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OYSing since may 2021 Age 38, Ht 169cm (5′ 6), Wt 66 kg/145 lbs, BF 17% navy. Married for 14 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man x 2, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. SQ 5x120kg/264…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 11:02 AM
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All of this makes sense, however: Can't you see that this "emotional labor" you're demanding of her will destroy her enjoyment of sex with you, because sex becomes an unsexy chore in which she has to carefully monitor her performance and your emotions to ensure that you're validated and to avoid triggering any of your insecurities? How can she uncover and express her own authentic sexual desires while navigating this emotional minefield you have created around sex and your own emotional fortress…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/22 07:35 PM
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66 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm (5′ 6), Wt 66 kg (145 lbs), BF 18% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man x 2, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. SQ 5x120kg/264lbs, BP…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/22 01:12 PM
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Damn. I believe I totally get it, yet we come to different conclusions. I've tasted in dominance and I loved it. Not asking for permission and doing your stuff - whether it's sexual or not - gives a great feeling of freedom and power. Being able to remove the "what if she...[does not like it/says no/etc]" thoughts and just focus on doing works great. However, there are limits that the other person might not want to cross at a given moment. It could be anal, fucking in public place, or whatever t…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 12:47 PM
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62 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm (5′ 6), Wt 67 kg (148 lbs), BF 18% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man x 2, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Stopped reading "Surr…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 08:38 AM
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61 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm (5′ 6), Wt 67 kg (148 lbs), BF 18% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man x 2, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Reading "Surrounded b…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 03:54 PM
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Sometimes ya gotta take it to the DM’s.> The underground dick pic network is real. Yup, had a taste of it recently. Good knowledge, good insight, good stuff in general. Wasn't able to attach a dick pic though. Gotta have to host them on facebook and simply paste links here I guess.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/22 08:16 PM
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My experience has been that a large part of women’s “desire”, or whatever you choose to call it, is reflective. This. As long as you stay out of your head you'll be able to simply initate and fuck her. She might not like it. Maybe you're unattractive. Maybe it would be impossible for her to really enjoy it on that day for another reason anyway, I dunno. However, what I believe is that if you want to fuck your woman, go for it. Be prepared to be rejected and don't make ANY fuzz about it if you do…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/22 07:35 PM
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Thanks for that link to cynical implementation article. I needed it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/22 07:16 PM
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60 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm (5′ 6), Wt 67 kg (148 lbs), BF 19% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man x 2, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Reading "Surrounded b…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 10:14 AM
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59 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm (5′ 6), Wt 67 kg (150 lbs), BF 19% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man x 2, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Reading "Surrounded b…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 10:45 AM
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Same stuff was happening for me. Fuck, these scenarios are so common. Horns and Ragnar get it correctly. You will develop a mindset over time that you are the prize here, and it is your woman who gets rewarded by you providing a good fuck session. That being said, this internalization process takes time, and you need to start by simply not caring - just fuck her like you want it, don't worry about "mutually enjoyable sex life". I was experiencing lots of starfish, unwilling sex from my wife. The…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/22 08:37 AM
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58 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm (5′ 6), Wt 68 kg (150 lbs), BF 19% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man x 2, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Reading "Surrounded b…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 03:03 PM
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I am actually wondering whether the fact that you had no shame of writing about spending $1000 on a Twitch thot-like "affair" is a good thing (as you're being transparent and want genuine advice), or a bad thing (as you're unaware that it was a complete waste of resources). 23% BF means that you're fat. Don't expect that a girl you've met online will eagerly suck your dick, at least not for free. Also, if you're having an oneitis for the webcam girl (man, I at least hope you saw her in a webcam)…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 08:09 AM
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It's an observation on how my ego tries to take over and skips (as u/Blarg_Risen stated) the whole picture. Luckily, I am able to disarm it rationally. I am already hyperproductive at work, and I need to be careful not to lose track of the amount of time I am spending working on the project. And yeah, time management is something that keeps that issue in check. Setting a hard boundary (e.g. "I am not working on the project between 5 PM and 9 PM") is working here.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 07:58 AM
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57 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm (5′ 6), Wt 69 kg (152 lbs), BF 19% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Finished re-reading Way o…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 12:18 PM
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56 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm (5′ 6), Wt 69 kg (152 lbs), BF 19% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Re-reading Way of the Sup…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/22 01:31 PM
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I know it gets confusing because there's a heavy emphasis on not using sex for validation. Therefore, don't initiate as much, right? Just have sex when I really feel like it, right? Sex isn't all that important, right? That's a misconception. If you're a healthy male, you should have the urge to fuck. And, as usual, I am confused as fuck about all of this. Yeah, I'm a slow learner. And I think too much. Prior to my MRP journey, I often had urges to watch porn and jerk off to it. When I got off p…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/22 09:52 PM
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53 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm, Wt 70 kg, BF 19% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Re-reading Way of the Superior Man. 3 days…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/22 08:21 PM
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OYS #45, 51 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm, Wt 71 kg, BF 19% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Re-reading Way of the Superior Ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/22 08:24 AM
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OYS #44, 50 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm, Wt 71 kg, BF 19% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Re-reading Way of the Superior Ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/22 07:32 AM
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Nah, I am ready to commit to IF for a number of months. The "diet fatigue" is annoying sometimes, but it's not a showstopper. I'm aiming for <1900 cals daily, but I'm able to go even lower - not forgetting about correct protein intake. My goal is to go around 10% BF - or to a place where I simply look very good naked.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/22 06:59 AM
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OYS #43, 49 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm, Wt 72 kg, BF 19% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Finished NMMNG, started re-readin…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/22 12:33 PM
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If I get you correctly, that's a RP level I cannot grasp. At least not yet. I believe it is possible to fail as a parent; providing wrong role models/examples to your child can make a difference (although it's surely not the only factor) whether they'll succeed in life or not. This becomes even more important if a parent recognizes that they're currently doing something wrong and decides to do nothing about it. That being said, I know that it does not make sense to beat oneself up for past behav…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/22 07:06 AM
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you are or did lose your shit, then go back to them and with the same expectation of a higher standard, say "Hey. I lost my shit. I shouldn't have. I'm sorry. This is why I lost it (describe my flaws). This is what you did to trigger those flaws. I believe you can handle your behavior better if you X instead of Y. And this is the more healthy mental outlook that produces X." Yup, this is the way. I believe what my approach is lacking is forgetting that a child (I believe it applies to a woman as…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/22 08:41 AM
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OYS #42, 48 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm, Wt 73 kg, BF 19% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Currently re-reading NMMNG. Lifting/…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/22 12:39 PM
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OYS #41, 47 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm, Wt 73 kg, BF 19% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Currently re-reading NMMNG. Lifting/…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 01:27 PM
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OYS #40, 46 weeks in. Age 38, Ht 169cm, Wt 73 kg, BF 19% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Currently re-reading NMMNG. …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 03:42 PM
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You are right, it makes no sense in "solving" it. One does need to adapt their married game to the current circumstances though. Or at least I think so. Storming in naked in the bedroom and telling her to suck that dick, after she was sobbing half of the day won't work (and I'm sure it won't, as I've tried it). I believe that if it's possible to turn the lack of interest around (instead of nuking the relationship) it's worth a try - even if it means reducing the amount of initiations in the near…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 04:03 PM
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Thanks for your insight, I needed this. The important thing is to remember it makes no sense to get angry at a woman only because she's acting like one. What is more, that's actually counterproductive.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 03:59 PM
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I believe your comment is spot on and that's exactly the attitude I need to work on more. ​ You have to be authentically comfortable and strong in the face of life's stresses, chaos, and disappointments. I love operating on examples, so I'm gonna put some of them here. a) You're rushing to work and encounter lots of red lights. You're gonna be probably late. Well, fuck that, there's nothing you can do about speeding them up. It's probably your fault that you got out of house too late. You can ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/22 09:47 AM
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I hear what you're saying. On one side, one could state their demands and tell their partner to get themselves together. On the other hand, we're dealing with an old teenager here. I mean there surely is a reason why there are articles here on how to deal with depressive partners and guidelines that one should not punish bad behavior, but reward good one instead. That being said, one with a depressive partner should not be running behind her with a napkin saying "there there, all will be fine ba…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/22 09:18 AM
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I'm not missing reps on BP. I'm able to do 5x5 on 70kg as long as I have 5 minutes rest between series. I'm skipping reps when dealing with weights > 70kg. So yeah, I should've already deloaded by around 7kgs.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/22 09:02 AM
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>Wait....45 weeks in and you're the same weight/bf% as week 1 I was doing bf calculations wrong. There is a visible progress on my physical look, see my response to ragnar's comment. >"I need to look at my wife's disturbing behavior" with something along the lines of "I'm just going to keep providing comfort"...? I guess this... I believe I am trying to over-analyze things when I'm writing here. You see, after I read, say, the "Depressive and Anxious Wives" article I believed that it's the situa…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/22 11:05 AM
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You were 70kg and 20% bf on OYS1. I did made progress physically although the numbers do not reflect this, as I was measuring my bf wrong for a number of weeks at the beginning, it was way above 20% at start. I managed to go down two notches on a belt and my weight went up 3 kgs. The cutting phase, which will start soon should make the most visual difference. ​ I'm just throwing a dart here but I wonder if you are angry and uncomfortable about being ahead (and she's filling up that angry and unc…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/22 08:06 AM
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I didn't try a deload on BP. I was only using it when I wasn't able to perform an excercise correctly, like it happened with BR the other day. I'll experiment with deloading.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/22 07:24 AM
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fat Working on it. Will start cutting in April. ​ weakling Shit, I don't know how to handle this one. I'm doing 5x5 stronglifts for some time now. I'm doing the excercises correctly. I did hit a plateau in BP, yes. I can't lift more than 5x5 of 70kg, and that's with 5 minute breaks between the sets. I don't see any other way here than to continue grinding. ​ reactive The "judging by the reaction" was a poor choice of words here. I see what you mean. I believe one of the reasons you were able to …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/22 11:58 AM
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Nothing more than an angry beta revenge fantasy you're going to labor your father with your DEERing. Nah, it's not a revenge fantasy. I simply want him to know that I am not planning to show on his wedding. He was the one blaming me for all the bad shit that happened to him, and that might be the case again. I know that I am not a bad guy here; if he cannot accept it, that's fine with me. I simply don't want to do things that are against me. ​ Kind of like how your wife won't fuck your fat unatt…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/22 11:51 AM
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OYS #39, 45 weeks in. Back after a rule 9 ban; I'm describing my last 3 weeks. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 73 kg, BF 19% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen a…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 10:09 AM
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OYS #38, 42 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 74 kg, BF 19.3% navy (neck 39cm, waist 88cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits. Finished reading "How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 12:48 PM
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Hmm, I guess that's a naming thing that we use in this region. Think of it as meals around 7:00, 11:00, 14:00 and 20:00.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 02:40 PM
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OYS #37, 41 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 73 kg, BF 19.3% navy (neck 39cm, waist 88cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits. Now reading: How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 02:38 PM
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I'm using another tracking app (fitatu, available in Poland). An example day: breakfast: 640 (banana/muesli shake), 2nd breakfast: 500 (a sandwich with cottage cheese and cold cuts). Dinner: this can vary from 900 (a big - at least for me - bowl pasta) to 530 (some beef cutlets, mashed potatoes and a salad). Supper: 450 (again, sandwich with some cheese and meat). Add ~230 calories from the whey isolate. This combination gives way above 2700, but it was extremely difficult for me to start eating…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/22 03:05 PM
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I am having trouble reaching ~2600 kcals a day due to the fact I cannot eat that much, hence I am constantly pushing myself here. There is progress, as I did manage to gain 3 kgs recently. I know there's lots of BF that I can use; I am focusing on bulking right now - I don't want to sabotage muscle growth by running at calorie deficit. I'm planning to start cutting around April.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 06:38 PM
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progress photos are great but this guy was at 18.4% bodyfat 5 months ago. Nah, I was retarded enough back then to not measure my waist correctly. I did realise that later on, and did write about it in one OYS. BF was > 20% the beginning. ​ Also, what's this "19.3%" bullshit? No body fat measurement is accurate enough for a decimal point. Hmm, just using the results from an online calculator.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 06:34 PM
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I always had a problem identifying the "good lover" validation. I genuinely like having sex with someone who is open to receive pleasure. That being said, I know that whining on wife's lack of positive attitude won't work here. A man is responsible for good sex. Women must be lead there, and that shit surely requires courage. The thing is that I can see that there's nothing to fear when initiating. I mean, what's worse that could happen? Well, she might bite my dick off in anger - but I could la…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 03:10 PM
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OYS #36, 40 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 73 kg, BF 19.3% navy (neck 39cm, waist 88cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits. Now reading: How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 11:13 AM
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The tough part is distinguishing the difference between her straying off course, and her experiencing what off course means so she can self-correct back on course. It also means for you, distinguishing between when she truly needs your help to stay on course, and when her venturing off course is an effort to get you to re-engage and pity her, and make her journey less arduous. That last bit right there is something you definitely need to avoid as a leader. But that first bit is one you definitel…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/22 09:11 AM
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OYS #35, 39 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 72 kg, BF 20.1% navy (neck 38cm, waist 88cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits. Now reading: How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 01:34 PM
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OYS #34, 38 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 72 kg, BF 20.1% navy (neck 38cm, waist 88cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits. Now reading: How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/22 01:25 PM
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I know what you mean - that's why I wrote that good sex is my responsibility. Still, if I'm experiencing total indifference during initiation, I'm not satisfied with it. So yeah, I do want a partner who won't be giving a "you're raping me" vibes. I am not making things overt as I did before. I am leading into a territory where sex comes naturally and is abundant. It might be that I will be able to gain satisfaction with my current partner. If it won't work, I'll see what I can do with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/22 08:18 AM
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OYS #33, 37 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 72 kg, BF 20.1% navy (neck 38cm, waist 88cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits. Now reading: How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/22 03:25 PM
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OYS #32, 36 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 71,5 kg, BF 19.3% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits. Now reading: How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kid…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/22 08:32 AM
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I hear you. I do express my needs and lead during sex. The thing I need to end up doing is worrying about reading her behaviour. There's no will to do open mouth kisses? Fuck it, gonna focus on them tits then. She covers herself up right after we're done. Hold on, I'm gonna play with your ass little more. As long as this shit in consensual, I'm fine here.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/22 08:35 AM
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I will be pumping my sex-selfishness level up. No complaining. If I will be met with shitty starfish I will either caveman or withdraw, with no negative emotions. Hell, that's something I do already - note that it was not me acting sad/bitchy/depressed the day after. Still, I will do my best to ignore any bratty/depressive behavior, keep the good attitude and initate when horny. If I experience behaviour that I like, I will praise it. This stuff might feel counterintiutive, but then heck, whole …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/22 08:29 AM
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Now I see I messed up the week number. It's 7, not 67. Corrected. ​ Case in point: There's no way a normal person properly rows 85% of their dead lift for 5 reps. I hear you. It might be that I should not be using "maxes" when not applicable. I am still figuring out maxes for my DL and SQ, by slowly adding weights and making sure I don't injure myself. I do believe I reached a max for BR, but there's still room to reach my max for DL.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/22 08:13 AM
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Care to elaborate? I am aware I was running in circles at the very beginning, but I am pretty sure I am doing well recently. Gym-wise, I transitioned to doing multi-joint stronglifts and I am progressing there. Frame-wise, I am calmer than ever. I know what I want in life and how I should do it, and I am doing it. A "just push into your wife and fuck her" feedback was clearly something that is not working in this scenario, where the other person feels being left too far behind.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 11:19 AM
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OYS #31, 35 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 71 kg, BF 19.3% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits. Now reading: How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 09:20 AM
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OYS #30, 34 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 71 kg, BF 19.3% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits. Now reading: How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/21 02:14 PM
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OYS #29, 33 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 70 kg, BF 19.3% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. Now reading: Atomic Habits. Goals and progress: I. Building muscle mass and ach…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 04:25 PM
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OYS #28, 32 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 70 kg, BF 19.3% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. Now reading: Atomic Habits. Goals and progress: I. Building muscle mass and ach…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/21 09:02 PM
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Thanks. This is solid advice. Shes not stupid. But she isnt a mind-reader either. Do what needs to be done to offer a spot at your side. Then move on with your life either way. The worst thing to do is to assume that because one has started to put their shit together, their partner is going to auto-adjust their behavior. Leading (and making it overt when needed) is necessary. Of course there will be rejections/tests appearing along the way - and then a solid frame comes into play, making sure on…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/21 09:55 PM
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1. Feminine: being playful and sexually receptive 2. Looking up: listening to my advice 3. Trusting: not criticizing my decitions unconstructive way 4. Supportive: helping out in me achieving my goals, and us achieving our family goals 5. Advisory: providing helpful feedback when possible As of now, points 1 and 3 are not present. Now, I believe I know what "letting go of craving feeling loved is about". I mean, it is... exactly what I've just written - I should not be focusing my life around it…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/21 09:46 AM
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But as you read in TRP - which /u/SBIII points out is really fucking retarded - you can just take advantage of a woman in this position. That's some incel level revenge fantasy bullshit. Just another example of why TRPers are fucking idiots. Don't do that anger stage, bro. Yes, I am starting to see the difference between MRP and TRP in general. Thanks for that. ​ So how do you get out of this? What would a man do? Would he just sit around silently allowing this stalemate to cycle in and out? No.…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/21 09:29 AM
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This has evolved in the last months. Initially, I thought I need a person who will give me comfort when I have a bad day. A person who will be able to turn around my shitty mood with being fun, communicative and sexual. Now that I think of it, it looked more like a retarded version of waifu/mommy fantasy. I have learned that I myself have to be responsible for my feelings, and I can't be running to my mom to cheer me up. Currently, my definition of being loved is about having a feminine person w…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/21 02:28 PM
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OYS #27, 31 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 19.3% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. Now reading: Atomic Habits. In-between reading Atomic Habits, I've read The One…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/21 09:26 AM
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OYS #26, 30 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 19.7% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87.5cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. Now reading: Atomic Habits. Goals and progress: I. Building muscle mass and a…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 11:47 AM
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OYS #25, 29 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 19.7% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87.5cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. Now reading: Atomic Habits. Goals and progress: I. Building muscle mass and a…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 08:53 AM
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OYS #24, 28 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 19.7% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87.5cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People. Finished reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. That book turned out to be something completely different th…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 09:37 AM
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Thanks for that. I am shutting down kino/initiations/display of affection for a week and will observe my behaviour. Along with that, I am staying open and receptive to whatever may be going on.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 02:58 PM
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OYS #23, 27 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF ??? 19.9% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87.5cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People Reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. That book is fucking with my mental models hard. I am not sure wha…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 09:33 AM
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The short version would be: I wanted to fuck, I was not afraid of it an approached it with genuine desire, and I did fuck. But yeah, we're all bunch of pussies around here so we crave for FRs like this, whilst in the end it's just about stopping being pathetic. Still, it doesn't mean that we've just found a silver bullet (eat her popcorn and fuck her brains out) - and there could be multiple factors that came into play that resulted in this situation to end with such a good sex. But yeah, it's a…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/21 10:09 PM
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OYS #22, 26 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 19.9% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87.5cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People Reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. Goals and progress: I. Building muscle mass and achieving good looks M…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/21 07:43 AM
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Could you elaborate on that?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/21 07:12 PM
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I'd like to enjoy a good fuck in which I am not feeling like I'm humping a person who is completely not into it - and sadly, that's how it looks like most of the time. Most of the cases (exluding time when being tipsy) she's either providing a complete starfish or frowning during the intercourse. We've had "serious talks" about it in the past (none of which - surprise, surprise - ended well). The only conclusion was that she does not like sex and is not into it. Of course sex was occasionally go…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/21 07:10 PM
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I genuinely do. And I am working (by leading by example) on slutting her up.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/21 06:30 AM
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This is 100% accurate. Thanks for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/21 06:27 AM
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OYS #21 25 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 19.9% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87.5cm). Married for 13 years, 2 kids Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People Finished How to Win Friends and Influence People. It was a mild eye-opener, as I was seeing the patterns described i…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 01:12 PM
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I'm currently in a similar spot when it comes to the sex stuff. My initiations are working and there's a response - but it's rarely something that she finds enjoyable and I am struggling with finding fun in this when faced with such approach. Also, I've read a similar story in different OYS entries here. This is common stuff. Not saying that it's not important - it is, and it's a shitty situation. It's just common. Now, obviously one needs to stay out of woman's head. And you have a point that y…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/21 07:36 AM
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OYS #20 24 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 19.9% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87.5cm), Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook Reading How to Win Friends and Influence People. In one of the chapters there was a story about a guy who - in order to make his life bette…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 01:07 PM
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OYS #19 23 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 19.9% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87.5cm), Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook Reading How to Win Friends and Influence People. Goals and progress: I. Building muscle mass and achieving good looks Maxes: Dumbbell squat…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/21 01:31 PM
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OYS #18 22 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 19.9% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87.5cm), Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook Reading How to Win Friends and Influence People. Goals and progress: I. Building muscle mass and achieving good looks Maxes: Dumbbell squat…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/21 10:20 AM
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OYS #17 21 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 19.9% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87.5cm), Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook Reading How to Win Friends and Influence People. Man, that book is an eye-opener as I can now see why I resonated with certain people more …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 12:25 PM
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I know, right? That's one of the main things that are holding me back, yet I cannot wrap my head around it. I was often giving speeches in front of the public, and recently (after I switched to doing my new project) I'm giving online interviews/streams more often. I do like when I feel that the interview/public speech went good and that people say to me that it meant something to them. It's a good thing, as I'm feeling I'm giving something to the world. On the other hand, I'm binding my well-bei…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 09:08 AM
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OYS #16 20 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 19.9% navy (neck 38cm, waist 87cm), Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook Finished reading The Unplugged Alpha. Solid advice, mostly for single men. That being said, it did a good job of describing what the alpha mi…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 01:29 PM
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OYS #15 19 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 17.6% navy (neck 38cm, waist 84.5cm), Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook I stopped reading My Secred Garden (I've had enough reading about female fantasies) and moved to The Unplugged Alpha. Goals and progress: I…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 02:24 PM
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What does this mean: "Pushing too fast..."? Does this mean you think you're pushing yourself too fast? That you're pushing the weights too fast (speed)? Does that mean you think that your volume on any given workout is too high? I haven't identified the exact cause of the pain. What I know is that when I am doing reps with higher weights (my maxes), I'm getting the pain a day after. ​ Does the shoulder pain feel muscular or structural? If muscular, a few days' rest will take care of it. If struc…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/21 10:41 AM
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OYS #14 18 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 17.6% navy (neck 37.5cm, waist 84cm), Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook Currently reading: My Secret Garden. Man, that book is going in pretty fucked up weird places with these female fantasies. I am starting to…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 10:25 AM
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What is the fear of? Rejection? That she'll be angry? That you'll be called a pervert? That's the thing I need to identify. I'll try to break it down. I know how to handle rejection, so it's not that. I literally never received a hard "no" that was aggressive. I might be faced with her trying to get me off quickly by taking the lead and starting to give an aggresive handjob. Is that a problem though? I can always take over or simply go with it - and finish all over her clothes. I'm pretty sure i…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 07:47 PM
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OYS #13 17 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 18.4% navy (neck 37cm, waist 84.5cm), Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook Currently reading: My Secret Garden Finished Pook recently; another great insight on intergender dynamics. Also, the womanese section was h…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 11:32 AM
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OYS #12 16 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 18.7% navy (neck 37cm, waist 85cm), Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man Currently reading: The Book of Pook Goals Building muscle mass and achieving good looks Acquiring the abundance mentality Internalizing that I'm the shit Lasti…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 02:58 PM
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OYS #11 14 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 18.7% navy (neck 37cm, waist 85cm), Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man Currently reading: The Book of Pook Goals Building muscle mass and achieving good looks Acquiring the abundance mentality Internalizing that I'm the shit Lasti…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 09:55 AM
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I hear you. She still might need time to adjust, but it does not mean I should be waiting with myself grabbing what I want.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/21 08:18 PM
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For me? Hell no. For her? I can only guess from her reactions. Even if the sole intercourse is not boring, it's surely the lack of build-up.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 06:37 AM
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Indeed, concrete measurable actions are missing here. I mean the result is present: "having mutually enjoyable sex" (meaning that I'm not feeling like a rapist afterwards). I see the following actions: Not forgetting to caretake/provide comfort when necessary. And combining that with kino to make it clear we're not dealing with a hugging "gay friend" guy here. Being less predictable. There's still holiday time, we might have an extra trip or two. Being more cocky, making more sex-related hints/t…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 06:37 AM
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OYS #10 13 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 18.7%, Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man Currently reading: The Book of Pook ​ Goals Building muscle mass and achieving good looks Acquiring the abundance mentality Internalizing that I'm the shit Last longer in bed ​ Looks All f…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 08:40 AM
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Gotcha - will check it out. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/21 06:57 AM
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Starting OYS entries is definitely a good idea. When I compare my (lack) of progress from the pre-OYS "red-pill-aware" bullshit to the stuff that's going on now, there's a huge difference. The "be attactive" thing - which includes working out - is, in my opinion, the easiest part. Schedule time, lift stuff, sweat like a pig, repeat. It's the rest that comes harder. ​ Wifey complains that I am too horny and always wants to fuck. Every time I grope her or go in for a kiss, she assumes I wanna fuck…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 02:11 PM
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OYS #9 12 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 18.7%, Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM Currently reading: The Book of Pook Goals Building muscle mass and achieving good looks Acquiring the abundance mentality Internalizing that I'm the shit Looks The first visit to the gym after the holiday brea…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 12:37 PM
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OYS #8 11 weeks in. Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 70 kg, BF 20.5%, Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM Currently reading: The Book of Pook Man, TRM was a hard read, as English is not my first language. Lots of difficult words. I can't agree with all the stuff that Rollo wrote, but he did make a few points. Goal…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/21 02:21 PM
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OYS #7 Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 19.5%, Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Back after rule 9 14-days ban. What's the best practice on numbering your OYS entries in such situations? Oh well, gonna just go with the next number - so it does not resemble the number of weeks, but a number of entries. Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her Curre…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 07:59 PM
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OYS #6 Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF 20.3%, Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her Currently reading: The Rational Male. Goals - Building muscle mass and achieving good looks - Acquiring the abundance mentality - Internalizing that I'm the shit Made the goals more distant from the "I have to fix myself" thing…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 11:03 AM
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OYS #5 Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF ~20%, Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her Currently reading: The Rational Male. Goal Fixing myself. I'm focusing on short-term goals now. Will review the bigger picture after I have the basics in order. Looks I found a great quote on MRP (did not memorize the author tho…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 08:55 AM
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Alright - either I am not getting that MRP stuff at all, or you misunderstood me. I received a hard no recently. Played it off, started doing other things. I decided to be normally initiating in the upcoming days, and not worry about the fact that I got that hard no.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 07:52 PM
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OYS #4 Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 70 kg, BF ~20%, Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her Finished re-reading MMSLP. Athol Kay's books are great to read (especially as English is not my primary language), although his sexual life sounds… utopian to me. Clearly the guy was lucky with picking the right partner. On the …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 10:11 AM
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OYS #3 Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 70 kg, BF ~20%, Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her Currently re-reading MMSLP. Goal Fixing myself. I'm focusing on short-term goals now. Will review the bigger picture after I have the basics in order. Looks Russian Sit-ups: 5x40sec, Bicycles: 5x155 sec, Planks: 2x190 sec, Vertica…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 10:11 AM
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Nothing to do with luck. It was discipline and it's a great way to build your self respect. You're correct. Gotta start being more self-conscious.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 06:40 AM
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I think you've already read this, but while you're escaping sex for validation and quitting porn (if it's a problem, which it clearly is for you) at the same time - you'll start to notice that your mind goes a little wild. Take a look at /u/ehsan720's OYS this week. His mind is waking up and he's starting to have crazy thoughts about having an affair. I've read the article about validation, sex and porn lots of times and always had trouble figuring out the difference between fucking for validati…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 06:39 AM
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OYS #2 Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 69 kg, BF ~20%, Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her Currently re-reading MMSLP. Goal Fixing myself. I'm focusing on short-term goals now. Will review the bigger picture after I have the basics in order. Looks After solid advice dropped the idea of starving myself and sticked to my …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/21 09:12 AM
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Nothing I've read in your OYS resembles something that looks like your own frame. That's really the key to all of this. This conversation is the best proof that starting posting in OYS was a good idea. Thanks for the guidelines, Horns. Obviously I skipped the most important thing there about the need of having my own frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/21 06:42 AM
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I eat fairly clean, or so I think. 3 meals a day, almost no processed food. Sodas/energy drinks and other similar stuff are almost non-existent. That might be why my weight was constant for the last few years.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/21 06:39 AM
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I get it. My goal is not to reduce my weight nor starving myself. Focusing on trainings and clean food will do the job. ​ I cringed at this qualification. Raise your bar and start thinking about leaving behind old narratives about yourself. Why do you just have to be acceptable "for an IT guy?" Yeah, it was just me trying to justify my not-very-intense social life by the fact that I like to spend a lot of time in front of the computer. Is it an addiction? I doubt it, as I am not neglecting other…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/21 06:36 AM
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Dude, you need to eat. You weight 150lbs. And since you're skinnyfat? That means you have to eat and workout harder. If you cut to 137lbs which would be < 15%BF for you, you'll look even worse. Then you'll look like a tiny manlet. Gotcha. Suppers are back in the menu then. Cycling will substitute the gym for the rest of May, before they open. ​ And if you want to fuck, initiate and fuck her. You'll probably get a hard no. That's ok. That's what you need to feel that you're a fucking lazy piece o…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 01:45 PM
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OYS #1 Age 37, Ht 169cm, Wt 70 kg, BF 20%, Wife 37, Married for 13 years, 2 kids 11 and 9 Reading NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her Currently re-reading MMSLP. Introduction Mildly social guy (well, I'd say above-average for an IT guy anyway…), married in early 20s with the First True Love, no other sex partners before (of after) that. Started by going full beta…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 08:51 AM
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