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| 24 | Is it just me, or is OLD getting even worse?Men would have to change | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 08:57 AM |
| 52 | Do not be jealous of the new girl… abusers do not change. Even if they somewhat “get better”, you deserve more than whatever half baked fuckboy shit this ex-douchebag has to offer you. Leave him in the past sisters, pray for the women who encounter him, and thrive. We are worth more than we know. 💞Mine left me for his now wife, which happened about 9 years ago. When we were together, on top of the emotional manipulation I experienced which has left me unable to trust men, I have no doubt he mercilessly slept with other women. He got married recently to the woman he left me for. I've never had a relationship since, just one more fuck boi after this guy for a little while, and then nothing since. I try to keep the sentiment of this post in mind, and while I honestly feel no desire to get ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:17 PM |
| 6 | Women leaving the dating appsIt’s so disappointing. All the profiles look the same, or say the same things in the bio. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:59 AM |
| 10 | OLD is a place holder for when you’re feeling lonelyI see OLD as a manufactured situation. People who are on there to find a spouse are there attempting to smoosh a square peg into a round hole. It's important to question whether the person is genuinely right and well suited to you, or whether they're just "good enough" because dating is a challenge and this is an easy way of meeting someone, and by someone, I mean anyone. The effort of finding anyone on there who ticks even some boxes is a challenge within itself. It's certainly not a place to m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 09:07 PM |
| 8 | The Nanny - Is Fran Fine a major Pick Me?Not sure about Pick Me but I think Niles was a LVM for making fun of a woman for 6+ years while not manning up and just saying he liked her from the get go. In saying that I know it is a show, and the dynamic was played out that way for laughs, but so many of those jokes were at her expense, while Niles was ultimately portrayed as the clever, witty one that she had no choice but to be with in the end just because he revealed he "liked" her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 01:03 AM |
| 13 | Signs of Cheating: How to spot them?Someone once told me “if he’s not guilty of that, he’s guilty of something”, so true! If you sense it, somethings up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:37 AM |
| 24 | No coffee dates no walk dates no drink datesThat's happened to me when I was in my 20s. We met up at a bar and I got very drunk very quickly. We were out in the city, a long way from where we both lived and so there wasn't an opportunity for him to take advantage in any meaningful way as we had to get on separate trains etc, and so I thought he seemed alright (jeez the bar is LOW). He was keen to arrange a second date in a location much closer to him, but it meant I had to drive my car, so I couldn't actually drink much. Thinking he was a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 07:50 AM |
| 70 | Good LuckHe sounds abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 12:35 AM |
| 12 | Don’t idealize a man before you get to know him.I'm so sorry you went through all of that. Particularly the treatment from your father. It's likely him projecting his own lack of adequacy on to you. Hugs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:18 AM |
| 23 | for all those single dads who think I REALLY, REALLY NEEEEEED to marry again... what possible value would it bring to my life?It’s an interesting point. I know of someone who has a 5 year old child from a previous relationship, who pushed and pushed his current girlfriend to have a child before she was ready. It became obvious he wanted the child, not because he loved child rearing, but because he knew it would make it all the more difficult for his girlfriend that much harder to leave him. If the girlfriend is at work or has a plan with a friend that is not baby friendly and he has to look after the baby for more than… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:22 PM |
| 5 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Its fucking disgraceful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 08:38 PM |
| 8 | It's Time to Let Go of Your Toxic Female FriendshipsOh man. I had one friend who went back for round two to 4 or 5 shitty ex's in the space of as many years. I have distanced myself because it is too hard watching someone not only repeatedly learn nothing from their mistakes, but then repeat the same mistakes for a second time with the SAME MEN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:14 AM |
| 36 | Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive?I think for me its the repetitiveness of it - every guy seems to have this on his OLD profile. They can't all have abandoned their careers, lives, commitments etc to do this. I wonder what was a regular planned holiday vs an actual spontaneous life uprooting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 07:10 AM |
| 15 | One of Y'all's 50/50 Boyfriends Is Posting About FDS lolLOL his post is how i found this amazing sub exists | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 03:32 AM |
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