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It has so little effect that it is not something that is even thought about in the context of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:15 AM
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Except a lot of men use prostitutes in the UK. Go google escorts and see the 10's of thousands that the UK has who all make a living from it (so they must have enough customers to survive). Most escorts reside in London. The clients are from all over the world. Additionally, don’t confuse escorts with street prostitutes. Escorts don’t need many clients to “survive” nor are they in it out of desperation. They make £250 per hour minimum (high end charge more) and mainly have regular clients. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:26 AM
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Uhhhh. You missed my point entirely. Accessibility to prostitution doesn’t change dynamics in dating because the average man is not seeing escorts. Why? Because they don’t want sex alone. They want to be desired. You cannot manufacture desire. (That and the average man doesn’t have the money to see escorts regularly. )
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:00 AM
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It’s true. Prostitution is legal in the UK, it doesn’t change a thing. Ultimately most people don’t want sex alone, they want validation and intimacy. Paying for an escort (for the average man) is an admission that you are not good enough to have women desire you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:47 AM
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It’s majority male in that mostly men are diagnosed but it’s debatable whether that means mostly men are affected by the disorder. (Autistic women tend to slip under the radar because they are “better” at hiding social difficulties)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:27 AM
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My weirdest character crush to date is on Kendall Roy. Unfortunately he triggers my “I must help this person” instinct. Other character “crushes”: Tony Stark, Harvey Specter, Marty Byrde. My taste seems to be sarcastic older men with dark hair lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 09:54 PM
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I know, you said that shirt is too much for a coffee shop, I’m saying that for me, it’s too casual for dinner ( meaning that too me it is a casual shirt, not something that would be worn anywhere fancy, so I’m disagreeing that it is too much for a coffee shop) Also Most of my 1st dates are very casual and quite a few are wearing yoga pants themselves. Wtf? Yoga pants?!?! For a date?!?!?!? That’s just so lazy to me. Do you only go out with athletes or something? What happened to etiquette?!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:38 PM
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Maybe I’m biased because I’m gen z but this outfit feels very 2012 to me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:28 PM
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Nah, that shirt is too casual for dinner to me lol. I think it’s a good casual date outfit. Sweatpants and a T-shirt are gym clothes not date clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:24 PM
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A prepping website is maybe not the best site for legal advice. Had a quick skim, and it reiterates my point, carrying any weapon with the intent to use it as such is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:02 AM
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Again not everyone lives in the US. In the UK pepper spray is illegal. And you cannot carry anything with the intent of self defence because under our laws, the would be considered premeditation (so if you used the weapon for “defence” you could be charged with assault, battery etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:51 AM
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TIL everyone lives in America
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:43 AM
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In the US only the mother can register the birth cert and as I stated - she can list anyone on it including a man who is not the father. In fact paternity fraud is quite prevalent here in the states. I can’t comment on this because clearly each country has their own laws regarding this matter Whatever tax benefits you gain for being married is spent providing for your wife and kids. There are no savings just more expenses. I know for myself I wouldn't even be considering early retirement if I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:50 PM
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A woman can opt to list any guy on the birth certificate as the father - including a guy who isn't the father. Plenty of examples of that happening. I’m not from the US so things are different here. If you are married, either the father or mother can register the birth certificate but both have to be registered on the certificate. There are plenty of loopholes in the tax code and sacrificing ones freedom to be a wage slave to a woman isn't exactly a benefit. Got no interest in entering into an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:11 PM
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For the man too. Without being married, a woman can opt not to list you as the father your child’s birth certificate. Which creates a lot of barriers for you to be able to raise your own child. Additionally, there are tax benefits etc from marriage. If you have a long distance relationship, marriage enables you to be together (spousal visas). But the most important part of marriage is that it symbolises a lifelong commitment. Relationships are built upon faith, it’s not like the stock market whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:33 PM
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If you want kids, then absolutely not. Marriage provides security and stability for starting a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:09 PM
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Why do you think that? Do you mean for men only or both men and women? I believe that long term relationships can be great. However being single is better than being in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:51 AM
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I agree with your last statement. However everyone (men and women) has motivations that drive them, some are altruistic and others selfish. If you genuinely don’t want a serious relationship then fair enough. As long as you are honest about it it’s not a problem. But don’t discount relationships altogether because you’ve been unfortunate to have bad experiences with some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:38 AM
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That’s not true and you know that. Did you have a cari mother? Grand mother? Aunt? Teacher? You’ve never had a female doctor? Just like men there are good and bad women. Virtue is not a gendered trait. And what specifically disgusting things have women “confirmed”?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:26 AM
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There are good and bad people regardless of gender. It’s foolish to think a whole group of people are bad. It’s black and white thinking. I’m sure you’ve been hurt by women enough times to feel this way but do not let those who have hurt you control your life. How can you live a happy and fulfilling life if you think opposite sex is evil? You live and work alongside women right? So do you spend your life feeling bitter towards them? Did you not have a caring mother? Your teachers in school were …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:24 AM
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You are effectively asking for child slavery… Also you do realise that there is an extremely high level abuse in the care system. Children becoming wards of the state should always be the very very very last resort because it is so bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:28 AM
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Why on earth would you advocate for children to die early or be homeless? Why would you want to live in a society that doesn’t protect children?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:25 AM
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No… just like men there are good and bad women. We aren’t a monolith…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:19 AM
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I mean, come on… why are so many people here doom and gloomers…?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:17 AM
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Guess what, strangers regardless of gender don’t tend to be eye catching. Most people are minding their own business when they are out and about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:25 PM
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it’s best to assume the worst if you aren’t interested in relationships. If you are interested in relationships/serious dating then that’s a dumb move. It’s supposed to be a leap of faith, a relationship is built on trust not paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:21 PM
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Yes lmao. Literally if you are in certain parts of Seoul on Saturday/Friday night…so many WF/AM couples. So many white girls come to Korea to find a Korean boyfriend because of Kpop and Kdrama
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:54 AM
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Don’t be so literal. People warm up to being more and more vulnerable gradually. If you feel comfortable after the 5th date then it’s a green light for PIV. If you are left feeling uncomfortable then there are no regrets for not having escalated further.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:52 PM
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PIV is the most risky part of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:01 AM
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That’s just factually incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:55 PM
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Unfortunately until people are educated on autism that won’t happen. Also autistic women get socially rejected too but are more adept at “learning” social rules and mimicking them (otherwise known as masking )
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:56 PM
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Yup. These people are trying to turn an art into a science because the intangible is unfathomable to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:48 PM
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They all seem to have a touch of aspergers to them You hit the nail on the head. I genuinely think the majority of posters here are on the spectrum (and I say this as autistic woman myself). I think this is a classic case of autistic men who got (socially) rejected in their childhood, who failed to keep up with their peers when interest in the opposite sex begins in school, leading to feelings of inadequacy and frustration. Instead of channeling these negative emotions into something positive th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:23 PM
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V necks give gym douche vibes. Do not recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:26 AM
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I think it’s safe to say a lot of people in this sub have mommy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:55 AM
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There is literally no scientific connection between looks and autism. You can be ugly and autistic, you can be hot and autistic. Got nothing to do with appearance it’s not something like Down syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:29 PM
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But is she representative of every autistic person?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:20 PM
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Errrrr not really. Most women with autism are inconspicuous, so it really has no bearing on their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:07 PM
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Why of course? Since when does autistic = ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:29 AM
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It doesn’t involve anything about men’s bodily autonomy. You said men won’t be able to have a say. Implying that men will not get to decide whether they reproduce or not, but the government does. This is infringing on men’s bodily autonomy. You are assuming that ALL of them will agree to this. How does this work in countries without income tax? How does this work in countries where 10 bucks in their currency would be a huge hit to the governments budget They can think their own? There are countl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 11:55 AM
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Unlike a car, emotional intimacy and sexuality are substantial needs, i am just making gross assumptions here of course i don't how many that's going to sell. Sex is a desire. It is not a need as you will not die without it. Now I get that it is a strong desire but fundamentally it is not a need. First of all, men won't be able to have a say in this. Why? You can’t force people to do things that involve bodily automony without infringing on their human rights. The only way this is possible is by…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 11:27 AM
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Potential customer base, of course not all men will be robot owners. You are casting to wide a net. Incarcerated men will not be able to purchase a sex robot let alone any robot. Men in the military wouldn’t be able to etc. The median annual per capita household Income is $2920 (https://news.gallup.com/poll/166358/new-measures-global-income-gallup-world-poll.aspx) now let’s assume sex bots will be developed by an American company, so let’s use the price of an average car in America to give an id…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:53 AM
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Why 80%? Also you gotta account for patents, compliance and other logistical matters. The demand will not be that high maybe bar India and other countries with heavily imbalanced gender ratios in their population. Additionally, with the issue of ageing populations, do you really think the government would allow another “distraction” from reproduction to exist? There will be a lot of barriers to make them legal and of course there is the issue of ethics, to get past all these things it will cost …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:26 AM
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Automotive and Smartphones are not comparable to sexbots. A sexbot is a niche. The only possible comparison would be to the current sex toy industry but even then it’s not comparable because the amount of money put in the R&D for a sexbot would be immense and that of course would be reflected in the price on top of the demand that this sub claims they would have. It would most likely be a duopoly like the airline industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:13 AM
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Why would it get cheaper? I’d the demand is there it will only get more and more expensive. Sexbots aren’t gonna be democratised, it will be luxury for those that can afford it only.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:03 AM
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Thick girls don’t really go for skinny guys. Every girl I’ve known that has been into skinny guys has been fairly thin or into a fashion subculture (goth, indie etc). Skinny guys tend to look more “feminine”/ androgynous hence why they appeal to alt girls the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 04:50 PM
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It depends on what kinda women you are into. A lot of alt girls like skinny guys, IG model type girls, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 04:46 PM
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Imagine thinking partisanship is all there is to politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:44 PM
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Imo no...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:25 PM
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Lmao abortion and child support? Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 10:49 AM
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Obviously since you are a woman you have great insights into the dynamics of female-female friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:51 PM
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And? Because something is difficult that means you shouldn't try at all...? Some people find things easier than others. Are you gonna complain that some guys are more naturally charismatic than other guys? That's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:50 PM
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So how does a 13 year stop getting harrased when's she's wearing school uniform? How does a hijabi in Egypt stop getting harassed when every part of her except her face is covered? Clearly it's the clothes.... (/s)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:48 PM
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You CANT control how others do things but you can absolutely take issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:43 PM
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While true, it's also false. Depends on who you're talking to about what in what scope. I think you mean to say you can criticise ones use of language. You cant control how others do things but you can absolutely take issue. It came into the convo via all the "convenient externalities" like lately "self-married", "strong independent" and other idiocies. No way related to this conversation as those points were never presented by you or me initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:41 PM
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To add to my other comment, i think there is a disconnect here. Beautiful and handsome don't necessarily imply attraction. They simply indicate that someone is aesthetically pleasing. Much like a flower can be called beautiful but clearly you are not attracted to plants. Oftentimes when men are called beautiful the implication is that their looks are statuesque. It's not a sexual remark.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:37 PM
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Nope, I disagree. People coping by their own means does not infringe on their means. What are you talking about? There seems to be a disconnect. What I understood from your previous comment is that people cannot use words creatively because that is making shit up in order to cope with reality. My response is using words creatively is not making shit up. But finding ways to better express thoughts. And that poetry would not exist if we could use words in new manners than traditionally used. You a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:33 PM
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inclined to make shit up so it makes them cope with reality easier, yup. You can believe that. But if that were true we would not have poetry and many other art forms. And how is calling someone beautiful a way to cope with reality easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:20 PM
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Some people will always stick to traditional definitions while others will be more creative with language. Either way, no one can dictate how others decide to utilise words to better express their thoughts. (Unless of course you are a professor marking a dissertation)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:11 PM
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Language is not as rigid as you think it is...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:01 PM
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Language evolves. Handsome used to be used for women a lot...but now it isn't. Beautiful has a different undertone than handsome. Plenty of woman I know (myself included) use beautiful/pretty to describe a specific type of a man. For example Timothy Chalamet is a pretty guy. He's not handsome, he is pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:00 PM
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Ah yes, the great country Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 11:58 AM
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I didn't place the blame on anyone. I am simply stating why having access to many potential mates is not the treasure trove it seems to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:13 AM
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A conversation about casual sex is never going to include quality men. Access to casual sex for a woman is more like being told you can pick a puppy our of 100 puppies but 99 of them will maul. Of course on the outside, someone who's never had a puppy but really wants one will be envious that someone gets to have so many, but they don't see the inate risk associated with having so many.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 12:07 PM
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But youre assuming that if a woman is a lossless virgin at 21 she's never been approached by guys. That's not necessarily true. It's possible that they just weren't interested in anyone yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:05 PM
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Sunscreen is necessary for everyone regardless of race. UV rays break down collagen and speed up the aging process. It's a common misconception that POC don't need to wear sunscreen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 02:05 PM
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Well you're assuming women only date men they don't know initially. If you know a guy beforehand you absolutely can develop feeling for them based on their personality, even if you wouldn't have gone for them if you didn't know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 01:32 PM
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Actually the worst case scenario is death via childbirth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:23 PM
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Having to take the good with the bad doesn’t really sound like a privilege to me...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:21 PM
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What if the food contains tape worms? Or could block your intestines for 9 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:10 PM
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There are two things you can do after a string of rejections. 1) Not do any different and wait for that 1 in 7 billion that will like you as you are in your current state. 2) Increase your odds via self development. The best way to develop is to improve both the exterior (Change your hair cut, learn how to pick out clothes that suit you etc) and interior (Therapy for unresolved personal issues such as low self esteem, read how to win friends and influence people etc). When people ask what the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:05 PM
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I can't argue with that. Dating is a numbers game, and if you really want a relationship unfortunately you cannot get disheartened by rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:27 PM
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Your projecting your views onto her. Clearly she is talking about developing herself to find good quality relationships, not a cheap lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:22 PM
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(Some) Women tend to be coy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:17 PM
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Caring for your appearance does not mean you are insecure. It means that you respect yourself. It doesn't mean you have to be caked in makeup to go outside and cannot bear the sight of your natural self.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:31 AM
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Why not put your best foot forward when trying to attract a mate? Are TV hosts insecure for wearing makeup? Are models insecure for having their pictures photoshopped? No! Appearance matters and caring about your appearance is beneficial otherwise the makeup industry and photoshop wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:28 AM
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Male models do, actors do etc filter doesn't have to be a dog face,it can just improve colour grading in a picture. Good Photoshop isn't noticeable (removing acne, large pores etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:20 PM
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You say that like men can't do the same lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:58 PM
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Wow the logic on this sub. Women are simultaneously picky and not picky. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 07:41 PM
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Because men don't support each other, they are more individualistic than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 09:17 AM
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All those things can be fixed. Frame can be fixed by going to the gym. Hairline, you can get prescription meds or a transplant or rock a bald head. Face, basic grooming (Brows, beard etc) + skincare, makeup is also an option (literally no one is stopping men from wearing makeup), laser resurfacing for acne scars, chemical peels, fillers for eyebags, Botox for wrinkles and if that isn't enough you can get plastic surgery. Heigh technically can be fixed too, but heigh surgery is an extreme option.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:21 PM
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No woman would sign up for that app
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 01:52 PM
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So we should all become mindless drones controlled by our hormonal urges? Great idea! The world would be a far better place if we all held each other to higher standards. It's better to grow together than to regress together.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:38 AM
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If you are in the UK, River Island often does Balmain knockoffs (the woman in the picture is wearing balmain, not Chanel). Shein also has some knockoffs but obviously you get what you pay for!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:16 AM
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Nooooo Balmain!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:15 AM
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Girl that aint Chanel, that's Balmain! Chanel isn't "sexy", the don't really do figure hugging silhouettes! Also the big gold buttons, are Balmain's thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:10 AM
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Balmain. Chanel isn't really formfitting and they don't tend to do houndstooth (with the exception of fw19)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:08 AM
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It may be happening currently but the scale would be far far worse in the scenario given above. The state should be incentivising people to have kids, not punishing them if they do and their partner leaves them etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:10 AM
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You do realise, this would deter people from having kids and thus the US would have an aging population and eventually cease to exist as a nation? This is the worst idea imaginable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:00 AM
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