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paladin400/r/seduction24/09/16 03:59 AM
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21

Yo! That’s harsh… But true
/r/seduction18/12/21 02:20 PM
7

Beautiful 😭
/r/seduction30/10/21 02:06 PM
-5

Tinder
/r/seduction13/01/19 08:13 PM
5

Err...I don’t see how quitting your job to slightly increase the chances of getting laid is a good idea
/r/seduction21/12/18 09:45 PM
3

This is /r/seduction, not /r/douchebag
/r/seduction24/11/18 05:09 PM
1

My man
/r/seduction24/11/18 05:08 PM
2

My man
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:36 PM
1

Tried that once. Nope. Strangers works waaaay better
/r/seduction18/02/18 09:21 PM
5

My man
/r/seduction18/02/18 09:20 PM
2

Yeah, but if you took it and didn't work, move on
/r/seduction29/12/17 03:38 PM
14

Move on. Attraction is simple, it's there or it isn't. Everything else is just excuses She was being polite, but you got rejected son
/r/seduction17/12/17 05:44 PM
5

Don't fap (7 days, even a librarian would make you horny) and have a drink before for the nerves. Also, this goes without saying, but the girl has to be hot. If she isn't and you are trying to force yourself to like her, you are doing it wrong
/r/seduction19/11/17 02:36 AM
1

NO
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:20 PM
1

Play it cool. Don't make a big deal out of it
/r/seduction02/10/17 01:03 AM
1

.....what? couple of hours? NO. That's not how it works. You are supposed to establish contact, rapport and then immediately isolate the girl you are interested in! that takes MINUTES (unless you were trying for a three-way, but you don't sound nearly experienced enough to make that happen)
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:45 PM
1

Ask her out, and tell her on the date. It's not rocket science. None of that picking up signals crap. Women give signals. MEN ACT
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:40 PM
2

No, and here is why. You lack experience, confidence. You believe deep down that you have to try hard to get the girl, which makes you over-think things and mess up. For the time being, you have to date multiple girls. That way your attention is spread, and knowing you have possibilities relaxes you. It's only temporary though. Eventually (if you keep practicing), you will become confident and you will start believing in yourself. Then it won't matter if you are dating 5 girls or just one Congra…
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:39 PM
2

Saying stuff like that only works in person. It requires confidence, the right tone, right body language and the right set up. Saying it on text however....to someone you just met....it comes off as both slightly desperate and pretentious. There is no recovery from that. Keep it light, keep it simple next time. And it goes without saying, don't make sentences like that
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:35 PM
1

The rule of thumb is that "Unless she explicitly says no, or pushes you away, it's a yes". I wouldn't say you messed up since you were considerate of her situation, but next time go all the way. Play it nice and slow
/r/seduction01/10/17 08:34 PM
20

I remember the time I met a PUA in London who was ugly as fuck. He was thinner than a supermodel, and had the kind of face you think of when someone says "dickface". Shorter than you as well The man did wonders in the club. Disappeared for 30 min, and when I found him his tongue was going down a cute middle eastern girl's throat. I asked him how he got to that point (the following day), and he told me "It was fucking horrible. I remember there were times were I left the club to have a cigarette …
/r/seduction01/10/17 06:00 PM
1

My man. What happened then?
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:51 PM
1

ONCE! ONCE! ONCE!. Creating attraction is complicated, but been attracted to someone isn't. You either are or aren't. If she says no, walk away. If she says she can't on the time you propose and fails to propose an alternative, walk away. Women do change your mind, but that's a maybe. A BIG maybe, and it usually takes a while. Would you sit there like a pathetic puppy hoping that she might change her response? that's how stalkers and losers who get hung up on people are born Move on. If you alre…
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:49 PM
1

By continuing to be rejected and making mistakes, and that's for 2 important reasons. The more rejected you are, the more desensitized you become. You stop caring, meaning that you are more and more willing to take chances. That gives you confidence, and girls can practically smell that confidence, and I think we can all agree that confidence is the best perfume on the market To quote from Batman Begins "Why do we fall Bruce? so that we can learn to pick ourselves up!". You think experts in sedu…
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:29 PM
3

God no! Fuck that race crap. It's your dick and your life. Just because someone belongs to your race doesn't mean there is a law out there that says you are supposed to be physically attracted to them. I'm Peruvian and I've never dated a single peruvian girl in my life, cause I consider them ugly as fuck. I've only dated foreigners, and I continue to do so with no shame whatsoever. You do you man, and the people you want
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:23 PM
1

what?
/r/seduction23/05/17 03:17 AM
1

...So much stupid in that sentence.... You know what? whatever. If you wanna keep making excuses for yourself, do the arranged thing
/r/seduction23/05/17 03:12 AM
1

No. I will never do arranged marriage. I'm not entirely sure how it works in your culture, but I rather being alone than getting into a fake relationship for the sake of my family. You will struggle, a lot. But it ain't impossible. Peter Dinklage is happily married, not to mention he is a multiple emmy award winner. So is Joe Pesci, An oscar winner Heck, I come from Peru, a place full of short guys (I was blessed with height though :D), and I don't see them struggling with being successful with …
/r/seduction23/05/17 03:06 AM
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I can't describe it, not sure if others can. But you can just tell. There is sexual tension in the air when a girl gives you that type of eye contact. If you don't know what it's like, I assure you it's because it hasn't happened yet :P
/r/seduction23/05/17 02:37 AM
3

It's not a major handicap in the US. It's a major handicap everywhere. Not a death sentence mind you, but you are gonna have to work a lot harder to make up for it
/r/seduction23/05/17 02:36 AM
2

Mah man
/r/seduction14/05/17 06:03 AM
3

Performance anxiety then. It happens
/r/seduction08/05/17 11:29 PM
1

Were they hot?
/r/seduction08/05/17 11:18 PM
4

If you do, you'll come out stronger
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:13 PM
7

Then do what it takes to make yourself happy
/r/seduction30/04/17 04:56 PM
3

Then do it yourself
/r/seduction30/04/17 04:55 PM
3

YES
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:39 PM
10

I agree. It's just you
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:39 PM
3

Move on
/r/seduction03/04/17 08:19 PM
2

It just means you are gonna have to play a longer game, but so far so good!
/r/seduction03/04/17 06:44 PM
2

If that's the case, one week won't do it!. Took me months to get half-way decent and I'm still learning. Pros said took at least a year or 2, 6 months been the best one
/r/seduction15/02/17 12:13 AM
1

Don't read to much into it. Just say "you let me worry about that" and have the date. If she continues to dwell on the subject....that's a red flag
/r/seduction15/02/17 12:11 AM
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wait, hold on....You were invited to a party and you are the only guest?
/r/seduction15/02/17 12:10 AM
2

You confuse changing with evolving. Things can be learned to improve your game. Better social skills, trying out different hobbies and experiences to have something to talk about, improving your fashion sense, work on your confidence, learn attractive body language, etc. That's just adding to your repertoire, but it's not changing who you are. You core personality will and should remain the same, and you have to accept that. If you try to "change" your personality, all you will achieve is been s…
/r/seduction15/02/17 12:08 AM
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It makes things somewhat simpler. If you are from X country and girls like guys from X country, it speeds things up, but that also means that if they don't, you are rejected right away. Where are you from and what's the country you are currently in?
/r/seduction14/02/17 11:58 PM
1

Listen to your friend /u/idrawshapes. He is a cool dude, he is trying to help you out
/r/seduction11/02/17 07:11 PM
1

So, think about this, you say "contact me if you want to get together sometime", and all she says is "Sorry, busy in the morning" and.....that's it. No "maybe on the weekend" or "I'll let you know whenever I'm off work". Not even "Maybe some other time." NOTHING!. I think you got your definite answer now. Onto the next one bro, but good on your for at least trying. Women almost never outright tell you they don't wanna see you. It's subtext, and you will learn to figure it out. If a girl wants to…
/r/seduction10/02/17 10:20 PM
0

Think of it like this. Most believe that you should delete and move on (me included) because it just seems that she is either not interested at all or not interested enough. But if you feel like there is a possibility to salvage this and don't want to regret the choice, you should sent her that message. If she straight up rejects you, at least you will be at peace with yourself and use this experience as a lesson for the future. If not, then good times :). It's important to play your cards right…
/r/seduction10/02/17 04:53 PM
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/thread
/r/seduction10/02/17 12:23 PM
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That's a flake. If you had a great first date and she is interested in seen you again, if she "is busy", then she would have proposed an alternative date. She didn't Sorry bro
/r/seduction10/02/17 12:21 PM
3

So long as the legend lives on, I'm good (☞ ͡ᵔ ͜ʖ ͡ᵔ )☞
/r/seduction31/01/17 06:34 PM
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(╭☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )╭☞ Mah man!
/r/seduction31/01/17 03:46 PM
-2

Be good at it for starters
/r/seduction31/12/16 05:35 PM
2

That depends. Is it a problem for you? that is, are you self-conscious about it? A dude with a darth vader T-shirt could pick up a girl so long as his game is solid and doesn´t give a fuck. But if he did, it wouldn´t work. If they bother you, then yes, it is a problem. Whether you like it or not, self-consciousness can be transmitted through body language and women can detect that. If it bothers you, I suggest you talk to a dermatologist to get rid of them
/r/seduction14/12/16 09:15 PM
1

Bringing girls back is.....possible, but way too much effort. It involves distancing yourself from the girl and blatantly letting her know your interest in other girls and your conquests until she starts feeling jealous. You are playing a long game, and it´s also pathetic when you think about it. all that effort just to impress one girl that already left you.....better move on
/r/seduction14/12/16 05:48 AM
1

.......nah. It´s been a very long time, and she still hasn´t said yes. Liking somebody is simple. Either you do, or you don´t If she hasn´t given you a clear answer, yet she still goes out with you, you are in the "maybe" pile, meaning there are other potential partners and she is seen all of her options. At this point, you made your move and failed and just waiting for hers, making you needy. And needy is never attractive. You could keep going, but at this point it doesn´t seem worth your time …
/r/seduction14/12/16 05:03 AM
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You know what I hear when reading your comment? blablabla I think I´m boring, hence I fail blablabla That is not true. The reason why you get bored, or she does, is because you are the one who does not like her. When you hang out with a person who you share interests with and there is mutual understanding, there is plenty of spontaneous fun to be had The fact that you think you need to "develop something", finding "the right topics and activities" is the very reason why you can´t get what you wa…
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:34 AM
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Basically, yeah. Minus the "wanna fuck you" part, unless she is into dirty talk Once it´s a done deal, you say "let´s go". Outside, you say "Can´t go to my place, so we are going to yours". At that point, she already agreed to have sex with you, so that small change in arrangement won´t bother her, unless she literally can´t have you at her place
/r/seduction07/12/16 04:52 PM
2

How about their place?
/r/seduction07/12/16 04:47 PM
2

(╭☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )╭☞ Mah man!
/r/seduction06/12/16 02:33 AM
2

It´s not the same!. It´s far easier for us to get mentally and emotionally exhausted. We can´t go all night long
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:48 AM
1

Bring a friend along!. you just need someone who makes you feel comfortable. He doesn´t even have to help you with the pick up, just been there for you
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:47 AM
5

I always wondered, how do you get invested in that? What makes a conversation interesting is not what you say, but how you say it. Your level of investment and energy. So, how do you make those "useless things" interesting to you? I´m bored out of my skull whenever those topics come up!, or are you just that good at faking interesting? (in which case, what´s your secret?)
/r/seduction05/12/16 08:28 PM
2

Solo pickups are a nightmare to me. I can do it, but it´s really draining and uncomforable. I realized that my game is at its best when I´m comfortable To achieve that, I usually bring a friend along. Not really as a wingman mind you, since when it comes to seduction, my friends.....well, suck. But talking to them for a while, laughing and having a good time gets me in the zone, which allows me to open with more confidence. Also, if I get rejected, I know that my buddy will be there to make me f…
/r/seduction05/12/16 08:23 PM
1

Try medication. Become who you are. Lol, you fucked up your message there
/r/seduction05/12/16 08:16 PM
5

Easiest way to tell is noticing if she does it just with you, or with everyone. And if it is with everyone, if the touch with you is different than with everyone else
/r/seduction05/12/16 08:14 PM
2

Why? sounds like a legit technique to me. Ima steal it /u/monkeyman114
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:08 PM
6

hahahahahaahahahhaahhaha
/r/seduction29/11/16 09:51 PM
2

No one ever does (I certainly didn´t), and for a good reason. Whatever makes you feel that way, you don´t wanna confront it, cause its scary as fuck (or just really really stressful and uncomfortable). But it´s gotta be done, if you truly wanna feel better
/r/seduction27/11/16 05:21 PM
3

oh......well, that has more to do with the psychological realm. I believe you worry a bit too much. From a biological perspective, we all like touch. It´s comforting and pleasant, hence everyone suggests kino. We are a jaded and skeptic society though, so you can´t do it right away. The video explains that in order to do it, you need an excuse in order to make it look natural Now, in your case, we can explain to you all day how kino works and why you should do it, but....I feel you should talk t…
/r/seduction27/11/16 04:51 PM
1

or just a middle ground between the two
/r/seduction27/11/16 04:09 PM
9

Maybe you need to see an example rather than just reading about it, would give you a better idea of how it works Try this one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kmZa-dtruFI
/r/seduction27/11/16 04:07 PM
1

Yeah....and they just moved
/r/seduction27/11/16 04:06 PM
1

(╭☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )╭☞ Mah man!
/r/seduction27/11/16 06:27 AM
0

le buuuurn
/r/seduction27/11/16 06:22 AM
1

It certainly isn´t fair, but that is just how society works. Sorry, if you wanted to be approached, you should either be a calvin klein model or a born in a different gender
/r/seduction27/11/16 06:20 AM
2

nononononono, interest is interest. If she had any, she would have made the time to answer you back. If she didn´t, or she "forgot", clearly she doesn´t think you are worth a second date. Sorry bro, you lost this one. move on
/r/seduction27/11/16 06:18 AM
4

NO
/r/seduction27/11/16 06:17 AM
1

I´d say it makes it bearable. I have a similar issue, people can bore me easily, regardless of my conversational skills. If you are putting too much effort in a conversation, it´s not a good one!. It´s meant to be effortless That´s why I usually go for foreigners. Since they come from a different culture, they are unusual which I find interesting. But to each their own. I respect your desire to improve your conversational skills, I just hope you don´t end up resenting people in the process. At s…
/r/seduction26/11/16 11:11 PM
1

Extra points for been an introvert. The struggle is extra real for us. You should look into yoga (if you have the time). You get chilled and quite interesting girls in those classes, and no men! (not to mention that it is relaxing). Half the work is already done cause you make them wonder why you are there, making you automatically interesting
/r/seduction26/11/16 10:57 PM
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amen
/r/seduction26/11/16 10:52 PM
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wow, hold on a sec. let´s get something clear here. This is YOUR LIFE. You get to choose what you find interesting, what you don´t. No one else has a say on this. When people say "it´s your fault", its generally aimed towards people that use excuses to not do the work. But you already did it, so it doesn´t apply to you. If you realize that you don´t find those girls interesting, then that´s great!. You are learning what you like and what you dislike, making the search for your ideal girl easier.…
/r/seduction26/11/16 10:43 PM
1

Well, If you don´t like the night game then that´s a different matter entirely. Some people do night game, some do day, some go to yoga classes, some do tinder, etc. Just gotta find your niche!. Maybe you are not finding the type of girls you like during night game, hence your frustration. But all things considered, you seem to be doing pretty well!
/r/seduction26/11/16 10:39 PM
1

If he does like videogames more than sex then.....We have found our jesus. People would create a whole religion around him
/r/seduction26/11/16 08:04 PM
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(╭☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )╭☞ Mah man!, congrats on making it that far Also, I agree with /u/monkeyman114. Why do you do this? we do this cause we wanna. We like the thrill, the sex and the sense of confidence it gives. If you don´t get that, what´s the point?
/r/seduction26/11/16 07:27 PM
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It´s what I do ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/seduction26/11/16 03:06 PM
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Mah bad. I mixed the two. One is literally just saying it (I´m still working on that one), and the other is asking without putting any pressure on the girl, so chances of accepting go up.
/r/seduction25/11/16 10:58 PM
0

I don´t see the irish struggling with it
/r/seduction25/11/16 10:45 PM
3

Saying how you feel is not needy (although, you should make sure that the timing of doing so works in your favor). It just means that you seek validation from someone else to the point of depending on it I agree with /u/Juan-San sensei, it never is. Remember, women want a rock. Someone they can depend on. They DO NOT want to be the man in the relationship. You are free to express your feelings once you get the girl and reached a certain level of trust, but that ain´t neediness, that´s just hones…
/r/seduction25/11/16 10:44 PM
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Wow, Off the top of my head.... Unless you are looking for friendships, Don´t wait too long to make your move on a girl. The longer you wait, the higher the chances you´ll get into the friendzone. Also, if the girl is pretty, you generally ain´t the only person after her Money, muscles, looks, good job, etc. Do help a lot. But the main quality that makes a man attractive is confidence. You can have a girl go after a wealthy man or gym goer, but after she notices he is as dull as a wooden stick, …
/r/seduction25/11/16 06:05 PM
52

(╭☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )╭☞ Mah man!
/r/seduction25/11/16 05:55 PM
4

"you are such a nice guy". ugh..... Looking back, I´m disgusted at myself for allowing that to happen
/r/seduction25/11/16 05:54 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE All the night game info you´ll ever need
/r/seduction25/11/16 01:40 AM
1

Listen to your friend /u/recyclablebanthas. He is a cool dude. He is trying to help you out
/r/seduction24/11/16 09:21 PM
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That´s the nicest way I´ve seen a girl giving the middle finger. Yeah....move on dude. It doesn´t get clearer than that
/r/seduction24/11/16 09:15 PM
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(╭☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )╭☞ Mah man!
/r/seduction23/11/16 04:51 AM
2

(╭☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )╭☞ Mah man!
/r/seduction22/11/16 09:36 PM
1

Well, you shouldn´t worry so much about how many times you should approach her in general, and think more about how many approaches will it take for you to ask her out Remember the golden rule, The longer you take, the deeper you get into the friendzone. And if she is pretty, you are usually not the only guy after her. Make your move son!
/r/seduction22/11/16 09:34 PM
1

Well, given your downvotes, I wasn´t the only one.
/r/seduction22/11/16 09:14 PM
1

your very first comment, "why didn´t you fuck her". if my college degree doesn´t let me down, I think that means you expected him to
/r/seduction22/11/16 09:06 PM
1

Did you read the whole post? dude is clearly a beginner and still working in his courage to talk to girls, and you are already expecting him to fuck? You are worst than chinese parents!
/r/seduction22/11/16 09:03 PM
2

baby steps
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:56 PM
3

(╭☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )╭☞ Mah man!
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:55 PM
2

I´m not sure if you are clear on the concept of oneitis. It basically boils down to you liking the girl to the point of not wanting to loose her, hence your game suffers. Now, in a relationship, if you are already with the girl then.....why wouldn´t you have oneitis? she is your gf because she is better than the rest! it would be weird to be in a loving and caring relationship while thinking to yourself "eh....I can do better" With that been said, balance is key. If she becomes your life and you…
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:54 PM
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What exactly do you mean by "I might as well go for her if she likes me"?. If you like a girl and she likes you, you go for it. If you don´t but she does, are you implying that you can´t get any and she is your only option?, by which case fuck that!, you just keep trying with other girls!
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:46 PM
1

.....what?
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:40 PM
1

hahahahaha, you were nicer than you should have with your answer :P
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:40 PM
1

mmmm.....are there no bars around? you really wanna deal with that on a nearly daily basis? not to mention the way back?
/r/seduction22/11/16 01:39 AM
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(╭☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )╭☞ Mah man!
/r/seduction21/11/16 08:10 PM
1

Wait.....why would you approach an attractive girl with the intent to just be friends? I don´t mean that there is anything wrong with having female friends, on the contrary!. But why would you purposely choose pretty ones? you are setting yourself up for disaster
/r/seduction21/11/16 08:08 PM
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(╭☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )╭☞ Mah man!
/r/seduction21/11/16 08:06 PM
2

Yes, yes they do.
/r/seduction21/11/16 08:06 PM
1

I remember the time I went out with a PUA and he told me "listen, you can have a goddamn Darth Vader T-shirt on you when going clubbing, but if you play your cards right, you can still get the girl. Nothing would replace confidence and experience. They are the foundation of seduction. however, if you can do something to improve your game, why not?" Muscles are a huge plus, and so is money and looks. If you have them, why not use them? you are trying to have fun, not to prove anything to anybody!…
/r/seduction21/11/16 08:03 PM
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The whole idea of the game, beyond getting laid and self confidence, is to achieve a point of self improvement were you have all of the elements necessary to get that one girl. The girl that made it all worthed and makes you not care about any other. That is why it is called "the game". It´s gotta end at some point!, and that is the end goal. It seems like you are not gonna find your dream girl in a club, lol. You can still go to work on your confidence and learn how to flirt and deal with women…
/r/seduction21/11/16 07:36 PM
1

......I´m confused now, are you talking about yourself in second person?
/r/seduction18/11/16 03:18 AM
1

same...
/r/seduction18/11/16 03:10 AM
2

Them ladies know what they want. They also know stuff ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/seduction18/11/16 01:48 AM
1

I know the feeling.... plan 2 is for you to make your move as soon as possible, to prevent you getting into the friendzone. The longer you stay in it, the longer you are gonna contemplate it while your chances of getting any lower For the seductions experts, just a matter of practice really
/r/seduction17/11/16 09:51 PM
1

The best solution for Oneitis is to have multiple options. The mindset of "I don´t care if I lose her" is what makes a man attractive. However, you have to trick your brain not to care if a girl you do wanna be with comes along. So, have multiple options. Be in the chase for multiple girls at the time. That way, your brain will be like "she is cool, but I´m gonna be alright if I lose her".
/r/seduction17/11/16 09:36 PM
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I think you are giving this waaaaaay more attention than you should. In seduction in general, you can´t over analyze every small detail. People are complex and have a near bottomless depth. We can´t know with scientific accuracy what every person is gonna do or think. Sometimes people themselves don´t know how they are gonna act and think We simply live by certain mindsets, adjust to our environment and try to fullfill a checklist in the hopes that it would work out (i.e confidence, busy life st…
/r/seduction17/11/16 09:27 PM
1

99%??????, boy must you go through life resenting and hating everyone
/r/seduction17/11/16 09:03 PM
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There is only so much I can tell from a description. I´d need to hear his side of the story to give you an answer.
/r/seduction17/11/16 09:02 PM
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......I think I´ve said it in EVERY SINGLE one of my comments. YES!, I THINK SHE IS ON THE FENCE! Let him decide what to do
/r/seduction17/11/16 07:55 PM
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It feels like high school... Well....It all boils down to what a person wants. In terms of cheating, from what you have told me so far, it sounds kinda risky. She is been quite.....dodgy to say the least. So, if your friend wants to hang out and just be friends, I woudn´t risk it. I´d say he should stay clear If she wants something more, then its on him to decide what´s morally right and wrong. Leave it up to him, just tell him what you think and he´ll make his own choice
/r/seduction17/11/16 07:39 PM
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ugh.....high school drama.... Just tell your dude to keep his distance. He´ll be fine. If you don´t want people to fuck with you, don´t put yourself in situations where that could happen
/r/seduction17/11/16 07:16 PM
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If that´s what he wants then why is he still talking to her????? Regardless of what she wants (best guess is that she wants the D), this is a lot of unnecessary drama. Tell your friend to stop been an idiot and stop talking to her!
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:42 PM
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Anxiety and depression tend to cripple your game. You can get all sorts of tips and book recommendations over here, but I don´t think that would help you deal with the elephant in the room You need therapy man. Talk to a psychologist, get therapy for a few months and when you feel more emotionally balanced get into dating. 3 years is a lot of built up pain They say that 5 girls in is more than enough to forget an ex, but this was your wife!, someone planned to spent the rest of your life with, s…
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:39 PM
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mmm.....if you want a relationship, you put the girl in an awkward position by saying "yeah, I´m married, but I´m getting divorced in about a year so no biggy!". I suggest you take the ring off, just have fun and then look into a proper relationship after the divorce is finalized
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:34 PM
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I think moral principles are detached from the game. You come here to learn how to pick up women, not how to be a man monogamy or polygamy? that´s on you to decide. You choose to be a dick or an honest man (I mean a dick by cheating, but I´m not against open relationships). You do you man, don´t try to find excuses over here about whether or not cheating is ok. Be your own man and own the responsibility of your own actions
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:28 PM
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if he don´t wanna be used, then what does he want? a genuine thing with a girl with a BF? COME ON!
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:25 PM
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Well, biggest difference between older and younger is that they are more direct. With the younger, you gotta speak some BS here and there due to how immature they are, but older? They know what they want and they go for it. You gotta stand your ground, be confident, don´t let them intimidate you and make your desire clear.
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:23 PM
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Well, generally speaking, if you are attractive then you are attractive. I had older girls asked me, made some comments here and there like "I wish you were a bit older" or "I would go for someone like you.....but then I remember the age" and I still was successful Say your age and don´t make a big deal about it, cause it isn´t unless you make it a big deal
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:19 PM
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hehe, why are you so curious? Then it stops been fun, and it becomes a search for an affair
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:08 PM
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The whole point of "the game" is to WIN!. To get that one girl who is perfect for you and makes you wanna stop chasing other girls. The "final boss" if you will, and then you get the princess All the other girls before her are warm up, fun, and self-improvement until you are ready for the big one
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:07 PM
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Maybe he came across a bit whiny, but it´s a legit question. He just wanna understand the alpha mindset better
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:05 PM
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Still in the middle of the adventure
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:01 PM
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some non existing rule? it´s call fear you silly Brain is wired to come up with excuses not to do things you don´t wanna, but have to You stop that by rewiring your brain. That is, doing it to the point where you get used to it and its no problem, like and introvert who is afraid of social interaction, but after enough practice it becomes natural
/r/seduction17/11/16 05:57 PM
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To some, yes, they are. But to others, it´s simply that it is....exciting. It´s an adventure, talking to an attractive man and see how far he can go. But as soon you fuck up, they´ll be like "fuck it, I have a boyfriend"
/r/seduction17/11/16 05:56 PM
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Silly me. Those are staples
/r/seduction17/11/16 05:01 AM
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Bars are good too
/r/seduction17/11/16 02:32 AM
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Dissapointed?
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:45 AM
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I agree, expanding knowledge and interests is key to been an interesting person and have more to talk about. I´d add that OP should also be seeking new experiences. Volunteering, learning to cook, learning to dance, travelling, etc. New experiences give you confidence, and stuff to talk about. Also, works amazingly if someone shares your experiences. Makes it easier to bond
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:41 AM
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Clear your head first. Too soon for any action. Relax, have some alone time and process the shock of your ended relationship. Once you are good to go, get back in the game. 5 girls in and you´ll be as good as new
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:35 AM
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Aye Aye captain
/r/seduction15/11/16 03:45 PM
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Varies really. Took me about 4 months to see results, but it was continuous and arduous effort, and I was trained by PUAs in a bootcamp I asked them how long it took them. They told me that they became experts and it become effortless around the 2 year mark. Basically, it does take a while, and it can be disheartening. My PUA told me "It was horrible when I first started. It was so emotionally draining that I always ended up going outside the club to smoke and start crying, wanting to give up so…
/r/seduction15/11/16 03:26 PM
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It´s the easiest way to do so, not the only one though. Having money and looks is great, but showing your value through confidence, positive attitude and bravery is equally, if not more effective
/r/seduction15/11/16 05:40 AM
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Just......ask......how old......she is.....
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:54 AM
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Easiest way is just to make a joke about the boyfriend. "boy you are really stubborn!, you must drive you boyfriend insane!". She will correct you if she doesn´t, she would go along with the joke if she does
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:53 AM
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Stick to night clubs. Of course that there is plenty to do during summer, lots of outdoor activities. But winter?, it´s all about the indoors. Bars and night clubs are your friends during this season. Coffee shops too!, always go for a hot coffee. Hardly anyone would say no to that
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:50 AM
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Good man. Keep us updated buddy!, we´ll be with you every step of the way
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:48 AM
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I´ll let the other guys give you advice Just came here to say, respect bro. So many pussies out there not willing to move on from the friendship because "they are too scared to loose the friendship" and "Been in the friendship is better than nothing". Yeah, staying at home masturbating all day and feeling sorry for yourself because she is fucking another dude. Clearly that´s "better than nothing" You the man bro!
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:46 AM
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You gotta show your value and be approachable. easier said than done though If you lack experience, stick to doing the chasing.
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:36 AM
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Then why does it bother you?
/r/seduction14/11/16 10:39 PM
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Is it though?. I live my life the way I fucking want, and sometimes people talk and judge. I don´t let it get to me, and if challenged I stand my ground. I don´t seek approval, I seek to do have fun my way! So should you. Again, you do you, and learn the magic phrase "mind your own fucking business"
/r/seduction14/11/16 08:50 PM
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A mindset is a mindset son!, it´s subjective. You don´t need to literally have a girl lined up to have it. With enough practice, it´s possible to trick your brain into believing it, even if it isn´t actually true
/r/seduction14/11/16 08:47 PM
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I learned this by mistake, lol. Sometimes, girls I´m not attracted to approach and start talking to me. I´m good at conversations and I don´t wanna be rude,so I just go along with it. I show no interest, yet I´m involved, and that got women more interested in me, which.....was so not what I wanted. Had to come up with a different strategy But yeah, it´s a killer mindset. good for you bro!
/r/seduction14/11/16 08:45 PM
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I think it has more to do with context. there is nothing wrong about asking about one´s job....if you are on a date or having a coffee, but during a night out? people do that to relax!, forget about their job and all the stress that comes with it. That´s is why people tell you not to talk about it. I think that´s where your confusion is. It may bring negative feelings, which she could relate to you (since you are the one bringing it up). At least ask halfway through the conversation, after you n…
/r/seduction14/11/16 08:24 PM
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Mah man!
/r/seduction14/11/16 08:12 PM
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Mah man!
/r/seduction14/11/16 08:11 PM
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Life has been hard on you, even unfair because you always tried your best to be a decent guy. It also seems like everyone around you who is an asshole tends to do well. Respect, friendships, doing well at work, women, etc, they seem to have it all!. I know how that must feel disheartening, been through that myself. If it helps, a person gave me this advice "The reason why it seems you are unsuccessful is not because you are a good guy and not an asshole, but because you are good guy expecting th…
/r/seduction14/11/16 08:05 PM
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why do you care? if that´s what you like and ain´t illegal, you do you bro!. Don´t let other people tell you what´s appropriate for you
/r/seduction14/11/16 07:45 PM
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"I don´t want to find someone else or anything shes so beautiful" Oh brother....Two things that are attraction bummers for women. 1) Neediness. If you cling to one girl, you start caring. You start caring, you become needy. You are needy.....women don´t like pussies. They want MEN who don´t need nobody and are independent, regardless of whether or not women are into them. 2) Making it obvious you like her. Just because you had a nice conversation, doesn´t mean instant attraction. At least not if…
/r/seduction14/11/16 07:41 PM
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I see. In that case, you tell her "I wanted to have a date with you, not a social call with you and your friend. I´m not going if she comes" Sounds rough, but here is the thing. Her friends feelings is her problem, not yours. If she really wants to go out with you, she´ll deal with it. Otherwise, either she is not ready or she is trying to come up with an excuse not to go out with you
/r/seduction14/11/16 07:31 PM
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Well that depends. If you are a piece of shit, go for it. Seems pretty obvious she is into you. Otherwise, Plenty of girls out there
/r/seduction14/11/16 07:21 PM
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It´s not a date then, and its on you for not been clear about your intentions. I´d say either you cancel, or you risk it and tell her you wanted it to be a one on one date
/r/seduction14/11/16 07:18 PM
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It works. wish it didn´t
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:23 PM
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I´m not confident in it.....I think you just hit the nail on the head, I never looked at it that way. Experience made me believe it was more of a sign of weakness than anything else. Maybe my mistake was holding onto that belief Thanks man, you´ve given me quite a bit to think about
/r/seduction24/09/16 04:41 PM
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Maybe I just need to change my environment. I live in a place were men tend to be aggressive and straightforward, like the kind of assholes you see in movies. They tend to get all the girls. It´s not jealousy mind you since so can I, its just that I don´t wanna believe their behavior is the pinnacle and best way to achieve results. I know I´m in danger, its why I´m here :P
/r/seduction24/09/16 02:47 PM
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I´m done reading. Read loads already. I need the advice of people that speak from experience. No offense to you or the book
/r/seduction24/09/16 02:44 PM
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Experience. Dated older girls too. fun since they tend to "know stuff", but they are very demanding in a relationship
/r/seduction24/09/16 02:43 PM
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Change the subject. If you don´t wanna talk about it, don´t
/r/seduction24/09/16 06:03 AM
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No, I don´t lose sleep thinking about it I just walk with my back straight and my arms to the side. Plus, there are 100+ other factors far more important in seduction than walking. If you think it is vital, I´m smelling autism
/r/seduction24/09/16 06:01 AM
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Pewdiepie?
/r/seduction24/09/16 05:57 AM
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.......fuck. Those are super high maintenance, unless they are desperate, in which case they are no good
/r/seduction24/09/16 05:41 AM
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I wouldn't say there is anything wrong with sarcasm. If you are fully confident and you own it when you do it, it will work. Its not what you say but how you say it that matters after all. However, if you are sarcastic throughout the conversation, it will get annoying and she will cringe
/r/seduction26/06/16 06:25 PM
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Don´t. For someone you just met or you are currently dating, sharing your problems and insecurities is a massive turn off for women. Women want someone strong, independent and that can take care of them. How can they get that impression if you tell them how fragile you are?. Not to say that you are, but you certanly will give that impression. Save it for a therapist or a girl you have a long term relationship with
/r/seduction23/08/15 01:29 PM
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lol "I´m not a party planner, so she better bring something to the interaction" dude you are my hero, That´s a killer mindset!
/r/seduction23/08/15 01:27 PM
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