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Huh? Who said that? I do whatever my SO asks of me within reason. Back massage after a hard day? I’m on it. Head scratched to help him go to sleep? Yup. On my days off I clean his place and do his laundry. Etc etc. So I’d say I do a little more than I’m asked, but that’s because I care about him and want to make him feel loved and special. My mistake. I certainly know that’s not all that most men want in a partner. I just assumed that’s what you were implying about yourself. But I’m sure you thi…
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 05:40 PM
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Thank you, I will! We take good care of each other.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 05:18 PM
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Dang, so you’re saying I should resign myself to a life alone surrounded by cats and good friends because men don’t want me for anything but sex and “doing what he tells me?” No, no cats actually. I’m allergic. I’ll take the former if that’s the case! Rather be single and enjoy my time with friends and family than in a sad relationship like that. Good day to you
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 05:14 PM
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Self-improvement doesn’t have to be centered around women If you’re gonna be forever single, might as well be forever single with friends, hobbies and goals to keep you from getting bored
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 05:08 PM
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Sorry that you find yourself locked in an empty vessel of denial and bitterness
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 05:02 PM
4

This just sounds empty and sad
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 04:57 PM
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Currently have an SO that I recently started dating. Personality: Considerate, curious, sweet, goofy, more on the introverted side like me, doesn’t always take life too seriously, but knows when to be serious. Someone who can enjoy going out, but loves staying in just as much, if not more. I like them a little on the nerdy side and I like that my current SO and I can play games together. Emotional intelligence is important to me and I want someone who can be open enough to talk about their probl…
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 05:20 AM
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Those words I used only reflects the tip of the massive woman-hating iceberg that he sits on top of. You can't possibly tell me that I'm using shaming language on one of many posts that aims to shame half of the world population. Funny how you wouldn't say that to anyone else here who call women 'run through whores.' Lmaoooo
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 08:46 PM
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It's funny because almost every time someone says something to the contrary, they're lumped into "outliers" by you. That outlier category must be getting pretty big.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 08:42 PM
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How is it that the guy who’s married with kids, that has had multiple ex girlfriends, is one of the most active, most delusional, and most bitter people here? Y’all should be fighting him, he has nothing to complain about lmao I’m starting to think you’re having a psychotic break because these posts and comments just become more and more extreme. One day the post is just gonna say “WAHMENNN BLARGHHHHHH”
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 02:30 PM
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I hope you didn’t pull this from the social media of someone you know, that’s fucked up lol
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 06:56 PM
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I agree with this. Going on dates as it is already felt like a hassle. I would not subject myself to it just for a free meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:02 PM
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I dunno if a lot of girls care about the stock market or fancy cars honestly lol. I promise I’m not trying to attack you and I’m sure that isn’t truly what you talk about most of the time, but if a guy talked about those things to me I’d see some of it as a yellow flag and I would probably be a little bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:57 AM
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As in, average or below average women are only swiping right on guys out of their league and swiping left on guys who are aren’t? I do hear that quite a bit, but it seems to be the opposite in the relationships I see in my social circles. IMO most of the women I see in relationships are usually more attractive than the guys they’re with. But men might think it’s the other way around, so maybe it’s gender biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:49 AM
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Interesting. Who knows why they were rejected. What's your thought process when you reject men who are way out of your league who went out of their way to approach you? Just curious!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:44 PM
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Some of it is learned with age/experience and of course, there are many different factors at play... your self-esteem & self-perception, another person's self-esteem, location, age, etc. I don't really think there's anything necessarily wrong with 'shooting your shot' with someone who appears to be out of your league, because sometimes they're not and you just think they are... if that makes sense. Sometimes they might be above your pay grade and just have low self-esteem, which can happen with …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:42 PM
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I have to disagree on some level. If I see a guy as out of my league or incompatible in some way, I swipe left. If he seems like he’s extremely athletic/fit or excessively good looking (subjectively), I swipe left because I know they’re likely looking for someone that isn’t me. I don’t find myself becoming bitter or jaded about it though. I just know that’s how life is. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:03 PM
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I think he’s hot
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 09:33 PM
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Same. They’re objectively handsome, but that’s about the only feeling I get from the picture. If one was like… obsessively into puppets or something I’d be like “ehhh…. You do you but not for me” 😂
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 04:39 PM
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Ah I see. I saw the original picture now. They’re all handsome fellas, even the older one. But I guess I’m also older so it doesn’t bother me.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 04:35 PM
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Hun, do yourself a favor and don’t post here. I’m not sure how old you are, but don’t let yourself think that this is what all men are like. It’s not.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 04:17 PM
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So we’re supposed to believe your observations and assumptions and take it as truth? I’m starting to get the feeling that a lot of this stemmed from something that happened in your marriage.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 04:12 PM
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You’re posting in the wrong place, that’s why. The guys on here tend to hate/dislike women enough to where they often censor the word woman to w*man lmao
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 04:04 PM
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Lol did you really switch the photos so people would be “caught” rating good-looking guys on a low scale? I was wondering why people keep saying some of them look “old” when none of them do.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 12:33 PM
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This is so brainwashed that there’s no point in trying to argue with you.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 12:11 PM
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Using your line of thinking, what would your proposed solution be to improve your situation excluding measures doesn’t take away any individual’s autonomy?
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 01:14 AM
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.IS is literally riddled with it. As a sample, I went on there just yesterday and saw a post with a video where a guy shot his girlfriend. Almost everyone in the comments was saying she deserved it and some even say that it makes them hard??? THIS shit is what people have issues with. They’re not upset because you guys are complaining about being lonely or how you feel that the world is stacked against you. They get upset because you pretend to know what every woman/normie/Chad is like and you a…
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 01:11 AM
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OK then, good luck with everything
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 06:09 AM
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So you’re saying that a woman who goes to a fitness class won’t come back if there aren’t any attractive guys there? I’m a little unclear on that. And y’all are taking the intelligence thing WAY too literally. It’s just another aspect that plays into attraction. Intelligence alone with deficiencies in every other aspect is also a no-go. Some people rate intelligence very highly and some don’t. I do. I want to be able to interesting and meaningful conversations with the person I’m looking to date…
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 11:07 PM
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There’s no point in submitting our input on this subreddit. It’s another echo chamber and they don’t want it. They just want to pretend they know us all better than we know ourselves and walk around with a self-righteous boner when we finally throw our hands up and walk away.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 10:51 PM
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What kinds of social activities? And I promise women don't usually pick activities based on the guys, they do it for the activity itself.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 10:39 PM
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Did you also forget the part where some of those top scientists and math majors may lack social intelligence and may tend less toward social activities in general? And that perhaps they're also not the type to advertise it publicly when they do have sex?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 10:01 PM
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I acknowledged that I misinterpreted the way that you wrote it. If she's only enjoying it "sometimes," it seems to imply that she hates it all the other times. Which if that were the case, she would most likely just not do it. I was asking for clarification, which you provided. You don't believe that sexual attraction is mixed into all of those other "reasons" and that it just stands on its own?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 09:49 PM
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I feel like I could say the exact same thing back to you? The majority of my female friends feel the same way as I do. And I'm talking about women in multiple friend circles and spheres of life ranging anywhere from 23-35. Maybe I'm just not friends with the types of women that see the world that way. Most of the women on the internet who openly post disgusting views on men do not reflect the average. In real life, those women get shit on or at the very least quietly judged by other women.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 09:38 PM
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Sorry, I realized I totally forgot to mention that I DO find him physically attractive. I was just neutral about him at first. Honestly, all the girls found him hot. The only reason I mentioned his physical features at all is because there are people that believe women won't find you attractive if you're not a Chad. But I understand what you're saying. I wouldn't want someone to ONLY like me for my personality the same way I wouldn't want someone to ONLY like me for my looks.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 09:05 PM
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I simply just disagree with much of what you wrote in your original post. It's not that black and white. Just curious as to what you are using to form your theories. "Personality is more important than looks" applies more heavily when people are referring to long-term relationships simply because looks will fade, but a shit personality lasts forever. I thought that was common knowledge. I do think personality is a HUGE part of what makes me want to fuck someone. I'm not going to be intentionally…
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 08:33 PM
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I just don't understand how you can make assumptions about how she only enjoys sex "sometimes" because she's didn't make it the majority of her paragraph. Perhaps it was the way that you wrote that she "even sometimes loves fucking him. Sometimes." With the way it was written I may have misinterpreted what you meant. It made it seem like you were implying that she was having sex with him even when she didn't want to. But I think you were referring to the frequency of it?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 08:11 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 08:05 PM
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Has it occurred to you that she may not be an extremely sexual person? That sex may not be the most important thing to her? Or maybe that sexual attraction ISN’T the end all for a person and it’s a combination of multiple factors, rather than purely just physical appearance? Which is why she spends so much time talking about his other aspects? She says they have a healthy sex life. Are you trying to imply that he forced himself on her her the majority of the time they have sex because she doesn’…
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 06:28 PM
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So are you just going to tell us all “this is what women think” but when actual women tell you otherwise you just refuse to believe them? Makes total sense. Where did I mention being uncomfortable? Fine, he’s thoughtful, funny, and interesting. We’ll use those instead of intelligent. And intelligence is indeed an attractant. Even if I were to have a one night stand with someone, they need to be intelligent for me to sleep with them. We have to be able to have meaningful conversation. I literally…
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 06:22 PM
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let’s be real, there could be hundreds of comments from different people refuting your argument and even that wouldn’t be enough to change your mind because you’re so trapped in this belief that women are 100% shallow and only into 6’5” men with giant horsecocks.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 06:10 PM
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I’ve said this over and over and I stand by it 100% AND I can historically stand by it. If a guy looked like Chris Hemsworth but he was dumb as a bag of rocks, there is a 0% chance I will be attracted enough to sleep with him. Smarts turn me on. Emotional intelligence turns me on. Being funny and interesting turns me on. But like every other human being, there still has to be SOME element of physical attraction there. Or I at least have to be neutral about their appearance. It just isn’t the ent…
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 06:05 PM
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Is this a joke?? Do you guys actually believe this??
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 01:19 PM
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I think people want to date others who are either at roughly the same level of intelligence, or slightly above or below it. I did read this somewhere (can't remember where) and I believe it to be fairly true. I do tend to think that men prefer to date women who have a lower intelligence level than themselves and vice versa. I'm no Marie Curie, but I wouldn't be able to have sex with someone who I perceive to be an idiot. They don't have to be booksmart, but I need to be able to have an engaging …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:39 AM
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because he's a cheating POS
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:33 PM
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As someone who is on dating apps, I just want to add a few things. - Women have better pictures and they care much more about how they present themselves. It's just true. They're more likely to use filters (which should be avoided IMO - so some of that 60% is probably catfishing), BUT they also make sure that they have good pictures. Obviously some exceptions here. - MEANWHILE - I'm sorry dudes, but some of y'all just have AWFUL pictures. Some have pictures where they don't smile in a single one…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:13 PM
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Speak for yourself, I liked Aragorn more than I liked Legolas as long as I can remember. I love me a good beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:09 PM
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Maybe I haven’t been jaded by life yet, or maybe I’m an outlier of some kind, but I honestly don’t care a ton about how much a man makes?? There’s probably a threshold there if I’m being honest, but I think part of that also has more to do with me preferring a partner who has some ambition and drive to excel. My ex made less than me. Maybe like $40-50k (which some will say is not much), and I was totally fine with the idea that I’d eventually be making double that. I loved him for his drive to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:03 PM
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Totally agree with you on the fat shaming thing. It’s such a low thing to do. They already know they’re fat. Why just make them feel worse about it? I don’t ever find it funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:32 AM
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I upvoted solely because of that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:11 PM
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RP women don’t follow the same philosophy as RP men, I believe. May be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:11 PM
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I think it depends on your definition of what “in shape” means to you. I like a little bit of fluff tbh. Chest hair is an absolute bonus, but a lot of my girlfriends don’t like it. It’s cozy. I want them to be healthy and capable and that’s what I aim to be as well. I honestly don’t like super ripped dudes or guys who look like they spend 24/7 in the gym. If you HAVE to wake up at 4 AM every single day and it’s non-negotiable… more power to you, but probably not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:00 PM
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So first we had Chads and now there are ULTRAchads? 😂 what’s next? Gigachad? Shit’s worse than Dragonball Z
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:31 PM
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No, you’re right. I just know that there are people in the world who are truly so angry and disenchanted that they may actually think like that. But they’re probably in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:27 PM
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No way!! My ex was a very quiet, manly kind of guy. Didn’t show a ton of emotion. But he absolutely melted around dogs and I loved it. He’d probably spend more time with the dogs in the room than the people 😂 but I think it’s also because I like dogs. If you hate dogs or animals you probably wouldn’t find that behavior as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:36 PM
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Agreed. IMO a woman/man with a high volume of low quality partners loses to a woman/man with a low amount of high quality partners. To some extent you may have to explore to see what works and what doesn’t. Someone who’s had one relationship where the dude could only get off when you choked him with a belt might end up thinking all dudes are like that. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:15 PM
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Just wanted to say I like your response and it’s very well thought out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:11 PM
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I really hope everyone here is like this! It scares me sometimes when I see people posting in extremes and absolutes. How do they function in real life??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:07 PM
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I like this approach. I felt way better about my mental health when I stopped trying to be overly positive about my body and instead starting looking in the mirror and going “this is what I’ve got. I should be grateful for it.” I’m trying to adopt this mindset with dating too and break away from the idea that appearance is almost just as important as everything else (50% appearance, 50% personality sort of thing.) Dating apps definitely make that a little challenging when you’re essentially just…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:03 PM
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Besides some of the other points mentioned, men also don’t have quite as much social support. Or they are least feel like they don’t. And I think this mentality erodes a sense of camaraderie among men and it makes me sad. And also why I am in SO much support of “bromances.” Men need each other and I hope we get to the point where they can feel completely comfortable opening up about these painful things. They’re probably less likely to talk about it because they somehow feel like the cheating ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:58 AM
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You know that’s not what they’re saying. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:52 AM
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I think you hit the nail on the head here. It is absolutely devastating for anyone regardless of gender, but I think for men they feel it on different levels. When I got cheated on, I never felt that my femininity was challenged or that my status among women was challenged. But it hurt me on a very personal level and opened up a lot of core wounds. I think men have to deal with more layers than we’re fully aware of yet. Something I hadn’t really grasped until now. Thanks for bringing that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:51 AM
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Eh, it’s not necessarily true. In most cases, probably. But some cheaters might be happy in the bedroom department but feel like they need more attention and just use other people to get that. That way they get the best of both worlds in their mind when they could just… break up with their partner and find someone who will give them both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:45 AM
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You’re being ridiculous and you know it. There is almost no scenario where this will happen. If there is a situation where a woman is in an isolated room with literally no escape and no other means of feeding the kid and she CHOOSES not to breast feed her baby and let it die, she is obviously messed up. This is not the same at all and making up ridiculous hypothetical scenarios to this degree is unproductive. If a woman decides to have a child and decides that she doesn’t want to feed it, that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:05 AM
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Username checks out. So married couples who don’t want to have a kid? People in relationships who aren’t ready to have a kid? Even randos probably use protection most of the time. Many women who have sex with strangers use protection most of the time, I.e. birth control AND condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:58 AM
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The point here is not forcing anyone to do anything. Don’t want a baby? Don’t have one. Don’t want an abortion? Don’t have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:53 AM
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Because software engineer shows more education and hard work than being a customer service associate, shows that they're thinking of the long-term and maximizing their potential. Being stuck in a retail job indicates "I'm fine doing the bare minimum." If they're in retail AND going to school, that's a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 07:55 PM
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I try not to do it. I don't really care if I get ghosted by someone I haven't seen for very long, but if it's someone that I actually cared about then I'd get a little upset. A simple text isn't hard and seems to be appropriate sooner rather than later. It helps stem the flow of questions like "Is she busy, or just not interested?" "Am I texting too much or too little?" "Did I say/do something wrong?" "Should I reach out to her to schedule another date?" I've overanalyzed situations to the point…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:57 PM
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It's going to hurt for a long time. This isn't about TRP/BP. Block him, get rid of your old text conversations or shove them in a place where you won't access them. Engage in some self-pity and grief for a while. Eventually the pain becomes numbness and you'll slowly start to pick yourself up. You have to live for you, and no one else. Do the things that make YOU happy! It sounds cliche, but look at this as an opportunity to do all the things you couldn't easily do in a relationship... Travel al…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:49 PM
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Nah, but I also haven't actually been a victim of some of the things that inspire fear in other women. I've never been stalked, assaulted, or sexually harassed by other men really. I did have an ex who was off his rocker and would call/email/text me non-stop and call me names even after I blocked him. I was kind of afraid that he'd snap and show up at my house or my work or my parents' house. So that fear was in the back of my head for a while. It hasn't stopped me from going to a guy's place by…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:52 PM
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Can you explain exactly what you mean by 'internalize' vs. 'externalize'? I have an idea but just want to make sure I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:23 PM
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1) The boyfriend asking the girlfriends parents permission for their daughters hand in marriage. I don't think it's really been much of a thing to ask for 'permission.' In more religious (maybe mainly southern) families you ask the parents for their 'blessing' but I don't think it's entirely the same. 2) The girlfriend taking the last name of their future husband to be when they get married. If my husband had an atrocious last name like Sharter or something, I think I'd prefer to keep my last na…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:21 PM
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It's nice to see a post for once that doesn't just devolve into immediate gender blaming. I totally agree with every point that the OP made in the original post. It's gotta be tough having to initiate and put yourself out there. Women sure as hell aren't going to do it. It's pretty funny, even on the /r/actuallesbians subreddit they admit themselves how much of an issue this is. I don't think I've ever considered a guy creepy for asking me out or trying to hit on me regardless of what they look …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:13 PM
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See, there is a little more to emotional maturity than just ‘talking about your feelings.’ There are times when to talk about them, and times where you shouldn’t. Knowing when it is appropriate and how to share your feelings is emotional maturity. I feel like I shouldn’t have to say this, but emotional maturity is not something everyone has, man or woman. It’s something you learn from others, mainly your parents, or through self-reflection or even therapy. There is no denying that men in western…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:32 AM
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Feminism blames men and patriarchy for everything evil that happens. A woman who rapes her lesbian lover does so because patriarchy. A woman who beats her husband is retaliating to the past sins of his patriarchal fathers and is lashing out at the patriarchal men of today. Did you actually get these from somewhere or did you just make them up? If so, can you provide sources? Actually curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:47 PM
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There were enough mothers who were proud that their son had sacrificed himself for the fatherland, Kaiser, Hitler, or against the infidels. To me this is just changing their perspective on something you can't control. You can't change the fact that your son died brutally in a shit filled trench somewhere... but you can make his death glorified by giving it a purpose. If given the choice, I don't think most mothers would send their own sons off to war, but they'd be quick to send their neighbor's…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:40 PM
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Yup, my ex. Stare at someone for too long? He would pout and throw a fit and stonewall me. If I ask him to commit 10 minutes of his day to help me clean? More pouting and yelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:37 PM
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See: Philadelphia when the Eagles win OR lose Please tell me that the majority of those riots are started by women upset that the Eagles lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:55 PM
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You'll have to elaborate what you mean by 'lash out publicly.' Making a scene is not handling something in a mature manner. Most people in general do not like to make a scene in public. Those are the ones who are actually emotionally unstable probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:53 PM
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We can reduce this down to an evolutionary standpoint by pointing out that women have almost always been the more social sex since the beginning of time. Men have their physical strength to protect themselves. Without this, women have to rely on social and emotional skills to keep them alive and foster goodwill between other members in their social circles. There have been several studies with conclusions that women read subtle facial expressions better than men as well. While men are willing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:19 PM
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petty, bitchy, whinny woman There is a difference between a 'petty, bitchy, whiny woman' than a woman who is emotionally stable, just as there is a difference between petty, bitchy, whiny men and emotionally stable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:13 PM
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Oh, well that’s definitely not what I’m into...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:18 AM
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Lol really? What comes to mind for you when you think STEM? And in your opinion what personality type are most people attracted to? I see a lot of people that say “extrovert” but really I just want someone who isn’t socially retarded that can hold a conversation with me. They don’t have to be “extroverts”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 12:01 AM
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Haha is there anything wrong with that? 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 11:44 PM
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Well, that’s definitely not what we’re seeing reflected here, but then again the PPD population isn’t necessarily reflective of the average population. If everyone came with their n count stamped on their head that would be a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 09:16 PM
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Nah. Example, some people love artsy creative types, I don’t. I love the nerdy STEM types. Hate gym bros and hate frat boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 08:56 PM
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Yeah, especially in this scenario where N count is 100+. If the N count were within normal limits it would be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 08:52 PM
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IDK I think it's pretty fun to argue with strangers on the internet whether you're happily married or single
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:45 PM
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This was me too. When I first met my last ex, I could not fathom being sexually attracted to him at all. He had a giant ridiculous mustache and did not dress that well. But once I got to know him suddenly he was hot as fuck. And now that we're broken up all I can think is "ew."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:43 PM
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Depends on how tall she is. I'm 5'1", lots of people are taller. A woman who's 5'7" may not find 5'11" as tall as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:41 PM
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Not anymore! They got rid of that section. I'm sure you could find a workaround.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:30 PM
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Yes. IMO I think it would be exhausting and draining to attempt to achieve that and you would likely have to lower your standards often and browse places you wouldn't otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:30 PM
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Everyone would pick the lower N count regardless of age, the end. People would probably still pick the lower N count even at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:27 PM
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A lot of the ones who answered 'virgin' seem to be a) virgins themselves or b) low N count. I don't think they're lying, I think it's just that they'd prefer someone with similar experience to themselves. It can be intimidating for someone with little experience to be with someone that has a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:26 PM
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Because then it would no longer be monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 10:05 PM
4

Monogamy is just expected in a relationship. If they’re in an open relationship then have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 09:53 PM
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If it was purely for a ONS, then that would be a “maybe” at best for me. I don’t want to date a guy who’s doing retail at Old Navy. To me it points to A) lack of ambition B) lack of education and I want someone with both. Charisma and intelligence turn me on a lot more than a hard body.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 09:52 PM
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Putting the tip in for 10 seconds sounds like a waste of time for everyone lol. Are you really being devil’s advocate here or are you trying to get us to endorse you cheating? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 09:45 PM
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Ah you’re right, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 09:43 PM
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Because for some people sex can’t just be sex. If you let your spouse have sex with other men or women, you run the risk of A) them getting attached emotionally and leaving you B) possibly getting pregnant or getting an STD (condoms can break). Not to mention monogamy has been baked into our society for so long that we’re just socialized to not like it most of the time. It’s just taboo. I don’t think it has anything to do with insecurity. The insecurity aspect is more relevant when a man is jeal…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 09:23 PM
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Yeah, I find this really hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 04:31 PM
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It rings true for people who have been in one too many unhealthy relationships and it goes both ways. Your reality is not someone else's reality. If their life has been filled by nothing but shitty men/women, that's how they're going to view the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 04:07 PM
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Same. If anything, it just shows that the Bumble team is full of young, liberal feminists. It does not reflect the actual desires of what women want, especially if you go state by state. In TX you're going to see lots of things about tacos, fishing, hunting, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 04:03 PM
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Physically, I like men who are taller than me (not difficult, I'm 5'1") and has some meat on them. Don't really like tall and lanky as much. Doesn't have to be super ripped or anything, but I'd like them to be able to do some physical activity with me without struggling. LOVE me a well-kept beard. Body hair is a plus. Hopefully cares about their appearance. Personality: Someone open minded, at least as intelligent as I am if not more. Can take a crude joke and also isn't afraid to roast me a bit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:36 PM
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Please tell me that this isn't a category of porn somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 10:18 PM
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I don't know enough legalese to make a sound argument, but I definitely think that something like this needs to be adopted on a social level. It's ridiculous that Bill Cosby, Harvey Weinstein, Aziz Ansari, and Louis CK are all roughly in the same category when they so very clearly are not, on a moral level. I hope we get to that point soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:08 PM
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Because it feels like it's going to be a waste of time and I don't think I'll succeed :/ So I'm taking baby steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:33 PM
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hey, we have the same strategy!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:33 PM
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Lol who knows, maybe I'm just bad at reading between the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 10:33 PM
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It's the top match preference for men. Guys use the phrase all the time too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 10:27 PM
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Is it though? I feel like it's just a catch-all phrase that literally everyone uses to show how 'fun' they are. I see it in both genders all the time and honestly I've never gotten sexual vibes from it because it's usually paired with a smorgasbord of outdoorsy emojis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 10:26 PM
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I just don’t really like the way it looks, tbh. It brings me back to middle school/high school. If it’s something you wear every now and then that’s fine, but if that’s what you exclusively wear then that’s a different matter. Excessive tattoos partially because my parents hate them and so it sort of rubbed off on me even though it’s kind of irrational. To me a bunch of tattoos has no rhyme or reason and it looks a bit grungy. One or two is fine. Even a bigger sleeve is fine. Just a personal pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 02:44 AM
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See, it's funny because I LOVE STEM bros and hate artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 10:21 PM
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I'm a woman. Not an exhaustive list here. Religious Far right OR far left Fat Hobbies that are limited to 'Netflix, hanging out with friends' Has a place that's a pig sty Doesn't drink Smoking Hard drug use Band tees/skate shoes/trucker hats Excessive tattoos Over 25 miles away Vegan/vegetarian Doesn't do oral sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 10:21 PM
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Even then though, sometimes a baseless accusation alone can be enough to get you fired or have your reputation ruined socially. Just look at the Chipotle manager that got fired for being 'racist' with very little evidence against her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 04:09 AM
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You forgot: Looking for a partner in crime Just a Pam/Jim looking for their Jim/Pam Adventures World Traveler I only swiped right for your dog Proud dog dad/mom If you ______ swipe left
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 04:04 AM
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Heheh, this was definitely from a very idealistic point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 03:15 AM
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I was high N count (for my age) before I met my last ex. I never had the urge to cheat on him and we dated for 3 years before he turned out to be a bit crazy. I enjoy sex, and if I can get good sex consistently from the same person, that is WAY preferable to riding the CC. Double bonus if we actually have an emotional connection. I definitely know I've got my own issues (ie depression), but loyalty is very important to me. If I'm in a committed relationship, nothing but a break up is going to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 01:47 AM
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Gym just to be toned, but strong enough to carry those thicc bitches to bed where I can make them go 'man, I feel like a woman.' If I could grow facial hair, I'd have a neat beard or at least some scruff. Hair would be kept short on the sides and long-ish on top, but not like those douchey troll doll styles that kids like these days. Clothing-wise, I'd do the easy jeans+nice button down look. Short sleeve button down or sleeves rolled up so women could swoon over my toned forearms and pretend it…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 01:31 AM
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Thanks homie, it sucks out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 10:12 PM
1

I mean "the way women acted before this crazy 3rd wave feminism started". I don't necessarily mean a stay at home wife. Can you explain what you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 10:11 PM
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I'm in my mid 20's and I'm already tired of it. But in this day and age people appear to be more and more commitment-phobic due to factors including a) developing a stable career/financial situation later in life b) the luxury/illusion of choice via dating apps. Wouldn't it be better to marry a girl that comes from a different culture that's unaffected by the feminist lunacy and live the traditional, sane lifestyle? So you mean one where she stays at home and cooks your dinner after a long day a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 09:58 PM
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To be fair, I think in a lot of settings (mainly in the workplace) men also don't have to go as far as "nagging and complaining" because their opinions are valued much more than a woman's. They never have to resort to 'nagging' because it's easier for them to get their way. Even in a female dominated workplace, women will value a man's opinion over a woman's a good chunk of the time. Socially, outside of the workplace is a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 08:45 PM
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^ This. I think this goes across the board for a lot of the 'benefits' women derive in society. Above-average - attractive women are the ones who mainly benefit. If you're ugly, you may as well be invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 08:41 PM
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Some of the points you've made are true, but yelling and complaining will only get you so far, and even then no one will respect you for it. They may help you because they feel obligated, but everyone knows that you did nothing of value to get where you are. It's a shallow existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 07:28 PM
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Okay, but then how do you know that they don't? OP seems to think that women only love men specifically because they are 'providers.' So then how do you go about proving that women in an equal earning relationship don't love their SOs because they're not the sole provider of the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:27 PM
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Your post is about love, not attraction. And in your OP you say What she loves from the man is his ability to give a good live for the people she really loves: her kids. Female "love" is predicated upon the male continuously proving himself. Passing the shit tests. Proving his manhood. Being a provider. Giving her the life she dreams of. If a man succeeds in these areas, she will enter the craved female submissive state of admiration for him, what we would see as "love". Again, how do you explai…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 03:40 PM
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How do you account for couples who have no children? Couples where both parties work? But to momentarily attach yourself to a person on the condition that they provide benefits to your life.... this is not "love" in any sense of the word. This is a bit silly. Of course you fall in love with someone who brings positivity to your life. Men wouldn't fall in love with someone who won't fuck them or someone who doesn't look pretty for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 07:36 AM
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Lol this is so extra
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 05:09 PM
2

Came here to say this as well. The internet has vastly overblown the #metoo movement and has created a narrative where women are going to shout harassment or rape to any guy that touches her without consent. It's just not true. Most women are sane, normal people who can tell the difference. It's the same as the fear that the media tries to inspire in women that men on dating apps are all serial killer rapists. 90-99% of men (and people) in the world are normal, nice people who have no intent of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 04:47 PM
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Men commit way more crimes. Cmon now. It’s almost a biological fact that women aren’t as violent or as likely to take risks. Same reason women don’t have gambling issues nearly at the same rate men do. Could attribute a lot of this to testosterone. Also likely a reason you don’t see as many women in high-risk high-reward careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 04:03 AM
2

This woman finally gives an honest example of how easy it is for women to have desirable sex with desirable partners essentially anytime they want and how lopsided the dating world is in their favor. Nope, that's the kicker. We could go out and fuck any rando that we want, but for every 50 guys out there that want to bang you, there are maybe 10 attractive men. Then out of those, maybe 1-3 that are good in bed. But then the chances of a woman hooking up with those 3 men is even smaller when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 04:33 PM
1

It's totally possible. Post in a local r4r pretending to be a woman looking to have sex and watch your inbox explode. Depending on where you live, you might get over 40 messages within a day. Then with Tinder and OLD nowadays, it's even easier. But of course, that's assuming that OP is at least an average woman and depending on how selective she is of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 04:26 PM
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I just wanted to chime in on this. I was like that too, and still am to an extent. I was a shy introvert who had no idea how to talk to people or get to know them. It took some work and practice. I read books, like How to Win Friends and Influence People (I know people talk about this one constantly.) I read countless forums, subreddits, etc. Now I’m a lot better at talking to people and making friends. I think I’m actually pretty warm and approachable in the right setting (aka not at work.) Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 02:50 PM
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Possibility of getting laid and they like to feel like a provider because that's what society says men are supposed to be. Even if they're not getting anything out of it, they can at least feel like they're doing some kind of charitable good to make them feel like they're a little closer to what a man is supposed to look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 04:45 PM
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Sorry, I was talking from my point of view. I have a pretty high sex drive. And I don’t think that’s as big a factor in why women might be gatekeepers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 07:24 PM
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(1) Men are overall bad at pleasing women sexually or don’t care whether women orgasm, so women are less motivated to seek out sex. I disagree with this claim. Most of the men I've been with have been pretty generous lovers and eager to please. A few haven't, but they were in the minority. I don't have a preconceived notion that men are selfish in bed since my experience has mostly been the opposite. But a guy's personality beforehand is pretty telling of how they'll be in bed. If a guy isn't in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 03:33 PM
1

How do you feel about things like sex on the first date? Do you think your sex education affected your attitudes towards it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 03:20 PM
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Yeah, attitudes between the US and Europe seem really different. Interested to hear about how it ties into your sex education. Does your sex education emphasize abstinence and no sex until marriage a billion times?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:20 PM
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Can you link the post? Curious to take a look. It's always been ridiculous to me how some women can be so blind to how hypocritical it is to ridicule and guilt someone for their fears like that. They're afraid that if we expose those fears, people might take a closer look at the ugly side of how men are perceived by women and society as a whole. So they lash out to silence them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 09:56 PM
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And if she did sleep with you on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 08:53 PM
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Agree with this. Like don't go way out of your way to find love. If you're not into clubs, don't force yourself to go to a club because you might find a woman there. But if you happen to enjoy cycling/public speaking/whatever and there happens to be a person there that you're interested in, then seize the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 03:17 PM
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Yeah, I think I'm pretty decent company, especially after a few (or more drinks). Definitely pretty goofy and don't take things too seriously. I can be kind of gross/weird sometimes (not always on purpose) but usually people think it's funny. I'm the butt of the joke a lot of the time, but I always know it's in good fun so I don't mind laughing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 09:40 PM
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Ugh, not where I live... The city I'm in is full of hobbits, I guess. But I will say that being able to buy kids shoes is a definite money saver.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 03:54 PM
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I like how men can be more outspoken and often less worried about what people think of them (at least my male friends). A lot of them are more spontaneous and easy going. I always know that they'd do anything to protect me and care for me. My lady friends are so reliable and ready to be there for you. I can open up to them emotionally and they're so goofy and fun to be with. All very intelligent and open to deeper conversations without tearing at each others' throats.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 03:36 PM
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Oh, uhhhh... I also have foot fungus!!! That should ward 'em off. The ones who make it through after that are a strange type of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 03:05 PM
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I especially like the ones that don’t wear a size 7 shoe Size 6 here. Am I the superior race now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:52 PM
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Didn't mean he was a virgin. But it does sound like he's had some shitty women in his life who likely used and abused him. I think it's the same with any woman who's a misandrist. They've likely had a run of asshole men in their life, maybe been victims of sexual assault, so therefore their reality is that men are assholes even if it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 01:40 PM
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I dunno, honestly you seem pretty bitter. Saying things like 'women not caring about men,' 'women not working' and saying women treat men badly all sound pretty indicative of the women you've interacted with in your life. It makes me sad that people feel that way. You're making these broad statements like "women don't appreciate the things men do," etc. etc. What they expect out of a man is to have some kind of a slave, a trained puppy dog, whipped and scolded into submission. As a reward, she m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 12:29 AM
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Very well put!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 09:48 PM
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This post is ridiculous. Seriously, come with some data before you make these claims. I understand that this is probably how you feel, likely based on an unsuccessful dating history. While I agree that women in westernized countries have it great, this is definitely not the case in other countries where women are not valued at all. In most Middle Eastern countries, India, etc. women are told they shouldn't be alone at night without a male family member escorting them. Won't even mention rape bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 09:10 PM
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