paragondream Archive

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45	I hope it’s ok to post this here. If not, I apologize and please delete. I found this sub after reading an article that sparked curiosity in me. Having been raised by a mother was very submissive and subservient I have been confused the type of role feels right to me.	SELF IMPROVEMENT	paragondream	/r/RedPillWomen	23/10/19 07:10 AM

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2	CMV: Women who make men wait for months just don't like sex I’ve wanted to wait at least for a while because if there was no higher level connection I didn’t have any interest in vetting for sexual compatibility. Usually if you really connect to someone profoundly the sex will be good and some people are just more likely to let down their inhibitions, opening the door to really good or amazing sex when they know someone. I’ve found out men who have had very long term relationships with a small number of women are WAY better in bed than men who have been …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/20 12:45 PM
1	Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish) 🤷‍♀️ I’m up in that shit too, yo. I want it all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/19 06:18 PM
1	Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish) Yeah I’m sure. You’re still missing the point. I’m not trying to be a jerk but you should absolutely study this post. It will definitely decrease your odds of getting ghosted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/19 06:21 AM
1	Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish) Oh good gracious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/19 06:20 AM
2	Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish) 🙏 Yes. Exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/19 06:17 AM
1	Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish) You’re welcome. 😉💋	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 01:54 AM
3	Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish) Uh, yeah. They are like the plague.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/19 05:50 PM
3	Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish) Oh trust me, they do. Unicorns, perhaps but if you can put so much effort into lifting then surely you are also capable of throwing on some gear and doing a little 🦄 hunting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/19 05:49 PM
6	Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish) I mean, there ya go. If that’s what you’re into. Gamble. Try to win against every other dude who’s looking to fuck a blow up doll with a heart beat even though the house is set up for you to lose 93% of the time. You can’t win if you don’t play. Right? It’s not my job to judge. I just think the author of this bad ass post is saying something else. You guys are not picking up what he’s laying down. If you wanna get laid....? Cool. Don’t be a clone. If you wanna get married to a Barbie, also cool.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/19 05:33 PM
1	Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish) That’s not the point at all though bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/19 05:27 PM
9	Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish) No it ain’t, trust me! Women of depth and substance are sick to DEATH of promotion seeking, weight lifting, protein supplement Ken dolls. If you wanna eventually put a ring on a Barbie doll who spends all your money on make-up and Jimmy Choo shoes and needs 3 hours to apply several layers of paint to her face before she leaves the house and posts on Facebook “HE FINALLY POPPED THE QUESTION....aweeeeeee - here come the unoriginal engagement photos that make you wanna 🤮” get promotions and lift. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/19 02:54 PM
8	Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish) Come on dude, really? That’s so glaringly obviously not at all what he is saying. He’s saying if you wanna get laid, get off your phone, be unique and start engaging in “real life”. Put yourself out there and don’t be a boring one in a million dick pic sender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/19 02:45 PM
3	Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish) God damn. This is fucking brilliant man. lol You need to write a book! As a woman who has dated men who were not that hot but had fun personalities (later drove me mad, creeped me out and I busted their hearts - lol) and been completely 🙄😴 over the internet serial daters who compliment and send pics of themselves all pumped up at the gym (physically flawless - nothing unique or intriguing), I can say, hell yes. Completely accurate. Also, FUCK YOU Greg. I hate him too. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/19 02:43 PM
1	CMV: It's not worth it for men to get married in USA. I’m not so sure it’s worth it for anyone to legally bind themselves to another person in the name of love. People don’t take it seriously enough that’s for sure. I’ve always found the idea of a personal ceremony that’s not legal and perhaps a name change if it’s important to have the same name to you. There are a few circumstances in which it does make practical sense but none of them are romantic. Divorce court sucks. It getting married was as difficult as getting divorced fewer people would do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/19 07:49 PM
4	Why to avoid the Female Dating Strategy sub This is actually a very interesting, thought provoking discussion. I’ve fallen for men who preferred to have a woman who was completely dependent on them, a HOT little whore who had no skills outside of the bedroom and just expected a free ride in exchange for sexual satisfaction. My ex once asked me, “if you could change anything about me, what would it be?” I responded by explaining that I hadn’t considered changing anything about him, that I had chosen to love and accept him for just being hi…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/19 01:09 AM
2	I hope it’s ok to post this here. If not, I apologize and please delete. I found this sub after reading an article that sparked curiosity in me. Having been raised by a mother was very submissive and subservient I have been confused the type of role feels right to me. Thank you!!! What a thoughtful and intelligent response. I appreciate your input a great deal! ❤️	/r/RedPillWomen	25/10/19 08:08 PM
1	Would you date a bisexual man? Definitely.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/10/19 08:06 PM
1	E-Thots & Prostitutes are some of the most moral and honest women there are For a free meal or a free anything? Are you fucking kidding me? I’d rather starve...but I wouldn’t cuz I can figure my own shit out. Does that level of wtf seriously exist amongst anything more than a pathetic minority? My gawd, I hope not!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/19 08:05 PM
1	How to STFU without feeling compromised? Ask him if you can watch next time and ask him to teach you how to touch him in the ways that bring him enjoyment.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/10/19 05:29 PM
1	Anyone else sad about losing their looks? Awe, 30 isn’t old. Gosh, I think around 30 is when I actually started figuring how to be attractive, what styles of everything were best for me. I’ve had male friends even tell me they’ve had conversations where they say they can’t believe I am actually prettier now than I was in my teens and twenties. A couple basic rules that I agree with being good to follow after 30ish (some may not agree) are: Keep make-up simple and natural. Neutral colors and muted rose or peach colors work well for me. H…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/10/19 05:26 PM
2	Do you like being "put in your place" and any good and or bad experiences youve had? I don’t want to be “put in my place” like a dog that’s been disobedient or something like that but I do appreciate anyone (not just my man) being able to respectfully and honestly call me on my BS. I do prefer men who are somewhat dominant and who won’t allow me to run them over but they need to take control of a situation that I should handle better with respect for me too. I’ve dated men who thought they were doing my favor by teaching me “hard truths”. Yeah I learned some lessons for sure but…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/10/19 05:10 PM
3	Would you date a bisexual man? No I couldn’t. I don’t have anything against bisexuality but I need a man who’s very masculine and my preference is definitely straight. It just wouldn’t work for me. I do think a lot more men are bisexual but in the closet about it though.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/10/19 04:58 PM
2	What do you think of women who are isolated and rejected by society? She sounds kinda cool to me. 🙂	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/19 03:38 PM
1	I hope it’s ok to post this here. If not, I apologize and please delete. I found this sub after reading an article that sparked curiosity in me. Having been raised by a mother was very submissive and subservient I have been confused the type of role feels right to me. It can happen. People become bored with each other, evolve in different directions, completely immerse themselves in work to avoid being at home where they are constantly met with a partner who has a negative attitude, etc.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/10/19 03:19 PM
1	I hope it’s ok to post this here. If not, I apologize and please delete. I found this sub after reading an article that sparked curiosity in me. Having been raised by a mother was very submissive and subservient I have been confused the type of role feels right to me. That’s an excellent point.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/10/19 03:16 PM
2	How to deal with insecurities. I can sure relate. I wasn’t bullied but I was excruciatingly shy. I always thought my nose was too big and my bottom lip was too fat. I absolutely avoided having my photo taken. I would have panic attacks often before and during school, just telling myself everyone thought I was ugly. I had an obsession about my profile (facial side view). When puberty hit and I developed and even during grade school the “cute boys” flirted with me a lot. I always thought they must just be messing with my head a…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/10/19 03:06 PM
1	I hope it’s ok to post this here. If not, I apologize and please delete. I found this sub after reading an article that sparked curiosity in me. Having been raised by a mother was very submissive and subservient I have been confused the type of role feels right to me. Hmm. That actually makes me feel really uneasy. I don’t like the idea of being a husband stealer at all. I have really strong morals and I’ve actually ended a friendship with one gal who bragged to me about sleeping with her friend’s husband. That same woman ended up “stealing” our boss from his wife. They had three young children. He had tried to get me to have an affair with him first and I absolutely would not. I ended up losing my job because of it. She didn’t like the fact that he had tried…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/10/19 02:37 AM
1	Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out. Well I guess we won’t be hooking up. LOL! I fucking hate doing sit ups and I like to eat sometimes. In order to get a completely flat stomach I would have to starve myself so... 🤷‍♀️ Would I be correct in assuming you don’t have or want children? If I am incorrect how would you feel about your wife being pregnant? Would you still be able to get aroused if you were just madly in love with her but there was a bun in the oven causing her to not have a totally flat stomach?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 04:24 PM
6	I hope it’s ok to post this here. If not, I apologize and please delete. I found this sub after reading an article that sparked curiosity in me. Having been raised by a mother was very submissive and subservient I have been confused the type of role feels right to me. Thank you so much. Your response is very reasonable and helpful. It actually sent a chill down my spine, the type that indicates an important and profound truth being absorbed. ❤️🙏 So interesting. I stumbled upon this thread because I actually read an article that implied it was a negative place on the internet. Normally I would totally avoid anything labeled negative but I was curious and intrigued for some reason so I landed here. So far I have received the most honest, thoughtful, intelligent…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/10/19 01:25 PM
-1	Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out. I mean, I’m thin and still waiting to win. lol It seems unrealistic that winning is that simple is what I’m saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 01:15 PM
1	Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out. But just the soft tummy stuff. I’m for sure not fat but probably couldn’t achieve abs of steel w/o lipo. Also heard men (who have abs) say they prefer a little softness to a woman, think it’s more feminine and find a hard body on a woman too masculine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 01:14 PM
1	Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out. Good to know. I haven’t been squatting with weights. Maybe that’s my problem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 01:09 PM
1	Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out. I agree!!! I find full figured, curvy women super HOT!! I’m probably the only one who expects VS model beauty standards from myself and need to chill the fuck out. 🙂 I am kind though and the idea of ever becoming a bitchy hot yuck makes me 🤢. Probably just spending too much time being kind to others and not enough being kind to myself. And fuck no I can’t squat twice my body weight! Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 01:08 PM
1	Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out. Idk man. Probably nobody. I’m just projecting and tripping out most likely. Lmao (can that translate to laughing my ass on instead of off? 😂)	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 01:03 PM
2	Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out. Thank you and you are 💯correct. One of my guy friends a while ago even said he was gonna kick my ass if I didn’t quit being so self critical and start owning my beauty. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 01:02 PM
3	Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out. Thanks. I’ll check it out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 12:59 PM
2	I hope it’s ok to post this here. If not, I apologize and please delete. I found this sub after reading an article that sparked curiosity in me. Having been raised by a mother was very submissive and subservient I have been confused the type of role feels right to me. Thank you. It does seem unlikely. I have known of a few women though who have the princess syndrome and just expect to be catered to because they’re pretty, etc. and seen great men be completely neglected and yet still worship their princess and never even consider a mistress. There are many variables. Sometimes after a woman has a baby or two, etc. she may need time to recover, PPD is a very real thing. It isn’t always up to one or the other person to carry the whole load. Responsibility must b…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/10/19 12:56 PM
6	Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out. Sorry, not sorry but that is so not true. I do squats and lunges and everything else DAILY also DANCE like a mo-fo and my ass doesn’t grow no matter what. I am genetically predisposed to have a small butt. I have big, bright blue/green eyes, an average size nose, full lips, long legs, pretty hair, medium size fairly good boobs, good personality, great sense of humor, etc. but because of the attitude all up and down this comment thread I still feel totally inadequate. It basically feels like back…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 12:35 PM
1	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? I’m very curious to learn where you got your statistics and how accurate they are. I do believe that beauty comes in all different shapes and sizes and is also in the eye of the beholder to some degree. That being said, I also hold myself to much higher standards than I hold others to. I’ve always been very naturally and effortlessly slim and trim. Never really had to work out but was active in doing things I enjoyed such as dancing, working around the house, walking, etc. After an injury and he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 12:19 PM
6	Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out. “You just have to be thin”? Seriously? Wow. 🤦‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 11:41 AM
-2	I hope it’s ok to post this here. If not, I apologize and please delete. I found this sub after reading an article that sparked curiosity in me. Having been raised by a mother was very submissive and subservient I have been confused the type of role feels right to me. That is a great point. It is a very tough question. I believe that marriages go through ebbs and flows and should be fought for. If someone is truly just sacrificing their own needs because they are selfless and dedicated to vows they made it is different than someone who is bored and wants to play with a shiny new object rather than putting that energy into their marriage to save it. Does that make sense? Of course, both people need to be willing to put in the effort but there are so many diffe…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/10/19 11:39 AM
-4	I hope it’s ok to post this here. If not, I apologize and please delete. I found this sub after reading an article that sparked curiosity in me. Having been raised by a mother was very submissive and subservient I have been confused the type of role feels right to me. I want to believe that is true. Would you mind elaborating on why this is your position? When a man damn near kills himself working so hard to provide for his family and is in every way imaginable just an outstanding person, so outstanding that he feels he must fulfill his marital obligation whether his needs are being met or not so won’t leave, doesn’t that practically make him saintly and deserving of something good as long as it is not just cheap, gross and empty? I feel like he would deserve…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/10/19 11:30 AM
0	I hope it’s ok to post this here. If not, I apologize and please delete. I found this sub after reading an article that sparked curiosity in me. Having been raised by a mother was very submissive and subservient I have been confused the type of role feels right to me. Gosh darn it - it is driving me bananas that this format won’t allow me to correct my typos.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/10/19 11:22 AM