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You’re blaming feminism for problems that feminism is actually trying to fix. Feminists agree with you, which is why I think there’s a misunderstanding about what feminism actually stands for. Hear me out. You say feminists demand equal rights but avoid equal responsibilities, yet feminism is actively fighting for women to take on the very responsibilities you’re talking about. You’re frustrated by gender-based inequalities like the draft and sentencing disparities, and I totally get it. But her…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/25 05:59 AM
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Any women who had been around men whatsoever will recognize when they get into that horny fantasy mindset. The person they are isn't really there.. They become an objectification machine.. It's all about the naritive that arouses them.. And they don't relate to you as if you're a real person. They are literally acting out a scene in their head and telecasting that to play out "in real life"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/22 02:30 PM
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THIS is the dumbest shit too. I want to know how many of these parents witnessed firsthand the negative impact of books on anyone's lives, vs. The impact they've seen as a result of social media... There's a complete lack of willingness to SEE what's happening in front of their own eyes... They don't want to look too closely because they know they'll discover they aren't the amazing parent they tell themselves they are.. Or that their fragile ego can't stand the thought of yet another failure...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 11:31 PM
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Omg y'all spitting straight FACTS out here!!! They are playing themselves on so many levels and they don't even realize it! They have this internal power struggle that they don't understand intentionally, they externalize it onto women, and keep hurting themselves in the process. For the "logical" sex they sure have an utter inability to comprehend their own existence logically jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 11:28 PM
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They know exactly what they want. They want to control you so they can have their cake and eat yours too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 03:56 AM
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This is the thing that gets me. Men immediately latch onto this as if you're telling them to change their behavior. No, a woman having standards is not the same thing as attempting to control a man. Our standards are hard boundaries. When we find that a prospective partner does not meet our criteria, then the evaluation is immediately over. If someone is incompatible with our lifestyle decisions so be it. We don't have time for any negotiations regarding which of our boundaries we will sacrifice…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 02:08 AM
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Man I wish I could figure out how to get one single mentally stable man to want to date me. I've only dated a few guys, ended up in relationships just wasting my time before I learned how to survive on my own. And now that I'm single, I'm in a new city, don't know anyone, and in afraid to be in public places with covid always a threat. I enjoy my own company, I just haven't figured out yet how to get out of my own way. And frankly I'm not attractive enough to be able to date multiple men. I'll b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 02:21 AM
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I wish I knew where these motivations came from. I'm finally single and moving on alone with my own life. I just don't really know what exactly I want to do. Other than work through the trauma in therapy.. Barely keep my job.. I want friends but I'm scared to try to find them because I'm so afraid of being burnt yet again. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 10:18 PM
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Because of the implication?
/r/seduction26/02/22 01:42 PM
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Thank you for saying this I really needed to hear it. 🤗❤️‍🔥💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 08:50 PM
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Can't upvote this enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:12 AM
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Being an adult means taking responsibility for the consequences of your actions even if you had the most innocent of intentions. This excuse only works for toddlers.. Because adults understand that toddlers have to learn empathy and how to think of others and not just themselves.. And if someone can demand to be exempted from blame and taking responsibility for the consequences of their actions and disregard your very real suffering because they didn't "mean to" hurt you, that person is entitled…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:36 PM
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Honestly it's hard not to come to that conclusion. It seems incredibly rare to find a decent man anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:53 PM
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I'd love to see the stats on how many men actually stay with their woman after the men "glow up." I would wager that it's disgustingly low. There is so little loyalty or need for connection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:46 PM
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I had an ex tell me that if I wanted sex with him less that he would want it more. The fucking audacity...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:39 PM
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So many women think that heartbreak means feeling sadness and sorrow and grief and pain and suffering… Real heartbreak is when like you said, your love just instantly dies, and you just look at them and there is nothing there… It’s just instant apathy… As soon as that switch flips, it’s over, he just doesn't know yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:39 PM
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Honestly it makes sense. They hate that their sex drive controls them. They have so little power over it and it's an insult to their ego. So they feel that maniacal drive to regain that power. And since they don't understand their internal world, they misattribute "women" as being responsible for their loss of power and control.. So of course they have to punish us by harming us and taking that "power" away from us. They are desperate for revenge and righting the "wrongs" and "injustices" that t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:34 PM
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I LOVE this perspective! I've always felt uncomfortable with letting men I've dated into my home. Would you please share your strategy on your dating timeline? I'm really looking to learn what it looks like to go from first date to marriage, what the milestones are and how to navigate them so that if I get to the point where I'm considering marriage, I know that all bases have been covered first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:36 PM
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How long should it take a man to initiate these conversations? I know it's important too get to know them a bit first, but what is an appropriate timing that isn't rushed but isn't a sign of lack of interest?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 12:14 PM
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The trick is they never actually drink water. Most of them survive off of canned corn syrup and the only water they touch is in the shower once a week. The cups are actually for the cereal when the bowls are all in the sink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 11:38 PM
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So these men are truly only happy when they see women suffering......... And that is certainly both inside the bedroom and outside of it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:32 AM
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Because it's humiliating for them to even consider that a woman is right about anything..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:11 PM
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This is incredibly insightful, thank you for posting! I'm curious, could you expand on what it looks like for a healthy man to be emotionally vulnerable? To be honest I've never dated a man who is willing to hear my feedback..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:09 AM
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THIS. This right here. Toxic masculinity has repressed men so far back to the point that the very thing that has historically been a status symbol has ironically become their downfall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:00 AM
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Oh oh, do stonewalling next! You completely NAILED gaslighting, it's obvious that you understand it m extremely well. I'm really curious how you would portray stonewalling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:39 AM
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Let me guess, DARVO? Because of COURSE it's your fault. And obviously you were persecuting him.. He's blameless and you're the complete bitch who doesn't even respect everything that he does for you. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:47 AM
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Yes, but let me tweak this slightly. The only woman who cares about you unconditionally is (or at least should be) your mother. Any other women will not love you unconditionally, because why would they? Do men love unconditionally? No. The point of game is to find a compatible partner. The only conditional requirements are whether or not you find a partner compatible. If a partner is not compatible, then there are no conditions under which it makes sense to love them unconditionally. That's the …
/r/seduction22/12/21 06:30 PM
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What if she doesn’t view it as disrespecting you?
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:37 AM
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THIS is what men don't understand. We are taking the high road like the Queens that we are. We are very well entitled to renumeration and reparations. Can you imagine if we pushed for what we deserved instead of only accepting equality?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:32 PM
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Omg 58 is so young!! Bless 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:14 AM
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This is honestly something I am extremely challenged with. How do you prevent relationship challenges from overwhelming your "chill" if things get hard?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:09 PM
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Yes, but take this one step further. WHY are they doing this? Because it is seen as a status symbol. Men dream of having a young hot thing to control. Men are jealous when they see other men who have achieved their dream.. It's not just that they recognize this behavior.. It's that they see this behavior as the model for what it means to be a successful man. They glorify it. It's the ultimate power. And even the men who have been socially conditioned to ignore or deny this in "mixed company" sti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:34 PM
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I just realized why men say women are trying to manipulate them with emotions.... It's because men use their emotions to manipulate women... It's so damn obvious... That's what they use anger for!! It's a tactic! If COURSE it's projecting! Men who are doing shady shit.. When you know what's going on and you try to talk to them about it what do they do? Scream at you and shut you down because they are manipulating you into dropping it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:09 PM
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This is the type of woman I aspire to be. Don't let them get away with nothing. Not a damn thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:19 AM
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UGH!!!! I hate how normal "dingleberries" is. What do you think the male response would be if during our periods, women just didn't clean the blood off of our nether regions and we had dangling blobs of crusty blood in our pubes???? What if we called them bloodyberries?? Men would go absolutely psycho for even hearing the word.. And yet blood isn't nearly as disgusting as shit.. And hey joke about their berries like they're proud... I dated a guy.. He sat on my bed post-coitus... And when he sto…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:23 PM
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Yep, absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:08 AM
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There's no such thing as platonic friendships with men. Men look at women in two categories: attractive or not attractive. If you're attractive to them, everything they do is to "score" you. Including fuck zoning you for years until they have the balls to shoot their shot. If you're not attractive to them, then you have nothing to offer them... Unless they're looking at you as a source of something like free childcare or a free ride of some sort. There are critically few exceptions. It's best fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:06 AM
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On a random note, I love your username 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:56 PM
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We as a community need a standardized approach to this "culture". I love the 🤪🤪🤪 face... What should we say to drive the point home that these men talking like this sound like children... Honestly it's no wonder they only want to date children of they never grow out of the childhood mentality...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:53 PM
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Have you noticed that when a lvm is asked what he is into, the FIRST thing he will say is another woman? It's never about growing intimacy with you, or investing in your sex life, or anything related to you... It's always threesome, or voyeurism (watching someone who doesn't know, which automatically excludes you), or a swinger club, etc. Do lvm ever actually think about their partner? It seems like as soon as his partner commits, he isn't into her anymore...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:56 PM
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What do you do,if you don't mind me asking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:08 PM
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... My future husband's power will come from producing my pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:21 PM
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Fuck. Yes. No more giving hours to anyone who doesn't earn and deserve them. They are meaningless. No need to sit around and spend hours of my life trying to discover meaning and ending up making myself sick... Life is truly too short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:47 AM
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To the surprise of no one... The ones complaining are only pissed at being called out 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:56 PM
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What do you mean? What is it costing her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:24 AM
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I appreciate that you counted exactly how many notes there are in the first opening part of the song lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:22 AM
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Men will only "allow" you to take a big dick of it is a means of attacking you. A big dick is a tool of violence, not of pleasure. To say that you want to enjoy a big dick means that their tool of violence is impotent and that infuriates them. "I hope you get raped by a huge dick" "suck a fat one" etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:52 AM
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Um, no. That man is NOT 48.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:40 AM
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This is queen energy right here 👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:24 PM
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What do you mean by engage in fantasy? Like ignore them during sex and so your own thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:40 AM
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Do you by chance have any good data to support this? I'd love to have something like this to show people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:42 PM
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You are the friend every woman deserves, and that every woman should aspire to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:10 PM
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Girl that is a little too specific.. I hope you aren't speaking from experience..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:51 AM
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Ain't nothing to get to the bottom of. If he's doing it, and you explained it's a dealbreaker... Boy bye. He showed you who he is, and it ain't what you're looking for!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:30 PM
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It's a badge of honor for a man to wreck us.. To ruin us.. To destroy us...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 12:12 PM
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... That's SO crazy, I had the exact same thing with my last ex! It's like your body is so full of their toxicity it backs up..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:15 PM
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He wanted her She'd never tell Secretly she wanted him to go to hell..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:02 AM
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So if it's legal to murder someone because they're hitting on you and you feel scared... Why can't women use this defense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:44 AM
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Good for you. It's funny, I get the skin thing, there's something about getting rid of a lvm that clears up your skin instantly. Just bring away from their bs causes your skin to fucking shine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 03:07 AM
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Obviously not. But historically culturally both men and women have been shamed in greater society for sex outside of marriage. Of course it was a more puritanical cause… but still. I think the key difference now is that they no longer hold systemic power over us like they have historically. Now that women can work and earn money to survive without them, we have the power to cut them out completely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:52 AM
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The thing is, it's all established. "Men only want one thing and it's disgusting". The difference is that men feel no shame, only entitled rage. Until PICKMEISHAS refuse to give them wife perks without a commitment, men will continue to feel entitled. It ends when women rise up and reverse the damage "free love" did. We need to take back our power as a whole. Only then will men realize they should feel shame for their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:38 PM
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How do you stop feeling bad when something like this happens? I find it impossible to just stop the negative emotions.. I haven't come across anything I can say to myself that immediately shifts my mentality like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 09:59 PM
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CLAP 👏 BACK 👏 QUEEN 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 02:27 PM
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Holy shit I just realized... All of the complaining men do that all women are trying to look for his sympathy with their crying… It’s a projection, because they’re the ones who are looking for sympathy with their theatrics. When women cry it’s because she's at her wit's end because the man is not paying any goddamn attention to her valid complaints and disrespecting her on to of it!! Everything is a goddamn game with men for them to "win" against us and not have to do a God damn thing!!! Fuck!!!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:20 PM
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Thank you, I needed to hear this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 06:59 PM
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.... If this were in a game I would totally play it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:07 PM
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This was a lovely fairy tale thank you for posting! I especially enjoyed the happily ever after 😁👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:31 AM
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Just like how men don't care about international men's day until it's international women's day.. I'm convinced men only learn things to spite women..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 10:36 AM
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Is this in the trashman playbook?? "I didn't intend to hurt you!" Like that means anything whatsoever when you cheat on me?? Wtf did you expect to happen? Because the logic there says he didn't realize cheating would hurt me, like it was an innocent mistake. The God damn audacity..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:55 AM
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.... Dude this just made something click for me. When men discuss a woman, the very first thing they will say is if he would fuck her or not. And other men will judge each other based on who they would and wouldn't find attractive. So at some level yes, their identity is actually defined by who they find attractive. And thinking on that point, from an evolutionary perspective, it’s very important to ensure that our genes are as strong as possible. One might argue that it is the defining responsi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:32 PM
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Yes thank you queen. I’ve been looking for something new to binge during the apocalypse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:10 AM
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It's because he's jealous that HE doesn't have that confidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:09 PM
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YYYYAAASSSSS I'm dead queen!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 10:28 PM
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What games are you seeing the worst communities in? I've been playing Rust and It never used to be this bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:29 PM
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I had a guy tell me he would want sex more if I wanted it less. Lol what? We literally never had it.. So when I said what was up that's what he told me. Yeaaahhh... Thank you, next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 07:08 PM
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Please don't downvote me, I just had an interesting thought after reading this. it just struck me like the typical man, where he's got this perfect image in his head of his dream woman, and it causes him to take non perfect women for granted. Do you think that it is similar with women's notion of romance? We have this perfect vision in our head of the dream romantic drama, and when a partner doesn't measure up we take him for granted? And I don't mean of course when he's just low value in genera…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:41 PM
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We will all survive this virus with the victory garden watered by this woman's absolute QUEENHOOD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:59 AM
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Hot damn! This year for my birthday instead of waiting for someone else to approve my trip I'm planning and going and having the time of my life on my OWN! Thank you for inspiring me to treat myself like I want to be treated sis, I don't need a man to make that happen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 05:40 PM
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It's the crabs in the bucket mentality. If they're a failure, it's hard for them to watch others succeed, and so sometimes the only personal successes they can have is in testing down someone who WOULD succeed. Men aren't prosocial. Women build, men destroy. There's something to be said for survival requiring a level of destruction, when you're attacked obviously it makes more sense to defend yourself violently so you aren't murdered... But they're hamfisted for the most part, there's no art in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:15 AM
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That's a fascinating point. The amount of men who are unable to find work that pays above the poverty line is growing tremendously. In general the dollar has lost it's buying power though, not just for men. But add to this the fact that so many women in the last 50 years have filled so many available jobs, leaving even LESS opportunities for men to find living wages. The culture of the atomic family is well gone. Man or woman, it is much more difficult to survive in just one salary - by design. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:49 PM
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Really? Lol bad example then I just randomly picked a breed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:08 AM
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Yeah, i get wanting a dog for a purpose, if you're hunting you don't want a poodle. If you're sledding you want a malamute or whatever. But the ones who only buy a dog because of its looks strike the same as a man window shopping for a woman without a thought to her personality whatsoever, only interested in physical appearance. Idk I've always thought it was weird to have a "type" because I don't, but I realize most people do so in the odd one out lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:09 PM
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As a hiring manager, I've hired plenty of men in khakis and only one man in the suit. The man in the suit sent a company-wide (500+ people) skype message because he couldn't get into his account with his password in the first week of training when he was too impatient to wait for the trainer to get to that part. He went to the lunchroom with a fork in his breast pocket. We ended up letting him go because he kept breaking security policy and that's the one thing you just can't play with. That asi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:30 AM
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Definitely learned a lot from this one, and it's posts like this which have inspired mine. There is so much focus on "coffee dates" and that topic has been well fleshed out. What I'm looking for is a broader perspective on what other less frequently discussed significant moments others here think we need to be on the look out for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 12:57 AM
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This is what I struggle with. I don't want to attract men. I don't want to deal with the bullshit. But it limits you to so many Good men, it's hard to decide for either option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:12 AM
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Amen! Do you have any tips to help that process along? Are there certain questions you can ask to get him to slip up and reveal his true character?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 03:00 PM
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You sound like the kind of boss woman I aspire to be. So you mind sharing any tips on how to build a business from scratch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 03:25 PM
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Can you elaborate more on how to treat marriage as a business contract please? How do you compartmentalize each stage, and what are your thresholds to pass into each new one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 01:35 AM
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TIL I'm a Virgin...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 01:16 AM
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How do you inspire without being demanding?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 03:18 AM
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