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| 5 | Bikini waxing?Nah, much higher risk of ingrown hairs and infection with waxing, not cleaner at all. The body is built to self regulate that shit, I'd stick to trimming and the odd gentle shave if you feel so inclined. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 09:09 PM |
| 28 | The IckSmoking weed as a hobby, videogames as a pastime, cowardice... I could go on. But you're totally right- once I lose respect for a man I have zero attraction to him anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Avoid chasing after low effort men and wasting your energy on a one-sided relationshipSure is. Wish there was some way to find HVW/FDS friends in my area!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:57 PM |
| 60 | “You’re a woman though”The devil on my shoulder wants to doxx this guy, but I have more grace and better things to do with my time than hunt down scrotes online 🤣😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:56 PM |
| 5 | To My Fellow Chronically ill HVWThank you so much for this post. I've often felt like I'm lower value because of my condition and how it affects my energy levels. It means so much to have it recognised that chronic illness doesn't disqualify me from being a HVW. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:03 PM |
| 8 | This is our dating pool 😂This is a perfect taxonomy of the options in my experience 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Queen mindset 👸I relate to this so hard! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 12:44 PM |
| 6 | How do you ladies feel about friends that prioritize their boyfriends?My friends do this all the fucking time. Hate it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:21 AM |
| 25 | Avoid chasing after low effort men and wasting your energy on a one-sided relationshipGenuinely gutted at how many of my female friends this applies to. Time to take FDS principles into all spheres of my life I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWMe neither, female friends for some reason make me more self-doubting than guys do. I think this is because the level of reciprocity I hope for from a female friend is greater than that of a guy, so I'm more likely to feel pressured to "get it right" with women as it feels like there's potentially more at stake. Does that make any sense? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 10:54 PM |
| 11 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWMe too. I'm always told to lighten up in terms of conversation but I find that quite superficial and honestly boring. I've come to a point in my life where after years of being referred to as intense or too full on I've decided to accept it because I think it's a strength. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 01:32 PM |
| 7 | 🔔🔔🔔🔔 You are not a Rehabilitation Centre for Badly Raised Men, so you don't have to tolerate them, sit through the horrible date, look at them, listen to rants, feed them, raise them, finance them, parent them, better them 🔔🔔🔔🔔 Use that energy for You! 💋💄👠🤸♀️💎👩💻🦸♀️👩🎨I do 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 01:28 AM |
| 33 | 🔔🔔🔔🔔 You are not a Rehabilitation Centre for Badly Raised Men, so you don't have to tolerate them, sit through the horrible date, look at them, listen to rants, feed them, raise them, finance them, parent them, better them 🔔🔔🔔🔔 Use that energy for You! 💋💄👠🤸♀️💎👩💻🦸♀️👩🎨I recently made a bunch of shirts that say "women are not rehabilitation centres for insecure and unstable men" 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 08:43 PM |
| 11 | Violence against women is pandemic. In 2020, 163 million Google searches for 'how to hit a woman so no one knows'. Meanwhile, we masked, vaxxed, and stayed at home for 84 million confirmed covid cases. Treat men like they are diseased and depraved until proven otherwise.And the third circle on the Venn diagram would be those men who use unisex toilets and then just urinate on every thing in the cubicle, leaving it totally unusable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 05:43 PM |
| 34 | Men who have ''furry'' fetish?I keep as FAR AWAY FROM furries as possible, and I'd urge you to do the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 08:34 PM |
| 95 | Men and voyeurismDamn, he must have invested in some serious cloud storage plan. I didn't know they did discounts for perverts... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 08:09 PM |
| 107 | Dating Red Flags to Watch Out For: Submarining and Temperature ReadingFallen for this shit too many times to count, bless up those days are firmly behind me now 🙏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 06:01 PM |
| 4 | “liberated men needed groovy chicks who could swing with their new lifestyle: women tried. they needed sex: women complied. but thats all they needed from women.“—Firestone, the dialectic of sex, 1970.Image credit to Barbara Kruger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:10 PM |
| 22 | Recovering from BDSM.. and my new list of standardsA few lines in this hit me HARD. Particularly your dissection of the terms "subspace" and "aftercare" which have always grossed me out as concepts or kinks but you have really laid it out here... Shudder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:47 PM |
| 3 | And there it isWhy can't I upvote twice!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Book recommendations that aren’t self-help? (Preferably fiction)Queenie- Candice Carty-Williams | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Dear ladies who love too much: You MUST protect yourselvesYou have no idea how on point this is and how much I needed to hear exactly this right now. I just caught myself doing all of that all over again, and then felt disappointed in myself for not having learnt by now. But the bit in all caps really said it perfectly, so thank you so much for posting this. ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Ms. Dynamite - Put Him OutBanger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:38 PM |
| 6 | 😂😂Nailed it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 10:46 PM |
| 3 | A solid checklist ✅Printing this out for my wall for sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:36 PM |
| 35 | The tradcon guide for the modern womanOhhhh my youth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.What 'flex' do these young women think it is? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:50 PM |
| 11 | "Mixed messages" = she hasn't blocked himLiterally this!!! There's a guy I saw a couple of times before I realized NEVER AGAIN but I didn't block him because I wanted to be aware of he was still trying to contact me...he's a clinger. He seems to think that despite not responding for 4 solid months I'm giving "mixed messages" Like dude, no. Evidently I am I giving you NO MESSAGES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:05 PM |
| 6 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?Ty WAP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Conflicted about the importance of sexTotally. I'm still hoping there's a guy out there who won't need me to compromise 🤞 Ha I have no idea why the downvoting, reminds me of that Flight of The Conchords show: "be more constructive with your feedback!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Conflicted about the importance of sexI have the same dilemma. The guys that do it for me sexually are usually lacking in other important areas...and the ones I feel I could be long-term compatible with usually underdeliver in the bedroom. My hope is that in sticking it out with the long-term compatible ones, they can be taught to satisfy me over time, even if they don't have the chemistry there immediately (except in matters of d*ck, they're either packing or they're not). But it's such a big compromise to make for me personally, s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 10:53 PM |
| 36 | This is true 100% of the timeI've always thought this, so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:09 PM |
| 70 | I love this energy. Men need to be more competitive🤣So tempted to use this soon... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:56 PM |
| 2 | The 2020 pickme hall of shame award goes to you, Nichol Kessinger 😡There's a podcast called The Watts Tapes that examines her role pretty thoroughly and you're totally right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:25 AM |
| 31 | How many men have actually given you orgasms?"NVM FLAT PILLOW" gave me a visceral reaction- so gross but it happened so many times. You're so right, next time it even crosses my mind imma remember that feeling of the flat ass pillow with bobbles on the polyester linens and some scrawny fool laying next to me in his shorts from the night before and the Xbox controller still in his lap. The triumph of knowing I'll never be there again makes it easier to forgive all the times I was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:37 PM |
| 30 | How many men have actually given you orgasms?I was actually asking myself this the other night. I'll probably get shade if I post the full number but as a ratio I'd estimate that only 1 of every 9 guys I've been with has made me climax, but I'd say roughly only 4 or 5 in 9 has made any effort to do so. Which after working out that arithmetic is pretty damn bleak. Thank god my days of NVM sex are WAY in the past now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:49 PM |
| 7 | Scrote actually put 'thigh gap' as an 'interest' 🤮That's foul. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:55 PM |
| 24 | Come share some of the wisdoms your moms and grandmothers, or other strong female role models have said to you :) <3My mother once told me "never trust a man who is uncomfortable with homosexuality but wants to put it in your ass". Since I've expanded that principle to "never trust a man who wants to put it in your ass. Period." That's what I'll be telling my daughters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:18 AM |
| 13 | "People confuse being "nice" with being a good person, you can be a "bitch" and be a good person" Quote from Stormfront, The Boys season 2.Imo, "nice" is a sanitised version of "lacking character" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a man who likes game of thrones?No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Necessary armor for those seeking OLD enlightenmentThis is the best thing ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:47 PM |
| 43 | The fact that I was in love with this song as a child...Yes!! That and Last Night by Diddy and Keyshia Cole... So many questions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:34 PM |
| 15 | The WAP problemIn my experience, girls do not love that stuff, but they do love being the girl who claims to love that stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:17 AM |
| 10 | Gosh! No thank you, I'm intolerant this bs"relive the nightmare" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 27 | Gee, who could resist a murderous stalker?I'm REALLY hoping this dude just didn't bother to finish season 1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:40 PM |
| 107 | “Pick me, pick me, pick me!”Damn girl, he'll be so excited he'll walk straight past you and put his feet up on that clean couch to play videogames all night. But you made your bed, I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:39 PM |
| 18 | Speculation: Men want young women to think they will provide, so the woman will not meet her potential and become dependent on them.Rings true to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:10 PM |
| 8 | All the comments were a variation of “WeLl HoLd On, iT’s NoT nEcEsSaRiLy FeTiShIsAtIon” - the bar truly is in hell"I don't want to shame his kink" makes me so sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Unconventional red flagsSaving that shit for reference. 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:05 PM |
| 8 | Most comments are about how important safe words are. Perhaps something more important is having a partner that does not fantasise about subjecting you to a crime. And she was 18 and he was 26 (!!) when they started datingGood looking out 👌 Back to the drawing board...any suggestions? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:57 PM |
| 22 | Most comments are about how important safe words are. Perhaps something more important is having a partner that does not fantasise about subjecting you to a crime. And she was 18 and he was 26 (!!) when they started datingLol I was musing about this the other day, and I reckon the best safeword would be to holler "PREGNANCY" and he'd back the fuck off 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:44 AM |
| 22 | Stop Defending Cardi B and Megan Thee StallionI can appreciate what both of y'all are saying, but ultimately it comes down to whether or not this song is about women acting out their own desire or females acting out male desire. And the lyrics make it pretty clear that the desire they're performing is SO HEAVILY influenced by porn that even if that's what these two want sexually, it's crazy irresponsible to contribute to normalising the expectation that we should pander to pornsick men. I know over here, we can separate one from the other a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:24 PM |
| 16 | Well OF COURSE I'd be down for a threesome with 2 randos in the midst of a pandemic!So... they're bored of each other and want to outsource some excitement? HARD no from me, buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:07 PM |
| 8 | How to stay single: Scrote edition!And who the exact fuck are YOU Daniel? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:51 PM |
| 1 | "You'll never catch me callin' these n****s daddy (Nope) I ain't lyin' 'bout my nut just to make a n***a happy (N***a, please)""He told me that he loved me, I just laughed and told him "So?" (So?) I’ll never love a boy, he beg me "Please", I said "Fuck, no" (Err)" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 07:11 PM |
| 1 | "You'll never catch me callin' these n****s daddy (Nope) I ain't lyin' 'bout my nut just to make a n***a happy (N***a, please)"Another incredible track for this purpose is The Situation- Ivorian Doll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 07:08 PM |
| 8 | Any other university student queens on this sub?They 100% are. It's like a breeding ground for LVMs at the larvae stage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 05:21 PM |
| 8 | I'm a firm believer that men catch feelings faster than women do. Unfortunately those feelings are jealousy, controlling, and inequalities in the relationship. They seem to prefer "tricking you" into dick, or somehow giving you unsolicited D, but if you want it on your terms they get all madSo true, inventing a convenient 'kink' that excuses your complete sexual incompetence. Classic patriarchy move guys, clever 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 05:20 PM |
| 5 | "You'll never catch me callin' these n****s daddy (Nope) I ain't lyin' 'bout my nut just to make a n***a happy (N***a, please)"Lol good looking out, I did not realize that 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 05:17 PM |
| 14 | I'm a firm believer that men catch feelings faster than women do. Unfortunately those feelings are jealousy, controlling, and inequalities in the relationship. They seem to prefer "tricking you" into dick, or somehow giving you unsolicited D, but if you want it on your terms they get all madSounds like classic orgasm control shit from what you've said. The damn frustrating thing about it is that most guys don't even care about your orgasm and then the ones who do care about not making it happen 🙄🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 02:09 PM |
| 14 | We aren’t Incels haha, we’re VUs (voluntarily uninterested)'voluntarily uninterested' 🥇🥇🥇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 12:17 PM |
| 23 | I'm a firm believer that men catch feelings faster than women do. Unfortunately those feelings are jealousy, controlling, and inequalities in the relationship. They seem to prefer "tricking you" into dick, or somehow giving you unsolicited D, but if you want it on your terms they get all madRe the withholding thing: it's also worth noting that so many guys have a 'kink' for what they call 'orgasm denial' aka deliberately refusing to satisfy women, and plenty of them do this with the aim of having the woman 'beg' for their D. (In my past life as a Kinkmeisha I came across countless men who are into this) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 12:15 PM |
| 15 | Any other university student queens on this sub?Uni is LVM ground zero 🤦🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 12:11 PM |
| 25 | I have no words.Dumb scrote misspelled 'neck' so that's a great indicator 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:05 PM |
| 49 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?"all" you had was personality....good luck with that, bro | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:04 PM |
| 3 | The Queen Energy of this!! Manifesting this all 2020!This is the best thing ever 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Ladies please get a google number!!!I did a cursory search and thought it looked too complicated, so thank you for looking into it! I don't think my phone has dual SIM...I know there are messaging apps like Kik but using one of those hardly screams "I take my shit seriously" haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:33 AM |
| 13 | Ladies please get a google number!!!Yeah if anyone knows a UK based one that would be super helpful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:59 PM |
| 15 | The King of Scrote TownYup, that is exactly the kind of 'prize' we all on here dreaming about 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:58 PM |
| 119 | The importance of having a roster100% agree. I like to call it my "rotationship" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 12:22 PM |
| 46 | Not wanting a guy that has InstagramI feel the same, I don't care to waste any energy on someone who is committed to the upkeep of an Instagram account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 10:59 AM |
| 11 | Louie’s Love Language is Physical Touch (wait for it, wait for it: yup called it) and he likes 🦶It's appalling that I'm not even surprised. We're SO used to this shit we expect to see it when we bother to scroll down. (And I guess meant to be grateful he disclosed it so openly? Gag) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 08:56 PM |
| 29 | Did not hang about to see if he was joking 🤢 how disgusting.whilst licking all fences in his vicinity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:52 PM |
| 3 | How many percentage of tinder meetups lead to actual LTR?I have a friend who met her now live-in boyfriend on OLD and they both love to use themselves as evidence of being able to find 'the one' on apps. But from what I can see of their dynamic, that's not the one I'm after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 02:49 PM |
| 33 | Always look for the positives - UK in lockdownPerfect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:39 PM |
| 5 | Organically meeting someone doesn't guarantee a different outcomehttps://youtu.be/6J538b-OLRU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 10:54 PM |
| 4 | Organically meeting someone doesn't guarantee a different outcomeYep. Says it all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 10:52 PM |
| 56 | Organically meeting someone doesn't guarantee a different outcomeI had a similar experience, thought meeting someone organically would weed out the kind of scrotes that frequent OLD. One night it happened, I met a slightly older guy who seemed to have it all together, even if he hadn't had a whole load of relationship experience. I was elated and continued to be for a few weeks as we went on dates and things seemed to be going somewhere promising. When he said he wanted to wait and not be intimate too soon, I felt secure (if a little frustrated). Then, one ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 10:07 PM |
| 293 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good.What fresh breed of fuckery is this shit? A big no from me, folks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 07:54 PM |
| 51 | Anyone else feel shame for not being traditionally “feminine” due to your assertiveness, courage and leader qualities?Leave the feminine/masculine qualities behind. You are a woman with personality and character, anyone who's hung up on assigning your qualities into gendered categories is operating on basic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Rewording A Clickbait ArticleBit weird that it's "men" and "girls"... aren't we grown-ass women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 11:41 PM |
| 13 | Scores being scrotesCracked me right up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 01:43 AM |
| 4 | So ladies, there has been a lot of focus on LVMs but what is your definition of a HVW?👏👏👏👏🥇🥇🥇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:52 PM |
| 21 | So ladies, there has been a lot of focus on LVMs but what is your definition of a HVW?That last line especially, it's all about taking responsibility for yourself and your business. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:50 PM |
| 7 | Excusea why they don't want a relationshipAlready has a girl is a good one 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:45 PM |
| 8 | Excusea why they don't want a relationshipJust the intro line of this cracked me up, I totally feel this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Song reccomendation :)https://open.spotify.com/track/0hvMM1GPZZZHtNuMl8sU8a?si=Z-B4DIFVTvWAOtVvqQlAmQ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:42 PM |
| 9 | Didn’t expect this to hit so close to home.Holy crap, this couldn't be more relevant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 01:05 PM |
| 28 | BDSM normalization. PickMe normalization. All of it bullshit.Like a super cute chastity belt right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Amazing100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Be a lady, they saidLOVE this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:25 AM |
| 9 | 🙄🙄🙄GROAN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:34 PM |
| 2 | No, I don't want no scrubs / A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me /Hangin' out the passenger side of his best friend's ride / Trying to holla at meSo much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | FDS unite!Gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | The TRUTHNeeded to see this!! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:18 PM |
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