papretigre Archive

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1	Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life? I don't think so, no. I didn't lose it until I was 24. My sex life has been exactly what I wanted - something stable with somebody I find hot but who isn't much more attractive than me, where I don't have to worry at all about STDs or infidelity in the long term, etc. She's a very loving person, we're attracted to each other and like each other as people, we're exploring kink together, and life is great. Before her, I used to worry obsessively. But I was also addicted to porn, which happened to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/17 10:08 PM
1	What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive. Quitting porn and masturbation helped my marriage tremendously. I was never hardcore into NoFap or NoPorn, and don't even follow the subs, but for the last 10 years was mildly convinced (through my own experimentation) that NoFap had merit (to some extent; let's call it "LessFap"), but I was never on board with NoPorn because I just loved porn so much. Recently I read an article on porn use that basically described porn as "building a harem inside your own mind". This changed my perspective on i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/17 03:59 AM