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Thanks, obi I am always looking out for yellow and red flags, and no red only scarce yellow and I call him out immediately he has stopped and apologized. After my first marriage and the mass decline in his behavior I don't trust anyone to stay as they seem so unfortunately I will be vetoing my partner for ever but I think they do this to us anyways. so fair is fair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:39 PM
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My boyfriend will send me memes regarding "all men are trash" and he recognizes the shit that has happened to not just me but his sister, and the women around him. He has called people out and refuses to be friends with "trash people" as he calls them because we don't need that in our lives. If I don't feel safe about something he will be there while at the same time believing in me in levels I have never had a partner believe in me before. It's wonderful when you find someone that understands t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:29 PM
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Dude you gotta reopen the convo with your gf and bring up your concerns regarding money and personal growth and timing. You both have to come to a conclusion, our opinions are worth nothing since we are not in your relationship. But think about timing regarding job hunting, experience gaining, moving, personal growth, emotional growth, money making, and this would be for both of you separately and then as a couple. Everyone's life is different so you two gotta figure out where you are, where you…
/r/askFDS23/07/20 11:21 AM
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i dont mind the cutesy memes to "have a godly thursday" that is no skin off my back, i just cant stand people telling me to not be an asshole when they're just so blatantly projecting. its sad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:44 PM
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tbh i havent talked to her in about 20 yrs this is a group chat of family that has moved away so long ago and now want to catch up *it was a Covid thing Funny enough i was told to not be an asshole and accept my religious family members and to engage not lurk....i have been engaging and talking to family....the person that scolded me before even inviting me was my mother and she has been the one that has shat on one of our cousins for sending "jesus loves you" and "i pray for you" memes ive been…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:29 PM
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yeah lately ive been having tons of flashbacks to different people and different things I have done. Trying hard to not bum myself out. I realized, I hated myself and so I let men take advantage of me and "show me" that I wasnt worth shit. Now I tell 'em yeah I am a dope bitch YOU meet me at my level and if you cant keep up GET THE FUCK OUTTA MY WAY. It has worked my BF understand it and has been leveling up his own life and himself and it's great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:51 PM
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not gonna lie, that one hit close to home....oof...my pickme past life did some real sad things. NEVER AGAIN!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:36 PM
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My BF just brought me a whole bottle of Ibuprofen, unrequested since I was going to go and buy some, because I ran out and my allergies are really doing me in. It's nice to be taken care of, my LVM-ex once told me to call in sick to work, i was dead ass sick, but then asked me what was for diner.....well fuck! The contrast is incredible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:34 PM
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We have the discord
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:45 PM
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Thank you i didnt even know that was a sub....i guess there IS a sub for everything...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:00 PM
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Liars, 2faced, hipocrites,will do the most abusive shit in bed and then wine to you when their ex starts doing pole dancing for fun. 0/10 would not do again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:10 PM
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I wasted 7 months with someone that wouldnt go exclusive with me after it. We went hiking 2.5 hours up a mountain. And still had a 4 hour drive home. Called it off when I got out of the car. Did not want to angry cry the whole drive home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:48 PM
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So he gonna die right???? That's the deal???? He gon die!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:20 PM
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my grandmother told my mom, aunt and cousins to not tell my grandfather about HER BROTHER who touched them because grandpa was a cop and he openly bragged about beating pedos possibly to death (This is in South America) in the 70s/80s those women grew up with mad issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:53 PM
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WHAT THE FLYING SQUIRREL VOLDEMORT GODZILLA FUCK IS GOING ON IN GERMANY???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:32 PM
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i am 31 and my bf just turned 26 he thinks im super sexy and cool AF so yeah we good!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:19 PM
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OMG OMG OMG.....my ex had a set of friends and the first time they came over i made dinner, i love hosting dinner parties since im also a chef it's a total flex for me anyways i served everyone their dinner and as im giving everyone their plates the WIFE STARTS TO CUT THE HUSBAND'S MEAT......AS IF HE WERE A FUCKING TODDLER.....i asked her WTF she was doing and she said "im cutting his meat" and im like YEA WHY? and she was like if i dont do it he wont....and i flat out said BITCH HE'S GOT ARMS A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:59 PM
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I am proud of you knowing the wrong that was happening. I am proud you know your worth at 19 and hope and wish the best for you. You are clearly starting out AMAZINGLY in a life that will be filled with success because you have already stated that you are a HVW!!!! keep at it!!! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:49 PM
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what a fucking creep!!! sorry he did that!!! I hope he has been called out by students to parents or the faculty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:30 PM
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I legit did not read that message when i read the book. In fact she constantly states to never be anything you dont want for others (people pleaser) she always encourages independence and female strength. I am NOT saying dont call a woman out for doing something wrong, I'm saying dont look at Rachel, who has tried to teach women through her own mistakes to be better than her and kick her when she is down during a divorce. No woman should be looked at and be told "i ToLd YoU sO" when they divorce…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:47 PM
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The one on this very subreddit breaking her down because of her divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:10 PM
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But then theres that Rachel Hollis post. Oof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:40 PM
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Yeah sorry. You gotta DTMFA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:25 PM
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Yes! Let's call out the strange behaviours or MLM style scam like culture not tear down women that are already down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:18 PM
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Ok I do a gree with the creepy MLM vibes but that has nothing to do with their marriage or their divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:15 PM
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Its not so much about the book. It's the tearing down of a woman that has has a good message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:13 PM
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Fair point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:00 PM
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No, she didnt give him a chance till he prove to her and she felt 100% secure in him changing because she had moved on when she dumped him. This isnt give anyone a second chance people are gonna have to work for you no matter what and if they dont GURL HIT THAT BLOCK BUTTON and even she states it herself on her book she doesnt recomend people read too much into her story just follow the lessons she has learned in her life. Learn from her mistakes!! because 99% of relationships that start off as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:12 AM
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She dumped him and he stepped his level up (in the book). He treated her like crap and she states that we shouldn't accept that behavior and she dumped his ass she put her boundaries and (again in the book) she says he had to work back to gain her trust so maybe let's not fully shit on a woman that we have upheld before just because she has fallen from grace. She's divorcing NOT defending a degenerate husband. Lets be a bit respectful and considerate of the pain she could be going through Divorc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:09 AM
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there were days when he wouldnt want me to come over to his house because of A,B, or C at the last minute. 6 months after marriage i found out that it was because his other gf was there and he hadnt planned on it. i was 24 and VERY fucking naive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:44 PM
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i think you uploaded the wrong photo. this is just a red square!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:33 PM
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i thought that was Fuckboi lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 01:30 AM
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My Ex-Husband (I know) bragged....i repeat BRAGGED about how he took his ex to Europe and on the Paris leg "she got annoying and controlling causing them to argue which is when he THREW the engagement ring at her" 24 yr old paperbackbaker NOOO RUNAWAY!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 10:08 PM
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my friend told me that there is a post somewhere that is like an exel sheet of green, orange and red flags that someone made. Why hasnt that been pinned and turned into a living doc>? also I do have a proper question, do HVM/W only have all green flags or can sometimes they have orange or red flags? if so what is acceptable? I believe self-reflection and self-responsibility would eventually help them see their own red flags but how much is acceptable till then? thanx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:34 PM
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Listen AND take action on what was communicated. I can have someone parrot shit i said when I tried yet nothing has been done. Oof been there, survived that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:00 PM
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why even bother!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:57 PM
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oh no. my now bf is 25 and i am 31 we've been friends for a whole year before he asked me out. i never really thought about the age dif and it clearly doesnt bother him. I have def had more life experience in every aspect but while I was living, travelling, getting married and divorced while working 2 jobs he was getting a PhD in physics so this would explain why he has been so sheltered. He's prety attentive and when I tell him something is wrong he asks questions until he understands and tries…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:03 AM
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