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paizk/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:25 PM
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paizk/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:15 AM
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paizk/r/askTRP08/11/20 02:16 PM
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paizk/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:42 PM
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paizk/r/askTRP29/01/20 06:37 AM
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paizk/r/askTRP30/10/19 01:37 AM
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paizk/r/askTRP10/03/20 07:26 AM
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paizk/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:28 PM
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paizk/r/askTRP22/11/20 05:44 PM
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paizk/r/askTRP30/08/20 01:35 PM
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paizk/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:15 AM
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paizk/r/askMRP17/11/19 11:57 PM
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paizk/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:57 AM
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paizk/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:07 AM
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paizk/r/askTRP19/08/20 12:38 PM
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bro if im in trouble and my only choice is some random chick im already fucked
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 08:38 AM
33

right? a girl thinking you're a pussy holds 0 weight if you aren't trying to fuck her anyway lmao
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 05:44 AM
8

This is the right answer. 15 hour work days is fucking ridiculous. She basically has an hour of free time per day if she wants a full nights sleep.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:23 AM
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If they don't have a dude that's claiming them "see, that's why you're single" is the gift that keeps on giving If/when they come back with "i have a boyfriend" just be like "oh shit? really?? hahahaha"
/r/askTRP15/05/21 01:28 AM
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that's cool, so (ask the same question again)
/r/askTRP09/05/21 10:29 AM
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So many angry people in this thread lmao Honestly you just have to find a girl that's kind of dumb with her money and fit whatever she's looking for. The problem is that attractive women that have their own money and don't value it that much are rare. Once you get one it's the same as everything else. Reward her when she spends money on you and downplay everything else, including sex. In addition to all the other shit about fucking her right, holding frame etc.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 03:38 PM
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It's a really complex topic that you aren't going to find a good answer to here. (It doesn't really seem like you're looking for one either) To answer your last question, you learn how to navigate the social landscape of whatever country you're in and avoid doing shit that's going to make you radioactive. Same as it was 10, 15, 20, 30, 50 years ago etc.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:27 PM
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Ye, plus if that dude falls through you're the new fwb
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:23 PM
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just stop jacking off
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:20 PM
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does she eat pork, wear semi revealing clothing, wear jewelry, gossip, speak in church, or wear any clothing made of mixed material? Bible says all that's just as bad as premarital sex.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 01:17 PM
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Ugly girls need to act more interested than hot girls to get attention.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:21 PM
1

I had a similar problem when my ltr was too embarassed to 69. (0 problems eating my ass though, ironically) Next time you fuck her don't cum. Make her orgasm, then partway through just be like "shit, doesn't look like i can finish tonight" and go to sleep. Show she's not doing enough very subtly. IME this shit happens because of what some other dude did or said. She can either let go of it or accept that she can't pleasure you right, in which case it just means you guys are incompatible.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:07 AM
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These are basic human rules that girls will try to skirt around. "I wasn't lying, I forgot" or "i didn't think that was what you were meant when you asked _____" this is what she'll say when she breaks this rule. Also, trickle truth isn't technically lying! Wtf is psychological/emotional violence? Making her feel bad? So she should be able to do whatever she wants with no repercussions basically? Nobody can give 100% to everyone all the time. Also, what does this even mean. That's what i thought…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:31 AM
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delete this dude wtf
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:01 AM
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or money!
/r/askTRP01/05/21 02:28 PM
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Fuck man, glad I found this shit before my first ltr. Honestly man break ups suck ass. It's gonna get better, then worse, then better again a bunch of times before it stops emotionally affecting you. Then at that point you're clear. Trust the process and know youll be stronger
/r/askTRP30/04/21 01:38 PM
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I start walking at 5 min lol
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:50 AM
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There's another guy she's waiting for
/r/askTRP26/04/21 09:38 AM
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I can believe it. You wanna trust some people but it's like they can't resist pushing boundaries. Shit works in business and with women but it just drives away men with self respect who are open for companionship.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:40 PM
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i know that sounds like common sense but in my experience most guys don't seem to understand basic boundaries like this and long-term friendships go down the toilet like that... literally over some stupid shit like an ex girlfriend of simp-style gossip and jealousy that leads to mistrust. best part is when they apologize and act like they don't understand why you don't really ever trust them the same way again
/r/askTRP22/04/21 11:54 AM
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Yeah wtf lol, just get to know her before and after you fuck
/r/askTRP21/04/21 03:50 AM
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Damn that is a wild story lmao stay safe king
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:42 AM
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lmao who fucking cares do you ask the chef who he voted for before you eat his food? you're literally the right wing version of those girls. y'all are perfect for each other
/r/askTRP19/04/21 11:08 AM
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A mediocre comeback delivered immediately is better than a great comeback delivered slightly too late
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:04 AM
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She can't have sex because of something that girls only get to have unprotected sex, but she also doesn't want to take it out huh 🤔🤔🤔
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:21 PM
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If she can get disgusted for having sex with a married man, you can get disgusted at paying for a woman you aren't intimate with. what's the difference?
/r/askTRP14/04/21 10:38 AM
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i dont have any advice for you but your definition of flirty being her sending you porn of herself made me lol
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:13 AM
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wish i had heard this like 10 dates ago man realest shit ever lmao edit: just skimmed over the song titles and this looks like it's gonna be my album of the summer
/r/askTRP14/04/21 04:50 AM
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Most good comedians are. Patrice O'neal died but he's basically red pill Malcolm X. Dave Chappelle, Andrew Schulz, Chris Rock, etc...
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:49 AM
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Figure out how to go back overseas. I know a dude past 40 who still cold approches and smashes hot early 20s thotties on the regular. Hanging out and chasing tail with him and his boys showed me that this shit really doesn't end until you want it to.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 11:12 AM
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If you made that date total in a half an hour of work, would you be trippin? i do.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 11:36 PM
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me, she was mad disrespecful
/r/askTRP10/04/21 01:24 AM
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we were at my place
/r/askTRP10/04/21 01:22 AM
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this was at my place
/r/askTRP10/04/21 01:22 AM
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ye
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:52 PM
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yo that's actually some fire advice and something i need to insert into my game finding good shit like this and then learning how to tweak it for the culture is what makes this shit so fun ive been so into "just try to fuck ignore their weird shit" mode for so long i stopped asking whether i actually want to fuck the girl that much
/r/askTRP09/04/21 03:36 PM
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Covid means no live music. the restaurant had counter seats. this was the 2nd spot we went to. im on a streak of impenetrable lmr. that's why even at the 2nd place i've stopped paying she forced me off when i was fingering her then on the walk back to the station called some other dude to prolly finish the job then had the nerve to ask if i'll pay for her ticket to homeboy's im tired of this shit bro lmao
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:51 PM
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There isn't gonna be a second date
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:38 PM
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do both if you're talking about university or some type of schooling that's going to cost lots of money then programming obviously
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:40 PM
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be careful about covert contracts tho prob worth telling her its wacky sex wednesday or whatever
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:47 PM
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bro this is the funniest story, did homeboy have dracula playing an organ while she gave him that graveyard sloppy toppy?
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:25 AM
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bro im surprised youre still here posting this shit, i know alcoholics that had an easier time letting their vice go than you
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:14 PM
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read all that in various forms before the girl you're looking for doesn't exist. even the good girls you're imagining got their back blown out by a muscle packed linebacker/drug dealer a few times just to see what it's like. you can try to get as much wild shit in as you can until you don't care what your girl did or keep writing books trying to convince yourself that you'll find your princess who spent her sexual peak sewing blankets, singing with blue jays and getting her pussy gingerly licked…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:34 AM
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that nigga is the least of your worries if you ltr this girl
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:17 AM
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this post is mad gay son. if she wants to meet it's for fucking only. who cares who her alpha is. you need to worry about busting your nut and getting back to doing manly shit, not some rando liking a single mother's boomerbook memes
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:02 AM
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this is just the madonna whore complex
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:57 AM
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it means you just got a good chunk of your week back and get to smash randos for a while same thing as if she sent you a cited essay on everything she thinks you did wrong in the relationship
/r/askTRP04/04/21 05:32 PM
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thats gay only bad if you ltr'd her because she refused to have sex until you did in which case you fucked up for agreeing to that in the first place anyway
/r/askTRP04/04/21 05:26 PM
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i'm just fucking with you hommie. that's probably not why she left but it didnt help personally, i love eating pussy. it's like making out except it loosens them up for rough fucking after just do what you want man. unless she's got problems she just wants to be connected with and used (or desired, whatever)
/r/askTRP04/04/21 05:14 PM
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It made me a lot more vocal, physical, in the moment. Choking girls out and forcing them to tell you their pussy belongs to you feels awkward when your default state of sexual pleasure is clicking around a seek bar looking for the cumshot or a good angle or whatever
/r/askTRP04/04/21 09:54 AM
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This. On round 2 i used to have to close my eyes and pretend im fucking a porn star to nut lol
/r/askTRP04/04/21 09:52 AM
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I feel you bro my shit's mad tiny put one of these bad boys on before you do the deed and you can safely eat the box with your alpha intact https://i.imgur.com/QMm4HwE_d.webp?maxwidth=640&shape=thumb&fidelity=medium
/r/askTRP04/04/21 07:37 AM
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If you touch her pussy with anything other than your dick she'll dump you bro stay woke
/r/askTRP04/04/21 07:24 AM
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Dude to be honest you have a lot of work ahead of you but you seem cool so it's not hopeless. Don't look for a flowchart. You need to make your own from scratch loosely based on the shit you read from the sidebar. (and VERY RARELY this forum) Your first like 100 iterations will be trash. But it'll keep getting better. Read the sidebar, try what you learn, and DONT FEAR LOOKING LIKE A LOSER. Embrace it. It's going to happen. A lot. The quicker you get used to it and realize it doesn't matter, the…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:41 PM
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why do you know thats the more important question
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:22 PM
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For real. Asking this is like a girl asking "would you fuck a guy that acted simpy in a relationship at some point ever?" Treat her how you want and if she ain't with it move on the the next. That's all you need to worry about. Also, if she didn't start off as your plate you're playing the game wrong
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:19 PM
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Start setting up dates with more girls. Stack them (flake the least attractive ones) and have so many dates set up that you don't have time for manly shit. Then when you realize you're neglecting more important shit, start flaking on the girls. Congrats, you just flipped the script. The girls you flaked on also flaked on 5 other guys.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:23 PM
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Sounds like you wanna skip the seduction and part and just pay to fuck. I hereby give you permission to do whatever you want without judgement® It's really not that big of a deal. If you ever wanna start a family youre gonna have to deal with figuring out women then which will suck but if not wgaf
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:11 PM
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Other than fucking your old plates, if you told her you were going to do any of the masculine things you were doing before, what would happen?
/r/askTRP27/03/21 02:06 AM
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This will give you the most permanent benefits. Your voice is an instrument. You can learn how it works in a few hours and once you're aware it'll stick with you forever. If you can be loud even some youtube videos and practicing singing can help.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:49 PM
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The guy you're trying to become has fucked up and looked like a loser at least 20x more than you
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:10 AM
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Ask for form check on bench, squat, deadlift and overhead press.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:03 AM
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Just get to a comfortable level. If you feel like you aren't making enough based on your own standards (not dubious internet standards) then figure out how to make more. Getting more of something you don't actually care about isn't self improvement.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:55 AM
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It's simple but it's not easy. Same with lifting, which is something even more guaranteed to make your life better that most people don't do.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:50 AM
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I'm not gonna sit here and proclaim alpha but girls love drama. There's girls out there with crazy boyfriends who will tell them they fucked you and give you your address etc. Not worth it.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:43 AM
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Yes. But ATM I wouldn't sacrifice my dignity for it by treating people like trash and lying to them for months just to get my rocks off. How is dangling commitment for months any different than dangling sex for months.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:40 AM
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Have you tried telling them to stop cockblocking you
/r/askTRP20/03/21 06:24 AM
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numbers are dumb but talking with your boys about recent booty conquests is fun af, it's like fishing
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:44 PM
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Every thing is easy. This is prolly the best one.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:29 AM
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Part of me now wants to just block them all on Facebook but even then they might not even know or care why. I want them to know what they did was wrong and they should feel shame. This is the most important part imo. Most of us have dealt with these kinds of feelings before. You're the main character in your own game OP. In video games do you give a shit how Bobby Sidecharacter feels when you stop using him in your party? You're using your not so good friends feelings as your mental point of ori…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 04:02 AM
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Considering how quick and easy loading up pornhub is that doesn't seem like a significant increase i waste a lot more time than that going to the gym instead of doing steroids
/r/askTRP13/03/21 02:54 AM
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Yeah, like the other user said just kick her out or go home next time it happens. She's gonna try to frame it as you being butthurt the first time (which you probably will be) but just let her know being horny around a hot girlfriend you can't fuck isn't fun and you'de rather do something else. The same way you wouldn't spend all day sitting in front of a big juicy steak you aren't allowed to eat. Her taking your weed for free is also a problem but don't tie it in with sex.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 01:37 AM
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Have you tried replacing jacking off with fucking
/r/askTRP13/03/21 01:33 AM
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recover what? she said no lol
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:38 PM
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Are you initiating and she's turning you down?
/r/askTRP12/03/21 06:55 AM
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idk about asians but black africans just don't have a really good superficial image in the states, and most girls initially judge you based on superficial shit
/r/askTRP07/03/21 11:36 AM
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all the time, it just feels like jacking off in hd
/r/askTRP06/03/21 02:32 AM
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didnt read but ye
/r/askTRP05/03/21 07:32 PM
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If she's on the fence she'll agree to meet and just flake if she's leaning towards no. Being "not sure" is as good as a no when there's literally 200 new guys to choose from every day. More negatively, it's a way to get free attention without straight up saying no so she still gets free attention and validation without actually doing anything.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 01:52 AM
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Ghost. I've only met up with 1 girl out of like 100 that used this line and when we did she just wanted free food. "give me an undisclosed amount of your time for free, then i will consider gracing you with my presence" that's what that means
/r/askTRP04/03/21 05:16 AM
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The irony of picking a fight with someone and risking injury/death because they aren't wearing a mask
/r/askTRP04/03/21 03:20 AM
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Crazy thing is that my dad is a very smart and skilled blue collar dude, so him finding work would be a breeze. He’s just stubborn and lazy. This is where i think you need to go out and do your own thing OP. My dad gets by but he's in no way rolling in it. Even when the going gets tough he never asks me for a penny. My mom is swimming in debt. When I got my first job and was still living at home I helped her out for a few monthsbut after I moved out she understood that me throwing money at her w…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 12:44 AM
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If meeting up is this annoying imagine trying to fuck
/r/askTRP03/03/21 11:38 PM
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Yeah, hail mary or ghost. whichever you choose delete her contact and forget about her
/r/askTRP03/03/21 03:16 AM
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Sexual energy is more valuable than both. The broody dudes just don't know how to use it without acting emo.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:47 PM
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You can fuck the girls you ltr way earlier. It's also the actual safer way. Girls backwards rationalize. If you fuck her early and it's good she'll figure out why you're LTR material by herself. By waiting all you're doing is filtering out the girls that would be into something casual. Also your game is probably boo boo
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:45 PM
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How girls have you fucked that have acted like this? How many girls that acted like this were just wasting your time and you regret not ghosting sooner? Don't get lost in the sauce
/r/askTRP01/03/21 07:13 AM
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I wish. It was more personal shit. We live in Asia and he's a lot better at the local language thean me. If I introduce you to my girl, I shouldn't have to tell you "don't try to start talking about how often we're fucking, or what shit she's not satisfied about in our relationship." Now I'm at the point where I recognize/understand people doing bs like this and I can tell them to fuck off but at the time I wasn't. If I can't trust you to do right by me when I'm still learning to walk, I sure as…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:59 AM
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I didn't cut him off because of his advice, he was good with that. I cut him off because he constantly pushed boundaries and I don't like keeping men in my circle that I have to police and shut down like women. We're a bit older than you and your friend though, I assume. On a macro-level it's something to be aware of though. Especially if you're a natural.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:50 AM
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That's real. I'm in no place to judge since only know the parts of the situation that happen to come up here via text. Living it is way different.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:36 AM
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Oh shit, i misread that part lmao. That makes complete sense man. You wanna make sure your homie isn't regressing and you can see the writing on the wall. Thing is, i think we (and you and him) could go back and forth on this forever. You were trying to be a bro and call out some bs, he's trying to be a man and do his own thing (i assume). I've cut off a friend for something similar (but worse than unsolicited advice). If there's any ironically unsolicited advice i'd give you, it's be VERY sensi…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:28 AM
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Just read it. Yeah, there's not a lot you can do there. Honestly I make it a rule not to give guys advice on women especially unless they ask. If he's doing shit right in his head, nothing you can say will convince him otherwise. Same way he can't convince you what he's doing is right. That said, I get where he's coming from too. You probably had a time in your life where you weren't killing it like you are now, right? You can look back and see how dumb some of the stuff you were saying and doin…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:08 AM
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I got time if you wanna tell me the full story
/r/askTRP01/03/21 05:51 AM
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That sucks. Just make sure you aren't being disrespectful about it man. Like the other guy said AMOGing will lose you quality friends. There's a way to be successful without shitting on your homies, but it takes self-awareness. It only takes one time to lose a man's trust. That's me speaking from my own experience though. Not sure about you and your friends' dynamic.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 05:48 AM
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You should ask your friend. If I had to guess either you've been disrespectful to them, they have low self-esteem and don't like seeing you improve while they stagnate, or some combination of both. Nobody here is gonna be able to tell you.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:51 AM
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👀
/r/askTRP28/02/21 03:37 PM
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Just scrolled through your history a little. You aren't going to find a lot of other people here that get where you're coming from lol I was very close to where you are about 5 years ago. Made some good progress. hmu if you want to talk
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:50 AM
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Do it during the date once she realizes you aren't a chainsaw murderer.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 04:05 AM
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Get into situations where one of you can really fuck the other over. Don't fuck them over. If they never fuck you over either congrats, you're brothers. Those chances become less and less worth taking the older you get. That's the real reason why it's hard to make close bonds as you get older. (at least, speaking as someone in their late 20s) Also why you can say the most foul shit to each other but still know what time it is.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 09:30 AM
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That last one made me lol
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:57 AM
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Yeah, if nothing else it's good practice. Being able to talk shit out like a man is an underrated skill. Them being weird and you passive aggressively ghosting them in response is female shit.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 04:40 PM
1

Try talking with them individually about it first, starting with the friend who's diploma you've got. If they're still being hoes about it (deflecting denying etc) tell them, give the guy his diploma back and stop talking to all of them. idk if that's alpha but cutting off people you can't trust is the best feeling in the world
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:16 PM
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That's up to you man. You're never going to find a girl that's honest about everything, especially her n-count. There's ways to get around it but honestly it's not worth knowing most of the time. If you catch her lying about money/where she is/who she's with etc then it's a problem imo. You gotta make up your own rules as you go though.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:54 AM
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1/1
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:26 AM
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You know all the other shit wrong with your situation so there's no point in busting your balls there N-count is probably double-triple the top of the range If you can show me a woman who's honest about how many dicks she's taken, I can show you a man that's never simped in his entire life
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:24 AM
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😔
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:47 AM
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"i would have hit her" = she deserved to get hit you did the right thing
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:25 AM
1

There's one for men too. Floor #1 Hot girls Floor #2 Hot girls that fuck Floor #3 Hot girls that fuck and have a good personality Floor #4 Hot girls that fuck, have a good personality and have their own money Floor #5 Nobody knows or something like that
/r/askTRP17/02/21 12:22 AM
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They answer "you could have tried to make me" "you could have stood me you love me and can't see me go". "I'm not going to make you do anything you don't want to do." Broken record + fog ad nauseum Have you read WISNIFG? It's great for shit like this
/r/askTRP17/02/21 12:15 AM
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Would you ever ltr a fat girl? If your ltr got fat overnight then said "you're mad aren't you 😏😏😏" what would you do? You don't even need to be disappointed. If she wants to act like a hoe start treating her like a hoe 🤷🏿‍♂️
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:21 AM
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She was very stressed out at the time, and ended up kissing one of her coworkers and then telling me. NOPE
/r/askTRP15/02/21 02:12 AM
1

If it's about some dumb shit just accept that at best she's going to walk away from the conversation angry. At worst she's going to walk away thinking you're a bitch. Which one depends on how long and emotionally you engage.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 01:39 AM
2

Man it's just $5. You just know you can't trust them w/ money now. I'm about 10 years older than you and one of my childhood friends who pulled similar shit is still my boy. He just knows to not bother coming to me if it concerns money (even to this day). If one of us is about to get jumped we have each other's back but if he's 10 cents short of a McDouble with me he's gotta start looking at the side menu 😂 That said i've dropped people for other shit that crossed the line for me that others can…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:51 PM
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g shit lowkey op you probably need more hoe experience
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:26 AM
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It's just a no dude, who cares. You're going to get a lot of them. Be thankful she didn't waste your time agreeing to go out and shit only to try to make you an orbiter.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:23 AM
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I mean, smoking weed is more satisfying than going to the gym but getting fat stillsucks. Honestly I don't think porn is that bad as long as you know (i mean KNOW) you can be fucking within the next week.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 09:21 AM
1

Bro who cares lmao her hair is fucked up every morning after you smash
/r/askTRP06/02/21 05:04 AM
5

That sucks bro. We all get backstabbed by people we get close to but your day 1 niggas are supposed to be different (even the bp ones). Have you tried talking to each of them individually and directly about it? If you've known them for 20 years it can't hurt to chop it up with them. It sounds like you've gotten all of your info from girls and I guarantee they aren't giving you the full story. I wouldn't be surpised if 1 or 2 people in the group are the catalyst and the others just don't want to …
/r/askTRP06/02/21 04:59 AM
3

Ya emojis are fine as long as you arent using gay ones 👀 is the perfect low effort ping text aside from "hey big head"
/r/askTRP05/02/21 11:26 AM
1

This is the funniest shit. Also why WISNIFG is the bible for LTRs. Most guys will do 1 or 2 things from that book but every woman has a gold star rating every manipulative tactic that book tells you how to recognize and counteract.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 12:14 PM
4

I'm a millennial but regularly smash girls 19-37. The rules are the same all around for 95% of women. Your profile and not being extra should make you stand out. Start with some light convo, short messages, 5-10 messages in total. Leave it, then on the next day 3-10 messages until she replies with some relatively dead end shit then ask her to chill. Any longer and the girls that actually want to smash will get bored/swooped on. Starting with "unga bunga me want meat with girl" will scare off 99%…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:52 AM
2

just noticed your name what up doe 1st question is a good ass point. 2nd is only true if you let it be. 3rd is up to you to figure out as a man. that said running around, entertaining, and fucking strange is going to leave you with variations of the same questions, and you found a good ass girl.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 01:33 AM
1

Just remember what patrice said. A woman's most valuable asset is her body, yours is your time. We've all been a time hoe at one point or another man. You just gotta learn to recognize when you're hoeing.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:55 AM
4

What does "work on yourself" mean in this context? Random anecdote: I saw an episode of forensic files the other day where a dude got falsely charged with raping his niece and murdering his sister in law. His wife spent 8 years straight learning how to properly gather evidence, prove dna tests and navigating the legal system to get him free. After she proved him innocent and he left prison he divorced her lol.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:28 AM
1

If the situation was boring I wouldve left and not sit there on my phone for 2 hours. This part right here
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:07 AM
2

Come spend time with me. That's what I expect from my wife. Only say this. Think the rest.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 01:59 AM
15

Most guys that want to fuck outiside of their LTR do it on the low and come back home to wifey. Most women (when they're young anyway) break up with the dude then immediately fuck the guy they've been lining up. Think about it. How many times have you heard of dudes asking for a "break" in the relationship? That's my theory anyway.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 11:25 PM
-4

deodorant when i wear cologne nobody cares
/r/askTRP25/01/21 02:45 PM
1

It's as inevitable as girls testing your frame. Just smash a rando every once in a while bro. I haven't figured out another way either.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 02:20 PM
28

yeah, once you figure out which ones want to fuck and which ones are looking for minions to add to their unread notification validation army this shit is easy lowkey you shouldve thrown a hail mary at that mask girl tho. youde be surprised 😂
/r/askTRP25/01/21 10:19 AM
87

It's been roughly the same. Maybe even better since all the college girls are stuck at home doing zoom lessons. Biggest difference is I noticed is that on apps all the "i need to get to know you better" girls morphed into "let's hang out after Covid is cured!" girls
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:36 AM
1

Best way to show repentence is through actions can't touch her if you never meet her again!
/r/askTRP16/01/21 05:36 AM
1

tldr sounds like you caught the gay my ninja
/r/askTRP16/01/21 05:34 AM
2

I know this might be tough to hear, but you need to date around a lot more man. Once you've done a little bit of scumbag shit you'll be able to look back at this and see how fucked this relationship actually is. You spending 2 or 3 years smashing strange isn't gonna make you any less attractive, and it'll help you understand what to search for in an LTR a lot better. By not doing so, you're making yourself a target.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 04:41 AM
2

Sounds like you need to work on displaying the positive parts of your personality more
/r/askTRP12/01/21 04:25 AM
1

have sex more frequently (any advice on training would be appreciated). what have you tried and what's your goal
/r/askTRP10/01/21 02:51 PM
1

"what do you mean? what else do you want??" not saying i disagree, i run into this type of response from time to time and am curious about how youde handle it
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:23 AM
2

She wanted you to have a good reason she could tell her friends about why there were other girls there.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:54 AM
4

This right here. You can tell a hoe from a mile away. If she's trying to trick me into thinking she's not, and I act like I don't realize it, the whole relationship is built off of her "getting over on me." Fuck that. A hoe that treats you with respect is way better ltr material than a lying hoe. It also shows they STILL dont know how to lock down a man without relying just on sex (in this case, not doing it).
/r/askTRP25/12/20 02:14 PM
2

Yeah why not. Other dudes will call you gay for trying to look like some other dude while they're also just trying to look like some other dude
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:13 AM
2

Man I was gonna say it gets worse until i got to those last 4 parts. Shit sucks. I feel you. You're gonna be strong as fuck when you get out of this. Strength is the most valuable thing you can develop as a man. Do your best.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:11 PM
1

shit is so dumb, fat dudes that developed crazy game out of necessity then got buff are lowkey lucky
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:07 PM
1

Holiday bulk gang checking in if only hitting new PRs translated directly into SMV just remember in 2 months when you're 75% of the way to your goal instead of being pissed at this you're going to be pissed being stuck at the same bench as you are now Also now is a fantastic time to smash milf pussy. they love this shit. save the teeny boppers that want to smash an insta model for summer
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:04 PM
1

1st one
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:37 PM
1

where did i complain, i'm just trying to figure out how to get my dick wet
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:37 PM
1

I think you mistook my question for me asking how to handle it emotionally.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:08 AM
1

So just ping later yeah?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:08 AM
3

Wish I heard this shit when I was younger. It would have made life so much easier. OP follow this advice. It'll make more sense than you think later on.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 07:05 AM
1

Like hard next when she counteroffers my first date drinks with lunch? I haven't agreed to anything yet. After the first couple of boring lunch dates I started just ghosting girls when they acted like it was impossible for them to meet at night. I'm starting to think I should just start setting these dates and only show up if I literally have nothing else better to do at that time and just flake otherwise.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:51 AM
4

Focusing less on the content of the date and more on the time. I don't usually invite girls to just dinner.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:40 AM
4

I don't usually do dinner dates either. I'm talking when I ask if she wants to do some fun activity or grab drinks at night and she goes "how about lunch on x day?" Literally just now I said "no, I'm busy that day until night" and she responded "are you free any other day at lunch?" lol
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:37 AM
17

Facts. Would a recovering alcoholic keep empty bottles of their favorite beer around? That's what keeping contact is doing.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:30 AM
3

fwiw i think you were in the right. no point in arguing that tho, a girl won't ever admit she's wrong. enjoy your new single life
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:34 AM
5

It's a trap. Don't complain about anything you can't laugh about. Open up more about positive shit. Other than that fuck that. Women think they want to know about that shit just like guys think they want to know about a girls sexual past.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:21 AM
2

💪 Nah man, she's already nexted. Fuck that. Once you can laugh at a girl (respectfully) flaking you can start giving these hoes 2nd chances. This one doesn't even sound respectful.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:04 AM
2

Figure out the house situation, make a plan, and start stacking paper. What about living on campus? Getting a place with friends, some type of sharehouse situation? Either way it's going to take time. You've been programming for 10 years so you'll be able to get a good ass job once all this is said and done. If you need to take out a school loan or whatever so be it. I did it and I don't regret it. (not a private loan tho) Getting pussy takes significantly less time/investment. You can do that w…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:58 AM
1

Did you ask him why he thinks you'll do that? I have friends with fire game that know how to wingman. I also have friends with fire game that value playing over being respecful to me
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:44 AM
1

Seems like you're pissed about living at home and also not smashing box which one do you want more atm?
/r/askTRP15/12/20 06:40 PM
1

If you could only get 1, which would make you more happy: pounding random puss on the regular, or living alone
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:38 PM
4

Bro honestly posting here is just feeding your addiction. You aren't going to be able to get over her until you stop putting so much energy into it.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:27 PM
3

Halfway through you'll be glad you started jogging and start imagining all the new puss you can start trying to finesse. If you don't jog you'll just feel like shit all day because you got flaked on and also because you were a lazy bitch and let some bum ass hoe you havent even met control your time.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:24 PM
2

I'm the same way. The good thing about talking this shit out is if he respects you he'll make it a point to let you know he meant no disrespect and not step on your toes in the future. Assuming it is just you being sensitive
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:47 PM
13

Pull him aside and talk it out. You want to get good at squashing this shit when it happens. Don't do it in front of other people though. If he acts like a bitch and doesn't want to resolve whatever the problem is then you next.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:37 AM
1

I think it's a great idea While we're on the subject, if i send you a frying pan with a perfect mold of your face in it could you post a video of you smashing your face in with it
/r/askTRP10/12/20 03:13 PM
1

create something
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:31 AM
2

I just ask if they want to come chill at my place and x if it's going good. If she's willing to smash on the first date there will be 0 resistance. If they say anything but "yes" or "ok but..." (especially after i've been leading them all over doing fun shit) then I pull back a little bit, do one more fun thing then finish the date. Pushing for it isn't worth it, and even if you manage to get them back to your place it'll basically turn into you trying to negotiate your way into her pants and th…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:46 AM
5

Only go to ghetto spots with them? Stop taking your sentient black air force ones with you to whole foods
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:29 PM
1

It'll fix itself when she starts being bitchy and you don't feel like touching her for a while lol Fr tho I'm the same way. Are you lifting enough? What's helped me is when it's time to cuddle I usually grab them by the waist/legs from wherever they are and pull them in. If they're standing i'll pick them up and sit them down with me etc. Lowkey throw her around. Treat her like fuckable body pillow. (which lets face it, that's what you're actually using her for in those moments) You're a caveman…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:38 AM
2

send me the money you were gonna spend on the airpods I'll actually appreciate it and listen to your problems
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:39 AM
3

Yeah, literally just treat her like a dude you know wants something out of you (validation + attention in this case)
/r/askTRP05/12/20 04:20 AM
1

Lead in with the thing you want to do. Instead of we should meet up, say we should xxx. From there the answer is either a fuck yes or a no.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:10 AM
3

if i'm just pinging the girl my go-to is 👀 or a goofy twitter reaction picture or something if she doesn't respond before a date assume she's flaking lol
/r/askTRP04/12/20 03:40 PM
3

If she drinks I do the same thing except ask if they've ever had a lemon rosemary whiskey sour. Nobody has. I offer to make her one at my place. If she doesn't drink I offer to show her a cool album at my place and just put on an R&B album.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 01:33 AM
0

Just dye it and see if you like it. I'm 28 and have hella grays in my beard so i just keep it shaved. When I grew it out it didn't make a big difference. Older chicks shit tested me less, but that's it.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 04:06 PM
2

she goes i wsnt to lick your abs this the kinda shit you say to your friends my g? 🤨
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:36 PM
2

Yeah
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:50 AM
55

It sounds like anything you talk to him about is going to get back to his girlfriend which will then get back to your girlfriend. So you shouldn't say anything to him you wouldn't say in front of your girl. As a best friend he shouldn't be giving you unsolicited advice on your relationship like that in the first place, especially if you're happy. That said all you can really do is tell him to butt out. If you want advice you'll ask. You aren't telling him how to handle his girl, and he shouldn't…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:48 AM
3

gun-fu
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:23 AM
12

Why do you keep buying shit for her lol Like, if you start making her split the cost, what's the worst that can happen
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:06 AM
5

ya sometimes when i'm jacking off it morphs into my uncle's dick idk why
/r/askTRP29/11/20 06:13 AM
2

People say just do like 3 messages and ask her out but I get ghosted/told it's too fast like 99% of the time that way 1st day ~5 messages (ie 5 from her, 5 from you). Leave her hanging on the last one. Next day continue convo, another 5ish messages directing toward a meetup. Ask her on the last one. Ask what day she's free next week/this week etc. It'll go 1 of 4 ways: Ghost: No I don't know you well enough/it's too soon etc: She has no intention of meeting up or she's pegged you as a beta. Ghos…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 04:23 AM
2

Yeah, it was a coincidence though. When they found out they both ghosted me lol
/r/askTRP28/11/20 11:09 PM
22

Bro i'm dying there's dudes here ghosting girls for not coming over to suck dick the first time they ask and you're worried about this spiteful hoe feeling bad because you unfollowed her on instagram? you should have blocked her on everything when she did that shit, then called the dude and told him he's a POS and blocked him too. end of story
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:06 PM
8

If she lets me do whatever I want to her idrc I assume every girl I'm with has had more sex than me
/r/askTRP25/11/20 11:37 AM
6

So she's mixed, which means she's black. This was more of a social slip up than anything bro. Unless you're black, around people you grew up with in the hood that don't care, or a REALLY good comedian there will never be a positive reaction to you saying any variation of the n word from black people lol
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:48 PM
4

light skinned as in she's black and you aren't?
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:21 PM
2

I feel you. Sometimes I catch myself looking at other couples like "damn she's bad, homeboy really did it" People watching is whatever. The depression will fade when you know you're dedicating your time to something important to you.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 02:21 AM
17

Empathy, meaning the ability to understand other people's feelings? Yeah they do. They live in feelings literally 24/7. If you grew up in a cave you'de probably see pretty well in the dark right? That doesn't mean they always care or that it overrides what they find sexually attractive though.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 05:54 PM
1

Around a girl you want "yo man what the fuck is wrong with you" in your best who raised you voice. If youre with your boys/girls you arent trying to smash trip him or knock over something he's holding/using. If he's got a drink, spit in it etc etc. Just do schoolyard prank shit. If all else fails, nut tap.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 05:29 PM
1

Once you're out of high school all you really need is like 2 or 3 canned responses to "haha you're the whitest black guy ever" and that shit stops mattering. idk much about aspergers but your hobbies are fire. Metalheads and skaters are welcoming as fuck. I was never deep into either group but there's tons of baddies in both groups that I know would be cool with fucking the black dude. Some just out of spite. I was the indie black dude in college, so I know. If all else fails just try to become …
/r/askTRP23/11/20 04:11 PM
5

Whatever you decide to do make that shit work mane. That's the most important part to remember.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 11:53 PM
6

It does matter. Now what are you going to do about it?
/r/askTRP21/11/20 11:50 PM
4

pls dont make light of my condition u might trigger me
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:30 AM
1

His money/time value is a lot different than most people. If he's dropping a minimum 3 stacks a day in play money and these girls are charging him lets say $1000 to fuck or something (which I doubt) that'd be like a normal person paying 20 bucks to fuck an 9 instead of spending hours chatting, wining and dining a girl to convince her that she should let him fuck. Jumping through dating hoops in that situation when you just want to bust would be retarded
/r/askTRP19/11/20 05:11 AM
23

Out of the 7 first dates I set up from OLD in recent memory 2 flaked. That being said, this shit comes in waves bro. I've had times where I get like 5 first date lays in a row, get constantly ghosted on all apps for like 2 weeks then get a shit load of dates stacked up but they're all prudes/have ridiculous ASD etc. Just keep passively grinding it out. After a certain point this shit is just random.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:59 AM
10

3 years in. First month I had watery jizz and for the first 6 months I wasn't able to get drunk. Since then no sides. Hairline stopped receding. Still putting on muscle, being confident etc.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:27 AM
1

No i'm legit just curious all the time. I'm convinced deep down i'm probably weirder and done more fucked up shit than 99% of the people I run into so I'm not judging It's like they'll tell me something and expect me to judge them for it, then when i'm like "idk makes sense to me" they clam up. I just like learning about people but idk how to get them to stay open once i've gotten them to open up.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:20 AM
1

you can learn something from everyone whether op provides something new to me is up to chance tho
/r/askTRP18/11/20 06:36 AM
2

I think this technically qualifies as a frame question but how do you display that you understand and aren't judging someone based on what they're telling you without supplicating
/r/askTRP18/11/20 06:29 AM
2

Yeah, if it's basic shit like dating other dudes ("just lunch with a friend that wants to nut on my face!!!") there's no point in telling her that's bs. If she wants to do that, you know where she stands. If it's something random like you hate farts and you dont want her to fart right next to you, by all means.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:34 PM
26

3 dates + no sex = pursue other girls
/r/askTRP14/11/20 02:33 PM
1

Being a good wingman If you help someone get laid, trust they're gonna want you around at a party
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:36 PM
3

I did that with an LTR before. As soon as I started sending her fun texts she took forever to respond and starting sending me boring replies and sometimes just straight leaving me on read. Then when I stopped she had another reason to bitch at me. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:31 AM
-3

When did I say they don't?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:35 PM
-5

No they can't
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:30 PM
1

I bet this isn't the first time you've been through this though. Idk if it lasted 7 months but I go through periods like this. I'm convinced our bodies are just wired to make us randomly feel like shit. When it happens I just focus on grinding out the tedious/difficult shit because I'm gonna feel like shit whether I'm doing what I enjoy or not. When the storms over you you'll be happy with the results and you won't have to spend a bunch of time playing catch-up.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 03:16 PM
7

If you're extremely hot and willing to sell images of your body for money yeah. As a man if you're extremely tall you can also join the nba If you're extremely built you can join the nfl If your parents are extremely rich you can join daddy's company Doesn't work out for everyone though. And just because it can, doesn't mean everyone wants to do it
/r/askTRP08/11/20 01:06 PM
5

3 years in. First month I had watery jizz and for the first 6 months alcohol stopped being fun. Other than that no sides. Hairline stopped receding.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 02:19 AM
1

shit test
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:44 AM
4

Just go with it man, you never really know. She might be looking for a dude that's smarter than lunkjaw the linebacker and who she can hang around more than J. Cole's minions. She might have smashed all of them and they had trash dick. She might be in ltr mode. Like I said, you never really know. What was the fitness test btw?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:40 AM
24

Just cheat on her then you wont care if 14 year olds are jacking off to her on tik tok
/r/askTRP01/11/20 12:40 PM
1

This is actually a really good idea.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 01:13 AM
2

Even if there's no HR you should still talk to your boss about it. If there's even a sliver of professionalism then she can't just randomly talk about fucking at work. If it's really so unprofessional that your boss isn't gonna stop her from making overt sexual comments then you should also have free reign to say whatever you want to her. In which case just simply broken record "but you ate my ass tho." whenever she starts talking about fucking, even if she didn't actually eat your ass Don't arg…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:45 AM
2

iF yOu wErE bRaD pItT sHe wOulD
/r/askTRP29/10/20 04:36 AM
4

Literally this. You are in a position to be the pillar your family leans on. If you're unaffected you should use that to help your family.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 06:36 AM
1

Idk how common it is but it's surprisingly easy once you figure out how to finesse first date lays. (not tinder netflix and chills) I have a rotation of 3 and my game is ass. It's literally just establishing "we're gonna hang out, have fun, then fuck" with girls that are still riding the CC and aren't looking for commitment
/r/askTRP28/10/20 04:51 AM
1

id prob act like i want an ltr then dump her after she leaves her boyfriend because im petty like that
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:16 PM
2

That's ridiculous lmao s/o to you for managing to put on 70 lbs though. I can't imagine putting on that much weight, especially in 7 months.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:13 AM
4

Damn bro you must have looked like the stick bug from a bug's life
/r/askTRP26/10/20 07:36 PM
10

Yeah every time she pulls some bs she asks if i'm mad. That counts right?
/r/askTRP26/10/20 02:28 PM
1

how blobby doe like weight wise
/r/askTRP24/10/20 08:46 AM
13

How to clean this up really depends on your dynamic with her. If it were me i'd say "yeah, you're hot and i'm a guy. i can't help eventually wanting to fuck you when I'm around you." she's probably gonna say "is that all you care about" or w/e. to which you can respond "when i'm horny, yeah" edit: also be happy she just signaled she's gonna try to deny sex soon. prep how you're going to handle it now
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:44 AM
7

Pretty sure what she's doing is illegal. Should have just called the cops. "He called me fat" isn't a good defense against theft. Tho maybe it's good that you waited. If she tries some "i feared for my life" bs you have texts showing that you just called her fat lol
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:36 AM
2

Depends on the local culture. Honestly I've never gotten a first day lay during a day date. I end up spending most of the date fighting against being pegged as a provider or friend. Night dates are basically having fun and not talking yourself out of smashing.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 12:04 AM
5

What exactly about this makes you mad?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 01:46 PM
7

A friend that she makes out with?
/r/askTRP14/10/20 04:07 AM
4

Try talking to her and letting her vent to you about whatever problems she's having. She should have a lot to say if it's that bad. If she opens up about it just do the standard "wow baby i totally get it" etc that literally every girl in an LTR wants. Most girls would probably realize at this point putting distance between you 2 isn't going to help her family problems at home and just put unnecessary stress on yet another relationship. If she doesn't it's also ok to lead her there (idk how old …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:15 AM
5

She went home with him, regretted it after and calls me. Sounds like you got the gist already bro not much we can say here. Either you'll break up with her like you know you should, or you won't.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 11:37 AM
5

There isn't a lot of trp stuff written on this because it's a really rare setup but it's kind of fire. My OLTR and I are in a similar arrangement (there's no give me a kissy kissy or w/e tho). I can answer whatever questions that you don't want to ask your brother
/r/askTRP12/10/20 04:06 AM
1

If you actually asked too early she'll make a bs excuse and try to continue the convo. If she ghosts then she never planned on meeting up.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 03:13 AM
1

You can be not interested in trying shit you haven't tried yet. For some reason people get offended when you say this about food or entertainment tho
/r/askTRP08/10/20 08:32 AM
7

IME girls don't cheat because they're hot, they cheat because you aren't providing whatever they need at that moment and someone that looks like they can, shows up. As an example, you could slip up and be too beta, she goes out and some ugly, but confident dude spits his game because she's not too hot for him. Next thing you know it's hot gargoyle on gargoyle action. Not saying it WILL happen. I don'tknow your girlfriend, but "she's uglier than me so i'm safe" is a dangerous place to be
/r/askTRP05/10/20 03:03 AM
1

Just reply whenever you want. When you ask her out you'll know how interested she is.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:21 AM
3

If you walked into the group he's a part of then yeah, you do want something to do with him. If I'm out hunting pussy, being cool with the group cockblock is more important than asserting hat dominance or whatever. If he keeps pushing, sure, but taking your hat is some middle school shit
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:39 AM
38

"Damn bro I guess you don't want me to leave" If he's cool it'll get a laugh and you two will be homies, if he's trying to cockblock, he'll give try to give it back and you can just be like "nah it looks better on you"
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:01 AM
53

You culturally clueless swine just because she's dominican doesn't mean she wants you to buy her gucci and prada she's expecting michael kors
/r/askTRP30/09/20 02:37 PM
2

She is angry that I do not show my feelings and that I do not regret it very much. You sure she's not angry because you said you were going to tell her when you go out with other female friends then you didn't and she had to hear it from some random hoe? Hindsight is 20/20 but by voluntarily promising to tell her every time you hang out with a female friend you were setting yourself up for failure homie
/r/askTRP28/09/20 11:20 AM
1

i'd be willing to bet your game is to blame here read bang, day bang, and see how your buddies that are good with girls talk to them. if you don't have any, find some
/r/askTRP18/09/20 08:20 AM
70

nigga you gave coke to his daughter, he knows and you're considering meeting him in private? unless you think he's trying to buy drugs off of you what good do you think will come of this?
/r/askTRP18/09/20 03:12 AM
96

Funny enough these are the same guys that would call you their brother and say how much they love you. Every person that's told me this has fucked me over when I gave them the chance lol. They usually just want something out of you. The people that show you they love you, then call you dick-nose are your real brothers
/r/askTRP17/09/20 08:50 AM
52

I don't think this is even a test really. Dude basically was like "is he an orbiter" and she said no lol
/r/askTRP12/09/20 04:19 AM
9

We have had sex four times in the last year This is the biggest problem here homie. You aren't attracted to her and she doesn't respect you (both by your own admission). If your son/younger brother asked you how to proceed, what would you tell him?
/r/askTRP10/09/20 04:05 PM
31

PC answer: Because they directly said no in the past and some abusive monster texted her "fuk u then bich" and now thoughts of declining an invite like an adult bring up inescapable trauma Real Answer: it's free attention and if they straight up say no you'll stop giving it to them. also leaves the door open for them to say yes later on if whoever they're trying to rope in doesn't work out
/r/askTRP10/09/20 10:57 AM
1

all good points. I especially hadn't thought about what making a habit out of it could lead to.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:38 AM
1

No, I don't, but you're right about me being able to do better
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:33 AM
5

It sounds like you’re asking her for sex and waiting on her decision which is very strange. It probably does but that's not what's really happening. I do the pin her down cave man gorilla bullshit but if she says "no I don't want to tonight" and I keep going she'll just go FINE DO WHATEVER YOU WANT and go starfish. At least, the one time I just ignored it that's what happened. 2nd time she went starfish for the same reason I got up and walked away mid sex and she threw a tantrum and started knoc…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:16 AM
1

She tries about once a month, yeah. I worded it weird but other than the first time it happened and I just got up and did something else while she laid there waiting for me to come back and beg, every other time she's come back like 20 minutes later ready to smash. The problem is I'm starting to get to the point where after those 20 minutes I don't really feel like fucking her anymore lol
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:40 AM
1

Did u know when you're peeing you're actually holding a dick
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:24 PM
2

Have you tried just straight up telling her she's a boring texter? It looks like you want to text her too you just want her to reciprocate the effort. If she's still boring after you've made her aware of your viewpoint then the lack of texting is on her.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:28 AM
3

I've been there bro. Getting out of the habit of DEERing is tough. Especially when you don't know what is and isn't necessary (hint: less is more) To answer your question though: Deep down, do you still want to facetime her tonight? Think about that. Not "do you want her to apologize via facetime (she won't)" or, "do you want to act passive aggressive over facetime" (won't help), when you think about facetiming with your ltr tonight, does it sound like fun? If not, you can straight up tell her "…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 03:53 AM
2

being able to beat him in a fight tfw old man strength makes this the 2nd to last thing to happen
/r/askTRP26/08/20 02:08 AM
1

bruh😂
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:11 PM
1

bro where can you find a digital version
/r/askTRP24/08/20 12:51 PM
11

I'd gently lead her to realizing she's the one deciding to frame your situation as you being unemployed. And when she does, she'll probably say what the actual problem is. You have a career and you're in between jobs. You have a plan. Let's say you were a musician and just finished touring for an album and decided to live off the royalties for the year. Would the answer to "What does your boyfriend do?" be "NOTHING, HE'S UNEMPLOYED" or "he's a musician"?
/r/askTRP23/08/20 07:37 AM
2

Literally every friend group has that one guy that got his shit wrecked by drug usage in college. Be happy you aren't like the one in my group that we found alone dead on a bench. You bounce back by literally just recontacting everyone. If it's people you generally care about and that care about you be straight up and say "I had some drug problems. I'm clean now, wanna hang?" If they don't answer or tell you to fuck off who cares. Most probably will understand though.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:47 AM
1

This is actually one of the easier situations to deal with imo. Just make like 30 seconds of small talk and literally be like "well anyway, me and dategirl are kinda busy man, we gotta grab a beer sometime tho. you have my number right?" then exchange contact info that neither of you will ever use and you're done. That lets him bow out with grace and ends the interaction before it can get weird.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 08:03 AM
2

Honestly I tried the pulling away thing and it just made my girlfriend feel guilty and fuck me which I didn't want. Next time she tried it and didn't have a good reason I literally just said "well, i'm horny and staying cuddled up to you with your tits out isn't helping. I'm gonna go." I feel like this is DEERing or needy or whatever but before I took off she ended up enthusiastically sucking my dick
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:50 AM
1

Any particular reason why you chose 100 as the potential girls to fuck? if 7 is most men's average, why not start hunting at 37% of that [3ish]? I don't disagree, just wondering what your thought process is.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 08:05 AM
3

It's a combination of emotionally investing as much as possible in something no one can take away from you (which is why a mission is so important) and experiencing people taking away shit that you were emotionally invested in.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:35 AM
30

It gets worse
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:27 AM
1

Prostitution is legal here in Japan but it costs ~$250-300 for a good looking girl and PiV isn't ever truly guaranteed. (though still very easy to get) It's changed LTR dynamics more than anything. A lot of women here are shockingly fine with you fucking prostitutes (and by extension, strange pussy in general) as long as you aren't blatant about it and they still know they're number 1.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:59 AM
2

He should know y'all smashed. That's it. If she's the one to tell him, he's gonna feel like a chump. As a man, anything directly negative you say about her is just going to make you sound jealous. (as you already saw from the responses here) And don't do any "trying to prove a point" bullshit. That shit is disrespectful. If your friend is a man who respects himself, he will stop fucking with you.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:26 AM
1

Black guy who grew up in a suburb and mostly dated outside of my race but obviously grew up around black women. It's overblown. Just be ready to admit when you don't know shit, don't act like anything surprises you and you'll be fine. It'll probably come out when she's talking with old friends/family, when she's mad, or when she's fucking you. The last 3 questions really depend on how much she's immersed herself in suburban (white) culture, her general upbringing, and your game (just like any ot…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 04:20 PM
4

"You know how I feel about it. Telling me you want to do it isn't going to change how I feel about it. You do you." All that you don't trust me shit is BS. Some girls would be cool with you sleeping in the same bed with a female childhood friend. If your girlfriend wouldn't, that doesn't mean she doesn't trust you or understand you or whatever, and you waiting 3 years to make it a big deal would be a dick move. Right? Don't say all that, but just be aware of what's happening. She's communicating…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:55 AM
3

This is basically how i'm planning to move. Thanks man Keep in mind that no matter what, you won't get the sex you want. That is something that is determined early on. What do you mean by this?
/r/askTRP04/05/20 03:03 PM
5

This happened to me one time. I got drunk and ended up blubbering over working through a panic disorder a few years ago. Conveniently the next week she decided it was time to "put her foot down" (read: be a bitch) about me taking to long to text her back (even though she takes forever half the time too). That was pretty much the end of the honeymoon period as far as I can tell and it just became a normal relationship from that point. Which is to say it's not as dramatic as "she will forever view…
/r/askTRP16/03/20 02:15 AM
2

Seconding Andrew Schulz, he's a beast. He does tons of podcasts and stuff so you'll pretty much never run out of content.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 12:14 AM
6

He can't come up with your niche because then it will be his niche that he came up with for you, not yours. I'm not in exactly the same situation as you, but dating just wasn't really in the cards for me in college. Lived with my mom, commuter school, worked in an isolating job 20ish hours a week and everything was an hour away. Here's what niche I found for myself: Made a plan to move to a foreign country, got good at music production, set up a good base lifting, took several road trips to musi…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:57 AM
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