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90% of men's OLD profiles back when I tried bumble: •Looking for something casual •Want kids someday ??? And yeah, the majority of them were personally offended when I told them I had no children, didn't plan on having any, and wasn't going to change my mind for anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:51 AM
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I know a guy who finally married his girlfriend of 10+ years and they made a huge deal about it. Rented an expensive venue and hyped it up like it was the event of the century lol. Within a year he had left her for his "side chick", publicly posting the two of them together on social media and everything. Then he got back together with his wife when he was done with the other woman I guess. As far as I know they're still together. This dude is in his 40s. Trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:10 AM
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Well said. I can't tell you how many times I let guys "get it over with" in the past, just so they'd let me sleep/leave me alone. Literally telling them no multiple times and pushing them off of me while they kept pawing at me. Trying to change my mind isn't consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:54 AM
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ItS a TwO wAy sTrEet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:44 PM
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Posted something like this on TikTok once and got called shallow by hundreds of angry pick-mes. Okay, you go date these mashed potato looking ass men then. Lord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:14 PM
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Good for you. He sounds lazy and low value. I don't meet men in the middle and I don't plan the date. If that makes me a spoiled princess, dudes like that are the freaking court jesters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:27 PM
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Got an opening line once that read, "Okay you're pretty, but tell me 3 things about you that actually make you interesting." Um, how about no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:33 PM
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Cue my ex slamming a door so many times (on separate occasions) that it no longer latched, smashing a plastic tote on the ground repeatedly until it broke into shards, and throwing a dirty litter box across the apartment 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:47 PM
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I'll give those a follow as well, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:56 PM
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YES. For the longest time I thought something was "wrong" with me because I would be really into a guy, then over time become absolutely repulsed by him. Finally realized it was because I'm not sexually attracted to childish-ass men with no ambition, hobbies, or skills. Who woulda thought?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:08 AM
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The worst one for me is always when they suggest I drive to their town (1+ hour away usually) and meet for drinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:26 PM
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A lot of LVM say they are "busy" because they're pursuing another woman but want to keep you on the back burner in case it doesn't work out with her, so they'll bread crumb and maintain juuuuust enough contact with you to make you stick around 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:07 PM
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I've been on a lot of first dates where men scoff when I tell them I'm an artist (with a degree and decade of experience). Or back in my OLD days, I would link them to my artwork and they'd say, "Oh your work is actually really good" as if it's surprising to them that I'm genuinely talented and professional. All of these men got ditched immediately lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:55 AM
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I used to do the exact same thing! I would clear my whole schedule and then try to act like I wasn't upset when they blew me off, because I was so cHiLl and laid back~°. But deep down I was seething. Now if I don't hear from them, I move on. I've got better shit to do than wait around on some turd who clearly thinks my time isn't valuable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:36 PM
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It was definitely tough because he seemed to have a lot of qualities I was looking for, but I'm feeling pretty great right now for standing up for myself and not tolerating subpar behavior! I just had to remind myself that there are LITERALLY billions of other men out there, so there's no point in waiting around for him to get his act together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:33 AM
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I'm in the Midwest and it's ROUGH. The majority of men are arrogant, uneducated, pot bellied scrotes in cargo shorts, and have the personality of a beige wall...no hobbies aside from fishing, drinking beer, and watching the office.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:50 PM
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The pubic hair beards are sooooo disgusting. Men think that having a beard automatically = attractive and ruggedly handsome. No, Derek. Your unkempt, raggedy-ass beard smells like sour milk and has crumbs in it from the spicy wings you ate 2 days ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:46 PM
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Omg #3. The amount of times men have negged me about my education and/or career on a first date is insane. Surprise, most of them barely made it through high school, or have had everything handed to them by mommy and daddy. LVM always claim they want an intelligent woman, but are immediately intimidated and passive aggressive anytime they encounter one 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:24 PM
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This ^ if he can't read my body language or social cues (or just chooses to ignore those things) I end things immediately. I remember a time where I literally had to duck in order to dodge an unwanted kiss from a guy 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:50 AM
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Oh hell no. Good for you for canceling. He's definitely the type of guy who prides himself on his "sarcasm" and can't figure out why women have "no sense of humor".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:50 PM
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I kept running into this and decided to quit OLD altogether. Dudes will be respectful for 1 or 2 dates and then pull a bait and switch and try to "come over and cuddle". Acting like they're being slick. Nah, I see right through that crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:05 PM
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Ugggh biggest pet peeve. Just the other day I was messaging with a guy who admitted he was trying to "get a rise" out of me. I told him I don't find that behavior cute or amusing, and in return he said I was boring. Deleted him, and spent the day with people who speak to me with kindess ✌️ Oh, and it's always the ass hats who claim to be chill~ and •°good vibes only°~ who act like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:50 AM
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