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Every guy pays for it somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:22 PM
1

My partner & imagination Porn is for small-minded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:33 PM
20

I find it weird how so many historically marginalized people are very anti-gun but very rarely give options for other ways to defend themselves that DO NOT involve calling the police. That’s another reason why I found it super puzzling especially when Black women were chanting “defund the police” when men in the Black community cannot be relied on to protect the women & children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 08:23 PM
4

Yep, most ppl meet their SOs via mutual friends or work. It’s better that way because they’ve already been vetted before dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:20 PM
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I couldn’t read the entire article. Too heartbreaking 💔 & horrifying May Eno rest in power 🖤😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:35 AM
11

True! Saying “I’m not a big drinker” will weed out certain “friends” too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:33 AM
5

Upvoted for your critical thinking. It’s rare to see that nowadays 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:25 PM
6

Lol, your answer reminds me of what a male acquaintance told me about his buddy’s bachelor party, “it was fun….. for about 10 minutes” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:23 PM
27

I’m wary of when men ask me, 5’2 & 107 lbs, for help. Like… how tf am I going to help THEM? I tell them to go ask a man and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:00 PM
5

The fact that you follow FnF completely dismantles your argument. They’re frauds, as are most dating gurus. Their main intention is to fill their pockets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:12 PM
3

I already know that. Doesn’t mean the majority of men on Reddit are sex-on-a-stick type dudes who ooze sex appeal. Most of these dudes have dry-ass dicks. Fucking strangers, especially from dating apps, is low-value, desperate & last-resort behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:50 PM
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Slightly above average woman here. I don’t get much attention because of how I carry myself. I’m pretty standoffish, cold and reserved, especially towards men. I don’t use dating apps or social media. It’s usually the more outgoing, friendly attractive women who get attention, not hot timid wallflowers or gorgeous women who walk around with permanent RBF. I’ve known women who weren’t that pretty but still got a lot of male attention because they were cheerful, feminine, friendly & flirty. Not ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:16 PM
4

You think the men who post on this sub are fucking anyone? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:05 PM
6

Yeah I can’t take these people seriously 😂 they need to get out more and live in the real world instead of basing their lives off whack-ass dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:43 PM
2

Yep! Social circle game should be utilized more. Too many men are too stuck on trying to date/fuck complete strangers, which has a lower success rate. Women like familiarity and are more receptive to men we already know from an existing circle instead of randoms. More men should know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:26 AM
3

I agree with OP. Hook-up culture was pushed by liberal feminists but ended up benefitting men in the long run. It’s the women who are now feeling more powerless as they struggle to find & keep a quality man. Sex and good looks are not a strong enough bargaining chip.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:18 AM
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Yeah, OLD is low-value and last-resort, especially if that’s your only way to meet people of the opposite sex. That usually means there’s something about them irl that is unattractive to other people. I’ve also had a couple of male acquaintances tell me, “I’d use a dating app if I was only looking to get laid” I’m pretty sure that’s the mindset of that majority of men who use those rancid apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:47 AM
8

Ew! Who wants to hang out with a bunch of straight men anyway? One on one is fine but a group? Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:06 AM
5

Thanks for posting this. I don’t assume every girl who gets a lot of male attention IRL is a pickme but not everything is what it appears to be, that’s the biggest takeaway. I work with mostly all men and there is one other woman there. She is cute, feminine and personable. Dudes just flock to her. I’m standoffish & moody. The men there treat her obviously differently than how they treat me. It makes me kinna resentful towards her but I understand that’s my own insecurity speaking. It bothers me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:04 AM
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I don’t like shy, quiet men with no experience or confidence. Talking to them takes too much mental energy. I like men I naturally vibe with where the conversation is effortless & just flows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:56 PM
29

Being obsessed with dating/fucking Black ppl when you are not Black yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:33 PM
63

Yep, white men with yellow fever really creep me out, same with anyone who has jungle fever. As a woc, it’s a reason I stay away from white men in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:09 PM
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I am short, thin and look young for my age. I’m legitimately perturbed when men who are either much older or larger than me have a proclivity for small, petite women. They probably have some pedophilic fantasies 🤮 they want to project onto someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:02 PM
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No. If that were the case, I’d still be turned on by more men out there and they’re really nothing to sneeze at.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:54 PM
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No love is unconditional… maybe between parent & child but that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:54 PM
4

Interesting. I hate rap and hip-hop because of its overall degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:51 PM
2

To you, what is “black music”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:04 PM
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Yikes! This is why I’m standoffish towards most men. They mistake common courtesy or politeness for interest. Women being nice to men has too many negative consequences. Just don’t speak to them unless absolutely necessary 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:57 PM
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Yep. Those are the bare minimum requirements… still no sex from me though 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:55 PM
2

Feminism has left a wake of unhappy, childless perpetually single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:26 PM
2

Fuck hitting on strangers. You’re only setting yourself up for rejection. Women like familiarity and are more receptive to being hit on by a man in their existing social or professional circle. & even then, you should have already had plenty of interaction before the actual asking out process.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:15 PM
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Yeah I can see why most of the ppl on this sub are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:57 AM
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Keanu seems like a class act guy, for Hollywood anyway. That’s one of the reasons he isolates himself from Tinseltown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:15 PM
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They would revert to being more helpless women in no time. Modern feminists are a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:06 PM
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Everyone settles to some degree. No one is going to have their dream guy/girl who caters to their every whim. It’s the degree in which we settle that varies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:51 AM
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I like how you believe studies apply to everyone. When they conduct studies, it’s usually a small sample size and not indicative of people across all genders, sexual orientations, ethnic backgrounds & socioeconomic statuses. People on dating apps are usually on their worst behavior anyway so I don’t use those as a measure of people actually behave IRL. Not to mention, ppl on those dating apps are much pickier because there’s so many more options literally in the palm of their hand. It’s a lot mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:33 PM
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Anyone who bases their life off dating profiles is a fucking moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:26 AM
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Online is where I see most of the negative height discourse. If you people went out IRL, you’d see plenty of shorter average looking guys who have girlfriends or wives. Not everything you see online is reflective of real world dynamics. Idk why y’all don’t get that 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 08:44 PM
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And? I didn’t marry him based on height alone. We’re not together anymore so obviously height is not the be-all to end-all. I’ve dated men from 5’3 to 6’6 so height is not a huge deal. Only quoting what you want instead of my entire point just makes you look dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:09 PM
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Yeah, what’s this sub’s obsession with tall as fuck dudes? It’s like they never go outside…. Um, the average American man is 5’9 and they still date & get married. Not everyone bases their with life off dating apps and if they do, they’re one pathetic motherfucker 🙄 Btw, I’m 5’3 so there is no practical reason to want a man that tall. My ex-H was 6’4 and that was more uncomfortable, inconvenient & awkward than anything else, especially when you share a home.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:24 PM
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So it’s ok for her to have a yeast infection but not him? Maaaaaannnn…. Get the fuck out of here with that BS. Putting anything sugary in the vagina has that potential consequence anyway. Anyone who’d do that is fucked up too. I assume this took place In a developed nation, most likely the US? Sex work is not the only work. I’d rather work retail or my regular 9-5 than do this crazy shit & have to deal with men on their absolute worst behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:09 AM
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Agreed. You are so right. Dating strangers is low-value behavior & last-resort, that’s why it usually doesn’t result in anything meaningful or long-lasting. My longest-lasting relationships have been with men I already knew from an existing circle such as work, school or mutual friends. People need to get out more & stop staring at screens in their basements. Maybe they would have better social skills & be able to cultivate healthy interpersonal relationships with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:50 AM
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Yep… I also find it funny when men demean a girl for being a “ho” but she didn’t let him smash. Even sluts have standards and that pisses a lot of asshole-type men OFF 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:50 AM
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As someone who is already standoffish & cold towards men, I’m loving this thread 😻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:27 AM
2

Your “friend” is an anomaly. Most friends are not like this, or I would hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:53 AM
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No he did not. My mistake. The date was for 7pm on a Tuesday. The date was already set on the app. He even claimed he made a reservation. The night before our date we exchanged phone numbers & sent a couple of texts confirming the details of our first date. The next day tho… nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:15 PM
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Yeah, what does a drink date have to do with being canceled on only an hour before? A few months ago, I was actually stood-up from a sit-down dinner date. Showed up & everything… 😒 Some people are just assholes regardless of the date activity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:00 PM
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Yikes! She should’ve really been more mindful as to who she got pregnant by 😒 Another single mom statistic 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:23 AM
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Yeah, lots of women are shit at vetting men. I’ve had female acquaintances try & encourage me to “date” a separated man. If a woman has a trustworthy, HV straight male friend, he should be involved in the vetting process. Men know men best and notice things that we or other women may miss. Too many women only listen to their silly-ass girlfriends or gay male friends and wonder why they can’t find a quality man 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:39 PM
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It would just strike me as immature
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:10 PM
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Fuck these men. I have no problems being rude as a last resort. They shouldn’t have spoken to me in the first place 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:02 PM
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HollyWEIRD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:45 AM
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I enjoy some of her movies and she is gorgeous but something about her always screamed pick-me. I mean… she is a “cool girl”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:43 PM
1

Do you believe everything you see and read online?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:33 AM
0

Most ppl meet their SOs via work or mutual friends, regardless of what ppl on Reddit say or think. You need to get to more too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:38 PM
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If a man is too needy and passive, that can make him sexually undesirable. Physical improvements/changes matter way more to men, not women. Idc how much my husband improves his looks…. If his demeanor is devoid of sex appeal, I will not want to have sex with him. The frequency of sex dissipates the longer you’re together anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:33 AM
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Baldness looks good on certain men, especially when paired with a beard or goatee. People need to find what works best for them but a lot of people are clueless when it comes to that & it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:06 AM
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People put way too much thought into what strangers think of them. To my friends & family I’m not boring. They’ve seen me out and about many times but as a homebody & loner, randoms online would dismiss me as boring. They’re a bunch of nobodies so their opinions meant squat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:17 AM
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Most people are boring… who cares? We’re all doing the same stuff everyday…. Work, sleep, eat, shit, repeat. I find that ppl on dating apps especially try to sound more adventurous, busier & cooler than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:32 AM
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I have 2 genuine straight male friends who’ve never tried to overstep boundaries. I’ve known them for 15 & 9 years. As for making new ones? Nah. Men are not interested in platonic friendships with women. That’s what they have their homeboys for. If they’re being “friendly” with a woman, it’s because there’s some ulterior motive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:18 PM
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Agreed. I had a male friend tell me he’d only use OLD for sex but not for trying to find a girlfriend. His honesty was refreshing & I think most guys in there feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:47 PM
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People on those apps are often on their worst behavior. All the more reason not to use them. I’ll stick to dating men I already know irl such as a co-worker or mutual friend. Dating strangers is absolute last resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:44 PM
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Why put so much stock into dating apps anyway? I swear, it’s like people on Reddit never go outside into the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:42 PM
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I.e., advice they don’t want to hear or you don’t want to tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:14 PM
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As a friend, remind them to get their shit together if they wish to be successful with women. They can’t control their height but they can get in better shape, earn more money & develop attractive social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:51 AM
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Yeah most of them. Have you seen the men out there? It’s not hard to gather why they are sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:16 AM
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I don’t base my life off dating apps. I get a decent amount of male attention irl as I work in a male-dominated industry and like going out on the weekends. Thing is, 99% of these men I have no interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:56 AM
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Dating apps are not a gauge of how attractive or desirable you are. Any decent-looking woman can get matches but how often do these matches lead to an actual LTR or marriage? Those apps are garbage & often don’t lead to anything real or substantial anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:46 AM
1

People who give too much thought to this type of stuff need to get out more & stop staring at screens in their house all day 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:17 PM
214

Fuck this kink bullshit. It’s just a way for misogynists to take out their violence on women in a “consensual” manner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:13 PM
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I know a couple of good BM but they are married. Surprised? 😂😂😂 They’re also married to other BW too. I can count them on one hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:46 PM
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Yeah…. This is precisely why I’ll only date men I already know through an existing circle such as work or mutual friends. They’ve already been vetted to a point before setting foot on a first date AND you both know the same people. There’s more accountability that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:44 PM
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Male feminists use their feminism as pussy points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:31 PM
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A lot of women won’t admit they like bad boys but who do a lot of them open their legs to? I’ve learned a long time ago not to trust what people say but rather pay attention to who they give their attention & time to. One tells a more accurate story than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:51 AM
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Yep, I’ve known some men who went back to work a few days after their vasectomies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:15 AM
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No, it’s more expensive and invasive. A lot of providers won’t perform tubal ligations unless you already have children. It’s just easier to men to get snipped. This is all common knowledge btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:13 AM
1

Good for you! Yeah, from what I’ve seen & heard, casual sex for women is highly unfulfilling & unsatisfactory (emotionally as well as physically). Getting ran through by guys who don’t care about you doesn’t sound like anything I’d want to be a part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:47 AM
1

A few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:50 PM
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I just assume they all are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:57 PM
4

Never had one. Don’t want to. I don’t find fucking strangers to be appealing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:24 AM
7

It’s not my or anyone else’s job to placate men’s need for female attention unless he’s my husband or boyfriend. Being too friendly to male strangers has a lot of negative consequences. Why don’t y’all call out the creep/thirsty/disrespectful men who make it harder for the decent guys? That would be closer to solving the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:20 PM
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Ugh, why did she marry such an oaf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:04 PM
9

More men should compliment each-other. Fuck your “make women compliment men more”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:35 PM
3

Yep… with men, you give them an inch, they take a mile. This is why I’m generally standoffish to most men unless he’s someone I already know (co-worker, friend, acquaintance, neighbor, gay) & I know he is not trying to hit on me unsolicited. Male strangers or men who express attraction to me when it’s not reciprocated can fuck right off 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:33 PM
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Ppl on Reddit tend to be socially maladjusted with little to no experience with interpersonal relationships. I’d take what they say about relationships with a HUGE grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:21 PM
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Yep, my longest-lasting relationships, including my marriage, have been with men who I already knew in an existing friend or professional circle. Trying to convert strangers into romantic partners has a low success rate. but ppl who spend too much time on the internet instead of out in the real world don’t realize this. Get out of the basement for a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:09 PM
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When I was dating, I wouldn’t exchange numbers until a date has been set: time & place. & then I wouldn’t give them my number until the day of our date, or night before if it was a brunch date. It greatly cut down on the inane “good morning” texts, memes and other forms of stupid small talk. I’d also tell men that I do not text unless it’s to make or confirm in-person dates, especially in the beginning. Communication should be done in-person, that’s the best way to get to know each-other. YMMV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:18 AM
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Lots of them are physically unattractive with subpar social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:49 PM
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You’re right. I’d be reluctant to date someone who’s fresh out of a marriage or LTR too. More often than not, they’re not looking for anything serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:26 AM
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“If you marry the mistress, you have a vacancy” 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:13 AM
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Yep! They don’t even deserve a response. Silence is the best answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:19 AM
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Yep, the other woman is replaceable. She’s not the first one and she’s not gonna be the last 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:18 AM
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Thank you for this. About a year ago, I liked a guy who was still legally married and going through a divorce. I had many female and gay male friends actually encourage me to still engage with him… “he’s only married in name alone”, “you can still be friends”…. Dumb shit. Funnily enough, it was my cool straight male friend who kept it straight with me and told me “don’t fuck with him unless you want to get your feelings hurt”. Anyway, that “separated” man and his estranged wife decided to reconc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 01:20 AM
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Yep, that could explain why she’s gonna let the side chick sink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:59 PM
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Polyamory is a shit-show, case in point. The only time I’ve seen it work somewhat cohesively is with gay male relationships. 9x/10 it’s a disaster waiting to happen. No sympathy from me… this is what happens when you fuck with married people… poly or not. Married ppl should be off-limits period. Of course they’ll throw her under the bus, she’s just their disposable plaything. They’re a married couple. She means nothing to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:05 PM
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This is something many men don’t consider…. How a woman carries herself around men should matter more than her actual body count. I’ve known of women who were too open with men… it’s like you knew her panties would fly off if you said hi to her. I’ve known other women with high numbers who didn’t present that way or were more reserved. You’d never know she was “slutty” by interacting with her. But realizing that involves too much critical thinking for a lot of ppl in the Reddit universe 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:32 PM
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Agreed! When I’m out and about alone, I do not even look at men and if I do, I’m scowling 😂 & definitely no speaking/smiling towards them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:18 PM
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Lol! I’ve been doing this since I was 14 and had to start taking public transit. It’s also one thing I do miss about wearing masks. It made me less approachable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:17 PM
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I’ve told a guy he was good when he wasn’t but when he wanted to have sex again, I ignored his calls. Women ghost men after sex too & it’s usually due to his bad performance or bad behavior after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:29 PM
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They give me off vibes, much like the self-proclaimed “nice guys”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:07 AM
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Rarely. I’m cute but when I’m out being social, it’s with friends or family. When I’m alone I’m running errands and look haggardly on purpose. I’m talking glasses, no makeup, hair pulled back & sweats. Also, I have RBF so that combined with putting no effort into my appearance keeps a lot of men away. When I do put more effort into my appearance I get a decent amount of looks from men but again, I’m with a group of people so they don’t approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:01 PM
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Because we’ve been inundated this “everyone is beautiful”, “girl, you’re beautiful no matter what” nonsense. Can you imagine if men tried the same thing? “We’re rich no matter what” or “every man is rich” Both sound ridiculous as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:05 AM
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Casual sex & hook-up culture was pushed by liberal feminists under the guise of being “liberating & empowering”. However, it only benefited men in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:05 AM
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Similar! Either at home, work, running errands or out with friends/family.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:02 AM
5

If I just wanted a quick fuck, I have someone for that. A safe, reliable guy who I already know is good in bed. I don’t need to fuck random strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:00 AM
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Most women already have someone who is a phone call or text away if they want some dick. A guy who is safe, reliable & decent/good in bed. We don’t need to troll online for sex with random strangers like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:59 PM
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I have never put that on my profile because it’s not something that crosses my mind, same how people who put “no drama” tend to be the most dramatic. If you’re really not about drama or hook-ups, why put it on your profile? Seems contradictory. If I have an itch that I need to scratch, I already know someone who is a text or phone call away. He is safe, reliable & good in bed. I don’t need to hook up with random men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:13 PM
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As a woman, I agree. There are too many feminized, emasculated men out there which may correlate to the rise of sexlessness, especially among men. No one wants to fuck those kinds of guys unless they’re being paid to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:10 PM
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Interesting take. Made me think a lil. But anyway, have you seen the men out there? I can see why they’re sexless and as a woman, it’s easy to be voluntarily celibate when the pickins are as slim as they are (no pun intended) I see A LOT more attractive women irl than attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:07 PM
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If that’s want he wants, fine. I don’t mind domestic duties but I’m not having kids and I want to work outside the home. The man you’re speaking of wouldn’t see me as a compatible mate most likely because I’m not a super traditional woman. So it’s really a non-issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:23 AM
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I’d rather him come to my place. I’m more comfortable here.
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:14 AM
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Wouldn’t it also be emasculating?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:40 AM
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I can still find value in traditional gender roles without strictly adhering to them myself, such as me never being a housewife or SAHM because I’m not having kids & I prefer to work outside the home. Sounded like he was just looking to start conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:24 AM
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Her children would be starving & neglected so yes, it would be different (I.e. worse). I also don’t agree with the trophy wife lifestyle, women who get by on their looks and live off wealthy men either. Men being couch creatures & living off women repulse me though. It’s perceived much worse when men do that. Probably because I’ve seen firsthand the devastation it’s caused some women in my extended family who allowed useless men to live off them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:26 PM
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Yeah, it’s sweet if that works for us. Both of us working. I’d support him if something drastic happened where he was unable to work. Where one person falls on hard times, the other one carries the partnership. That’s perfectly reasonable. I could never date a man who refuses to work & expects me to financially support him from day one. Most women wouldn’t want a guy like that unless she herself was super desperate and had low standards. What’s the issue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:26 PM
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I’m never having kids so there’s no reason for me to stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:06 PM
3

Yeah that’s what I was thinking too. Too many women play girlfriend or wife for men who are not committed to them. Pick-me x 1000
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:03 PM
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Damn… a man who brags about having women pay his way is a fucking loser. That’s very feminine behavior that I can’t respect in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:01 PM
1

I don’t mind gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:59 PM
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I don’t use social media or dating apps so I get 0 attention online, which is how I like it. IRL, I don’t get much attention because I’m a homebody and when I do go out alone, I look haggard on purpose and have RBF. The only times I dress up, wear makeup and look more fun is when I’m out with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:31 PM
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No. I find value in gender roles and prefer him to make more money than me. I’m not a housewife, as I prefer to work, but I have absolutely no interest in a man living off me. The only exception would be if he was injured and unable to work, or experienced a job loss. Btw, a true “masculine man” does not live off a woman. If you want to be treated as a King, head of household, etc… behave like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:01 PM
2

Yeah, what men and women find attractive in each-other is very asymmetrical. We’re not the same, especially when it comes to dating and sex. Idk why ppl don’t get this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:31 AM
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Yes, I see tons of average looking women (& couples) in relationships when I’m out and about. You need to get out more and realize what you read online is not always indicative of real life dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:22 PM
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Ew. This is why I’m standoffish to men at best…. Rude at worst. If I’m alone, I do not give them eye contact and definitely no smiling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 03:58 AM
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I don’t identify with modern feminism in general. I also hate how feminists can’t take an ounce of criticism without becoming apoplectic and believe they speak on the behalf of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:34 PM
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Male feminists give me off vibes, like they’re trying too hard to pander to women, same with guys who proclaim they don’t like their own gender or having male friends. It’s the same “I’m looking for pussy points” energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:17 AM
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I only see this behavior with women. But if I were to meet a man who denounces male friendships and dislikes other men, I’d get serious “male feminist” vibes… which is not a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:18 AM
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Agreed, all the gay friends were concerned with was how the guy looked and how big/nice his dick was. That’s why I’m very mindful of who I discuss my dating life with. Consider the source. Most of the time they have no idea what they’re even talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:28 PM
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I find that a lot of women irl have no idea what they’re talking about especially if they themselves are chronically single. I’ve had one in particular (single mom) encourage me to date/fuck a man I liked who was still legally married but going through a divorce! “Girl, he’s only married in name alone.” “You can still be friends with him 😉” She’s never even been married. I’m sorry but any chronically single never-been-married women, especially with kids, should not be taken seriously when it com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:08 PM
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Then let it go. We don’t have tolerance for timid men or, even worse, men who want women to chase them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:49 PM
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I really wish women would stop referring to these men as “friends”. He is not your friend, you’re just a hole for him to stick his dick into. Most of these are actually fuck buddies, not friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 06:17 PM
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Prolonged eye contact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:56 AM
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I’ve never heard that but it makes sense. People, mostly other men, judge a man by how hot the woman on his arm is. Beautiful women are seen as social capital in a man’s eyes, even if he’s unaware of it in those terms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:00 PM
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I only know one woman personally who is having casual sex. Despite having a pretty face, she is an overweight single mom who carries herself in a masculine, vulgar, brash manner. Dick is all she can get. Men are not commit to a woman like that. The rest of the women in my life are married or attached - and not cheaters as far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:48 PM
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Obesity, severely underweight, too muscular (roid rage), being too tall. I’m 5’2 & 107 lbs so there’s no reason to want someone super tall, fat or muscly. That’s not compatible with my size. I’ll pass on bony/skeletal guys too. Having sex with them seems uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:42 PM
6

Same. My friendships with gay men have lasted much longer than the straight men. Coincidence? I think not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:45 PM
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Someone gets it, finally! Most men are not interested in just a purely platonic relationship with a woman anyway. Why would they be? That’s what they have their homeboys for. There’s usually some ulterior sexual motive when it comes to them. It’s also a huge reason why you rarely see straight men with unattractive female friends. He won’t want to be around any woman he has no interest in fucking, whether or not he pursues it is another story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:47 PM
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There’s no need to have too many straight male friends anyway. 9x/10 they want sex and it’s not reciprocated. I have 2 genuinely cool straight male friends that I’ve known for 9 & 15 years but as far as making new ones? Nah… I’ll pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:57 PM
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Agreed! Texting all day is meaningless and tedious IMO. I only use it to set up real-life plans with people or because I have something specific to ask/tell a person, not for idle chit-chat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:19 AM
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Libfems helped create hook-up culture tbh under the false narrative that it would be so “empowering and liberating” for women. Men just followed suite and ended up benefitting from it way more than women did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:09 AM
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Agreed. Sometimes advice from even friends should not be followed but that’s an entirely different thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:12 PM
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