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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Dating as a divorced man - Googling/background checks and is there a double standard? Agreed- I got out the ‘look at me’ and you can break into my house as I’m on holiday forums very early. Anything that’s important I will be contacted about - and just because it’s not my name doesn’t mean I ain’t checking 🤣🤣🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/23 03:50 PM
3	Dating as a divorced man - Googling/background checks and is there a double standard? Also have no digital footprint that’s recognisable as you - folk are amazed when they try and search for me. I got out the socials early for work reasons and I love it	/r/Divorce_Men	18/04/23 01:11 AM
1	Just want to get laid... Not done it yet but your comment confirms what I’ve been thinking	/r/Divorce_Men	18/04/23 01:01 AM
1	Just want to get laid... September 21 for me and researching the local escort agencies currently as I see it as a simple transaction. As long as it’s not someone who is being trafficked then when all things considered it’s just like a date - with a guarantee at the end. You also don’t need to worry about pleasing her as it’s solely for you (although I used to love that part). It’s a messed up time to be single especially after the pandemic and I’d rather pay decent money for a stunning girl with no attachments, than inv…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/04/23 01:00 AM
1	What do you guys do with pictures? As above if no kids are involved do what you want and probably best to get rid or in storage where you won’t suddenly see them. Mine are mainly of my kids and I took them all pretty much - so much so that if I was to die I struggle to think what picture of me they would use - hate getting my pic taken but love the ones of my kids and they should be treasured. Future grandchildren etc won’t know anything other than what’s in the image - we move on but it still happened.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/22 04:42 PM
2	Struggling hard. I’m in the trenches with you. Unfortunately it looks like the proverbial is only hitting the fan now. Petty bollocks, and there’s a lot of good posts backing you with sound advice. Whatever happens everything will be alright. Sometimes we just have to stand still and feel the pain and use it positively.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/22 08:25 PM
1	Please looking for help/advice The kids are an age here where they must surely have an opinion about what’s going on. It’s always got to be about minimal damage to the kids - if that means letting her have some headspace then fine - but they can’t be dragged away from their routines to accommodate the mother because she’s not happy with her husband.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/21 10:58 PM

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