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i feel like you're trying to ruin people's lives. Imagine not dating an attractive woman who has checked your specs, likes your personality and who you are as a person, and rejecting her because she's the only person to ask you out and you got your quota of rejections higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:43 AM
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they just don’t take each other or themselves that seriously. Married people tend to like each other. It’s bants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:12 PM
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that’s actually really nice you’re assuming that I just assume you’re a virgin because I was assuming the majority of this community was autistic with severe struggles when it comes to talking to anyone, much less women because every time I tried bringing up going outside and making friends the guys act like that’s impossible. It’s the only reason i back down with people arguing that there’s something wrong with their personality when it comes to dating regular women. I don’t know if he means he…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:58 PM
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help is a pretty vague subject. It'll help and hurt them. It's probably a bit of a process and it'll take literal generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:37 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:49 AM
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I’m sorry, but I think if you’d have even heard of korea since the korean war this would be a dumb as hell statement. Every manga enjoyer has picked up a korean manwha and been shocked by an abusive boyfriend being used for laughs. I don’t even know how misinformation like this spreads outside of north korea or countries where women have less life options than any developed nation. You need to stop taking north korean propaganda seriously just because it disses feminism. They’re going through a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:29 PM
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There’s no way they can all be that mediocre, but the problem is that all their photos are them in front of their bathroom mirror dressed like they’re going to a job interview at taco bell with one of two haircuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 03:19 AM
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Personality and face are two things we can’t select for in dating apps, but I think they’re the most important for basically everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:15 PM
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people get so butthurt when a basketball player dates a golddigger, when the ability to date gold diggers is obviously half the reason they became a basketball player in the first place. They want to date a bunch of goldiggers even if they have to pay. They’re like boohoo, look at her instagram, she’s so shameless. And then they’re shocked that the same basketball player is happily engaged with another golddiger with another gold digging course on instagram before the ink on the divorce papers d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:24 PM
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if you’re going to make someone mad it’s safer to just mark it as a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:04 PM
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I think that’s what it is. A woman who drives a lexus won’t date him because he’s her garbage collector or mcdonalds cashier with prison tattoos and in his head he’s like “she’d date me if I was lebron james.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:02 PM
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as an older person i don’t know why a 45 yo man would want to play minecraft with his girlfriend. There has to be some sort of maturity problem where he’s been stunted. Ppl under 30 think of good and evil in a very binary way as long as the vibe is right and I can see an older person abusing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:42 PM
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you’re blackpill so people think you’re depressed and doing something you enjoy every day can help fix that depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:08 PM
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…so hobbies are only useful if there are women in that hobby. Art, writing, and even camping and anime. Also, if everyone bullies you that isn’t good because you are in high school and probably pretty transparent if people unrelated to the hobby know about your hobby because you expect it will make you look cool. Going to an anime convention with your boyfriend on the weekend sounds nice to weeb girls. Larping naruto with your boyfriend and his friends when you should be eating lunch does not. G…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:05 PM
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there’s like 3000 guys who look almost exactly the same on tinder. The faces blend together. We have to select /something/. Height is easy. body type is easy. Tinder is irrevocably bad for women. We don’t complain about it though and we just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:50 PM
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it’s a really vague topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:03 PM
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that’s not true, I do not defend jk rowling. It’s just that reddit is overall way too aggressive to literally everyone. A toddler could kick a can at a soldier, and nothimg happens and redditors would be all “I wish the soldier shot that brat.” Someone, somewhere is so into that juice though that x gender can do wrong. The manosphere is rude to women in specific ways 1.) complaining about and rating their bodies when they didn’t ask, 2.) getting mad at cleavage. 3.) not recognizing when other me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:14 PM
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idk, men need to avoid rejection and just not approach women if she seems too hot, otherwise she’ll get pestered.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:24 AM
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I’d say, get a gf some time in middle school to high school once he reaches a little sexual maturity or depending on his hierarchy in his boy-girl friendship group. This is childhood though. Later on he becomes a bonefied sex-enjoyer and goes from girlfriend to girlfriend, developing as a partner along with his girlfriends. Hopefully. He continues to meet women, they become a little more direct, and he gets better at reading their vibes to him, and finds an adult woman with whom he enjoys life m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:17 AM
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yeah, well we’re half the population. There’s no way there’d be a patriarchy if women just had consistency. Men who uphold the patriarchy have mothers that have influenced them and everything. With women there are some real reasons not to send them to war. Such as, if a war breaks out and you’re married, both parents don’t end up going to war. The more “married at 18” a society is, the more fair it is not to risk orphaning a bunch of kids. Sometimes children need to literally leave the country a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:52 AM
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When it comes to “picking a pill” I literally mean when forced to pick a flair to leave a comment in this subreddit. I think it’s funny since I’m not even in any dating subreddits and I only come across redpill when it’s a part of a cryptocurrency pump and dump(so i’m biased against it). I almost picked greenpill because I like plants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:38 AM
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i think personality is really important, but not in a black and white way. There are people who have hooking up to do cannibalism. Everyone has a different definition of a good personality for a partner because you need to be alone with the person you’re in the relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:28 PM
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my problem with the redpill is that I think the guys have hired actresses, or at least they’re in on the bit. Every time they describe a hook up it’s with an escort, except maybe andrew tate, but yeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:13 AM
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yeah, there are variables, my problem with blackpill is that the people who have it may just be depressed. Vegetables can’t find love. There’s a matter of priorities at some point. There are people who are finding love with terminal illnesses. 9/10 the person complaining about being physically inferior thinks they’re too short to ever get married at 5’11 and people would call them out irl so they go online.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:02 AM
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ooh, I see blue more like two people growing together. Yeah, the woman is working, but the man is also doing his thing because he wants to be strong and successful by his own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:52 PM
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I agree with women, but with men I think it’s hard to be redpill too. Being rich isn’t always possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:44 PM
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naw, i think you’re crazy for getting triggered over the word “empathy”. Try thinking of the empathy in eq. It’s pretty much like iq, part nature and part nurture. sure, you can learn it to some level over time, but other people are autistic or w/e and there’s a natural human variation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:33 PM
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it’s the rejection of your relationship with that person and probably nothing else. Relationships are very vulnerable and a lot of work, especially with someone with low self esteem. It’s like if a random person off the street asked if they could stay in your house. It feels the same being a woman getting approached by a strange man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:59 PM
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He said it was 30 women, which is a lot of women to get to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:48 PM
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I would tell him ti try a different strategy and only ask out the women who are attracted to him. Imo in the most successful relationships I’ve seem these days the guy knew if the woman will to date them before they ask her out. Some guys are obtuse but there are other guys have eyes on the back of their neck to tell if a girl looks at them twice. Men in the dating market are competing with mind readers basically. Empathy is a hell of a skill. Even then the guy you speak if needs to ignore any a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:39 PM
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it could just be my personal experience. At first I assumed the purple pillers would be chill, but I feel like all the purple pillers in this subreddit have a little redpill ideology, but it’s not be the same. It’s kind of hidden because the mods ban any talk about “looks.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:17 AM
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it doesnt? the whole thing was about redpill men except the first sentence. Being purple pill is kind of trendy and edgelords seem to gravitate towards it. The whole “I am the only one who knows the truth” blokes who are just literally depressed and ranting about how they will never be a chad. I was surprised to see so many “purple pill” guys use blackpill rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:06 PM
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dating, aside, I think the internet is better at showing opinion than in person. I was able to vibe check the last two national elections just by listening to what randoms were screaming in non-political spaces. I think the problem nowadays is that a lot of websites have started to segregate comments by gender. One gender sees their gender’s reaction and it validates their bias. I think facebook does it, and i know tiktok does it. A woman noticed that her comments under a tiktok video were diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:29 PM
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actually i like the purple pillers less than the rp men on this subreddit. Rp men (here on this subreddit) are like “i’m going to get a job, and then I’m going to get married, have kids and take care of them.” That’s a personal choice and as a woman i want to do the same(get a job, a husband, make kids, take care of everyone) . It’s the rp grifters who are all like “women shouldn’t have the right to vote” and “men can cheat and women shouldn’t be having sex in the first place” and “a woman’s sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:18 PM
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it depends. About 99% of the discourse by obvious women online is either 12 yo girls or are onlyfans girls. A lot of women are not obvious and people literally assume they are men because of the androcentricism of society and saying otherwise can lead to backlash by sexist men. Like I will say my piece anyway, but if people find out I’m a woman on r/gaming I’ll get auto-downvoted. Oh, and you’re kind of right and we’re kind of looking at men who don’t know women and women who don’t know men. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:53 PM
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so I kind of believe in jung’s anima/animus theory where men go through evolutions on their idea of womanhood. They slowly discover new layers of womenhood and rp have gone slightly further than seeing women as mothers and see them as sexual beings too, but they haven’t come around to seeing them as anything more and they’re confused when women do anything out of his idea of womanhood. It’s not exactly hard to see an adult woman working a full-time job who pays bills and yet somehow there are me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:36 AM
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i just assume that’s an accident
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:34 PM
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i think he's talking about catcallers but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:37 PM
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i'm encouraging men to get social groups where they naturally meet woman who eventually form an emotional and social bond with them. No more, no less. Clearly a ton of men just don't have the mental strength to cold approach women cold turkey because they go crazy when they're rejected and social groups just seems like the best solution. Imo the other forms of trying to date other than social groups are bad too. Asking out a woman who spoke to you once because she's your waitress or is otherwise…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:21 PM
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you can't decide how the opposite gender chose to express themselves. it's just a part of feminity. interests in celebrity lives is as woven into gender as much as sports is for masculinity. The moment google finds out you are a woman you automaticlly find out a ton about celebrities whether or not you want to. It's literally the most normie hobby that a woman can have to watch the kardashians and follow taylor swift on instagram. Girls, like 13 girls, have always bonded over an intrest in music…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:35 PM
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tbh a lot of people are overdoing it, but the whole celebrity worship thing is kind of on you. Men can't be "men have no standards" and then dislike everyone who watches the kardashians or is into horoscopes and crystals. I don't really like any of that stuff, but if you want to get along with women you have to be able to listen to it once a month. Men will do that with other men by keeping up with sports solely because they know it's going to come up in casual talk and so you're should probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:15 PM
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So, imo, it's mostly men who go around calling themselves unfuckable. I think. It's 3 am. Also, let's get some things clear about human psychology narcicism is complicated and a lot of the hardcore incels are narcisists. Narcicists are just selfish, for better or worse, and entitled. Narcicism is also a required symptom of a whole cluster of personality disorders. Any narcicist won't put as much emotional labor into the relationship as you put into it, but some are just really good at lieing whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:45 AM
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i don't think this is a good example. This is at most a cyberbullying case and they're not even calling him racist, ableist, and homophobic. He'd get rights right after the victims of minecraft youtuber stans on twitter. The only thing he's losing is other girls to date. In america, you can say whatever you want as long as it's honest. False rape allegations are a completely different thing and just buckets worse than the guy who would maybe have made on 3 terrible dates before he has to change …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:01 PM
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not unless you're a hairdresser, no. At best, she thinks you're a dumbass. Even if she accepts your opinion and goes out with you, she'll constantly be comparing herself women with hair you like and you won't be able to talk to girls with that hairstyle anymore for no reason. She'll even tell her friends, look "this guy likes side parts." If she actually has nice hair because she puts a lot of effort into it and you compliment the wrong hairstyle you're basically cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:42 PM
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It's exciting, it's a project, you yell and he yells back so you can always be the sane one in the relationship. It's also great if you want to be co-dependent and feel needed. A mentally stable guy also doesn't say he loves you in the second date either. The definition of sane changes from person to person though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:06 AM
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settling is complicated, it generally happens before they start dating. In the modern world people settle the less relevant icks they have like wearing a hat in the winter. "Good dick and mentally stable unlike my ex" are still there so settled men can console themselves with that knowledge. Also, women who settle think it's a hassle to start dating again, so as long as he's a not a nuisance he's safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:51 AM
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the only correlation I’m noticing between my partners is height. If a 5’3 guy asks me out I’m like “hell no” in my head even though I used to be fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:12 PM
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yeah, I’m thinking it’s trauma. I heard a psychiatrist say that any negative experience you remember from your childhood is trauma since you forget basically everything else. Tbh he was shorter than me, and i’m 5’1 now so he was at most 4’8 and probably not mature enough for a relationship. I’m just guessing though. Out of curiosity when was your first serious crush?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:09 PM
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yes, i was that effected because I was 10 and because my self esteem was insane since it was from princess movies and I was endlessly optimistic. You know how it is. you’re 10 and you think you’ll naturally grow into The Rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:13 PM
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i’ve never been rejected by a tall guy. Ooh, but i did ask out a pre-transition trans woman around that time who said I was too young, which felt fair. the difference is still maturity more than height. The height is just a side-effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:51 PM
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so the problem with nice guys is that they seem like they're being nice because they want something from you. Also, as a woman we're socialized around popular girls who are nice, but the moment you don't recipricoate well enough they get mean and start talking behind your back. Basically, when you act to nice and smiley you get girls to get on their good side. it's pretty normal though, people tend to have the same expectations for others as they have for themselves. They perceive rudeness in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:07 PM
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i think the male suicide rate is high enough. why bother. plus the redpill guys will accidentally get a couple woman pregnant anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:13 PM
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we talking personally, probably things like Shortbus if you want us to have a porn addiction and women actually spending money on porn. If you haven't heard about it, it's an indie movies with good acting with a lot of short sex scenes in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:10 PM
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yeah, but only if your wife worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:22 AM
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It depends on the celebrity. If we're talking Justin Beiber tierthen a lot. If we're talking an average celebrity not known for having giant female audience like Robert downey Junior, then it depends, because he could easily get a date with clout, but he couldn't easily sleep with her unless she's his one superfan. If we're talking Gary Busy or any celebrity known for looking funny, then, it's probably harder. All of these people have a chance though. the average semi-attractive woman is somewhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:04 AM
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my anecdotal experience of the only ex-lesbian I know is just as valid as other people’s imagination. But also, the reason I’m bluepill is because I disagree with almost every single redpill point. I’m a woman, and I think the basics of redpill boil down to “Men’s feelings don’t exist and they should be constantly giving me money” and that’s a crazy outlook to have as an educated woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:57 PM
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Generally, women understand that different generations are different. It's more of an observation than a judgement. At least with me, because i'm first generation american. It's just not very useful for the men around me to be able to climb trees and snipe bitches like in the old country. It's better to just know Java or something in my current society. I had this ex, he was terrible. he was jealous of my dad, who was nothing but nice to him, and jesus, because i'm christian even though he's ath…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:03 PM
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It's because 80% of the things men complain about are things that they like, and if you change yourself to appeal to all men you will automatically be attractive to no men. men say they like things basically ironically or because they're obnoxious. A lot of men say they like "natural" women. Pearl wears no makeup, which a lot of men say they like, but on the internet it looks weird when women don't have any lip fillers, much less if they're a red head with light eyelashes and a pink face. Men al…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:30 PM
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My "lesbian" friend's boyfriend after deciding to give up being a lesbian wasn't as attractive as her last boyfriend that made her swear of men. He was kind of overweight and generic looking. Now, if you mean attractive in a mind body and soul way, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:05 PM
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They're both good, and as much as I'll fantasize about #1, #2 will probably get along with me better. I'll call #1 a "moe gap" and he'll hate me. Herbivore men tend to be very jealous of me and see me as a "bad woman" because they're kind of dumb. A giant black flag of mine is not supporting my financial growth. If a partner isn't supportive of me getting a promotion because it makes him feel inferior I'm leaving him. #2 has alot of what ifs too, because there's a lot of potential icks that come…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:41 PM
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he probably has strong enough empathy that it doesn't upset the ultra-feminists. He's just out here getting notarized contracts for consent, that or he has feminine energy. I've heard of lesbians going out with trans women. The third option that a friend of mine from high school experienced going from bisexual to lesbian back to bisexual was because she was very passive, and was taken advantage of by a psychopathic boyfriend and when they broke up she swore off men forever. It lasted 1 year unti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:29 PM
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This is one of those "are you just autistic?" posts from this subreddit because your reality may be perfectly explained through autism. Maybe you're just out of touch with people's emotions. Maybe no one has ever liked you because you're average, in which case she would have to get to know you better to even be into you. I do not know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:32 AM
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it depends on how you feel about imperialism I guess. passport bro #1: andrew tate who goes overseas to pimp out locals. Literally causing havoc in the world. passport bro #2: guys who go to thailand to have sex with a child passport bro #3: guys who get mercilessly rejected over here to the point where people call the police on them because the things they say are creepy and scary, who then go overseas and are creepy and scary over there, and briefly date some women who barely know english and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:11 AM
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casual sex is bad sex in general, so yes. Most guys need practice. A guy who is good at casual sex is kind of different. A good side profile is good, but he also needs sources charisma and desire to get the job done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:12 PM
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I mean, guys aren't a monolith. I think an emotionally high maintenance woman would really suit a lot of the guys willing to join a dating debate subreddit because you spend like 3 hours a day focusing on relationships. As long as she's mentally there, you like how she makes you feel, and she doesn't demand you take crack or anything weird to declare your love I think it could be easier than a woman who gives you space to ruminate. You can probably handle buying some flowers and going on dates e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:18 AM
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I'm going to say neither, but I would also never want to be considered low maintenance girlfriend before a relationship starts because I have a untathomably deep fear of being in a relationship with a narcisist who controls my every emotion. I think it's because I'm an introvert and I've had a lot of extroverted best friends who overshadow my entire existence. I spend so much time spending time getting to know them that they don't know me. So maybe I am the hater out of just pure not wanting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:29 PM
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you aren't in the same competition. you're in a different race.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:55 PM
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but do you trust a redpiller? A guy who says men cheating isn't bad or a women at 15 are more attractive than women at 25? Or who rubs shoulders with gang rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 12:41 PM
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yeah, people have compared sex dolls as having sex with a corpse and I bet most people can’t get emotionally attracted to a bot who isn’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:21 PM
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of course, vibes and physical attraction. I’m just complaining about my last date. We were talking for months and he said he liked to party. I thought he meant weed, but he pulled out the crystal meth and fake credit cards, stolen car, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:02 PM
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I thought you were going to try to be like "anime is real" arguement that people like to try to have around here. Meh, I think it's a major insecurity some men have, but it depends on the woman. Mental strength is good, but honestly, it comes in many different forms. Even knowing your mental weaknesses and being able to ask for help is a giant mental strength. The reason mentally strong men exist is because since day 0 they have been finding and addressing mental weaknesses like they're breathin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:21 AM
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It really depends, obviously. I'm going by gossip. The bar is the bar in which some men can accept a high five. One bar I've seen is following the basic aggreement of the relationship, which is not cheating. Other times it's being a functional human being who feeds themselves, does their chores, and has a job. For me, it's not doing crimes, dope, or being homeless. Really, we all have a bar, and meeting someone who fails the test is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:12 AM
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I saw it on reality tv once. On the show bad girl's club, with this woman who always thinks that men are hitting on her and everyone's jealous of her attention. One of the girls "banished" a guy at a club because while touching the "envy" girl he touched her too, so it's the problem of not getting along with the friend and still hanging around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:27 AM
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There's different levels of feminist, but the women here are just trying to shame boys who never had fathers for trying to achieve some sort of fanfiction of what a man is that they found on the crypto grift side of instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:50 AM
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So, the great vibes you are mentioning are probably just politeness and he's trapped her in a conversation. There's a difference between not being mean to someone and showing sexual interest. If my friend actually likes a guy I will insist that they exchange numbers or whatever the next step is even if I think he's attractive because I honestly just like the plot. You think women don't watch rom coms if the man is too attractive out of jealousy? About 30% of couples today get together because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:29 PM
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I think some people divorce because they love each other differently than they used to, which is crazy because passion has around a 6 month expiration date, but a lot of times people don't want to get into the reason and it's wrong to assume they didn't have one, especially online because everyone with an abusive parent will crawl out of the woodworks. Reasons for a divorce are if the couple hates each other, generally the kids would say it's better that their parents divorce, same if someone is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:37 AM
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well, i for one see sex as more of an verb than a noun, so i'd say no. (i need to be able to mute subs for a day. i'm sorry op) But yeah, no, this subreddit is like 90% redpill imo and basically it's not a proper reflection of the average american, especially the men. Most americans do not want to make porn illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:19 PM
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hmm, men complaining about microcheating is naggy behavior. It’s like a woman getting their feelings hurt because thirst traps come up on your feed. Women who post online are just existing. Also, saying men are dangerous at night is just kind of a universal sentiment. Also serial killers are a problem. There’s a ton of them near me. I just don’t think most of these things compare. The third point for women, which I think is toxic anyways, is basically all the points that men have, but deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:09 PM
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they're saying the guys buying bathwater don't have any self-respect. there's a push to stop men from seeing sexy women online that I don't understand most of the time. Like, I get if it was just bots and thirst traps on twitter that follow you, but I do not understand doing the same thing with girls on twitch who are just existing as nsfw content. Men should be able to look at that stuff if they want to, and they won't be able to if no one makes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:11 AM
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Okay, so I have a manner of reasons. because cap. Men do like sluts. Women don't like sluts. Most men like women who just want to have sex. There's just not that many of them so there's really no time. I also think it's a matter of "who fucking asked." Do I go around the place calling guys out for thin eyebrows? No. Almost never. Also, men imply women are sluts just because they're physically attracted to them. That's locking yourself out of a good place because you think you're beneath her. the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:00 AM
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i'd be annoyed if I say I'm thirsty, I hear a drink being poured, and it's just for him, but I'd most likely use 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:23 PM
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The first because the second is just being raped by a billionaire. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:55 PM
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yeah, it doesn't make sense to me if you just look at countries with rampant prostitution. I think maybe we're just going through a genetic-like bottleneck and some people just won't be able to adapt to the modern era at all. I think that guys who were "good at fights" and nothing else were knocked out during the industrial evolution when knighthood stopped being a viable way to get ahead in society. Tbh, I think the problem is that it's harder for women to date in current society anyways. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:11 PM
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feminity is a vast set of traits. It could be fashion, cooking, interior decorating, etc. Most people bring a combination of both to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:28 AM
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i legit do not care why someone divorces. Maybe don’t divorce your astronaut wife though. Also, it depends on the emotions. You kind of have to expect some changes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:26 AM
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heh, have you ever bern to a boys school?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:22 AM
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being attentive to each other’s needs, attempting to further the bond, keep in communication, support and encourage one another. If we’re talking poom poom, it’s staying fresh diseaseless and overallnot rapey(there’s a spectrum). Being committed. Obviously there’s needs that vary depending on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:17 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:06 AM
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I exist probably, idk. It’s a matter of chance whether I think I’d recognize someone if i saw them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:06 AM
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Any muscle, yeah. And i mean memorable face. The sea of light brown haired 5’6 chubby guys in online dating is wild. I date every race and most body types and heights, but some people are too generic for me. They have light eyebrows and small facial features.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:10 PM
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titties? like pecs. idk. Also, a memorable face. It’s my main problem with tinder. The average guys start blending together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:55 PM
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im not a gym person, but i don’t want a bunch pf dudes to hit on me. Looking is fine. I was once oggled by a man standing next to his wife and two children at a waterpark when I was 16 and I hated that because I hate adultry. I don’t want married men to even look at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:51 PM
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yes, because martial arts is one of my hobbies, but I don’t like guys who fight unless it’s turkish oil wrestling. Getting in fights is not good to me. It puts me in danger. Crossfire is a thing. Louis lane is constantly in peril and I don’t have any plot armor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:25 PM
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it’s weird. He’d need to have a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:22 PM
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yeah. don’t be dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:20 PM
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lol, yeah, i know a bi girl who wanted to be a lesbian after her manipulative philosopy nerd boyfriend cheated on her. He seduced her best friend over the course of a few months and then told her about it pinning the blame on the friend, ruining their friendship and she still stayed with him. like he’s just not a normal boyfriend. The lesbian phase lasted like 2 weeks. She bought lipstick for it and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:40 PM
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men are emotionally fragile due to a lack of social emotional outlets. A woman who cares for them is very alluring.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:39 PM
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yes, I’m a woman and I do it with my mom. I don’t think adults do it that often. It takes immaturity and a nitpicky partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:37 PM
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Paying for things is more of a control thing than anything else. If he’ll spend $300 on a date, he’ll spend $300 on your offspring. Like his money is my money. Nothing scares me more than a guy who spends 1k on nikes when their kid doesn’t have diapers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:29 PM
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maybe I’m a femcel but i think (some) men need a woman so society sees them as certain way. I remember a psychopath who gave an inter who said he “deserves” a wife. It’s the “baby gronk rizzed up Livvy Dunn”. It’s about ego more than love. There are also men who want a spouse because they want companionship and a partnership with a woman is the only socially acceptable way to share their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:27 PM
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god. older women just expect the cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:53 PM
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You are completely right, but I don’t think you know what a nice guy is. Nice guys are agreeable as a personality trait, but people really shouldn’t change themselves to fit into society and just find people who accept their levels of agreeableness and don’t think of themselves as just some dude. Imo agreeableness is less and less valuable when you get older, since if you don’t practice nerdy stuff like math or learn to scam people like the rp grifters or most of the guys in prison you’ll get po…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:54 PM
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it depends a lot on the relationship between you and your nephew and whether he thinks of you as a role model or a conservative uncle, along with how old he is and if he asked. I don’t think you can get away with it if you are gay or bisexual either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:47 PM
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It's kind of like a drug in that way. These movements fix you for a minute, but it fills you with toxicity. The fact is that no one has the answer to how you should go about dating, and you really can't look for the answer from a bunch of strangers on the internet about why you are single. If you actually want to be happier with a love interest in the next part of your life, you need to work it out yourself. Also, I realized that a lot of the incel communities are completely ignorant when it com…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 05:28 AM
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You have run into a lot of assumptions here, and I do not know why. Every couple is very complex because its two people who are there to satisfy each others emotional physical needs as you both go through major changes in your life. Imagine how much work it would be to stay with your elementary school crush until now. Even physically, that's a lot to ask for from someone. "Boredom" isn't the word you are looking for "falling out of love" is more of stated reason that I hear from couples, and tha…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 03:36 PM
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Most of the spousal abuse I see being touted is like a slap. The abused guy is pitiful, the girl is unconscious. Men are just stronger than women. However, as far as pre-mediated violence goes, the two genders are equal because bullets are stronger than anyone.
/r/MensRights16/04/17 04:19 AM
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Don't forget~ man-hating doesn't equal feminism or lesbianism. Keep the conversation open so things like this aren't believed and empathy is possible. This woman assumes men can't be victims of abusive relationships. Since you know, a man beats a woman she can dies and lifetime makes a movie about it, and if a woman beats a man he has scratches and it looks like it may he may have been in a rough fight with a cat.
/r/MensRights15/04/17 05:31 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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