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Fundamentals palguy22/r/seduction04/08/22 12:48 AM
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Questionpalguy22/r/newTRP22/07/22 08:23 PM
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Only issue is I have no where I can invite them back to 😔 and I make 65k a year
/r/seduction21/08/22 06:38 AM
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You're too young, they see you as a kid
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:23 AM
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I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings that wasn't my intention, my mockery is targeted at these pua books that trick people. Unless you're at a nightclub, no woman is going to value these sorts of approaches but the books and the forums spread all sorts of cringey bullshit. A respectful approach where you're genuinely assessing the girls personality and making conversation is obviously 100 times better than asking a woman out right away based on how they look but that takes social skills and calibra…
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:14 PM
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with all due respect to OP, i've been only doing approaching for two months and I figured out in my first two weeks just how stupid direct spam approaching is and yet he's been in pickup since I was in preschool and didn't figure it out till now It's also exactly why I avoid anything related to PUA blogs or forums because of the terrible advice they give
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:28 PM
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Because "daygaming" and approaching should be a natural part of socialization When you slap the PUA label on it you turn the act of socializing and talking to girls into an unnatural ploy where you see women as numbers and where the focus entirely becomes on getting laid Why would any self respecting woman approve of that? There's a difference between running into a nice girl at the park talking to her and after a nice convo grabbing her number while PUA gives off vibes of spam approaching women…
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:03 PM
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I don't understand these posts, I'm 5"4 and most bitches I've been with have been taller than me.
/r/seduction14/08/22 06:20 AM
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You guys were making out ... What friendzone?
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:16 PM
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Tbh if you have 3-4 quality approaches or encounters a week you set yourself apart from like 90% of guys. This doesn't mean spam approaching with one liners and canned scripts though, having actual engaging conversations that doesn't revolve on overly hitting on the woman.
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:37 AM
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You're a straight man so you can't really give input from the female perspective on what is attractive and what isn't. Just because you find men gross and ugly doesn't mean women do... It's basic biology dude?...
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:31 AM
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You stop keeping count after the early stages, it becomes a natural part of your life since it's just socialization
/r/seduction07/08/22 11:51 PM
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I do approaches all the time, why do you assume it has to come off as intrusive or awkward? The fact that you think you approaching a woman is congruent to being an annoying old man on a bus shows that you have self esteem issues and should stop over analyzing this. You don't need validation from internet strangers, just go out and do it, take it from someone who actually does this consistently . Literally 8/10 times I go out and approach, it's always a pleasant and nice interaction even when th…
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:38 PM
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More importantly why would you let Reddit dictate what you should and shouldn't do. Most of these idiots have probably never done a cold approach in their life
/r/seduction06/08/22 07:39 PM
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You will do better if you go in and talk with the sake of socialization, direct approaches don't work except for night clubs
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:09 PM
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You're seriously underestimating how many people take an honest self reflection of themselves and take active steps to improve upon themselves. No one purposely goes out looking like crap but it happens through cognitive dissonance, laziness and bad habits.
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:29 AM
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Mine has improved a little, but that's only because I actually go out and approach and come here to read occasionally as an after thought
/r/seduction02/08/22 08:32 PM
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In my experience the past, my success on online dating directly correlated to the quality of my pics. I went from barely any matches to getting messaged first and multiple matches just based on the quality of photos I used. The only helpful advice, we can give you is a review of your dating app photos
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:13 AM
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Of course it can work but only because those women were very attracted in the first place, but in the majority of cases you will attract negative attention
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:26 PM
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You can't be serious bro.. Asking out a woman right away without even making conversation is a red flag to women and makes you look a little crazy. Why would you want to take out a girl without even talking to her a little and assessing what type of person she is? Even as a man if a girl approached me without atleast making some conversation and just straight up asked me on a date id think there was something off.
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:24 PM
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OP are you doing direct approaches? In that case it will be confrontational and awkward. Try making conversation or approaching indirectly so you can avoid this issue
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:50 PM
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Wtf, if this was my girl either I'd put my foot down or walk away. Any guy who let's his woman do this shit is a cuck
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:25 PM
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Clearly you've never done it, as someone who regularly approaches and has faced "rejection" youre talking out of your ass and making assumptions. First of all these rejections aren't even that bad and rather and everytime you get rejected you get better and more calibrated
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:37 AM
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Except you need game to actually do cold approaches... Your comment makes no sense, the ones out there who consistently daygame and cold approach are usually very motivated, practice self improvement and stay on the top of their game. You seriously can't think that the lazy and unmotivated majority are the ones who are doing cold approaches.... If anything the new trend nowadays is dming girls on instagram or online dating apps that's where the majority and the lazy are lurking.
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:26 PM
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Bro I'm like 5"4 and I don't even give a fuck or dwell about these things so why are you dwelling?? People say some dumb shit about height on the internet but I just laugh and keep scrolling because none of that matters in the real world. The majority of the women I've been with were taller than me because frame and confidence >> height. I mean you're like 6ft tall you're in the top percentile of height and even if you were actually considered short in Sweden or whatever so what?? It's not a dis…
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:28 AM
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One thing I've found is that getting the date depends on the quality of the conversation and how you make her feel plus if she's actually available or not factors in too Also on a side note, are you well groomed and do you dress well?
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:01 AM
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As someone who actually had success with online dating and knows how to take aesthetic photos, online dating is horrible and inferior to cold approaching in the long term. You're generally dealing with the flakiest and shallow women, of course there are outliers but generally speaking you're dealing with women who have an abundance of attractive options and are essentially shooting fish in a barrel in terms of picking through attractive options. This corrupts people It encourages a hedonistic an…
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:26 PM
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It is true because I've tried both methods many times and indirect works better
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:04 PM
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Are you doing direct approaches or indirect? ​ daygame isn't the place to put women on the spot, you have to be more natural rather than directly stating interest or making it obvious you're picking her up
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:58 AM
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but it's also a way to get results, you just have to be calibrated. Easy to talk shit about cold approach online without actually living that life
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:57 AM
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What a stupid take lmao So the immature uncalibrated is the one making the causal greeting but not the one being weird about it and ignoring it? Since when is it strange to just say hi to someone what the fuck lol As someone who approaches women and talks to strangers in public you're stuck in your bubble and come off as immature
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:35 AM
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Most people don't actually think like that though, The only ones who brag are cringey edgelords online, stop threatening to kill people online if you're in the US the feds will take it seriously
/r/seduction18/07/22 10:29 PM
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At one point in my life I fell down this rabbit hole you're in. There's a way out man, the world isn't as toxic as you think. You keep talking about committing violence and wanting to shoot up a college, look at Elliot Rogers it achieved nothing.
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:45 PM
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You need to understand that women can pick up on lack of confidence and hesitation, That's probably why you aren't getting the results you desire but things like confidence and self love can be improved over time
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:49 PM
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Bro stfu I'm like 5"4 and I can still hit it off women. You just have to look presentable and be confident. (Confidence part is harder to build but you can do it) Online dating is a shit example where even conventionally good looking people struggle
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:59 PM
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Im a believer
/r/seduction14/07/22 06:24 PM
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Get rid of these toxic influences, it will weaken your zeal as a man. A whore like this should not be your friend. People downvote me on this subreddit when I speak these sort of sentiments but they are merely misguided in their shallow mindless pursuit of pussy like thirsty weak men who don't know any better.
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:02 AM
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So your friend is going out with two men 10 years older than her to drink alcohol with them? Why are you friends with this girl? that's cucked yo
/r/seduction14/07/22 04:04 AM
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You just have to look presentable and well groomed. I'm literally 5"5 and Ive successfully approached women taller than me, don't get stuck in your head.
/r/seduction14/07/22 04:01 AM
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Why aren't you approaching in real life?... online matched mean peanuts so do not get emotionally invested in them
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:29 AM
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This is why I don't bother reading 90% of the stuff here. I just go out and talk to girls, you learn more from doing than reading and analyzing
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:53 PM
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Hey Zoomer here, While I may not do Pua stuff I do practice daygame. I genuinely believe that I'm part of like 2% of the male population who consistently approach and talk to women. Even on the sub it's rare to find other people who do daygame.
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:27 PM
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Not necessarily, I cold approach to become a more sociable person and making conversation even about the most banal things can be considered genuine just for the sake of socialization. People literally talk about the weather just as an excuse to socialize. I've tried direct approaches alot in the past and it generally leads to worst results while indirect has a much higher success rate. Plus you have to consider the fact that if you stick mainly to direct approaches you will definitely develop a…
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:43 AM
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You make a great point, cold approach gives you the freedom that other options do not. One thing I'd disagree with though is direct openers, you mentioned "hi you're cute" I personally think this is an awful and generic way to approach women that can come off as awkward if you don't pull it off well. Going indirect is better 99% of the time
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:48 AM
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This is a degenerate and hedonistic post that encourages men to chase pussy and engage in lazy degenerate behaviours. Clubs are a bane of materialism vanity that is terrible for a person's self development and saps away the masculine frame that makes a man. I say this as a person who does daygame btw so I'm not against talking to women
/r/seduction12/07/22 03:59 AM
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That should actually motivate you to approach so you can hone and master your conversational skills. It forces you to address these things and become amazing at making conversation
/r/seduction12/07/22 03:33 AM
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Good question, Approaching naturally depends on two main things The first part is opening with something low pressure and relatable. The best way to ensure a natural convo from the beginning is by opening indirect. Good examples are something like "I didn't expect to see that many ducks at the pond" " My sister has been looking for type of purse where did you get it from" " What kind of coffee is that? I always struggle to order something good at XYZ" "They really need to fix that pothole on the…
/r/seduction11/07/22 06:16 AM
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It's basically when you talk to women while you're going about your day or hanging out somewhere during the day. Some people misconstrue it as spam approaching and hitting on women out of nowhere but that's not daygame. It requires a bit more social calibration and situational/indirect conversations that flow naturally rather than walking up to them like "hey you're cute" Once mastered, this is a very desirable way to meet women because then you have endless options and the world becomes your oy…
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:07 AM
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Didn't realize this is r/dating Literally terrible normie tier advice, trying to meet girls at work is a landmine and puts you in scarcity mentality. What OP needs is daygame where he can talk to literally any girl he sees without having to worry about limited options and HR complications at work, I swear the extent some of you will go to avoid daygame approach is sad and annoying. The only people who suggests shit like this are those who are too afraid to actually approach and talk
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:28 AM
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Don't use your height as an excuse, I'm 5"5 and I chat up girls taller than me. I recommend taking baby steps, you'll feel better even by doing the small things like asking for the time or saying hi to someone while walking down the street.
/r/seduction10/07/22 07:12 AM
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To be honest this is the reason why I don't like the term cold approach or even thinking about numbers. It just feels weird and unnatural, Simply I just go out and talk to strangers whenever I feel like I got something to say or there's someone I want to talk to. But I stay away from all these technicalities and labels
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:43 AM
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That's because only the bad approaches are recognized as cold approach. A good approach should feel like two strangers having a warm and natural conversation. So what you're really saying is that direct, forced and awkward conversations never work 😁
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:39 AM
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It's sad nowadays the lengths people will go to just to avoid rejection and approaching. The golden days of this stuff was in the 2010s when I was basically a kid. As an adult now in the 2020s I've learned to ignore all the recent negative bubble about how cold approach is so creepy/wrong. Instead I stick to reading a few of the fundamentals from 8-10 years ago and then live my life outside of the internet talking to people , approaching and living without these negative toxic online influences …
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:06 AM
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Cold approach doesn't always have to mean spam approaching or hitting on women out of nowhere. I'm assuming those are the types of approaches you reject. It's simply making conversation with strangers, there's no game, tricks or canned lines. Infact I kind of hate the term cold approach because it makes a natural process seem so unnatural.
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:14 PM
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Bro shut up, why is it always the online pussies who are too afraid to cold approach talking shit. First of all, there's something called indirect cold approach. Meaning that you can start a conversation based on something situational and if she gives iois during the convo then you can be more direct. If you follow this then at worse you'll have a platonic conversation that leads no where and at best a new date and a new relationship If you look creepy in 95% of cases that means you're not doing…
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:02 AM
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you take it slowly, start by simple things like asking the time, or directions. You don't have to hit on them or have full conversations till you reach a certain comfort level
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:39 PM
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I'd say it's a terrible idea even if it works to some extent. When messaging girls on instagram you basically group yourself with 99% of guys and putting the power dynamic largely in the woman's hand. Plus the whole idea of optimizing Instagram profile and running online game sounds pretty superficial
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:57 PM
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For real? sorry bro thats brutal. are you an international student and was she? I live in surrey so my comment applies for international students that date and clique together. Idk about indo-canadians though. ​ Also women that go clubbing, can be shallow and cut throat. I don't drink alcohol or party so i mainly day game and I find the quality to be better
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:53 AM
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sounds like a priyanka chopra wannabe . Where do you live OP? In canada punjabis almost exclusively date among their own
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:45 AM
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Then you've spent too much time reading on the internet, alot of pussies online talking shit about cold approach.
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:45 AM
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I'm introverted and keep my social circle small too but I still go out and successfully talk to women. The fact that you're saying you're socially awkward and weird should be more of a motivation to try to make conversation with people, that's the only you'll improve so if anything take it as an encouragement to start
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:43 AM
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No because it's a grocery store not a night club, approach the attractive girl the same way you'd talk to the 50 year old cashier at the checkout
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:06 AM
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Keep it situational and indirect, don't go in the grocery store with the intention of approaching women but if you happen to see someone you could vibe with, approach in a smooth manner
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:05 AM
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You just misunderstood my point. I don't need to convince myself I don't have romantic or sexual intentions, I do and I'm totally comfortable with that but it's not 100% on my mind My point is you're not supposed to make it obvious. Women know I'm attracted to them when I approach but by playing it cool and not hitting on them right of the bat shows I'm socially calibrated and makes for a more pleasant exchange even if they're not into me. When a guy approaches a girl, they both know that there …
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:50 PM
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Its not entirely platonic but it's not entirely romantic or sexual. You can talk to women with the intention of wanting to make conversation but a potential romantic partner if things click. Just don't hit on them too obviously but it's okay to show interest if the convo is going good.
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:27 PM
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Lol shut up bro this is a huge over generalization. You realize you can approach girls and talk to them without framing it in a sexual/direct context. Infact what people consider to be "day game" or cold approach is really just making situational conversation with strangers in a smooth and charming way. Cold approach doesn't necessarily mean going around for hours in a mall or on the street spam approaching women and hitting on them out of nowhere. You need to change your perspective a little an…
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:34 PM
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Sub has gone to shit
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:26 PM
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Dated several women so were taller than me, fuck this blackpill bullshit annoying as fuck
/r/TheRedPill27/06/22 08:45 AM
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Some people might look at you but who cares? If you really care that much just maintain some plausible deniability and keep the conversation indirect that way if people notice you they know you're just having a normal conversation that is mildly flirtatious at best. But personally I feel like you should be comfortable in what you want and go for who you like without caring what people think given you do it in a socially calibrated and respectful manner People will only really turn heads and judg…
/r/seduction27/06/22 07:13 AM
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That's a good point I didn't consider
/r/seduction26/06/22 11:41 PM
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Thanks I appreciate the encouragement, and 100% the only way to overcome this is by keep doing and doing, reading and thinking about how to do approaches is merely a supplement
/r/seduction26/06/22 11:09 PM
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Wdym? That makes it easier because then they can set you up with friends of friends. That's how you date in a village, by utilizing circles of acquaintances, you don't have to necessarily date directly in your social circle. Do you guys have events and gatherings? I feel like in a village you can literally warm approach girls, "hey I saw you at xxx and xxx's dinner how was it?"
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:57 PM
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If you live in village you can utilize social circles better than people in cities
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:13 PM
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Thanks for agreeing, people don't like hearing harsh truths The guy calling me an incel needs to get his T levels checked
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:19 AM
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Bro shut up Literally 99% if straight guys who "befriend" women are just trying to fuck them. The woman herself literally said that she had to cut off most of her male friends for that reason. It is why the Abrahamic religions discourage the mixing of the sexes except for the propose of marriage because have a platonic friendship with the opposite sex is not possible in most cases Unless they're your co-workers or close family friends
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:18 AM
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There's no such thing as friendship with the opposite sex
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:39 PM
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having some truth matters as well, in the post tinder and instagram age in the west it's absolutely not common to talk to strangers in public yet alone direct cold approach with women. ​ Walking up to a girl in a mall and shooting your shot is def more reminiscent of 2009/2010 than 2022 lol.
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:19 AM
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Just did it today, 🤷
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:18 AM
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I really appreciate the motivation in this post but at the same time I'm so confused by it lol. Something tells me that op probably doesn't remember 2010 or was too young because I think those were the golden days where social media was in its infancy and people socialized with each other more to the point where it was normal to talk to strangers in public
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:38 PM
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I'm arab and I have poor luck with white women, but great success with hispanic women.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:42 PM
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