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I think the issue here is you’re implying most men have faith in women. As the post already suggests, there’s some level of inconsistencies, insecurities, and mistrust men have towards women in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:28 PM
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Time and aging usually changes that mentality IMMEDIATELY for most people. No one wants to die alone in their deathbeds anon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:22 PM
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Chances are you wouldn’t even be surprised what these uptight prude people would be into behind closed doors. Us Americans can be disgustingly hypocritical, often lacking a full spine in expressing our true selves. Preferring to adopt a crabs in a bucket mentality when discussing sex with other open-minded folk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:10 AM
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How about this thread? The subreddit for starters? In an ideal world, we wouldn’t be having this kind of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:08 AM
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The moment I hear Pansexual on a woman it starts giving me dyed hair, poison dart frog, red flag vibes. I’m at least guilty to having that semi-erroneous opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:07 AM
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It’s practically a dating death sentence for men. It might sound cool and progressive for the first week, but slowly most people start either mocking or criticizing the lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:02 AM
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And let’s not forget that more than half of people in the world already have Oral Herpes. Some even asymptomatic HPV variants. At this rate, realistically speaking, if you engage in casual sexual relations, you more than likely already have or have had an STI.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:59 AM
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Well it’s just one of many shameful hidden truths. Us guys, we share the blame for fetishizing bisexual women, and women in general. Women now have a choice, to be the higher person and stop the cycle. Either shaming or embracing both genders for their bisexuality, or remain as the even bigger tyrant. Losing control of their emotions, and allowing their and mens’ frustrations to lead the way towards never-ending chaos. This of course, like everything else in life, easier said than done.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:54 AM
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My guess is it gives women this unavoidable feminine vibe, which may bother them depending on their upbringing. I read another post the other day, where certain women consider men who use turn signals when driving feminine, and therefore undateable. Maybe what intrigues most women in men is their “wild and uncontrollably masculine nature.” Who knows! To summarize, maybe women tend to overly fetishize masculinity as much as men do femininity. Perhaps us guys are in the other side now? Being absur…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:56 AM
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Good and respectful answer: It’s important we learn from the female perspective every once in a while. After all, most of us men dedicate our lives to attain the oh so coveted female attention. Not good and disrespectful answer: No matter where men go and discuss, there will always be a hefty chunk of female users itching to sheepishly follow, for the sole purpose to obtain easy male attention and validation. Oh but watch out! If a man so desires to make a slight comment on female-led spaces, he…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:19 AM
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The Purple Pill curse. Constant questioning and being overly meta to a fault. Life is short everyone! Once you die everything just turns black, stop questioning and waiting for approval and just ACT. Find the answers to these questions yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:37 AM
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Do you not know what subreddit you’re on!? We’re all on PURPLE PILL. It’s safe to say NONE of us have a right to be judging ones performance over another’s, since browsing this place already implies we’ve got some personal gripes with the current state of dating and relationships. Sex worker talk shouldn’t trigger people this bad. GODDAMN
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:16 PM
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Well… yeah? With the biological clock ticking, even life ITSELF is pressuring you to force-lower those standards. It’s cruel, but hey that’s the passage of time for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:38 PM
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Jesus you corny-ass clowns. I get it, OP fucked up. Hahaha “feM4le W0m3n XD.” CAN I PLEASE SEE GENUINE RESPONSES!? Ugh forget it, going back to 4chan for the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:54 AM
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Be stoic, tall, never cry, hit walls, have a cute face, suffer like a motherfucker. half the female population worldwide get wetter than the Niagara Falls Yes, this is satire. Sorry women. I couldn’t help myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:11 AM
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It’s important to learn from different perspectives, regardless of how bizarre or uncomfortable they may seem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:50 PM
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Yeah, I relate heavily to your response. Take the casual FWB route, without the blinding resentment keeping us from changing for the better. I would very much like to respect women and their choices, but commitment wouldn’t be something I’d aim towards if I were a higher value male.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:48 PM
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I think he means outright get his first pick of the litter and choose the ideal woman he desires at the moment. Rather than working with what he has and “learning to appreciate” the women he can “afford” to “attain” in the “dating market.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:41 PM
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I’m not saying to forget what women do, keep that very much in mind. Though, be also VERY aware that we are all human, us guys aren’t perfect either. We are all flawed in different ways. We’re humans, and thus should be more understanding of others and their conflicts. It’s not an easy task, but it’s at least a more meaningful one, rather than comically shift the blame and blame one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:38 PM
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Try using this frustration as fuel to invest your time in the arts, or other creative projects. I can understand this blind rage towards the opposite sex, what’s been working for me is painting and making collages. I get it, sounds cringe and like a massive cope, and to an extent it is. Though, it helps ease this unbearable turmoil inside our minds. Keeping us away from hyper-focusing on such negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:35 PM
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I think the harder, yet more fulfilling task might potentially be being kind/respectful even in your current state, while also being aware you have needs, and we’re all in a constant state of change. Be kind to yourself in your journey for improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:24 PM
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FOMO in my opinion? There is always something we feel strongly about, activities we feel we miss out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:21 PM
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Your statement in the beginning reminds me of how constant search for love and sex, can sometimes distract us from pursuing more proactive hobbies. I wish you luck in your culinary journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:18 PM
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I’d do my best to live my life normally, while both being aware of my previous life as a “below average male” and my current life as a “high value” male. In other words, to not let myself change too radically. To achieve a balance, and not rely too much on these “social statuses.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:11 PM
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Jokes aside, this is always on my mind. It genuinely scares me. To know that past a certain age, most women will begrudgingly lower their standards and start dating out of necessity. Rather than genuine romantic/lustful desire. In a way, I can see why some men start approaching younger women. It’s an opportunity to date someone who has the time, energy, and youthful optimism. The vibes are different? A woman in her 30s has her biological clock ticking, of course she can’t be as careless and dism…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:05 PM
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This is very interesting to hear. Since you consider your sister to be self-aware to an extent. Yet, she still fell for this dating pattern. Maybe misplaced confidence? Combined with a desire to be involved with people different from her? Maybe time and aging has a lot to do with it as well? Women are applied an immense amount of pressure to perform certain tasks at certain ages. Anyone can make hasty decisions when put under pressure. The complexity of a woman’s decision-making skills is such a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:51 PM
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I want mind-blowing, hot, steamy, passionate, long-lasting sex… AS A JOKE! That is, ha ha HA! I’ll wait a week, and update you on my results after.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:04 AM
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I think what fuels the constant hatred towards single mothers, is the fact that a lot of guys often assume women are fully responsible for their predicament. Women are usually seen as the “choosers” and men the “beggars.” A lot of resentful guys might see a single mother and think, “it’s all HER fault, she’s the one who chose the WRONG guy.” In other words, the lack of emotional maturity can lead people to be unreasonably hateful towards others?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:32 AM
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Don’t be cruel. You, everyone, and I know very well it takes more than just words to identify someone’s type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:15 PM
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I have a question to ask then. How should a man respond when the reverse occurs? A woman still being “friends” with her crush after being rejected. I’m in a weird spot where a femme-leaning trans man is crushing hard on me. I rejected him, having zero interest. He says he’s okay being friends, but I feel bad. It feels like I’m taking advantage of his interest in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:09 AM
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Anon… I’m sorry to say but… This may perhaps have rubbed you the wrong way as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:51 PM
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Yeah. I believe this, similar issue in fact. Got two uglier/fatter women, two MARRIED women, and one trans woman heavily interested in me. If I COMPLETELY drop my standards, focus solely on sex, and stop caring about people’s emotions, and the lives my decisions could impact, then yeah! I wouldn’t have a care in the world. These complex emotions are so tiresome. I don’t want ANYTHING for the time being.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:22 AM
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Admittedly, my only goal dating-wise at the moment is attaining a potential FWB scenario. In other words, I have absolutely nothing long-term in mind. I want to explore, and experiment more sexually. Yes, I do want casual sex. Though, clearly I am struggling, quite a lot. Otherwise, I wouldn't be on this sub commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:42 AM
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This is a route both sexes take. Cognitive dissonance, it’s always better to approach an ideal that is easiest to perform. Rather than putting in the time and effort to learn and understand a difficult and painful concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:57 AM
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Thank you anon, good to know women are just as comically flawed as men, AND can also get their good n hefty dose of sex on command no problem! I mean, this is good info. It’s just, you might as well tell a homeless right now he’ll most likely rot away in the streets. Or tell a wheelchair-bound person they’ll die never experiencing the feeling of standing up or walking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:05 AM
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“Y’all’s” Opinion immediately discarded, some of you need to learn how to express yourselves accordingly, before sharing ANY kind of opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:50 AM
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This feels weird. This subreddit feels weird. Like a less genuine version of r/PurplePillDebate A feeling similar to graduating high school as the popular kid, and coming back to your old stomping ground a year later. Realizing you practically peaked in high school, and nothing has gotten better since. r/exredpill feels like coming back to the blue-pill, having learned nothing, only reverting back to the status quo instead. I’m not saying red-pill reigns supreme, but it’s important to not treat …
/r/ExRedPill29/04/23 03:18 AM
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You’re right. I often forget this, we have control over our desires
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:55 AM
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I need to stay off this subreddit. Nothing against it, it’s just making things too grey for me. Reading this makes me wanna shut myself in a cabin far away and talk to absolutely no one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:53 AM
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Man All this info just makes me not wanna date or talk to anything I just wanna sit in a room alone till I feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 07:34 AM
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HOLY SHIT. You are ALL telling me right now... Not only do I have to try and get a woman's attention, go out of MY WAY get HER to talk, and do whatever I have in MY power to AMUSE her 24/7, or else twenty other men have already gotten her attention... But I ALSO have to feed HER the illusion that I'm a 100% stoic tough man with NO VULNERABILITIES and hangups!? Do these people want us to fucking CURE CANCER and AIDS in under ONE DAY TOO!? Should we absorb GOD'S power and learn to perform Alchemy …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:23 AM
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EXACTLY! I'm in this very situation. I'm not even into her, but I'm so starved right now I'm struggling to keep my cool. The point here is OP's gonna struggle whether he wants to or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:50 AM
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None. You come off as a total dork if you're a woman, and an outright cuckold if you're a man. In this day and age, it's best not to obsess over these things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:45 AM
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It's always nice to have hope anon. But Jesus man... I want off this wild ride
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:54 PM
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not him but maybe just the FOMO type mindset? "Oh no everyone but me is having lots of sex, I NEED SEX before I rot away and die. NOW!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:29 AM
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He's half right. A good chunk of us are degenerate and spineless. We need to expose ourselves more to the outside world and learn from a multitude of life experiences. We're aren't the only ones at fault though, women themselves are a whole can of worms we aren't even remotely ready to open.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:17 PM
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Color me surprised OP. Now if you'll excuse me I'll go play my favorite videogame on VERY EASY MODE. Goodnight Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:34 AM
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You're missing the woods for the trees OP. Point is a good chunk of us aren't into it. It's a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:02 AM
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To summarize, both genders deserve the misery they're in. Our hubris does not allow us to genuinely learn, and share the beauty of life with one another. Oh well, see you all in hell!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:51 AM
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Most would argue it starts at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:23 PM
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So strange, that act alone is enough to be considered a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:17 AM
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That's a good point. Now factor in the women who are just as confused, and in the same predicament as men. Then you'll start seeing why we're all here running in circles to begin with. It's one helluva vicious cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:33 AM
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Where is this post!? Whoever made that statement has a point to an extent. Having women here is the equivalent of having men in a women's pregnancy subreddit (if there is one?). Only a select number of qualified female users should be allowed here
/r/ExRedPill03/02/22 08:48 AM
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Sounds about right. Though it ain't just women who do this. Boy howdy do WE ALL love us some glamourized toxicity in this world... God kill us all
/r/ExRedPill03/02/22 08:36 AM
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I'n cautiousely optimistic about this. I've seen far too many women SAY this, but DO the complete opposite. I'm not blaming them, we're all human. Men are just as clueless when chosing partners. In fact, the majority of us really do not know what we want in the end. Though these articles always make it sound like "THAT'S NOT the right way, but THIS IS!."
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 12:02 AM
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This feels like a proper and reasonable blend of pills. They're truths both genders outright refuse to swallow at times. The best part is how OP mentions THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS, which is something WE ALL seem to forget in these fractured and directionless communities.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 07:15 AM
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It's a bit of both, a lot of guys on the fence mostly. Also, redpill/exredpill/bluepill it really doesn't matter in the end. We're all big, privileged, suburban, redditor losers wasting our time with pointless little details. We're all a broken and arrogant mess, to the point where we might just make places like 4chan look cool and sane by comparison. I think what WE ALL need right now is to calm down, gain some self-awareness, and start helping those around us rather than hyperfocusing on ourse…
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 09:18 AM
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Well I mean, he's half right. It'd be a more CREDIBLE statement if he said only 2% of MEN and WOMEN are good and of high value. Why shove all the blame on women!? I guess what I'm getting at is, he can make a good argument if applied to both genders. It's INCREDIBLY, I repeat, INCREDIBLY hard to find respectable, responsible, compassionate, and self-aware people in thsi day and age!
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 02:02 AM
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A great number of them are both spineless and insecure. Blaming their faults towards all women, how hypocritical. However, after browsing r/bluepill recently, I've noticed this toxic and resentful attitude is common IN ALL GROUPS! Not to offend, but it's really starting to feel like there's no proper route to take. We're all a broken, vulnerable mess. How can we help others if we CAN'T HELP OURSELVES!? We need more stable, mature, and compassionate people to guide these fractured communities int…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 07:10 PM
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We all wanna be the cool kids and sheepishly weasel our way into being popular and unique. It's trendy to shit on bitter feminists right now, so I guess that's the route the girl's taking. Doesn't make any sense though, she's not helping anyone by saying that stuff. She's only encouraging spineless men to be even more spineless and continue being misogynistic
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 12:01 AM
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So is hypocrisy and delusion, on both genders! We have to be careful when differentiating them
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 11:53 PM
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I'm on the fence admittedly. There needs to be more research done before taking these replies seriousely. Reddit, much like current 4chan, has the habit of being defensively sheepish and delusional. Especially when everyone's peer pressured into giving politically correct responses. I agree, this incel mentality as a whole is fueled mostly by envy and insecurity. Though we can't just assume everything's either black or white
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 01:23 AM
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Well my friend, you've got to act more respectful in order to avoid further backlash! After reading your first paragraph, you don't sound very humble yourself. Also, gamers and taking showers? I get what you mean, you are right, down to the two types of redpillers and this subreddit's lack of clarity. But don't come here with a higher sense of superiority and just rant your lungs out. We're all a broken mess, just guys looking to make sense of all this. If you wanna help us, please do! We really…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 05:56 PM
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You're wrong. Red Pill implies men should treat women like domesticated animals rather than living, breathing, people. That's not a sane and respectable strategy at all. I WILL tell you this though. It BREAKS my heart to see absolutely no one correct/educate/debate your argument. Instead, everyone sheepishly weasels their dislikes unto you like that'll save the day! Go talk to your mother, as a woman herself she'll let you know where you are wrong in your thought process
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 09:54 AM
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It's important not to chalk it up entirely on that single factor. You are absolutely right, BUT there are more elements that contribute to this dilemma. If you are blaming this on only one reason, you are doing a disservice to everyone on this subreddit
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 08:08 PM
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