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Oh! You’re the first anti-feminist to ever defend that some women are stronger than some men, which would defend a woman’s ability to sometimes play in men’s professional sports teams. I’m glad we agree on this, it’s typically a very frowned upon stance.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 09:39 PM
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Yesn’t? I’m not sure what that means. Are men stronger than women? And to follow up, can women ever compete in Men’s sports?
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 09:23 PM
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Are men stronger than women?
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 08:40 PM
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Lolol I mean, yes, 95+% chance you are stronger than a woman you may interact with, but “you” was really meant to be directed at all anti feminists reading the comment
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 08:34 PM
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It’s really quite simple, actually. You know you’re stronger, so why, besides simple restraining in self-defense do you need to be so insecure to hit a woman? If a woman is toxic enough to hit you, let her be the toxic one. If you hit her back, you’re just as guilty.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 07:24 PM
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Oh lord if only men took this advice the world would have peace
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 07:21 PM
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Toddler logic 😂😂 are you 18, honey? You don’t sound mature enough to be on the internet So anyway, maybe try not to be so emotional and feminists won’t piss you off so much
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 04:28 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 literally never once heard of or met a feminist who even mentioned a single one of those things nevermind “fought” for them, but ok
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 06:32 AM
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Whoa now. No need to get so emotional. Feminist means you believe in equality for women
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 01:14 AM
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How about no, I prefer to have basic human rights, sorry you’re so triggered by it
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 01:07 AM
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Hahahaa projection. Guys in this sub are afraid of losing to women so they call women names 😂😂😂
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 12:48 AM
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Prove the real “encouragement” because until then you’re just lying
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:09 PM
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Yes, you can not tel someone else what to do with their body. It’s not perfect, but the best solution for any man is to learn to use a condom (wild how few actually do) and also pull out. Unfortunately, people like you took basic human autonomy away from women so absolutely no one is going to focus on men’s rights about the topic, so focus on the first step first: women need to be allowed to have an abortion and actually have real access to birth control that doesn’t lower our quality of life. I…
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 07:38 PM
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Just a quick single guess. I’ll give you a hint. You probably are one. The word for them starts with an “m”
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 04:01 PM
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She’s been raised to believe she has a place in the world and it’s in the home. Millions of women world wide are unfortunately brainwashed this way. And then she goes on to describe the ways in which her marriage is hypocritical. Lol, her husband only faithful because she was a virgin?? You have to be kidding. You know who brainwashes some women and forces other women into this lifestyle? Take a wild guess. This one’s going to drive you through a wall 😂😂😂
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 03:59 PM
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Dude….. it’s me. This is about me. I’m a woman 😂 I know because I’m a woman and there’s tons of data to back this up. Bury your head in the sand all you want, but you’re not an expert of other people’s lives
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 03:47 PM
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https://www.unwomen.org/en/news/in-focus/csw61/redistribute-unpaid-work
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 03:28 PM
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Lol! cherry picked statistics strewn together so you can tell me that all I want is a tall man who makes a lot of money? Whatever soothes your ego, bud. Would be a shame if you found out your beliefs were unrealistic with all your pent up anger and hated towards women
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 03:08 PM
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Idk, dude, we’re the happiest cohort of humans 😂 single, unmarried/no children women are the happiest so if we are less happy than the 70s, then maybe blame Covid or something. I can tell you that my singleness, high paying career, home that I paid for, great social circle, plenty of sex, and everting else I want and need sure is pretty great. But keep telling yourself how unhappy we are if it makes you feel better https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-many-single…
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 03:03 PM
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Humans who aren’t toxic don’t lie No one hates women but we all want to make blanket negative statements about them like “they lie” when men lie too. Toxic people lie. Don’t date toxic people. Really simple.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 03:01 PM
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Any responsibility? Besides the whole birth control for your entire life and the side affects that come with it, pregnancy, child birth and caring for a kid after, idk. lol that has to be one of the more ridiculous things I’ve heard. So anyway, men have full control over the ability to wear a condom and pull out to make absolutely certain they’re good for themselves instead of depending on a woman to carry the load and the effectiveness of her birth control. If you don’t try to prevent pregnancy…
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 02:59 PM
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Yikes honey. He wasn’t a virgin when he met you but you were for him? Im so sorry. Even worse, if you weren’t a virgin, then he wouldn’t be monogamous? I’m so sorry that is such a fucked up beleif. Have some respect for yourself! It’s your choice not his whether or not you’ve had sex before him- he should be monogamous to be a good partner, not because you were a virgin. You don’t want to realize your own career, you just need a paycheck? That’s your choice, but I’m trying to tell you, if you ch…
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 02:46 PM
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Men doing more is a boldfaced lie :)
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 02:42 PM
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That wall of text telling me how I think 😂 the arrogance is so laughable
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 02:40 PM
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“I know what women want because articles”
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 02:39 PM
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Lol uh they do? You mean, those things are sold in some stores? It doesn’t mean all women have easy access to them or *even know about them, can afford them, know they need them, can get a ride to the store, know how to use them perfectly, remember to use them, ………. And finally, none of that is nearly as affective as using a condom + pulling out :)
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:39 AM
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Idk what that is nor do I care, you are here cuz you hate feminists, so you support taking my rights away, therefore, I definitely won’t even so much as google your cute little acronym :)
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:37 AM
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Lol ya they don’t grow up, it’s a choice; you see it all the time. Anyway, ima get back to my home, great job, robust social circle, copious amounts of sex, and generally fully satisfying life https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-many-single-women-without-children-are-so-happy?amp
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:34 AM
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Women just lost their right to abortion so women
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:30 AM
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I didn’t read it. Nor do I care, because men usually just don’t participate in fatherhood if they don’t feel like it, and plenty who do still do the bare minimum. And regardless of the money and the work that you’re afraid of losing, you can not tell someone else what to do with their body. That’s it.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:29 AM
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So we agree both men and women lie (except, not that I ever hear of. in social circles where people act like adults, and there there’s no bad stigma one way or another about the number of people you e had sex with, no one lies. It’s actually just not a topic of conversation) Sooooooo why are we bullying women again? Oh yes, because men in this sub hate women 😂
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:24 AM
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Lol um if that’s their choice to not grow up and suffer in the dating world, then sure that’s their choice. Don’t worry. I promise I’ll never date anyone remotely like that 😂
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:22 AM
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Yes very pleased, except when you infringe on women’s rights, that’s the part that needs work
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:14 AM
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I listed 3 things
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:13 AM
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Pulling out + condoms are super effective
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:13 AM
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in some places And yes. And then men choose all the time whether or not the feel like being a part of the kids life, once in a while the courts get involved, at which time you should start recognizing “oh shit I should’ve worn a condom and pulled out”. It’s unfortunate, but not as unfortunate as making a human go through childbirth against their will
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:12 AM
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Lol I hate to break it to you, honey, but that sounds like the forbidden word “equality” and it’s not exactly as “traditional” as you think 😂 he’s putting in effort. You’re putting in effort. He works, you work. You have a say in if you stay or leave. All feminists want is for men to pull their weight as much as we do, and to have the ability to leave and support ourselves as easily as he can. You are describing what feminists fight for
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:05 AM
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Does your partner contribute equally to work at home and to making your relationship happy and healthy?
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 10:35 PM
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Except the man can also control whether he pulls out and uses a condom. 100% full stop you can always always control that even more than a woman can.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 09:45 PM
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Giiiiirl don’t you know, taking care of only yourself is so much easier and better than taking care of a man! If you’re married, you’ll be getting citizenship soon if you don’t have it already, right? Once you can work, you can save up and leave him :)being self sufficient is so much more fun, interesting, satisfying than being a slave to a man and you don’t have to put out when you don’t want to. Plus! It’s so easy to find other men who take care of themselves. And those men actually care more …
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 09:36 PM
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Ya, walking away after women have already walked away. There’s never been a war. Women are realizing it’s easier staying single than dating a man who requires someone to teach him how to adult, feed himself, and maintain a home. Why would a woman want to be in that relationship if she can support herself and only have to take care of herself? The men who don’t feel like growing up have an easier time finding women to take care of them who want them for the visa. This is a 3x win in my eyes.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 09:18 PM
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As much as men lie about their body count as well as height and penis size.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 08:31 PM
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Many partners bad for women only because “female bad”
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 08:27 PM
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Women lie because “female bad”
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 08:27 PM
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Yea because doing “good” things sometimes does not negate doing awful things other times, especially if you’re encouraging others to do the same.
/r/AntiFeminists30/12/22 09:51 PM
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when you find 1 thing that mayyyybe men might supposedly have a disadvantage, you use it as an excuse to be “anti-feminist”. This doesn’t make sense .
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 12:41 AM
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Whose stopping women from getting out of the home? Take a wild guess. The fact that you don’t recognize how women are kept home treated like chia dolls forced to do less against their own will is so, so telling of your ignorance. “No dating.” “He’ll have to meet my shotgun first”. “Don’t go into the military, you’ll get raped.” “You don’t want to be in those classes, it’s all aggressive boys”. “You don’t want to play outside”. “But you’re my little girl!” “Boys will be boys” -shitty fathers ever…
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 12:17 AM
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“Yet still more often than men” ughhh dude. Yea, because women are raped wayyyyyyyy more often than men. Open your eyes.
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 12:14 AM
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There is so much to unpack here, and so much false belief about how the world works. You think women are believed abut rape? You know how much feminism it takes for any woman ever to be believed about rape and it’s stil a minority of the time. You’re literally listing a bunch of ways men get out and get to experience the world, the good and the bad, because women are kept at home to be hidden from everything. Lol you’re so brainwashed it’s insane
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 12:08 AM
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I mean, men have an advantage about 99% of things in life. Why are we focusing on the one time women supposedly have an advantage?
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 12:01 AM
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I can’t even believe anything you say when you make up lies like “feminism is an ideology build around female supremacy”. No feminists thinks this.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 11:33 PM
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Never said they don’t matter. Not once. Don’t mean it, either.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 10:54 PM
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So weird, because men control the house, senate, every branch of government, pay more in taxes because they make more, and yet you want to blame the feminists because they did something to help women
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 10:53 PM
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Ya just think about it. Peace ✌️
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 10:51 PM
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Men kill women more……. Yes it’s definitely pretty odd that men have to respond with hating feminists when they also kill women more.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 10:50 PM
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Hitler? Men kill women more already, right now. That is how it is at the very moment. More meant killing women than the other way around. Wayyy more. but you’re labeling women as hitler? A little misguided, don’t you think?
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 10:47 PM
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Ok, but why is this hatred towards people who bust want equality for women?
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 10:45 PM
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It’s not an exact statistic because that itself is not something to be measured. But if you need a source to recognize that women are less often the head of household, politicians, entertainers, athletes, and business owners, I just dk what to tell you 🤷‍♀️open your eyes and there’s proof everywhere.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 10:42 PM
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As did Michael Jackson, R Kelley, Chris brown…… I say it all the time, I’ll say it again. When men do something wrong, they’re a bad man. When women do something wrong, you people in this sub think all feminists are bad.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 10:34 PM
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Haha idk what to tell you, you missed some pretty major headlines, doesn’t mean it didn’t happen just because you missed it
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 10:23 PM
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Punished accordingly? Lol like Brett Kavannah and Brock turner? You’re not making any sense. Cardi B was ripped apart for this and cancelled pretty hard. If you missed it, idk what to tell you 🤷‍♀️ Anyway, back to listening to all the male rappers who are abusive and have rape and assault chargers and allegations against them, and watching the NFL with all their morally-sound players who get suspended a game for beating the heck out of their girlfriends
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 10:22 PM
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We don’t have equality…..? We’re treated as 70% as important as men.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 10:19 PM
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No, by my logic, a feminist is someone who believes in equality for women. That’s what it started as, that’s what it always has been. Just because some men are hurt by it doesn’t change the definition.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 09:39 PM
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Haha if she has a bank account, votes, works, uses birth control, and lives a standard modern life, she’s a feminist. She just thinks the word means man hating (Which it doesn’t. Go ahead and Google the definition). And she’s just trying to say she’s not man-hating.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 08:49 PM
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You didn’t hear about this? It was pretty huge news.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 06:45 PM
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When a man does something bad, he’s a bad man. When a woman does something bad, you all hate all feminists
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 06:45 PM
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I’m here for the same exact reason you stick your nose in these women’s business. If you didn’t like these videos, why didn’t you move on?
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 04:22 PM
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Again! You disagree with a few women, so you hate all feminists.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 04:21 PM
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Oh! You watched a documentary? And now you hate all feminism? Because in your country you’re “equal” so the rest of the world should go f themselves, and f those women’s lack of equality, you don’t care because you saw a documentary so all these women in this world losing their right to birth control, to read and to work, to exist without being treated like a sexual deviant, you’re against anyone who believes they should have equal rights because you saw a documentary, which clearly speaks to th…
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 04:20 PM
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But wayy more places in this world don’t. You do realize this, right? How is calling women “sad” in an “anti feminist” sub (notice how it’s not anti-feminism, it’s anti feminists, hatred for the individuals, not the movement) not an insult to women?
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 04:14 PM
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😂 but “fuck those women in other countries who need feminism because I don’t here”, amiright? You do get how toxic and selfish that is, don’t you?
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 04:12 PM
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If you have equal rights in your country, then why are you promoting hatred against feminists in countries where women have less rights? You’re aware that this sub is taken seriously by young men and women everywhere who “think they don’t need feminism”. If you someone doesn’t want to practice their equal rights, that’s fine! But this promotion of hatred to other women who want and still don’t have equal rights. Dang. It’s ignorant, to put it very kindly. Hope you sleep sound at night knowing yo…
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 04:10 PM
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Lol! Wow. The privilege. Live in a place where you actually have something closer to equal rights, yet shame every other woman in the world for still fighting to get there.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 04:06 PM
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Not necessary? Wow you just changed my mind about feminism. All the sexual harassment I face and micro aggressions for being female in the workplace and lack of access to abortion and birth control and shame for not being a child bearing female and lack of medical knowledge about my body and car seat protection made for people larger than me and everything else favoring the other sex in this world must’ve just POOF gone away because at least, at this very moment, I’m allowed to show my hair wher…
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 03:57 PM
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Is anti feminism, knows definition, still doesn’t get how that’s a complete contradiction to women’s equality. I can’t argue with someone who refuses to see Do you like showing your hair in public? Do you like working? Do you like existing for any reason besides cranking out and raising babies? Cool, but you hate feminism? No you don’t. You’re just being a pick me because you disagreed with a few loud feminists Once again, if a man does something wrong, he’s a bad man. But if a feminist does som…
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 03:24 PM
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Crazy, almost as if you’re in an anti-feminist sub 😂 fem·i·nist /ˈfemənəst/ noun an advocate of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes; a person who supports feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 03:13 PM
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So you disagree with a few Tik tok videos and suddenly hate women’s equality? Lol makes sense /s
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 03:07 PM
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When a guy acts sexual, he’s a sexual guy. When a woman acts sexual, “fuck girl power and we hate feminists” You guys seriously escalate to hatred so quickly
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 02:59 PM
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😂 ya cuz for incels, anything over 13 is a grandma
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 07:23 PM
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Haha only those who hate women use it in every day speech 😂 I could argue all day that “incel” is a loving term. Shall we, incel?
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 07:20 PM
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Why are you so triggered and refuse to acknowledge that female is used to demean women 🤷‍♀️ all you’re doing it proving it and getting your panties in a bunch about it at the same time
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 07:17 PM
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Haha that’s a reeeal stretch, bud. Find actually one example of this and everyone in a feminist sub will condemn it.
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 07:12 PM
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Exactly! Why does OP read into this so much?
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 04:19 PM
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And then OP getting triggered by reading it 😂 got’em!
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 04:18 PM
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Mind summarizing? Its an hour long
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 02:24 AM
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Like what plight?
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 01:09 AM
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😂”I don’t like it so it’s not scientific” there he goes again!
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 12:01 AM
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Must get tiring trying to beat me when I dismissed you so long ago for cherry picking science
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 11:53 PM
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I stopped when you proved you are illogical. You read the article yet?
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 11:47 PM
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https://www.psypost.org/2022/12/new-study-links-dark-triad-personality-traits-to-anti-feminist-attitudes-64502?amp=1
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 10:53 PM
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Because I’m in a sub that hates women’s equality? Surprising….
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 10:48 PM
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Lol you’re just sitting here arguing with yourself, I stopped after recognizing you cherry pick the scientific research you want to believe
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 10:47 PM
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To point out hypocrisy :)
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 10:41 PM
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Just more defense trying to justify cherry-picking science
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 10:33 PM
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Would love it if the sub dies, unfortunately there’s just too much misogynistic content and too many misogynistic people out there BuT iTs JuSt a JoKe, YoU hAvE nO hUmOr
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 10:12 PM
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This is literally a thread that pulls up another sub and comments from those who are angry about it 🤣
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 10:10 PM
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“Women humorless” lol
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 10:09 PM
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Kind of like being tired of a sub you don’t have to be in, eh?
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 10:09 PM
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I didn’t even read that, you aren’t a logical person if you cherry pick the science you believe, so there’s no reasonable arguing with you. Bye.
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 09:36 PM
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K sure. Like I said, there’s no logic with you, you’re just saying you don’t even believe in the science you don’t like, I’m done
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 08:38 PM
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😬 this sounds just like those who said there was a microchip in the vaccine I’m gonna have to call it with this “argument”. You can’t use logic and reason with those who cherry pick what they want to believe, and ignore the vast majority of science.
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 06:35 PM
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Hey, sorry, YouTube videos don’t follow a scientific method, and the other is of something we didn’t even discuss, it’s just a general MRA sentiment. Double strawman
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 06:07 PM
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So science isn’t real when you don’t like it? And yet there’s not even a single study out there for what you’re arguing is there, even though science is made up. Yours is just that ridiculous?
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 04:10 PM
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Does what the courts decided in the end make you upset?
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 04:09 PM
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There are more studies proving the topics I’m discussing than the one you’re assuming.
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 04:07 PM
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No, it’s one a man assuming he can have a turn, a d saying his friends can too, and you defending it
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 03:20 PM
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The assumption that she’s a slut just because she hooked up with one person and another person asks for everyone else to have a turn is a real stretch. Quite a rapey stretch, actually
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 05:18 AM
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“It feels like she hid this side from me and my friends say this about their wives, too” really isn’t data to make hateful assumptions off of. What is is the data-backed wage gap combined with the uneven split of household duties
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 12:39 AM
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Marriage and household take a lot more responsibility than unmarried, younger life does. If someone doesn’t change to keep up with those demands, that’s an issue :) Haha no 39 YO with a car, home, spouse, children and career can act like a 22 YO without all those things. Laughable to imply one can.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 11:16 PM
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Haha and your basis for this is….. she’s a female so all females are sluts?
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 11:09 PM
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Ya not quite the same thing as a guy i just overheard last weekend from the other room, asking to to “have a turn” with a woman someone else was apparently talking about hooking up with. Wouldn’t have been as big of a deal if one guy says something bad but after pushing and pushing about it not one single guy in the room spoke up about how fucked up it was that he’s just hinting at raping her. All in addition to talking about women’s looks and sex and what not. So sure you can have free speech b…
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 10:39 PM
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I see nothing here that suggests she was a “feminist”. When a man says something stupid, he’s called a stupid person. When a woman says something stupid, you all call all feminists stupid.
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/22 07:19 PM
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Yea no sure, def def
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 07:41 AM
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Coo coo yea coo
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 07:40 AM
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Cool cool yup sure you got it
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 07:37 AM
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Ya no you didn’t, but it’s coo just insult me, it’s all good
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 07:35 AM
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It’s just a response I use to end the argument with people who lost
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 07:32 AM
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Coo coo right right sure sure
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 07:30 AM
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Hahaha k so they hold the ultra vast majority of positions of power but they don’t have the power…… makes a lot of sense ;)
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 07:24 AM
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Way to lose so bad you have to turn to insults :)
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 07:22 AM
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No one said impossible, all I said was men are the ones in power in every way in our society which you slowly started agreeing with, pretty obvious stuff
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 07:21 AM
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I’m actually very successful, but thanks for turning your poor arguig skills into insults
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 07:11 AM
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The point I’ve made from the start is men have more power and you agreed and then you back tracked and lied and I’m done because it’s late and there’s no reasoning with a die hard misogynist because it’s your ego that’ll get hurt if you agree too much
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 07:05 AM
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Ok I can’t talk with you when you make things up so bye
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 07:00 AM
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Exactly. Women can’t typically have kids and also excel in their career, but men can. Thanks for proving my point.
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 06:55 AM
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Therefore creating discrepancy in their ability to excel in their career
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 06:49 AM
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You’re lying by not accepting that women do the lions share of household and childcare work therefore creating more discrepancy in their ability to excel in their career You’re also lying about the lack of interest being why women don’t run for office
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 06:01 AM
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There’s no legitimate conversation when you’re fixated on a lie and can’t admit it even with overwhelming data it’s true. So lmk when you’re ready to accept data and retract what you lie about
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 05:56 AM
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Why you throwing a fit?
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 05:33 AM
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Coo coo coo coo coo whatever you need to tell yourself
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 05:32 AM
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You’re going to have to figure it out but it’s a major flag to me that I’m speaking with someone who doesn’t really understand how the world actually works
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 05:15 AM
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This is exhausting. What do yu have to say to more men being in office? It’s a lie to say women have no interest. So what non-lie argument do you have?
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 05:13 AM
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And to add, women doing 80% of the purchasing in the household is just another indicator that they’re paying attention to what the household needs majority of the time. If it’s so easy to balance work with childcare and household management, why don’t men do it?
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 01:49 AM
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You can’t just brush aside facts based on countless data that women do the lions share of child care and household work, which negatively impacts their ability to excel in their career. Until you recognize that, you’re just lying to make your point. I ignored the random side comment about the 80% of consumer purchases because who do you think makes the lionshare of B2B and B2G purchases? Take a guess! Guess which accounts for more GDP? So you just successfully outlined how women make up the most…
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 01:46 AM
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Haha what is the difference between a joke people are offended by and an offensive statement veiled as a joke? Nothing. In reality, “I was just joking” is a poor attempt at averting responsibility for the thing you just said. Mature adults understand these things.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 11:44 PM
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Don’t be so dramatic, we simply stuck to the same topic. I don’t find it acceptable to make racially stereotyped “jokes” in every day life, especially put in place by restaurant owners in public places :) You, on the other hand, find racist jokes acceptable in public places as long as they’re “just jokes.” We get it now.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 11:10 PM
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Haha cool cool cool so you’re ok with casual racism as long as you can say it’s “just a joke”. Got it, just wanted to clarify if you were racist too, or just a hypocrite.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 10:42 PM
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I’m simply sticking to the exact topic we’re discussing and not allowing any diversion from it. So for clarity, would a “joke” about a racial stereotype somewhere up on the wall in a restaurant be perfectly acceptable? In your opinion, would people of that race be the “joke police” if they spoke out against that joke being on the wall?
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 10:28 PM
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I would find it quite racist to make a subtly racially-stereotyped remark on a bathroom door. But you disagree? You’d be ok with subtly racist remarks in public places?
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 10:04 PM
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So you’re saying if we implied, say, Latino people were the “bla bla bla bla” and white people were the “bla”, it would be fine?
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 09:29 PM
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Would you say “it’s just a joke” if it were of a stereotype about people of another race?
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 09:05 PM
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Haha you definitely don’t sound calm to me 😂 but that’s fine, you’re calm, I’m hysterical, because female, amiright?
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 08:48 PM
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Are you saying I have a fragile ego?
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 08:46 PM
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The point being here is that far more women are sacrificing their life and career to raising children than men. That is the point. It is proven with data. You know, women have to pay for kids when they’re created too, believe it or not. But hey, good news, as your very own argument was, no one is forcing you to pay child support :) just don’t have sex! (Second emphasis on your words, not mine). So we’ve come to the conclusion that some men pay some of their money to help mothers sacrifice their …
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 08:45 PM
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“Throw a fit”? How am I throwing any more of a fit than you? 😂😂 the hypocrisy is so sad and hilarious at the same time
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 07:58 PM
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No, being forced to pay 1/3 of what you earn is not the same as forced parenthood. Sorry, raising a kid takes a lot more than just a 1/3 of your paycheck. It takes breastfeeding, sleepless nights, 24/7 watching, educating, bathing, clothing, appointment scheduling and general oversight of their well-being well through adulthood. Look up the data about women bearing most of that work, even today. Never mind 10, 20, 50 years ago. That is entirely baseless to say women just don’t want to be in poli…
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 07:52 PM
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“Because they are more willing to sacrifice their lives” is a baseless claim. What makes you think women don’t want power? Did you skip over the part where we couldn’t even have our own bank accounts until recently? And the whole forced motherhood thing? Do you think that financial success appears overnight after that? and pressure to create a family disappears instantly? You know officials have to be elected, right? Do you honestly think that there’s no electoral discrimination against women wh…
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 07:36 PM
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I’m only saying these things because you are hyper focusing on homelessness. It makes as much sense as myself hyper focusing on sexual assault. Neither make sense in this case. Do men or women have more power in society? This is the second time in a row I’m asking.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 07:24 PM
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Why are you choosing homelessness? It would be as baseless as myself only focusing on sexual assault? Here are stats about women in poverty : https://www.americanprogress.org/article/basic-facts-women-poverty/ So the point still stands. Men have move power in society.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 07:17 PM
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Are you aware women are more likely to live in poverty? And women are also wayyyyyy more likely to get sexually assaulted. But we’re not talking about poverty, lower bands of society (only you are because that’s the only straw you have to grasp about ways men are disadvantaged and even that is frivolous because more women live in poverty and more women are sexually assaulted). Men have more power. Do they or do they not? In every organization you can name besides the “feminine” ones, men have mo…
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 07:08 PM
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Because I said men have more power in society. If men are assaulting men more, I’m sorry. Maybe you should have a big man conference to say “hey, let’s stop assaulting each other”. It doesn’t take away the fact that men have more power in nearly every aspect of our lives and therefore, bullying women and calling them dramatic for fighting for equality makes you a bully.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 06:52 PM
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Lol when I educate you, your response is that I’m being dramatic. Try to prove my point even better
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 06:39 PM
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To add, women face a whole lot more discrimination in the work place. To start, there’s this baseless stereotype that we’re dramatic. There’s discrimination that we might have a child and need to take parental leave. There’s boat loads of sexual harassment and aggression towards women for both being attractive and not being attractive. Women in tech? Ya, my 18 YO self knew better than to choose a major in which I’d be the only female in most classes. Do you know what men do when no women are aro…
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 06:27 PM
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Wow. That’s where you are so wrong, my friend. Motherhood is expected and quite literally forced now that abortion is illegal in many places. Birth control is not easily accessible. Abortions are traumatic. Rape is real, and common. Sexual coercion and “stealthing” is real. Societal pressure is real, whether you like it or not. Abortions are traumatic, expensive, difficult to get. A woman is dammed if she has kids (sacrificing her body, career, and rest of her life) and damned if she doesn’t (sh…
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 06:23 PM
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You’re only validating that men are in power 😂 A woman couldn’t so much as have a bank account and retirement without a man until the ‘70s and today, motherhood is still forced on us. Seat belts and cars are made to protect man’s body safely. The ultra vast majority of biology and anatomy we understand is on men’s bodies. What makes you think we want this?
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 06:04 PM
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Hollow and baseless? Men make up the majority of CEOs of large companies. Men make up the majority of our government (arguably the most important aspect, here), women are abused far more than men, easily physically overpowered and have to fear this every day of our lives. Women are raped more than men. Most movie protagonists are men, and most story lines are based around men and their lives, and that is only changing to more equal representation recently because of this so-called “misandry” you…
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 04:41 PM
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In government, business, financially, physically, in sports, on movies and entertainment, and just about anything else in this world that isn’t labeled “for women”.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 04:24 PM
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Women aren’t the ones in power :) do you feel cool making fun of the ones with less power? Do you know who does that? A childhood bully.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 03:09 PM
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Right right cool cool coo coo
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 11:41 PM
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Right right right, cool cool cool cool
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 11:38 PM
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You ever heard of the bechdel test? Sorry, picking out one instance does not account for the reality as a whole. And here you go making sweeping generalizations already :) But who am I kidding, I shouldn’t speak too much, you’ll probably just hear “blah blah blah blah blah”
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 11:37 PM
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Right right right right right… because no one thinks women talk too much, that’s not a real stereotype of women used against women in real life Gotcha, cool cool..
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 11:23 PM
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Ahh ok so according to you, we can continue on with the hate as long as it’s equal, eh? Coo coo coo cooo
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 11:19 PM
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Cool cool cool cool cool cool cool
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 11:18 PM
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I’m all set, I’ve lived plenty of years experiencing my own discrimination and just now in 2022, I’m finally seeing movies that have women as protagonists that aren’t labeled as “women’s fiction” or some shit like that. The supposed “misandry” is working. Next, I’d like to see equal representation in government and business, but we have a long way to go there.
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 11:17 PM
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90s romcoms? I’m all set, thanks. That’s not the media I typically consume. We can both agree that boomer humor doesn’t meet the standards of 2022. So, we stil want to shame women for being upset about these bathroom doors when you’re upset about 90s romcoms?
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 11:13 PM
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I’m trying to prove that this isn’t appropriate to hate in women in public. Maybe look through the nothowgirlswork sub to get an inkling of a day in the life 🤷‍♀️
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 11:11 PM
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So all these men out there saying “just agree, you’ll never win” “ball and chain” “insert other insult about how controlling your wife is here” is just discrimination against men?
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 11:10 PM
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I edited original comment for clarity
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 11:00 PM
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Both of those are insults to women as well. Women always “being right” is a patronizing stance about just saying yes to please her. “Happy wife happy life, amiright?” And women are always told just as often to “remain seated for the entire performance” What else you got?
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 10:59 PM
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Nah, you’re totally right. A misogynist disguises everything as “just a joke”. They also have absolutely no idea how much were inundated with these “jokes”. Our boyfriends, friends, fathers, teachers, bosses, movies, celebrities all make such “jokes”. It’s normalized so much that it’s clearly rooted in what they think is true. You know what my brother said recently? He’s never vote for a woman president. Couldn’t decide why. Just said “just because, idk, what if she was PMSing or something”. But…
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 08:41 PM
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It’s all just a joke, innit :) Kind of like all the guys who asked ladies out and when we say we’re not interested, suddenly they only meant it “as a friend”. How convenient!
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 08:29 PM
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Oh! You don’t even mask your sexism!
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 08:17 PM
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It was first implied by making fun of humans for getting angry when their group is insulted, and then it’s implied by you for continuing the joke by saying “watch one get angry….”
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 07:04 PM
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You like men more than women? That’s literally sexism.
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 05:44 PM
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Haha you sound like a lot of us before we realized “being friends with women bad, friends with men, good” was sexism
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 05:35 PM
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“I’m not like other girls, I get along with guys, women bad”
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 05:32 PM
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“Women bad!”
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 05:30 PM
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There seem to be a lot more jokes against women in every day life than men 🤔 Where’s the men-insulting bathroom door?
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 05:26 PM
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Dang. I came here reading the title thinking this was going to be loaded with BS advice. But this is actually legit. Overall, this seems to be in the tune of: be yourself. Lean into who you are. Lean into self improvement and betterment. Also be respectful. And don’t have underlying expectations- respect the lady’s decision.
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:10 PM
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All I can tell you from every custody battle I have seen, the father is barely present enough to be considered a parent. 0 structure, 0 teaching, barely acknowledging the kids are there, still partying all the time, just paying some of the bills and doing minimal housework out of spite. And yet I still know that what I see is not an accurate representation of what happens across the board, and it should not be what we base laws off of. You are emotionally invested in your own reality, that is un…
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 08:04 PM
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Why would feminism be about helping men? If you’re so insulted that one person fights for their own rights without also fighting for yours, that’s a personal problem. It’s not about you. It’s about as immature a school of thought as the “all lives matter” response to “black lives matter”, or “all cities are strong” in response to “Boston strong”. If you have an issue with something in society, yes, that is up to you to take it up with the male-dominated Congress, or the male-dominated legal syst…
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 07:57 PM
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You don’t want to find a middle ground?
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 06:33 PM
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This is weird. I’m a female. I’m a feminist. And I agree with … everything you just said. In the post and in your comment. Men who contribute 50% of the work (or equal by way of having his own set tasks, such as having to work a lot to support financially, and do less house/child work in exchange) absolutely deserve fair share of custody. I agree that this is one of the (very few) areas in life where women are favored, and men get the shit end of the stick. I also believe times are changing to r…
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 06:19 PM
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Looks like someone didn’t know fatherhood takes work
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 12:02 PM
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Lol but women want equality and to not be raped and killed all the time, so she doesn’t deserve anyone passing her water. Great things they teach their kids….
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 12:01 PM
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Im attacking people who discuss at length the importance of a woman’s n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:15 AM
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Well... ya. So why are we always talking about women with high n counts? Because as with any other major disparity between two people, it’s very obvious that it wouldn’t be a good match. Liberal & conservative couple? They might work, but they’ll have disagreements to work out. One becomes a doctor, the other works as a cashier at a grocery store? Same. It could work, but there’s a major lifestyle difference here. It goes both ways, and it’s not just about n coubt. Lol the people in this sub are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 03:57 AM
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And you don't realize it, but you're driven by confirmation bias, caused by the anger pent up from rejection. The world does not owe you anything, OP. You need to put in the work to get anything you desire, yourself, the right way. If you desire being desired, being angry at people who don't want you will not do anything good. You have to address the route of the issue. Are you not socializing enough to put yourself out there? Are you an angry, judgmental person? Do you make poor remarks? Do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 07:02 PM
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OP, I hope this is a “play pretend” question. This isn’t really how real life works. It’s just how the people in this sub think it works. I will date who I find attractive, who I have the best chemistry with, who treats me right. If you think I’m out here thinking “ooo he’s an alpha” or “ooh he’s a beta, he’ll treat me right” you are disturbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 04:30 PM
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I have a high n count. I’m also with an extremely attractive boyfriend. N count has never come up in conversation. Do you know why? Because it doesn’t matter to rational humans. I’m certain his n count is also high. Like seriously, who actually gives a damn? Sorry, OP, but you can’t just pretend this abstract theory is the truth to make yourself feel better. You’re lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 04:26 PM
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Lol at the people downvoting you now too for proving that playing games is immature and not genuine. I also have been in a relationship for years. Things are amazing. 0 game playing.
/r/seduction02/07/20 04:46 PM
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You literally have a million options - I’m not exaggerating about that. Start counting, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 03:35 AM
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Are you comparing me calling you out for being entitled for which you “don’t have enough” fashion choices to victims of sexual assault? You can’t possibly be that insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 03:31 AM
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It is an excuse. There are plenty of fashionable men in this world. Sometimes Tshirts are great - sometimes they don't wear Tshirts at all. It's all your choice, dear. Don't play victim. You have millions of options in this world: https://noahny.com/ https://www.stussy.com/ https://www.uniqlo.com/us/en/men https://golfwang.com/ https://www.eddiebauer.com/content/men?cm_sp=topnav_m https://www2.hm.com/en_us/men.html https://www.express.com/mens-clothing https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/mens-clothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:44 PM
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You can make excuses, or you can make an effort. Sounds like you decided to make excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 02:11 PM
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Proof that men in this sub misinterpret literally everything to be worse if it comes from a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:14 PM
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You’re lying to yourself, dear. We also want to have sex with every hot guy. Sorry, not sorry. And we’re also disgusted with much higher N counts than our own. It’s how real life works, and the worlds gonna keep moving whether it fits your ideals or not. Literally everyone I know works this way. It’s much easier than holding a double standard. sooo....sucks for you I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:33 PM
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Imagine being a man in PPD actually believing you’re right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:41 PM
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Wtf are you talking about me convincing myself of anything? Sounds like projection, hun. Why would I ever want to be with someone who fucks a new chick every week? Some dude riddle with disease and cheap lines? Unless I myself have fucked a new guy every week and decide that’s normalcy, it’s a flag to anyone. What world do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:30 PM
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I don’t know what you’d point is, or how it relates to what I said. All I know is it goes both ways :) fuck if I want some dude who has been with 100 women. That’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:06 PM
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What are you talking about? You’re correct. Attraction is non negotiable. Sleeping with too many women is very unattractive, and high quality women won’t go for it. Ever heard the term “fuck boy?” If not, let me explain: a man who tries to get with too many girls, deeming him only good enough to fuck once. High quality women know now to pursue that man for more than one thing: sex. Sorry not sorry, dear. It goes both ways. And if you think it doesn’t, that’s because you’re low quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:41 PM
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You’re assuming men don’t want to get married? That’s just hypergamy if you’re a man who has been with many women and don’t want to marry a woman who has been with many men. That’s not how real life works, dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:39 PM
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Why on earth will I worry about my lifestyle for some losers on the internet trying to influence me because they mad they can’t get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:50 PM
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Cop out response. Edit: then if you’re in the pussy parade 6 days of the week, you are equal to a woman riding the cock carousel 6 days of the week. You have sex but want a Virgin? Find a young, vulnerable female and manipulate her into becoming your wife. Have a loveless marriage because she’s scared to leave you. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:36 PM
-1

Ok. Then are you celibate by choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:32 PM
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Why are you inciting a fight? We just want to be treated like humans. Respect is assumed with men, for some reason women have to fight to earn respect. Especially with men in this sub. People who get married at a young age haven’t earned enough wisdom to choose a good life partner, man or woman. But you’re focusing on women in this post. So let’s talk about women getting married too young. You don’t hear even about 19 YO boys being married off to 45YO husbands against their will anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:28 PM
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No. It’s better to judge the human by how ready for you they are. And young, inexperienced girls don’t know better and don’t learn to stand up for themselves. Men in this sub blame women for making “poor partner choices” (deadbeat fathers, lazy husbands, etc.) You have just as much responsibility, yourself to find a quality woman who loves you. The responsibility is on all parties involved. Don’t choose a gold digger. If promiscuity matters, look at your own past. Have you had sex with many peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:18 PM
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Sure, if you’re seeking a loveless marriage from someone who doesn’t know any better and feels pressure from society to not divorce (or she otherwise would) by all means, seek the young, vulnerable virgins who feel like they have to stay with you. Do you want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:58 PM
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Took the words out of my mouth. It’s not that doing dishes is hot. It’s that not doing them and being a slob is a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:03 AM
2

As simple as that? Are you actually convinced rapists are usually charged? Or that victims usually come forth. You say this as if you’re not thinking about all the children who are raped, all the young adults, or otherwise dependent adults who maybe need their attacker, or are afraid of them, or know they wont be believed, or even if they are believed, they’ll be shunned. Pursuing and convicting a rapist is often (usually) worse than burying the experience inside. Imagine getting violently raped…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 08:24 PM
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Well let’s look at the bigger picture here, Mr, “never Biden”. Would you prefer men to pump, dump, and not have any repercussions in this world for all the children they father, paving way for more government assistance needed and children living without a father?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:11 AM
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Youre right. We grew up with working AND house running mothers, and working / lazy, “I worked today so I shouldn’t have to cook and clean” fathers. The worst case scenario for any human. Fuck if I’ll do that after witnessing what it does to a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:43 PM
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It's perfectly reasonable not to date someone for any reason at all. Unless you think that same reason doesn't have to apply to yourself. Then it's hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:29 PM
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We are angry. You just don't listen to women until they put so much energy into getting their point across that you call them crazy, or a feminist!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 05:51 PM
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Great! Welcome to being a feminist. There’s nothing complicated about it: if you disagree with sexual harassment and believe women should feel safe in the workplace even when it’s male-dominated, you are a feminist. No, we don’t hate men, want to pay more in taxes or kill babies. Crazies make those things up. We just want equality in our lives. We don’t have it yet, but we’re definitely further along than we were 50 years ago, thank goodness. Now we just need doctors to learn about female bodies…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 07:02 PM
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Feminism noun the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. I don’t see anything there about taxes or welfare.... Edit: you can say “ya but you also agree with this thing that I disagree with” but that’s off topic. You either support women’s equality or you don’t. If you do, you’re a feminist too. If you don’t, maybe give Saudi Arabia a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:08 PM
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You’re straw-manning. Feminism means equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:58 PM
1

Your straw manning with the tax’s & feminism thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:58 PM
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I am a feminist and I advocate for older men to stop sexually harassing me when I’m at work and trying to build my career. I’m not interested in older men. No exceptions.im also not interested in sexual harassment. No exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:46 PM
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20 YO’s are not interested in 27YOs, especially bald ones. If you insist they are, give me your proof. I am a feminist and I do not advocate for these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:45 PM
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They do. You probably have more negative about you than just your baldness and lack of jaw line. I can’t tell you what, but I would start with your spiteful ness and assumption that feminists want things handed to them..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:39 PM
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But your age matters. I did not want to date a 27 YO when I was 19 especially if he was bald. It’s a fact of life. Feminism and universal education are two totally different arguments. Feminism is the fact that women are sexually harassed on the daily for existing and that’s not right. Feminism is about the issue that women have trouble succeeding in stem industries because they are outcast and un accepted by their male peers. Feminism is about doctors not believing you’re in enough pain to pay …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:37 PM
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Ok. So either higher quality women swallow their pride and date below their own value or you don’t support women’s rights. Makes sense. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:32 PM
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Ahhhhh Age doesn’t apply to this guy ^ ;) Are you chaste by choice or by circumstances? Because you can’t aim for a woman who chose to remain a virgin if you’ve always wanted to have sex and just couldn’t land a woman. Two very different kinds of people here. If you always wanted to have sex but have remained celibate for involuntary reasons, then find the 27 YO women who are the same as you. It sounds to me like you just need to lower your standards, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:22 PM
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Feminism is about being treated equally and having an equally fair chance at life and pursuit of happiness. It’s about not being expected to be a hot 19 YO virgin being forced to marry a 27 YO balding man if he’s not your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:19 PM
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Ok, then god damnit aim for women your own age. Huge red flags here with why you’re having trouble getting women. 27 is an old man to an 18 YO. And it’s kind of disgusting that you expect to land one as a balding older 20’s man who doesn’t care about women’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:05 PM
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But let’s be clear, are you also 18-23, chaste and in shape? If so, aim for someone with an equal rate of looks and equal personality. If you’re still having no luck, you’re probably over estimating your rating of looks and personality- aim lower. If you believe women shouldn’t be empowered, be sure to seek a woman who doesn’t give a damn about men’s rights, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:03 PM
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But let’s be clear here, is the bald 22 YO man chaste and in shape?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:58 PM
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They are few and far between. If you’re 22 and bald, no big deal. You just shouldn’t expect to only date highly attractive women. And as I said before, you probably need to make up for your lack of hair with something great about your personality. Let’s be clear here, we can all land our equivalents. Just don’t be hypergamous and you’ll be just fine ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:55 PM
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WTF?? Now you want all the short bald guys to suddenly get hot 22 YO’s?? Who’s the hypergamous one now?? Get real. Do you want to date unattractive older women with nothing to offer? I was saying they can land the women equivalent to them, so probably their own age. What a joke, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:49 PM
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There are two issues with this: 1) laziness and victim mentality. You can use the excuse that women don’t want you. Escude you’re short and bald but look at all the short and bald guys with women? You just need to be realiStic and make up for your lack of stunning looks with a better personality. 2) selfishness: so 50% of the worlds empowerment and autonomy doesn’t matter because it won’t benefit you? If you’re selfish enough to have this mentality, we can confirm that you’re not having trouble …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:03 AM
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You’re kidding, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 09:53 PM
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Orrrrrrr you could just be a rational human and say *hey, turns out you do like sex. That’s neat. Sorry men have surpressed that urge within you and made you feel like shit for it for all of human history. * But nah, that would require taking responsibility for yourself and your actions. Blaming is easier, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:18 PM
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Ok, so men and women want the same things, because they’re both humans. So why do men in this sub keep analyzing and blaming women for being just like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:50 AM
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Provide for her? Have you ever been a with a woman, hun?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 04:42 PM
1

Thank you, Freud.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 06:32 AM
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Whether they care or not, don’t pretend they don’t also have all of the same struggles, so it’s a really meaningless argument honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:52 PM
1

Now now. I bet you’re not going wrong with your style! If it’s not your style, be true to you. But don’t stop at fashion & hygiene. Do you care about your career? Home? Family & friends? Future? Politics? What matters is that you care and make an effort in every facet of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:57 AM
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I agree with a lot of this- esp. #3, but #1 makes me laugh a little. Choose the hobbie, invest your time and money and surround yourself with people who also do that hobby all with the background intention of picking up women?! That’s why this sub is a joke sometimes. It’s so far from genuine it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:34 PM
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Flirting can make lust happen a lot faster. If you know how to flirt without being a creep and absolutely without crossing the line, I’ve been attracted to guys a hell of a lot faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:32 PM
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Be cool and confident- not to be confused with trying to impress people. Be genuinely confident in yourself because you realize we’re all human and you don’t need to beat yourself up about the mistakes you make. Confidence attracts friends, coworkers, acquaintances and love interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:26 PM
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Don’t feel disgusted in yourself :) I agree that men selfies are usually awkward. That’s not what women are looking for. It’s about as awkward as women selfies. So they’re not totally unacceptable they’re just not what we’re looking for either. Instead, we’re looking for guys who CARE in day to day life. Guys who get the nice shoes and want to find a nice “spring jacket” from Eddie Bauer. We’re looking for guys who give a damn to eat healthy and wash their face and even moisturize. We’re looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 09:10 AM
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Dudes don’t give a shit about anything and then wonder why we don’t love them, after we bend over backwards to look hot. Yes, this is true. Yes it’s nurture, not nature. When men care, they’re much sexier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 08:58 AM
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We’re not talking about people who have already made commitment to each other facing hardships in their relationships (because yes, your spouse being depressed is a hardship). We’re talking about dating. And whether someone can fall in love with someone else they just met who hates themself, or not. I’m arguing that it’s a slim-to-no- chance. You’re arguing that it’s perfectly plausible. I think that if you hate yourself, your bad vibes will translate to your potential relationship. I think that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:42 PM
2

Whitening creams? I didn’t know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:56 PM
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Let’s not discount the incredible effort Asian people put into skincare by saying “they’re just born that way”. Asian women put a ton of work into preserving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:10 PM
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And do you think this is a fair way to approach dating? Assume women should love you, even though you don’t love yourself? It sounds like a fantasy to me. As erotica is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 09:41 PM
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Ahh ok, I understand now so you’re : -listening to blokes in PPD -taking it to heart -thinking your dating life will improve because it Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:52 PM
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Why are you assuming you’ll just automatically be wanted once you hit 33? It’s like you’re listening to dudes in PPD or something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:41 PM
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So do you disagree? You expect someone to call in love with you even if you hate yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:34 PM
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That makes me happy. I mean, how can you expect someone to love you if you don’t love yourself? (And I don’t mean you, of course, I mean those who don’t love themselves).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:55 PM
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I don’t, but it takes working on myself all the time. It takes effort. Edit: all you people agreeing with this comment explain exactly why you hate women in this thread. Problem solved, people. The men in this thread just hate themselves. No more need for discussion, we can all go home now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:44 PM
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Clearly an exaggeration.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:02 PM
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"You have full agency and random old people on the street hold no power over you." Is catcalling not an issue in your eyes? You sound like you've never once been catcalled by someone stronger than you who could very well drag you in the ally and penetrate you with no repercussions. If a group of kids bully's your child, do you try to convince them that their bullying is meaningless?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:00 PM
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Well ok you already sound too jaded by females to have any kind of rational discussion about dating with so I’ll just say this: no one’s talking about the 4-6 year age gap lol. A stud 25 years older than me is not a stud. He’s basically my uncle. Gross. Lol OP asks a question about why. We answer why. You accuse us of lying. There's no winning with the ones who are jaded by their own lack of success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 03:36 PM
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Are you arguing there’s nothing wrong with sexual harassment? And are you arguing it’s not worse by the age gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 03:34 PM
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Let’s take this back a second: older people usually to realize they have authority over younger people. By default, younger people have a certain level of respect and even intimidation towards those older people. Older men then are abusing their authority if they’re approaching a younger woman sexually. Not only is it disgusting when any man approaches me on the street telling me to smile more, but when an older man who reminds me of my dad walks up, tells me I should smile more, and insists I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:07 AM
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You’re damn right I think it’s disgusting for a 60 YO man to approach me on the street with sexual intentions. He knows that if I were his daughter he’d be disgusted by another man his age doing the same. You’ll always blame women, but what you don’t understand is that I’ve learned entitlement as a defense mechanism to all the sexual harassment and threat I feel on a day/to-day basis. It would be pure ignorance to believe that my “don’t fuck with me” face and chip on my shoulder that I wAlk with…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:18 AM
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Don't you dare confuse me saying that any man being attracted to a women is entitlement. That's straw-manning. I'm talking about the old men who want to use their power of authority because of their age to hit on me. It's quite a different experience from any old Joe my own age hitting on me. The difference is that they realize I'm more likely to be respectful to them due to them being the my father's age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 03:00 AM
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Crusty dick? Old geezer? Why wouldn’t a 35 year old man be attractive to a 20 year old? Most of the most attractive male actors are in their 30s. If a guy is fit and good looking and a girl wants someone who can take her out, owns a home, has a good job, a car, is actively looking for a relationship rather than a hookup, and is better in bed than a college-age guy why is it strange that she would be attracted to him. For me, when I was 20, nah. Sure, I could appreciate celeb's being hot, but I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:43 PM
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I disagree that all women want to change their male partners, but let's just pretend that's even true: you're still talking about two different things here. Are you starting a relationship and then realizing their flaws and wanting to persuade that person to change for the better? Or are you purposefully seeking out a naive human to manipulate them into becoming what you want? One is far more predatorial.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:39 PM
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Well, though it may be harsh, I think most of those things now, and I've never been interested in older men. I'm a young woman, and I'm disgusted by older men. The reasons you listed basically explain why. I don't want a man who is immature enough that he's looking in the past and truly desires a "young and hip 20-something" instead someone with more wisdom. I don't want a pedo, because I could easily pass for a teenager. And yes, generally, I believe men go for younger women because as a whole,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:34 PM
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:D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:10 PM
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OMG NO!! Man - lover. Because we're all talking about men becoming more supportive of each other. Edit: yikes, idk where the N word came into this, but I apologize if I came off rude. Was just trying to make a corny dad joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:07 PM
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Man lover!! Get it?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:04 PM
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Aww, I want you men to be more supportive of each other. I think times are changing and it’s happening. Then you can take out the G and O in you username and it would fit the times
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:47 PM
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Honestly, she’s a piece of shit. She might deserve all the bad publicity and public shaming the media could provide. The issue, however, and the reason the media is staying quiet is the fear of the idea that women won’t be taken seriously when coming out about sexual abuse. The fear of crying wolf, when we still have a serious crisis of sexual abuse on our hands, and one woman ruined it all. Listen, compare your fear of being shamed & arrested to my fear of being kidnapped, raped and killed, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:44 PM
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At least you admit you’re delirious haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 10:08 PM
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Ha! All signs lead to it. But it’s easier to think they’re terrible and confusing beings and it’s not your fault that they don’t want you 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 08:06 PM
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GASP! You’re saying women are human!?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:08 PM
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That’s what rape is, dear. I can tell you’re trying to incite anger so goodbye. Just remember, rape isn’t fun. Edit: you’re clearly 14, not 40
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:22 PM
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Why would they have fantasies about something they clearly wouldn’t enjoy? Lol I mean it’s pretty clear. If you don’t know what it’s like to have a penis in you when you’re not ready for it, you don’t know just how painful it can be. Its not like forcing something in your mouth undesired. It’s far more painful because there’s a muscle that makes any aggressive penetration when you’re not “warmed up and wet” extremely sensitive. It’s not exactly sexy to think about that level of pain should someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:02 AM
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But I’ve only ever heard men say that women fantasize about rape. I’ve never heard a woman say that’s what she fantasizes about, nor do I ever fantasize about it either. I’m not saying no women fantasize about it, but I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s grossly exaggerated about how many really do because men fantasize about it. You believe what you want to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 04:48 PM
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If you’re not getting chicks without muscles, you won’t get them with muscles. If compare it to a girl thinking that if she went tanning that suddenly that would fix all her issues with men. Kind of reminds you of those insecure Jersey-shore, gym-rat, clubbing types, eh? Annoying, insecure and trying way too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 04:57 PM
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I’m attracted to the ones that take as much are of themselves as women do (who don’t go overboard and become feminine like plucking their eyebrows and going fake tanning). Those who give a damn about what they wear, hit the gym, eat healthy, and dont party too much or act like dumbasses are the most attractive to look at. Unfortunately, more guys put less effort into their looks than women so we’re only left with personality for attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:33 PM
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No, there’s no magical predetermined person who we’re destined to be with. It takes effort and some luck. However, if you’re making a lot of effort to make yourself the greatest person you can be, and you’re putting yourself out there in the world, and you’re not being picky about the lower quality people, there’s no reason you shouldn’t be able to find someone for yourself. And no, online dating and social media haven’t changed the dating world for those of us who don’t use it. It’s a choice if…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:47 PM
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It’s nice to hear a man being reasonable and understanding in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:17 PM
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In my experience, no but that’s because I only argue with the crazy comments I see in the first place lol Thanks for posting some logic in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:57 PM
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My continuing question is what makes you think that it’s a women’s trait instead of a shitty human’s trait? Men do all of those things. It’s not rocket science. Sure you can find “statistics” and “studies” that fit your argument that women are worse, but the reality is that war exists because of men. Murder and rape usually come from men. Domestic and drug abuse are more likely to be men. When you look at it that way, it makes it much easier to favor women, doesn’t it? I will never be entirely m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:40 PM
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Zero. Not that they don’t exist, but I can tell you I haven’t dated any or maybe brought that kind of a side out of anyone. There was one guy I “hung out” with for a while, who was questionable. Someone I just didn’t exactly trust, and that’s exactly why things didn’t go further.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 03:26 AM
1

Ya seriously I was thinking the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:30 PM
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HAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:50 PM
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You’re making my day 😆 I’m not sorry you’re not having any luck with girls. It’s not them, it’s you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:46 PM
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Oh ya, I’m crazy when a 60 YO man wants to stop me on my way to work, alone on the street to tell me my legs look sexy today HAHAHAHAAHAHAHA The only guys who actually feed into the shit you’re spewing are crazy, bitter involuntary celibates. I wish it stopped at age 18 but unfortunately, I know older men who still think like angry teenagers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:19 PM
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Hahaa HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA guys, don’t fall for his bs ^ he has no idea what he’s talking about. Every guy I’ve ever dated I asked out because he was a genuinely cool and nice guy. Sexually aggressive? Sounds like he’s fantasizing some rapey anime
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:03 PM
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That’s not at all how life works. Have you once in your life seen or heard a woman getting street harassment, stopping to talk to the guy because she’s interested? Lol me neither. But the harassers still do it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:01 PM
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I’m only interested in guys I have gotten to know and can consider in a group of friends. So I’ve rejected 100% of guys who have ever approached me in a bar or club, that’s for sure. Just don’t bother. If we’re at a party with mutual friends, I’ll talk to a few guys, but I’m ultimately going to choose who I really want to talk to from there. A lot of the times, I’m the one approaching him. So it’s not a matter of rejecting everyone else it’s a matter of not giving then further attention to the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:15 AM
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Well that doesn't make sense now does it. Agreeing with everything someone says is not "sisterly" nor is it healthy or helpful. There's nothing OP said in her post that convinces me that her mother hates her, or even that she truly believes it herself. I'm not OK or pleased with the fact that my mom sucked. I'm trying to tell OP that it makes you a stronger adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:09 PM
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Ugh I'm so sorry... that must be really hard. But I genuinely believe you made the right, strong decision for yourself. I'm confident that a person with your strength will find an amazing partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:20 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear your mother is narcissistic and clearly has her issues. I know for a fact that she loves you, but she might suck at being a mom. People are humans, and not everyone's great with parenting, unfortunately for their kids. I wanted to say that I also feel like my mom sucked at raising me as her daughter, but I believe it was helpful for me, and it can be helpful for you. Learning how to learn by viewing outside women and families has taught me so much that I might have otherwise…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:06 AM
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Right? And then in this sub is a lot of hypocrisy about women sleeping around as if it’s the worst thing ever when meanwhile their whole drive is to talk to women just to get laid then selves... They talk about “Chad’s” and “alpha’s” like they’re amazing and women who sleep around like they’re the worst. Luckily though, it’s mainly just this sub. I don’t know shitty guys in real life like the ones in this sub. There’s hope for humanity. It’s just addicting fighting with the crazies here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 08:31 PM
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Girl, run while you can. The men in this sub blame women and act like they’re scientists from their own shitty experiences because they can’t seem to accept the fact that it’s their own fault that they’re not getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:41 PM
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No, babe. Im saying it’s your fault because you probably don’t treat women like humans when you approach them. Pick up lines are pick up lines. Getting hit on is a clear demand for sex. We don’t want to be approached by sales people and we don’t want to be approached by men with a motive. If you can instead be someone they want to talk to once they learn who you are, you’ll have a better chance. It’s not your looks, babe. Ugly men can make up for their looks in other value. And I’m not talking m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:05 PM
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I know for a fact that most guys go for the top 10% of woman and everyone ignores the bottom 50%. If I can’t name 12 friends of mine who have never once been approached by a guy, and meanwhile the sexual harassment I experience is enough to make me want to punch anyone who approaches. You blame it on some made up concept like hyper gamey to protect your feelings. I’m here to let you know you’re just doing it wrong. It’s not that women are fucked up. It’s you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:32 PM
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have you ever tried pursuing an un attractive woman since you don’t believe you’re attractive? If you believe you’re a 3, do you seek fellow “3’s”? It’s like the men in this sub just ignore the fact that there are tons of single women out there who never get approached by men. You al just shoot for the 10’s and get pissed that they’re selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 07:35 AM
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In my experience, men absolutely want relationships. They crave intimacy just as much as women do. And women also want to remain single and be with new partners as well. Old fashion stereotypes might penetrate the lives of some people, but in my social circle, and as far as I can see, the playing field is extremely level. Some people want a relationship, some want t remain single. Some will couple up only when they found someone “worth” not being single any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:21 PM
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You’re conveniently latching onto the rarer situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 06:26 AM
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I’m not speaking in absolutes, dear. The evidence is everywhere: men leave women alone with kids more than women leave men alone with kids. Badda bing badda boom
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:14 AM
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I don't deny women can be alcoholics, drug addicts, etc. My own mother is an alcoholic. But that doesn't negate the fact that far more men take less responsibility for their offspring more often, and that they're more likely to be drug addicts, criminals, etc. Hence why women are left on their own, or need to shield their children from them. See the stats for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:38 PM
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Women need to shield their kids from their fathers for a reason. You can blame the mother, or you can take a step back and realize that alcoholism, drug addiction, self loathing, etc are toxic qualities to a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:44 PM
1

We’re you telling them, in some form or another, they were worth less than a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:32 PM
1

Just because you have personal experience with your case that you brought up does not make it the more common situation. Look around at all the split households and single parents. How often do you know of and hear about crappy dads that take little to no responsibility to raise their child? Even the financially successful ones? As an adult woman, I’m just startig to realize just how little many of our “successful” dads do around the house and for the kids. My own father just a few days ago aske…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:30 PM
1

Oof did you know Brazil is the most dangerous country (not at war) for women in the world? PPD arguments aside, I truly hope you realize this and treat women with above average respect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:16 PM
2

I know you agree with me that your situation is more rare. If you act like you don’t, you’re just putting up some PPD front, which is cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:43 PM
1

Well because of the men, the world I’m in is not a safe world. So I think you’re better off staying in yours where women saying mean things are a bigger threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:36 PM
2

However rare....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:34 PM
3

Yaaaaa good luck getting a girlfriend with a mentality like that. Some advice: when you’re ready, don’t blame women, take a look at yourself and your hatred for women. That’s the reason you’re not getting fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:47 PM
2

You are literally saying the guy is shitty and still trying to blame someone else 🤣🤣🤣😂 Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:45 PM
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Ok so expect the woman to be a psychic and just forget what the man did wrong in the first place. Sounds like a standard man’s argument lol no logic whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:32 PM
1

This argument is useless. Do you blame all victims and ignore the perpetrator? Doesn’t seem to be the standard moral code
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:30 PM
4

So you’re saying guaranteed the men are shitty?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:26 PM
4

Yo I think that persons just a troll, the lack of sense they’re making and with no karma.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:10 PM
4

You must be sarcastic. Wha about THE SHITTY MAN WHO LEFT IN THE FIRST PLACE
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:09 PM
3

Are you joking? How can you blame single moms over dead beat, unable to pull-out men who ditch them with a kid? Meanwhile being a single parent is actually one of the hardest jobs known to man kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:08 PM
5

What world do you live in? Women are so much nicer than men, it actually hurts us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:03 PM
1

Lol! Persuasion. You have no idea. That just means you’re being a pest. No means no. If you think you have a plan to change her mind, it still means no. Even if you think you’d be a perfect match and she didn’t give you a fair shot, that no still means no. If you choose to ignore that no, you’re being annoying, disrespectful and can quickly start approaching harassment. Ya.. good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:39 PM
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Ok. So in other words, no doesn’t mean no when a woman says it to you. You think it means walk away, and try again in a little while? Do you really fucking think I can’t make up my mind and mean what I say? Because it sounds to me like disrespect to blatantly disregard my decision. I was sexually harassed by a few men in the street walking over here, but I should have “empathy” when you ignore what I say in the beginning of the night and come back around at the end to try again? Let me guess, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:19 PM
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Ok okok... so let me get this straight... You need me to empathize with you because your feelings for sex are strong.... but you’re not an animal, and you agree that you can control your urges. So what am I empathizing with? The times you keep pushing for it even though I said no? but you just told me you can control your feelings. If I tell you I’m not interested, will you or will you not respect what I just said and take no as an answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:52 PM
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That would be wonderful if all men had that base level of social fluency. But clearly OP and many other men do not. So clearly they need the reminder that no means no. I think we can stop being afraid of hurting our boys’ feelings now, considering we already have to raise our girls & women to be afraid of men literally their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:57 PM
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Ok, so women are dumb for reminding men that “no means no” because it’s spoonfeeding. Even though 30% of us are raped in our lifetimes, and the vast majority of us are assaulted and/or sexually harassed at one point or another. If boys and men are not stopping after “no”, then what else do you suggest we do as a society? Just let it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:37 PM
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Empathize? You don’t have a clue of what it’s like to walk in my shoes. When I have to fend off advances, sometimes multiple times a day, oftentimes disrespectfully, and meanwhile I’m a small person. I can’t fend for myself if I ever needed to. I beg of the men in this country to learn a little respect. But there will always be trash who would have their way if they could, and they make that very clear when no one else is listening. But you want me to have empathy for you because you can’t contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:20 PM
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I think I just fell in love with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:09 PM
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DING DING DING DING DING DING A concept that’s terribly difficult for arrogant boys to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:08 PM
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No, it’s not clear. OP thinks he’s an expert at “persuading” women. If he’s so cocky, he can easily not persuade one and with his arrogance , be convinced that he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:06 PM
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Men I’ve come across don’t take my no’s seriously. Why is it “dumb” to make men more aware that they don’t listen to what we say?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:04 PM
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In my life, there has been a major issue with men not taking no as an answer. They think they need to be aggressive as if my “no’s” are just me being shy when actually, I know exactly what I do and do not want. I don’t need fucking persuasion. I just don’t want you. Rape is rampant. It happens all the time and it’s rarely the kidnapping and blatant rape you picture. Men who won’t take “no” as an answer are rapists. If you don’t believe a woman can speak for herself, and you think you know what s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:00 PM
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I don’t think about dating that way at all. It’s pretty simple- if he likes me enough and I like him enough, we’ll become exclusive. Playing games like expecting him to pay because we “have to make sure he’s not taking out 5 other women this month” is not only childish but toxic. If you think you’re weeding out the players by expecting men to pay for the first date... you’re gonna have a bad time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 03:34 AM
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I don’t understand your first sentence.. What I’m saying is he might lose interest in the woman. Like if, as a woman, you “expect “ to be paid for, that’s the first impression you’re giving. If he’s not into the dependent type, he could be put off by it. I’m a woman, and my first date with my boyfriend of 2 years, I paid for everything without telling him. I wanted to avoid that awkwardness and make it very clear that I don’t expect to be taken care of. Of course I’m not saying women need to pay…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 03:20 AM
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Nothing to lose .....except potentially the interest of a respectable guy? Let’s be real, most reasonable guys don’t want a woman to “expect” him to pay, and most quality women won’t “expect” him to pay either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:57 AM
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No I still like it when a guy is not involved with SM, in 27. In a sense, it shows confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 01:28 PM
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I don’t know why you decided that. Women take care of themselves much better, gaining less weight, wearing sunscreen, taking care of their skin, not partying as hard, etc. Fewer men care. And I’ve absolutely noticed how much worse they age for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 03:05 PM
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Listen- no one’s in support of mocking anyone, and for the most part, I’d like to take care of my neighbor. But if someone can’t get laid, no one else is responsible for that person. I don’t care about someone else’s sex life. It’s natural selection. They won’t have offspring. That’s that. Edit: it’s nonsense to believe society will “collapse” if some men can’t get laid. As if we all depend on those same few.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:06 AM
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Don’t you think it’s actually just evolution? Because that is literally all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 01:47 AM
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You’ve demonstrated that you don’t use logic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:49 PM
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Excuse me. *Be well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:48 PM
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You are batshit crazy. I’m sorry you only focus on the situations that feed into your dim view of the world. There is no reasoning with people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 05:35 AM
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Why should women care about all the strange men who want to have sex with her? That would mean she cares about 90% of strange men on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:08 AM
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You guys in this sub are actually insane. I can’t believe you actually think this way. Must suck being so angry at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:05 AM
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If that’s how life works then why do men report having more sex than women? Lol your logic is off. There’s no arguing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 03:17 AM
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Lol OK you're trying to tell me women do that more than men? Try telling that to all the sugar babies out there making money off of married men. You know there's a whole industry of it, right? Try telling that to all the married women who have been left for something new and shiny. Where do you get off believing it only goes one way? Edit: and even still, we're only talking about the shitty people, too. Let's not forget this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:25 PM
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It doesn’t exist in women any more than men. It’s pretty clear. We all want the best for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:52 PM
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You don’t have to look at evolution, you just have to speak to a woman. However, I think there are cultural differences in how men look, act, take care of themselves. American women go to Europe and suddenly far more men are attractive upon first seeing them vs 1 in 20 in the states. I think it’s because we have a machismo culture that persuades men to act like taking care of themselves is feminine and therefore they don’t care. Every state & culture in the US is different, but generally, Americ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:43 PM
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It’s generally just not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:35 PM
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Cute article, sounds real scientific
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:38 AM
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Ya, what? Like the term “gold digger” is literally to shame someone.ñ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:45 PM
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Thats one comment you read
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:13 PM
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Before I speak with them? Maybe less than 10% I’m sure are attractive, and another small percent I “can’t tell but might consider.” After speaking with someone, all of the initial attraction goes out the window and resets. Hot guys can become unattractive, plain guys can become very attractive, and even guys I thought were “ugly” can become Fabio if he’s confident enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:52 PM
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Watch out, we have a troll here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:21 AM
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Maybe I did I will never be with someone who didn’t do their equal share, one way or another. I’m not their mother, and I’m not their slave
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:42 PM
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I’ve read countless Reddit posts about married women saying it’s always overwhelmingly them (and other wives in their marriages) doing the vast majority of te work. I’m sorry you have to deal with this. I’m not married but I’m very very weary of lazy men I date because I never want to have to babysit my “partner” , because i see it with my own father and brothers as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:28 PM
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Oh dear... Look up the definition of feminism, my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:48 PM
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“Don’t settle for some loud, unfeminine feminist” Ya, real “nice guy” he sounds like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:34 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:29 PM
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Your post doesn’t sound like something a “good guy” would write
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:14 PM
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I’d like to add that that’s the whole reason I disagree with OP’s post in the first place. It goes both ways. We are all human really not that different as society makes it out to sound like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 09:06 PM
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If everyone else smells like shit, check your shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:24 PM
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Yes, I can agree that happens too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:23 PM
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I don’t believe I have ever met a guy at a bar who I kept in touch with for more than that night. Im far more interested in the men I meet through social circles. I believe hobby- specific events make it more likely to meet someone you’re interested in (even if you’re just looking for sex), like concerts, festivals, organized sports teams, hostels, etc. You need to be able to chill and actually speak with someone, not scream over loud music and push through crowds. I also think cold- approaching…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:43 PM
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I believe you are forgetting about women trying t do things in their daily lives and getting sexually objectified out of nowhere for it. I believe women should be perfectly entitled to enjoy her daily life without sexual objectification. There’s nothing wrong with a man only wanting women for sex, as long as he keeps that to himself until it’s appropriate. But women complain because that doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:35 PM
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In theory, there’s nothing wrong with objectifying the few women who are seeking sexual attention only, in the times that they are. That’s a mutual understanding, and it doesn’t seem like there should be anything wrong. In practice, however, the objectification of women is perpetuated into every woman’s daily lives, so a typical woman can not walk down the street on her way to work without being sexually objectified. Most of us are not asking for this. Most of us just want to be treated like gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:15 PM
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Couldn’t have said it better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:47 PM
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I replied to someone else in an earlier comment, but as soon as I have just one token stimulating, thought-provoking conversation with a man on any of those topics you listed, (which believe it or not, I’m very capable of), he suddenly changes his demeanor to wanting to pursue me. To avoid this, especially if the man had a SO, I just don’t open up to a man unless I’m interested. Either most men think my conversation is uninteresting, or they all want to pursue me. I have to make a choice, and fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:46 PM
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I’ve noticed oftentimes that if I have that one token deep, stimulating conversation with a man, their demeanor changes to suddenly being more interested in me/pursuing me. I will literally be more boring to the men I’m not interested in to avoid this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:09 PM
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What if he was very attractive or had otherwise very desirable traits to make up for zero personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:00 PM
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OK. So if a right depends on another person's approval (because bodily autonomy is also a right), then the "right" to sex depends on a privilege of someone else saying "yes", and agreeing to participate, don't you think? But wait...if a right is contingent upon someone else willingly participating, or else suddenly the right is just null and void.... that's not exactly a "right" any more is it. That's a privilege. That's a hopeful scenario. You can't argue that something is a right "only if anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:41 PM
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Let me ask you something. What is the point of making it a “right” to you? Because when something becomes a legal right, it’s the governments job to make sure each person has that right. * Do you not agree that this is what a legal right is? Edit: * to make sure each person has access to and is provided that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 04:59 PM
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You’re literally justifying why you should have a right over my body. No it wouldn’t decrease depression and suicide, it would just pass it to women who have even less legal right over their own body. You sound like you’re getting upset and hurt. Remember, You just made a sexist joke to me, and are trying to tell me you want me to have less legal control of my own body. You can spin it however you want like “women would still have a choice” but as I’ve said over and over, women having a choice t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:24 AM
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“It’s just a joke” is not an excuse for a sexist statement. Why does it need to become a legal right then, if there’s no concern that it will ever be out of supply? What’s the point of making it a right instead of simply a privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 11:54 PM
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The issue is what if there a shortness in supply of female volunteers and sex workers?If it becomes a right, which a government then needs to defend, what happens if women go on a strike and no one does sex work? What if not enough women want to get into that line of work? Because if you say “well then so be it, we can’t force them” then you’re WRONG because now it’s a “right” and the government has to do everything in their power to defend that right. If you don’t agree with that, then you don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:46 PM
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Im not dodging your point, I addressed it. The draft, which is not in any way nearly a comparison, is still even for the greater good and safety of a country to have defense.. to save it’s people’s lives and even then, it’s still avoided at all costs, because yes it is wrong to make someone else’s body a right. So a draft is to save people’s lives, yet sex is an urge, that can be satisfied with other methods. I will repeat, because any logical human would read the statement and agree: you do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:28 PM
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You’re making points that avoid the fact that you’re talking about making it a government determined “right” that men deserve pussy. No one should legally deserve a thing that will not save their life, nor anyone else’s life AND requires a third party to provide, especially when that third party gets no benefit from it being a “right”. The draft is for the greater good of a country’s defense, and even then, most countries do not require you to join the military. Pussy is for pleasure Edit: your …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:06 PM
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Legislation giving a man the “right” to a woman’s pussy takes away a woman’s autonomy. I can’t believe I’m actually having to explain this to someone. It is legislation that only benefits men, and takes away women’s rights. Imagine raising your daughters telling them “men have a right to that, you know”. Like you can’t actually be serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 09:11 PM
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You can not make a statement of someone’s right to someone else’s body part. I can’t make that more clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 08:56 PM
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Yes people already do force women to have sex alllll the time, like 1/3 of women are raped. Are you insane? You just don’t care about that part?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:47 PM
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POWER OVER THEIR OWN PUSSY?! YES, THEY SHOULD HAVE POWER OVER THEIR OWN PUSSY
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:46 PM
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Pussy is a privilege not a right. You won’t die without it. you can still get to work without it. You can buy property without it. You can even still live a functional, “American dream” success story without it! No reason you are entitled to it. It’s not a health issue if you can rub one out. Sorry dear, someone else’s body part is not your right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:44 AM
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It might be somewhat more acceptable but that doesn’t mean it’s just accepted by everyone. Especially because women who don’t have kids also, often, leave the safe little liberal city they live in lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:31 AM
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Sex requires pussy. Pussy requires women. Men can not get a “right” to another human. It’s pretty simple, dear. If it requires another human, it needs to be a privilege to use that over human, not a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 10:17 PM
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Strawmaning him? Wtf is that supposed to mean lol. Everyone already has whatever basic rights they need to jerk it, fuck a watermelon or a pocket pussy all they need. No, you are absolutely not entitled to the right over anyone else. Healthcare is not a basic right in the US, first of all, and second, it HAS presented issues with doctors getting sued for not saving someone’s life. I am a woman. It is not a right to enter me. It is a privilege and will never be any more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:19 PM
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That’s because it’s a joke dilemma
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:14 PM
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What you’re missing is the fact that women are still shamed, yes even the progressive ones who openly say they don’t have kids. I know because I’m a woman of child baring age with older single women friends too. Don’t make assumptions about the shaming they do or do not experience just because you don’t see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:10 PM
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They are very much shunned from society lol how can you possibly not know that there are just as many single women out there. There are more women in the planet than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:30 PM
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Yes. You are talking about calling putting your dick inside of a female human a basic human right. It is not your right. It never will ve your right. Don’t even start to think that it should ve your right. Something that just feels good for you for 30 seconds can very badly hurt me, not to mention change the course of my life. How are you possibly considering this? How much of a victim are you trying to make yourself sound like?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:26 PM
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You could say the n word is synonymous with black people, and argue it’s just semantics. Yes, words matter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:21 PM
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Here’s the issue: you seem to scientifically define “expectations” by way of ... I’m not sure.. personal experience? Stories you hear from old-timers? People literally say that everything sucks these days, it’s never as good as the old days. You haven’t learned to think critically about that talk? How can you possibly scientifically measure “expectation” . It’s in your head, dear. Very poor argument. Im sorry if it’s insulting to you that women always wanted fit, successful men, and if they land…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:20 PM
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“Can’t tell if hot or just tall” 🧐 is a real life dilemma. *sorry guys in this thread, that’s not a negative statement about short guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:14 AM
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Um hi no because you can’t give anyone the right to a WOMAN’s body, is what they’re saying. It would help men tremendously, and I stand by the legalization of sex work, but to simply declare sex as a fundamental right would sympathize with rape and hurt women’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:06 AM
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Your “new model” that you just made up in your head here is exactly that- something you made up in your head . So funny you make fun of my arguing skills when you wrote some story about how it was in the 60s and 70s. Either you’re a boomer or you’re literally pretending you knew what dating was like in the 60s and 70s. Real scientific.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:54 AM
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Superficial to be defeated by mean words? The difference is a matter of being sexist or not. Don’t call someone “demanding” for wanting to date a quality human when you would do the exact same. That would be a double standard- that would be sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:50 AM
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Wtf are you even talking about? Where did you get these ideas in your head? It’s not that woman are demanding, humans just have standards. If you are fat, unmotivated, and unable to support yourself, would you date you? You’re really really far gone with this comment. Idk what subreddits you’re a big fan of, but you should really take a break from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:30 AM
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Small town much?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:25 AM
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More demanding can also be spun as having standards. How you view things matters. Calling women “demanding “ is ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:22 AM
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This^
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:20 AM
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They’re shamed their whole lives to not have sex so Tinder is a taboo and even in progressive societies like major cities these days, it’s a big deal to use the hookup dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:18 AM
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Wait what?! That’s so untrue. Women are also very much looked down upon for not having kids, like there’s some Reason they never landed a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:13 AM
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What about all the single women out there 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:12 AM
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um. I don't know. But I messaged you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:26 AM
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Lol! Ok faith in men restored. What made me think that in your comments, as well as the rhetoric with many comments in this sub, are that you sound like you correlate success with women with only getting laid. Because in all reality, it goes both ways.. Like any guy or girl can be super hot, and everyone wants to fuck them, maybe they’re edgy and treat the opposite sex like shit, but that’s not the same as someone being worthy of a relationship, and that’s still different from what makes a lasti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:37 AM
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God you have no idea how bad I want to turn around and clock the guys in the face or balls, but I'm 5'2" and 115 lbs so that's just a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:09 AM
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Also, I have more questions that I want to ask you because you seem to be good at explaining things without calling me a cunt. Do you genuinely only care about being fucked? Or do you want a relationship at all? I know you can't speak for all guys, but this sub makes me question everything, and think that men literally only want sex, which I thought for a while when I was a teen, and matured from that, and now reading comments like yours, I wonder... don't you want to find someone like you that …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:48 AM
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You know, I really agree with just about everything you just said. Esp. the hoodrat thing- it's usually trashy men of all races, and then some white, well-off boomers, and your occasional socially awkward young middle-class guy. And get that we all have our own motives and we're just trying to argue to defend our own. But I still don't see why you disagree when I said "we don't have an option to be "fair" or "right" in this sub sometimes? Because in many cases it's been true. Like if I don't app…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:44 AM
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Lol sounds like we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:06 AM
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Yes! Exactly. And a woman will say hi back to the few she's extra interested in from the photos/bio. And you know who else she'll say something back to? A guy who asked a question about a mutual interest. And the 198 other guys who said "hi" , including OP will be S.O.L. and bitching and complaining that they have to say more than "hi" these days to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:00 AM
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sigh - you've made up your mind. Because it's already been said that you are literally one of hundreds of "hi's" in an inbox, and you don't want to hear it or believe it. But just come back to this thread once you get truly frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:50 AM
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You didn't explain why you said "of course not" you just went in some other direction. Please close the loop there. If I try to explain why street harassment is bad, and part of my argument is that it's overwhelming and I can't walk anywhere in peace without an uninvited sexual advance, and as a response, men say I should be thankful I get the attention, then please explain to me how I can "win" there? Because if I'm grateful for all of the uninvited sexual advances I might get in my life, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:41 AM
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I'm going to turn the tables here and remind you that women are humans who also exist, because this debate is very true from our perspective as well. In pop culture, we were told believe that some guy is going to come into our lives and be this charming, handsome, stable, mature all around perfect guy with no flaws, but when we start dating, we're handed guys who fart in front of us, don't clean up after themselves, haven't changed their socks in weeks, make jokes about us doing their dishes, tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:33 AM
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Wow I'm laughing so hard right now. Sorry, come again? Basically, when a man cheats he knows these are his children so he will act in a more responsible way. Actually it's literally the opposite haha only a woman is sure it's her child, who the father is can be in question. Who the mother is is never in question. Quite a twist of "logic" here to create some theory you just made up in your head. Don't quit your day job.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:23 AM
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And what is your response when I say there are 100 "hi's" in her inbox?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:16 AM
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One of those "humble bragging" females here. I'm here because I'm trying to defend women against all the hatred I see in this sub. Guys on here literally don't give women an option to be fair or "right" in their minds - we literally can not win. Perfect example: this morning, I argued that on a dating app you shouldn't expect someone to be interested in speaking with you after you say "hi". My best argument? There are too many of you. But that is exactly what you describe as "humble bragging" Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:13 AM
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You’re so jaded about women, I think you just posted this as a rant, not to listen. Have you ever met a guy you thought was trying too hard and you didn’t like him as a friend for it? Um yes, duh. Weird people can be a drag to be around. So why are you so mad when it happens with women too? Don’t let your desperation for sex make you start thinking women are something that need to be analyzed and studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:09 AM
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You also can’t tell that they’re .....literally anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 11:51 PM
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Yes. What dating apps are you using where you swipe less than hundreds of times per week? It takes all of 10 seconds to swipe left or right after giving a real look at their pics. And if you’re a woman with a decent picture, every right swipe is a match. What about this- Think about advertisements. What if every ad you ever see just says “hi” and the brand name. Nothing funny/special/interesting to make you like the ad or the brand. You can decide to look it up or not yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 02:19 PM
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Then meet women in person instead of complaining on Reddit about OLD. No one’s making you conform, don’t complain when you don’t want to make any effort on something you hate. People leave their houses quite frequently, so I think you just need to find the more social crowds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 03:30 AM
3

I’ll repeat- it’s because that is everyone’s opening line, and there can easily be hundreds of you dating “hi” or “hey” in one inbox. In dating apps, you are a dime/dozen. It’s how they work. Again, no ones actually calling you lame or unoriginal - it’s fine to start any in-person conversation with a hi or a hey, but in person, it’s easier to start a real conversation from there. But when alllllllll she has to know about you is a photo that she thought was half decent, but there’s 150 of you fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 03:25 AM
3

Let me clarify, you are one in 100 guys she could have matched with in the last few weeks, and if every single guy says “hi” then no one is going to be angry at you. You just won’t be noticed. But blaming a woman for not choosing you when she knows nothing about you, and she has 99 other guys from today who all said “hi” to choose from sounds a little insane doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:54 PM
1

Any that mentality is why you can’t keep a quality girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:59 PM
0

I’m much higher quality than you would ever get near, clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:05 AM
0

Clearly you don’t know what women think. I would also feel the same ;) but you have a thick scull, so it’ll take you a while to realize it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:05 AM
1

Aha I guarantee you I’m already better off now than you will be in 10 years ;) but idk why I’m arguing with an incel troll. You’re worthless, and you’ll never get a quality woman. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:02 AM
1

And you would fuck a woman if she’s slept around as well. If you wouldn’t, you’re in the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:01 AM
0

Haha omg cuz that’s all peice of shit men are good for, so true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:52 PM
1

Ouch that hurts from a troll. You should really get out and experience the real world you incel
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:51 PM
1

My point is that it’s the same both ways. There are humans that humans would be down to fuck, down to date for fun, but who you decide to marry has to be held to a different standard. It goes the same way for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:41 PM
3

Ok you’re definitely just a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:36 PM
1

There’s no problem with holding my partner to the same standards I hold myself to. If you do, you get a low quality partner, because hypocrisy makes you a low quality human. You must know what that’s like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:35 PM
1

Which is different from the guy I’m down to marry. Get it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:31 PM
2

You try the same, my dear. Unless you choose a low quality, spineless woman, she’ll hold you to the same standards you hold her ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:30 PM
3

Ooooooooo! So you’re some clueless old fashioned dude. What makes you think I’m attracted to a man who has been with more women than I’ve been with men? I also lose interest if their number is too far up there. No one actually wants to be with a man whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:26 PM
0

Maybe I misunderstand you meant behind the “and that’s the problem” comment. I agree, we get the shit end of the stick for being treated like we’re sluts if we’re just being human by wanting to hook up. I thought you were saying that’s the problem with women. But luckily, at least in my experience, living as a young person in a progressive city with progressive friends, I don’t feel like my value decreases any more than a man’s by hooking up with people casually. Everybody’s doing it. But yea, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:12 PM
2

How is it different?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:56 PM
0

Real question: have you ever met someone you’d fuck but wouldn’t marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:48 PM
1

Oh god don’t we all eye roll
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:12 PM
1

This is what I came here to say. There’s a difference between someone I’m DTF and someone who is fit to be a husband. If someone’s both, then great! But I’ve met plenty of guy that are only one or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:12 PM
1

I genuinely just see this as an argument that allows men to blame women when they get rejected. There’s no science, here. This is personal experience turned into what you’re so confident is fact. It's a lot easier to believe that life is unfair, and women are fucked up than to look at yourself and decide you should change something and lower your standards. Also, I’m laughing at the assumption that women are ok with sharing men.Please, tell me more about myself that I didn't know. Some people on…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:33 PM
2

So are you saying men don’t have options period? That would be a funny phenomenon since there are even more women in this world than men. They don’t have options because of women’s hypergamy? Ever think that maybe they’re going for women who are too good for them? Cuz there are tons of single “lower quality” women out there waiting for men to come for them, but if a man is hypergamous, he’ll never lower his standards. It goes both ways, therefore it’s a pointless sentiment. It just sounds like y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:22 PM
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I don’t understand... you just said “I am not accusing women of being hypergamous, I am just saying that’s what they are”- did you mean to type something different? Are you saying you believe that hypergamy goes both ways? Because then woohoo! We’re on the same page. But if not, I would remind you that there are at least 30% of women out there who also want a man but can’t seem to have any luck due to lack of confidence, looks, sociability, or other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:24 PM
3

Why do you play a human being having standards for the human they choose to date like “hypergamy?” Men get rejected, women get rejected. Humans have standards for who they want to fuck, date, marry. Different people want different things. Accusing all women of hypergamy sounds like you’re looking to blame your rejection on someone else being illogical. Am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:51 PM
6

Moving around- so true. Try backpacking. Hostels are a hippie breeding ground
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:11 PM
4

Im all about the guys who have their shit together, but who also have free spirited, hippie interests. But it tends to be difficult to find someone who is a mix of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:10 PM
1

“Just be yourself” is supposed to mean “have the confidence to love yourself” and other people. It’s supposed to encourage someone to be a happy and confident, good person. If you “just be yourself” and instead you just let yourself become an angry and hateful person, that’s incredibly unattractive. No one is entitled to sex. No blue pill argument says “if you’re true to yourself, you’re entitled to sex” It takes a second human interested. But if you’re a good person, and you’re who you would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 02:49 PM
3

If humans were nothing but photos .....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 05:10 AM
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Dear, this is all in your head. Women are not a separate species from men- they are the same human beings, and you could really benefit from learning this. Getting laid is not an exact measurement of how well you fair with 50% of the world population. If you have become more misogynist, it’s because you’re perpetuating this women-hating negativity. The issue with incels and alike is the disassociation that you deserve more than what you can provide in terms of attractiveness. Like the mentality …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 05:01 AM
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Men need more rights when it comes to child custody- I think many people this day and age agree with this. he should deserve a fair chance to have equal custody of the equally - committed mother. But I can’t help but feel like your argument has the connotation like men get the shit end of the deal more often, when I believe you’re forgetting about all the single mothers in this world , with fathers who don’t want their children so don’t help support them at all. It’s overwhelmingly imbalanced. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 07:12 PM
2

How would you feel about yourself if you had a whole wide world of opportunity open to you, and you decide to do nothing except land a man to take care of you? I see absolutely nothing admirable about that, and I would feel incredibly ugly if I had accomplished next to nothing in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:50 PM
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