~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 193 | Being used for sex traumatized me. | DISCUSSION | panikschalter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 07:40 PM |
| 188 | Guys would use my tip to make their dinner cheaper | RED FLAG 🚨 | panikschalter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Being used for sex traumatized me. | SEEKING ADVICE | panikschalter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 07:24 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | i started my own business, and men are revealing their true selves!Me too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Watch Out For Love Bombing!!! (Idealize/Devalue/Discard cycle)Oh. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 12:29 PM |
| 39 | When you go on bumble to make some powerful women your bestiesYou should definitely try it, even if you don't end up meeting up with anyone - it's so refreshing to see how pleasant conversations with women are, and you'll see that you shouldn't expect anything less from men. If literally every woman I've talked to was nice and interesting, why are men struggling so hard? (Bc they don't care and don't respect you. It's not too hard to have a decent convo.) You can also find a women's only group on Facebook and ask for some people to tag along to go whereeve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 08:39 AM |
| 2 | 24 hours?? You are SINGLE!I don't think I would even want to communicate every single day - but if you do and he ghosts you for an entire day, yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:53 AM |
| 10 | Halfway doing FDS [is not as effective]I know you just switched up the words there, but "I don't eat on an empty stomach" is so funny to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 09:50 AM |
| 1 | How to get over a situationship? Please share your strategies that helped you get out of a bad placeWhat do you think is the right thing to do when you miss the person you were with a guy? I used to be so creative and full of life when we hung out, and now I feel sort of ... dull? Like I'm not as fun and spontaneous anymore. I know it should technically be in me, but I can't seem to find it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Why on earth to pickmeishas/libfems think porn, casual hookups, and kinks are "empowering"?Do you have any examples? I'm a sucker for indie films. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Being used for sex traumatized me.Thank you. I wanted to let you know that I wrote down your sentence > I'm so sorry someone who should have been a good friend to you treated you like an object and dehumanized you. in my diary as a reminder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Being used for sex traumatized me.Oh God, I forgot about being badgered for nudes. I am so glad I never sent him any. Yes, we should know that we are doing better alone then with someone that makes us feel worthless or abuses us - if I get lonely, I just pull up my list of what really happened so I don't get blinded by the memories of the few fun things we had. Getting along well doesn't excuse utter disrespect. His texts in your screenshots are pathetic. He can barely express himself (not that there is anything worth expressing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Being used for sex traumatized me.I truly don't think it would affect him because now that he has used me and he has gotten what he wanted, he doesn't care about me anymore. Not as a friend or as a colleague, not even to know how he hurt me. My revenge is finally getting the courage to try a totally different career path than I had considered. I got bold and angry enough to apply at companies for competitive 'traineeships' I never thought I had a chance to work in, but now I even have an interview lined up for Friday. In a way, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Being used for sex traumatized me.I agree. Sex can be a beautiful thing in theory, but I don't think I've ever experienced that. It's like you cease to be a person to them - they care way more about the act than about you as a person. I hope you feel better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Being used for sex traumatized me.Thank you for the kind reply. I guess in a way I just thought it was normal - I mean, we weren't dating, it was casual, "for fun", but that still doesn't mean I should be treated like dirt. I think I can heal from this myself, but I will reevaluate in a while - I'm going to focus on getting my foot in the door in a different career first, and once I don't have to see him again, I will see how maybe meeting up with different men will affect me. Even just posting this helped me realize what happen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:55 PM |
| 8 | Why do men act like they hate you?This is it. Protect yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 09:49 AM |
| 53 | Guys would use my tip to make their dinner cheaperDo you date German men that don't have any other cultural background? I know some Southern Europeans will pay for you as well as Arabs und Turks, but I cannot imagine any standard German guy in his twenties paying for all our dates. As in, literally cannot believe that would happen. Sounds interesting though, you go girl lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:25 PM |
| 60 | Guys would use my tip to make their dinner cheaperI'm glad that someone else hates the "Karen" thing as much as me. I work in tech support, and female customers have been much nicer to me overall, though there's obviously a few stressed apples on both sides. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:18 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter