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A 44 year old man living in a one bedroom apartment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 08:33 PM
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My ex was severely abused as a child. I believe he became a Narcissist to survive. I can have empathy for him AND be willing to go no contact to protect myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 02:13 AM
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Eww. No. He is gross. (Also, read the rules sis. The rules always got your back.)
/r/askFDS20/04/22 02:48 PM
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Honestly I think moving in with your family is a good option. You're really going to need support. He alienated you from your family and friends for a reason! It's a control tactic. Even if he moves out but still in the same town, you're not going to be free of him. Don't see moving in with family as the "humiliating" option. Think of it as the best option to keep you and your children safe. Hugs. I've been in your position so many times. It took me 18 years to get away from my predator. The div…
/r/askFDS04/06/21 06:02 PM
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I absolutely agree with this. He is using his self perceived power to behave poorly. He is probably accustomed to this working most of the time! It's gross and disgusting.
/r/askFDS04/06/21 05:53 PM
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Can we have a conversation about "Scotes in the workplace"? I'm interviewing candidates as a hiring manager. Some fun things I've seen recently: 1. Asked when he would get to speak to the hiring manager because he already spoke to someone else in HR. Bitch, I AM the hiring manager. I gave an especially hard technical interview which he passed but decided not to hire him because of poor manners. 2. I was questioning his experience. He tried to equate his single entry level certification to my pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:08 PM
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I love this. I have a niece who thinks I'm the world. When someone is treating me in a questionable manner I think about the advice I'd give her that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:21 PM
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Once a man left his Rolex at my house. I asked him to come pick it up immediately. I don't want to be responsible for someone else's expensive stuff. Last boyfriend tried leaving shirts, etc at my house. Even though they weren't expensive items, I felt like he was trying to push our relationship faster than I was comfortable with. I returned his things the next time I saw him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:44 PM
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Thank you for the great recommendations!
/r/askFDS07/05/21 08:59 PM
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I get that. I have a best friend and we text everyday but she lives so far away. I'm also relatively new to the area that I live in.
/r/askFDS06/05/21 07:58 PM
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It's good when people self-select themselves out of your life!
/r/askFDS06/05/21 04:23 PM
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I have also been using this habit tracker. It's great for trying to build habits you want to cultivate. tracker
/r/askFDS06/05/21 03:02 AM
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I bought a kindle this week. I'm excited for it!
/r/askFDS06/05/21 02:51 AM
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Happy Cake Day! I can see where the imbalance could become a problem. It's just wishful thinking to hope we could remain friends. I have my answer. It's not always exciting to take myself out to dinner but last week I took a good book and enjoyed myself.
/r/askFDS06/05/21 12:27 AM
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I am open to evaluating everything in my life at the moment hence what led to to FDS. I am not looking for validation on this sub. I greatly appreciate all the feedback and will meditate on whether this friendship enhances or detracts from my life.
/r/askFDS06/05/21 12:14 AM
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I understand he is not a HVM for me. I don't have romantic feelings for him. We both have stressful careers, it's nice to have someone to go to dinner and have interesting conversations with. I have no intention of dating right now so his friendship isn't preventing me from focusing on myself or other potential suitors. I don't have many local female friends. I'm trying to increase that as things start to slowly open up.
/r/askFDS06/05/21 12:04 AM
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The first night, I arrived early and ordered an appetizer and drink from the bar. I paid for that. For dinner I ordered a salad and a glass of wine. He paid. I tried to get the waitress to take my card as I prefer to go Dutch the first few dates, but he insisted and I didn't want to cause a scene. Second night, I ordered Chinese delivery and paid. We are both in our 30s with professional careers. Tonight we didn't eat and just watched a movie.
/r/seduction14/11/19 06:23 AM
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I have a Google voice number from when I tried online dating. I don't give out my real number unless I've met someone in person and checked the sex offender registry... I totally checked the registry with this guy before we went to dinner.
/r/seduction14/11/19 05:35 AM
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So I (F) was approached in public this past weekend. But he wasn't creepy or scary. He also didn't immediately ask for my number or start in with the compliments. We met at the dog park. We arrived at the same time and had to walk to same path and were chatting about our dogs. No compliments or weirdness. After 10 minutes his dog wouldn't leave me alone and he said "you've got good taste buddy". It made me smile and was not too overt. After 20 minutes of chatting, he asked if I wanted to get cof…
/r/seduction14/11/19 04:34 AM
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