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panda_bro/r/seduction01/05/17 04:41 PM
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panda_bro/r/seduction05/05/17 02:40 PM
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You're probably going to suck, but that's okay. Don't be results oriented. This may come off a bit mean, but I highly doubt you'll have success. With that being said, remember the first time you tried riding a bike? You fell right? Well, same goes for approaching women. You'll have a foundation to analyze what you did wrong, and at the very least you can focus on things to improve. You got this brother.
/r/seduction06/08/17 03:19 PM
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Nervously walking up to a women in public, and actually physically talking to her, is a hundred times more effective than a comfortable text message. Texting will get you nowhere in seduction. Even if you already have a rapport with a women. You need physical touch and a dash of quick wit to seduce a women and build attraction.
/r/seduction04/08/17 01:07 PM
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The best way is to meet the girl in person, ask her for her account, and make some reference to an inside joke you guys developed in person. Randomly finding women on Instagram, DMing them with no foundation between you two, and simply saying "hello" is very creepy. Just about every decent looking girl I've been with has loads of guys DMing them "hey what's up?" over and over and over. Don't be that guy.
/r/seduction04/08/17 12:37 PM
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Cringe worthy
/r/seduction02/08/17 04:51 PM
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Just about every interaction I've seen where a man tries to control a women from not going out, dressing nice, hanging with friends, looking good, etc., ends up disastrous. But this is most concerning... I'm trying to keep myself busy but always when I think of her having fun and about her not giving me a lot of her attention I become depressed. From what I've learned is that women are cyclical in this regard. You do not control her and she does not owe you jack shit. Her being away from you and…
/r/seduction31/07/17 12:52 PM
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I started working on this and am getting much better results. My usual timeline or thought process: Lightly tap her shoulder/arm with the back of my hand to get her attention Hold her shoulder when talking I usually bring up a story of my "insecurity" of my petite hands (they're small but idgaf). Compare hand sizes. Hold her hand a little longer. Always gets a laugh. Shows I'm comfortable in my own skin. Use her shoulder for guidance when leaving a seat Guide her from her lower back When I estab…
/r/seduction31/07/17 12:28 PM
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99% of people who observe you will wish they had done the same. You're scared of envy.
/r/seduction25/07/17 07:24 PM
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The other night I opened with a girl at a bar. I eventually got to asking her what her horoscope sign was and if we'd work out based on that. I read through our two types compatibility where I eventually got to sex life. It said I need intellectual simulation while she could stay at home, in bed all day, ordering food and doing nothing. So I went with it and said we can order pizza and watch Jeopardy at my house and see where it goes. She loved it. I think some guys hear express sexuality and co…
/r/seduction24/07/17 05:37 PM
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Set your intentions earlier. The earlier she knows what you want, the more likely she is to frame you as a sexual partner. I know you say you like to "get to know" a girl first, but that's what dating is for. You see someone to decide if you like them. If you don't, you move on. You'd be surprised who you'll click with. And nothing is wrong with you. You just need to be more trigger happy. Seriously. If you meet a girl who is showing any interest at all, let her know about a place you like going…
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:56 PM
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No fap is seriously the dumbest shit. Just fucking rub one out and you'll be back to normal.
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:50 PM
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I used to be like that. Like sex is some private taboo nobody displays in public. I remember I had an eye opening moment when I just smacked some chicks ass after some verbal flirting. She did the whole, mouth open, smack me over the shoulder, embarrassed look but then smiled. The rest was pretty easy. Once you test those boundaries, but chicks want to be sexualized more than you think. In this day in age it's WHY girls dress up nice and look good for you.
/r/seduction17/06/17 08:43 PM
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Good for you OP. I tend to ignore the technique ridden threads on this sub because they feel so fake to me. The revelation you're making is much more valuable than canned openers. In fact, it's the essence of learning seduction.
/r/seduction17/06/17 01:12 PM
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You have social anxiety.
/r/seduction14/06/17 07:11 PM
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Try being 5'8 and get back to me.
/r/seduction13/06/17 01:36 PM
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I think there's a fine line between being a gentleman with pickup and coming off creepy and overbearing. You definitely crossed that line. I see why you feel regretful, but it's a lot of useful information to learn on. Take it slower next time. Your first attempt at escalation was a pretend kiss after she told you she had a boyfriend. Think about that...
/r/seduction12/06/17 10:41 PM
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In our dating lives, men are criminal offenders when it comes to results orientated mindsets, and in pursuing their peak operating level. That one time they were really ‘on it.’ Most pursue this with alcohol. I believe this is the wrong way to look at it. May I ask you expand on this a bit? I tend to be on my A game when liquored up, but never saw it as a bad thing. Are you trying to say men use liquor as a way to "seek" their A game? Love your blogs though. Your breakup article was by far the m…
/r/seduction07/06/17 03:27 PM
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These posts break my heart because I've been through this myself and realized I was looking at things backwards. What I tend to see is people search for seduction as an endpoint to being happy. "If I can get a girl and have sex with her, I'd feel more fulfilled". Which is wrong... This used to bring me down too. External validation is a bitch, and it hurts like hell. I started adding little pieces into my life, SLOWLY. Boxing after work. I bought a MIDI controller to make music. Started reading …
/r/seduction06/06/17 03:34 PM
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I really think sometimes people give cookie cutter explanations on this sub and forget that people are still people and have dynamic flaws. Honestly, I bet she has commitment problems. May have gotten hurt in the past? I know a girl just like this who shuts down every man she gets close to because her first love broke her completely. A month sounds like the perfect time frame to catch the feelings bug. I bet she doesn't want that or is legit scared to go down that path again. Tough to say. That'…
/r/seduction31/05/17 01:01 PM
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Seduction is just a byproduct of being happy. There is no end goal. It's just a journey to living a more fulfilling life.
/r/seduction26/05/17 02:39 PM
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She is going away over the next week and will be back then. She is super keen to go to an ice-cream store with me which is pretty trendy. Boom! Man the fuck up and kiss the girl. Do some light kino throughout the date. Lead her into the door. Get close to her and touch her shoulder and ask her what looks good on the menu. Tease her a bit. At the end, I don't care WHAT self doubt you have, take action and fucking kiss the girl. I guarantee what you seek will snowball rather quickly once you get t…
/r/seduction24/05/17 10:33 PM
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You don't want to be her texting buddy. If you have a date lined up you already did all the leg work. Ask yourself, what exactly are you going to accomplish by texting her? With that being said, 6 days is a while in between. I'd drop some sort of reference to an inside joke you guys have to just rekindle that rapport with her sometime this week. Then follow up with some sort of flirtatious response saying your looking forward to the date. Be original. Don't ask her how her day/week is. Don't try…
/r/seduction24/05/17 05:05 PM
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I was 5'8 143-145 lbs for just about my whole life. I added 500-600 calories onto my diet daily and am sitting at 160 lbs with very low body fat. What I found, is that women don't have an internal checklist, saying he works out I'll fuck him. What helped me was inner confidence. I know if I take my shirt off I'm comfortable. I know if I wear a slim fit shirt I look good. I think even the mere question of you asking says that it gives you enough reason, and beginner gains are pretty easy to come …
/r/seduction23/05/17 02:47 PM
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I was out with my friends and it reminded me of my first date with the girl... Good one buddy.
/r/seduction23/05/17 12:29 PM
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Block her number? Did you guys break up? If not, that's excessive. I'd say refrain from constantly giving her updates about your life and don't be too involved in hers. I'm in a similar situation, where a girl I was with moved away for a couple months. What I'm doing is just making small references to some built up inside jokes we have, and texting her that once in a blue moon. For instance the other day I was out shooting pool with some buddies, which was our first date. Took a picture of the t…
/r/seduction22/05/17 01:12 PM
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There's a 0% chance I'd be with someone who wants to wait till marriage to have sex. Biggest red flag I can honestly think of.
/r/seduction15/05/17 02:47 PM
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The good news is I think you have a solid foundation to get girls. Just start small and make it feel more natural over time. Try and be a little more direct on your dates. It's pretty easy to be the nice guy and ask her interview like questions, but girls like a man who can confidently show his sexual side and state his intentions, verbally and physically.
/r/seduction12/05/17 10:36 PM
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It sounds like you got a decent amount going for you. I wouldn't evaluate your life and question hobbies, motives, etc. You can definitely get a girl with your lifestyle, so count that out. This popped out at me though... I don't have a problem talking to girls, but it's more making a move e.g. asking them on a date or expressing romantic interest. I'm assuming you give off the nice guy vibe. Probably start conversation well with women yet stay at that point and never escalate. I think what a lo…
/r/seduction12/05/17 07:01 PM
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Nonetheless, I stuck around, got a couple of ignores but now she is responding to my texts at least Sounds like she's just being courteous because you have mutual friends but it's tough to tell seeing as we don't know the interactions. Then you go to this... Basically, reading the text (or maybe not even reading it) and just responding to it the next day. That way she might get a bit more emotionally invested in me, but at the same time, It might be too early because I just basically got her to …
/r/seduction08/05/17 05:04 PM
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You describe her as crazy, think about that. Move on dude.
/r/seduction08/05/17 03:40 PM
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Happy endings are dope dude I always get one when I'm in Vegas.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:22 PM
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I had the same thoughts. College ending really hurt me and put me in a short term depression. What I found was a lot of people in your hometown and surrounding towns are in the same boat. Friends you weren't close with in high school kinda band together and become closer. I didn't think I'd get that "experience" again as you speak of, but in reality I ended up growing a much larger, tighter group of friends than I had thought was possible. Just stick with your closest buddies and see things star…
/r/seduction01/05/17 11:34 PM
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Don't think. Just do. You'll say goofy stuff, be in awkward positions, act nervous, but just doing or saying something puts you in a better position than thinking and stagnating. Just a simple, "I don't believe we have met, my name is wee3w" will do. Maybe a handshake. Eye contact. Don't look down. Smile. She'll respond positively that you are the less than 5% of men with the balls to do that. Once you get that going your mind will be reactionary and thinking on its feet. It's just breaking down…
/r/seduction29/04/17 10:29 PM
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Far and beyond my most useful tactic after building connection is simply mentioning something back at my place mid conversation and referencing it later. This could be my dogs I showed her pictures of, my record collection, my guitar, my photography rig I keep up. Something interesting that maybe she took fascination in, to just get her back. I'll casually hint my dog is waiting to cuddle and watch Netflix and see if she bites.
/r/seduction26/04/17 07:26 PM
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tl;dr - Get dumped? Be grateful for what you have. Also, watch Rick & Morty because it will cheer you up. No offense, but this is not good advice. You're taking a complex emotion people go through and simplifying it down to something that offers no perspective for what they're going through.
/r/seduction21/04/17 05:47 PM
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It's pretty much impossible to predict what happened from your story. The only reasonable explanation I can have is that she brought you to a bar to make the bartender jealous (past fling?). Was it her recommendation?
/r/seduction19/04/17 10:46 PM
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That's all bullshit. I have a decent circle of friends with some of my best friends being girls. Those are the chicks that will fight tooth and nail for you to hook up with a girl. They'll wing you, talk you up, and try and set you up with their single friends. Do I want to bang some of them? Sure. But there's a mental boundary you set that distinguishes them from approachable to completely friend zoned. Make that distinction right now and you're fine.
/r/seduction19/04/17 12:20 PM
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This happens quite frequently. You're leaving the lust stage which lasts 2-3 months usually. If you want her to gain interest back, seriously back off. The harder you hold on to her, the more you'll lose her. But with that being said it's hard to be with someone you don't see. There's no momentum in that. Best of luck.
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:05 PM
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You had a fucking kid. Man up and fucking raise it. That should be your #1 priority right now.
/r/seduction17/04/17 11:20 AM
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Yup. Personally, I would ignore her, delete her number, and move on. The whole "hearing" out, closure bullshit, whatever you want to call it doesn't exist. I doubt there's very much she will say that will make you feel better. Becoming friends with an ex, or whatever she was, is absolutely toxic from my experience. Closure comes internally, not through external validation. If you have zero intent of getting back with her, hear her out. If you have any thought like that in your head, it's just go…
/r/seduction15/04/17 11:49 PM
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Lol all good my man. Best of luck with your date.
/r/seduction15/04/17 11:42 PM
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Fuck her. You don't want to be friends. That's a slimy move on her part. She should have made her intentions be known and not led you on like that. Don't waste your breath on her man. There's nothing salvageable in that.
/r/seduction15/04/17 09:07 PM
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I did not insult you in any way. I don't even see how you could perceive that. I'm asking a serious question because I don't fully understand your motives. What do you gain from not going on the date opposed to just going? I'm asking myself that and it seems like a no brainer to going. You have everything to gain (an experience) and nothing to lose (possible rejection where you never speak again). My advice was, while not insulting in any way, was that you should just go. She may surprise you or…
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:58 PM
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Same. Boxing is awesome. Lots of pairing up with people and some girls that are fit as hell. Plus once you start getting in shape you can show the new people the ropes.
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:30 PM
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What do you have to lose going on the date? Pride? If so, go on the date and learn from it. That's how you grow as a person. Failure.
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:28 PM
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If you have someone other than yourself determine your happiness you're not going to do much good for yourself. I know the feeling, but you MUST channel those feelings into something. Any sort of project, hobby, activity, etc. When I got dumped by my ex-girlfriend, I produced an entire album of electronic music in the span of 2-3 months. Not only did that give me confidence as a musician and person, it gave me a reason to wake up and be excited about life, it gave me a purpose. I also learned a …
/r/seduction03/06/16 10:12 PM
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Yes and no depending on the context. Use your intuition. Eye contact is a must. Lock eyes and smile. Once you do that, stand tall, focus on your posture, and simply say "Hey, I'm 'your name'. Any ideas on fun things to do around here?" Smile again. The thing here is that this should all happen spontaneous. The second you think about what you're going to say, or imagine what it's going to look like, the less your chances are of actually saying something. You WILL fail sometimes. But think, even i…
/r/seduction16/07/15 06:34 PM
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Yes, we have ALL been there man. Self-doubt and anxiety are the two biggest hindering qualities in a person, for things besides picking up chicks. To battle that, I think to myself, even if I were to make a COMPLETE ass of myself, the ONLY thing that matters is my own thoughts. My own conscious dictates who I am, what I do, how I feel. That shit makes you human, and no human is perfect. Imperfections are what make us individuals, and you will find someone out there will adore your imperfections.…
/r/seduction13/07/15 11:48 PM
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