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I will definitely take you up on that. Are there any other subs I should check out?
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/24 12:30 PM
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Thank you. I’ve been studying how to get through a D with a Narcissist. This sub has really helped. My lawyer says she’s confident but always adds that “you also have to be prepared for the worse. Although i did wake up at 3am wondering how I’m gonna find a place to live after paying the lazy, manipulative lying bitch her alimony. I’ve paid all of our finances for 24 years even though she works. She drives a Range Rover. I had to sell my dream car. I should get alimony. My lawyer said depending …
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/24 12:19 PM
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Also working to get out of dodge legally and fast
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/24 02:56 AM
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Nothing will happen here either. It will only cost more $ and delay this. I want it done quick lol
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/24 02:49 AM
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This is noble of you. You care and maybe just showing him that you do with strict boundaries could make a big difference. Ultimately he’s going to have to want the help and do the work.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/24 07:36 PM
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Is that a state law? Never hear of having rights to my bedroom. She can insist on staying in the bedroom can’t she? F her she can have the bed. I’m moving out soon. My doc wrote a letter to the court that it’s not safe for me to live under the same roof. And the dog comes with me since she works out of the house and i work from home. She also had her attorney ask for $8k per month. She’ll be luck if she gets $2k
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 04:56 AM
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Spot on. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 10:08 PM
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I am afraid of being alone but it’s better than living with insanity and abuse
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 10:08 PM
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I’ve offered an indefinite pause if she agrees to accept help, therapy, education, support, etc…She refuses to accept the diagnosis.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 07:37 PM
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That’s the validation. F Therapy and Lawyer up. Good luck bro
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 05:20 PM
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I’m filling on Monday!!
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 04:57 AM
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My attorney knows my wife is a narcissist. These retainers will be done quicker then you can say crazy
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/24 05:06 AM
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$12k
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 10:29 PM
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Where can I find the side bar? All is I see is pinned post. I’m not the brightest bulb these days. I can see what you mean tho. Lawyer did some quick math and says your alimony payment could be $0 but it all depends on what the judge decides. Would love to read up on how to manage my lawyer. She has a great reputation but she was definitely trying to give me hope while talking out of her ass.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/24 05:26 AM
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I go by the shower test. If i can see the full schwantz without my belly in the way. I’m happy “Looking good Billy Rae…”
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/24 08:10 AM
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I’m in the same boat. After she finally realized i wasn’t changing my mind and both our young adult kids asked me to finally divorce her. Her back is against the wall. So now this covert narcissist that lies and manipulates is trying to fall on the sword and say give her a chance. Trust her!!! If i stayed in my own head bad things happen. I reached out to my support and was quickly reminded of my WHY and why, we ain’t falling for the bullshit. Stay strong.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/24 09:19 PM
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Thank you bro! I really needed to hear that.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/24 06:21 PM
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Thx Domo. You’re good ppl. Time for sleep. I’m lit shoes
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/24 05:13 AM
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I’m working with my lawyer to get out. If she’s not accusing me of some bullshit. She’ll try for late night booty calls. I keep the KY on my night stand and just say sorry, you’re about 20 minutes late and then lock the door. Bottom line, you can’t trust them. One phone call to the police that you knocked over a glass in an argument and your leaving in handcuffs. If you have no choice be really smart and on your toes. Don’t trust the bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 07:42 AM
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Deleting this post unfortunately. Apparently the lurkers are hammering me. Glad I was able to share my experience
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 05:16 PM
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I wish my bitch would punch me in the face. Sorry it happened, but definitely got you out on top.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 07:51 AM
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Bailiff, please pass around the photo exhibits
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 07:40 AM
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I was thinking of ordering one of those real life sex dolls. I’m sure that would go over well in court. 😂
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 06:56 AM
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For sure. That’s why my lawyer is working it out so I can leave without any of the abandonment BS
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 06:45 AM
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That’s not a terrible idea!! My STBX and i used the pull out method. Dumb AF I’ve had trouble finishing with her due to fear and hatred. I’d roll over and finish myself in seconds. She was getting the point.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 06:13 AM
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Well that’s an understatement. We were separated 18 years ago. I was OUT! Sex with the ex. Boom pregnant. Moved back in to raise my daughter because I wouldn’t leave her alone that with lunatic. I’d do it over again. My Daughter is my greatest achievement in life. She gets me and validates my wife’s bullshit. I’ve looked at it like an 18 year prison sentence. Always planned to leave when my daughter left for college. Game on
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 04:19 AM
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Where can I sign up for the newsletter? their YT channel? or website. Very interested
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 04:01 AM
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My lawyer is trying to get me out of the house as soon as we serve her. I’ll have to write a longer post about the history of the Devil’s vag and me. I’ll keep you guys posted. Thanks for the support. Can’t tell you how much this sub has helped.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 03:59 AM
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Thanks bro. Got the lube and porn as back up ready to go. 😂
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 03:44 AM
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I’m in a similar situation. I’ve had three of my STBX wife’s friends tell me to get a paternity test. My wife and I were separated at the time she got pregnant. We did have sex while we were separated. The thing is I don’t care if she’s mine or not. I’ve raised her and she is the most important part of my life. I already despise my STBX for many other reasons. I give zero fucks about my lying bitch of a wife and will sooner deplete every dollar I have to make sure she gets shit. But my daughter …
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 05:11 PM
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I need to stop watching porn. I pictured this ending a little differently.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 03:14 AM
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Dude you told my story. Thank you! I’m dragging my feet because I don’t want to lose (mostly $$) what I’ve worked so hard for. My divorce is going to wipe me out but i know I have to get away from the crazy narcissist controlling bitch. It’s time!
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 02:33 AM
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In process… NY Married 23 yrs 2 kids 20 & 18 I make $700 and she makes $150 now. She stopped working for 7 years to “take care” of the kids. We had a fucking nanny and a cleaning lady. She just started working again so they can’t get a 3 year avg for her. If she wasn’t working, it would be closer to $6k/month. It will depend on the judge but the ballpark #’s are $4500/month for the next 10-12 years. I will continue to be responsible for paying for 2 D1 educations=$650k+ Honestly, I’ve stuck it o…
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 08:21 AM
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Impressive she’s offering half.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/23 01:55 PM
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My STBX is a covert narcissist and I had no idea until my IG feed started adding content for living with a covert narcissist. Our phones are listening which is creepy, but in this case saved my life. I was going out of my mind thinking I was the problem. Narcissists are incapable of accepting any truth that’s not their own, even if EVERYONE knows it’s bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 03:37 PM
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It’s called narcissism bro.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 07:23 PM
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My soon to be ex and I were legally separated 19 years ago. I had met my soulmate in the short time after. My wife ended up pregnant with my daughter. I broke it off with a woman I still think about regularly almost 20 years later. Definitely the one that got away. My youngest is a Freshman in college. I told my wife two weeks ago that I hired a lawyer. It’s not going to be easy my brother but I agree with your goal if you can survive it. I almost didn’t make it through, but my reward is my rela…
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 02:26 AM
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