pakkyun Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
68	My Horror Story - God Bless FDS for giving me the courage to block, delete, and level up.	Story time ☕	pakkyun	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/20 01:19 PM

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3	Murder Red Flags: If you have experienced these, you are at higher risk of being murdered. I had an ex that months into the relationship admitted that he strangled his last ex gf. Bonus was that he had last his PSW job by strangling an agressive elderly man. Then I realized he frequently would bring up strangulation during sexual activity. No doubt in my mind that if I actually had gone across the border to see this man he would've killed me in cold blood for sure. (bonus for also being a drug addict with anger issues.) It keeps me up at night. If it wasn't for FDS I would have kept m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/20 10:21 AM
21	They're so quick to joke about Daddy Issues, but forget about their Mommy Issues - what else do you call it when you want to have sex with a woman who feeds you, cleans up after you and comforts you? "Maybe after mommy's promotion you can quit your job :)" - FUCK NO. Not even trying to hide that they want to leech financially off of their gf	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 11:00 AM
136	Men who don't pay on dates are insecure, not just cheap My first bf in high school used to beg to hold my wallet to pay WITH MY MONEY so it looked like he was paying. Sad	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 06:33 PM
9	SCORCH A SCROTE: Today I burned every single love letter, card, note, drawing he ever gave me- AND I DID IT LITERALLY WEARING A CROWN I ORDERED JUST FOR THIS OCCASION! I have a bunch of gifts from my disgusting groomer that I've been waiting for a special occasion to destroy. Can't wait!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/20 02:30 AM
4	This thread made me realize how much I have been groomed. I remember this man called «Batmanforever» that wanted to meet me when I was 13 years old. He told me he was 25. Its heartbreaking to read. I got groomed by a guy I met in A MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT GROUP on reddit. I've been so scared after going no contact in July that he would be lurking there again to try to find another vulnerable girl. Hopefully he is burning in hell instead :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/20 10:20 PM
5	Red Flags Galore This sounds similar to my last ex that I met online as well. Seemed sane and generous, but turned out to be extremely obsessive compulsive about video games to the point of ridiculous rage, and let me know AFTER a few months of "dating" that he choked out his last girlfriend during an argument. He was so good at hiding the crazy🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 10:48 AM
10	Red flag: Comments about your health/weight/size/diet/exercise Ive had an eating disorder for three years, enough to leanr that men have no idea how to go about supporting their partner with ED. My first bf and I both starved/binged, and we both felt like hypocrites if we ever encouraged eachother to improve our behaviours so we ignored the issue completely... My other LVM ex used to say "oh how can you feel that way? You're so beautiful. Look at how hard you make my dick" and whip out his junk. If I didn't act like my body issues were magically cured after…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 10:15 AM
2	Seeing how marriage is such a joke nowadays how many of you guys think you will still get married? Yeah... To a woman. Lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/07/20 08:32 PM
7	Dumped a gaslighter, worried I'll go back Yeah ive actually been quite anxious and getting heart palpatations because I am feeling so guilty. He had spent money on me, he was mentally ill with a toxic family, and I said I wouldnt abandon him.... But he definitely earned it. It likely seemed out of the blue to him that I wanted to break up, but to ve honest I had just been emotionally distancing myself for a few weeks and just counting the disgusting amount of red flags I was ignoring because he was buttering me up with special treatment…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/20 12:17 PM
14	Dumped a gaslighter, worried I'll go back I had the breakup talk with my exLVM two days ago, and even though i stated that I didnt want to date him anymore he kept on begging to still be my friend, saying he would always love me and wants a second chance later on - No thanks. It showed me that he would NEVER take no for an answer and would always be trying to test my boundaries as a "friend ". So I took the block delete pill and got rid of all my ways to contact him. Only 48 hrs and already feel so much less suffocated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/20 12:06 PM
8	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020 Just broke up with a guy I met on the internet because he lives across the border. I agreed to date him before FDS (funnily enough He introduced me to FDS by complaining about it LMAO) because i thought he was moving to Canada and he nice-guyed me into it by saying a should give him a chance and I caved. We were going to meet up in May, he only lived 5 hrs away, but corona fucked everything up. Not being able to meet in person within the year was my dealbreaker - theres only so much chemistry yo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 10:24 PM