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Discussionpainfurouartacc/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:11 PM
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Technically it's indian males rather than ea, though they are included in asian anyway, but on another note, that research was old and only used america as a base, not the whole world, so i don't think it's the most trustable. America isn't the whole world
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:33 AM
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Technically it's indian males rather than ea, though they are included in asian anyway, but on another note, that research was old and only used america as a base, not the whole world
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:37 AM
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honestly, i think interracial and same-sex are also risky and should be adressed. due to cultural differences, family differences, desperation. i think it all depends on the intent, some bald 30 year old incel who looks 40 ranting about ''the wall'' doesn't have good intentions, neither does a black guy fetishizing white girls, or a white guy who dates out of their race as a last resort. nor does someone who goes gay/lesbian because they can't find a member of opposite sex with the qualities the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:33 PM
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This sub is boring honestly, all same redpill topics, even incels. is was more entertaining despite the content being painful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:39 PM
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my problem is that old fart men choosing to breed and dooming their kids with low quality sperm and increased chance of disorders, i heard an 58 year old man is going to have a child and that's just cruel other than that, i feel like men caring so much about age while women generally choosing someone close to their age proves that despite what people say here, men only care about looks while women care about more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:24 PM
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Most women also do skin care, most men do not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:22 AM
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Yet men are the ones crying about women valuing looks over personality here, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:43 AM
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Somewhat softer faces are more attractive on both genders compared to haggard old skin, and bone definition is done for 22 usually. shoulders are dependent on genes and training, not age. 25 is ok but most men are bald, fat, hairy and probably shittier bone structure if he's not lucky at 35 . Somewhat boyish features are universally attractive though not all young men have that. Fertility starts to decline at 30 too, which is the most objective metric you can make for attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:42 AM
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estrogen levels generally decline after 35 or at least 30, not after 22 also i said petite, i'm assuming she also has a thin smooth and small frame
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:23 PM
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i don't really care, however, sometimes they go for young girls who look ''older'' instead of older women with youthful/neotenous/petite looks, why? how is the first optionn better than the second?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:02 PM
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as someone who visited incels . is forum , no, they aren't poor abused little babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:09 PM
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that's what internet incels usually come off as, unfortunately there are some guys that are actually more composed, but unfortunately, they aren't socially encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 10:05 PM
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It's kind of a cultural stereotypes thing, blacks are stereotyped as being more masculine for some reason, likely due to them being demonized and used for heavy labor(and a lot of white americans secretly being gay for bbc) , while asians are feminized due to their culture and physical features being stereotyped as being more feminine, with western media enforcing stereotypes for both for a long time. i'd say asians also have it hard due to incel community bullying or '' blackpilling them'' and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:21 PM
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Attractive is subjective, i'm not particularly impressed by a dude being 6'5 and buff, i'm 5'3 and prefer slim or slimish
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:42 PM
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randomly is too risky, but id like to modify a few parts if i could
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:06 PM
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Genderbent version of anime waifu things already exist, they are called either otome or yaoi
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:53 AM
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500 years old isn't possible for a human, at that stage it's a non-human with completely different standards for aging (like how age 2 for a cat is an adult while same can't be said for humans in no healthy situation) the actual equivalent would be to ask if people would be fine with a more devoloped than usual 12 year old dating an adult? Probably not in most cases,so looks aren't everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:50 AM
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You guys care more fır sex than romance, pay for a whore then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:42 AM
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i think the gay pedophilia thing was mostly common among elites rather than the civils right? i don't think gay pedophilia was seen as a norm, feels like people are overestimating the numbers as a propaganda sometimes. ​ elites being pedos or corrupt is unfortunately still a stereotype...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:20 PM
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yes and they bitch about women caring too much about loooooks 7/24 here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:09 PM
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there were stats showing that younger women x older men pairings are on a decrease compared to before, and that most women prefer either their age or only slighly older.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:13 PM
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good for you, but i'm speaking of what might happen as a bigger picture in future, not your isolated experience in the present, if you got sex from a younger woman, congratz!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:46 PM
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younger women are also less mature emotionally, yet men will argue about biology when it comes to that, going for an older person is better if you want to depend on someone, but women won't need to depend on someone as much. like, 30 year old women are much more emotionally mature and sure of themselves than 18 year old girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:39 PM
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most men look like shit after age 25
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:38 PM
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issue is most young men will not want a +35 woman at this stage
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:40 PM
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i think she was objectively attractive, when she was more natural
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:35 PM
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i think the regular citizens stil found it wierd if i'm not wrong, elites being pedos is a stereotype that applies even to this day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:27 PM
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even in those societies, gay pedophilia was mostly just common among elites, the narrative that it was a casual thing is mostly political '' see lgbtq+ wa snormal before evil christians deleted it!'' crap
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:26 PM
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eh, neotenous men and women with smaller eyes/facial hair exist, in fact most women do wax or thread their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:20 PM
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i think women will start to prefer younger men as their income/work gap closes further
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:05 PM
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megan fox was hot before she did the surgery, now she looks a bit creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:32 PM
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No one under the age of 40 likes george clooney
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:04 PM
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Well i seen girls liked young justin bieber, harry styles, korean male celebs and even yuzuru hanyu now, all of these guys can be called pretty or even '' feminine ''
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:02 PM
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Makeup can change hairline or jawline if you're good at it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:00 PM
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They do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:59 PM
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Makeup being '' effeminate '' is subjective, there are places and historical time periods where its normalized. Heck, even if we only look at current tines and only in us, most actors do wear makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:55 PM
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Most male celebs wear makeup to some extent, even the manly dudes like chris hemsworth or henry cavill (and i think koreans even wear it casually from what i heard)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:53 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:50 PM
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sometimes, you legit don't know if the person you found was an asshole or not. in my experience, truly kind people are rare, honestly, not even as someone who dates but observing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:23 PM
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don't think most people are asking random women how sexy their husbands are plus youll all grow old and lose hotness anyway, personality and other qualities are longterm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:15 AM
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could have something to do with the woman in the question wanting to be with an UFC fighter, this is a bit of an extreme example
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:41 PM
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where are u from
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:33 PM
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Average woman in us even if just 20 is fatass let's be honest , same for men, but anyone who's disciplined can still stay thin as metabolism doesn't suddenly nosedive as you age as much as we just eat heavy processed unhealthy food and sit on our asses doing nothing. Facial youth is much harder to fake though(and there are men ranting about how neoteny in women is a crucial trait which definitely has to do with facial youth)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:50 PM
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I've seen very drastic changes made by makeup on both men and women, more than just skin, though skin alone makes one look better and younger. And uhhh, you see them with older man, but younger men rarely go for older than them unless they are exceptionally attractive or look younger than their age, i'm not sure how can you be in denial about female youth being prized way more than male youth
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:37 PM
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Applying makeup doesn't cost thousands, plus you didn't answer my second question, why is there so much demand over women be under 25 when both men and women after that age get the usual facial aging signs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:25 PM
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If women judge facial attractiveness harsher, why don't men use things like makeup or plastic surgery as much? And why isn't staying youthful isn't nearly as important for them? Feel like this sub just wants to be pitied sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:16 PM
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I disagree that facial attractiveness doesn't matter for a woman as much as for a man, why are women pressured to apply makeup or have faces neotenous like in their teens?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:07 PM
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I'm not saying that, in fact, not even today's us and today's '' any other place'' have the same beau standards for either men or women, but for the sake of simplicity, westerners for a large part of history didn't like overly muscular types because most people weren't attaining that without being' 'roided' '
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:05 PM
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No matter how '' strong'' a man is, he will never be able to beat up a bear or a lion, but a beautiful face is endearing and significies good genetics, a human' s face might even signify what kind of personality he/she would have. and i wouldn't say most men are fine with butterface, ofc they would take the thin girl with ugly face over fat girl with beautiful face, but most men still prefer faces where they look under 25 and soft/feminine, and with no hair perfect smooth skin etc. for example. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:09 AM
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I think uncanny valley has more to do with an imperfect realistic human render resembling a diseased or a dead human thus unsettling/upsetting us. A lot of people will say such paintings or sculptures will have ''soulless eyes' '
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:23 AM
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Except that overly jacked bodies are relatively recent, for most of the history athletic-thin was the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:18 AM
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Attraction has far more with repeated exposure and other things than '' evo psych'' there's no evo pstch explanation for someone having a fetish for' 'women buying bread' ' (someone had this on internet,)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:16 AM
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Fujoshis need a virtual bf too, even females are neckbeardizing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:14 AM
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Japanese male idols too, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:51 AM
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it's not veen just female entertainers, male idols get the same trreatment too if itoo)m not wrong ( i know korean male idols def do, pros japanese ones would
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:51 PM
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it's not gen z specific for east asia... in fact it's not even gender specific for east asia
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:29 PM
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the idol thing is a longpart tradition of east asia for whatever reason, even among k-pop guys let alone the females, i remember one idol guy fucking around and it became a scandal (as if k-pop guys literally aren't handpicked to make these girls horny lol, i-i like it for the music??!!!) some say it's because idols are supposed to be idealized beyond normal humans, others theorize them being ''unattainable'' has nothing to do with values and is just a tactic for company owners to prey on consoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:28 PM
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10 doesn't exist though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:28 PM
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men hit the wall at 20 nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:54 PM
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because men are the more dangerous sex biologically?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:34 AM
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mostly because they are physically weaker on avg than an avg 13 y/o boy so they lack the power to do/attempt as much as sexual or non-sexual crimes, even if they can be just as nasty or fucked psychologically. but if it was an extremely crazy woman, or if there was some paraphilia involved (pedophilia, bestiality, sadism, scat) then yes, she's going to disgust a few people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:56 PM
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you cpuld also say men are shamed for being virgins and not being forward while for women its the reverse tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:19 PM
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internal misogyny thing is gaslighting at times honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:14 PM
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stats still say majority perpetrators of those are men though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:13 PM
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nah, women can be creeps too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:12 PM
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so you're saying it wouldn't be creepy if a cute looking dude did it? id say people would still see him as weird in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:12 PM
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chad as an idea only exists because people can't comprehend the idea of being outdone by an average or ugly guy (or even an attractive feminine guy, lol) so they need to cope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:55 AM
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not every height and weight will look the same on the same person tbh ​ ofc 150 kg and 170 cm vs 39 kg and 170 cm will be pretty obvious cases but you get what i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:53 AM
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probs 2 and 6
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:36 AM
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probably yes, not feminine/cute/neotenous enough to have the advantage of being female, that doesn't mean ill be hot as a guy but at least i wouldn't bleed once a month and thats enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:40 PM
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i noticed feminists nowadays shame men for stupid shit like virginity and dick size as a gotcha, but this is what dudebros also do to each other and i think this actually encourages incel behaviour further and performative sex obsession guys fake to feel manlier. basically, gen z feminists are adapting ''toxic masculinity'' among themselves. speaking of ''western'' liberal feminism, i noticed eastern stuff is becoming a lot more popular too, japan already conquered the animation and especially v…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:59 PM
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i don't even know why dudes even like ugly bastards to self insert tbh, i can understand a shy average guy but. also one thing i want to adress, i just realized the article writer adressed yaoi but still called it sexist due to stereotypes and non-con, now what you think of yaoi is another topic but why do both trp'ers and feminists have trouble admitting ''problematic stuff'' can be liked by both genders? yaoi is written/drawn almost exclusively by women. not gonna watch them but it was illogic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:38 PM
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you're assuming men's preferences don't change between whatever era, this sub is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:22 AM
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i mean, hairless prettyboys were also considered more attractive by young women past in the west too before, now that the media shows more buff bearded men the preference have changed, this is partly why kpop and even anime popularity exploded (return to pretty/cute boy era of 00's) i think the reason it is exeggrated more though is that it partly has to do with the cultures here valuing youth to a higher degree than the west other than that gay dudes here prefer hairy buff/fat guys so the stere…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:21 AM
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the thing with hentai is that they actually have more female centric stuff, but the stuff that appeals to women are either yaoi(gay prettyboys) or yuri (lesbian) i guess no one figured out how to make straight pronz appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:57 AM
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porn is exploiting real people, novels, erotica or even hentai/erotica drawings in general aren't. maybe one could say it's better than consuming drawn porn too considering staring at highly unrealistic images for sexual pleasure might lead to weird standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:29 AM
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This is caused by strict gender roles tho, in a culture where dressing and acting more feminine is acceptable there are less troons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:06 PM
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i'm actually a female who finds feminine looking guys more attractive, the perceived femininity is actually a bonus for me in most cases lol. call me weird but hey! i was a weeb and yes they crossdress (bts is the most mainstream one but others also do it) : https://www.quora.com/Have-BTS-members-ever-done-cross-dressing do you remember visual kei? it also appealied to women and had guys crossdressing, tho it was moreso japanese than korean. asian countries are conservative about lgbt stuff but …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:39 PM
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Specifically ones who kill or hurt others, are the yandere archetype, featured in stuff made for neckbeard dudebros, both feminists and trp men pretend their gender is incapable of liking degenerate shit (or the same kind of degenerate shit the opposite gender likes)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:57 AM
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But why isn't it a regular nymphoaniac, why is it about being a psycho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:14 AM
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İ don't really think average asian dude looks like a kpop guy though(even china considers them feminine and they ARE asians lol), being good looking, rich or talented aren't opposites of femininity . Nsnyc and backstreet boys aren't really known for being particularly manly or chad either, but i guess kpop takes it slightly further than that(due to yes, east asians liking pretty boy archetypes and slight androgyny more) Soft and neotenous faces, applying makeup, occassional crossdressing and eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:05 AM
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yandere archetype exists, or the ''crazy bitch'' archetype
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:17 PM
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yandere archetype proves you wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:46 PM
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this happened with yuka takaoka and even nevada-tan too (which doubles as pedophilia) we just only blame this on women because there aren't enough conventionally attractive female serial killers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:02 PM
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you guys all well know they are borderline femboys yet still have a large niche regardless, denying the being feminine or them having a niche are both delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:55 PM
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That extreme conditioning is always bad (no women means they turn to other males, and unfırtunately young boys at that since they aren't as masculinized) (but normalize sex too much, and you get hook-up culture and weird fetishes)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:55 PM
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''That's a very convenient claim. "There are tons of people with my kink, they are just all hiding it because you shame it!" Yeah... sure.'' you won't believe the amount of dudes i've seen who claim to like to suck dick or aything else and make up the shittiest excuses as to why it's not gay. some even claimed topping isn't gay or fucking some babyfaced dude is not gay, a lot of my male friends were sexually assaulted by men more than they were assaulted by women, remember male homosexuality is …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:13 AM
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depends on what you mean by feminine or masculine assuming both are conventionally attractive, women who are masculine don't get as much as shit as feminine men but assuming the woman is too masculine that it affects her physical attractiveness (i. e facial hair, manjaw/square face, hairy body etc.) then her ''value'' lowers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:26 PM
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i got bullied for being too masculine physically to be attractive or cute
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:24 PM
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there aren't more of them, just that men will hide it more just look at the amount of dudes who claim to like ''twinks'' or ''femboys'' that being said, yes male homosexuality is shamed far more than femal homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:22 PM
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i'd say they are less afraid of women, but other men sexualizing them, you say gay men don't like boyish or feminine guys but, the femboy/twink/shotacon(for weebs) category is literally overrid by closeted bisexual/borderline pedophilic incel/coomer guys this reminds me of the story of björn andresen actually, he was desired immensely by girls his age or even older in japan, but in the west it came with the cost of being exploited by a gay pedo director. that's why he abandoned his more delicate…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:10 PM
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personally, i wish i had a less masculine look, but that's not to attract men, i think i just personally like delicate/cute/neotenous faces hairless bodies and colorful dresses etc more, but know that ill look ridiculous i i try to go for that vibe. but i'm also not comfortable with being sexualized or am trying to attract a mate currently. though what you might say feminine might be hyperfeminine bimbo type which i'm not interested in looking like. though, if you ask was i bullied for having an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:04 PM
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i was that girl in middle school, devoloped +10 years of depression after that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:08 PM
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'' Female audiences are very profitable (just look at Japan, theyre always trying to bait female audiences in entertainment because they spend so much on the things they like).'' feel like majority of those baits are fujoshi seeing some kind of gayness everytime men or boys have deep emotional connections with each other than being intentional, the same pervertedness most men into anime or mlp or furries would have when interpreting media than normies, but i get you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:51 AM
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Eh, a lot of people preferred even more androgynous men historically, it was more of the worker class winning than anything that changed the gender roles. As for ages, while the younger guy is always more fertile, the look you're talking about is possible for men in 30's if they aren't balding, shave/epilate, work out/diet, do skincare etc. The same way most women over 25 or even over 14 would be skinny, completely hairless, smooth skinned as a baby's bottom etc. Without having intense disciplin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:28 AM
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It's less of a natural state but more of either hypergamy(economical power) or men forcing women to like certain things. Sperm quality decreases after 22
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:19 AM
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idk, i ve seen some bald fat and old looking (despite being in 20's) friend of mine still get girls
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:04 PM
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''Rape statistics tend to exclude male victims of female perpetrators.'' aren't most most male rape male-on-male instead of female-on-male even if you add up the numbers? or am i wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:17 AM
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i mean, there's less toleration for a feminine man than a masculine woman, so theers more awareness about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:28 AM
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i'd say masculinity and femininity aren't important as actual attractiveness levels, most men will try to get jacked because they aren't really born with the facial attractiveness or the neoteny/youth that the prettyboy/andorgyny requires, while kpop idols are literally selected from rare people that have the facial youthfullnes, some of these guys are neear 30, absolutely no way you're going to find the avg american guy look like that at late twenties or 30 reverse example is angelina jolie, le…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:00 AM
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they actually are muscular, but their facial shape are more feminine and neotenous than average for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:38 AM
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i mean being skinny is literally easier for a man, estrogen makes more bodyfat though i guess no one considers men with high body fat as masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:34 AM
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eh, people who read fictional drawn porn from japan or east asian countries usually aren't the normies who contribute in the hook-up culture and even among those manga a lot of ''femboy/otoko no ko'' and ''shota'' stuff are popular with bisexual/gay dudes as well, maybe bisexual or gay men like extreme stuff while women prefer more avg/in the middle guys? like, even BTS isn't really that feminine by east asian standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:32 AM
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