paradox1920 Archive

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–	Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter. Fundamental need in the sense that is meant in this whole post thread? I’m not sure about that but I would say an important biological process on our body based on what you said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 01:27 PM
2	Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex? I understand your position on the matter. Only you know how the experience has been for you and who you are. The trauma it might have caused I guess. I had to look for what you were referring to when saying PPD and TRP. Sorry for my ignorance but now I understand what you meant. In general, I believe recently more people are malicious specially online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 05:05 AM
2	Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex? That last part about what you say happened with that woman… I think damn. :/ How long have you been without trying now? You think that’s as far as you go in terms of seeking a partner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 04:15 PM
8	Stuck? Just stop focusing on women People like OP make it seem way too black and white. The situation isn’t always like that. It honestly varies from person to person. The thing is, we gotta enjoy life and ourselves regardless because people won’t do it for us, so we gotta love ourselves and our time. This doesn’t mean women will gravitate towards you by doing so nor that they won’t. The important thing is you are investing time on yourself which we can sometimes forget. Effort of taking a chance with women has to be done althoug…	/r/seduction	05/08/22 12:27 PM
1	I need advice on what to do. “see you at [insert time and place]?” (Or I don’t know if you are gonna pick her up) as a question because she already knows about the date or she can remember. Then let her answer and if she doesn’t or the other things that I’ve told you happen, you know what to do.	/r/seduction	13/08/19 02:33 AM
1	I need advice on what to do. Every step is for you to learn. Learn from the bad and from the good. On Wednesday you just ask once. Don’t start sending her a lot of texts trying to confirm if she’ll go on a date with you or not if she doesn’t answer. And then what I’ve told you already. Also, keep the conversation as normal as you can if you talk to her again. Don’t be too formal because you are not something yet.	/r/seduction	13/08/19 02:13 AM
2	I need advice on what to do. A conversation has to be kept going by both sides if there’s real interest so leave it at that because you’ll seem needy if you insist too much (everybody has a life) and now wait to see if she contacts you otherwise double check on Wednesday if she’s ready for the date. And if there’s no answer for a while (that includes days) or if she says that something came up therefore won’t be able to go but doesn’t tell you that she’ll be available some other day to go on a date with you or something lik…	/r/seduction	13/08/19 01:52 AM
1	What’s the right amount of time to wait after a girl mentions she broke up? There’s no right amount of time. You shouldn’t wait so move on. You’ll probably be nothing more than a shoulder to cry on (if you don’t see her just as a friend then it’ll become a problem for you) since she’s emotionally unstable at the moment. Meet other people. Make friends. Your world shouldn’t spin around one girl. If in the future you two are single and attracted to each other, then give it a try. For now, keep moving forward.	/r/seduction	16/07/19 05:49 AM
1	Do you kiss during the introductory hug? The key to that is not being pushy or desperate. Women like the thrill but a bit of mystery as well when it comes from a man with confidence that is not putting them on a pedestal. It’s hard to say what your way reactions might be when you are trying to talk to a girl from what you just said but you gotta let it flow.	/r/seduction	13/07/19 04:29 PM
1	More creative aproaches? I would recommend you to not use that line because almost everyone has a phone number although there are a few people that are not into having one but in general, it’s like that. A woman might see that approach as too desperate or too clear and they want a little bit of mystery. Something that surprise them. Try to start a normal conversation without exceeding boundaries like don’t ask too personal questions, don’t get too close as invading their personal space, learn when to speak and when not …	/r/seduction	13/07/19 04:12 PM
1	How to initiate flirting over text? To me it seems like you should wait to go out with her because judging by what you just said, it’s going well. Now, don’t become a shoulder for her to cry on about her ex. You know that probably but just wanted to point it out.	/r/seduction	13/07/19 08:12 AM
1	Do you kiss during the introductory hug? Correct	/r/seduction	13/07/19 01:21 AM
5	I feel so worthless Upvote to you sir. That’s correct. Some men don’t realize that they become needy in many ways (including sex) and that’s not attractive to women. There’s more to life.	/r/seduction	12/07/19 10:52 PM
1	Do you kiss during the introductory hug? It depends on many things like how you behave and how you handle the conversation when you meet, etc. Do you have an example of a situation where it went wrong?	/r/seduction	12/07/19 10:29 PM
3	Do you kiss during the introductory hug? I just do a handshake or hug. Unless she approaches me then I’ll respond equally but otherwise not the way to go for me at first.	/r/seduction	12/07/19 10:21 PM
2	Hot girl at the gym Mmm. People sometimes feel like you are invading their personal space if you just go and offer advice that wasn’t asked for. Of course, some people are thankful for it but it’s not really a preferable way to talk to a random girl. Patience is key and a good brief moment might come where he can share some looks and a smile with her then at some point exchange a few words with her without over pushing it. You can make it happen with some good move but it’s also about finding a good moment because …	/r/seduction	12/07/19 05:05 PM