas can “do” that too. As usual the best way to get to know each other is via common interests. You could for example have an interest in their culture and or language. (genuine of course)
/r/seduction09/11/19 09:13 PM
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Being honest does not make you vulnerable. The truth sets you free! But thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:09 PM
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Because they don’t fight their own wars. Duh!
/r/seduction07/11/19 03:35 PM
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It can be anything you want it to be. But why go to war if you don’t have to?
/r/seduction04/11/19 10:49 AM
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„War Stories“ wow 😮 And I thought this was about pleasure.
/r/seduction03/11/19 04:11 PM
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Zero fucks given all around!
/r/PussyPassDenied30/10/19 02:31 PM
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By being sure. Essentially it doesn’t matter if you or if you don’t kiss her. Women will make themselves available for you to interact with. As soon as there’s worry or effort on your part involved it’s not natural. It’s kinda like a multi stage process. Also if she seems to be kissable it’s a good idea not to take the bait. Unless you really want it. Aka. you are sure you won’t regret it. Talking to her about it is definitely one solution. Again if it feels weird or is forced because you want t…
/r/seduction29/10/19 07:22 PM
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You seriously just said smoking until you don’t like it anymore as a good idea? Being addicted (liking) to cigarettes 🚬 is not the same as having a sex drive. One is innate one is learned. What are you trying to reboot anyway? Part of you is rebooting once a day. The other parts (cells) also auto reboot on their own schedules. How do you think you can manage your body better than it can manage itself? Maybe have a look at this perspective of “showing” it. It’s kinda letting your sex drive go but…
/r/seduction20/10/19 05:34 PM
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Not a good idea 💡 Forcefully doing anything will make you unbalanced. Putting the word meditation in there as a cure all does not make it better.
/r/seduction20/10/19 02:52 PM
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Obviously and naturally there’s a relevant song for this - naturally by Selena Gomez https://youtu.be/a_YR4dKArgo
/r/seduction16/10/19 10:19 AM
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Well Sex is not an immaterial thing. You don’t just do it and be done with it. It’s an interaction of two highly complex biological systems/entities. You don’t just “have sex”. Hint. Girls call it making love for a reason. 🥰😍 The heart is the key. If it is truly open on both sides then it (you) will come naturally.
/r/seduction16/10/19 10:16 AM
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If I could I would
/r/seduction16/10/19 10:12 AM
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I knew it! Why do some words always have more than one meaning? Lazy ass humans!
/r/seduction16/10/19 10:11 AM
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The good old the woman is in the way of the vagina. Maybe there’s just what programmers call an impedance mismatch. You are not aligned to what you want. First step would be to make it clear what you are after. Putting your meat into her cavity and then rubbing it until some goo runs out and you feel relieved. Similar to taking a piss or a shit. Maybe your opener should be do you want to flirt or bang? That way you can skip the small talk. It’s called hitting on girls for a reason. Subtlety does…
/r/seduction14/10/19 08:52 PM
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Not sure how to put it. Maybe being single is best for you (at this point of development). I‘m single too also. I have discovered OpenHeart meditation recently and that has helped me become a more relaxed person to be around. The good thing about being single is having time to meditate whenever you want and or need it. Also most women just loose their attractiveness once you are taking care of your needs in a way that lets you just be happy 😌
/r/seduction14/10/19 08:45 PM
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The easiest way to do it is to not do it. The right things start happening as soon as you stop trying. However be prepared to let go of things that you thought were good in order to make room for things that actually are good (for you). It’s essentially a summary of the Dao de Ching. Act without doing - etc. Why do you need conversations to turn flirty? If the girl is boring you then find something more fun to do. Pro tip: Do something fun first then meet people that like doing the same thing. P…
/r/seduction14/10/19 03:49 PM
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Nice 👍🏻 Standing still doesn’t cut it for me as I get bored very easily. Natural walking has the same effects plus it re aligns your whole body and being all the while also being a gentle exercise for the whole body. Good for digestion and everything else that needs to flow through your body. https://www.natural-walking.com/
/r/seduction12/10/19 03:03 PM
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Okay the dog toy Gift. What you can be is grateful for it. It doesn’t have to be connected to more. Just be at peace with whatever develops. I wouldn’t chase him though.
/r/seduction06/10/19 10:02 PM
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He seems to be testing the waters 😄 Follow your heart 💓 It’s probably him taking the lead and letting you follow in a - subtle way. He’s probably not sure what to make of you yet.
/r/seduction06/10/19 04:05 AM
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Thanks for the feedback 🥰
/r/seduction04/10/19 09:53 PM
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You don’t. The 2nd chakra (Sex) is responsible both for friendship and (sex). I guess the best way (and only way) is to surrender the outcome of the interaction. Essentially if the woman wants more. You will feel it. But you need to be able to be in a „neutral“ state of heart 💓. It’s like calibrating a joystick 🕹. You need to be calibrated to what is in the centre. Then you know what pulls you where. 😎 And yes sometimes you want friendship but your biology still wants more. But that’s kinda natu…
/r/seduction04/10/19 03:38 AM
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What’s missing here is the guy’s perspective. There’s a reason for acting that way that’s not just to make the girl enjoy the „movie“ more. It’s called boundaries. Nothing magical about it.
/r/seduction18/09/19 08:15 AM
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X)
/r/seduction17/09/19 11:29 AM
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See my post from earlier about OpenHeart meditation. That is not about mentality though. Once you feel the abundance. That however can take a while depending on how mentally involved you are.
/r/seduction17/09/19 11:28 AM
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The point of dancing is communication. As usual eye contact is helpful.
/r/seduction17/09/19 11:25 AM
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You mean being social? 😮
/r/seduction15/09/19 05:43 PM
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Yeah that’s a good one.
/r/seduction15/09/19 05:36 PM
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Maybe go to/r/relationshipadvice Seduction is something else.
/r/seduction15/09/19 02:18 PM
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Why are you doing it in the first place?
/r/seduction15/09/19 01:08 PM
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After having had a walk on this. Make clear distinction on who takes care of what. And then stick to it. In some societies (China)women and men still live in parallel to each other vs. being the same and exchangeable. I guess that’s about as red pill as it gets.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 06:37 PM
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They had trust issues early on. So nothing has “changed”.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 06:16 PM
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You should be totally out of character and act in a way that you cannot and will not sustain in the long run. I‘m not a fan of your phrasing „make him“. How about let him have fun, by supporting in any way possible? Or even better make sure both of you are enjoying yourselves. Then it’s less of a you make him and more of a let’s do this together.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 11:39 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Respect Go to --> Signs and other ways of knowing respect mic drop
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 06:04 PM
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Yes you are waiting too long to meet. Personally I would prefer meeting first. Much more data available vs. just texting.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/19 08:15 PM
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Okay. Mindfulness and heart fullness come to the surface as needing to be addressed. I’m aware that women subconsciously do shit tests and that’s built in. I also know that whenever he passes them they get more severe. The only escape is being in the moment and speaking the truth on all levels. Seems that’s what he is trying to be doing. However at some level you are your own person and the laptop thing at the end. Whatever. It’s not his job to make sure you do your job otherwise he may as well …
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 02:04 PM
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How dare you look at the bigger picture? Thanks 😊🙏🏻
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 10:39 AM
2

Irritated easily? Touch your heart 💓 and smile 😊 Awkward a lot? Touch your heart and smile 😃 True Beauty comes from within so you are already looking in the right direction. Every woman is different (even though they are all the same also). So see what’s the positive about your negative. Just like a fish sucks at surviving in the desert 🏜 they are made to swim in water. So be like water my friend 😁
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 08:46 AM
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That is true and if he is driving there’s also hidden costs there.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 08:03 AM
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Welcome to being an adult. That’s up to you guys to negotiate. Whenever you feel it’s your turn then it probably is. Just let him know what’s up, so he can take that into consideration (when steering the ship as captain 👨‍✈️)
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 07:59 AM
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Speaking from your heart 💖 (with feeling) can help. The way you speak reflects the way you are. Smiling while speaking is an easy one. (In theory) Certain types of heart based meditation 🧘‍♀️ take this to another level by smiling to your heart (while doing anything). Touching your heart (palm flat on your chest) as if you were deeply touched (which you would be if you do that) is also a good aid.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 10:36 AM
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Tragedy of the commons? Maybe RPW is becoming mainstream now? Wouldn’t that be great? 😄
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 10:11 AM
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Could you elaborate on what a real friend is to you?
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/19 12:41 PM
1

Teddy bear 🧸?
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/19 11:10 AM
1

You are looking for equal attention. Sounds good. #Metoo However there’s only one source you can get it from. It’s called True Source (of Love) amongst other names. It’s natural to expect equal treatment. But physics alone won’t help you there. Also in this video the influence age old genetic memory has on us is highlighted. https://youtu.be/KnQ2JIPxSq4 Smile 😀 and touch your heart 💓 and the rest will take care of itself.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/19 10:39 AM
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There’s something about doing what works. Why would you do what doesn’t work on purpose?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 07:34 AM
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😁😍 Okay list time: 1. Be responsive 2. See 1. Have a look into OpenHeart meditation 🧘‍♀️. It has helped me be more joyful 😀 in general. Your gender, age or skin colour doesn’t matter. It works all the same. A short how to and groups you can connect to are here: https://www.openheartmeditation.com/ohm-overview/ A video demonstration can be found here https://youtu.be/oB-48g6nuxw PS: Youth = Being playful
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/19 05:43 PM
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Welcome to the world 🌍 of decadence! Some call it clown 🤡 world 🌍 . Essentially the individual reigns supreme. „My body my choice“ Due to technology and other advances we are disconnected from „reality“ in a way that you can spend your whole life almost as if nobody else exists. It’s one result of societies becoming more affluent. Birth rate drops - every one starts looking at their own navel. Aka navel gazing. I hope that helped 🥳
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/19 11:57 AM
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That’s a „known issue“ with female human beings. There’s this nice book called „if men have all the power how come women make all the rules?“ It goes into how women are as aggressive as men but they do it in a way that you cannot really call them out on it because then you’d be doing nothing else all day long. Men have evolved the „men don’t cry“ response to this. But that’s not a solution. Just a coping strategy. From an energetic perspective you can call men, the providers and women as the rec…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/19 10:46 PM
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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder Your natural physique is related to your natural personality check out mien shiang but in essence you can judge the book by its cover (to an extent) as form follows function Do you want to look artificial? Do you want to hang with people that are ok with you looking artificial? (I know there’s several steps/stages of beauty enhancement) The easiest way to look feminine is to act feminine (be feminine). Italian women are good at this. Spanish next then les Fe…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/19 09:21 PM
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Most def
/r/MGTOW11/06/19 07:07 PM
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I think comparing them to fire 🔥 makes more sense. It can warm you and burn you. If you let it. Rattle snake are too tame in comparison. 🥳
/r/MGTOW11/06/19 06:53 PM
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How do you know that?
/r/MGTOW11/06/19 06:42 PM
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“About how we look” :D
/r/MGTOW11/06/19 04:42 PM
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Could you be more specific? You can only find if you know what you are looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/19 11:02 AM
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You are not wrong.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 01:58 PM
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Okay I read some of the other comments. It’s all about sex. Okay I get it. I don’t have enough information to give you any useful advice beyond what others already were saying. Except Sex is all in the brain. The whole taking care of yourself is definitely important. Hairdo 💁‍♀️ especially. But then again I don’t know what your current situation is. The right response by the way would have had to be on the cave man level also. Not sure if “you have a great backside” would have cut it. Because yo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 03:24 PM
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Now it’s my turn to be amused. First off. All we know is that “he pointed out a sexy woman” We don’t know what he said. Second she asks to be reassured that she is pretty too. Which is a, if women ever lived in caves, cave woman thing to say and do. If it was a car being pointed out, I doubt she would have asked for her car to be deemed pretty too. Now what response to that would have been appropriate? Yes you are? - That sounds a bit boilerplate to me. What would you have said?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 01:07 PM
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How is being respectful to your significant other “cave man logic”?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 12:31 PM
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To each their own!
/r/MGTOW08/06/19 10:02 AM
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Who doesn’t have a Madonna whore complex? 🤣 Yes - Do you know what gossip is? PS: Women do that too. (Gossip)
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 06:18 AM
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Maybe he doesn’t want to “objectify” your body. And is doing “the right thing” by complimenting your attire.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 02:39 AM
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LOL great stuff
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/19 07:46 PM
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Stress definitely has an effect on libido and „giving a shit“ about others. Personally https://www.openheartmeditation.com/local-groups/ has helped me. The obvious active ingredient is the focus on smiling and relaxation. Which in itself has positive benefits. There’s more to it though. You can find some verbal testimonials here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLGn4qSKS0e4WaHUTLQdzjwGlYJ4duKjzM
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/19 05:09 PM
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Since you are from India 🇮🇳 Yoga 🧘‍♂️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=92J-JPChaeI (History of Yoga) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MeZLcRoH4XY (Yoga Maya) Essentially it’s training of the mind and self to realise what’s really important. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eGKFTUuJppU (Explaining what “you” really are) If the above works for you then have a look at OpenHeart meditation. I don’t know of any groups in India 🇮🇳 however there’s books aplenty to help you out. https://www.openheartmedita…
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 09:28 PM
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The easy solution is to not care. It’s not as easy as it sounds though. Women’s games have evolved to make sure you are being kept as honest as possible. The most powerful antidote is to use their own game by not being attached to the outcome. If you aren’t attached to anything, it can’t be used against you. (In old movies the mans woman/family were held hostage by the bad guys).
/r/MGTOW05/06/19 07:11 PM
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If the goal in a relationship is harmony. Then you should not be a doormat. Because then you are passive. You should also not just do your own thing without taking your partner into account. Because if everyone does their own thing without communication then there will be conflicts. You can’t predict everything but if he provides you with feedback. The least you can do is acknowledge it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/19 04:56 PM
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Your question was. What can you do? Well the “age old” saying is. If you love something let it go. If it comes back it is yours. If it doesn’t it was not meant for you. https://youtu.be/d4tlf3Ag_lM (DMX let me fly) I can pray for you. However whatever happens as a result is whatever is supposed to happen. The highest good essentially. 💓🙏🏻
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/19 11:26 PM
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I just watched this interview with Mr. Peterson. The essence is live up to your potential. Another nice saying, which ties into this is: Don’t try to be confident. Try to be competent. Confidence in you can then come from others. https://youtu.be/E6qBxn_hFDQ
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/19 11:13 PM
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Proper authorities! Proper action! „I will let someone else get their hands dirty.“ I like how she respectfully uses the word „dudes“.
/r/MGTOW03/06/19 02:37 PM
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Nö Problem. I just recently re-discovered him.
/r/MGTOW02/06/19 06:29 PM
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Do you distrust “people” in general?
/r/MGTOW31/05/19 06:57 PM
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Passion is an emotion You don’t harness passion. It’s just there. Or not. Complete surrender it is not It’s more like magnetic induction created by the woman dancing 💃 “around” and with the man 👨 See 2 you can’t “make it” you are it. What to do? Relax and dance 💃 for whatever reasons latinas are good at it without even trying (dancing is part of their culture) Kissing passionately? See above. It’s a dance 💃
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/19 08:55 AM
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As usual I think the best person you could ask this is your partner. Forgiveness is something you could express to him. And he in turn could forgive your treatment of him.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/19 09:37 PM
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No comment - see comment below Wear what you would normally wear to formal occasions. (according to the weather)
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/19 07:16 PM
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Shit is great billions of flies can’t be wrong PS: Essentially what SMV boils down to: Young women > old women Old (high status) men > young low status men There’s no actual number to compare people. You said you confronted him after In order to appear cool 😎 as a dude you pretend to not have a crush on a person even if you do. Emotions can be scary you know? SMV is a concept. SMV is an abstraction not reality. “The map is not the territory.” Usually you can tell from your friend group what “soc…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/19 06:11 PM
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Hiding embarrassment: Her? No way! Why would you ask him about it? And expect a straight answer? SMV is not „real“ There is to many factors involved to just say hey you are this or you are that. The old saying is there’s a lid for every pot. That’s more accurate. Of course if you ignore that and go for SMV instead. Then you are surprised why your “calculations” are wrong. You can be pretty but not cute or hot. Those are three related but independent dimensions. You either are “it” to me or you a…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/19 04:22 PM
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One resource is knowing that you know nothing. Then go from there. If in doubt ask clarifying questions. And say things like. It looks to me like… That already makes it clear that you have no idea what’s really happening and can only assume.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/19 03:26 PM
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That used to be called a gentleman.
/r/MGTOW27/05/19 11:08 AM
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Well I’m tired hungry and horny. That tends to have an effect on my rationality. I’ll go rectify this now. Thanks for the flag. 🚩
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 06:22 PM
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So what is your question then? :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 06:17 PM
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The goal of all courtship is sex. So yes. If you are looking for platonic love of friendship try maybe Gay men or females.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 05:30 PM
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Okay thanks. Clarified
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 05:26 PM
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Well I also prefer a natural colour, You „girls“ seem to view your hair like a part of your car 🚙 🚗 that you can tune. Or like a new dress 👗 superficial and not „you“. For „us“ (me) and I presume your boyfriend it’s more of a being congruent thing. I like(d) you the way you are and now you are screwing that up. As someone else said. Others see your hair more often than you do. So it clearly does have more impact on the other person. For example one woman at my work had one hair colour (not sure …
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 05:15 PM
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It’s human beings with two X chromosomes trying to figure things out.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 11:55 AM
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You cannot love someone „more“. That’s impossible. That’s also why it doesn’t work.
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 09:32 PM
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But which existence?
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 06:37 PM
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Fine!
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 06:35 PM
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Awesome 👏 Being spirituality alive it’s what it’s all about! Follow your heart! 💖
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 11:18 AM
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OpenHeart meditation see link below for more information https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/brpwnp/do_i_ignore_my_sister/eohnnpi/
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 08:34 AM
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:D
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 05:13 AM
2

Thanks for asking. If you want to know more. I have done lots of explaining in my post history. At this point I know that explanation is not sufficient, actual first hand experience is necessary. That’s also how „the system“ is being setup. Making up your own damn mind on what’s important. Anyway. A good resource to gain first hand experience. Just as I did myself when „starting“ this journey is to just drop into one of the many local groups and get a „whiff“ of it yourself. https://www.openhear…
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 04:43 AM
2

Good stuff thanks for sharing !
/r/MGTOW22/05/19 09:28 PM
2

I doubt you have disengaged entirely. But I get your point.
/r/MGTOW22/05/19 08:00 PM
21

Streisand Effect in action
/r/MGTOW22/05/19 07:09 PM
2

What helped me is OpenHeart meditation. If your family did it it would be even better. Essentially it helps you make your life easier in obvious and subtle ways. Not a quick fix. But it will help you be less emotional about others disagreeing with you or suffering.
/r/MGTOW22/05/19 06:49 PM
2

:D Never argue with an idiot…
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 09:49 PM
2

It’s less of a grammar problem and more of a reflection, as you say, of what’s going on in your head. „The household“ which without kids would essentially be you two. Personally I don’t see a reason for marriage without children. But I understand that potentially you can also „do“ it just for the sake of doing it. I doubt anyone hates things being done well and goals being accomplished. My father is similar so I know the type. I was flexible enough when young to roll with it. But the brute force…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 04:16 PM
2

Even with prostitutes. It’s the mans job to actually “work”. So you are essentially paying money in order to work.
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 02:15 PM
1

Learning by doing. Nothing beats first hand experience.
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 12:06 PM
3

Power corrupts because you stop getting valid feedback. So yes. Women and girls follow the laws of physics. The path of least resistance.
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 11:35 AM
1

Humanism
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 08:14 AM
14

Lots of “I”s in your sentences. I want this I want that. I am this I am that. You don’t want kids but a husband. (To be in charge.) Of what exactly? You do come across as a steam roller type of person (woman). No wonder people (men) see stability in you. The no-nonsense stood out to me. Can you laugh about yourself? At the end we will all be dead 💀. So what’s all this nonsense with being no nonsense?
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/19 08:10 AM
2

Monks live in a monastery (with other monks) away from the non monks.
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 10:39 PM
3

Looks like we are going back to where we came from. No women allowed. Too much risk.
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 10:34 AM
2

I hope you give all of your shed skin cells a proper burial then!
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 04:50 PM
1

Sexual attraction. You want to give sperm. “Real” Love. You want to share love.
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 01:24 PM
3

They are called widows.
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 08:47 AM
1

Yepp. Money‘s where the friendship ends
/r/MGTOW16/05/19 01:14 PM
1

The problem is one human being doesn’t nearly live long enough to figure everything out by itself. Therefore you rely on your ancestors and the things that worked so far.
/r/MGTOW15/05/19 04:38 PM
2

Nothing. Usually monks are associated with a religion. So MGTOW monks reminded me of that .
/r/MGTOW14/05/19 06:02 PM
2

We already have monk mode. Just waiting for this to be turned into yet another religion.
/r/MGTOW13/05/19 10:02 PM
39

Troll much?
/r/MGTOW13/05/19 08:14 PM
15

One thing about “having fun” without “giving a shit” is that you don’t just suddenly change yourself. You get back what you put out. A good article is: https://thefederalist.com/2019/05/09/ladies-stop-trying-to-have-sex-like-men/ In MGTOW men are talking about women with a broken pair bonding mechanism. So even if you find Mr. Right and can fool him into marriage you may not actually be capable of keeping up the facade. (Lies have short legs) Men traditionally were looking for virgins for a reas…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/19 05:50 PM
16

In Germany we have a saying. “Lies have short legs.” Obviously yes you can lie. But why would you? Jordan B. Peterson has a good argument when he says you mess up your own thinking by lying. Plus if you are okay with lying you are going to lie about other things as well. Because why not right? And if you encounter a good man worth his salt being bullshit resistant is definitely one trait. Because you know everyone tries to bullshit you at some level and only if you know what’s right from wrong d…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/19 05:38 PM
1

But wouldn’t a messy house deter thieves?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/19 09:59 AM
2

Okay let’s do this. Does the environment affect you? Yes Your mother malnourished when you are a baby ? There’s a 🥶 age while you are alive? Bad summer? How about the moon? It moves the oceans. You made of mostly water obviously aren’t affected by that at all. How about the centre of the galaxy? I mean the whole solar system is rotating around it. No effect on you of course. Positions of stars in the sky indicating on where your planet currently is? Insignificant to you
/r/MGTOW13/05/19 09:34 AM
2

Compliments are good. But putting yourself down is not a compliment.
/r/MGTOW13/05/19 02:48 AM
1

Conspiracy theory detected Oversimplification detected
/r/MGTOW208/05/19 05:45 PM
1

Since you mentioned your natal chart and the water element. Me as an INFJ 6w57sx am good at overthinking also. However more in an analytical way. Emotions so far had been analyzed away as irrelevant interference. However from a systems perspective outside influences and interferences need to be taken into account. Becoming more emotional is not the answer for me though. Eliminating the root cause of interference however is. What works for me is OpenHeart meditation which is geared towards defusi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/19 02:24 PM
1

How do you know that you are a communist?
/r/MGTOW07/05/19 07:15 PM
1

As a source of pride.
/r/MGTOW07/05/19 05:34 PM
1

A small one though.
/r/MGTOW07/05/19 09:09 AM
2

This has answers http://www.padmacahaya.org/our-heart/the-beauty-of-our-heart Your heart is on your inside and is the key.
/r/MGTOW06/05/19 06:06 PM
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This question feels like bait for me. But I’ll bite. I personally am practicing a meditation method “geared” specifically towards this. It’s called OpenHeart meditation. The basic method is quite simple. Touch your spiritual heart in the centre of your chest as if it was a fragile pretty flower 🌷. Relax and smile to your spiritual heart. Relax and enjoy. Enjoy 😊 enjoy and enjoy
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/19 11:28 AM
1

The world will end.
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 05:15 PM
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Behaviours/Rituals are better than goals, as the focus is on changing your habits. Reaching goals will be a nice side effect. The technique is called improving the now.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/19 04:25 PM
2

What you are describing is the equivalent of “oneitis”. It’s when a man can only see one girl as viable and ignores all the rest. It’s mostly based on physical attraction. It’s a bit like priming happening for babies who then lock in on their mother. Your best bet would be to join some meet-up groups most of which are free. The environment is similar to what you described to be in university. You can become a regular and get to know people without the forcedness of “dating”. In order to fill the…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/19 04:03 AM
1

That’s how thoughts happen. I would give it a moment and assess how urgent it really is. There’s urgent and there’s important. I personally don’t mind serious topics. Just don’t interrupt me when I‘m chilling. Unless it’s urgent. Most things aren’t. As usual. Have you asked your SO about his opinion?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/19 08:11 PM
1

There’s always adoption. Just adopt older kids.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/19 08:05 PM
2

http://www.revolucionantifeminista.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/how-can-women-make-the-rules.pdf From the nineties.
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 05:56 PM
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http://www.revolucionantifeminista.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/how-can-women-make-the-rules.pdf Page 10
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 05:53 PM
0

Is “his” anger justified. Yes. Anger happens. Dissatisfaction happens. I’m angry right now replying to this. Is it justified? Yes. Because you ask people on the internet instead of talking to your boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/19 05:45 PM
2

What has he got to say about this? How do you know he is taking you for granted? What do you mean by. “Putting your best foot forward?”
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/19 04:41 PM
4

You miss all the shots you don’t take.
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 04:36 PM
10

Yes. Judge Jury and executioner. http://www.revolucionantifeminista.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/how-can-women-make-the-rules.pdf
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 04:29 PM
3

Emotions are contagious. In general the saying goes: “Shared joy is double the joy. Shared sorrow is half the sorrow.” However you crying doesn’t actually share anything. Nothing he could do anything with. Except soaking it up. Then you may feel good, but he feels bad. Not sure what the right answer is for you. For me meditation has been the solution. Essentially drowning all the sorrow by connecting my spiritual heart to the source of infinite love. In theory just crying on your own is enough. …
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/19 03:35 PM
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http://www.revolucionantifeminista.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/how-can-women-make-the-rules.pdf Nuff said
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 12:40 PM
5

First step would be to not call it alpha widowed. What has likely happened is some Stockholm Syndrome. You have gotten used to being with him. Now there’s a gap. In the shape of him. Of course nobody else would fit. What except the sex and his body are you missing?
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/19 11:02 PM
2

It’s not so much a belief. At this point I’m sure. http://www.padmacahaya.org/our-heart/attaining-yoga YMMV
/r/MGTOW28/04/19 10:08 PM
2

http://www.revolucionantifeminista.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/how-can-women-make-the-rules.pdf
/r/MGTOW28/04/19 07:37 PM
1

Because http://www.revolucionantifeminista.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/how-can-women-make-the-rules.pdf Women make the rules of engagement.
/r/MGTOW28/04/19 07:35 PM
3

Human beings are not rational creatures. That is why thinking will not get you there.
/r/MGTOW28/04/19 07:06 PM
2

Yeah. I have yet to see one.
/r/MGTOW28/04/19 07:02 PM
6

Could just be „normal“ smart phone addiction.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/19 04:09 PM
10

Same goes for men. They would feel like this too.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/19 04:08 PM
2

TRP is a concept. There’s multiple layers/pills. I stopped counting at layer six.
/r/MGTOW28/04/19 02:46 PM
0

Use your advanced weapons knowledge and get revenge.
/r/MGTOW28/04/19 02:31 PM
0

This is the reason why no DEER. Didn’t even know that term beforehand. I know making up your own mind and experience is hard. And those kinds of lists promise you results without having to have gained experience first hand. But boy makes that hard to disagree with you. As your opinions are based on “book” reading and heresay. There’s several levels of being red pilled. You kind of described the very first level. It’s actually close to being PUA material. And I wouldn’t consider PUA to be red pil…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/19 09:36 AM
2

Oops 😬 apologies
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 07:36 PM
2

And that’s exactly the kind of justification. (The ends justifying the means) “Need to” I do give you the young families. But bunching them together with the military is just wrong. Emotions don’t need to be displayed. Emotions are a warning sign. One of my acquaintances has a similar behaviour to your past “men”. However he is also very productive just like your “new” man. It looks like you have chosen the same type of man again, just this time he is better at repressing his anger. The thing wi…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 06:11 PM
1

Sounds too good to be true. Even temper is nice. Stuffing down emotions however is not. Looks like he is okay with ignoring his own biological limits. That’s okay when you are younger. But will bite you in the ass when older. Well keep us posted on how it goes.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 12:27 PM
4

Can confirm. Stuff like this actually happens. Same here. Wouldn’t let me sleep otherwise.
/r/MGTOW26/04/19 05:40 PM
1

Declining sex is rape - perfect 👌
/r/MGTOW26/04/19 04:53 PM
1

Okay the original question was. How do I attract the man I need. Need for what? Why are men even attracted to women? Just for kicks? May it be related to reproduction? The only difference between dropping a handkerchief and letting your butt turn red as a baboon is the time delay between signaling that you are ready for doing the thing and actually doing the thing. Whereas with baboons it’s a sign of I’m ready now, let’s do it, the handkerchief is more of a. You look interesting, let’s see where…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 01:50 PM
5

Libido is related to stress. It’s a multifaceted issue. However being relaxed and in the mood helps a lot. What works for me is if I do something good and a/the woman notices it and somehow her response makes me feel grateful and wanting to donate my seeds to her. So there’s the element of personal pride. Physical proximity should also help. Sitting next to a woman 👩 vs. opposite of her always works. Essentially letting your bodies do their thing while you pretend nothing is happening. Okay I‘ll…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 12:54 PM
-1

But even the butt of pavian females turns red when in heat. I’m aware of the female initiating the mating ritual. I just don’t like the biological imperative of me then having to react to this as if it was my own original idea.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 07:45 PM
6

You come across as pretty brainy. Meaning forced. Different women send out different “vibes”. Human beings have mirror Neurons. Meaning. If a man, aka. I, looks at you and I feel stiff and tense, that’s not what I want to happen when interacting with another human being. A good tool for you could be OpenHeart meditation. The focus there is to smile and be relaxed and touch your heart 💓
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 09:51 AM
-1

The “problem” with these “invite” signals for me is that it’s a. Hey I would like you to make the effort to approach and talk to me. Vs. Just you know. Approaching me and talking to me.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 09:42 AM
6

Not a feminine I am. My two cents. Dress for the occasion. It helps if you are somewhat looking forward to it. Men invented uniforms and suits to take care of this. Get yourself a “uniform” or template that you are happy with and use that. You could then call that your personal style for example. In continental Western Europe women seem to be doing exactly this. They have some kind of building blocks and they just use those. Because women before them were using those. And guess what. It just wor…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 06:10 AM
6

Women were always looking for the “better” men.
/r/MGTOW24/04/19 04:38 PM
1

The Mongol
/r/MGTOW24/04/19 03:14 PM
6

Welcome to the world of women. Alpha female looses son. Alpha female no likey. Alpha female throw down the purse 👜 of war. You defending your man from his mother —> that’s his job Has Mr. right extended his middle finger yet? It’s his family.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 11:05 AM
19

At first I thought this reply was to strong. After seeing the dress, I don’t know what to say. Any longer and you are sweeping the floor with it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 09:45 PM
1

How do you restore your trust? By trusting in something that won’t betray you.
/r/MGTOW23/04/19 07:04 PM
2

The thing is your happiness is your job and his happiness is his job. Just mentioning that you would be happy to seen him there implies you being unhappy if he isn’t. Which should not be the case. It’s a well known tactic to use emotions as leverage. That’s why they exist. However emotions aren’t reasonable per se. There wasn’t any need for him to be there in order for you to succeed. So reasonably he didn’t need to be there. It was “just” for you to feel good about your boyfriend being there. Y…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 06:42 PM
1

To me it sounds like you strong armed him into coming. He didn’t really want to, but also didn’t want to hurt your feelings by saying no but also doesn’t want to hurt his own feelings/pride by showing up to something he doesn’t feel like going to. You definitely should bring it up with him, just consider him having feelings too. And they do sometimes contradict logic or emotions. Plus yes. The whole sex thing is in the mix also. (You could now have hot makeup sex.)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 02:20 PM
2

3 questions 3 answers Your reply seems reasonable to me. Being able to disclose things depends on many factors. But see 1. I can’t tell why not. See 2. Essentially feeling like a “captain” requires trust in oneself by oneself and by the “crew”. You can only influence the second part.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 12:46 PM
5

Looks artificial. Not interested.
/r/MGTOW22/04/19 09:54 PM
1

Let me know if you have any questions. 👊🏻
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/19 06:08 PM
5

If you don’t feel comfortable - you don’t need to stay in a situation.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/19 04:54 PM
0

Hang around in bars where you can meet sailors and captains? Get your own boat and join a regatta? This in general sounds like it a pretty specific requirement. Nothing wrong with that. It just makes things harder than they need to be. But let us know if you found one!
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/19 04:47 PM
1

The root cause seems to be some pressure that you are venting. Addressing that pressure would be the right thing to do. I have had good experience in general by opening my heart. Which results in me feeling more content and loved. Over the last year I have practiced this form of meditation together with my parents twice a week also. Which has improved my relationship with them massively. The “results” are me less being annoyed by things and as a result less of a need to process those things. Thi…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/19 04:42 PM
3

That essentially. Or in other words. Status
/r/MGTOW22/04/19 03:36 PM
1

The simple answer is. The meaning of life is to be alive. The more complicated answer is what you have discovered already. This existence is existing for a reason. And yes not all thoughts or things going on with you are under your voluntary control. Have a look at those pages. Just reading them though is not enough. In order to trust that this is the case you need to actually experience it first hand for yourself. http://www.padmacahaya.org/our-heart/spiritual-journey
/r/MGTOW22/04/19 02:46 PM
1

The rest?
/r/MGTOW22/04/19 02:34 PM
1

Sounds good. Thanks also.😎 Just make sure that you don’t put too much effort/work into being effortless/carefree. Here’s a demonstration on how easy it is/can be. https://youtu.be/oB-48g6nuxw
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/19 08:28 AM
1

Looks like you were looking for love there for a second. ;) What OpenHeart Meditation has allowed me to feel. It is just that. Being loved. Unconditionally. Does that make me think I can offer more in a relationship than before? Not yet. But at work I can now see what Irmansayah tries to describe there (in the video below. The lack of burdens and second guessing is amazing. Makes me more productive and also seems to be improving the relationships with my colleagues and also boss(es). It’s not a …
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 12:31 PM
0

Well yeah. Try moving to another more compatible town then.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 02:36 PM
0

It’s just an exclamation mark! Calm … down … FYI the below is just my opinion/theory I think the issue is that women can verbalise their feelings easier than men. And as a result they don’t notice the effects their own “expressions” may have on men. Because men don’t verbalise their feelings as they go along. They act them out. Which to women looks emotionally “immature”. Because if you can talk about your feelings or express them then you automatically are “mature”.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 02:24 PM
1

Right. Sounds boring. How about companionship? Shared interests? Fun?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 02:17 PM
1

I found the emotional mature woman!
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 02:14 PM
0

Without actually knowing you I cannot comment any further. What do you think a “good wife” is supposed to be? Maybe there’s some mismatch there.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 02:02 PM
0

Yeah something like this. The problem is. Usually. When I need compassion most. I don’t have energy myself. So an energetic person would be helpful. But that’s just me. Low energy people just like lazy employees need to be efficient/effective at what they do in order to be able to get away with it. (Based on a Bill Gates quote.) https://www.telegraph.co.uk/money/consumer-affairs/lazy-procrastinating-could-make-wildly-successful/
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 01:59 PM
2

You are not supposed to hide it. I just have a dejavu to my own experience where one persons needs seem less valid due to not obviously being handicapped. I personally am also “handicapped” and chose not to disclose this because I don’t want blanko special treatment. Plus it puts the focus on the negatives. I have discovered that your biggest strength can also be your biggest weakness and vice versa. For example a sprinter vs. a marathon runner. IMO what is important is chemistry. But you don’t …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 01:44 PM
1

She clearly says that she has low energy. I have a hard time translating that into a high rmv. Let me rephrase that. Stop focusing on the downside. Find out what’s good about it. And “sell” that. Especially to yourself. PS: if you can’t tell. My strength is being able to be blunt
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 01:34 PM
3

I think one issue at hand it women’s capability to verbalise and rationalise their emotions. For men (me anyways) emotions are visceral and “real”. Thoughts 💭 however are abstract. Now if you have the brain wiring to abstract emotions. Then they are less real and more of another sensation or opinion. See this video for reference https://youtu.be/yhwO8u4sZ-8
/r/MGTOW19/04/19 11:46 AM
3

It’s not impossible. However you need to be aware of your SMV and adjust your expectations accordingly. A wife I know is in the same boat but also not a SAHM. I personally don’t know what the husband sees in her. I also have never asked. However they do have a daughter and are “working” on another one. Key is maybe to not be “upfront” about it. Otherwise it may sound like an excuse for failure or wanting special treatment. I’d say bring it up when it is relevant. I.e. I need a break because....
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 10:34 AM
1

Before you can assert yourself or stand your ground you need to have a ground to stand on. Or in other words a position. First you need to know who you are and what you want. Only then you can assert who you are. Meditation can help in getting to know the real you. For me open-heart meditation has helped.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/19 10:11 PM
1

Sounds a bit like what I in quotes have. Something like information overload in the moment. But no built in filter system and no building consolidation system.
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 10:09 PM
7

https://conniezweig.com/booksvideos/meeting-the-shadow/ That’s more about boundaries inside yourself. Know the enemy and know yourself; in a hundred battles you will never be in peril. When you are ignorant of the enemy, but know yourself, your chances of winning or losing are equal. If ignorant both of your enemy and yourself, you are certain in every battle to be in peril. Sun Tzu, The Art of War That book (The art of war) is also about boundaries, or lack thereof. And how to defend them. Mayb…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/19 05:11 PM
1

A gentleman is a man that’s only rude on purpose. ;)
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 02:44 PM
1

You are humble bragging right? One sign of intelligence is to forget irrelevant information. I‘m similar. If I need to I can „rewind“ in my head. But usually knowing where things are written is enough. Intelligence is processing speed and working memory.
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 01:28 PM
1

I’m desperate but don’t like it when he is desperate. What am I doing wrong?
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 07:35 PM
7

Should you help - yes - if she asked for your help. Otherwise you aren’t helping but interfering. You could talk to her and see what her general attitude towards this issue is. Maybe she’s fine with just lusting after those guys.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/19 12:37 PM
7

There was a post just like this a couple of days/weeks ago.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 08:22 PM
13

No risk no fun. Cycling on the motorway should do it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 08:20 PM
1

What exactly are you looking for? What’s the problem you are trying to solve?
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 08:17 PM
1

Before you proceed. Make sure you have read the red queen. https://youtu.be/AI36myj61J8
/r/MGTOW15/04/19 01:16 PM
2

Selling yourself (your body) under a new label.
/r/MGTOW14/04/19 04:49 PM
0

Destruction 100
/r/MGTOW13/04/19 11:57 AM
1

Yes, probably not selflessly. But yes. And I didn’t ask for it either.
/r/MGTOW12/04/19 07:00 PM
1

Love does exist. But it’s very subtle a sensation. Hard to not miss. I do know how it really feels now. But still other things are exciting and parts of me do want to play with fire. Just for the heck of it.
/r/MGTOW12/04/19 05:14 PM
3

I guess then go to male empowerment. GTOW is just that. Kinda like anarchy.
/r/MGTOW12/04/19 01:56 PM
1

No they aren’t. But OP doesn’t want to be a cat lady either.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/19 01:50 PM
1

Funny enough I just discovered one! https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/bc40m3/disillusioned_with_womanhood/
/r/MGTOW212/04/19 08:57 AM
1

Welcome to WGTOW! Don’t worry men have a “raw deal” also. They actually have the same problems you described above as being solely your own as a woman. Good at least we are getting somewhere here. On the “I’m just a piece of meat” well yes you are. #Metoo as well. Deal with it. Men’s meat is expected to work their asses off aka. being a workhorse. Women’s meat is to provide a reason to work your ass of. Which is kids. Which you haven’t mentioned in your post at all. My opinion here is no kids no…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/19 08:43 AM
1

My mother once phrased it something like this. A woman wants someone to bounce off of. The topic was dancing and how men lead which is hard and women follow which is easy. Because you don’t have to pay attention much to somebody else. It’s almost automatic or like being remote controlled. Some women actually tried leading and noticed how hard it was. Anyway. Since you speak your mind and are not easily swayed you are like a (her) rock. Or a pole to dance around. Whatever floats your boat.
/r/MGTOW211/04/19 12:54 PM
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Just a comment on the „they had no choice“. It used to be customary to ask Goya daughters had. So yes while that looks like she has no choice, he doesn’t either really. If the parents (who have a bit mor experience than the young ones) decline. That’s that no choice there. Arranged marriages are yet another matter. Having choice sounds good until you realise as you pointed out, that you have no idea what you want or need or even what’s available. Societal customs have evolved so the inexperience…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/19 10:42 AM
-1

If you were a man I’d say you had “oneitis”. You aren’t but it sounds a lot like you like him because he is a known “quantity” and other are a risk. I could be wrong though. You are who you are and if there are things about you he doesn’t like/can’t live with. Than that’s that. And vice versa. At 29 the “wall” is close for you also and the older you get the more set in your ways you and he are. Working in the same company doesn’t help either. (Don’t shit where you eat.) Essentially it looks like…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 05:25 PM
7

Jepp. I remember deciding to stay with a childlike outlook in my late twenties also. Did not make it though. Because back then I didn’t know what how and why. Now I know and see you are talking about feeling. And that’s the key. It’s not a thought but a feeling thing. This feeling is what is called your heart attitude. The jaded and bitter stuff are essentially things that weigh your heart down. It’s a natural process but there is a cleaner/solvent available. You could essentially call the negat…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 10:26 AM
1

Okay you are mixing two terms. Three actually. Emotions Feeling Connection Since everything is connected anyways you don’t need to worry that you two aren’t connected. That was the easy part. Emotions are what sets you - yes you! - in motion. Kind of like alarm 🚨 bells. Emotions would be essentially fear, anger, disgust and also excitement. All of those are an incentive for you to move about in certain ways. Emotions can be contagious - that’s where mass panics come from. Not pretty. Feeling is …
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 08:44 AM
1

Try this video: https://youtu.be/p1Ahy6m4wHM
/r/MGTOW209/04/19 08:37 AM
1

That’s not predicting the future. I bet you somewhere on planet earth it is raining right now! Yes things move up and down. And around. The thing is. You can only act in the here and now.
/r/MGTOW08/04/19 11:29 PM
2

A saying my father likes to say: “Trust nobody, only yourself but not always.”
/r/MGTOW08/04/19 05:21 PM
1

German proverb:“ Beim Geld hört die Freundschaft auf.“ At the money friendship ends.
/r/MGTOW08/04/19 05:18 PM
1

Aromantic aka. oldschool. Romanticism has s an actual time period in our history 18:00-18:50 before that the world was different. It loosely coincides with the Industrial revolution. You know steam engines and automatic looms.
/r/MGTOW08/04/19 04:05 PM
1

You have no idea what forces are at play. Your fault? 😂I think you overestimate your own power. Maybe have a read through: The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature : Geoffrey Miller
/r/MGTOW08/04/19 03:37 PM
1

You have no idea what forces are at play. Your fault? 😂I think you overestimate your own power. Maybe have a read through: The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature : Geoffrey Miller
/r/MGTOW08/04/19 03:34 PM
1

Before others respect you, or you can command respect, you need to first respect yourself. It always helps to know why you respect yourself and your boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/19 02:46 PM
1

1st it will happen differently and 2nd than you think There’s lots of stuff happening simultaneously - trying to predict the future is pretty much impossible. I have said it before. Monks living in monasteries (being scholars and keepers of the knowledge) aren’t a new thing. They are also tax and or donations supported or by selling their knowledge. Where do you think the MGTOW monk mode moniker came from?
/r/MGTOW08/04/19 02:25 PM
1

Yeah another one of those instances.
/r/MGTOW08/04/19 11:07 AM
5

You want commitment fun and free spirit. You are half introvert and half extrovert. „Power is nothing without control“ Just popped into my head. That is from a tyre commercial from years ago. Another one is always with patience and then with a jolt. The second one is what my father used to say. Free spirited is just a translation off I don’t know what I am and what I want. I would say start there and the rest will fall into place.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/19 08:13 AM
1

MGTOW is just an abbreviation. A collection of observations. What you do with them is up to you.
/r/MGTOW205/04/19 07:43 PM
1

Yes it is a good (perfect) simulation. The whole alone thing is true to a point. But you never are on your own. Unless you really want to be.
/r/MGTOW205/04/19 07:42 PM
-7

LOL I don’t agree 100% but I like the do something nice without expecting a return. What stood out for me in the OP is the “I want to see you.” It sounds a bit like a summons for a servant. Would you like to meet or can you meet or do you have time to meet would be a bit less about what you want.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/19 08:03 PM
1

What else are they supposed to bring? Also shit test and you are out? Men shit(test) each other all the time. The only difference is - with women it’s not for shits and giggles.
/r/MGTOW04/04/19 04:30 PM
1

Found it already thanks 🙏 May Love find you too!
/r/MGTOW04/04/19 03:15 PM
0

So what’s your beyond then? Ignoring your bodily needs?
/r/MGTOW04/04/19 02:52 PM
1

People do that with corporations all the time ;) Me too by the way. So yeah. Emotions exist. Feeling exists. Reality exists. I exist. Change exists. Love exists.
/r/MGTOW04/04/19 02:51 PM
1

1st you are talking about the future which nobody can predict 2nd exceptions validate the rules Why? There’s always a situation that you haven’t encountered yet. Where your current rules don’t apply. Being inflexible is not a virtue.
/r/MGTOW04/04/19 02:49 PM
1

Just to repeat myself. Marriage used to be about children. Not necessarily the parents. And yes it also used to be an economic transaction. Which it still is.
/r/MGTOW04/04/19 02:45 PM
-1

Never say never
/r/MGTOW04/04/19 02:37 PM
1

I know what you mean. But you said you laugh at divorce. Why? You won’t allow it?
/r/MGTOW04/04/19 02:18 PM
1

Monogamy - sleep with your partner Polygamy - sleep with more than one partner Hypergamy - sleep with more than more than one partner bonus points if you don’t sleep with your actual partner but everyone else Hyper just means excessive. The way you describe it you are looking for a cave man. Great stuff. There’s what’s good for you and there’s what you “like”. They aren’t always the same thing. You may have a lack that the type you like happens to fill but all around “your type” may just be as d…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/19 09:05 AM
8

Those suggestions should come from your boy”friend”/lover/mate/significant other/partner/man. Be more independent for me is code for. Don’t make me think for you and then blame me for the results. A good start would be to instead of just watching TV to proactively take care of things that you can take care of. Jordan Peterson’s 12 Rules for life is being quoted with. Go clean up your room.Then you are already contributing a lot. My favourite is the tip of making your bed in the morning. It’s an …
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/19 07:29 AM
0

Okay just two comments: alpha refers to a leader (making the rules) criminals are MGTOW and making their own rules Everyone abiding by some rules others than the laws of physics by that definition are “betas”. The idea of status with women is. They Test if you will stand up to them or if you are afraid of repercussions if you do so. If you are. Then you aren’t “alpha” but somebody else is. Funny thing is. Even kings have to follow rules. So they would not be alpha either. ;)
/r/MGTOW03/04/19 07:52 PM
2

The only thing that I see here is: a) people don’t change (much) - their character(istics) and yours also largely remain the same Yes sunk cost fallacy. But also both of you seem to do (what I’m good at also) wait it out. And only if things become insufferable do something about it. In your post you only showed us your good sides up to that pivotal point. I highly doubt that you just became that way. Even though stressful situations can lead to this. My question would be. Do you guys have chemis…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/19 11:33 AM
1

It should not change. It took me a while though to find my actual type. The tests can only help so much. You actually need to understand the behaviour patterns. You move to a “new” you depending on if you are stressed/normal/relaxed. With the wings. Yes you can have two. If you take the above into account you can have up to six. Yes that means you can essentially cover the whole spectrum depending on where you are at 3+6=9. But your “core” is set in early childhood. I hope that helped. NI over a…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 11:58 PM
5

LOL 😂None of the types is nice. They all have different strengths. ENFJ are good at manipulating social situations.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 11:53 PM
3

You can be though.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 11:51 PM
4

INFJ 6w75sx go knock yourself out. FYI INTP and INFP are about as opposite of each other as it gets. A good indicator of TI (INTP) is when you need time to think before speaking. TE (INFP) is when you think while speaking/you can’t think without speaking.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 11:50 PM
2

Feminine clothing - is usually delicate - soft to the skin - flowing flowy - has floral patterns on it - should have bright colours depending on your type —> there’s spring, winter, summer and fall types all with their own colour schemes to match - should have more than one colour to it But don’t let that fool you. People (men) are not talking to your clothes. But it’s a start at least. The next thing would be you being as flowy/responsive as your clothing. PS: Look at what other “feminine” wome…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 11:16 PM
2

a) that depends on the metric b) that depends on the metric
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/19 11:06 PM
1

Without thinking a lot my reply would be: In the hunter and gatherer days, women would be the gatherers. Gathering food honey herbs etc. is less energy intensive than hunting down a wild animal or maybe even fishing (with a boat). Gathering is essentially collecting energy from your environment. Hunting is gathering energy after expending a lot of energy. As a result men have the “empty” box in their head, where they can do nothing (while waiting for prey to pass by). Whereas for women there’s a…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 05:36 PM
1

The one with the respect first and love later, doesn’t compute for me. Respect has to be earned always. Love cannot be earned. That doesn’t mean you go out of your way to be disrespectful to everyone whom you don’t respect. But it’s more of an emotional bank account thing. If people don’t pay in, there’s nothing for them to withdraw. Trust would IMO be the next level after respect. On a more spiritual note. Everyone is loved unconditionally already. The fact that your father chose to also love y…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 05:21 PM
1

Also son - how old are you my son? X)
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 12:27 PM
1

Exactly. And I and neither the op mentioned sexual anywhere.
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 12:18 PM
18

Too much effort
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 12:22 AM
1

It’s less diabolical than that actually. Women are looking for providers Men have an incentive to pretend to be a provider Women need to test (constantly) if he really is one Men adapted their emotional makeup to be one despite women not believing them —> men are what they are and are not pretending what they are, because that’s the only way to not get caught There’s a reverse test obviously. Which is. Hey as long as I pass all your tests you should encourage and reward me for it.
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 11:57 PM
1

Sure. If you are looking for the strongest one, then that’s a valid strategy.
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 11:52 PM
3

Anecdotal evidence seems to support that.
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 10:50 PM
1

Sure thing. All line up to be shot please!
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 03:51 PM
1

Sorry. Am not a lady ma’am. You can call me person though. Selling yourself short? You think you are. But how would you calculate that? Boredom? He has a passionate side. But not with you. a) either he learned his lesson or b) you aren’t passionate yourself Working hard does require passion as well. So maybe he is just directing it elsewhere. You said you aren’t nagging. But have you brought it up at all? You know, because you are passionate about this relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 03:01 PM
2

Interesting
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 06:36 PM
2

You had to be on guard in the past too. The only difference is that we are soo save these days we forget.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 06:34 PM
1

Chopping your legs off has health benefits too. You can’t step into any rusty nails this way!
/r/MGTOW231/03/19 05:58 PM
1

Thanks 🙏
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/19 05:50 PM
-8

Bullshit - the good old days and the even better more olden days - the savages are the noblest!
/r/MGTOW30/03/19 08:10 PM
0

I actually have an opinion on this one. For me wearing dress shirts was nothing unusual in the office. Even though they were usually covered with a cardigan etc. T-shirts would have been too casual for me. Aka. not knowing how to dress well aka. uncivilised. Lately after switching to hoodies only as my main go to dress people in shirts to me look like they are wearing costumes in a theatre. Which they are. Shirts 👔 do serve a certain purpose and do have utility. But it depends on how and why you…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 03:09 PM
2

Habe you not learned anything? You are the provider! Your job is to provide the fun also. She ist there to be made fun of - by you - the fun provider.
/r/MGTOW30/03/19 01:31 PM
0

Ok - a this is true but b just like with every energy exchange there must be a sink hole 🕳 for the water/energy to flow in into the first place. Otherwise it would stay where it was or go elsewhere. Simple physics really. Does the mountain rape the ocean because the river flows downhill? Does the sky rape the mountain because it rains down on it? Does the ocean rape the sky because it sends water vapour upwards? Is the sun raping everybody because it provides energy for all of this?
/r/MGTOW30/03/19 10:22 AM
2

It may be solipsistic. To me it looks more like the subconscious doing the driving (as it always does) and her conscious correctly reporting that it had no real say in this in the first place. Men seem to be the other way around. Thinking they are in control. Meanwhile they are just acting on instinct. You may recall the effect of a woman you dig, on yourself. You don’t go through a checklist to validate if you do or don’t dig her. You notice her and done. The checklists were done for you by you…
/r/MGTOW30/03/19 08:11 AM
3

Exactly. You waste energy by not looking.
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 08:04 PM
2

Blaming circumstances and everyone else.
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 07:26 PM
2

I personally only think Superman has his shit together. Unless kryptonite of course.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 11:48 AM
12

Truth is stranger than fiction. Because it doesn’t have to make sense.
/r/MGTOW28/03/19 08:27 PM
8

Attraction is not a choice just like being hungry isn’t. With that of the table. Men do actually think with their brain. I know that may be hard to observe for a woman if all you notice are the guys that approach you because their sex drive made them turn off their brain in your presence. May just be me though ;) Anyway. Once your presence no longer runs interference on his brain he will use it (if he knows how to anyway). And then the saying just popped into my head: The first impression counts…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 08:14 PM
0

Two comments: 1. Following/using your heart doesn’t lead to rash decisions. Using your emotions does. 2. I am not religious or „believe“ in god but I do know instead of believe. That it exists. Through using personal experience. (Via my heart) Since you believe in god and want to involve god you need to somehow let yourself be guided. The guidance works via feelings. As mentioned above emotions are the ones that set you in motion. Feelings however are less of a drive and more of a perception. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 06:49 PM
1

There was a Joe Rogan episode where the woman essentially said that there needs to be at least one thing where he is better than her and she can look up to him. So you may need to ask what your mother admires. It certainly is a form of status of you are better at not getting weak knees in front of her compared to other men. Aka. you can be authentic in front of her and she cannot trick you with her beauty etc.
/r/MGTOW228/03/19 03:57 PM
2

Confidence and attractiveness I cannot say they are not related - even though in theory you should able to just be yourself and do whatever you want despite others and your own opinions on yourself. For me it helped to realise that I have different parts each with their own agenda. Maybe have a look at the enneagram - it helps in understanding that you are a different you when being stressed. The solution then would be to make sure don’t feel the need to eat your emotions. (It’s a well establish…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/19 11:36 PM
4

In German you are pronounced man and woman when you marry. Then you are married-man and married-woman. The English husband relates to animal husbandry. So it’s like he is the shepherd/rancher and she is the/a woman 👩 doing womanly things. Update: Husband actually means master of the house 😊 https://www.google.ie/search?q=husband+etymology
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/19 05:55 PM
6

Wife is another word for woman 👩 of course it sounds better than my girl(friend). One is an actual contract (marriage) the other “thing” is just a temporal “fling” thing. Reference: https://www.google.ie/search?q=wife+etymology&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=de-ie&client=safari Weib means woman in German. These days it’s however mostly used in a derogatory or demeaning fashion.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/19 12:30 PM
8

A long list of adjectives is in this video: https://youtu.be/vzYzFxw8AMU For me the feminine is receptive but not a pushover either. Teal mentions in the video heart centred authenticity. “Living from the heart and living with integrity.” What she doesn’t mention is how to get there. Touching your heart and smiling to it while completely relaxing 😎 is the key. That automatically softens you and makes you (me) less reactive . That way you can choose your response to an emotional situation vs. bei…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 10:00 PM
1

Not exactly sure. Just my perspective on AWALT. She didn’t seem to take him seriously at all.
/r/MGTOW225/03/19 06:50 PM
6

It’s like a game. If it’s too easy you get bored. So no matter how much you have done. It’s never enough.
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 04:35 PM
1

Well. With bears men do go their own way. There’s no society. Why would you need one? Oh right kids. It takes a village to raise a child.
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 04:18 PM
1

That’s where the saying: „men think with their penis“ comes from. Lust is not love. Know the difference!
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 04:05 PM
3

The problem these days is not rights. But as you pointed out accountability aka. responsibility. With great power (rights) comes great responsibility.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/19 09:28 PM
3

We have beards! 🧔
/r/MGTOW24/03/19 02:03 PM
28

I would like to add that “having your shit together” is just another fantasy to be chasing. Humility would be a better indicator for both sexes. Nobody has their shit together. The earlier you realise that. The earlier you can relax and make sure you give others the opportunity to do so as well. Actionable advice: Stay in the moment. Realise that you are loved already by opening your heart and be receptive to the love. Touching your heart (chest) while smiling will help you accomplish that. 😁💓👋
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/19 07:31 AM
2

Yepp. This trend has been going on for a while. Mostly underhandedly. But lately it’s so extreme. That even you guys seem to notice. In the “olden” days it was a woman’s prerogative to change her mind. Aka. break promises, Plus I have grown up with constant “backhanded” social commentary on how men are useless at house chores. There was even a recent post here where the wife said she would not want to eat from a plate her husband cleaned. What’s different now is that on top of the men are bad at…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 05:31 PM
10

The whole premise was/is the male energy provides and the female energy receives. If the receiver is not grateful for what receiving. Then providing is no fun. It works both ways. Men and women are better at providing different kinds of services. On average.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 04:50 PM
8

A good person to ask this question is the one you are trying to help. Communication is key.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/19 11:41 PM
1

Yes it’s called living in the moment.
/r/MGTOW18/03/19 05:49 PM
0

Men are no joke either.
/r/MGTOW18/03/19 05:47 PM
1

You made „a move“. That’s not your job. Your job is to ignore the sexual tension. And pretend nothing is going on.
/r/MGTOW18/03/19 05:45 PM
1

Unless of course you are born in Germany or England or Russia or other countries which are not Catholic .
/r/MGTOW216/03/19 07:51 AM
1

Okay - pretty good. There’s one to many and many to one interactions too. I have never heard the term Vatican socialism before. But it’s a good description of the idea or system. What’s your involvement with the Vatican? Why did you bring up that topic?
/r/MGTOW214/03/19 11:07 PM
1

There are many more layers to this onion. But that certainly is one of them that you (I) usually are (am) only aware of when being alone. Once other people are on stage other parts of my mind take over.
/r/MGTOW214/03/19 05:59 PM
1

There is no “we”. Just groups of individuals.
/r/MGTOW214/03/19 05:56 PM
1

Wow. If I hadn’t experienced illogical female violence myself I would say. Hey I would have seen that one coming. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MGTOW12/03/19 07:57 AM
1

Good album. Thanks for sharing
/r/MGTOW12/03/19 07:52 AM
5

What are you on about. There is no corner. And there is no paint. And also I did not do the painting. It’s your fault!
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 11:51 PM
1

Apocalypse now! It’s unreal how logic stops existing once a woman enters the room or scene. It’s just everyone on his own. And she is like. Divide et. Impera. (Divide and conquer)
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 11:46 PM
14

(Kidding) Don’t you see the privilege? They got a monument erected! in their name. None for the women though. That’s not fair.
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 10:01 PM
1

In Germany we have a saying. Hart aber herzlich. Which roughly translates to firm but from the heart.
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 09:57 PM
2

It’s not like men don’t go to Southeast Asia for that same reason. They usually have to pay for it though.
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 09:54 PM
1

On the transactional side. Human life in general is pretty transactional. Including marriage and endowments etc. It’s just since the 1800 century when we started romanticising sex. It’s not the same as love.
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 12:24 AM
1

Yeah I was more talking about kings and Ghengis. I.e. if I fight back and scream and everyone else’s too afraid to do anything about it. Then yeah.
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 12:20 AM
2

If you are unemotional you are more cunning. Aka. More competitive.
/r/MGTOW09/03/19 07:23 PM
2

You forgot that everything is a power play.
/r/MGTOW09/03/19 07:21 PM
2

Okay. Yes that seems paradox. The idea is or at least was. That if your status as a man is that high, that you can get away with it. Then it’s worth it for the woman. In theory anyway. Just because you get raped doesn’t mean you get child support. But at least competitive genes.
/r/MGTOW08/03/19 11:38 PM
1

Introducing another layer of red pill beyond red pill is not making sense. Otherwise the red pill would be blue or purple. At that point I could call myself love pilled as I reject the importance of any of the material matters as subsidiary to being more in love and being loved by True Source. So yeah take that you!
/r/MGTOW208/03/19 09:09 PM
6

They must be above your level and undetectable by you.
/r/MGTOW07/03/19 04:05 PM
1

Yeah it’s a brain teaser. Is it really sexist though? Or are women just better at looking innocent 😇
/r/MGTOW07/03/19 03:56 PM
2

It’s no longer cheating if he is okay with it.
/r/MGTOW07/03/19 03:26 PM
1

That and his Stanford speech kind of sum it up.
/r/MGTOW207/03/19 12:03 PM
8

Yeah no. The mechanics are wrong. The white stuff usually comes out of another orifice.
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 08:52 PM
1

For me it started way earlier. So no. Red pill is about information. Knowledge is power. Use it!
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 08:08 PM
7

Depending on how spiritual you are. Meditation can help. Emotions are there to make you motion aka. move. if you block them you will get sick eventually as you are literally stopping you body from fight or flight.
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 08:01 PM
2

Trade jobs are in demand. Because no man or woman wants to do them no more.
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 07:54 PM
2

ERROR - does not compute Are you meaning you mastered the art of small talk or what?
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 07:52 PM
1

The technical term for this is hybris. The word is Ancient Greek. Showing that loosing touch with reality of s not a new phenomenon.
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 06:02 PM
1

Breaking which cycle exactly? Reproduction without women?
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 04:49 PM
1

There’s a bit more nuance to this of course. As women who are neurotic can’t help it and just are that way. Unless of course they would allow themselves to be loved. But yeah I agree physical abuse is not okay. A slap in the face neither. Even though that’s her initiating physical contact in some way.
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 08:39 AM
4

Same with Apple in the UK 🇬🇧
/r/MGTOW05/03/19 07:55 PM
3

LOL 😂
/r/MGTOW05/03/19 05:53 PM
1

Not sure what your definition of narcissistic is. Sounds a lot like caring about yourself only. Not exactly going your own way. But not really blue pill either. I guess my angle is he went his own way and it worked out. Also check his issues with his first wife/girlfriend. Sounds a lot like GYOW to me.
/r/MGTOW205/03/19 05:49 PM
1

Thanks for all the down votes. But so far we only have heard from her. So it could also be made up.
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 09:02 PM
1

It’s about being bored. She already is kinda safe these days. Plus men play with technology and women play with people. I wonder how long you would be playing a game if you were always winning and aren’t challenged at all.
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 06:12 PM
-5

Not sure if that was rape or not. Could just be playing hard to get. Still a bit bold and reckless.
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 05:53 PM
2

Don’t be emotional …
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 05:42 PM
3

That’s the thread that got me to understand the “cartel” quote from the other post earlier. Essentially they are checking with their other cartel members on what the agreed on terms are. To make sure they don’t go against the trust. (trust as in anti trust) That’s also why they often use the “we” vs the I because it looks like everyone is in on it even though not really everyone really is.
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 03:24 PM
16

That’s what a lack of boundaries looks like.
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 01:28 PM
1

„Act as a cartel“ yep 👍
/r/MGTOW204/03/19 10:36 AM
1

The only way to get others to respect you is to actually respect yourself.
/r/MGTOW204/03/19 10:15 AM
1

Picking up is a double entendre here. You pick up passengers that happen to be women.
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 04:44 PM
4

On the Internet no one knows you are a dog. 🐕 It’s simple. These days all of the good old societal rules have been smashed and been replaced by more rules about everyone can do whatever they want but not really.
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 04:28 PM
1

Depression helps a lot! After starting with a new meditation of late my drive has returned though stronger than ever. But! Since it’s a heart based meditation it fills me with actual love. So while the sex drive aka. heat seeking missile still exists and works. It’s now easier than ever for me to be in the presence of women and not give a shit. Unless of course if they are Italian. Those girls are a dangerous mix of Charme and styling skills.
/r/MGTOW27/02/19 10:46 PM
0

So they aren’t allowed to go their own way and be MRA? Wow. /r/gatekeeping
/r/MGTOW27/02/19 10:24 PM
10

That’s what you get for being “asocial”. The nail that sticks out gets hammered. Be like water my friend. Blend in.
/r/MGTOW27/02/19 10:22 PM
11

Exactly my opinion as well. Don’t blame the player blame the game. A good educational series on this is “The Wire” Just follow the money.
/r/MGTOW27/02/19 10:11 PM
0

LOL 😂 typical troll behaviour so Yeah If you have read the art of war. Women don’t need to. It’s their nature. Be like water my friend.
/r/MGTOW26/02/19 02:38 PM
1

Aha
/r/MGTOW26/02/19 02:36 PM
0

Interesting - how do you know?
/r/MGTOW26/02/19 02:35 PM
1

I’m tempted to get one. Looks hardcore
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 06:45 PM
2

Yeah they just don’t get it. Hey we are in a relationship but let me have fun with someone else for two months and not invite you. Because her feelings are more important to me than yours. Wait what? You have feelings? Also is this not against the rules? Are there rules? Tell me the rules.
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 06:44 PM
1

Interesting approach. However you do need to give negative feedback so she does know where your boundaries are. Your approach doesn’t guarantee that she wouldn’t cheat without telling anyway. Ghosting sounds like having given up already.
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 05:28 PM
3

Also since men usually do the chasing it’s not straight forward at all for her to want it more than him. But of course it is straight forward as she’s not used to rejection.
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 04:36 PM
3

You probably were looking for the word “under control” aka. control freak.
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 02:22 PM
10

If you know what to look for you can see it.
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 02:21 PM
6

:D good on you thanks for sharing
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 01:15 PM
1

My uninformed opinion is that they are human beings, just like us, that have no idea what they are doing. But at least they discovered that they don’t have any idea 💡 FYI: the truth is inside us - the outside more or less is just a reflection of us and our attitude
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 01:07 PM
1

What does it matter?
/r/MGTOW24/02/19 09:12 PM
5

Yeah. Because you cannot fathom every guy being nice to you and being bored of it.
/r/MGTOW24/02/19 07:38 PM
1

It’s not an investment if there’s no returns.
/r/MGTOW224/02/19 07:18 PM
2

You can interact with women - without chasing them! And yes dogs need you to pay for their food and are otherwise shedding hair. But nah. Grand
/r/MGTOW24/02/19 09:00 AM
1

The root cause of MGTOW
/r/MGTOW223/02/19 04:53 PM
1

The “problem” here is the problem each group has. Reinforcing why you are worth calling yourself a group. MGTOW stands in opposition to literally everyone else in society. So just like there are infidels or barbarians or whatever it’s essentially we are the good and the others are imperfect because they are not us. Women and feminism are the root cause right? So ignoring this is like ignoring the cold in winter. Hey just go you own way. But also let’s group up and not go our separate own ways. I…
/r/MGTOW222/02/19 06:33 PM
2

Look at it this way. How often do men get rejected by women? :-D 🤑I see a potential gold mine! (Just kidding)
/r/MGTOW22/02/19 06:24 PM
-5

It’s not really priceless though. If you pay rent or property taxes. Or anything else related for that matter.
/r/MGTOW22/02/19 03:44 PM
45

True. Haven’t looked at it this way yet. There’s evidence though that social rejection affects the same pain centres as physical rejection/harm. So yes the hurt is real.
/r/MGTOW22/02/19 03:25 PM
1

Not sure about the meth. But the Holy Spirit. Yes is quite subtle in comparison.
/r/MGTOW22/02/19 01:37 PM
1

Yeah. That used to be the default/best way to deal with it. I recall Girls wondering why guys just stop messaging. Because anything else up to that point was fruitless. But of course the expectation is for the guy to just continue despite that. Supposedly to put in even more effort. Because you know. That’s what guys do right?
/r/MGTOW222/02/19 01:14 PM
1

/r/legaladvice or /r/legaladviceofftopic
/r/MGTOW21/02/19 11:58 PM
3

It’s called libel. Don’t know if you can put people on a list for bad mouthing you. But yeah. Something like paying for the damage done like lawyers and court costs definitely. Maybe even a full page ad in the newspaper 📰. Or tv or YouTube. Or all of the above.
/r/MGTOW21/02/19 11:55 PM
5

Yep 6 months ban anyone? No way to appeal? Slashdots System with the mod points is way better. (Democratic)
/r/MGTOW21/02/19 05:20 PM
3

PS: now, after that post. Whenever I see a woman (with makeup). My head goes: cock carousel 🎠. It’s a major perspective change.
/r/MGTOW21/02/19 10:04 AM
3

I guess the key is the thank you 🙏. If that’s not happening early on. Don’t expect it to happen later on either. Thank you for sharing
/r/MGTOW21/02/19 09:34 AM
8

Is this something that you just can’t make up?
/r/MGTOW19/02/19 08:15 PM
5

Not exactly sure how they do it. But somehow ignorance to consequences of causality and „it’s true enough“ are good enough. Plus you can always get angry when found out and hope the opponent had a good heart.
/r/MGTOW19/02/19 04:25 PM
4

Bla!
/r/MGTOW18/02/19 12:43 AM
1

That. Makeup 💄 only looks good from afar.
/r/MGTOW18/02/19 12:34 AM
3

No energy either. But what’s your point? People die?
/r/MGTOW18/02/19 12:33 AM
2

Yeah be like water my friend
/r/MGTOW18/02/19 12:24 AM
1

What do we learn from this? GYOW 😁 It’s unreal. Women just start asking all those questions as if I/we are were a dictionary. The correct way of replying is never give a woman a direct answer unless it is no. At least she has to pay attention then and work for it.
/r/MGTOW18/02/19 12:17 AM
2

That doesn’t sound too logical either. Not sure how to respond to this one. If you are suffering hardship make that work for you. Use it as leverage. Aka. the good old what’s in it for me card.
/r/MGTOW17/02/19 10:40 PM
2

Yeah well. True that. But I would not call that an easy life either.
/r/MGTOW17/02/19 10:27 PM
1

Learn what exactly? Avoiding questions?
/r/MGTOW17/02/19 10:25 PM
1

We are the Borg resistance is futile! 👮‍♀️
/r/MGTOW17/02/19 10:20 PM
2

Yeah :) they look organized
/r/MGTOW17/02/19 10:02 PM
1

Effort! Effort! Eeeefffnnfffort!
/r/MGTOW17/02/19 03:05 PM
3

Remember the Stone Age. „We“ revered women back then also. See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Venus_of_Willendorf for reference.
/r/MGTOW17/02/19 01:11 PM
1

You can’t control fire. Just contain it
/r/MGTOW217/02/19 12:56 PM
1

Surrendering to True Source
/r/MGTOW16/02/19 04:26 PM
1

Men as in mankind?
/r/MGTOW16/02/19 10:25 AM
16

Does that mean women don’t need money?
/r/MGTOW16/02/19 10:09 AM
2

In some way she would be more masculine than most men then. 😁
/r/MGTOW216/02/19 08:25 AM
1

Lol 😂 Yeah
/r/MGTOW216/02/19 08:22 AM
-3

I have seen the matrix. Does that count? 😉
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 09:53 PM
1

People without a fake smile?
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 09:48 PM
0

Isn’t red pill about reality? Whom else are you supposed to be really?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 09:47 PM
11

Yes you can. Smart people learn from their mistakes. Wise people learn from others mistakes also. Something like that. Nothing beats first hand experience though. So there’s this saying. Women are like fire 🔥. They can keep you warm or can burn you. Just like real fire 🔥 So make sure to go your own way in a safe way and then you will be okay.
/r/MGTOW215/02/19 09:45 PM
2

Bla? Is this a blog post or do you also have a question?
/r/MGTOW215/02/19 09:25 PM
1

Yes both of you are unreasonable. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 09:23 PM
10

You either love nature or know it’s true nature.
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 01:18 PM
4

Aka. as reality. They are one step up from Mother Nature. Some have described them as being like the ocean and men like a ship sailing ⛵️ on “it”. Child birth makes it necessary for them to be able to interact with “nature” aka. a baby. You can’t reason away a crying baby. It’s just there and has no off button. Men do, women don’t for that exact same reason. My “theory” is men feel like they are children in respect to women and vice versa. Just different aspects. I can’t 100% articulate which on…
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 01:11 PM
1

Yes. Love does exist. It is however less something that you give. As the source of love is not you yourself. You can however accept it for yourself directly from the source of love and light and also allow that love to radiate it from you. PS: this is not something that I believe. However I am experiencing it first hand 🖐 and so can you. No human or animal intermediaries needed, once you know how it works.
/r/MGTOW215/02/19 11:41 AM
1

Yeah. It’s quite new. Essentially Jesus and the Bhudda where onto this already. (The Kingdom of god is within you) But it looks like the time for this is now. It’s hard to explain in words let alone understand/believe. You can experience it first hand though and make up your own mind.
/r/MGTOW14/02/19 04:18 PM
1

What if the most powerful being (the creator) was on your side and you could always rely on him/her/it? The idea is to figure out that you yourself can’t do shit anyway without it’s help. All you are doing is getting in your own way vs letting it take care of you. I don’t expect you to believe me (it’s nothing that you can believe). But you can feel and experience this yourself. All you gotta do is let it happen. Which requires trust, which takes time. But everyone can “do it” and it’s free. The…
/r/MGTOW14/02/19 02:36 PM
1

It’s actually verifiable that there’s a Source of love and light. All you gotta do is hook it up and you’re golden. No thinking required. Just feeling. 😁 But that’s another layer of red pill 💊. Because you see this universe is just a facility for you to discover that on your own. Without being “hooked up” all you get is what you are describing. A cat 🐈 chasing its own tail. It gets boring after a while though.
/r/MGTOW14/02/19 09:45 AM
1

Wrong reddit
/r/MGTOW13/02/19 07:27 PM
2

Hey!
/r/MGTOW13/02/19 07:26 PM
1

There’s no peace? Well there is. But you get back what you send out.
/r/MGTOW13/02/19 07:21 PM
2

Not bad
/r/MGTOW13/02/19 07:13 PM
5

Yeah. Well she didn’t put any effort into it. It was free right? So value = 0
/r/MGTOW13/02/19 07:09 PM
1

At 15 I would not consider you to be a „man“ yet. Plus going your own way doesn’t mean no sex. The YouTube channel. Well I’m f you are a minor that can happen. Maybe find a less PG topic to discuss.
/r/MGTOW213/02/19 05:40 PM
1

Okay - possible. That just means your subconscious filters it out. I guess in my quest to go deeper I have arrived at the raw sensory inputs. Cheers 🍻
/r/MGTOW212/02/19 11:32 AM
3

Neither are paying into social security though. So no. Never a good thing. Just greed.
/r/MGTOW212/02/19 11:23 AM
1

Not sure if you have been castrated. But my biology still reacts to their biology. Plus yes they are “just another human being”. Just as humans are just another animal. Still I can tell them apart and treat them differently than other animals. Not by much though. :)
/r/MGTOW211/02/19 09:45 PM
1

Ask yourself: And then?
/r/MGTOW11/02/19 08:15 PM
2

Process is important guys! What’s the process?
/r/MGTOW11/02/19 05:44 PM
1

Nope - Trust has to be earned right?
/r/MGTOW11/02/19 05:35 PM
1

That’s a good first step. However that’s also the first step to not giving a shit. A better version is to reply with compassion.
/r/MGTOW11/02/19 03:59 PM
2

That’s what I mean also. Women don’t seem to know what it’s good for at all. They just go by. a) other women tell me I need make up b) apparently men pay more attention when I do have it on c) I get weird comments if I don’t wear it
/r/MGTOW211/02/19 02:52 PM
-2

Nope - Cuck said hello to stacey
/r/MGTOW210/02/19 03:45 PM
1

Women and as an extension men that want to get with „them“ live in reality. All the other honor love etc. are just there to make life harder on you by giving you second thoughts. In terms of impregnating there’s just one sperm that scores. IIRC sperm don’t care about honour. Maybe look at „The Red Queen“ and/or „The mating mind“ which both go into details on this.
/r/MGTOW10/02/19 11:37 AM
1

Sounds more like they are being human :D
/r/MGTOW10/02/19 11:33 AM
3

Dunno 🤷‍♂️ why. Looks like protecting her territory. Maybe she likes the fact that it annoys you.
/r/MGTOW209/02/19 10:05 PM
1

Finally- okay. Ahem yes. The idea about spirituality is to surrender yourself to god/the creator. Which is in theory easier for a woman to do. That’s all. In the grand scheme if things it doesn’t matter, because we all have lives countless lives as either gender already.
/r/MGTOW09/02/19 04:35 PM
1

Sounds nice on the surface. But no quality control for the other partner. You may as well jerk off in the woods and hope some bacteria assimilate your genes 🧬. Instant immortality + millions of offspring 😄
/r/MGTOW08/02/19 08:52 PM
2

It’s actually sane. It’s why the conscious and subconscious exist. The subconscious acts and the conscious later tries to explain “rationally” why we acted this way. It’s also plausible deniability. If you don’t know what you are up to yourself, you won’t have a bad conscience.
/r/MGTOW08/02/19 08:45 PM
1

Maybe it’s not selfish but less trusting. It’s again a function of who actually bears the child. Women always have a „sanity check“ running in the background to detect external inconsistencies. (Ofcourse themselves being usually in their own blindspot). Whereas most men run along the lines problem->fix even if that means running in circles fixing the same issues over and over again without a sanity check. (Broad generalization and just my own observations) The problem usually when communicating …
/r/MGTOW208/02/19 12:26 PM
1

I get you. Not sure if selfish is the right antidote or word to use. Can’t come up with a better one though.
/r/MGTOW207/02/19 07:42 PM
3

What’s up with everyone using the word race? Homo Sapiens Sapiensis is it’s own species. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human And the whole own hand thing. Nah. Nature is better at this.
/r/MGTOW207/02/19 07:39 PM
3

Doesn’t sound too bad to me. I can’t give any recommendations. Asian culture as far as I understand it is quite a bit different.
/r/MGTOW07/02/19 07:33 PM
1

Gynocentrism yes. Though feminism cannot be the root cause. It’s just that men now need to be as political in all aspects of their life as women always had to be. Having women (with) children in the centre of society makes sense. But as I am trying to establish here, as soon as children are out of the picture. Women are essentially no longer privileged. Only in the biological programming of men, which of course is hard to override on a constant basis.
/r/MGTOW207/02/19 11:57 AM
1

True. I share that sentiment. There is an antidote to suffering and no it’s not Peterson’s antidote to chaos book. Though that goes in the right direction. My own a typo suffering right now is self discovery and self healing by relying on “my” creator. I haven’t seen him/her yet but the effects are there nonetheless. My suffering is decreasing steadily, unless of course I choose to ignore the guidance. 💝
/r/MGTOW206/02/19 11:02 PM
1

What about tomorrow? :o) Of course you don’t “need” to. But why bother getting out of bed in the morning then anyway?
/r/MGTOW206/02/19 10:56 PM
3

Yeah the problem with that though is that children cost money. A lot. 200k USD or something over 18 years. In Germany we are already paying child care workers so that mothers can work to pay for them to take care of their children. Kinda insane. And of course those child care workers don’t get paid much. Because nobody could afford them otherwise. Germany already also has Kindergeld which is essentially child subsidy. And still the birth rates are low. Idiocracy has explained the whole concept w…
/r/MGTOW206/02/19 10:54 PM
1

Yeah that makes sense. Thanks for that detailed answer.
/r/MGTOW206/02/19 10:47 PM
1

I don’t know if you had a look at the birth rates lately. Neither men nor women really can be bothered with children. FYI 2.1 is necessary to stay steady. Most western countries are below that. The richer a society becomes the less kids there are. My theory is too much distraction. Plus contraception. So no. Non-MGTOWs won’t save us. Who knows maybe we’ll just produce humans in an assembly line in the future. Maybe I’m again just worrying about things not under my control.
/r/MGTOW206/02/19 08:26 PM
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